Have JOY – #OneRule

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joy joy joy joy joy joy joy hello believe nation today we’re going

hello believe nation today we’re going

hello believe nation today we’re going to look at how you can have more joy and

to look at how you can have more joy and

to look at how you can have more joy and as always guys if you hear something

as always guys if you hear something

as always guys if you hear something that really resonates with you please

that really resonates with you please

that really resonates with you please leave it down the comments below put

leave it down the comments below put

leave it down the comments below put quotes around it so other people can be

quotes around it so other people can be

quotes around it so other people can be inspired and when you write it down

inspired and when you write it down

inspired and when you write it down yourself it’s much more likely to stick

yourself it’s much more likely to stick

yourself it’s much more likely to stick with you as well

with you as well

with you as well enjoy happiness is pleasure and

enjoy happiness is pleasure and

enjoy happiness is pleasure and happiness is joy you can be either one

happiness is joy you can be either one

happiness is joy you can be either one you add them up in exotic Falls or the

you add them up in exotic Falls or the

you add them up in exotic Falls or the uber category of happiness pleasure is

uber category of happiness pleasure is

uber category of happiness pleasure is short-lived lasts an hour last a minute

short-lived lasts an hour last a minute

short-lived lasts an hour last a minute lasts a month and it Peaks and then goes

lasts a month and it Peaks and then goes

lasts a month and it Peaks and then goes down it Peaks very high but the next

down it Peaks very high but the next

down it Peaks very high but the next time you want to get that same peak you

time you want to get that same peak you

time you want to get that same peak you have to do it twice as much it’s like

have to do it twice as much it’s like

have to do it twice as much it’s like drugs you know just you have to keep

drugs you know just you have to keep

drugs you know just you have to keep doing it because it insulates itself no

doing it because it insulates itself no

doing it because it insulates itself no matter what it is whether you’re

matter what it is whether you’re

matter what it is whether you’re shopping whether you’re you know engaged

shopping whether you’re you know engaged

shopping whether you’re you know engaged in any other kind of pleasure that all

in any other kind of pleasure that all

in any other kind of pleasure that all has the same quality about it on the

has the same quality about it on the

has the same quality about it on the other hand is joy and joy is the thing

other hand is joy and joy is the thing

other hand is joy and joy is the thing that doesn’t go as high as pleasure in

that doesn’t go as high as pleasure in

that doesn’t go as high as pleasure in terms of your emotional reaction but it

terms of your emotional reaction but it

terms of your emotional reaction but it stays with you joy it’s something you

stays with you joy it’s something you

stays with you joy it’s something you can recall pleasure you can’t so the

can recall pleasure you can’t so the

can recall pleasure you can’t so the secret is that even though it’s not as

secret is that even though it’s not as

secret is that even though it’s not as intense as the pleasure the joy will

intense as the pleasure the joy will

intense as the pleasure the joy will last you a lot longer and people who get

last you a lot longer and people who get

last you a lot longer and people who get the pleasure they keep saying well if I

the pleasure they keep saying well if I

the pleasure they keep saying well if I can just get richer and get more cars

can just get richer and get more cars

can just get richer and get more cars you know I’ll never you’ll never relive

you know I’ll never you’ll never relive

you know I’ll never you’ll never relive the moment you got your first car that’s

the moment you got your first car that’s

the moment you got your first car that’s it that’s the highest peak yes you can

it that’s the highest peak yes you can

it that’s the highest peak yes you can get three Ferraris in a new Gulfstream

get three Ferraris in a new Gulfstream

get three Ferraris in a new Gulfstream jet and maybe you’ll get close but you

jet and maybe you’ll get close but you

jet and maybe you’ll get close but you have to keep going and eventually you

have to keep going and eventually you

have to keep going and eventually you run out I mean you just can’t do it

run out I mean you just can’t do it

run out I mean you just can’t do it doesn’t work so if you’re trying to

doesn’t work so if you’re trying to

doesn’t work so if you’re trying to sustain that level of peak pleasure

sustain that level of peak pleasure

sustain that level of peak pleasure you’re doomed

you’re doomed

you’re doomed it’s a very American idea but it just

it’s a very American idea but it just

it’s a very American idea but it just can’t happen you just let it go

can’t happen you just let it go

can’t happen you just let it go peak great pleasure it’s fun it’s great

peak great pleasure it’s fun it’s great

peak great pleasure it’s fun it’s great but you can’t keep it going forever just

but you can’t keep it going forever just

but you can’t keep it going forever just accept the fact that it’s hearings gone

accept the fact that it’s hearings gone

accept the fact that it’s hearings gone and maybe again it’ll come back and you

and maybe again it’ll come back and you

and maybe again it’ll come back and you get to do it again joy lasts forever

get to do it again joy lasts forever

get to do it again joy lasts forever pleasure is purely self-centered it’s

pleasure is purely self-centered it’s

pleasure is purely self-centered it’s all about your pleasure it’s about you

all about your pleasure it’s about you

all about your pleasure it’s about you it’s about a selfish self-centered

it’s about a selfish self-centered

it’s about a selfish self-centered emotion that’s created by a

emotion that’s created by a

emotion that’s created by a self-centered motive of greed joy is

self-centered motive of greed joy is

self-centered motive of greed joy is compassion joy is giving yourself to

compassion joy is giving yourself to

compassion joy is giving yourself to somebody else or something else and it’s

somebody else or something else and it’s

somebody else or something else and it’s a kind of thing that is in its subtlety

a kind of thing that is in its subtlety

a kind of thing that is in its subtlety and lowness much more powerful than

and lowness much more powerful than

and lowness much more powerful than pleasure you get hung up on pleasure

pleasure you get hung up on pleasure

pleasure you get hung up on pleasure you’re doomed if you pursue joy you will

you’re doomed if you pursue joy you will

you’re doomed if you pursue joy you will find everlasting happiness and one

find everlasting happiness and one

find everlasting happiness and one mental point is bringing joy back into

mental point is bringing joy back into

mental point is bringing joy back into our everyday lives because so many of us

our everyday lives because so many of us

our everyday lives because so many of us and I speak as a complete culprit you

and I speak as a complete culprit you

and I speak as a complete culprit you know this is like a certifiable type-a

know this is like a certifiable type-a

know this is like a certifiable type-a workaholic driven personality who

workaholic driven personality who

workaholic driven personality who basically felt my job is about getting

basically felt my job is about getting

basically felt my job is about getting it all done getting it done in time

it all done getting it done in time

it all done getting it done in time getting it accomplished and joy who is

getting it accomplished and joy who is

getting it accomplished and joy who is time for joy and now I feel that not at

time for joy and now I feel that not at

time for joy and now I feel that not at all that it’s like when I’m not joyful

all that it’s like when I’m not joyful

all that it’s like when I’m not joyful I look at what happened I don’t mean I

I look at what happened I don’t mean I

I look at what happened I don’t mean I don’t mean joyful like there are no

don’t mean joyful like there are no

don’t mean joyful like there are no challenges problems etc I mean like when

challenges problems etc I mean like when

challenges problems etc I mean like when I’m not like hey this is great I’m

I’m not like hey this is great I’m

I’m not like hey this is great I’m blessed I’m doing something I love I’m

blessed I’m doing something I love I’m

blessed I’m doing something I love I’m grateful and when I don’t have that

grateful and when I don’t have that

grateful and when I don’t have that feeling and not I’m off I need to

feeling and not I’m off I need to

feeling and not I’m off I need to course-correct so joy kind of really

course-correct so joy kind of really

course-correct so joy kind of really checking in and seeing how am i doing

checking in and seeing how am i doing

checking in and seeing how am i doing you might if you don’t even have to

you might if you don’t even have to

you might if you don’t even have to check in because you know when you are

check in because you know when you are

check in because you know when you are in the flow in the joy and when you’re

in the flow in the joy and when you’re

in the flow in the joy and when you’re not if you want to know how to decide if

not if you want to know how to decide if

not if you want to know how to decide if a career opportunity is a good one there

a career opportunity is a good one there

a career opportunity is a good one there are several things you have to take into

are several things you have to take into

are several things you have to take into consideration number one does it make

consideration number one does it make

consideration number one does it make your heart sing the number one feedback

your heart sing the number one feedback

your heart sing the number one feedback system that you are given at birth is

system that you are given at birth is

system that you are given at birth is joy if you’re not experiencing joy as

joy if you’re not experiencing joy as

joy if you’re not experiencing joy as you think about doing

you think about doing

you think about doing something and as you pursue doing it

something and as you pursue doing it

something and as you pursue doing it then it’s off course for you you also

then it’s off course for you you also

then it’s off course for you you also want to put your rational mind to work

want to put your rational mind to work

want to put your rational mind to work you want it to some due diligence ask

you want it to some due diligence ask

you want it to some due diligence ask other people who’ve gone down that road

other people who’ve gone down that road

other people who’ve gone down that road before what was it like what did they

before what was it like what did they

before what was it like what did they have to do over some of the cost of that

have to do over some of the cost of that

have to do over some of the cost of that path what were some of the bay offs and

path what were some of the bay offs and

path what were some of the bay offs and the benefits and really get a sense of

the benefits and really get a sense of

the benefits and really get a sense of what it would be like to do that

what it would be like to do that

what it would be like to do that sometimes you can go and do an

sometimes you can go and do an

sometimes you can go and do an internship or you can work for a friend

internship or you can work for a friend

internship or you can work for a friend in their restaurant just to see if you

in their restaurant just to see if you

in their restaurant just to see if you like it because often the fantasy

like it because often the fantasy

like it because often the fantasy doesn’t match the reality and the other

doesn’t match the reality and the other

doesn’t match the reality and the other thing is to simply trust yourself you

thing is to simply trust yourself you

thing is to simply trust yourself you know deep inside what’s true for you and

know deep inside what’s true for you and

know deep inside what’s true for you and if you’ll take a few minutes and go

if you’ll take a few minutes and go

if you’ll take a few minutes and go inside we call it meditation and just

inside we call it meditation and just

inside we call it meditation and just ask and sit with the question and see

ask and sit with the question and see

ask and sit with the question and see what kind of feelings come up does this

what kind of feelings come up does this

what kind of feelings come up does this feel right so do all the rational

feel right so do all the rational

feel right so do all the rational research but then ultimately bring it

research but then ultimately bring it

research but then ultimately bring it back into your heart and decide does

back into your heart and decide does

back into your heart and decide does this feel good for me and if it makes

this feel good for me and if it makes

this feel good for me and if it makes sense up here and it feels good then

sense up here and it feels good then

sense up here and it feels good then step into it just lean into it and see

step into it just lean into it and see

step into it just lean into it and see what happens pursue it no decision is

what happens pursue it no decision is

what happens pursue it no decision is forever you can always change if it’s

forever you can always change if it’s

forever you can always change if it’s not what you want I was always a person

not what you want I was always a person

not what you want I was always a person with a lot of confidence and I never

with a lot of confidence and I never

with a lot of confidence and I never took very seriously any one making less

took very seriously any one making less

took very seriously any one making less of me I think you learn by your failures

of me I think you learn by your failures

of me I think you learn by your failures and you learn by your mistakes but you

and you learn by your mistakes but you

and you learn by your mistakes but you don’t take them to heart because as soon

don’t take them to heart because as soon

don’t take them to heart because as soon as you do it takes the spirit out of you

as you do it takes the spirit out of you

as you do it takes the spirit out of you it kind of you die a little bit look the

it kind of you die a little bit look the

it kind of you die a little bit look the world is dark as just it’s as bad as it

world is dark as just it’s as bad as it

world is dark as just it’s as bad as it gets you look in the newspaper it’s bad

gets you look in the newspaper it’s bad

gets you look in the newspaper it’s bad it’s you look over shoulder it’s bad

it’s you look over shoulder it’s bad

it’s you look over shoulder it’s bad news if you want me to cry out try right

news if you want me to cry out try right

news if you want me to cry out try right now for you because I can find so much

now for you because I can find so much

now for you because I can find so much sadness in the world I can find so much

sadness in the world I can find so much

sadness in the world I can find so much tragedy I can find so much heartache

tragedy I can find so much heartache

tragedy I can find so much heartache that it will just be massive okay now

that it will just be massive okay now

that it will just be massive okay now where’s the joy where’s the spirit

where’s the joy where’s the spirit

where’s the joy where’s the spirit where’s the fun that’s the goal to me so

where’s the fun that’s the goal to me so

where’s the fun that’s the goal to me so I’ve never understood why so much is

I’ve never understood why so much is

I’ve never understood why so much is harped on the negative because negative

harped on the negative because negative

harped on the negative because negative is easy dark is easy and doing it

is easy dark is easy and doing it

is easy dark is easy and doing it artfully yes we must all do that but I

artfully yes we must all do that but I

artfully yes we must all do that but I find it much more interesting to find

find it much more interesting to find

find it much more interesting to find out where the joy is so during those

out where the joy is so during those

out where the joy is so during those time

time

time I probably perceived negative but I went

I probably perceived negative but I went

I probably perceived negative but I went for life I learned how to become a jet

for life I learned how to become a jet

for life I learned how to become a jet pilot I travelled the world I rubbed

pilot I travelled the world I rubbed

pilot I travelled the world I rubbed elbows with all sorts of people and I

elbows with all sorts of people and I

elbows with all sorts of people and I learned what they were about and that

learned what they were about and that

learned what they were about and that was feeding me you know I had a choice I

was feeding me you know I had a choice I

was feeding me you know I had a choice I could have believed that things were

could have believed that things were

could have believed that things were finished things were over that life is

finished things were over that life is

finished things were over that life is bad that life is not worth it

bad that life is not worth it

bad that life is not worth it why don’t we all die or something like

why don’t we all die or something like

why don’t we all die or something like that it’s just not not my nature you see

that it’s just not not my nature you see

that it’s just not not my nature you see so my feeling was that you get through

so my feeling was that you get through

so my feeling was that you get through that the best you can by living life

that the best you can by living life

that the best you can by living life fully and using the spirit of other

fully and using the spirit of other

fully and using the spirit of other people to feed you and you feed them and

people to feed you and you feed them and

people to feed you and you feed them and you rise above it all that way everybody

you rise above it all that way everybody

you rise above it all that way everybody who’s successful and by successful I

who’s successful and by successful I

who’s successful and by successful I mean like absolutely fulfilled in their

mean like absolutely fulfilled in their

mean like absolutely fulfilled in their career you know passionate about it and

career you know passionate about it and

career you know passionate about it and feeling like they’re doing something

feeling like they’re doing something

feeling like they’re doing something that they’re supposed to do they have

that they’re supposed to do they have

that they’re supposed to do they have these three characteristics and first of

these three characteristics and first of

these three characteristics and first of all they have joy they’re happy in their

all they have joy they’re happy in their

all they have joy they’re happy in their work they enjoy what they do most of the

work they enjoy what they do most of the

work they enjoy what they do most of the time they’re not doing a soul-sucking

time they’re not doing a soul-sucking

time they’re not doing a soul-sucking job if they have a job it’s a great job

job if they have a job it’s a great job

job if they have a job it’s a great job or if it’s something that they built for

or if it’s something that they built for

or if it’s something that they built for themselves they really enjoy it and the

themselves they really enjoy it and the

themselves they really enjoy it and the second quality is money because there’s

second quality is money because there’s

second quality is money because there’s lots of things you can do that you enjoy

lots of things you can do that you enjoy

lots of things you can do that you enjoy but if you don’t get paid for them then

but if you don’t get paid for them then

but if you don’t get paid for them then it’s a hobby which is great like it’s

it’s a hobby which is great like it’s

it’s a hobby which is great like it’s good to have a hobby but if you’re

good to have a hobby but if you’re

good to have a hobby but if you’re talking about a career it has to be

talking about a career it has to be

talking about a career it has to be financially sustainable so joy money and

financially sustainable so joy money and

financially sustainable so joy money and then the third factor is flow which is

then the third factor is flow which is

then the third factor is flow which is really doing something that you’re good

really doing something that you’re good

really doing something that you’re good at really doing something where when you

at really doing something where when you

at really doing something where when you do it you’re immersed in it and ours

do it you’re immersed in it and ours

do it you’re immersed in it and ours just kind of pass by and it’s also

just kind of pass by and it’s also

just kind of pass by and it’s also really easy for you because it’s

really easy for you because it’s

really easy for you because it’s something that you’re good at and other

something that you’re good at and other

something that you’re good at and other people are like wow like you know she’s

people are like wow like you know she’s

people are like wow like you know she’s really good at that takes me a lot

really good at that takes me a lot

really good at that takes me a lot longer to do that or I’m not good at it

longer to do that or I’m not good at it

longer to do that or I’m not good at it but so I think what we’re looking for is

but so I think what we’re looking for is

but so I think what we’re looking for is this combination of all three factors we

this combination of all three factors we

this combination of all three factors we want something that brings joy we want

want something that brings joy we want

want something that brings joy we want something that is financially

something that is financially

something that is financially sustainable we want something that

sustainable we want something that

sustainable we want something that brings flow and I don’t think people

brings flow and I don’t think people

brings flow and I don’t think people will be happy unless they have all three

will be happy unless they have all three

will be happy unless they have all three of these factors yeah I think you can be

of these factors yeah I think you can be

of these factors yeah I think you can be a little bit you can be okay right

a little bit you can be okay right

a little bit you can be okay right there’s lots of people who do jobs they

there’s lots of people who do jobs they

there’s lots of people who do jobs they don’t love and that’s fine they get a

don’t love and that’s fine they get a

don’t love and that’s fine they get a paycheck and maybe they’re satisfied in

paycheck and maybe they’re satisfied in

paycheck and maybe they’re satisfied in other areas of their life but because

other areas of their life but because

other areas of their life but because life is short why not try to work toward

life is short why not try to work toward

life is short why not try to work toward something

something

something you know that is not just you know okay

you know that is not just you know okay

you know that is not just you know okay but is amazing right isn’t that the goal

but is amazing right isn’t that the goal

but is amazing right isn’t that the goal we see yourself working

we see yourself working

we see yourself working we talked right down the way that would

we talked right down the way that would

we talked right down the way that would together ever

together ever

together ever a lot of stranger to talk with we

a lot of stranger to talk with we

a lot of stranger to talk with we justify device telling you on the deep

justify device telling you on the deep

justify device telling you on the deep and figured on using you got really like

and figured on using you got really like

and figured on using you got really like that

so why do our delta not for yourself

so why do our delta not for yourself right there’s a moment I think you

right there’s a moment I think you

right there’s a moment I think you damage an essential health approach

damage an essential health approach

damage an essential health approach entirely the temperature yourself the

entirely the temperature yourself the

entirely the temperature yourself the way you want that for your emotion she’s

way you want that for your emotion she’s

way you want that for your emotion she’s right she said she doesn’t think

right she said she doesn’t think

right she said she doesn’t think anything has it means so you have

anything has it means so you have

anything has it means so you have nothing to fear in the moment right

nothing to fear in the moment right

nothing to fear in the moment right if you are behaviors of the worst of it

if you are behaviors of the worst of it

if you are behaviors of the worst of it and I want to be like the birthday

and I want to be like the birthday

and I want to be like the birthday before we get there be the stop talking

before we get there be the stop talking

before we get there be the stop talking something for every book you have this

something for every book you have this

something for every book you have this corresponding action you may be able to

corresponding action you may be able to

corresponding action you may be able to your projection rate but where did that

your projection rate but where did that

your projection rate but where did that come from that you reach and like you

come from that you reach and like you

come from that you reach and like you were saying earlier if your genie fell

were saying earlier if your genie fell

were saying earlier if your genie fell on world works and now you’re higher

on world works and now you’re higher

on world works and now you’re higher status or something your lesson where

status or something your lesson where

status or something your lesson where they’re saying that Shan Shan what who

they’re saying that Shan Shan what who

they’re saying that Shan Shan what who you are Chen you’re not worthy to

you are Chen you’re not worthy to

you are Chen you’re not worthy to promptly person she that this person saw

promptly person she that this person saw

promptly person she that this person saw that power over easy was it for you that

that power over easy was it for you that

that power over easy was it for you that you’re not enough you’re actually

you’re not enough you’re actually

you’re not enough you’re actually nothing

nothing

nothing not reaching out to come along in a

not reaching out to come along in a

not reaching out to come along in a two-block remember that shingle up who

two-block remember that shingle up who

two-block remember that shingle up who you are and what happened right your

you are and what happened right your

you are and what happened right your shame we lock it and turn to joy

shame we lock it and turn to joy

shame we lock it and turn to joy so the all idea approachable place of

so the all idea approachable place of

so the all idea approachable place of joy if you all visit joy is evidence of

joy if you all visit joy is evidence of

joy if you all visit joy is evidence of shame you’ll have to learn in life

shame you’ll have to learn in life

shame you’ll have to learn in life that’s what we call a collective a

that’s what we call a collective a

that’s what we call a collective a medium a medium stage which is what we

medium a medium stage which is what we

medium a medium stage which is what we have enjoyed they were all things if you

have enjoyed they were all things if you

have enjoyed they were all things if you walk out there like okay all right there

walk out there like okay all right there

walk out there like okay all right there all these people and they’re going to

all these people and they’re going to

all these people and they’re going to prove religion to the bottom they don’t

prove religion to the bottom they don’t

prove religion to the bottom they don’t feel competitive you know my cell so my

feel competitive you know my cell so my

feel competitive you know my cell so my self-esteem in hang up every stranger to

self-esteem in hang up every stranger to

self-esteem in hang up every stranger to talk to you’re setting yourself up for

talk to you’re setting yourself up for

talk to you’re setting yourself up for trouble

trouble

trouble yeah and pushed a stated being a lot of

yeah and pushed a stated being a lot of

yeah and pushed a stated being a lot of school let’s talk about that yourself

school let’s talk about that yourself

school let’s talk about that yourself off with the judge at handicap the wave

off with the judge at handicap the wave

off with the judge at handicap the wave I rode I think I was eight years old

I rode I think I was eight years old

I rode I think I was eight years old that wave stands out in my head probably

that wave stands out in my head probably

that wave stands out in my head probably more than any wave in my life for some

more than any wave in my life for some

more than any wave in my life for some reason it it wasn’t any sort of amazing

reason it it wasn’t any sort of amazing

reason it it wasn’t any sort of amazing wave it was a just a little wave

wave it was a just a little wave

wave it was a just a little wave probably you know wasted chest high

probably you know wasted chest high

probably you know wasted chest high it took off on it and I just did I did

it took off on it and I just did I did

it took off on it and I just did I did it bottom turn and I did a little turn

it bottom turn and I did a little turn

it bottom turn and I did a little turn off the top and I just did that three

off the top and I just did that three

off the top and I just did that three different times and when I finished the

different times and when I finished the

different times and when I finished the third one I came down I sort of

third one I came down I sort of

third one I came down I sort of straighten off on the way when I looked

straighten off on the way when I looked

straighten off on the way when I looked over my dad was smiling at me and right

over my dad was smiling at me and right

over my dad was smiling at me and right at that moment it was just such sheer

at that moment it was just such sheer

at that moment it was just such sheer joy you know like connecting with my dad

joy you know like connecting with my dad

joy you know like connecting with my dad but also finding the thing that like I

but also finding the thing that like I

but also finding the thing that like I was becoming good at I think probably in

was becoming good at I think probably in

was becoming good at I think probably in that moment I knew that this is what I

that moment I knew that this is what I

that moment I knew that this is what I was going to do forever

was going to do forever

was going to do forever I wasn’t like I am always been a very

I wasn’t like I am always been a very

I wasn’t like I am always been a very optimistic upbeat person when I first

optimistic upbeat person when I first

optimistic upbeat person when I first came to college it was a time that I was

came to college it was a time that I was

came to college it was a time that I was trying to figure out who am I what makes

trying to figure out who am I what makes

trying to figure out who am I what makes me special and I started to find most of

me special and I started to find most of

me special and I started to find most of my value in the fact that I was

my value in the fact that I was

my value in the fact that I was for several years had no idea I had

for several years had no idea I had

for several years had no idea I had become anorexic and be places with

become anorexic and be places with

become anorexic and be places with people I cared about but what I was

people I cared about but what I was

people I cared about but what I was thinking about was the extra grease on

thinking about was the extra grease on

thinking about was the extra grease on the pizza or the calories that I knew

the pizza or the calories that I knew

the pizza or the calories that I knew were in that shake and I just was

were in that shake and I just was

were in that shake and I just was talking to my wall one day and I broke

talking to my wall one day and I broke

talking to my wall one day and I broke down crying because I realized for the

down crying because I realized for the

down crying because I realized for the first time I have problem and that this

first time I have problem and that this

first time I have problem and that this isn’t normal people don’t think like

isn’t normal people don’t think like

isn’t normal people don’t think like this I finally realized I wasn’t happy

this I finally realized I wasn’t happy

this I finally realized I wasn’t happy anytime there’s a change to be made you

anytime there’s a change to be made you

anytime there’s a change to be made you have to realize that there’s somewhere

have to realize that there’s somewhere

have to realize that there’s somewhere else you want to be and I wanted

else you want to be and I wanted

else you want to be and I wanted basically to be happy

basically to be happy

basically to be happy that was far more important than the

that was far more important than the

that was far more important than the skinniest girl in a room once I realized

skinniest girl in a room once I realized

skinniest girl in a room once I realized that there was a problem that’s when I

that there was a problem that’s when I

that there was a problem that’s when I could change I knew that I could be

could change I knew that I could be

could change I knew that I could be happy again

happy again

happy again we collect this year about eight billion

we collect this year about eight billion

we collect this year about eight billion dollars of customers money so thank you

dollars of customers money so thank you

dollars of customers money so thank you all of you for giving us your money and

all of you for giving us your money and

all of you for giving us your money and what we do is we say that money is

what we do is we say that money is

what we do is we say that money is entrust to create joy we have to turn

entrust to create joy we have to turn

entrust to create joy we have to turn that into the most joy possible and so

that into the most joy possible and so

that into the most joy possible and so we look and we say for every show if a

we look and we say for every show if a

we look and we say for every show if a show cost a hundred million dollars how

show cost a hundred million dollars how

show cost a hundred million dollars how much joy how much viewing did it create

much joy how much viewing did it create

much joy how much viewing did it create amongst all of you if it costs 50

amongst all of you if it costs 50

amongst all of you if it costs 50 million or 200 million of course you

million or 200 million of course you

million or 200 million of course you want different amounts of joy so we look

want different amounts of joy so we look

want different amounts of joy so we look at it as how much joy can we create of

at it as how much joy can we create of

at it as how much joy can we create of your money and if we turn it into joy

your money and if we turn it into joy

your money and if we turn it into joy effectively then you’re happy and you

effectively then you’re happy and you

effectively then you’re happy and you tell your friends and we grow and then

tell your friends and we grow and then

tell your friends and we grow and then we have more money next year to turn

we have more money next year to turn

we have more money next year to turn into more joy so we’re we think of

into more joy so we’re we think of

into more joy so we’re we think of myself like Alchemist we take in money

myself like Alchemist we take in money

myself like Alchemist we take in money and out comes joy some of you need a

and out comes joy some of you need a

and out comes joy some of you need a laugh right now so I’m going to stop

laugh right now so I’m going to stop

laugh right now so I’m going to stop right in the middle of this preaching

right in the middle of this preaching

right in the middle of this preaching and tell you a joke

and tell you a joke

and tell you a joke [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] well honey I’ve never been in a church

well honey I’ve never been in a church

well honey I’ve never been in a church like this well two old people were

like this well two old people were

like this well two old people were laying in bed side-by-side I’m talking

laying in bed side-by-side I’m talking

laying in bed side-by-side I’m talking really old like wrinkled up old and she

really old like wrinkled up old and she

really old like wrinkled up old and she said honey why don’t you ever hold my

said honey why don’t you ever hold my

said honey why don’t you ever hold my hand like you used to at night so his

hand like you used to at night so his

hand like you used to at night so his little old wrinkled hand came across the

little old wrinkled hand came across the

little old wrinkled hand came across the bed he took her little old wrinkled hand

bed he took her little old wrinkled hand

bed he took her little old wrinkled hand she said honey why don’t you ever hold

she said honey why don’t you ever hold

she said honey why don’t you ever hold me in your arms like you used to at

me in your arms like you used to at

me in your arms like you used to at night so he sighed and it took him a

night so he sighed and it took him a

night so he sighed and it took him a little while but he got over to her side

little while but he got over to her side

little while but he got over to her side of the bed

got her in his arms and she rested a

got her in his arms and she rested a little bit then she said honey why don’t

little bit then she said honey why don’t

little bit then she said honey why don’t you ever nibble on my ear like you used

you ever nibble on my ear like you used

you ever nibble on my ear like you used to at night and all of a sudden he

to at night and all of a sudden he

to at night and all of a sudden he jumped up and started across the floor

jumped up and started across the floor

jumped up and started across the floor and she’s gone where are you going he

and she’s gone where are you going he

and she’s gone where are you going he said well I got to get my teeth

[Applause]

[Applause] I see you’re thinking whoa what does

I see you’re thinking whoa what does

I see you’re thinking whoa what does that have to do with anything

that have to do with anything

that have to do with anything nothing it has nothing to do with

nothing it has nothing to do with

nothing it has nothing to do with anything and that’s exactly what you

anything and that’s exactly what you

anything and that’s exactly what you need to get through your head that

need to get through your head that

need to get through your head that everything doesn’t have to have some

everything doesn’t have to have some

everything doesn’t have to have some SuperDuper purpose

SuperDuper purpose

SuperDuper purpose [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] it’s okay just stop right the middle

it’s okay just stop right the middle

it’s okay just stop right the middle some work and just have a little bit of

some work and just have a little bit of

some work and just have a little bit of fun

fun

fun matter of fact you could laugh it

matter of fact you could laugh it

matter of fact you could laugh it yourself and lighten up your life a

yourself and lighten up your life a

yourself and lighten up your life a whole lot thank you guys so much for

whole lot thank you guys so much for

whole lot thank you guys so much for watching I hope you enjoyed I’d love to

watching I hope you enjoyed I’d love to

watching I hope you enjoyed I’d love to know what was your paper clip what

know what was your paper clip what

know what was your paper clip what resonated the most with you what are you

resonated the most with you what are you

resonated the most with you what are you going to take from this video and

going to take from this video and

going to take from this video and immediately apply to your life or your

immediately apply to your life or your

immediately apply to your life or your business somehow please leave it down in

business somehow please leave it down in

business somehow please leave it down in the comments I’m super curious to find

the comments I’m super curious to find

the comments I’m super curious to find out thank you guys again for watching I

out thank you guys again for watching I

out thank you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to

believe in you I hope you continue to

believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your

believe in yourself and whatever your

believe in yourself and whatever your one word is much love I’ll see you soon