hello everyone and welcome to another YouTube hangout super excited to be here
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YouTube hangout super excited to be here with my special guest and friend Peter
with my special guest and friend Peter
with my special guest and friend Peter sage peter is what isn’t Peter Peter is
sage peter is what isn’t Peter Peter is
sage peter is what isn’t Peter Peter is an entrepreneur a speaker and author a
an entrepreneur a speaker and author a
an entrepreneur a speaker and author a mentor a philosopher a youtuber and he
mentor a philosopher a youtuber and he
mentor a philosopher a youtuber and he shared the stage with Richard Branson
shared the stage with Richard Branson
shared the stage with Richard Branson and Bill Clinton and he’s here today to
and Bill Clinton and he’s here today to
and Bill Clinton and he’s here today to talk to us about how you can reinvent
talk to us about how you can reinvent
talk to us about how you can reinvent yourself Peter welcome aboard Ivan what
yourself Peter welcome aboard Ivan what
yourself Peter welcome aboard Ivan what a pleasure to be here and I’m fabulous
a pleasure to be here and I’m fabulous
a pleasure to be here and I’m fabulous in today’s technology we can we can
in today’s technology we can we can
in today’s technology we can we can stream this out alive what a great
stream this out alive what a great
stream this out alive what a great opportunity I love it and and peter has
opportunity I love it and and peter has
opportunity I love it and and peter has a great youtube channel as well that I
a great youtube channel as well that I
a great youtube channel as well that I encourage you guys to check out I’ve
encourage you guys to check out I’ve
encourage you guys to check out I’ve included in the description below if
included in the description below if
included in the description below if you’re an entrepreneur this is an insane
you’re an entrepreneur this is an insane
you’re an entrepreneur this is an insane value there on how to build a business
value there on how to build a business
value there on how to build a business and if you’re not an entrepreneur is
and if you’re not an entrepreneur is
and if you’re not an entrepreneur is still a lot of value there about
still a lot of value there about
still a lot of value there about personal growth and development and how
personal growth and development and how
personal growth and development and how to become a better human being with a
to become a better human being with a
to become a better human being with a lot more impact so if you’re fan of my
lot more impact so if you’re fan of my
lot more impact so if you’re fan of my channel you’ll be a fan of Peters and
channel you’ll be a fan of Peters and
channel you’ll be a fan of Peters and highly encourage that you check that out
highly encourage that you check that out
highly encourage that you check that out today we’re talking about how to
today we’re talking about how to
today we’re talking about how to reinvent yourself and so Peter you’ve
reinvent yourself and so Peter you’ve
reinvent yourself and so Peter you’ve got me curious how do I know how does
got me curious how do I know how does
got me curious how do I know how does someone know if they need to reinvent
someone know if they need to reinvent
someone know if they need to reinvent themselves how does that start what does
themselves how does that start what does
themselves how does that start what does the process look like well a great
the process look like well a great
the process look like well a great question I think that the foundation of
question I think that the foundation of
question I think that the foundation of that is are you in a process right now
that is are you in a process right now
that is are you in a process right now of looking to change what it is that
of looking to change what it is that
of looking to change what it is that you’re doing are you satiated or is
you’re doing are you satiated or is
you’re doing are you satiated or is everything happy do you have the the
everything happy do you have the the
everything happy do you have the the magic sweet spot of life where
magic sweet spot of life where
magic sweet spot of life where everything is happening which usually
everything is happening which usually
everything is happening which usually isn’t the case or are you struggling to
isn’t the case or are you struggling to
isn’t the case or are you struggling to you know get out of repeating a lot of
you know get out of repeating a lot of
you know get out of repeating a lot of the same patterns that many of us do
the same patterns that many of us do
the same patterns that many of us do throughout our lives albeit with
throughout our lives albeit with
throughout our lives albeit with different stories attached to more
different stories attached to more
different stories attached to more different circumstances of different
different circumstances of different
different circumstances of different players in the game and so if you’ve got
players in the game and so if you’ve got
players in the game and so if you’ve got that level of sort of frustration where
that level of sort of frustration where
that level of sort of frustration where you think you know something I know
you think you know something I know
you think you know something I know there’s more to life than this I know
there’s more to life than this I know
there’s more to life than this I know there’s a better way than this and it’s
there’s a better way than this and it’s
there’s a better way than this and it’s just not quite working for me maybe it’s
just not quite working for me maybe it’s
just not quite working for me maybe it’s no longer time to try to change your
no longer time to try to change your
no longer time to try to change your circumstances which is what many people
circumstances which is what many people
circumstances which is what many people focus on maybe it’s time to reinvent who
focus on maybe it’s time to reinvent who
focus on maybe it’s time to reinvent who you are because everything starts there
you are because everything starts there
you are because everything starts there so I know you’ve got a book coming up
so I know you’ve got a book coming up
so I know you’ve got a book coming up next year talking about this and you
next year talking about this and you
next year talking about this and you have a three day program where you
have a three day program where you
have a three day program where you really immerse yourself in helping
really immerse yourself in helping
really immerse yourself in helping people change their lives
people change their lives
people change their lives obviously the limited time that we have
obviously the limited time that we have
obviously the limited time that we have what are some of the steps that you
what are some of the steps that you
what are some of the steps that you guide people through of how they can
guide people through of how they can
guide people through of how they can reinvent
reinvent
reinvent themselves well again everybody wants to
themselves well again everybody wants to
themselves well again everybody wants to sort of quick magic pill and I think in
sort of quick magic pill and I think in
sort of quick magic pill and I think in the time that we’ve got available here
the time that we’ve got available here
the time that we’ve got available here what I really want to do is guide people
what I really want to do is guide people
what I really want to do is guide people into some areas of focus that can really
into some areas of focus that can really
into some areas of focus that can really add some value and the first one that I
add some value and the first one that I
add some value and the first one that I always pick is about asking better
always pick is about asking better
always pick is about asking better questions questions direct our focus and
questions questions direct our focus and
questions questions direct our focus and if you’re not directing your own focus
if you’re not directing your own focus
if you’re not directing your own focus I’ve got news for you there’s a lot of
I’ve got news for you there’s a lot of
I’ve got news for you there’s a lot of people that pay a lot of good money to
people that pay a lot of good money to
people that pay a lot of good money to Madison Avenue to figure out how to do
Madison Avenue to figure out how to do
Madison Avenue to figure out how to do it for you and yeah and that’s yeah and
it for you and yeah and that’s yeah and
it for you and yeah and that’s yeah and that’s not the life you want to live
that’s not the life you want to live
that’s not the life you want to live being programmed by other people’s
being programmed by other people’s
being programmed by other people’s agendas and you know I liken the mind to
agendas and you know I liken the mind to
agendas and you know I liken the mind to a compass needle yeah it can only point
a compass needle yeah it can only point
a compass needle yeah it can only point in one direction at a time and the
in one direction at a time and the
in one direction at a time and the challenge is just like if we take a
challenge is just like if we take a
challenge is just like if we take a needle of magnetize Italy back in high
needle of magnetize Italy back in high
needle of magnetize Italy back in high school yeah you take a magnet a power
school yeah you take a magnet a power
school yeah you take a magnet a power source and you align it and keep
source and you align it and keep
source and you align it and keep stroking that needle in one continuous
stroking that needle in one continuous
stroking that needle in one continuous direction so that needle aligns to the
direction so that needle aligns to the
direction so that needle aligns to the magnetic field and becomes coherent
magnetic field and becomes coherent
magnetic field and becomes coherent pointed at all of the ions point in one
pointed at all of the ions point in one
pointed at all of the ions point in one direction it becomes magnetized now our
direction it becomes magnetized now our
direction it becomes magnetized now our mind is very similar if we are open to
mind is very similar if we are open to
mind is very similar if we are open to unconsciously being programmed which
unconsciously being programmed which
unconsciously being programmed which unfortunately as human beings we are you
unfortunately as human beings we are you
unfortunately as human beings we are you know we wear a 24/7 constant adaptation
know we wear a 24/7 constant adaptation
know we wear a 24/7 constant adaptation machine now our mind and our body now we
machine now our mind and our body now we
machine now our mind and our body now we understand the body part that’s easy now
understand the body part that’s easy now
understand the body part that’s easy now the physical side of life everybody gets
the physical side of life everybody gets
the physical side of life everybody gets because they have experiential evidence
because they have experiential evidence
because they have experiential evidence of now your body will adapt if you put
of now your body will adapt if you put
of now your body will adapt if you put it in McDonald’s or if you put it in the
it in McDonald’s or if you put it in the
it in McDonald’s or if you put it in the gym it doesn’t mind it will adapt
gym it doesn’t mind it will adapt
gym it doesn’t mind it will adapt accordingly
accordingly
accordingly yeah that’s its job but our mind is far
yeah that’s its job but our mind is far
yeah that’s its job but our mind is far more programmable far quicker than our
more programmable far quicker than our
more programmable far quicker than our body and if the magnet that the strong
body and if the magnet that the strong
body and if the magnet that the strong force is constantly magnetizing us is
force is constantly magnetizing us is
force is constantly magnetizing us is usually the media and our peer group and
usually the media and our peer group and
usually the media and our peer group and if those two aren’t optimal then you
if those two aren’t optimal then you
if those two aren’t optimal then you know we’re going to be sucked along for
know we’re going to be sucked along for
know we’re going to be sucked along for the ride and don’t really magnetize our
the ride and don’t really magnetize our
the ride and don’t really magnetize our true north for ourselves so by asking
true north for ourselves so by asking
true north for ourselves so by asking better questions well it does it shift
better questions well it does it shift
better questions well it does it shift the direction of that needle now the
the direction of that needle now the
the direction of that needle now the challenge is you can only do that for
challenge is you can only do that for
challenge is you can only do that for ten percent of the time that you’re
ten percent of the time that you’re
ten percent of the time that you’re conscious or sleeping away because how
conscious or sleeping away because how
conscious or sleeping away because how most people are 90 percent of the time
most people are 90 percent of the time
most people are 90 percent of the time that’s why when we’re driving to work we
that’s why when we’re driving to work we
that’s why when we’re driving to work we can’t remember
can’t remember
can’t remember two kilometers on the freeway that what
two kilometers on the freeway that what
two kilometers on the freeway that what happened but now if if we focus on being
happened but now if if we focus on being
happened but now if if we focus on being able to magnetize or take charge of
able to magnetize or take charge of
able to magnetize or take charge of which direction a compass needle is
which direction a compass needle is
which direction a compass needle is pointing we have a chance to start
pointing we have a chance to start
pointing we have a chance to start reinventing ourselves because otherwise
reinventing ourselves because otherwise
reinventing ourselves because otherwise yeah again you’re going to be drifting
yeah again you’re going to be drifting
yeah again you’re going to be drifting especially in that 90 percent at the
especially in that 90 percent at the
especially in that 90 percent at the time when we do things out of habits
time when we do things out of habits
time when we do things out of habits unconsciously that compass needle drifts
unconsciously that compass needle drifts
unconsciously that compass needle drifts back to its precondition magnetic north
back to its precondition magnetic north
back to its precondition magnetic north and most of time that doesn’t serve us
and most of time that doesn’t serve us
and most of time that doesn’t serve us whether its media condition peer group
whether its media condition peer group
whether its media condition peer group condition and gear Society condition so
condition and gear Society condition so
condition and gear Society condition so now look out of your window there’s not
now look out of your window there’s not
now look out of your window there’s not many examples who we really want to
many examples who we really want to
many examples who we really want to emulate and become the surround us on a
emulate and become the surround us on a
emulate and become the surround us on a day to day basis so you know the first
day to day basis so you know the first
day to day basis so you know the first question is yeah or the first step is
question is yeah or the first step is
question is yeah or the first step is ask better questions yeah and yet what
ask better questions yeah and yet what
ask better questions yeah and yet what what ignites you you know what what
what ignites you you know what what
what ignites you you know what what causes you to come from a place of
causes you to come from a place of
causes you to come from a place of wanting to really give your gift not
wanting to really give your gift not
wanting to really give your gift not survive in today’s world because you’ve
survive in today’s world because you’ve
survive in today’s world because you’ve got a mortgage to make not take the path
got a mortgage to make not take the path
got a mortgage to make not take the path of certainty which if for entrepreneurs
of certainty which if for entrepreneurs
of certainty which if for entrepreneurs if they haven’t figured it out yet as
if they haven’t figured it out yet as
if they haven’t figured it out yet as I’m sure you let them know as well yet
I’m sure you let them know as well yet
I’m sure you let them know as well yet there is no certainty in life now so the
there is no certainty in life now so the
there is no certainty in life now so the ability to handle uncertainty is one of
ability to handle uncertainty is one of
ability to handle uncertainty is one of the core characteristics of an
the core characteristics of an
the core characteristics of an entrepreneur and so to be able to do
entrepreneur and so to be able to do
entrepreneur and so to be able to do that ask yourself bad questions now what
that ask yourself bad questions now what
that ask yourself bad questions now what what resources do I have that I’m not
what resources do I have that I’m not
what resources do I have that I’m not using yet
using yet
using yet great question other because it’ll start
great question other because it’ll start
great question other because it’ll start you looking in different areas now this
you looking in different areas now this
you looking in different areas now this is one of the best things about the
is one of the best things about the
is one of the best things about the human brain is if you ask the question
human brain is if you ask the question
human brain is if you ask the question it’ll give you the answer the challenge
it’ll give you the answer the challenge
it’ll give you the answer the challenge is most of us ask lousy questions now
is most of us ask lousy questions now
is most of us ask lousy questions now why is this always happen to me
why is this always happen to me
why is this always happen to me and it’ll give you an answer it’s
and it’ll give you an answer it’s
and it’ll give you an answer it’s program cheating right here’s your
program cheating right here’s your
program cheating right here’s your worthless because you deserve it because
worthless because you deserve it because
worthless because you deserve it because you’re not smart enough at all so by
you’re not smart enough at all so by
you’re not smart enough at all so by asking better questions we can search
asking better questions we can search
asking better questions we can search for better answers that’s really the
for better answers that’s really the
for better answers that’s really the first place to start I love it is there
first place to start I love it is there
first place to start I love it is there a series of questions that you recommend
a series of questions that you recommend
a series of questions that you recommend everybody ask themselves we’re in kind
everybody ask themselves we’re in kind
everybody ask themselves we’re in kind of regardless of the situation so the
of regardless of the situation so the
of regardless of the situation so the you know what ignites me what what gives
you know what ignites me what what gives
you know what ignites me what what gives me passion what resources do I have that
me passion what resources do I have that
me passion what resources do I have that I’m not currently using or some that you
I’m not currently using or some that you
I’m not currently using or some that you mentioned other others that you
mentioned other others that you
mentioned other others that you recommend people kind of get into the
recommend people kind of get into the
recommend people kind of get into the habit of asking themselves yes and it
habit of asking themselves yes and it
habit of asking themselves yes and it really ties into what I’m call really
really ties into what I’m call really
really ties into what I’m call really that the next part of getting into
that the next part of getting into
that the next part of getting into reinventing who you are and that is to
reinventing who you are and that is to
reinventing who you are and that is to check your why you know we’re driven by
check your why you know we’re driven by
check your why you know we’re driven by reasons as human beings yeah everyone
reasons as human beings yeah everyone
reasons as human beings yeah everyone those things for reasons now that may
those things for reasons now that may
those things for reasons now that may not be your reasons may not be my roots
not be your reasons may not be my roots
not be your reasons may not be my roots but we do things for reasons most of the
but we do things for reasons most of the
but we do things for reasons most of the time unfortunately we do very little out
time unfortunately we do very little out
time unfortunately we do very little out of logical reasons now we do a fair
of logical reasons now we do a fair
of logical reasons now we do a fair amount other passion but most of what we
amount other passion but most of what we
amount other passion but most of what we do we do out of habits and those habits
do we do out of habits and those habits
do we do out of habits and those habits are formed based upon the repetitive
are formed based upon the repetitive
are formed based upon the repetitive questions we tend to ask ourself which
questions we tend to ask ourself which
questions we tend to ask ourself which usually is suboptimal and so if you were
usually is suboptimal and so if you were
usually is suboptimal and so if you were to ask questions that elicited your
to ask questions that elicited your
to ask questions that elicited your reason why and here’s what I found in
reason why and here’s what I found in
reason why and here’s what I found in the three decades of being an
the three decades of being an
the three decades of being an entrepreneur now that is almost
entrepreneur now that is almost
entrepreneur now that is almost universal consistent if your Y is
universal consistent if your Y is
universal consistent if your Y is focused on you or not powerful you’re
focused on you or not powerful you’re
focused on you or not powerful you’re not present you don’t have the ability
not present you don’t have the ability
not present you don’t have the ability to dig deeper than you could unless it
to dig deeper than you could unless it
to dig deeper than you could unless it was rather than if your Y is focused on
was rather than if your Y is focused on
was rather than if your Y is focused on something greater than you and yet we
something greater than you and yet we
something greater than you and yet we can see this in evidence everywhere I
can see this in evidence everywhere I
can see this in evidence everywhere I give a classic example you take the New
give a classic example you take the New
give a classic example you take the New York or the Boston Marathon boss thinks
York or the Boston Marathon boss thinks
York or the Boston Marathon boss thinks it’s more probit so the New York
it’s more probit so the New York
it’s more probit so the New York Marathon is a goal for a lot of people
Marathon is a goal for a lot of people
Marathon is a goal for a lot of people in their fitness sort of the resolutions
in their fitness sort of the resolutions
in their fitness sort of the resolutions and for those that haven’t ren american
and for those that haven’t ren american
and for those that haven’t ren american before it’s a good goal takes a lot of
before it’s a good goal takes a lot of
before it’s a good goal takes a lot of training you know I’ve run crazy stuff
training you know I’ve run crazy stuff
training you know I’ve run crazy stuff before and it’s not easy if you’re not a
before and it’s not easy if you’re not a
before and it’s not easy if you’re not a professional athlete so if you take New
professional athlete so if you take New
professional athlete so if you take New York you know 35,000 people lining the
York you know 35,000 people lining the
York you know 35,000 people lining the streets cheering you on the amount of
streets cheering you on the amount of
streets cheering you on the amount of people that run the New York Marathon
people that run the New York Marathon
people that run the New York Marathon for the first time not the people that
for the first time not the people that
for the first time not the people that do it for finalizer as an athlete on a
do it for finalizer as an athlete on a
do it for finalizer as an athlete on a regular basis but for the first time
regular basis but for the first time
regular basis but for the first time there is way your percentage of those
there is way your percentage of those
there is way your percentage of those people that complete the marathon that
people that complete the marathon that
people that complete the marathon that are running for something else not
are running for something else not
are running for something else not themselves not their ego not the medal
themselves not their ego not the medal
themselves not their ego not the medal not significance not the bragging rights
not significance not the bragging rights
not significance not the bragging rights to support somebody they love in memory
to support somebody they love in memory
to support somebody they love in memory of somebody they cared about to raise
of somebody they cared about to raise
of somebody they cared about to raise money for a cause they believe in
money for a cause they believe in
money for a cause they believe in something beyond themselves and that’s
something beyond themselves and that’s
something beyond themselves and that’s because those that are running for
because those that are running for
because those that are running for themselves most of those quit before the
themselves most of those quit before the
themselves most of those quit before the day of the marathon it’s a lot to dig
day of the marathon it’s a lot to dig
day of the marathon it’s a lot to dig deep when you’re just looking at going
deep when you’re just looking at going
deep when you’re just looking at going out of ego so question is that ask you
out of ego so question is that ask you
out of ego so question is that ask you yet to reevaluate your why and most
yet to reevaluate your why and most
yet to reevaluate your why and most people’s why by default is grounded in a
area that really is fear driven what if
area that really is fear driven what if I fail
I fail
I fail therefore my why for doing this is
therefore my why for doing this is
therefore my why for doing this is because I think it’s going to give me
because I think it’s going to give me
because I think it’s going to give me the best chance of success not because
the best chance of success not because
the best chance of success not because I’m passionate about it not because it’s
I’m passionate about it not because it’s
I’m passionate about it not because it’s giving my gift to the world not because
giving my gift to the world not because
giving my gift to the world not because it’s something I’ve always wanted to do
it’s something I’ve always wanted to do
it’s something I’ve always wanted to do so asking questions like you know if I
so asking questions like you know if I
so asking questions like you know if I knew it was impossible to fail what
knew it was impossible to fail what
knew it was impossible to fail what would I do then it removed the fear of
would I do then it removed the fear of
would I do then it removed the fear of failure away and open up possibility
failure away and open up possibility
failure away and open up possibility thinking and what it’ll do it’ll start
thinking and what it’ll do it’ll start
thinking and what it’ll do it’ll start getting you in touch with what inspires
getting you in touch with what inspires
getting you in touch with what inspires you what lights you up what gives you
you what lights you up what gives you
you what lights you up what gives you that that lift not the motivational
that that lift not the motivational
that that lift not the motivational factor which is usually avoiding pain
factor which is usually avoiding pain
factor which is usually avoiding pain and needs a willpower to get you through
and needs a willpower to get you through
and needs a willpower to get you through getting up at 5:00 a.m. when it’s cold
getting up at 5:00 a.m. when it’s cold
getting up at 5:00 a.m. when it’s cold inspiration you don’t need that
inspiration you don’t need that
inspiration you don’t need that motivation motivation is a fuel tank in
motivation motivation is a fuel tank in
motivation motivation is a fuel tank in a quiet rooms out it needs topping up
a quiet rooms out it needs topping up
a quiet rooms out it needs topping up inspirations a deeper wellspring you
inspirations a deeper wellspring you
inspirations a deeper wellspring you know asking questions like if I could
know asking questions like if I could
know asking questions like if I could only spend my life doing one thing what
only spend my life doing one thing what
only spend my life doing one thing what would it be and and start tuning
would it be and and start tuning
would it be and and start tuning yourself into that that passion center
yourself into that that passion center
yourself into that that passion center that a lot of the time we build bars
that a lot of the time we build bars
that a lot of the time we build bars around you know to to imprison it
around you know to to imprison it
around you know to to imprison it through not having to face the
through not having to face the
through not having to face the possibility of failure and therefore
possibility of failure and therefore
possibility of failure and therefore admit to ourselves we’re not enough
admit to ourselves we’re not enough
admit to ourselves we’re not enough which is usually what I see with so many
which is usually what I see with so many
which is usually what I see with so many entrepreneurs that are burning
entrepreneurs that are burning
entrepreneurs that are burning themselves out there running patterns of
themselves out there running patterns of
themselves out there running patterns of chasing things that they think will give
chasing things that they think will give
chasing things that they think will give them the success that will validate them
them the success that will validate them
them the success that will validate them in the eyes of others whether it’s their
in the eyes of others whether it’s their
in the eyes of others whether it’s their parents their business studies teacher
parents their business studies teacher
parents their business studies teacher their elder brother who they perceive
their elder brother who they perceive
their elder brother who they perceive that always trying to be in the shadow
that always trying to be in the shadow
that always trying to be in the shadow of it doesn’t matter we’ve all got our
of it doesn’t matter we’ve all got our
of it doesn’t matter we’ve all got our reasons whereas if you’re independent of
reasons whereas if you’re independent of
reasons whereas if you’re independent of what I call swimming in goop geoo P the
what I call swimming in goop geoo P the
what I call swimming in goop geoo P the good opinion of other people musculars
good opinion of other people musculars
good opinion of other people musculars and their life swimming in goop it’s a
and their life swimming in goop it’s a
and their life swimming in goop it’s a sticky nasty smelly mess that will lead
sticky nasty smelly mess that will lead
sticky nasty smelly mess that will lead you to a fast track to mediocrity and
you to a fast track to mediocrity and
you to a fast track to mediocrity and nowhere and so if you can escape the the
nowhere and so if you can escape the the
nowhere and so if you can escape the the good opinion of other people and stand
good opinion of other people and stand
good opinion of other people and stand proud in your truth that win lose or
proud in your truth that win lose or
proud in your truth that win lose or draw I’m not taking it with me now the
draw I’m not taking it with me now the
draw I’m not taking it with me now the only people that tried that with the
only people that tried that with the
only people that tried that with the Egyptians and what happened 3,000 years
Egyptians and what happened 3,000 years
Egyptians and what happened 3,000 years later we dug it up installer you know
later we dug it up installer you know
later we dug it up installer you know I’m here to make the time I’ve got count
I’m here to make the time I’ve got count
I’m here to make the time I’ve got count I’m here to make a difference I’m here
I’m here to make a difference I’m here
I’m here to make a difference I’m here to give my gift and now you can only do
to give my gift and now you can only do
to give my gift and now you can only do that with the freedom of being
that with the freedom of being
that with the freedom of being independent of the fear of not being
independent of the fear of not being
independent of the fear of not being enough or the fear of having to adapt
enough or the fear of having to adapt
enough or the fear of having to adapt myself consistently like a chameleon to
myself consistently like a chameleon to
myself consistently like a chameleon to fit the pictures of what I think other P
fit the pictures of what I think other P
fit the pictures of what I think other P should see me as rather than say listen
should see me as rather than say listen
should see me as rather than say listen yeah I respect the way in your attic
yeah I respect the way in your attic
yeah I respect the way in your attic we’re always going to see things
we’re always going to see things
we’re always going to see things differently because that’s who we are as
differently because that’s who we are as
differently because that’s who we are as human beings that celebrating my truth
human beings that celebrating my truth
human beings that celebrating my truth and I’m walking this way no one’s
and I’m walking this way no one’s
and I’m walking this way no one’s talking me out of it and providing that
talking me out of it and providing that
talking me out of it and providing that nobody’s less than because you craft
nobody’s less than because you craft
nobody’s less than because you craft their path you know there’s a moral
their path you know there’s a moral
their path you know there’s a moral basis to that then yeah so in the back
basis to that then yeah so in the back
basis to that then yeah so in the back with a smile and strike out a hit a home
with a smile and strike out a hit a home
with a smile and strike out a hit a home run bus from the back I love it I love
run bus from the back I love it I love
run bus from the back I love it I love it Peter goes I’m a Raines
it Peter goes I’m a Raines
it Peter goes I’m a Raines I love it you can move on to the rain so
I love it you can move on to the rain so
I love it you can move on to the rain so we’re getting a lot of people watching
we’re getting a lot of people watching
we’re getting a lot of people watching live and the chats kind of blowing up
live and the chats kind of blowing up
live and the chats kind of blowing up and I thought we’d hit up some of the
and I thought we’d hit up some of the
and I thought we’d hit up some of the questions here to give some love to the
questions here to give some love to the
questions here to give some love to the audience in the first one kind of
audience in the first one kind of
audience in the first one kind of related to what you’re seeing about goop
related to what you’re seeing about goop
related to what you’re seeing about goop uh missus Bugs Bunny 82 is ready to ask
uh missus Bugs Bunny 82 is ready to ask
uh missus Bugs Bunny 82 is ready to ask how can I say no to others great
how can I say no to others great
how can I say no to others great question and if you want to see an area
question and if you want to see an area
question and if you want to see an area where people destroy themselves it’s
where people destroy themselves it’s
where people destroy themselves it’s around yeah their fear of rejection yeah
around yeah their fear of rejection yeah
around yeah their fear of rejection yeah and so let me give you a metaphor for
and so let me give you a metaphor for
and so let me give you a metaphor for this that I think may help we all starve
this that I think may help we all starve
this that I think may help we all starve in a very specific movie yeah movie
in a very specific movie yeah movie
in a very specific movie yeah movie called our life and as the star of that
called our life and as the star of that
called our life and as the star of that movie yeah we have various different
movie yeah we have various different
movie yeah we have various different people that are cast into that movie now
people that are cast into that movie now
people that are cast into that movie now if we’re lucky we’ll have some
if we’re lucky we’ll have some
if we’re lucky we’ll have some supporting cast you know a spouse yeah a
supporting cast you know a spouse yeah a
supporting cast you know a spouse yeah a close friend or one habit but 99% of the
close friend or one habit but 99% of the
close friend or one habit but 99% of the people that star or come into the movie
people that star or come into the movie
people that star or come into the movie that use starring call to your life are
that use starring call to your life are
that use starring call to your life are going to be film extras now if we in the
going to be film extras now if we in the
going to be film extras now if we in the course of going through our movie when
course of going through our movie when
course of going through our movie when we make a fundamental error because we
we make a fundamental error because we
we make a fundamental error because we experience was the star we fundamentally
experience was the star we fundamentally
experience was the star we fundamentally believe that everybody else sees us as
believe that everybody else sees us as
believe that everybody else sees us as the star in our movie but they’re gone
the star in our movie but they’re gone
the star in our movie but they’re gone you see what happens is everybody else
you see what happens is everybody else
you see what happens is everybody else is starring in a movie called their life
is starring in a movie called their life
is starring in a movie called their life which by definition means that at best
which by definition means that at best
which by definition means that at best we will only ever be a supporting cast
we will only ever be a supporting cast
we will only ever be a supporting cast for a few of them and for most 99% of
for a few of them and for most 99% of
for a few of them and for most 99% of people we will be nothing more than a
people we will be nothing more than a
people we will be nothing more than a film extra in their movie now when you
film extra in their movie now when you
film extra in their movie now when you come to say no it’s the fear
come to say no it’s the fear
come to say no it’s the fear of rejection is usually what’s driving
of rejection is usually what’s driving
of rejection is usually what’s driving that the avoidance of the fear of
that the avoidance of the fear of
that the avoidance of the fear of rejection is usually what’s driving that
rejection is usually what’s driving that
rejection is usually what’s driving that and so if you start to understand that
and so if you start to understand that
and so if you start to understand that we’re all running around in this bubble
we’re all running around in this bubble
we’re all running around in this bubble called a star of our movie thinking oh
called a star of our movie thinking oh
called a star of our movie thinking oh my god everybody’s looking at me as the
my god everybody’s looking at me as the
my god everybody’s looking at me as the star of my movie forgetting that most
star of my movie forgetting that most
star of my movie forgetting that most people don’t care enough about you to
people don’t care enough about you to
people don’t care enough about you to bother to give an opinion of who you are
bother to give an opinion of who you are
bother to give an opinion of who you are in your movie because they’re too busy
in your movie because they’re too busy
in your movie because they’re too busy being worried about what they think
being worried about what they think
being worried about what they think you’re thinking of them as the star in
you’re thinking of them as the star in
you’re thinking of them as the star in their movie everybody’s got this bubble
their movie everybody’s got this bubble
their movie everybody’s got this bubble factor going on it’s a big illusion
factor going on it’s a big illusion
factor going on it’s a big illusion where we’re also kind of craving
where we’re also kind of craving
where we’re also kind of craving approval of validation yeah a good
approval of validation yeah a good
approval of validation yeah a good opinion and all of that and it’s a ghost
opinion and all of that and it’s a ghost
opinion and all of that and it’s a ghost it doesn’t actually exist now so if you
it doesn’t actually exist now so if you
it doesn’t actually exist now so if you start to understand that if I’m going to
start to understand that if I’m going to
start to understand that if I’m going to say no to somebody and it’s my truth
say no to somebody and it’s my truth
say no to somebody and it’s my truth there’s a couple of different ways you
there’s a couple of different ways you
there’s a couple of different ways you can do that yet you can yeah say it
can do that yet you can yeah say it
can do that yet you can yeah say it because you disagree and you think
because you disagree and you think
because you disagree and you think they’re wrong well I’m sorry that’s yeah
they’re wrong well I’m sorry that’s yeah
they’re wrong well I’m sorry that’s yeah that’s going to offend somebody because
that’s going to offend somebody because
that’s going to offend somebody because then they’re going to be shot down as
then they’re going to be shot down as
then they’re going to be shot down as the star in a movie thinking being
the star in a movie thinking being
the star in a movie thinking being worried about what you think of them and
worried about what you think of them and
worried about what you think of them and now going into a reactive pattern or you
now going into a reactive pattern or you
now going into a reactive pattern or you can order your own truth independent of
can order your own truth independent of
can order your own truth independent of somebody else while making sure that
somebody else while making sure that
somebody else while making sure that they feel okay about this so if somebody
they feel okay about this so if somebody
they feel okay about this so if somebody asks me to do something if I’m not
asks me to do something if I’m not
asks me to do something if I’m not willing to say oh right now I’m afraid I
willing to say oh right now I’m afraid I
willing to say oh right now I’m afraid I don’t have the ability to do that you
don’t have the ability to do that you
don’t have the ability to do that you know maybe I can connect you with some
know maybe I can connect you with some
know maybe I can connect you with some resources that can but for me right now
resources that can but for me right now
resources that can but for me right now that’s not a – that’s not much of to do
that’s not a – that’s not much of to do
that’s not a – that’s not much of to do then you have to start understanding
then you have to start understanding
then you have to start understanding this your role is to walk your path not
this your role is to walk your path not
this your role is to walk your path not pander to everybody else’s movie you’re
pander to everybody else’s movie you’re
pander to everybody else’s movie you’re starring in your own movie and second
starring in your own movie and second
starring in your own movie and second you compromise that the second you give
you compromise that the second you give
you compromise that the second you give away your truth the second you’re
away your truth the second you’re
away your truth the second you’re essentially giving up the role of the
essentially giving up the role of the
essentially giving up the role of the star of your movie and in saying hey who
star of your movie and in saying hey who
star of your movie and in saying hey who whose movie can I be a filmmaker in
whose movie can I be a filmmaker in
whose movie can I be a filmmaker in that’s not where you were born yeah
that’s not where you were born yeah
that’s not where you were born yeah because the alternative is to be a
because the alternative is to be a
because the alternative is to be a martyr now I don’t want to say load of
martyr now I don’t want to say load of
martyr now I don’t want to say load of something in case I have fed them maybe
something in case I have fed them maybe
something in case I have fed them maybe that’s the lesson that they need to stop
that’s the lesson that they need to stop
that’s the lesson that they need to stop taking advantage of everybody who’s
taking advantage of everybody who’s
taking advantage of everybody who’s scared to say no and that’s a gift that
scared to say no and that’s a gift that
scared to say no and that’s a gift that you can give them now but you don’t
you can give them now but you don’t
you can give them now but you don’t focus on that because you’re focused on
focus on that because you’re focused on
focus on that because you’re focused on offending people and how they think
offending people and how they think
offending people and how they think you’ll essentially be rejected so you
you’ll essentially be rejected so you
you’ll essentially be rejected so you know there’s elegant ways of doing it
know there’s elegant ways of doing it
know there’s elegant ways of doing it say you don’t have to be an idiot about
say you don’t have to be an idiot about
say you don’t have to be an idiot about it if you say it with loving firmness
it if you say it with loving firmness
it if you say it with loving firmness because you’re more committed to serve
because you’re more committed to serve
because you’re more committed to serve by being Ewing your truth rather oh yeah
by being Ewing your truth rather oh yeah
by being Ewing your truth rather oh yeah of course I’ll do that oh no let me take
of course I’ll do that oh no let me take
of course I’ll do that oh no let me take that on which is really this um this
that on which is really this um this
that on which is really this um this chameleon of supplication denying your
chameleon of supplication denying your
chameleon of supplication denying your own power you can give so much more to
own power you can give so much more to
own power you can give so much more to somebody standing in your truth right
somebody standing in your truth right
somebody standing in your truth right and we admire people like that do we not
and we admire people like that do we not
and we admire people like that do we not know we would rather do business with
know we would rather do business with
know we would rather do business with something where we see wow I really
something where we see wow I really
something where we see wow I really respect that person because they they
respect that person because they they
respect that person because they they appreciate their own boundaries doesn’t
appreciate their own boundaries doesn’t
appreciate their own boundaries doesn’t mean say you’ve got a bar of somebody
mean say you’ve got a bar of somebody
mean say you’ve got a bar of somebody off up with a shoulder with your
off up with a shoulder with your
off up with a shoulder with your boundaries yeah I love them through it
boundaries yeah I love them through it
boundaries yeah I love them through it would be the example of how somebody can
would be the example of how somebody can
would be the example of how somebody can step up and own themselves at that level
step up and own themselves at that level
step up and own themselves at that level and you’ll find that what you thought
and you’ll find that what you thought
and you’ll find that what you thought would happen which you’ll be judged
would happen which you’ll be judged
would happen which you’ll be judged you’ll be unfriended you’ll be
you’ll be unfriended you’ll be
you’ll be unfriended you’ll be criticized 99% the time doesn’t happen
criticized 99% the time doesn’t happen
criticized 99% the time doesn’t happen and if it does is there research that
and if it does is there research that
and if it does is there research that they’re projecting not the fact that
they’re projecting not the fact that
they’re projecting not the fact that there’s anything wrong with you
there’s anything wrong with you
there’s anything wrong with you declaring your truth but the helps I
declaring your truth but the helps I
declaring your truth but the helps I love it I love the analogy to of living
love it I love the analogy to of living
love it I love the analogy to of living your own movie I think it’s easy to get
your own movie I think it’s easy to get
your own movie I think it’s easy to get caught up in somebody else’s movie
caught up in somebody else’s movie
caught up in somebody else’s movie instead of live in your own
instead of live in your own
instead of live in your own next up the Lord Ivan Seto I often get
next up the Lord Ivan Seto I often get
next up the Lord Ivan Seto I often get motivated uh for a while but I what can
motivated uh for a while but I what can
motivated uh for a while but I what can I do to consistently stay motivated
I do to consistently stay motivated
I do to consistently stay motivated every day and maybe that hasn’t here why
every day and maybe that hasn’t here why
every day and maybe that hasn’t here why exercise from before but how do you say
exercise from before but how do you say
exercise from before but how do you say motivated consistently every day again
motivated consistently every day again
motivated consistently every day again staying motivated is tough because
staying motivated is tough because
staying motivated is tough because motivation is not on call it’s like a
motivation is not on call it’s like a
motivation is not on call it’s like a sport button in a car you press it when
sport button in a car you press it when
sport button in a car you press it when you need to overtake somebody when you
you need to overtake somebody when you
you need to overtake somebody when you need some extra power but if you run the
need some extra power but if you run the
need some extra power but if you run the engine constantly on sport mode you’ve
engine constantly on sport mode you’ve
engine constantly on sport mode you’ve never wear it out before its time and so
never wear it out before its time and so
never wear it out before its time and so motivation is great but there are times
motivation is great but there are times
motivation is great but there are times we all know we just ain’t motivated and
we all know we just ain’t motivated and
we all know we just ain’t motivated and no matter how what the heads are and
no matter how what the heads are and
no matter how what the heads are and it’s those times we can’t afford to rely
it’s those times we can’t afford to rely
it’s those times we can’t afford to rely on motivation and that’s like if you’re
on motivation and that’s like if you’re
on motivation and that’s like if you’re trying to get motivated to stay
trying to get motivated to stay
trying to get motivated to stay motivated right now it’s never going to
motivated right now it’s never going to
motivated right now it’s never going to happen
happen
happen for start don’t beat yourself up about
for start don’t beat yourself up about
for start don’t beat yourself up about it it doesn’t mean to say that you’re
it it doesn’t mean to say that you’re
it it doesn’t mean to say that you’re not good enough that there’s something
not good enough that there’s something
not good enough that there’s something wrong with you that you need to work
wrong with you that you need to work
wrong with you that you need to work harder that you need to build your
harder that you need to build your
harder that you need to build your motivation muscle yeah we’re just not
motivation muscle yeah we’re just not
motivation muscle yeah we’re just not wired for that level of constant
wired for that level of constant
wired for that level of constant progress you know I can have all all the
progress you know I can have all all the
progress you know I can have all all the motivation to hang on to a branch of a
motivation to hang on to a branch of a
motivation to hang on to a branch of a tree over a cliff but if you come back
tree over a cliff but if you come back
tree over a cliff but if you come back in three days I’m not there you know
in three days I’m not there you know
in three days I’m not there you know it’s it’s not going to happen so
it’s it’s not going to happen so
it’s it’s not going to happen so understanding the difference between
understanding the difference between
understanding the difference between your being inspired yet which isn’t like
your being inspired yet which isn’t like
your being inspired yet which isn’t like this crazy
this crazy
this crazy elevation let’s go get em cowboy kind of
elevation let’s go get em cowboy kind of
elevation let’s go get em cowboy kind of deal now you look at something like
deal now you look at something like
deal now you look at something like Mahatma Gandhi one of the greatest
Mahatma Gandhi one of the greatest
Mahatma Gandhi one of the greatest inspirational figures in modern history
inspirational figures in modern history
inspirational figures in modern history he didn’t have all of this pent-up
he didn’t have all of this pent-up
he didn’t have all of this pent-up energy kind of you know rah rah I’m
energy kind of you know rah rah I’m
energy kind of you know rah rah I’m going to get up at 5:00 it no there was
going to get up at 5:00 it no there was
going to get up at 5:00 it no there was a calm surrender to a mission that was
a calm surrender to a mission that was
a calm surrender to a mission that was bigger than him and if we just look at
bigger than him and if we just look at
bigger than him and if we just look at that word for example surrender most
that word for example surrender most
that word for example surrender most people that are motivated thinks
people that are motivated thinks
people that are motivated thinks surrender means to give in to give up to
surrender means to give in to give up to
surrender means to give in to give up to capitulate sit acquiesce to be left
capitulate sit acquiesce to be left
capitulate sit acquiesce to be left stands if they’re sellout whereas the
stands if they’re sellout whereas the
stands if they’re sellout whereas the more enlightened the more your the
more enlightened the more your the
more enlightened the more your the higher the level of consciousness the
higher the level of consciousness the
higher the level of consciousness the more the emotional maturity that one
more the emotional maturity that one
more the emotional maturity that one progresses to you by getting out of our
progresses to you by getting out of our
progresses to you by getting out of our own egos and significance needs and
own egos and significance needs and
own egos and significance needs and start focusing on what we can contribute
start focusing on what we can contribute
start focusing on what we can contribute to life rather than take from it it
to life rather than take from it it
to life rather than take from it it starts a here to surrender from a
starts a here to surrender from a
starts a here to surrender from a different point oh I’ve got to get up at
different point oh I’ve got to get up at
different point oh I’ve got to get up at 5:00 a.m. for the next three weeks to
5:00 a.m. for the next three weeks to
5:00 a.m. for the next three weeks to get this project done I’ll simply
get this project done I’ll simply
get this project done I’ll simply surrender to that because the project
surrender to that because the project
surrender to that because the project yet means more to me from an
yet means more to me from an
yet means more to me from an inspirational perspective because I’m
inspirational perspective because I’m
inspirational perspective because I’m giving my gift then it does yeah needing
giving my gift then it does yeah needing
giving my gift then it does yeah needing to stay motivated so I can be good
to stay motivated so I can be good
to stay motivated so I can be good enough by getting a tip box on the
enough by getting a tip box on the
enough by getting a tip box on the project so again check your Y if you
project so again check your Y if you
project so again check your Y if you need to motivate yourself you’re wise
need to motivate yourself you’re wise
need to motivate yourself you’re wise not big enough or it’s as big as you can
not big enough or it’s as big as you can
not big enough or it’s as big as you can make it about you and that’ll never be
make it about you and that’ll never be
make it about you and that’ll never be big enough good I like it cool next up
big enough good I like it cool next up
big enough good I like it cool next up so what what should one do when it’s
so what what should one do when it’s
so what what should one do when it’s difficult to choose the area of interest
difficult to choose the area of interest
difficult to choose the area of interest for ourselves simple yeah when you come
for ourselves simple yeah when you come
for ourselves simple yeah when you come to a fork in the road what do you do you
to a fork in the road what do you do you
to a fork in the road what do you do you take it yeah the the challenges that our
take it yeah the the challenges that our
take it yeah the the challenges that our left brain is designed to do one thing
left brain is designed to do one thing
left brain is designed to do one thing and it does it so impeccably that we
and it does it so impeccably that we
and it does it so impeccably that we tend to miss the point as to why it does
tend to miss the point as to why it does
tend to miss the point as to why it does it and our left brain is designed to
it and our left brain is designed to
it and our left brain is designed to balance the equation of being right now
balance the equation of being right now
balance the equation of being right now it’ll justify it’ll self analyze it’ll
it’ll justify it’ll self analyze it’ll
it’ll justify it’ll self analyze it’ll come up with all sorts of associate
come up with all sorts of associate
come up with all sorts of associate reasons to say you know why it should or
reasons to say you know why it should or
reasons to say you know why it should or shouldn’t we should I shouldn’t do
shouldn’t we should I shouldn’t do
shouldn’t we should I shouldn’t do things but its job is to make you right
things but its job is to make you right
things but its job is to make you right the way that you emotionally feel yeah
the way that you emotionally feel yeah
the way that you emotionally feel yeah and its it’s a muscle that’s over
and its it’s a muscle that’s over
and its it’s a muscle that’s over developed through 20th and 21st century
developed through 20th and 21st century
developed through 20th and 21st century educational systems we’ve
educational systems we’ve
educational systems we’ve focus on left brain activity because
focus on left brain activity because
focus on left brain activity because that can be measured or the objectivity
that can be measured or the objectivity
that can be measured or the objectivity can be measured subjectivity can’t so
can be measured subjectivity can’t so
can be measured subjectivity can’t so you know we study math so we study
you know we study math so we study
you know we study math so we study science and we take tests and then we
science and we take tests and then we
science and we take tests and then we score 75% and we can be measured how do
score 75% and we can be measured how do
score 75% and we can be measured how do you take a test for creativity
you take a test for creativity
you take a test for creativity imagination how much you love somebody
imagination how much you love somebody
imagination how much you love somebody yeah emotional expression yeah they’re
yeah emotional expression yeah they’re
yeah emotional expression yeah they’re just not encouraged so the left side of
just not encouraged so the left side of
just not encouraged so the left side of the brain gets built like walking into
the brain gets built like walking into
the brain gets built like walking into the gym with huge biceps and skinny legs
the gym with huge biceps and skinny legs
the gym with huge biceps and skinny legs you know that the right side of the
you know that the right side of the
you know that the right side of the brain doesn’t get much traction so we
brain doesn’t get much traction so we
brain doesn’t get much traction so we tend to default to the left side of the
tend to default to the left side of the
tend to default to the left side of the brain and in a situation where I say how
brain and in a situation where I say how
brain and in a situation where I say how do I choose between the two what’s
do I choose between the two what’s
do I choose between the two what’s really going on most of the time and if
really going on most of the time and if
really going on most of the time and if this isn’t true for you yeah then that’s
this isn’t true for you yeah then that’s
this isn’t true for you yeah then that’s okay but what in my observation what’s
okay but what in my observation what’s
okay but what in my observation what’s going on is how do I procrastinate so
going on is how do I procrastinate so
going on is how do I procrastinate so that I don’t have to face the fear of
that I don’t have to face the fear of
that I don’t have to face the fear of actually doing something and committing
actually doing something and committing
actually doing something and committing to it because my history around that
to it because my history around that
to it because my history around that isn’t inspiring enough to validate the
isn’t inspiring enough to validate the
isn’t inspiring enough to validate the fact that I’m not going to fail so oh do
fact that I’m not going to fail so oh do
fact that I’m not going to fail so oh do I do left or do I do right well they’re
I do left or do I do right well they’re
I do left or do I do right well they’re both good on the left side of the brain
both good on the left side of the brain
both good on the left side of the brain at that point jumps in as a complete
at that point jumps in as a complete
at that point jumps in as a complete college job to start evaluating and SWOT
college job to start evaluating and SWOT
college job to start evaluating and SWOT analysis and processes and minuses and
analysis and processes and minuses and
analysis and processes and minuses and go ask my friends and do all this know
go ask my friends and do all this know
go ask my friends and do all this know you will get the feedback you need by
you will get the feedback you need by
you will get the feedback you need by walking one of the paths yeah no need to
walking one of the paths yeah no need to
walking one of the paths yeah no need to have stress no need to yeah Tricia said
have stress no need to yeah Tricia said
have stress no need to yeah Tricia said ask yourself the qualifying question if
ask yourself the qualifying question if
ask yourself the qualifying question if I could only do one or the other for the
I could only do one or the other for the
I could only do one or the other for the rest of my life which would it be
rest of my life which would it be
rest of my life which would it be and you’ll tend to find that one has its
and you’ll tend to find that one has its
and you’ll tend to find that one has its basis in certainty oh well I think I
basis in certainty oh well I think I
basis in certainty oh well I think I should do this business because I think
should do this business because I think
should do this business because I think I’ve got a better chance of getting into
I’ve got a better chance of getting into
I’ve got a better chance of getting into the market quicker but it totally
the market quicker but it totally
the market quicker but it totally doesn’t turn me on in terms of what I’m
doesn’t turn me on in terms of what I’m
doesn’t turn me on in terms of what I’m doing or you know oh well yeah this
doing or you know oh well yeah this
doing or you know oh well yeah this particular business there’s less chance
particular business there’s less chance
particular business there’s less chance of success but boy you know I really
of success but boy you know I really
of success but boy you know I really don’t really feel something for it so
don’t really feel something for it so
don’t really feel something for it so again the left side of the brain will
again the left side of the brain will
again the left side of the brain will balance your ability to avoid fear and
balance your ability to avoid fear and
balance your ability to avoid fear and go with certainty
go with certainty
go with certainty whereas yeah what really should be going
whereas yeah what really should be going
whereas yeah what really should be going on is saying you know pick one and then
on is saying you know pick one and then
on is saying you know pick one and then work off the feedback as to what comes
work off the feedback as to what comes
work off the feedback as to what comes that way you know if you’ve stuck in the
that way you know if you’ve stuck in the
that way you know if you’ve stuck in the road and there’s a fork and you you sit
road and there’s a fork and you you sit
road and there’s a fork and you you sit there for two hours debating which way
there for two hours debating which way
there for two hours debating which way they go on the map whereas if you’d have
they go on the map whereas if you’d have
they go on the map whereas if you’d have taken one and it turned out to be a
taken one and it turned out to be a
taken one and it turned out to be a dead-end you’d have already come back
dead-end you’d have already come back
dead-end you’d have already come back and trip to the other one yeah nothing
and trip to the other one yeah nothing
and trip to the other one yeah nothing in this life is undo
in this life is undo
in this life is undo now when it comes to making decisions a
now when it comes to making decisions a
now when it comes to making decisions a new future is always available so you
new future is always available so you
new future is always available so you know don’t think it’s finite or life and
know don’t think it’s finite or life and
know don’t think it’s finite or life and death pick one and go forward and if
death pick one and go forward and if
death pick one and go forward and if yeah after three weeks it seems like
yeah after three weeks it seems like
yeah after three weeks it seems like it’s the wrong decision yeah
it’s the wrong decision yeah
it’s the wrong decision yeah pick something yeah it’s okay yeah learn
pick something yeah it’s okay yeah learn
pick something yeah it’s okay yeah learn and see what the difference was for next
and see what the difference was for next
and see what the difference was for next time I love it I love all the analogies
time I love it I love all the analogies
time I love it I love all the analogies you use – it’s really good it’s easy to
you use – it’s really good it’s easy to
you use – it’s really good it’s easy to follow along and people are freaking out
follow along and people are freaking out
follow along and people are freaking out in the Chad this is powerful stuff great
in the Chad this is powerful stuff great
in the Chad this is powerful stuff great subject they love you so so it’s good
subject they love you so so it’s good
subject they love you so so it’s good next up Amy is asking about reinventing
next up Amy is asking about reinventing
next up Amy is asking about reinventing yourself how do you know that you’re in
yourself how do you know that you’re in
yourself how do you know that you’re in the right direction of reinventing
the right direction of reinventing
the right direction of reinventing yourself easy you don’t again remember
yourself easy you don’t again remember
yourself easy you don’t again remember we talked about in terms of the ability
we talked about in terms of the ability
we talked about in terms of the ability to handle uncertainty however there are
to handle uncertainty however there are
to handle uncertainty however there are points is that I can give and that is to
points is that I can give and that is to
points is that I can give and that is to understand as we just touched on briefly
understand as we just touched on briefly
understand as we just touched on briefly the difference between what I call the
the difference between what I call the
the difference between what I call the thinking center and yet the feeling
thinking center and yet the feeling
thinking center and yet the feeling center yeah the thinking center yeah
center yeah the thinking center yeah
center yeah the thinking center yeah will essentially talk you in and out of
will essentially talk you in and out of
will essentially talk you in and out of everything that is des design to avoid
everything that is des design to avoid
everything that is des design to avoid the emotions that you feel unconsciously
the emotions that you feel unconsciously
the emotions that you feel unconsciously are uncomfortable now
are uncomfortable now
are uncomfortable now I’ll say that again this critical point
I’ll say that again this critical point
I’ll say that again this critical point your thinking center is predominantly
your thinking center is predominantly
your thinking center is predominantly designed to justify courses of action
designed to justify courses of action
designed to justify courses of action that will lead you to avoid emotions
that will lead you to avoid emotions
that will lead you to avoid emotions that you voted on as being uncomfortable
that you voted on as being uncomfortable
that you voted on as being uncomfortable such as rationalizing why you should say
such as rationalizing why you should say
such as rationalizing why you should say yes to somebody instead of no because
yes to somebody instead of no because
yes to somebody instead of no because that we know they’re really nice I’ll do
that we know they’re really nice I’ll do
that we know they’re really nice I’ll do it this once and case in point so the
it this once and case in point so the
it this once and case in point so the thinking of center will always sell you
thinking of center will always sell you
thinking of center will always sell you were dummy now it’ll be wrapped up in
were dummy now it’ll be wrapped up in
were dummy now it’ll be wrapped up in amazing wrapping paper
amazing wrapping paper
amazing wrapping paper it’ll be shiny it’ll look like it’s you
it’ll be shiny it’ll look like it’s you
it’ll be shiny it’ll look like it’s you know the right choice yeah trust me and
know the right choice yeah trust me and
know the right choice yeah trust me and you’ve heard everyone really has
you’ve heard everyone really has
you’ve heard everyone really has examples of this that I don’t have to
examples of this that I don’t have to
examples of this that I don’t have to yeah point but the feeling sense is
yeah point but the feeling sense is
yeah point but the feeling sense is different to your heart listening to
different to your heart listening to
different to your heart listening to your heart it’s a different language the
your heart it’s a different language the
your heart it’s a different language the heart only knows two things and it’s a
heart only knows two things and it’s a
heart only knows two things and it’s a binary response with the body fear or
binary response with the body fear or
binary response with the body fear or love that’s it now you can rephrase it
love that’s it now you can rephrase it
love that’s it now you can rephrase it any way you want positive negative feels
any way you want positive negative feels
any way you want positive negative feels good feels bad move towards move away it
good feels bad move towards move away it
good feels bad move towards move away it doesn’t matter the same thing that’s
doesn’t matter the same thing that’s
doesn’t matter the same thing that’s going on every cell
going on every cell
going on every cell your body has two states growth and
your body has two states growth and
your body has two states growth and protection fear and love now at a
protection fear and love now at a
protection fear and love now at a biological level a lot of different
biological level a lot of different
biological level a lot of different things go on yeah if you come from
things go on yeah if you come from
things go on yeah if you come from justifying it but there’s that little
justifying it but there’s that little
justifying it but there’s that little niggling thing because you can’t lie
niggling thing because you can’t lie
niggling thing because you can’t lie over the top of unresolved self feelings
over the top of unresolved self feelings
over the top of unresolved self feelings from the heart the heart knows truth
from the heart the heart knows truth
from the heart the heart knows truth your truth yeah this is always
your truth yeah this is always
your truth yeah this is always subjective it is your truth so your
subjective it is your truth so your
subjective it is your truth so your cells will go into a protection
cells will go into a protection
cells will go into a protection mechanism to a point where they will
mechanism to a point where they will
mechanism to a point where they will squeeze the blood out of them through
squeeze the blood out of them through
squeeze the blood out of them through the viscera out of the organs into the
the viscera out of the organs into the
the viscera out of the organs into the muscles because you’re in protection
muscles because you’re in protection
muscles because you’re in protection mode now you don’t go hit somebody with
mode now you don’t go hit somebody with
mode now you don’t go hit somebody with your spleen you hit them with you you
your spleen you hit them with you you
your spleen you hit them with you you know your fists so you know if you’re
know your fists so you know if you’re
know your fists so you know if you’re fearful or something’s not right you’ll
fearful or something’s not right you’ll
fearful or something’s not right you’ll have a physiological response to that
have a physiological response to that
have a physiological response to that it’ll even squeeze blood out of the
it’ll even squeeze blood out of the
it’ll even squeeze blood out of the frontal lobe into the rear brain so you
frontal lobe into the rear brain so you
frontal lobe into the rear brain so you can act off reflex which is more
can act off reflex which is more
can act off reflex which is more protective I’m trying to figure out
protective I’m trying to figure out
protective I’m trying to figure out which strategy to you know duck or hit
which strategy to you know duck or hit
which strategy to you know duck or hit with and then ya end up getting
with and then ya end up getting
with and then ya end up getting sucker-punched so you become less
sucker-punched so you become less
sucker-punched so you become less intelligent and you become more stressed
intelligent and you become more stressed
intelligent and you become more stressed when you operate from fear instead of
when you operate from fear instead of
when you operate from fear instead of love now here’s the problem if you put
love now here’s the problem if you put
love now here’s the problem if you put them the mind and the heart on opposite
them the mind and the heart on opposite
them the mind and the heart on opposite sides of the debate table which is kind
sides of the debate table which is kind
sides of the debate table which is kind of what we’re being asked here in the
of what we’re being asked here in the
of what we’re being asked here in the question who wins well it’s usually the
question who wins well it’s usually the
question who wins well it’s usually the mind why because it’s right and it knows
mind why because it’s right and it knows
mind why because it’s right and it knows truth no because it has access to more
truth no because it has access to more
truth no because it has access to more tools logic reasoning language deduction
tools logic reasoning language deduction
tools logic reasoning language deduction metaphor yeah labels yet all of that
metaphor yeah labels yet all of that
metaphor yeah labels yet all of that stuff is the job of the mind but the
stuff is the job of the mind but the
stuff is the job of the mind but the heart doesn’t care what the mind
heart doesn’t care what the mind
heart doesn’t care what the mind rationalizes Harlow’s truth your truth
rationalizes Harlow’s truth your truth
rationalizes Harlow’s truth your truth which may be different to somebody else
which may be different to somebody else
which may be different to somebody else is treating of it they’re the only truth
is treating of it they’re the only truth
is treating of it they’re the only truth with a capital T is the fact that we
with a capital T is the fact that we
with a capital T is the fact that we don’t know the damn truth that’s that’s
don’t know the damn truth that’s that’s
don’t know the damn truth that’s that’s the only true that you can really take
the only true that you can really take
the only true that you can really take to the bank
to the bank
to the bank that’s so you know what your truth is
that’s so you know what your truth is
that’s so you know what your truth is which I believe is the reason we’re here
which I believe is the reason we’re here
which I believe is the reason we’re here is to be authentic not to be happy not
is to be authentic not to be happy not
is to be authentic not to be happy not to be rich yeah but to be authentic and
to be rich yeah but to be authentic and
to be rich yeah but to be authentic and in the process of being authentic in
in the process of being authentic in
in the process of being authentic in business we tend to get happy and rich
business we tend to get happy and rich
business we tend to get happy and rich now as a by-product or a consequence not
now as a by-product or a consequence not
now as a by-product or a consequence not as a as a destination as a journey so
as a as a destination as a journey so
as a as a destination as a journey so you know how do you know yeah which path
you know how do you know yeah which path
you know how do you know yeah which path to take you already know which path to
to take you already know which path to
to take you already know which path to take
take
take there’s people listening to and watching
there’s people listening to and watching
there’s people listening to and watching us right now ever than the
us right now ever than the
us right now ever than the walk down the aisle with somebody that
walk down the aisle with somebody that
walk down the aisle with somebody that they knew yeah that sounded good on
they knew yeah that sounded good on
they knew yeah that sounded good on paper but ticked every single box but
paper but ticked every single box but
paper but ticked every single box but they felt something different from the
they felt something different from the
they felt something different from the heart and within two three four five
heart and within two three four five
heart and within two three four five years yeah that truth became more
years yeah that truth became more
years yeah that truth became more self-evident now it’s you know so the
self-evident now it’s you know so the
self-evident now it’s you know so the feeling sensor is what you want to trust
feeling sensor is what you want to trust
feeling sensor is what you want to trust not emotions that’s different yeah
not emotions that’s different yeah
not emotions that’s different yeah feeling sense should be like gut feel
feeling sense should be like gut feel
feeling sense should be like gut feel yeah it’s that intuition that inner
yeah it’s that intuition that inner
yeah it’s that intuition that inner feeling emotions are just the after
feeling emotions are just the after
feeling emotions are just the after products of thoughts that’s all so don’t
products of thoughts that’s all so don’t
products of thoughts that’s all so don’t get caught up in your emotions where we
get caught up in your emotions where we
get caught up in your emotions where we also make decisions from now has have
also make decisions from now has have
also make decisions from now has have still a logical basis you don’t want to
still a logical basis you don’t want to
still a logical basis you don’t want to yeah something starter yeah business
yeah something starter yeah business
yeah something starter yeah business selling how sprigs in the Arctic has
selling how sprigs in the Arctic has
selling how sprigs in the Arctic has have some similar that’s where the mind
have some similar that’s where the mind
have some similar that’s where the mind is useful to come and validated here
is useful to come and validated here
is useful to come and validated here they’re the actual decision but lead
they’re the actual decision but lead
they’re the actual decision but lead with the heart and and let the mind
with the heart and and let the mind
with the heart and and let the mind serve that was at all about I love it I
serve that was at all about I love it I
serve that was at all about I love it I have a feeling people are going to want
have a feeling people are going to want
have a feeling people are going to want to re-watch this a couple times so
to re-watch this a couple times so
to re-watch this a couple times so everything’s sink in to fully digest
everything’s sink in to fully digest
everything’s sink in to fully digest what you’re saying it’s great maybe time
what you’re saying it’s great maybe time
what you’re saying it’s great maybe time for one last question
for one last question
for one last question Vijay’s writing in and this is kind of
Vijay’s writing in and this is kind of
Vijay’s writing in and this is kind of on topic how do I get out of my comfort
on topic how do I get out of my comfort
on topic how do I get out of my comfort zone
zone
zone well probably we watch this and take
well probably we watch this and take
well probably we watch this and take some notes and yeah I say that somewhat
some notes and yeah I say that somewhat
some notes and yeah I say that somewhat facetiously but we’ve been covering a
facetiously but we’ve been covering a
facetiously but we’ve been covering a lot of that it’s about getting a why
lot of that it’s about getting a why
lot of that it’s about getting a why that that’s bigger if you’re in your
that that’s bigger if you’re in your
that that’s bigger if you’re in your comfort zone see the comfort zone acts
comfort zone see the comfort zone acts
comfort zone see the comfort zone acts almost like the rumble strip on the
almost like the rumble strip on the
almost like the rumble strip on the freeway yeah and there’s many rumble
freeway yeah and there’s many rumble
freeway yeah and there’s many rumble strips in other words you’re going down
strips in other words you’re going down
strips in other words you’re going down and what happens you start to drift to
and what happens you start to drift to
and what happens you start to drift to the side because you’re not paying
the side because you’re not paying
the side because you’re not paying attention and the next minute is to
attention and the next minute is to
attention and the next minute is to describe the work you up now we have
describe the work you up now we have
describe the work you up now we have many different forms the rumble strip of
many different forms the rumble strip of
many different forms the rumble strip of life can present itself one of them is
life can present itself one of them is
life can present itself one of them is procrastination being bored sitting in
procrastination being bored sitting in
procrastination being bored sitting in our comfort zone life is saying hey dude
our comfort zone life is saying hey dude
our comfort zone life is saying hey dude alright this isn’t where you’re going go
alright this isn’t where you’re going go
alright this isn’t where you’re going go get up you know and go go find something
get up you know and go go find something
get up you know and go go find something that inspires you that motivates you get
that inspires you that motivates you get
that inspires you that motivates you get out of your own way start getting out
out of your own way start getting out
out of your own way start getting out and swinging the bat you know or stop
and swinging the bat you know or stop
and swinging the bat you know or stop being shy
being shy
being shy that’s another excuse that’s a racket
that’s another excuse that’s a racket
that’s another excuse that’s a racket that most people yea sometimes hide
that most people yea sometimes hide
that most people yea sometimes hide behind if you already dissolve shy I can
behind if you already dissolve shy I can
behind if you already dissolve shy I can do it in one sentence yeah shiz please
do it in one sentence yeah shiz please
do it in one sentence yeah shiz please don’t let you discover me because I’m
don’t let you discover me because I’m
don’t let you discover me because I’m afraid of what you may judge me for yeah
afraid of what you may judge me for yeah
afraid of what you may judge me for yeah it’s a racket go back to the movie store
it’s a racket go back to the movie store
it’s a racket go back to the movie store metaphor doesn’t exist now get in the
metaphor doesn’t exist now get in the
metaphor doesn’t exist now get in the game and swing the bat the other rumble
game and swing the bat the other rumble
game and swing the bat the other rumble strip could show up as an illness
strip could show up as an illness
strip could show up as an illness now as a you’ve been driving down the
now as a you’ve been driving down the
now as a you’ve been driving down the freeway of you
freeway of you
freeway of you our eating healthy and then you start
our eating healthy and then you start
our eating healthy and then you start drifting off to the side towards some
drifting off to the side towards some
drifting off to the side towards some fast food or some unhealthy habits and
fast food or some unhealthy habits and
fast food or some unhealthy habits and boom guess what shows up are your stage
boom guess what shows up are your stage
boom guess what shows up are your stage two announcer you’ve got diabetes you’ve
two announcer you’ve got diabetes you’ve
two announcer you’ve got diabetes you’ve got one have you
got one have you
got one have you it’s a rumble strip yeah no problem it’s
it’s a rumble strip yeah no problem it’s
it’s a rumble strip yeah no problem it’s okay thank the rumble strip for being
okay thank the rumble strip for being
okay thank the rumble strip for being there don’t resist it what most people
there don’t resist it what most people
there don’t resist it what most people do is they all this rumble strip is
do is they all this rumble strip is
do is they all this rumble strip is interfering with the music that’s in my
interfering with the music that’s in my
interfering with the music that’s in my car I’ll just turn the music up louder
car I’ll just turn the music up louder
car I’ll just turn the music up louder and carry on what I was doing now you
and carry on what I was doing now you
and carry on what I was doing now you pay attention its feedback people come
pay attention its feedback people come
pay attention its feedback people come to me with an illness and I said when
to me with an illness and I said when
to me with an illness and I said when was the last time you made that illness
was the last time you made that illness
was the last time you made that illness your friend instead of your enemy thank
your friend instead of your enemy thank
your friend instead of your enemy thank it for the job that it’s doing and it
it for the job that it’s doing and it
it for the job that it’s doing and it tends to go a lot away a lot quicker but
tends to go a lot away a lot quicker but
tends to go a lot away a lot quicker but that’s a mind shift that’s very yeah in
that’s a mind shift that’s very yeah in
that’s a mind shift that’s very yeah in loggerheads with many different forms of
loggerheads with many different forms of
loggerheads with many different forms of traditional medical views because they
traditional medical views because they
traditional medical views because they don’t understand the metaphysical side
don’t understand the metaphysical side
don’t understand the metaphysical side they just ignore it and when the placebo
they just ignore it and when the placebo
they just ignore it and when the placebo effect shows up they call it an anomaly
effect shows up they call it an anomaly
effect shows up they call it an anomaly and a week that’s a whole other
and a week that’s a whole other
and a week that’s a whole other conversation but yeah so yeah motivate
conversation but yeah so yeah motivate
conversation but yeah so yeah motivate yourself by stop trying to be motivated
yourself by stop trying to be motivated
yourself by stop trying to be motivated and recognize that that’s a rumble strip
and recognize that that’s a rumble strip
and recognize that that’s a rumble strip yeah and in procrastination get inspired
yeah and in procrastination get inspired
yeah and in procrastination get inspired go help somebody else though dead ik 8
go help somebody else though dead ik 8
go help somebody else though dead ik 8 yourself to a cause that puts the smile
yourself to a cause that puts the smile
yourself to a cause that puts the smile on somebody else’s face because that’s
on somebody else’s face because that’s
on somebody else’s face because that’s when we feel most alive and that’s when
when we feel most alive and that’s when
when we feel most alive and that’s when we’re really being who we shouldn’t be
we’re really being who we shouldn’t be
we’re really being who we shouldn’t be at that core and giving a gift I love it
at that core and giving a gift I love it
at that core and giving a gift I love it Peter feel like we could we could talk
Peter feel like we could we could talk
Peter feel like we could we could talk for hours and hours people would still
for hours and hours people would still
for hours and hours people would still be lining up with their questions people
be lining up with their questions people
be lining up with their questions people are freaking out in the chat while
are freaking out in the chat while
are freaking out in the chat while next-level stuff this is awesome that
next-level stuff this is awesome that
next-level stuff this is awesome that was good this is crazy good today people
was good this is crazy good today people
was good this is crazy good today people are going crazy I know we’re a time for
are going crazy I know we’re a time for
are going crazy I know we’re a time for people who want to follow up they just
people who want to follow up they just
people who want to follow up they just discovered you they want to learn more
discovered you they want to learn more
discovered you they want to learn more about what you’re doing your book your
about what you’re doing your book your
about what you’re doing your book your website YouTube channel what’s the best
website YouTube channel what’s the best
website YouTube channel what’s the best place to reach out to you what’s the
place to reach out to you what’s the
place to reach out to you what’s the thing that you’re you’re focusing on
thing that you’re you’re focusing on
thing that you’re you’re focusing on right now that people can find you out
right now that people can find you out
right now that people can find you out great what we do obviously there’s a lot
great what we do obviously there’s a lot
great what we do obviously there’s a lot of stuff on my youtube channel which
of stuff on my youtube channel which
of stuff on my youtube channel which you’re easy to find them and thanks for
you’re easy to find them and thanks for
you’re easy to find them and thanks for in the linking my website peter sage
in the linking my website peter sage
in the linking my website peter sage calm nice and simple if you want to come
calm nice and simple if you want to come
calm nice and simple if you want to come and play with me at some of the events
and play with me at some of the events
and play with me at some of the events that we do we’re yeah we get to spend a
that we do we’re yeah we get to spend a
that we do we’re yeah we get to spend a few days together and really go deep on
few days together and really go deep on
few days together and really go deep on some of the aspects of reinvention then
some of the aspects of reinvention then
some of the aspects of reinvention then reinvent yourself iö is a place you can
reinvent yourself iö is a place you can
reinvent yourself iö is a place you can go and learn more about that and yeah
go and learn more about that and yeah
go and learn more about that and yeah it’d be an absolute pleasure and a
it’d be an absolute pleasure and a
it’d be an absolute pleasure and a privilege to for anyone wants to come
privilege to for anyone wants to come
privilege to for anyone wants to come and play a participate or for those that
and play a participate or for those that
and play a participate or for those that are starting their business or really
are starting their business or really
are starting their business or really looking for some stuff I put as much as
looking for some stuff I put as much as
looking for some stuff I put as much as content as I can on my youtube channel
content as I can on my youtube channel
content as I can on my youtube channel just to help as many people as I can so
just to help as many people as I can so
just to help as many people as I can so yourself always inspire me as well love
yourself always inspire me as well love
yourself always inspire me as well love it well guys thank you so much for
it well guys thank you so much for
it well guys thank you so much for watching really appreciate all the
watching really appreciate all the
watching really appreciate all the questions that we also couldn’t get to
questions that we also couldn’t get to
questions that we also couldn’t get to Peter I just super appreciate the time
Peter I just super appreciate the time
Peter I just super appreciate the time today and in your awesome YouTube
today and in your awesome YouTube
today and in your awesome YouTube channel I learn a lot from it as well
channel I learn a lot from it as well
channel I learn a lot from it as well thank you guys so much continue to
thank you guys so much continue to
thank you guys so much continue to believe and we’ll see you soon really
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