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Gabrielle Bernstein’s Top 10 Rules For Success (@GabbyBernstein)


fear is a resistance to what it is that

fear is a resistance to what it is that you desire and in the absence of

you desire and in the absence of

you desire and in the absence of resistance you become a magnet for what

resistance you become a magnet for what

resistance you become a magnet for what you desire your successes will come when

you desire your successes will come when

you desire your successes will come when you commit to joy when you commit to

you commit to joy when you commit to

you commit to joy when you commit to happiness you could say all the right

happiness you could say all the right

happiness you could say all the right things but if you don’t think it if you

things but if you don’t think it if you

things but if you don’t think it if you don’t transform and clean up your

don’t transform and clean up your

don’t transform and clean up your thinking then you’re literally polluting

thinking then you’re literally polluting

thinking then you’re literally polluting the planet

the planet

the planet she’s a motivational speaker life coach

she’s a motivational speaker life coach

she’s a motivational speaker life coach and spirit junkie she’s a New York Times

and spirit junkie she’s a New York Times

and spirit junkie she’s a New York Times bestselling author of the universe has

bestselling author of the universe has

bestselling author of the universe has your back her flagship course the spirit

your back her flagship course the spirit

your back her flagship course the spirit junkie master class empowered people to

junkie master class empowered people to

junkie master class empowered people to live their best self she’s Gabrielle

live their best self she’s Gabrielle

live their best self she’s Gabrielle Bernstein and here’s my take on our top

Bernstein and here’s my take on our top

Bernstein and here’s my take on our top ten rules of success rule number one is

ten rules of success rule number one is

ten rules of success rule number one is my personal favorite and I’d love to

my personal favorite and I’d love to

my personal favorite and I’d love to know which one you guys like the best

know which one you guys like the best

know which one you guys like the best and as always as you’re watching if you

and as always as you’re watching if you

and as always as you’re watching if you hear something that really resonates

hear something that really resonates

hear something that really resonates with you please leave it in the comments

with you please leave it in the comments

with you please leave it in the comments below for cool to rent it to other

below for cool to rent it to other

below for cool to rent it to other people can be inspired as well and when

people can be inspired as well and when

people can be inspired as well and when you write it down it’s much more likely

you write it down it’s much more likely

you write it down it’s much more likely to stick with you as well enjoy

don’t wait go do it

don’t wait go do it act now I’m really accepting we need you

act now I’m really accepting we need you

act now I’m really accepting we need you we need you we need you you are the 1%

we need you we need you you are the 1%

we need you we need you you are the 1% you’re the percent that says I’m going

you’re the percent that says I’m going

you’re the percent that says I’m going to wake up you are the light workers you

to wake up you are the light workers you

to wake up you are the light workers you are the ones that have accepted this

are the ones that have accepted this

are the ones that have accepted this call in this lifetime at this time you

call in this lifetime at this time you

call in this lifetime at this time you have decided to wake up and chosen to

have decided to wake up and chosen to

have decided to wake up and chosen to say yes I’m here to be a greater service

say yes I’m here to be a greater service

say yes I’m here to be a greater service and just to feed myself right I’m here

and just to feed myself right I’m here

and just to feed myself right I’m here to feed the world I’m here to give love

to feed the world I’m here to give love

to feed the world I’m here to give love I’m here to be an expression of that

I’m here to be an expression of that

I’m here to be an expression of that truth don’t hold that back

truth don’t hold that back

truth don’t hold that back don’t play small we can’t we need you

don’t play small we can’t we need you

don’t play small we can’t we need you and so really if you are anyone in this

and so really if you are anyone in this

and so really if you are anyone in this room who has been sitting on that book

room who has been sitting on that book

room who has been sitting on that book idea waiting a little bit longer before

idea waiting a little bit longer before

idea waiting a little bit longer before you start that teacher training or doing

you start that teacher training or doing

you start that teacher training or doing ten more teacher trainings before you

ten more teacher trainings before you

ten more teacher trainings before you actually teach if that’s you guys start

actually teach if that’s you guys start

actually teach if that’s you guys start and the pressure will be off I can’t

and the pressure will be off I can’t

and the pressure will be off I can’t begin to tell you I could cry to saying

begin to tell you I could cry to saying

begin to tell you I could cry to saying that the mo the day I taught you go

that the mo the day I taught you go

that the mo the day I taught you go Eradicator I was two weeks into my

Eradicator I was two weeks into my

Eradicator I was two weeks into my teacher training and I said f it let’s

teacher training and I said f it let’s

teacher training and I said f it let’s go and I just went and I felt so much

go and I just went and I felt so much

go and I just went and I felt so much pressure off I felt so much lift because

pressure off I felt so much lift because

pressure off I felt so much lift because I just knew I felt this technology must

I just knew I felt this technology must

I just knew I felt this technology must be shared I can’t hold it I can’t keep

be shared I can’t hold it I can’t keep

be shared I can’t hold it I can’t keep it for myself I can’t just sit in my

it for myself I can’t just sit in my

it for myself I can’t just sit in my apartment by myself like this I gotta

apartment by myself like this I gotta

apartment by myself like this I gotta give this and sharing it the pressure

give this and sharing it the pressure

give this and sharing it the pressure there just lifted it was like oh thank

there just lifted it was like oh thank

there just lifted it was like oh thank you thank you thank you and I wasn’t the

you thank you thank you and I wasn’t the

you thank you thank you and I wasn’t the perfect teacher and I look back and I

perfect teacher and I look back and I

perfect teacher and I look back and I was teaching he’s already Kate or wrong

was teaching he’s already Kate or wrong

was teaching he’s already Kate or wrong everyone’s arms were like this everyone

everyone’s arms were like this everyone

everyone’s arms were like this everyone was breathing backwards it was a mess

was breathing backwards it was a mess

was breathing backwards it was a mess but I did it and I started and in those

but I did it and I started and in those

but I did it and I started and in those moments when we just get to go just go

moments when we just get to go just go

moments when we just get to go just go the pressure is off and then we clear

the pressure is off and then we clear

the pressure is off and then we clear the past and we are guided to the next

the past and we are guided to the next

the past and we are guided to the next right action and that is the most

right action and that is the most

right action and that is the most magnificent thing that could you right

magnificent thing that could you right

magnificent thing that could you right now Wow what’s the first step to

now Wow what’s the first step to

now Wow what’s the first step to overcoming the fear or transforming this

overcoming the fear or transforming this

overcoming the fear or transforming this fear hmm to witness it to be to be the

fear hmm to witness it to be to be the

fear hmm to witness it to be to be the non-judgmental witness of it to look at

non-judgmental witness of it to look at

non-judgmental witness of it to look at it and say something’s got to give

it and say something’s got to give

it and say something’s got to give right so so

right so so

right so so if you’re unwilling to look at your fear

if you’re unwilling to look at your fear

if you’re unwilling to look at your fear head-on and honor it and and witnessed I

head-on and honor it and and witnessed I

head-on and honor it and and witnessed I always say if you don’t show up for

always say if you don’t show up for

always say if you don’t show up for what’s up it will keep showing up so

what’s up it will keep showing up so

what’s up it will keep showing up so looking and saying you know I witness my

looking and saying you know I witness my

looking and saying you know I witness my resistance and you see that fear as

resistance and you see that fear as

resistance and you see that fear as resistance it’s right it’s fear as a

resistance it’s right it’s fear as a

resistance it’s right it’s fear as a resistance to what it is that you desire

resistance to what it is that you desire

resistance to what it is that you desire and in the absence of resistance you

and in the absence of resistance you

and in the absence of resistance you become a magnet for what you desire when

become a magnet for what you desire when

become a magnet for what you desire when you let go of that fear and you

you let go of that fear and you

you let go of that fear and you transcend that fear that’s when you

transcend that fear that’s when you

transcend that fear that’s when you start to become a super attractor that’s

start to become a super attractor that’s

start to become a super attractor that’s when you start to let what is truly of

when you start to let what is truly of

when you start to let what is truly of essence for you into your life what is

essence for you into your life what is

essence for you into your life what is truly of service for you into your life

truly of service for you into your life

truly of service for you into your life what is true happiness into your life

what is true happiness into your life

what is true happiness into your life and so looking at the fear witnessing it

and so looking at the fear witnessing it

and so looking at the fear witnessing it calling it by its name and even if you

calling it by its name and even if you

calling it by its name and even if you don’t have the tools yet what happens is

don’t have the tools yet what happens is

don’t have the tools yet what happens is when you look at the fear and you’re

when you look at the fear and you’re

when you look at the fear and you’re like oh I see this fear I see this

like oh I see this fear I see this

like oh I see this fear I see this resistance I see how it’s blocking my

resistance I see how it’s blocking my

resistance I see how it’s blocking my life and I choose to see it differently

life and I choose to see it differently

life and I choose to see it differently that’s when you’re listening to an audio

that’s when you’re listening to an audio

that’s when you’re listening to an audio like this that’s in a book like yours

like this that’s in a book like yours

like this that’s in a book like yours will fall off the shelf the catalyst

will fall off the shelf the catalyst

will fall off the shelf the catalyst yeah you know exactly you open up your

yeah you know exactly you open up your

yeah you know exactly you open up your consciousness pretty much you crack open

consciousness pretty much you crack open

consciousness pretty much you crack open your consciousness to find solutions

your consciousness to find solutions

your consciousness to find solutions rather than find problems and so when

rather than find problems and so when

rather than find problems and so when you’re not looking at the theory you’re

you’re not looking at the theory you’re

you’re not looking at the theory you’re just living in the fear and you’re

just living in the fear and you’re

just living in the fear and you’re believing in the problem but when you

believing in the problem but when you

believing in the problem but when you witness the fear are you willing to see

witness the fear are you willing to see

witness the fear are you willing to see it differently you start living in the

it differently you start living in the

it differently you start living in the solution as I commit to happiness fully

solution as I commit to happiness fully

solution as I commit to happiness fully exactly what I need is coming towards me

exactly what I need is coming towards me

exactly what I need is coming towards me because I become a magnet I become an

because I become a magnet I become an

because I become a magnet I become an energy field that is so magnetizing that

energy field that is so magnetizing that

energy field that is so magnetizing that is so excited that’s so inspired that

is so excited that’s so inspired that

is so excited that’s so inspired that other people want to support and work

other people want to support and work

other people want to support and work with that energy and so when we dwell in

with that energy and so when we dwell in

with that energy and so when we dwell in the energy of joy and happiness we

the energy of joy and happiness we

the energy of joy and happiness we become a magnet for that which we desire

become a magnet for that which we desire

become a magnet for that which we desire so my hope for you all is to start to

so my hope for you all is to start to

so my hope for you all is to start to think about the things that you want to

think about the things that you want to

think about the things that you want to succeed in whether it’s succeeding in

succeed in whether it’s succeeding in

succeed in whether it’s succeeding in romantic relationships or succeeding in

romantic relationships or succeeding in

romantic relationships or succeeding in your career or succeeding in your health

your career or succeeding in your health

your career or succeeding in your health goals and make a commitment today to

goals and make a commitment today to

goals and make a commitment today to bring more joy to that area of your life

bring more joy to that area of your life

bring more joy to that area of your life rather than seeing it as a struggle

rather than seeing it as a struggle

rather than seeing it as a struggle rather than pushing forward with all

rather than pushing forward with all

rather than pushing forward with all this angst and negativity and neediness

this angst and negativity and neediness

this angst and negativity and neediness and control just bring joy to it your

and control just bring joy to it your

and control just bring joy to it your successes will come when you commit to

successes will come when you commit to

successes will come when you commit to joy when you commit to happiness

joy when you commit to happiness

joy when you commit to happiness so find more joy in that physical

so find more joy in that physical

so find more joy in that physical exercise I’ve been going to SoulCycle I

exercise I’ve been going to SoulCycle I

exercise I’ve been going to SoulCycle I absolutely love it it’s so joyful for me

absolutely love it it’s so joyful for me

absolutely love it it’s so joyful for me and

and

and helping me raise my but because that was

helping me raise my but because that was

helping me raise my but because that was one of my goals and success and and then

one of my goals and success and and then

one of my goals and success and and then we have these moments where we want to

we have these moments where we want to

we have these moments where we want to really bring joy into our career well if

really bring joy into our career well if

really bring joy into our career well if you’re having a hard time in the office

you’re having a hard time in the office

you’re having a hard time in the office just find ways to have more fun and as

just find ways to have more fun and as

just find ways to have more fun and as we start to elevate that presence of joy

we start to elevate that presence of joy

we start to elevate that presence of joy we will begin to magnetize the successes

we will begin to magnetize the successes

we will begin to magnetize the successes in our life and so take this very

in our life and so take this very

in our life and so take this very seriously bring this practice into your

seriously bring this practice into your

seriously bring this practice into your day-to-day experiences and make joy and

day-to-day experiences and make joy and

day-to-day experiences and make joy and happiness your number one priority

happiness your number one priority

happiness your number one priority and recognize how your successes will be

and recognize how your successes will be

and recognize how your successes will be brought to you in a form far greater

brought to you in a form far greater

brought to you in a form far greater than you could ever imagine when your

than you could ever imagine when your

than you could ever imagine when your primary focus is happiness once you make

primary focus is happiness once you make

primary focus is happiness once you make that willingness to change the book

that willingness to change the book

that willingness to change the book falls off the shelf or the teacher shows

falls off the shelf or the teacher shows

falls off the shelf or the teacher shows up in a form that you could have never

up in a form that you could have never

up in a form that you could have never imagined or you hear something on the

imagined or you hear something on the

imagined or you hear something on the radio or you meet a cab driver or some

radio or you meet a cab driver or some

radio or you meet a cab driver or some enlightened conversation comes into your

enlightened conversation comes into your

enlightened conversation comes into your realm that all of a sudden is that shift

realm that all of a sudden is that shift

realm that all of a sudden is that shift that you needed to make that change and

that you needed to make that change and

that you needed to make that change and create that catalyst that becomes your

create that catalyst that becomes your

create that catalyst that becomes your greatest accomplishment your greatest

greatest accomplishment your greatest

greatest accomplishment your greatest shift and so that’s all we need at first

shift and so that’s all we need at first

shift and so that’s all we need at first is that slight willingness that

is that slight willingness that

is that slight willingness that willingness that I had that desire to

willingness that I had that desire to

willingness that I had that desire to change that moment to shift with all I

change that moment to shift with all I

change that moment to shift with all I needed to become the woman I am today to

needed to become the woman I am today to

needed to become the woman I am today to live that life beyond my wildest dreams

live that life beyond my wildest dreams

live that life beyond my wildest dreams and so when I became ready I opened up

and so when I became ready I opened up

and so when I became ready I opened up and I said okay I’m ready for change but

and I said okay I’m ready for change but

and I said okay I’m ready for change but what’s beautiful and was the main

what’s beautiful and was the main

what’s beautiful and was the main purpose of what I teach is that once you

purpose of what I teach is that once you

purpose of what I teach is that once you make that decision to change you do not

make that decision to change you do not

make that decision to change you do not have to do it by yourself you cannot be

have to do it by yourself you cannot be

have to do it by yourself you cannot be expected to make these changes on your

expected to make these changes on your

expected to make these changes on your own all you need is that slight

own all you need is that slight

own all you need is that slight willingness presenting somebody else

willingness presenting somebody else

willingness presenting somebody else you’re really just unconsciously

you’re really just unconsciously

you’re really just unconsciously resenting yourself so witnessing very

resenting yourself so witnessing very

resenting yourself so witnessing very quickly who do I need to forgive is it

quickly who do I need to forgive is it

quickly who do I need to forgive is it me is it somebody else

me is it somebody else

me is it somebody else and very quickly turning it back on to

and very quickly turning it back on to

and very quickly turning it back on to you and choosing the pathway of

you and choosing the pathway of

you and choosing the pathway of forgiveness forgiving yourself for

forgiveness forgiving yourself for

forgiveness forgiving yourself for having a judgmental thought forgiving

having a judgmental thought forgiving

having a judgmental thought forgiving yourself for being in attack forgiving

yourself for being in attack forgiving

yourself for being in attack forgiving yourself for having a feeling that is

yourself for having a feeling that is

yourself for having a feeling that is untimed forgiving yourself for being

untimed forgiving yourself for being

untimed forgiving yourself for being judgmental towards yourself or tapping

judgmental towards yourself or tapping

judgmental towards yourself or tapping towards itself whatever is up for you in

towards itself whatever is up for you in

towards itself whatever is up for you in the moment just practice the f-word and

the moment just practice the f-word and

the moment just practice the f-word and if you can’t get to the feeling of

if you can’t get to the feeling of

if you can’t get to the feeling of forgiving yourself say

forgiving yourself say

forgiving yourself say you are willing to forgive yourself just

you are willing to forgive yourself just

you are willing to forgive yourself just saying in that moment I am willing to

saying in that moment I am willing to

saying in that moment I am willing to forgive myself for X Y Z I’m willing to

forgive myself for X Y Z I’m willing to

forgive myself for X Y Z I’m willing to forgive myself for being in this bad

forgive myself for being in this bad

forgive myself for being in this bad mood I’m willing to forgive myself for

mood I’m willing to forgive myself for

mood I’m willing to forgive myself for what I just said I’m willing to forgive

what I just said I’m willing to forgive

what I just said I’m willing to forgive myself for what I’m holding on to and

myself for what I’m holding on to and

myself for what I’m holding on to and just opening yourself up to the practice

just opening yourself up to the practice

just opening yourself up to the practice of self forgiveness will change your

of self forgiveness will change your

of self forgiveness will change your mood and your energy in a minute or less

mood and your energy in a minute or less

mood and your energy in a minute or less I swear by this this is probably the key

I swear by this this is probably the key

I swear by this this is probably the key to my freedom my happiness my successes

to my freedom my happiness my successes

to my freedom my happiness my successes is my willingness to forgive myself so

is my willingness to forgive myself so

is my willingness to forgive myself so take that in and really own that for you

take that in and really own that for you

take that in and really own that for you and practice the f-word all the time so

and practice the f-word all the time so

and practice the f-word all the time so the next time you notice yourself in a

the next time you notice yourself in a

the next time you notice yourself in a bad mood it might just be right in this

bad mood it might just be right in this

bad mood it might just be right in this moment right now to say I’m willing to

moment right now to say I’m willing to

moment right now to say I’m willing to forgive myself and see what unfolds see

forgive myself and see what unfolds see

forgive myself and see what unfolds see how your energy changes see how your

how your energy changes see how your

how your energy changes see how your feelings begin to shift and see that bad

feelings begin to shift and see that bad

feelings begin to shift and see that bad mood just dissipate instantly there are

mood just dissipate instantly there are

mood just dissipate instantly there are no idle thoughts so if you want to live

no idle thoughts so if you want to live

no idle thoughts so if you want to live a mindful life you have to recognize the

a mindful life you have to recognize the

a mindful life you have to recognize the magnitude of your thinking if you’re

magnitude of your thinking if you’re

magnitude of your thinking if you’re sitting here and you’re you know you’re

sitting here and you’re you know you’re

sitting here and you’re you know you’re judging your your loved ones you’re

judging your your loved ones you’re

judging your your loved ones you’re judging a friend you’re weakening your

judging a friend you’re weakening your

judging a friend you’re weakening your own energy and you’re weakening there’s

own energy and you’re weakening there’s

own energy and you’re weakening there’s every being around you in some ways

every being around you in some ways

every being around you in some ways picking up the frequency of your

picking up the frequency of your

picking up the frequency of your thoughts some people are looking

thoughts some people are looking

thoughts some people are looking perplexed like what the hell is she

perplexed like what the hell is she

perplexed like what the hell is she talking about right now I can hear your

talking about right now I can hear your

talking about right now I can hear your thoughts I got I know exactly what

thoughts I got I know exactly what

thoughts I got I know exactly what you’re thinking it’s not that I can hear

you’re thinking it’s not that I can hear

you’re thinking it’s not that I can hear it that I can feel it think about it you

it that I can feel it think about it you

it that I can feel it think about it you know you could be in those relationships

know you could be in those relationships

know you could be in those relationships for like you’re your boss and you know

for like you’re your boss and you know

for like you’re your boss and you know you do everything perfectly but in your

you do everything perfectly but in your

you do everything perfectly but in your head you like I hate you I hate you I

head you like I hate you I hate you I

head you like I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you and they just they

hate you I hate you and they just they

hate you I hate you and they just they don’t want to promote you they don’t

don’t want to promote you they don’t

don’t want to promote you they don’t want to support you there’s constant

want to support you there’s constant

want to support you there’s constant tension within the relationship you

tension within the relationship you

tension within the relationship you could say all the right things but if

could say all the right things but if

could say all the right things but if you don’t think it if you don’t

you don’t think it if you don’t

you don’t think it if you don’t transform and clean up your thinking

transform and clean up your thinking

transform and clean up your thinking then you’re literally polluting the

then you’re literally polluting the

then you’re literally polluting the planet so first and foremost what I

planet so first and foremost what I

planet so first and foremost what I think about what we’re thinking and so

think about what we’re thinking and so

think about what we’re thinking and so how do we change those thoughts because

how do we change those thoughts because

how do we change those thoughts because you have you think okay that sounds

you have you think okay that sounds

you have you think okay that sounds great but like I’m down Negative Nancy

great but like I’m down Negative Nancy

great but like I’m down Negative Nancy lein and I don’t know how to change

lein and I don’t know how to change

lein and I don’t know how to change direction how do I make a u-turn alright

direction how do I make a u-turn alright

direction how do I make a u-turn alright so some simple tools

so some simple tools

so some simple tools first and foremost witness it yesterday

first and foremost witness it yesterday

first and foremost witness it yesterday I was saying this look look at you’re

I was saying this look look at you’re

I was saying this look look at you’re crazy and call it by its name it’s fear

crazy and call it by its name it’s fear

crazy and call it by its name it’s fear when you see those crazy thoughts show

when you see those crazy thoughts show

when you see those crazy thoughts show up in your life when you hear those

up in your life when you hear those

up in your life when you hear those thoughts of I’m not good enough I’m

thoughts of I’m not good enough I’m

thoughts of I’m not good enough I’m better than that person is terrible

better than that person is terrible

better than that person is terrible I have two choices I can continue down

I have two choices I can continue down

I have two choices I can continue down the road I can continue down that dark

the road I can continue down that dark

the road I can continue down that dark path or I can actually pivot I can

path or I can actually pivot I can

path or I can actually pivot I can redirect I can choose again so let’s

redirect I can choose again so let’s

redirect I can choose again so let’s just play it out you’re walking around

just play it out you’re walking around

just play it out you’re walking around wanderlust and somebody cuts you in line

wanderlust and somebody cuts you in line

wanderlust and somebody cuts you in line to the pizza truck and you know I’d be

to the pizza truck and you know I’d be

to the pizza truck and you know I’d be pissed somebody caught me a lot of that

pissed somebody caught me a lot of that

pissed somebody caught me a lot of that pieces drop and and you want to go like

pieces drop and and you want to go like

pieces drop and and you want to go like five a copy a lie to put it in that

five a copy a lie to put it in that

five a copy a lie to put it in that space notice your angst witness your

space notice your angst witness your

space notice your angst witness your story and instead of thinking I’m going

story and instead of thinking I’m going

story and instead of thinking I’m going to fight back think that is a call for

to fight back think that is a call for

to fight back think that is a call for love anyone who has the audacity to cut

love anyone who has the audacity to cut

love anyone who has the audacity to cut me in the pizza line but seriously like

me in the pizza line but seriously like

me in the pizza line but seriously like anyone that’s rude because I I cut in

anyone that’s rude because I I cut in

anyone that’s rude because I I cut in the piece of line sometimes like I’m a

the piece of line sometimes like I’m a

the piece of line sometimes like I’m a cutter III Electric I lives with it oh

cutter III Electric I lives with it oh

cutter III Electric I lives with it oh really what is it it’s my own insecurity

really what is it it’s my own insecurity

really what is it it’s my own insecurity be like I got to show people that I can

be like I got to show people that I can

be like I got to show people that I can get ahead of the line or whatever it is

get ahead of the line or whatever it is

get ahead of the line or whatever it is right seeing anything like that is their

right seeing anything like that is their

right seeing anything like that is their call for love that’s their

call for love that’s their

call for love that’s their unconsciousness that’s their that’s

unconsciousness that’s their that’s

unconsciousness that’s their that’s their that’s a lack of mindfulness

their that’s a lack of mindfulness

their that’s a lack of mindfulness really really feel what it would feel

really really feel what it would feel

really really feel what it would feel like to be in the action of what it is

like to be in the action of what it is

like to be in the action of what it is that you’re dreaming of and what does

that you’re dreaming of and what does

that you’re dreaming of and what does that feel like to be the on the career

that feel like to be the on the career

that feel like to be the on the career path that is your dream or what does it

path that is your dream or what does it

path that is your dream or what does it feel like to be doing the work in the

feel like to be doing the work in the

feel like to be doing the work in the world that you’ve been so long and to

world that you’ve been so long and to

world that you’ve been so long and to bring forth or what does it feel like to

bring forth or what does it feel like to

bring forth or what does it feel like to be spreading an empowering message in a

be spreading an empowering message in a

be spreading an empowering message in a unique and innovative way and in the

unique and innovative way and in the

unique and innovative way and in the process of gathering those feelings we

process of gathering those feelings we

process of gathering those feelings we do it through meditation sit in your

do it through meditation sit in your

do it through meditation sit in your meditation for two to three minutes a

meditation for two to three minutes a

meditation for two to three minutes a day and just allow yourself to cultivate

day and just allow yourself to cultivate

day and just allow yourself to cultivate the feeling of what it is that you

the feeling of what it is that you

the feeling of what it is that you desire I have had many experiences

desire I have had many experiences

desire I have had many experiences throughout my life where I’ve just

throughout my life where I’ve just

throughout my life where I’ve just allowed myself to be in the feeling of

allowed myself to be in the feeling of

allowed myself to be in the feeling of service or in the feeling of excitement

service or in the feeling of excitement

service or in the feeling of excitement of seeing myself on a stage or in the

of seeing myself on a stage or in the

of seeing myself on a stage or in the feeling of seeing myself sitting next to

feeling of seeing myself sitting next to

feeling of seeing myself sitting next to Oprah doing an interview and all of

Oprah doing an interview and all of

Oprah doing an interview and all of those emotional feelings that came forth

those emotional feelings that came forth

those emotional feelings that came forth in my meditations became the

in my meditations became the

in my meditations became the manifestations of my life to take very

manifestations of my life to take very

manifestations of my life to take very seriously the thoughts and the feelings

seriously the thoughts and the feelings

seriously the thoughts and the feelings when we start to shift our perception

when we start to shift our perception

when we start to shift our perception when we start to see things with a

when we start to see things with a

when we start to see things with a better person

better person

better person when we start to see our experiences as

when we start to see our experiences as

when we start to see our experiences as obstacles turning into opportunities or

obstacles turning into opportunities or

obstacles turning into opportunities or a resentment as a divine assignment to

a resentment as a divine assignment to

a resentment as a divine assignment to forgive more or a moment of lack as an

forgive more or a moment of lack as an

forgive more or a moment of lack as an opportunity to focus on what we’re

opportunity to focus on what we’re

opportunity to focus on what we’re grateful for rather than focus on what

grateful for rather than focus on what

grateful for rather than focus on what we don’t have we start to make these

we don’t have we start to make these

we don’t have we start to make these shifts within our life what begins to

shifts within our life what begins to

shifts within our life what begins to happen is that we begin to have more

happen is that we begin to have more

happen is that we begin to have more faith in that way of being and so the

faith in that way of being and so the

faith in that way of being and so the neat thing that occurs and this has been

neat thing that occurs and this has been

neat thing that occurs and this has been my experience that has six years of

my experience that has six years of

my experience that has six years of practicing the life of a spirit junkie

practicing the life of a spirit junkie

practicing the life of a spirit junkie is that now my choices my

is that now my choices my

is that now my choices my moment-to-moment choices are choosing

moment-to-moment choices are choosing

moment-to-moment choices are choosing more of a positive perspective when

more of a positive perspective when

more of a positive perspective when there’s traffic my first thought is okay

there’s traffic my first thought is okay

there’s traffic my first thought is okay I welcome the traffic to go I try to

I welcome the traffic to go I try to

I welcome the traffic to go I try to start to think about the ways or if I’m

start to think about the ways or if I’m

start to think about the ways or if I’m supposed to be late maybe I’m meant to

supposed to be late maybe I’m meant to

supposed to be late maybe I’m meant to be there late maybe there’s something

be there late maybe there’s something

be there late maybe there’s something greater coming or something doesn’t

greater coming or something doesn’t

greater coming or something doesn’t happen the exact way that I believe it

happen the exact way that I believe it

happen the exact way that I believe it should happen I know and my first

should happen I know and my first

should happen I know and my first thought is there’s something way greater

thought is there’s something way greater

thought is there’s something way greater coming so this is just two types of

coming so this is just two types of

coming so this is just two types of types of miracles that occur in the ways

types of miracles that occur in the ways

types of miracles that occur in the ways that your mind begins to shift when you

that your mind begins to shift when you

that your mind begins to shift when you start to practice these principles in

start to practice these principles in

start to practice these principles in your every corner of your life I think

your every corner of your life I think

your every corner of your life I think it’s really valuable for us to recognize

it’s really valuable for us to recognize

it’s really valuable for us to recognize that we when we’re on a spiritual path

that we when we’re on a spiritual path

that we when we’re on a spiritual path that’s our path but is not for everybody

that’s our path but is not for everybody

that’s our path but is not for everybody and not everyone wants to know every

and not everyone wants to know every

and not everyone wants to know every detail of our path we have to trust that

detail of our path we have to trust that

detail of our path we have to trust that our shift in perception are energetic

our shift in perception are energetic

our shift in perception are energetic changes are the raising of our own

changes are the raising of our own

changes are the raising of our own energy will help raise the energy of

energy will help raise the energy of

energy will help raise the energy of other people around us and hopefully

other people around us and hopefully

other people around us and hopefully we’ll start to see how we are no longer

we’ll start to see how we are no longer

we’ll start to see how we are no longer an energetic match for the people that

an energetic match for the people that

an energetic match for the people that don’t think and feel the way that we

don’t think and feel the way that we

don’t think and feel the way that we feel and so slowly we’ll begin to see

feel and so slowly we’ll begin to see

feel and so slowly we’ll begin to see those folks begin to melt away we’ll see

those folks begin to melt away we’ll see

those folks begin to melt away we’ll see them disappear we’ll see them fall off

them disappear we’ll see them fall off

them disappear we’ll see them fall off in our lives and we’ll see some of our

in our lives and we’ll see some of our

in our lives and we’ll see some of our relationships begin to change and

relationships begin to change and

relationships begin to change and sometimes it’s a little bit alarming for

sometimes it’s a little bit alarming for

sometimes it’s a little bit alarming for people but it’s actually a good sign

people but it’s actually a good sign

people but it’s actually a good sign it’s a sign that you are not stuck in

it’s a sign that you are not stuck in

it’s a sign that you are not stuck in that pattern anymore it’s a sign that

that pattern anymore it’s a sign that

that pattern anymore it’s a sign that your desire to change has been lifted

your desire to change has been lifted

your desire to change has been lifted and that you now are vibrating in a new

and that you now are vibrating in a new

and that you now are vibrating in a new frequency and those relationships will

frequency and those relationships will

frequency and those relationships will melt away

melt away

melt away if those relationships are still coming

if those relationships are still coming

if those relationships are still coming up for you while you’re in this path of

up for you while you’re in this path of

up for you while you’re in this path of transformation

transformation

transformation what I often say is rather than pointing

what I often say is rather than pointing

what I often say is rather than pointing the finger at those people saying oh

the finger at those people saying oh

the finger at those people saying oh you’re ruining my life you’re making

you’re ruining my life you’re making

you’re ruining my life you’re making things difficult my hope and my

things difficult my hope and my

things difficult my hope and my intention for you would be that you

intention for you would be that you

intention for you would be that you begin to look at those folks and say

begin to look at those folks and say

begin to look at those folks and say what is it about me that is still

what is it about me that is still

what is it about me that is still triggered by their behavior what is it

triggered by their behavior what is it

triggered by their behavior what is it in me that may be attracting this type

in me that may be attracting this type

in me that may be attracting this type of person into my life

of person into my life

of person into my life what is it within me that is still

what is it within me that is still

what is it within me that is still calling in this kind of experience and

calling in this kind of experience and

calling in this kind of experience and so get honest with yourself what is it

so get honest with yourself what is it

so get honest with yourself what is it within me that’s calling this in how am

within me that’s calling this in how am

within me that’s calling this in how am i participating in this and how is this

i participating in this and how is this

i participating in this and how is this experience coming from a dark corner

experience coming from a dark corner

experience coming from a dark corner within my psyche and recognizing that

within my psyche and recognizing that

within my psyche and recognizing that the outside world is always reflecting

the outside world is always reflecting

the outside world is always reflecting our internal condition and recognizing

our internal condition and recognizing

our internal condition and recognizing the mirror that people are always

the mirror that people are always

the mirror that people are always mirroring back to us what we are feeling

mirroring back to us what we are feeling

mirroring back to us what we are feeling so if she has people coming up into her

so if she has people coming up into her

so if she has people coming up into her life negative friends people that are

life negative friends people that are

life negative friends people that are jealous

jealous

jealous she says negative people randomly

she says negative people randomly

she says negative people randomly popping back in and she wants to keep

popping back in and she wants to keep

popping back in and she wants to keep them in a distance so the real work is

them in a distance so the real work is

them in a distance so the real work is to just open and rev up your practice

to just open and rev up your practice

to just open and rev up your practice pray for them extend light to them and

pray for them extend light to them and

pray for them extend light to them and sometimes politely excuse yourself from

sometimes politely excuse yourself from

sometimes politely excuse yourself from the experience sometimes we have to

the experience sometimes we have to

the experience sometimes we have to remove ourselves from those experiences

remove ourselves from those experiences

remove ourselves from those experiences and then most importantly ask yourself

and then most importantly ask yourself

and then most importantly ask yourself what is it within me that may be

what is it within me that may be

what is it within me that may be attracting some of this behavior get

attracting some of this behavior get

attracting some of this behavior get honest with yourself okay

honest with yourself okay

honest with yourself okay no matter what’s up choose to show up

no matter what’s up choose to show up

no matter what’s up choose to show up with love to just show up with grace now

with love to just show up with grace now

with love to just show up with grace now something really tough is up maybe just

something really tough is up maybe just

something really tough is up maybe just choose to show up with self compassion

choose to show up with self compassion

choose to show up with self compassion if you’re going through something I’m

if you’re going through something I’m

if you’re going through something I’m not going to sit here and recommend if

not going to sit here and recommend if

not going to sit here and recommend if you’re going through a traumatic period

you’re going through a traumatic period

you’re going through a traumatic period in your life I’m not going to recommend

in your life I’m not going to recommend

in your life I’m not going to recommend that you wake up and you’re like it’s

that you wake up and you’re like it’s

that you wake up and you’re like it’s rainbows and butterflies and Gabby

rainbows and butterflies and Gabby

rainbows and butterflies and Gabby Bernstein spirit junkie app no that’s

Bernstein spirit junkie app no that’s

Bernstein spirit junkie app no that’s not what I’m going to match that’s not

not what I’m going to match that’s not

not what I’m going to match that’s not what I’m going to recommend what I’m

what I’m going to recommend what I’m

what I’m going to recommend what I’m going to recommend is you wake up and

going to recommend is you wake up and

going to recommend is you wake up and you say I’m going to choose to see

you say I’m going to choose to see

you say I’m going to choose to see myself with love today I’m going to

myself with love today I’m going to

myself with love today I’m going to choose to be compassionate and kind to

choose to be compassionate and kind to

choose to be compassionate and kind to myself today I’m going to go slow today

myself today I’m going to go slow today

myself today I’m going to go slow today but that’s still a very very mindful

but that’s still a very very mindful

but that’s still a very very mindful morning okay so more in the morning is

morning okay so more in the morning is

morning okay so more in the morning is probably the most crucial time to be

probably the most crucial time to be

probably the most crucial time to be conscious of your mindfulness and show

conscious of your mindfulness and show

conscious of your mindfulness and show up with grace and show up with love and

up with grace and show up with love and

up with grace and show up with love and bring it bring it bring it bring it in

bring it bring it bring it bring it in

bring it bring it bring it bring it in the morning

thank you guys so much for watching I

thank you guys so much for watching I made this video because Kim asked me to

made this video because Kim asked me to

made this video because Kim asked me to also if you want to nominate someone for

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you can vote for people and put in your

you can vote for people and put in your suggestions as well I’d love to know

suggestions as well I’d love to know

suggestions as well I’d love to know what did you take from this video what

what did you take from this video what

what did you take from this video what was the most important lesson that you

was the most important lesson that you

was the most important lesson that you learned that blew your mind that you’re

learned that blew your mind that you’re

learned that blew your mind that you’re going to immediately apply to your life

going to immediately apply to your life

going to immediately apply to your life or your business somehow please leave it

or your business somehow please leave it

or your business somehow please leave it down the comments below

down the comments below

down the comments below I’m super curious to find out I also

I’m super curious to find out I also

I’m super curious to find out I also want to give a quick shout out to Steph

want to give a quick shout out to Steph

want to give a quick shout out to Steph Reverend Steph thank you so much for

Reverend Steph thank you so much for

Reverend Steph thank you so much for breaking up a copy of my book your one

breaking up a copy of my book your one

breaking up a copy of my book your one word and post another great picture to

word and post another great picture to

word and post another great picture to Instagram I really appreciate the

Instagram I really appreciate the

Instagram I really appreciate the support and I’m glad you’re enjoying the

support and I’m glad you’re enjoying the

support and I’m glad you’re enjoying the read so thank you guys again for

read so thank you guys again for

read so thank you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope you

watching I believe in you I hope you

watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself

continue to believe in yourself

continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one word is much love

and whatever your one word is much love

and whatever your one word is much love I’ll season

it’s very easy to show up to work

it’s very easy to show up to work everyday and say I hate this I can’t

everyday and say I hate this I can’t

everyday and say I hate this I can’t stand my boss I hate sitting next to the

stand my boss I hate sitting next to the

stand my boss I hate sitting next to the earth in my cubicle sucks there’s a

earth in my cubicle sucks there’s a

earth in my cubicle sucks there’s a million ways we can get completely

million ways we can get completely

million ways we can get completely whacked out with the stories of why we

whacked out with the stories of why we

whacked out with the stories of why we don’t like our job so just have fun and

don’t like our job so just have fun and

don’t like our job so just have fun and lean towards the things that that

lean towards the things that that

lean towards the things that that elevate you and the more is just focus

elevate you and the more is just focus

elevate you and the more is just focus on the things that are fun for you and

on the things that are fun for you and

on the things that are fun for you and the more you focus on the good that is

the more you focus on the good that is

the more you focus on the good that is around you the more fun you become more

around you the more fun you become more

around you the more fun you become more cool you become when you’re in that

cool you become when you’re in that

cool you become when you’re in that place of your cool people want to do

place of your cool people want to do

place of your cool people want to do more with you you’ll get those

more with you you’ll get those

more with you you’ll get those assignments that are going to be far

assignments that are going to be far

assignments that are going to be far more exciting the people that may be

more exciting the people that may be

more exciting the people that may be difficult in your career relationships

difficult in your career relationships

difficult in your career relationships will start to actually change they’ll

will start to actually change they’ll

will start to actually change they’ll see you differently they’ll act

see you differently they’ll act

see you differently they’ll act differently around you when you’re

differently around you when you’re

differently around you when you’re having a good time the people around you

having a good time the people around you

having a good time the people around you have a good time and that will help you

have a good time and that will help you

have a good time and that will help you get ahead very quickly smoothly and with

get ahead very quickly smoothly and with

get ahead very quickly smoothly and with joy the next phase here is also to

joy the next phase here is also to

joy the next phase here is also to become grateful for what it is that you

become grateful for what it is that you

become grateful for what it is that you do have so if you’re starving to try to

do have so if you’re starving to try to

do have so if you’re starving to try to create change in your life you want to

create change in your life you want to

create change in your life you want to make sure that you’re really focusing on

make sure that you’re really focusing on

make sure that you’re really focusing on what it is that you do have in your life

what it is that you do have in your life

what it is that you do have in your life so that you feel an energy of gratitude

so that you feel an energy of gratitude

so that you feel an energy of gratitude and an energy of gratitude can really

and an energy of gratitude can really

and an energy of gratitude can really open you up to this incredible capacity

open you up to this incredible capacity

open you up to this incredible capacity to feel more energized to feel more

to feel more energized to feel more

to feel more energized to feel more happy in any given moment where you feel

happy in any given moment where you feel

happy in any given moment where you feel like oh I don’t have what I need or I’m

like oh I don’t have what I need or I’m

like oh I don’t have what I need or I’m not supported or things aren’t working

not supported or things aren’t working

not supported or things aren’t working out the simple step here is to just say

out the simple step here is to just say

out the simple step here is to just say I am grateful for what I do have and let

I am grateful for what I do have and let

I am grateful for what I do have and let me look at me say I’m grateful for what

me look at me say I’m grateful for what

me look at me say I’m grateful for what I do have we create more of what we want

I do have we create more of what we want

I do have we create more of what we want and the energy of gratitude opens our

and the energy of gratitude opens our

and the energy of gratitude opens our heart and it expands our energy and it

heart and it expands our energy and it

heart and it expands our energy and it makes us a much more wonderful loving

makes us a much more wonderful loving

makes us a much more wonderful loving person to be around

person to be around

person to be around and with that loving energy we begin to

and with that loving energy we begin to

and with that loving energy we begin to attract more into our life and so we

attract more into our life and so we

attract more into our life and so we want to really make sure that that

want to really make sure that that

want to really make sure that that energy of gratitude is a very pinnacle

energy of gratitude is a very pinnacle

energy of gratitude is a very pinnacle part of this rope this miracle worker

part of this rope this miracle worker

part of this rope this miracle worker process which is that we stay committed

process which is that we stay committed

process which is that we stay committed and open to what it is that we are here

and open to what it is that we are here

and open to what it is that we are here to receive and we stay committed and

to receive and we stay committed and

to receive and we stay committed and grateful for what it is that we have and

grateful for what it is that we have and

grateful for what it is that we have and so you can begin today just by making a

so you can begin today just by making a

so you can begin today just by making a gratitude list and focus on it and

gratitude list and focus on it and

gratitude list and focus on it and there’s so many moments when I think oh

there’s so many moments when I think oh

there’s so many moments when I think oh my god I can’t believe I have to do that

my god I can’t believe I have to do that

my god I can’t believe I have to do that so I can’t the best to get to that and

so I can’t the best to get to that and

so I can’t the best to get to that and and then I just think about what I’m

and then I just think about what I’m

and then I just think about what I’m grateful for and it just spins me

grateful for and it just spins me

grateful for and it just spins me immediately out of the crazy chaos and

immediately out of the crazy chaos and

immediately out of the crazy chaos and back into a centered place of love and

back into a centered place of love and

back into a centered place of love and so I think that this is a really

so I think that this is a really

so I think that this is a really valuable tool for you to begin to use

valuable tool for you to begin to use

valuable tool for you to begin to use regularly and it’s an active tool

regularly and it’s an active tool

regularly and it’s an active tool throughout the book may cause miracles

throughout the book may cause miracles

throughout the book may cause miracles when you fully accept that you are here

when you fully accept that you are here

when you fully accept that you are here to be great when you fully accept that

to be great when you fully accept that

to be great when you fully accept that you are here to be happy when you fully

you are here to be happy when you fully

you are here to be happy when you fully accept that you are here to receive when

accept that you are here to receive when

accept that you are here to receive when you fully accept that you can have the

you fully accept that you can have the

you fully accept that you can have the peace and the serenity and the joy and

peace and the serenity and the joy and

peace and the serenity and the joy and the wisdom and the purpose and the

the wisdom and the purpose and the

the wisdom and the purpose and the intention that you intend to bring to

intention that you intend to bring to

intention that you intend to bring to the world and that it is all available

the world and that it is all available

the world and that it is all available to you that’s when life gets very groovy

to you that’s when life gets very groovy

to you that’s when life gets very groovy and so my hope and my intention for

and so my hope and my intention for

and so my hope and my intention for today is to wake you up to that presence

today is to wake you up to that presence

today is to wake you up to that presence I more importantly give you a really

I more importantly give you a really

I more importantly give you a really great New York City kick in the ass that

great New York City kick in the ass that

great New York City kick in the ass that says not only I’m awake to it not only

says not only I’m awake to it not only

says not only I’m awake to it not only do I believe in it but I am committed to

do I believe in it but I am committed to

do I believe in it but I am committed to it

it

it I am unapologetic about my capacity to

I am unapologetic about my capacity to

I am unapologetic about my capacity to be great

be great

be great I’m unapologetic about my capacity to

I’m unapologetic about my capacity to

I’m unapologetic about my capacity to heal I’m unapologetic about my capacity

heal I’m unapologetic about my capacity

heal I’m unapologetic about my capacity to see beyond my physical sight I’m

to see beyond my physical sight I’m

to see beyond my physical sight I’m unapologetic about my capacity to shine

unapologetic about my capacity to shine

unapologetic about my capacity to shine as bright as I can shine because I trust

as bright as I can shine because I trust

as bright as I can shine because I trust and I know that when I shine bright

and I know that when I shine bright

and I know that when I shine bright I give others permission to do the same

I give others permission to do the same

I give others permission to do the same and in my glow they wake up to and that

and in my glow they wake up to and that

and in my glow they wake up to and that is why we’re here

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