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How to approach people – Ask Evan


hi I’m Evan Carmichael welcome to

hi I’m Evan Carmichael welcome to another edition of ask Evan today I’m

another edition of ask Evan today I’m

another edition of ask Evan today I’m answering a question from one of my

answering a question from one of my

answering a question from one of my readers Leo who’s a YouTube viewer love

readers Leo who’s a YouTube viewer love

readers Leo who’s a YouTube viewer love you YouTube guys thank you for writing

you YouTube guys thank you for writing

you YouTube guys thank you for writing his question is about someone yourself

his question is about someone yourself

his question is about someone yourself so I wrote in hi your videos are so

so I wrote in hi your videos are so

so I wrote in hi your videos are so helpful especially for those who are new

helpful especially for those who are new

helpful especially for those who are new when it comes to business when you can

when it comes to business when you can

when it comes to business when you can you make a video on how to approach

you make a video on how to approach

you make a video on how to approach people like how you make them excited

people like how you make them excited

people like how you make them excited about your business or recruit them

about your business or recruit them

about your business or recruit them thank you so much again so thanks for

thank you so much again so thanks for

thank you so much again so thanks for the question Leo I’m gonna break that

the question Leo I’m gonna break that

the question Leo I’m gonna break that into two two components so I just lost

into two two components so I just lost

into two two components so I just lost it

it

it there we go the fingers are little

there we go the fingers are little

there we go the fingers are little fidgety here so I’m gonna break it into

fidgety here so I’m gonna break it into

fidgety here so I’m gonna break it into two components first is going up and

two components first is going up and

two components first is going up and approaching people and how to get people

approaching people and how to get people

approaching people and how to get people to know about your business and a second

to know about your business and a second

to know about your business and a second is how to get them excited about it the

is how to get them excited about it the

is how to get them excited about it the first in terms of going up and

first in terms of going up and

first in terms of going up and approaching people I think it depends on

approaching people I think it depends on

approaching people I think it depends on your personality me personally I

your personality me personally I

your personality me personally I consider myself more of a marker than

consider myself more of a marker than

consider myself more of a marker than the salesperson if I go up at a

the salesperson if I go up at a

the salesperson if I go up at a networking event or business event I’m

networking event or business event I’m

networking event or business event I’m usually not in everybody’s face saying

usually not in everybody’s face saying

usually not in everybody’s face saying hi here’s what I do you got to come sign

hi here’s what I do you got to come sign

hi here’s what I do you got to come sign up with me and go check out my website

up with me and go check out my website

up with me and go check out my website I’m generally a little more introverted

I’m generally a little more introverted

I’m generally a little more introverted a little more shy I guess I’m I like

a little more shy I guess I’m I like

a little more shy I guess I’m I like talking to people but I’m not a heavy

talking to people but I’m not a heavy

talking to people but I’m not a heavy promoter not a heavy salesperson I guess

promoter not a heavy salesperson I guess

promoter not a heavy salesperson I guess and so the strategy that I’ve used is

and so the strategy that I’ve used is

and so the strategy that I’ve used is more of a pull strategy so instead of

more of a pull strategy so instead of

more of a pull strategy so instead of going out and trying to recruit people

going out and trying to recruit people

going out and trying to recruit people and talk to people I try to have people

and talk to people I try to have people

and talk to people I try to have people come and find me and I find that I’m a

come and find me and I find that I’m a

come and find me and I find that I’m a lot better at being able to can to get

lot better at being able to can to get

lot better at being able to can to get people interested in what I’m doing once

people interested in what I’m doing once

people interested in what I’m doing once they are coming to me and so I think a

they are coming to me and so I think a

they are coming to me and so I think a lot of entrepreneur outgoing and you

lot of entrepreneur outgoing and you

lot of entrepreneur outgoing and you know loved going out and just promoting

know loved going out and just promoting

know loved going out and just promoting themselves and handing out business

themselves and handing out business

themselves and handing out business cards so how I do things is so you know

cards so how I do things is so you know

cards so how I do things is so you know I didn’t have a great time sales the

I didn’t have a great time sales the

I didn’t have a great time sales the doing sales calls or cold calling people

doing sales calls or cold calling people

doing sales calls or cold calling people or I never went door-to-door or anything

or I never went door-to-door or anything

or I never went door-to-door or anything like that but I wouldn’t be really good

like that but I wouldn’t be really good

like that but I wouldn’t be really good at that so how I do things is I try to

at that so how I do things is I try to

at that so how I do things is I try to create content that is interesting for

create content that is interesting for

create content that is interesting for my target audience and I’ll market it so

my target audience and I’ll market it so

my target audience and I’ll market it so I had the website I had

I had the website I had

I had the website I had my YouTube videos I have Twitter and

my YouTube videos I have Twitter and

my YouTube videos I have Twitter and LinkedIn and Facebook and all those

LinkedIn and Facebook and all those

LinkedIn and Facebook and all those channels to help market my material so

channels to help market my material so

channels to help market my material so it starts with creating interesting

it starts with creating interesting

it starts with creating interesting things that your target audience would

things that your target audience would

things that your target audience would be interested in and showcasing yourself

be interested in and showcasing yourself

be interested in and showcasing yourself as an expert and if you’re not your

as an expert and if you’re not your

as an expert and if you’re not your printer you should be an expert at what

printer you should be an expert at what

printer you should be an expert at what you’re doing right whatever clock the

you’re doing right whatever clock the

you’re doing right whatever clock the service is trying to sell you should

service is trying to sell you should

service is trying to sell you should have a story that you can tell and you

have a story that you can tell and you

have a story that you can tell and you should be one of the best in the world

should be one of the best in the world

should be one of the best in the world at what you do and combining your

at what you do and combining your

at what you do and combining your various passions into one business it’s

various passions into one business it’s

various passions into one business it’s a great way to be able to do it because

a great way to be able to do it because

a great way to be able to do it because that’s uniquely you and something nobody

that’s uniquely you and something nobody

that’s uniquely you and something nobody else can can copy or replicate so you

else can can copy or replicate so you

else can can copy or replicate so you want to be pushing out that content and

want to be pushing out that content and

want to be pushing out that content and marketing it and showing that it’s value

marketing it and showing that it’s value

marketing it and showing that it’s value out for your target audience and people

out for your target audience and people

out for your target audience and people will hopefully find it you can create

will hopefully find it you can create

will hopefully find it you can create partnerships to get that content out

partnerships to get that content out

partnerships to get that content out there but that’s the strategy I’ve

there but that’s the strategy I’ve

there but that’s the strategy I’ve always used and so making videos like

always used and so making videos like

always used and so making videos like this you’re speaking at conferences like

this you’re speaking at conferences like

this you’re speaking at conferences like I’ll really go to an event unless I’m

I’ll really go to an event unless I’m

I’ll really go to an event unless I’m speaking at it a lot of us do the time I

speaking at it a lot of us do the time I

speaking at it a lot of us do the time I don’t have a lot of time available to go

don’t have a lot of time available to go

don’t have a lot of time available to go out do these things but when I go to an

out do these things but when I go to an

out do these things but when I go to an event and I’m a speaker I find a lot of

event and I’m a speaker I find a lot of

event and I’m a speaker I find a lot of people come up to me and ask me

people come up to me and ask me

people come up to me and ask me questions I end up finding new business

questions I end up finding new business

questions I end up finding new business opportunities or new connections where

opportunities or new connections where

opportunities or new connections where if I’m an attendee I’m not the guy who’s

if I’m an attendee I’m not the guy who’s

if I’m an attendee I’m not the guy who’s going around shaking everybody’s hand

going around shaking everybody’s hand

going around shaking everybody’s hand and introducing myself and you know try

and introducing myself and you know try

and introducing myself and you know try to make business happen again I try to

to make business happen again I try to

to make business happen again I try to for my own personality I’m not that kind

for my own personality I’m not that kind

for my own personality I’m not that kind of guy and so I tried to leverage my

of guy and so I tried to leverage my

of guy and so I tried to leverage my strengths and not play to my weaknesses

strengths and not play to my weaknesses

strengths and not play to my weaknesses and so I’ll try to be the speaker and

and so I’ll try to be the speaker and

and so I’ll try to be the speaker and get people to come to me so a lot of my

get people to come to me so a lot of my

get people to come to me so a lot of my business is around getting people to

business is around getting people to

business is around getting people to find me and marketing to them and then

find me and marketing to them and then

find me and marketing to them and then once we start a discussion it’s easy to

once we start a discussion it’s easy to

once we start a discussion it’s easy to move forward from there so that’s how I

move forward from there so that’s how I

move forward from there so that’s how I get people interested in

get people interested in

get people interested in I guess finding out about me the second

I guess finding out about me the second

I guess finding out about me the second part was how to get them excited about

part was how to get them excited about

part was how to get them excited about your business and I think the real thing

your business and I think the real thing

your business and I think the real thing that comes through is your own

that comes through is your own

that comes through is your own excitement you know I love

excitement you know I love

excitement you know I love entrepreneurship I love helping

entrepreneurship I love helping

entrepreneurship I love helping entrepreneurs when I’m sitting in front

entrepreneurs when I’m sitting in front

entrepreneurs when I’m sitting in front of an entrepreneur there’s an energy

of an entrepreneur there’s an energy

of an entrepreneur there’s an energy that I get I want to help them out I

that I get I want to help them out I

that I get I want to help them out I want to find a way to go their business

want to find a way to go their business

want to find a way to go their business even talking about it now I’m getting

even talking about it now I’m getting

even talking about it now I’m getting excited that’s what I love doing and so

excited that’s what I love doing and so

excited that’s what I love doing and so if you’re excited about whatever

if you’re excited about whatever

if you’re excited about whatever business you have that’s going to come

business you have that’s going to come

business you have that’s going to come through

through

through other people will get excited and

other people will get excited and

other people will get excited and although they’ll catch your fever if

although they’ll catch your fever if

although they’ll catch your fever if you’re just going through your pitch and

you’re just going through your pitch and

you’re just going through your pitch and you know some people come and I was

you know some people come and I was

you know some people come and I was pitched recently with this guy had a

pitched recently with this guy had a

pitched recently with this guy had a kind of like a PowerPoint but he had it

kind of like a PowerPoint but he had it

kind of like a PowerPoint but he had it written down so instead of using the

written down so instead of using the

written down so instead of using the computer he brought two binders and he

computer he brought two binders and he

computer he brought two binders and he went through one and I went through one

went through one and I went through one

went through one and I went through one it was it was just born because he’s

it was it was just born because he’s

it was it was just born because he’s just reading his slides that’s not great

just reading his slides that’s not great

just reading his slides that’s not great like that’s not showing passion we’d be

like that’s not showing passion we’d be

like that’s not showing passion we’d be great information great value maybe a

great information great value maybe a

great information great value maybe a great ideas in there for me but I want

great ideas in there for me but I want

great ideas in there for me but I want to see your passion and excitement and

to see your passion and excitement and

to see your passion and excitement and it’s not so much what you say it’s how

it’s not so much what you say it’s how

it’s not so much what you say it’s how you say it and if people genuinely sense

you say it and if people genuinely sense

you say it and if people genuinely sense that you’re excited about this

that you’re excited about this

that you’re excited about this opportunity then they’ll get more

opportunity then they’ll get more

opportunity then they’ll get more excited as well so it really starts with

excited as well so it really starts with

excited as well so it really starts with you having something that you are

you having something that you are

you having something that you are genuinely excited about so when you’re

genuinely excited about so when you’re

genuinely excited about so when you’re starting the business you want to build

starting the business you want to build

starting the business you want to build it around something you are passionate

it around something you are passionate

it around something you are passionate about something that you can wake up and

about something that you can wake up and

about something that you can wake up and get going every morning not maybe every

get going every morning not maybe every

get going every morning not maybe every morning because I know it can be hard

morning because I know it can be hard

morning because I know it can be hard but almost every morning you wake up

but almost every morning you wake up

but almost every morning you wake up excited to go and do what you’re doing

excited to go and do what you’re doing

excited to go and do what you’re doing that passion will come through and other

that passion will come through and other

that passion will come through and other people will want to join with you on

people will want to join with you on

people will want to join with you on whatever you’re passionate about if

whatever you’re passionate about if

whatever you’re passionate about if you’re just doing it to make money or

you’re just doing it to make money or

you’re just doing it to make money or you just go through the motions and

you just go through the motions and

you just go through the motions and you’re not really excited if you don’t

you’re not really excited if you don’t

you’re not really excited if you don’t personally use your product or service

personally use your product or service

personally use your product or service and you can’t tell a personal story

and you can’t tell a personal story

and you can’t tell a personal story about why you started it or while you’re

about why you started it or while you’re

about why you started it or while you’re involved in the business then it’s gonna

involved in the business then it’s gonna

involved in the business then it’s gonna be a lot harder to get people excited

be a lot harder to get people excited

be a lot harder to get people excited about it even if you have the best case

about it even if you have the best case

about it even if you have the best case studies in the world so hopefully that

studies in the world so hopefully that

studies in the world so hopefully that helped maybe a little bit different

helped maybe a little bit different

helped maybe a little bit different about how I approach it compared to

about how I approach it compared to

about how I approach it compared to others but hopefully some information

others but hopefully some information

others but hopefully some information there that can help you with your

there that can help you with your

there that can help you with your business so thanks for the question

business so thanks for the question

business so thanks for the question for those of you watching if you liked

for those of you watching if you liked

for those of you watching if you liked it please give it a thumbs up I love

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