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Eben Pagan’s Top 10 Rules For Success


he’s an American entrepreneur author and

he’s an American entrepreneur author and speaker he’s widely respected as one of

speaker he’s widely respected as one of

speaker he’s widely respected as one of the world’s most well known and

the world’s most well known and

the world’s most well known and respected internet marketers

respected internet marketers

respected internet marketers he teaches through a mix of video

he teaches through a mix of video

he teaches through a mix of video training webinars written guides

training webinars written guides

training webinars written guides one-on-one training and seminars

one-on-one training and seminars

one-on-one training and seminars he’s Evan pagan and here are his top ten

he’s Evan pagan and here are his top ten

he’s Evan pagan and here are his top ten rules for success

he says rich is a state of mind and then

he says rich is a state of mind and then if you’re rich on the inside you can

if you’re rich on the inside you can

if you’re rich on the inside you can then go create money but if you’re not

then go create money but if you’re not

then go create money but if you’re not rich on the inside if you don’t have a

rich on the inside if you don’t have a

rich on the inside if you don’t have a rich state of mind not only will you not

rich state of mind not only will you not

rich state of mind not only will you not be able to attract and create money but

be able to attract and create money but

be able to attract and create money but if you do get some you’ll find a way to

if you do get some you’ll find a way to

if you do get some you’ll find a way to get rid of it right a way that I have of

get rid of it right a way that I have of

get rid of it right a way that I have of saying it is that there’s a big

saying it is that there’s a big

saying it is that there’s a big difference between money and wealth and

difference between money and wealth and

difference between money and wealth and wealth comes from having knowledge

wealth comes from having knowledge

wealth comes from having knowledge systems assets understanding of how to

systems assets understanding of how to

systems assets understanding of how to create value for others and having

create value for others and having

create value for others and having systems and assets that create value

systems and assets that create value

systems and assets that create value whereas money is just these you know

whereas money is just these you know

whereas money is just these you know imaginary numbers and these worthless

imaginary numbers and these worthless

imaginary numbers and these worthless piece of paper that we you know try to

piece of paper that we you know try to

piece of paper that we you know try to pretend to have value so success is

pretend to have value so success is

pretend to have value so success is about fulfillment and I think

about fulfillment and I think

about fulfillment and I think fulfillment is about creating success

fulfillment is about creating success

fulfillment is about creating success for yourself but then creating success

for yourself but then creating success

for yourself but then creating success for others and helping them succeed have

for others and helping them succeed have

for others and helping them succeed have you ever seen Stephen Covey talking

you ever seen Stephen Covey talking

you ever seen Stephen Covey talking about how you have to put the big rocks

about how you have to put the big rocks

about how you have to put the big rocks in your day or else they will they won’t

in your day or else they will they won’t

in your day or else they will they won’t go in and so what he’ll do is they take

go in and so what he’ll do is they take

go in and so what he’ll do is they take he takes a big fish tank and on the

he takes a big fish tank and on the

he takes a big fish tank and on the table he has some big rocks and then he

table he has some big rocks and then he

table he has some big rocks and then he has some smaller rocks and then he has

has some smaller rocks and then he has

has some smaller rocks and then he has some pebbles and then he has some sand

some pebbles and then he has some sand

some pebbles and then he has some sand okay and so what he does is first he

okay and so what he does is first he

okay and so what he does is first he starts by putting all the sand into the

starts by putting all the sand into the

starts by putting all the sand into the tank and then he puts in the the little

tank and then he puts in the the little

tank and then he puts in the the little pebbles and then he puts in the bigger

pebbles and then he puts in the bigger

pebbles and then he puts in the bigger rocks and by the time he’s done the tank

rocks and by the time he’s done the tank

rocks and by the time he’s done the tank is almost full and he can’t fit in the

is almost full and he can’t fit in the

is almost full and he can’t fit in the big rocks that he has they just kind of

big rocks that he has they just kind of

big rocks that he has they just kind of sit on top and there’s nowhere to put

sit on top and there’s nowhere to put

sit on top and there’s nowhere to put most of them but then what he does is he

most of them but then what he does is he

most of them but then what he does is he takes the big rocks and he puts them

takes the big rocks and he puts them

takes the big rocks and he puts them into the tank first and then he takes

into the tank first and then he takes

into the tank first and then he takes the smaller rocks and he puts them in

the smaller rocks and he puts them in

the smaller rocks and he puts them in and he fits them around the bigger rocks

and he fits them around the bigger rocks

and he fits them around the bigger rocks then he takes the little pebbles and he

then he takes the little pebbles and he

then he takes the little pebbles and he puts them in and they fit in around the

puts them in and they fit in around the

puts them in and they fit in around the this

this

this all the rocks and the bigger ones and

all the rocks and the bigger ones and

all the rocks and the bigger ones and then he pours a ton of sand in there

then he pours a ton of sand in there

then he pours a ton of sand in there which fills all the cracks up and the

which fills all the cracks up and the

which fills all the cracks up and the lesson is that you have to put in the

lesson is that you have to put in the

lesson is that you have to put in the big rocks first or else they’ll never go

big rocks first or else they’ll never go

big rocks first or else they’ll never go in okay and the interesting thing about

in okay and the interesting thing about

in okay and the interesting thing about the big rocks is that they have to be

the big rocks is that they have to be

the big rocks is that they have to be chosen in advance in other words you

chosen in advance in other words you

chosen in advance in other words you must identify what your most valuable

must identify what your most valuable

must identify what your most valuable activities are and then install them in

activities are and then install them in

activities are and then install them in your day ahead of time because if you

your day ahead of time because if you

your day ahead of time because if you don’t okay other people will have things

don’t okay other people will have things

don’t okay other people will have things for you to do other people will take

for you to do other people will take

for you to do other people will take your attention and I can almost

your attention and I can almost

your attention and I can almost guarantee you that these other things

guarantee you that these other things

guarantee you that these other things that other people have for you are less

that other people have for you are less

that other people have for you are less important but in the moment they seem a

important but in the moment they seem a

important but in the moment they seem a lot more urgent okay so you got to put

lot more urgent okay so you got to put

lot more urgent okay so you got to put the big rocks in first and very

the big rocks in first and very

the big rocks in first and very importantly you have to know what they

importantly you have to know what they

importantly you have to know what they are don’t keep your best ideas secret

are don’t keep your best ideas secret

are don’t keep your best ideas secret most of the business owners that I know

most of the business owners that I know

most of the business owners that I know whenever they figure out something

whenever they figure out something

whenever they figure out something that’s really fantastic a thing that

that’s really fantastic a thing that

that’s really fantastic a thing that would really help prospects out they

would really help prospects out they

would really help prospects out they start scheming about how to sell it for

start scheming about how to sell it for

start scheming about how to sell it for a lot of money and about how to get

a lot of money and about how to get

a lot of money and about how to get people to give them money before they

people to give them money before they

people to give them money before they reveal this secret to them or this

reveal this secret to them or this

reveal this secret to them or this product or this service or this this

product or this service or this this

product or this service or this this information well guess what if you don’t

information well guess what if you don’t

information well guess what if you don’t show people what you’ve got and you

show people what you’ve got and you

show people what you’ve got and you don’t prove to them that you have a lot

don’t prove to them that you have a lot

don’t prove to them that you have a lot of value they’re not going to pay any

of value they’re not going to pay any

of value they’re not going to pay any attention to you at all a different

attention to you at all a different

attention to you at all a different mindset that I’ve developed and learned

mindset that I’ve developed and learned

mindset that I’ve developed and learned over the last several years is that if

over the last several years is that if

over the last several years is that if you will take your best ideas the ones

you will take your best ideas the ones

you will take your best ideas the ones that are the most valuable the ones that

that are the most valuable the ones that

that are the most valuable the ones that you might consider to be the silver

you might consider to be the silver

you might consider to be the silver bullets

bullets

bullets the magic bullets the ones that work

the magic bullets the ones that work

the magic bullets the ones that work every time that give instant results

every time that give instant results

every time that give instant results that eliminate hassle and friction from

that eliminate hassle and friction from

that eliminate hassle and friction from a person’s life and you give those away

a person’s life and you give those away

a person’s life and you give those away the prospect will say to themselves oh

the prospect will say to themselves oh

the prospect will say to themselves oh geez if this is what they’re giving way

geez if this is what they’re giving way

geez if this is what they’re giving way how much better must be the product that

how much better must be the product that

how much better must be the product that they’re selling so the advice that I

they’re selling so the advice that I

they’re selling so the advice that I have for you is ask yourself right now

have for you is ask yourself right now

have for you is ask yourself right now what is the one thing that you’ve

what is the one thing that you’ve

what is the one thing that you’ve figured out over your lifetime and over

figured out over your lifetime and over

figured out over your lifetime and over your career that can help your prospects

your career that can help your prospects

your career that can help your prospects out the most the thing that can give

out the most the thing that can give

out the most the thing that can give them the most value eliminate the most

them the most value eliminate the most

them the most value eliminate the most friction and hassle from their life all

friction and hassle from their life all

friction and hassle from their life all right the thing that works every single

right the thing that works every single

right the thing that works every single time what’s the magic bullet that you

time what’s the magic bullet that you

time what’s the magic bullet that you figured out

figured out

figured out the one thing before you heard this you

the one thing before you heard this you

the one thing before you heard this you would never share with anyone okay good

would never share with anyone okay good

would never share with anyone okay good I’d like you to do now is make a

I’d like you to do now is make a

I’d like you to do now is make a commitment to yourself to give it away

commitment to yourself to give it away

commitment to yourself to give it away and give it away to as many people as

and give it away to as many people as

and give it away to as many people as you possibly can

you possibly can

you possibly can by the way this is the kind of thing

by the way this is the kind of thing

by the way this is the kind of thing that will create viral marketing for you

that will create viral marketing for you

that will create viral marketing for you this is the kind of thing that you give

this is the kind of thing that you give

this is the kind of thing that you give it away people will start talking about

it away people will start talking about

it away people will start talking about it they’ll start coming to you and

it they’ll start coming to you and

it they’ll start coming to you and saying wow that’s an incredible idea do

saying wow that’s an incredible idea do

saying wow that’s an incredible idea do you have any more and I advise you to

you have any more and I advise you to

you have any more and I advise you to give away even more of your good ideas

give away even more of your good ideas

give away even more of your good ideas now language is part of communication

now language is part of communication

now language is part of communication but there’s a much bigger piece of

but there’s a much bigger piece of

but there’s a much bigger piece of communication than language which is the

communication than language which is the

communication than language which is the nonverbal communication that happens

nonverbal communication that happens

nonverbal communication that happens between people most persuasion most

between people most persuasion most

between people most persuasion most bonding most connection happens on

bonding most connection happens on

bonding most connection happens on channels other than the words alright so

channels other than the words alright so

channels other than the words alright so you’ve heard the the old estimates that

you’ve heard the the old estimates that

you’ve heard the the old estimates that you know over 90 percent of your

you know over 90 percent of your

you know over 90 percent of your communication is your voice tone in your

communication is your voice tone in your

communication is your voice tone in your body language communication is so

body language communication is so

body language communication is so important and what’s amazing is most

important and what’s amazing is most

important and what’s amazing is most people are just unconscious they’re not

people are just unconscious they’re not

people are just unconscious they’re not paying any attention to it they’re not

paying any attention to it they’re not

paying any attention to it they’re not learning how to communicate with and

learning how to communicate with and

learning how to communicate with and connect with other people better so

connect with other people better so

connect with other people better so learn about body language learn about

learn about body language learn about

learn about body language learn about nonverbal communication learn about how

nonverbal communication learn about how

nonverbal communication learn about how to connect with people and build rapport

to connect with people and build rapport

to connect with people and build rapport so I think of entrepreneurship as being

so I think of entrepreneurship as being

so I think of entrepreneurship as being like an ultimate training ground an

like an ultimate training ground an

like an ultimate training ground an ultimate practice place to learn the

ultimate practice place to learn the

ultimate practice place to learn the basic skills that we need to learn in

basic skills that we need to learn in

basic skills that we need to learn in order to then come back and and be great

order to then come back and and be great

order to then come back and and be great at contribution Steven Covey has the

at contribution Steven Covey has the

at contribution Steven Covey has the model of first we start out dependent

model of first we start out dependent

model of first we start out dependent and then we become independent and then

and then we become independent and then

and then we become independent and then we become interdependent and in

we become interdependent and in

we become interdependent and in developmental models if you study

developmental models if you study

developmental models if you study developmental psychology which I

developmental psychology which I

developmental psychology which I recommend you do in any of the

recommend you do in any of the

recommend you do in any of the developmental models each level acts as

developmental models each level acts as

developmental models each level acts as a foundation for the next level so if we

a foundation for the next level so if we

a foundation for the next level so if we don’t become powerfully independent we

don’t become powerfully independent we

don’t become powerfully independent we can’t become powerfully interdependent

can’t become powerfully interdependent

can’t become powerfully interdependent and I think of entrepreneurship is being

and I think of entrepreneurship is being

and I think of entrepreneurship is being the best school now for becoming

the best school now for becoming

the best school now for becoming powerfully independent Robert Kiyosaki

powerfully independent Robert Kiyosaki

powerfully independent Robert Kiyosaki who wrote Rich Dad Poor Dad and cashflow

who wrote Rich Dad Poor Dad and cashflow

who wrote Rich Dad Poor Dad and cashflow quadrant some other books that are

quadrant some other books that are

quadrant some other books that are excellent initial training he’s got this

excellent initial training he’s got this

excellent initial training he’s got this some this model where he says we start

some this model where he says we start

some this model where he says we start out as employee

out as employee

out as employee and then we go to self-employed and then

and then we go to self-employed and then

and then we go to self-employed and then we become business owners and then we

we become business owners and then we

we become business owners and then we become investors and then I would add

become investors and then I would add

become investors and then I would add then we become philanthropists ideally

then we become philanthropists ideally

then we become philanthropists ideally we’d become people to come back and

we’d become people to come back and

we’d become people to come back and contribute and these build upon each

contribute and these build upon each

contribute and these build upon each other ok so when you’re an employee you

other ok so when you’re an employee you

other ok so when you’re an employee you are you learn some tasks some skills you

are you learn some tasks some skills you

are you learn some tasks some skills you do them you get a paycheck when you

do them you get a paycheck when you

do them you get a paycheck when you become self-employed

become self-employed

become self-employed now you’re responsible you have to go

now you’re responsible you have to go

now you’re responsible you have to go get the business as well then when you

get the business as well then when you

get the business as well then when you have a when you’re a business owner you

have a when you’re a business owner you

have a when you’re a business owner you create that organism or that entity that

create that organism or that entity that

create that organism or that entity that then runs and throws off the profit and

then runs and throws off the profit and

then runs and throws off the profit and then when you become an investor you

then when you become an investor you

then when you become an investor you invest in those types of entities and

invest in those types of entities and

invest in those types of entities and then ideally when you become a

then ideally when you become a

then ideally when you become a philanthropist or someone that’s

philanthropist or someone that’s

philanthropist or someone that’s contributing you start investing in the

contributing you start investing in the

contributing you start investing in the most important you know biggest why to

most important you know biggest why to

most important you know biggest why to scale up kind of projects and I say that

scale up kind of projects and I say that

scale up kind of projects and I say that model those five steps because

model those five steps because

model those five steps because entrepreneur business owner is in the

entrepreneur business owner is in the

entrepreneur business owner is in the middle and what I want to emphasize is

middle and what I want to emphasize is

middle and what I want to emphasize is that entrepreneurship and owning and

that entrepreneurship and owning and

that entrepreneurship and owning and building a business it’s one step in a

building a business it’s one step in a

building a business it’s one step in a much bigger puzzle it’s not the end and

much bigger puzzle it’s not the end and

much bigger puzzle it’s not the end and unfortunately I see a lot of

unfortunately I see a lot of

unfortunately I see a lot of entrepreneurs get stuck at that step

entrepreneurs get stuck at that step

entrepreneurs get stuck at that step they get to that level and they start

they get to that level and they start

they get to that level and they start becoming very successful and then they

becoming very successful and then they

becoming very successful and then they just want more and bigger and you know

just want more and bigger and you know

just want more and bigger and you know more money and more power rather than

more money and more power rather than

more money and more power rather than realizing oh that’s just one step that I

realizing oh that’s just one step that I

realizing oh that’s just one step that I need to become competent in so that I

need to become competent in so that I

need to become competent in so that I can go on to the next level and go on to

can go on to the next level and go on to

can go on to the next level and go on to the next level so what’s the difference

the next level so what’s the difference

the next level so what’s the difference between these levels well essentially

between these levels well essentially

between these levels well essentially the difference is each one becomes more

the difference is each one becomes more

the difference is each one becomes more complex and more multi-dimensional and

complex and more multi-dimensional and

complex and more multi-dimensional and has a longer time horizon right so when

has a longer time horizon right so when

has a longer time horizon right so when you’re an employee you’re just doing

you’re an employee you’re just doing

you’re an employee you’re just doing your work to get your paycheck in two

your work to get your paycheck in two

your work to get your paycheck in two weeks when you’re self-employed all of a

weeks when you’re self-employed all of a

weeks when you’re self-employed all of a sudden the timer as it moves out you

sudden the timer as it moves out you

sudden the timer as it moves out you learn about invoicing and you learn that

learn about invoicing and you learn that

learn about invoicing and you learn that companies don’t pay invoices as fast as

companies don’t pay invoices as fast as

companies don’t pay invoices as fast as you used to get your paycheck and then

you used to get your paycheck and then

you used to get your paycheck and then when you become a business owner an

when you become a business owner an

when you become a business owner an entrepreneur you know kind of proper you

entrepreneur you know kind of proper you

entrepreneur you know kind of proper you start thinking in timeframes of months

start thinking in timeframes of months

start thinking in timeframes of months in years in terms of return you become

in years in terms of return you become

in years in terms of return you become an investor you start thinking in terms

an investor you start thinking in terms

an investor you start thinking in terms of multiple years or even decades and

of multiple years or even decades and

of multiple years or even decades and then philanthropist you know you look

then philanthropist you know you look

then philanthropist you know you look way out onto the horizon and and I say

way out onto the horizon and and I say

way out onto the horizon and and I say this because because each level builds

this because because each level builds

this because because each level builds on the previous levels this

on the previous levels this

on the previous levels this entrepreneur level where you you start

entrepreneur level where you you start

entrepreneur level where you you start learning to manage a team to manage

learning to manage a team to manage

learning to manage a team to manage resources to think in multi-year time

resources to think in multi-year time

resources to think in multi-year time horizons it’s a really important step

horizons it’s a really important step

horizons it’s a really important step for us to all go through and when I hear

for us to all go through and when I hear

for us to all go through and when I hear people tell me that they want to make an

people tell me that they want to make an

people tell me that they want to make an impact on the world and they go straight

impact on the world and they go straight

impact on the world and they go straight from you know high school to that or

from you know high school to that or

from you know high school to that or sometimes straight from college to that

sometimes straight from college to that

sometimes straight from college to that and they don’t get a little experience

and they don’t get a little experience

and they don’t get a little experience working in the entrepreneurial world my

working in the entrepreneurial world my

working in the entrepreneurial world my heart sinks a little bit because I think

heart sinks a little bit because I think

heart sinks a little bit because I think they’re not going to be as powerful at

they’re not going to be as powerful at

they’re not going to be as powerful at making a difference or an impact in the

making a difference or an impact in the

making a difference or an impact in the world as they would have been had they

world as they would have been had they

world as they would have been had they gone and made themselves strong and

gone and made themselves strong and

gone and made themselves strong and powerful and successful first start

powerful and successful first start

powerful and successful first start habitual izing or ritualizing or

habitual izing or ritualizing or

habitual izing or ritualizing or systemising or routine izing those

systemising or routine izing those

systemising or routine izing those things that are the most important

things that are the most important

things that are the most important things and start doing them every day at

things and start doing them every day at

things and start doing them every day at the same time and what you’ll find is

the same time and what you’ll find is

the same time and what you’ll find is that especially in the work arena in

that especially in the work arena in

that especially in the work arena in business if you will make rituals and

business if you will make rituals and

business if you will make rituals and routines out of the very high value

routines out of the very high value

routines out of the very high value things in your life every day you’ll do

things in your life every day you’ll do

things in your life every day you’ll do them at the same time automatically

them at the same time automatically

them at the same time automatically because if you think about it you

because if you think about it you

because if you think about it you already do the same things every day at

already do the same things every day at

already do the same things every day at the same time automatically when we

the same time automatically when we

the same time automatically when we procrastinate what we’re usually doing

procrastinate what we’re usually doing

procrastinate what we’re usually doing is resisting doing something different

is resisting doing something different

is resisting doing something different than we normally do right we have our

than we normally do right we have our

than we normally do right we have our routines that we’re in we’re all

routines that we’re in we’re all

routines that we’re in we’re all creatures of habit we like to do the

creatures of habit we like to do the

creatures of habit we like to do the same things at around the same times

same things at around the same times

same things at around the same times every day and when we’re procrastinating

every day and when we’re procrastinating

every day and when we’re procrastinating what we’re doing is going oh I don’t

what we’re doing is going oh I don’t

what we’re doing is going oh I don’t really want to do that thing right now

really want to do that thing right now

really want to do that thing right now sometimes we don’t know why we’re coming

sometimes we don’t know why we’re coming

sometimes we don’t know why we’re coming up with a bunch of excuses it’s usually

up with a bunch of excuses it’s usually

up with a bunch of excuses it’s usually just because it’s not a habit it’s not a

just because it’s not a habit it’s not a

just because it’s not a habit it’s not a routine it’s not something that we do

routine it’s not something that we do

routine it’s not something that we do automatically every day as an example I

automatically every day as an example I

automatically every day as an example I struggled for years with trying to get

struggled for years with trying to get

struggled for years with trying to get my sleep and my exercise and my diet all

my sleep and my exercise and my diet all

my sleep and my exercise and my diet all in shape well that all changed when I

in shape well that all changed when I

in shape well that all changed when I built a simple routine where I go to

built a simple routine where I go to

built a simple routine where I go to sleep at the same time I wake up around

sleep at the same time I wake up around

sleep at the same time I wake up around the same time and then I do my exercise

the same time and then I do my exercise

the same time and then I do my exercise first thing and then I eat a healthy

first thing and then I eat a healthy

first thing and then I eat a healthy meal first thing and then I just made a

meal first thing and then I just made a

meal first thing and then I just made a routine out of that so I go to sleep

routine out of that so I go to sleep

routine out of that so I go to sleep I get enough sleep I wake up first thing

I get enough sleep I wake up first thing

I get enough sleep I wake up first thing that I do is I make sure that I get my

that I do is I make sure that I get my

that I do is I make sure that I get my exercise and then I have a healthy meal

exercise and then I have a healthy meal

exercise and then I have a healthy meal and now I’m pulled

and now I’m pulled

and now I’m pulled into these routines everyday and they

into these routines everyday and they

into these routines everyday and they don’t have to worry about

don’t have to worry about

don’t have to worry about procrastinating because it’s a ritual

procrastinating because it’s a ritual

procrastinating because it’s a ritual it’s something that I do the same every

it’s something that I do the same every

it’s something that I do the same every day now it takes 30 days or so to

day now it takes 30 days or so to

day now it takes 30 days or so to actually create a new habit so you got

actually create a new habit so you got

actually create a new habit so you got to force yourself to do it at the same

to force yourself to do it at the same

to force yourself to do it at the same time every day

time every day

time every day at two to three weeks you’ll notice it

at two to three weeks you’ll notice it

at two to three weeks you’ll notice it gets easier and easier and then in about

gets easier and easier and then in about

gets easier and easier and then in about a month you’re just doing the exact same

a month you’re just doing the exact same

a month you’re just doing the exact same thing every day you’re pulled into it

thing every day you’re pulled into it

thing every day you’re pulled into it you find yourself doing it automatically

you find yourself doing it automatically

you find yourself doing it automatically and this is the one where Ellen goes oh

and this is the one where Ellen goes oh

and this is the one where Ellen goes oh I don’t want to be a salesperson right

I don’t want to be a salesperson right

I don’t want to be a salesperson right yeah one of the things that we do in our

yeah one of the things that we do in our

yeah one of the things that we do in our business is we take experts and we teach

business is we take experts and we teach

business is we take experts and we teach them how to package their information up

them how to package their information up

them how to package their information up into products like ebooks and other

into products like ebooks and other

into products like ebooks and other information products and sell them well

information products and sell them well

information products and sell them well when I start talking to these experts

when I start talking to these experts

when I start talking to these experts almost universally they say things like

almost universally they say things like

almost universally they say things like I’ve got all the content I just need to

I’ve got all the content I just need to

I’ve got all the content I just need to find someone who can mark it and sell it

find someone who can mark it and sell it

find someone who can mark it and sell it for me and when I say to them well you

for me and when I say to them well you

for me and when I say to them well you know what would probably be good for you

know what would probably be good for you

know what would probably be good for you is to actually learn some marketing and

is to actually learn some marketing and

is to actually learn some marketing and sales they go oh I don’t want to look

sales they go oh I don’t want to look

sales they go oh I don’t want to look I’m not a Salesman they kind of like

I’m not a Salesman they kind of like

I’m not a Salesman they kind of like look down it salespeople like it’s some

look down it salespeople like it’s some

look down it salespeople like it’s some like lower form of human business scum

like lower form of human business scum

like lower form of human business scum or something like that and you know you

or something like that and you know you

or something like that and you know you imagine okay I have to put on a funky

imagine okay I have to put on a funky

imagine okay I have to put on a funky like a weird suit and like a windbreaker

like a weird suit and like a windbreaker

like a weird suit and like a windbreaker like a car salesman or the sell my

like a car salesman or the sell my

like a car salesman or the sell my product would never want to do that well

product would never want to do that well

product would never want to do that well when you really learn sales as I know

when you really learn sales as I know

when you really learn sales as I know you know because your various or your

you know because your various or your

you know because your various or your fantastic sales person that the best

fantastic sales person that the best

fantastic sales person that the best selling methods are consultative selling

selling methods are consultative selling

selling methods are consultative selling where you don’t sit down and try to talk

where you don’t sit down and try to talk

where you don’t sit down and try to talk someone into buying you sit down and you

someone into buying you sit down and you

someone into buying you sit down and you say let me ask you some questions let me

say let me ask you some questions let me

say let me ask you some questions let me learn about you and find out what all

learn about you and find out what all

learn about you and find out what all your problems are and let me see if what

your problems are and let me see if what

your problems are and let me see if what I have is even a fit and then once

I have is even a fit and then once

I have is even a fit and then once you’ve found out where they’re at what

you’ve found out where they’re at what

you’ve found out where they’re at what their problems are what all the

their problems are what all the

their problems are what all the challenges they’re facing or and what

challenges they’re facing or and what

challenges they’re facing or and what they’d like to accomplish then you sell

they’d like to accomplish then you sell

they’d like to accomplish then you sell solutions you sell them fixing their

solutions you sell them fixing their

solutions you sell them fixing their problems you sell them getting what they

problems you sell them getting what they

problems you sell them getting what they want not your thing and the best of the

want not your thing and the best of the

want not your thing and the best of the best of the best salespeople are the

best of the best salespeople are the

best of the best salespeople are the ones that walk in and sit down and ask

ones that walk in and sit down and ask

ones that walk in and sit down and ask much questions and then say my product

much questions and then say my product

much questions and then say my product can’t help you let me refer to some you

can’t help you let me refer to some you

can’t help you let me refer to some you know refer you to someone who can

know refer you to someone who can

know refer you to someone who can because those are the people that win

because those are the people that win

because those are the people that win the trust and

the trust and

the trust and when they say this is the thing that

when they say this is the thing that

when they say this is the thing that will solve your problem the prospects is

will solve your problem the prospects is

will solve your problem the prospects is that’s the thing I need because they’re

that’s the thing I need because they’re

that’s the thing I need because they’re trustworthy so learning consultative

trustworthy so learning consultative

trustworthy so learning consultative selling and really learning how to sell

selling and really learning how to sell

selling and really learning how to sell like a professional is very important

like a professional is very important

like a professional is very important know thyself know thyself

know thyself know thyself

know thyself know thyself this is probably the most famous phrase

this is probably the most famous phrase

this is probably the most famous phrase handed down from the Greek philosophers

handed down from the Greek philosophers

handed down from the Greek philosophers know thyself why is it so important why

know thyself why is it so important why

know thyself why is it so important why is it so profound

is it so profound

is it so profound and another question why do we do what

and another question why do we do what

and another question why do we do what we do why do we think the way we think

we do why do we think the way we think

we do why do we think the way we think why do we feel the way we feel why do we

why do we feel the way we feel why do we

why do we feel the way we feel why do we behave in certain patterns and get into

behave in certain patterns and get into

behave in certain patterns and get into certain relationship patterns in our

certain relationship patterns in our

certain relationship patterns in our lives well these are the magic questions

lives well these are the magic questions

lives well these are the magic questions psychology answers these questions on

psychology answers these questions on

psychology answers these questions on the general level but we all have

the general level but we all have

the general level but we all have experiences that are private very

experiences that are private very

experiences that are private very individual and very powerful we have

individual and very powerful we have

individual and very powerful we have something that’s shaping our thoughts

something that’s shaping our thoughts

something that’s shaping our thoughts shaping our emotions shaping our

shaping our emotions shaping our

shaping our emotions shaping our behavior from the inside why is it so

behavior from the inside why is it so

behavior from the inside why is it so important to know yourself what does it

important to know yourself what does it

important to know yourself what does it mean well I don’t think it means to know

mean well I don’t think it means to know

mean well I don’t think it means to know what your favorite TV show is or what

what your favorite TV show is or what

what your favorite TV show is or what your favorite restaurant is I do think

your favorite restaurant is I do think

your favorite restaurant is I do think to know yourself means to understand

to know yourself means to understand

to know yourself means to understand your personality to understand how

your personality to understand how

your personality to understand how you’re wired what you’re likely to do in

you’re wired what you’re likely to do in

you’re wired what you’re likely to do in different situations under different

different situations under different

different situations under different types of pressure and with different

types of pressure and with different

types of pressure and with different types of people the reason that it’s so

types of people the reason that it’s so

types of people the reason that it’s so important to know thyself is because

important to know thyself is because

important to know thyself is because there are many different types of people

there are many different types of people

there are many different types of people in the world and to create success you

in the world and to create success you

in the world and to create success you must work effectively with yourself and

must work effectively with yourself and

must work effectively with yourself and with others you must know yourself you

with others you must know yourself you

with others you must know yourself you must know how you work so you can

must know how you work so you can

must know how you work so you can control yourself communicate well and

control yourself communicate well and

control yourself communicate well and understand what others are communicating

understand what others are communicating

understand what others are communicating and ultimately increase your

and ultimately increase your

and ultimately increase your effectiveness communicating and

effectiveness communicating and

effectiveness communicating and persuading others and creating the

persuading others and creating the

persuading others and creating the results that you want in your life it’s

results that you want in your life it’s

results that you want in your life it’s also critical to know yourself so you

also critical to know yourself so you

also critical to know yourself so you can understand your weaknesses your soft

can understand your weaknesses your soft

can understand your weaknesses your soft spots your Achilles heels and those

spots your Achilles heels and those

spots your Achilles heels and those things in your life that can hurt you

things in your life that can hurt you

things in your life that can hurt you all of these things are intimately

all of these things are intimately

all of these things are intimately connected to your personality

connected to your personality

connected to your personality understanding your personality is

understanding your personality is

understanding your personality is understanding yourself if you’d like to

understanding yourself if you’d like to

understanding yourself if you’d like to know thyself then know thy personality

know thyself then know thy personality

know thyself then know thy personality in the past the paradigm that we use as

in the past the paradigm that we use as

in the past the paradigm that we use as business owners and marketers is that we

business owners and marketers is that we

business owners and marketers is that we have some entry-level stuff that we use

have some entry-level stuff that we use

have some entry-level stuff that we use to get prospects attention and those

to get prospects attention and those

to get prospects attention and those things might be like advertisements or

things might be like advertisements or

things might be like advertisements or we might offer you know some free

we might offer you know some free

we might offer you know some free information or a free report or

information or a free report or

information or a free report or sometimes even pre-recorded messages or

sometimes even pre-recorded messages or

sometimes even pre-recorded messages or free consultations and then we move and

free consultations and then we move and

free consultations and then we move and we have the kind of mid-level priced

we have the kind of mid-level priced

we have the kind of mid-level priced products that we sell and upsell to and

products that we sell and upsell to and

products that we sell and upsell to and then we have our highest end products

then we have our highest end products

then we have our highest end products that we sell to our best customers well

that we sell to our best customers well

that we sell to our best customers well what’s happening now and what’s

what’s happening now and what’s

what’s happening now and what’s happening a lot and accelerating over

happening a lot and accelerating over

happening a lot and accelerating over the last few years with the rise of the

the last few years with the rise of the

the last few years with the rise of the Internet

Internet

Internet is more and more stuff is available for

is more and more stuff is available for

is more and more stuff is available for free there are more companies that are

free there are more companies that are

free there are more companies that are funded by venture capital that have 50

funded by venture capital that have 50

funded by venture capital that have 50 million dollars in cash in the bank that

million dollars in cash in the bank that

million dollars in cash in the bank that they don’t know what to do with so

they don’t know what to do with so

they don’t know what to do with so they’re just giving stuff away to

they’re just giving stuff away to

they’re just giving stuff away to customers things are becoming cheaper

customers things are becoming cheaper

customers things are becoming cheaper and cheaper to produce and all that

and cheaper to produce and all that

and cheaper to produce and all that stuff that you used to think of as being

stuff that you used to think of as being

stuff that you used to think of as being your your real valuable stuff now you’ve

your your real valuable stuff now you’ve

your your real valuable stuff now you’ve got your competitors giving it away to

got your competitors giving it away to

got your competitors giving it away to your customers so if you can’t beat them

your customers so if you can’t beat them

your customers so if you can’t beat them you need to join them and in fact what I

you need to join them and in fact what I

you need to join them and in fact what I think you need to do is get in front of

think you need to do is get in front of

think you need to do is get in front of them and what we do is we take that line

them and what we do is we take that line

them and what we do is we take that line that was the stuff that we used to give

that was the stuff that we used to give

that was the stuff that we used to give away for free and we move it deeper into

away for free and we move it deeper into

away for free and we move it deeper into the customer relationship and the things

the customer relationship and the things

the customer relationship and the things that we used to charge money for are

that we used to charge money for are

that we used to charge money for are entry-level products now we give away

entry-level products now we give away

entry-level products now we give away and what that does is it builds

and what that does is it builds

and what that does is it builds relationships with more customers it

relationships with more customers it

relationships with more customers it allows us to kind of widen our funnel so

allows us to kind of widen our funnel so

allows us to kind of widen our funnel so to speak and attract a lot more

to speak and attract a lot more

to speak and attract a lot more prospects so let me give you an example

prospects so let me give you an example

prospects so let me give you an example from one of our current businesses as I

from one of our current businesses as I

from one of our current businesses as I mentioned before we have a company

mentioned before we have a company

mentioned before we have a company called double your dating and in that

called double your dating and in that

called double your dating and in that company we teach dating advice to men

company we teach dating advice to men

company we teach dating advice to men now we actually have another company

now we actually have another company

now we actually have another company that we teach dating advice to women and

that we teach dating advice to women and

that we teach dating advice to women and we have others that we teach other kind

we have others that we teach other kind

we have others that we teach other kind of self-help and personal development

of self-help and personal development

of self-help and personal development topics but the one that started it all

topics but the one that started it all

topics but the one that started it all was the company called double your

was the company called double your

was the company called double your dating and when I originally sat down to

dating and when I originally sat down to

dating and when I originally sat down to work on the marketing for that that

work on the marketing for that that

work on the marketing for that that company I started playing around with

company I started playing around with

company I started playing around with email newsletters and at first the

email newsletters and at first the

email newsletters and at first the newsletters that I sent out were very

newsletters that I sent out were very

newsletters that I sent out were very short and there were excerpts of some of

short and there were excerpts of some of

short and there were excerpts of some of our products and other stuff that wasn’t

our products and other stuff that wasn’t

our products and other stuff that wasn’t really all that valuable but it was free

really all that valuable but it was free

really all that valuable but it was free and I thought that people would you know

and I thought that people would you know

and I thought that people would you know kind of find it find some value in it we

kind of find it find some value in it we

kind of find it find some value in it we started sending them out well as we

started sending them out well as we

started sending them out well as we developed I started writing longer and

developed I started writing longer and

developed I started writing longer and longer newsletters and I realized that

longer newsletters and I realized that

longer newsletters and I realized that the more valuable the newsletter the

the more valuable the newsletter the

the more valuable the newsletter the more it caused people to want to invest

more it caused people to want to invest

more it caused people to want to invest in our products and at one point I said

in our products and at one point I said

in our products and at one point I said to myself you know what I want to create

to myself you know what I want to create

to myself you know what I want to create the most valuable newsletter that has

the most valuable newsletter that has

the most valuable newsletter that has ever been created on any topic ever in

ever been created on any topic ever in

ever been created on any topic ever in history and then I want to give it away

history and then I want to give it away

history and then I want to give it away I set the bar very high

I set the bar very high

I set the bar very high and when I was thinking this I was

and when I was thinking this I was

and when I was thinking this I was thinking about financial newsletters

thinking about financial newsletters

thinking about financial newsletters that sometimes cost thousands of dollars

that sometimes cost thousands of dollars

that sometimes cost thousands of dollars a year I mean I was really put in the

a year I mean I was really put in the

a year I mean I was really put in the bar up there and if you’ve ever read

bar up there and if you’ve ever read

bar up there and if you’ve ever read some of our newsletters you’ll see that

some of our newsletters you’ll see that

some of our newsletters you’ll see that they average probably fifteen or twenty

they average probably fifteen or twenty

they average probably fifteen or twenty pages long and we send them out every

pages long and we send them out every

pages long and we send them out every couple

couple

couple days some of them are as long as 30 or

days some of them are as long as 30 or

days some of them are as long as 30 or 40 pages of value jam-packed with

40 pages of value jam-packed with

40 pages of value jam-packed with entertaining useful step-by-step

entertaining useful step-by-step

entertaining useful step-by-step mindsets everything you could possibly

mindsets everything you could possibly

mindsets everything you could possibly need and we get letters from all around

need and we get letters from all around

need and we get letters from all around the world constantly talking about how

the world constantly talking about how

the world constantly talking about how the appreciation thanking us for the

the appreciation thanking us for the

the appreciation thanking us for the value that we jam-pack in these

value that we jam-pack in these

value that we jam-pack in these newsletters if you subscribe to that

newsletters if you subscribe to that

newsletters if you subscribe to that newsletter and you’re interested in

newsletter and you’re interested in

newsletter and you’re interested in getting dating advice you will have your

getting dating advice you will have your

getting dating advice you will have your picture filled up to the brim I

picture filled up to the brim I

picture filled up to the brim I recommend that you ask yourself how can

recommend that you ask yourself how can

recommend that you ask yourself how can you move the free line in your business

you move the free line in your business

you move the free line in your business you might not want to go overboard like

you might not want to go overboard like

you might not want to go overboard like we did but what’s an entry level product

we did but what’s an entry level product

we did but what’s an entry level product that doesn’t cost you much to produce

that doesn’t cost you much to produce

that doesn’t cost you much to produce that you can just give away to your

that you can just give away to your

that you can just give away to your customers if you don’t use information

customers if you don’t use information

customers if you don’t use information products in your business things like

products in your business things like

products in your business things like email newsletters and downloadable

email newsletters and downloadable

email newsletters and downloadable ebooks and CD and DVD courses and

ebooks and CD and DVD courses and

ebooks and CD and DVD courses and streaming video like you’re watching

streaming video like you’re watching

streaming video like you’re watching right now then you really need to do

right now then you really need to do

right now then you really need to do that and you need to learn about it as

that and you need to learn about it as

that and you need to learn about it as soon as you possibly can the idea of

soon as you possibly can the idea of

soon as you possibly can the idea of bringing light to failures right and you

bringing light to failures right and you

bringing light to failures right and you mentioned that in our business we try to

mentioned that in our business we try to

mentioned that in our business we try to encourage people as soon as you see

encourage people as soon as you see

encourage people as soon as you see something that goes wrong or you screw

something that goes wrong or you screw

something that goes wrong or you screw something up raise your hand it’s a half

something up raise your hand it’s a half

something up raise your hand it’s a half screwed-up or I see something that’s

screwed-up or I see something that’s

screwed-up or I see something that’s wrong over here and make it a win and I

wrong over here and make it a win and I

wrong over here and make it a win and I just want to just slip this in there a

just want to just slip this in there a

just want to just slip this in there a reason why that’s so important is that

reason why that’s so important is that

reason why that’s so important is that we humans don’t like to look bad in

we humans don’t like to look bad in

we humans don’t like to look bad in front of others we don’t like to look

front of others we don’t like to look

front of others we don’t like to look like idiots we don’t like to screw screw

like idiots we don’t like to screw screw

like idiots we don’t like to screw screw things up so what we do in a business or

things up so what we do in a business or

things up so what we do in a business or a corporate environment is we screw

a corporate environment is we screw

a corporate environment is we screw something up and then we take it and we

something up and then we take it and we

something up and then we take it and we hide it and we isolate we try to not let

hide it and we isolate we try to not let

hide it and we isolate we try to not let anyone see it

anyone see it

anyone see it we try to go to work fixing it

we try to go to work fixing it

we try to go to work fixing it unfortunately if you’ve screwed

unfortunately if you’ve screwed

unfortunately if you’ve screwed something up it probably means that you

something up it probably means that you

something up it probably means that you didn’t know how to do it right the first

didn’t know how to do it right the first

didn’t know how to do it right the first time and it probably also means further

time and it probably also means further

time and it probably also means further that if you take it and isolate and try

that if you take it and isolate and try

that if you take it and isolate and try to fix it you’re probably can even make

to fix it you’re probably can even make

to fix it you’re probably can even make it worse and if you let people have that

it worse and if you let people have that

it worse and if you let people have that mentality of you’re going to get in

mentality of you’re going to get in

mentality of you’re going to get in trouble if you screw something up

trouble if you screw something up

trouble if you screw something up they’re going to isolate they’re going

they’re going to isolate they’re going

they’re going to isolate they’re going to go try to fix it they’re going to

to go try to fix it they’re going to

to go try to fix it they’re going to make it worse

make it worse

make it worse and then when they show up and it gets

and then when they show up and it gets

and then when they show up and it gets discovered they might try to use a

discovered they might try to use a

discovered they might try to use a scapegoat and say it wasn’t my fault or

scapegoat and say it wasn’t my fault or

scapegoat and say it wasn’t my fault or someone else did it and you know it’s

someone else did it and you know it’s

someone else did it and you know it’s just a really bad situation so if you

just a really bad situation so if you

just a really bad situation so if you can make an environment or culture we’re

can make an environment or culture we’re

can make an environment or culture we’re finding screw-ups raising your hand when

finding screw-ups raising your hand when

finding screw-ups raising your hand when something goes wrong

something goes wrong

something goes wrong saying I made a mistake is a win and the

saying I made a mistake is a win and the

saying I made a mistake is a win and the person to spot the screw-up

person to spot the screw-up

person to spot the screw-up the fastest is the biggest winner then I

the fastest is the biggest winner then I

the fastest is the biggest winner then I think you can move forward very quickly

think you can move forward very quickly

think you can move forward very quickly and you can as W Edwards Deming said you

and you can as W Edwards Deming said you

and you can as W Edwards Deming said you can drive out fear which is one of the

can drive out fear which is one of the

can drive out fear which is one of the most important things you can do in an

most important things you can do in an

most important things you can do in an organization thank you so much for

organization thank you so much for

organization thank you so much for watching I made this video because

watching I made this video because

watching I made this video because Corpus forte asked me to so if there’s a

Corpus forte asked me to so if there’s a

Corpus forte asked me to so if there’s a famous entrepreneur that you want me to

famous entrepreneur that you want me to

famous entrepreneur that you want me to profile next leave it in the comments

profile next leave it in the comments

profile next leave it in the comments below and I’ll see what I can do

below and I’ll see what I can do

below and I’ll see what I can do I’d also love to know which if Evan

I’d also love to know which if Evan

I’d also love to know which if Evan pagans top 10 rules hit you the hardest

pagans top 10 rules hit you the hardest

pagans top 10 rules hit you the hardest leave it in the comments and I’ll join

leave it in the comments and I’ll join

leave it in the comments and I’ll join in the discussion thank you so much for

in the discussion thank you so much for

in the discussion thank you so much for watching

watching

watching continue to believe and I’ll see you

continue to believe and I’ll see you

continue to believe and I’ll see you soon

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