Defeat FAILURE – #OneRule

failure is not a bad thing failure is

failure is not a bad thing failure is the mother of all success you should

the mother of all success you should

the mother of all success you should seek failures no consideration of

seek failures no consideration of

seek failures no consideration of failure you have to be able to rise from

failure you have to be able to rise from

failure you have to be able to rise from the failure for your definition of

the failure for your definition of

the failure for your definition of failure getting things wrong is as

failure getting things wrong is as

failure getting things wrong is as important as getting things right their

important as getting things right their

important as getting things right their owner is very successfully

owner is very successfully

owner is very successfully hello believe nation today we’re going

hello believe nation today we’re going

hello believe nation today we’re going to talk about how you can defeat failure

to talk about how you can defeat failure

to talk about how you can defeat failure and as always guys as you’re watching

and as always guys as you’re watching

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much more likely to stick with yourself

much more likely to stick with yourself as well

as well

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yeah I think failure is the highway to

yeah I think failure is the highway to success and I know that sounds like a

success and I know that sounds like a

success and I know that sounds like a platitude but society or people teach us

platitude but society or people teach us

platitude but society or people teach us right they say oh if you fail and feel

right they say oh if you fail and feel

right they say oh if you fail and feel uncomfortable you’ve done something

uncomfortable you’ve done something

uncomfortable you’ve done something wrong and what I try to do in all of my

wrong and what I try to do in all of my

wrong and what I try to do in all of my books and my presentations and my tweets

books and my presentations and my tweets

books and my presentations and my tweets and is them you cannot get to the

and is them you cannot get to the

and is them you cannot get to the mountaintop without taking a few

mountaintop without taking a few

mountaintop without taking a few missteps and so a business that wants to

missteps and so a business that wants to

missteps and so a business that wants to win you have to out fail your

win you have to out fail your

win you have to out fail your competition and as human beings you know

competition and as human beings you know

competition and as human beings you know failure is not a bad thing you know ask

failure is not a bad thing you know ask

failure is not a bad thing you know ask yourself what’s the opportunity from the

yourself what’s the opportunity from the

yourself what’s the opportunity from the failure you’re in get in the game

failure you’re in get in the game

failure you’re in get in the game because when you get to the last hour of

because when you get to the last hour of

because when you get to the last hour of your last day it will not be the

your last day it will not be the

your last day it will not be the failures you regret it’ll be all the

failures you regret it’ll be all the

failures you regret it’ll be all the risks you didn’t take you eventually

risks you didn’t take you eventually

risks you didn’t take you eventually joined Harper’s Bazaar us and in 1976 it

joined Harper’s Bazaar us and in 1976 it

joined Harper’s Bazaar us and in 1976 it was you were fired and I find that

was you were fired and I find that

was you were fired and I find that extraordinary you know they were very

extraordinary you know they were very

extraordinary you know they were very clear in that they thought that I would

clear in that they thought that I would

clear in that they thought that I would never understand the American market I

never understand the American market I

never understand the American market I remember I was the editor on one shoot

remember I was the editor on one shoot

remember I was the editor on one shoot that was I think it was a French fashion

that was I think it was a French fashion

that was I think it was a French fashion shows and I just decided that it would

shows and I just decided that it would

shows and I just decided that it would be interesting to have dreadlocks on the

be interesting to have dreadlocks on the

be interesting to have dreadlocks on the models and I think that that pushed them

models and I think that that pushed them

models and I think that that pushed them further than they could they could bear

further than they could they could bear

further than they could they could bear so that was that was that was it for me

so that was that was that was it for me

so that was that was that was it for me but I you know I think it’s always part

but I you know I think it’s always part

but I you know I think it’s always part of life to have some knocks as well as

of life to have some knocks as well as

of life to have some knocks as well as some successes and take risks and you

some successes and take risks and you

some successes and take risks and you know to learn so I think it’s healthy

know to learn so I think it’s healthy

know to learn so I think it’s healthy for everyone to lose a job as well as to

for everyone to lose a job as well as to

for everyone to lose a job as well as to gain a job I came up with a slogan and I

gain a job I came up with a slogan and I

gain a job I came up with a slogan and I told it to my kids all the time I say

told it to my kids all the time I say

told it to my kids all the time I say there’s no losing only learning there’s

there’s no losing only learning there’s

there’s no losing only learning there’s no failure only opportunity and there’s

no failure only opportunity and there’s

no failure only opportunity and there’s no problems only solutions so to me what

no problems only solutions so to me what

no problems only solutions so to me what failure is failure is the mother of all

failure is failure is the mother of all

failure is failure is the mother of all success if it wasn’t for Michael Jordan

success if it wasn’t for Michael Jordan

success if it wasn’t for Michael Jordan getting cut from his ninth grade

getting cut from his ninth grade

getting cut from his ninth grade basketball team he wouldn’t became

basketball team he wouldn’t became

basketball team he wouldn’t became Michael Jordan you know if it wasn’t for

Michael Jordan you know if it wasn’t for

Michael Jordan you know if it wasn’t for I’ve seen an article the other day where

I’ve seen an article the other day where

I’ve seen an article the other day where they were talking about Oprah Winfrey

they were talking about Oprah Winfrey

they were talking about Oprah Winfrey and how she got fired because she wasn’t

and how she got fired because she wasn’t

and how she got fired because she wasn’t good for television you know did you got

good for television you know did you got

good for television you know did you got people like Walt Disney who

people like Walt Disney who

people like Walt Disney who who got fired if I’m not mistaken from a

who got fired if I’m not mistaken from a

who got fired if I’m not mistaken from a newspaper saying he had no imagination

newspaper saying he had no imagination

newspaper saying he had no imagination to maintain a look at the tally seen

to maintain a look at the tally seen

to maintain a look at the tally seen these are the same people that I got a

these are the same people that I got a

these are the same people that I got a deal with Tony was worn out what’s not a

deal with Tony was worn out what’s not a

deal with Tony was worn out what’s not a hit record so what do you tell them you

hit record so what do you tell them you

hit record so what do you tell them you tell them you know you know that that

tell them you know you know that that

tell them you know you know that that all they can do is learn and come back

all they can do is learn and come back

all they can do is learn and come back bigger better stronger because all is

bigger better stronger because all is

bigger better stronger because all is gonna do is lead you in the right

gonna do is lead you in the right

gonna do is lead you in the right direction see if you’re always winning

direction see if you’re always winning

direction see if you’re always winning and you don’t really understand what it

and you don’t really understand what it

and you don’t really understand what it is the win you gotta take those losses

is the win you gotta take those losses

is the win you gotta take those losses you gotta take those hits there’s got to

you gotta take those hits there’s got to

you gotta take those hits there’s got to be the valleys the peach the UPS the

be the valleys the peach the UPS the

be the valleys the peach the UPS the Downs in order for you to when it does

Downs in order for you to when it does

Downs in order for you to when it does happen you go wow regal no this is what

happen you go wow regal no this is what

happen you go wow regal no this is what it’s all about and not only that it’s

it’s all about and not only that it’s

it’s all about and not only that it’s never about making you guys it’s always

never about making you guys it’s always

never about making you guys it’s always about maintaining it that’s the toughest

about maintaining it that’s the toughest

about maintaining it that’s the toughest part you should seek failures see if

part you should seek failures see if

part you should seek failures see if you’re playing it safe you’re not gonna

you’re playing it safe you’re not gonna

you’re playing it safe you’re not gonna win if you’re playing it safe like that

win if you’re playing it safe like that

win if you’re playing it safe like that all say you know you were topping your

all say you know you were topping your

all say you know you were topping your little girl better to be safe than sorry

little girl better to be safe than sorry

little girl better to be safe than sorry well that’s a bunch of crap it’s not

well that’s a bunch of crap it’s not

well that’s a bunch of crap it’s not better be safe than sorry it’s by trying

better be safe than sorry it’s by trying

better be safe than sorry it’s by trying things that you figure out how far you

things that you figure out how far you

things that you figure out how far you can go you’ve got to get outside the box

can go you’ve got to get outside the box

can go you’ve got to get outside the box like it’s reported Edison tried 3000

like it’s reported Edison tried 3000

like it’s reported Edison tried 3000 ways before he built the incandescent

ways before he built the incandescent

ways before he built the incandescent light he said he didn’t deal 3,000 times

light he said he didn’t deal 3,000 times

light he said he didn’t deal 3,000 times he said there was 3,000 different steps

he said there was 3,000 different steps

he said there was 3,000 different steps to building a light bulb well there’s

to building a light bulb well there’s

to building a light bulb well there’s different steps to get to where you’re

different steps to get to where you’re

different steps to get to where you’re going and I really do treat winning and

going and I really do treat winning and

going and I really do treat winning and losing exactly the same I do not let it

losing exactly the same I do not let it

losing exactly the same I do not let it upset me do you think that’s a big part

upset me do you think that’s a big part

upset me do you think that’s a big part of why you’re so successful well it’s

of why you’re so successful well it’s

of why you’re so successful well it’s part of why I enjoy it yeah I think it

part of why I enjoy it yeah I think it

part of why I enjoy it yeah I think it is because I try anything like if if I’m

is because I try anything like if if I’m

is because I try anything like if if I’m into an idea the idea of losing never

into an idea the idea of losing never

into an idea the idea of losing never enters my mind see I have worked with

enters my mind see I have worked with

enters my mind see I have worked with giants I had the good fortune of working

giants I had the good fortune of working

giants I had the good fortune of working with Sir Edmund Hillary he was the first

with Sir Edmund Hillary he was the first

with Sir Edmund Hillary he was the first man to stand on top of the world and I

man to stand on top of the world and I

man to stand on top of the world and I worked with him on three different

worked with him on three different

worked with him on three different occasions and the only difference in ed

occasions and the only difference in ed

occasions and the only difference in ed Hillary and Bob Proctor is in his his

Hillary and Bob Proctor is in his his

Hillary and Bob Proctor is in his his size

size

size he’s gone now but he was a big man when

he’s gone now but he was a big man when

he’s gone now but he was a big man when he struck hands with me his hand wrapped

he struck hands with me his hand wrapped

he struck hands with me his hand wrapped right around mine I felt like Oh dwarf

right around mine I felt like Oh dwarf

right around mine I felt like Oh dwarf you know and it talked into him like it

you know and it talked into him like it

you know and it talked into him like it never entered his mind he wouldn’t get

never entered his mind he wouldn’t get

never entered his mind he wouldn’t get to the top of the mountain but he failed

to the top of the mountain but he failed

to the top of the mountain but he failed in 1951 he failed in 1952

in 1951 he failed in 1952

in 1951 he failed in 1952 it wasn’t until 1953 that he got to the

it wasn’t until 1953 that he got to the

it wasn’t until 1953 that he got to the top of the mountain

top of the mountain

top of the mountain no people had died for centuries trying

no people had died for centuries trying

no people had died for centuries trying to do that he said I knew if I could see

to do that he said I knew if I could see

to do that he said I knew if I could see it in here I could hold it out here

it in here I could hold it out here

it in here I could hold it out here still a man wrote that in the book you

still a man wrote that in the book you

still a man wrote that in the book you can see it in your head you can hold it

can see it in your head you can hold it

can see it in your head you can hold it in your hand and that’s right yet if

in your hand and that’s right yet if

in your hand and that’s right yet if you’re not prepared to lose you’re never

you’re not prepared to lose you’re never

you’re not prepared to lose you’re never gonna win because you’re always playing

gonna win because you’re always playing

gonna win because you’re always playing it safe and there’s no there’s no reward

it safe and there’s no there’s no reward

it safe and there’s no there’s no reward in that I always had this really gross

in that I always had this really gross

in that I always had this really gross dangerous mentality of the no

dangerous mentality of the no

dangerous mentality of the no consideration of failure just never even

consideration of failure just never even

consideration of failure just never even considering the thought of failing like

considering the thought of failing like

considering the thought of failing like if I want something I just go until I

if I want something I just go until I

if I want something I just go until I get it and that doesn’t always work but

get it and that doesn’t always work but

get it and that doesn’t always work but I think like you said every single

I think like you said every single

I think like you said every single artist goes through that like and I

artist goes through that like and I

artist goes through that like and I think a lot of times you think that the

think a lot of times you think that the

think a lot of times you think that the great writers are the people they just

great writers are the people they just

great writers are the people they just write hit after hit after hit and they

write hit after hit after hit and they

write hit after hit after hit and they do but it’s also because they get

do but it’s also because they get

do but it’s also because they get through all the terrible songs first and

through all the terrible songs first and

through all the terrible songs first and I mean I think that’s kind of every

I mean I think that’s kind of every

I mean I think that’s kind of every single artist story and and I mean I

single artist story and and I mean I

single artist story and and I mean I love to talk when people ask what’s your

love to talk when people ask what’s your

love to talk when people ask what’s your best advice for you know up Co musician

best advice for you know up Co musician

best advice for you know up Co musician alright anybody I think it’s that you

alright anybody I think it’s that you

alright anybody I think it’s that you have to be able to rise from the

have to be able to rise from the

have to be able to rise from the failures is what makes a successful

failures is what makes a successful

failures is what makes a successful person because everybody’s gonna you

person because everybody’s gonna you

person because everybody’s gonna you have mishaps so they’re gonna fall down

have mishaps so they’re gonna fall down

have mishaps so they’re gonna fall down and it’s you know the people that

and it’s you know the people that

and it’s you know the people that continuously pick themselves up that are

continuously pick themselves up that are

continuously pick themselves up that are the ones that are gonna find their voice

the ones that are gonna find their voice

the ones that are gonna find their voice make it whatever you want to call it I’m

make it whatever you want to call it I’m

make it whatever you want to call it I’m am pretty sure there were people who you

am pretty sure there were people who you

am pretty sure there were people who you know headed out

know headed out

know headed out as I said you know artists objected some

as I said you know artists objected some

as I said you know artists objected some people have an opinion they like about

people have an opinion they like about

people have an opinion they like about it and of course they have they’re

it and of course they have they’re

it and of course they have they’re entitled to because they pay their money

entitled to because they pay their money

entitled to because they pay their money for it

for it

for it but um you know I never let that stop me

but um you know I never let that stop me

but um you know I never let that stop me I’ve always been able to turn my head

I’ve always been able to turn my head

I’ve always been able to turn my head into great and not really accept any

into great and not really accept any

into great and not really accept any down moments low peaks as a failure but

down moments low peaks as a failure but

down moments low peaks as a failure but yet a lesson to teach me how to be

yet a lesson to teach me how to be

yet a lesson to teach me how to be better stronger more wise and resilient

better stronger more wise and resilient

better stronger more wise and resilient you know I really have never gotten to

you know I really have never gotten to

you know I really have never gotten to the negative stuff

the negative stuff

the negative stuff I don’t really absorb it as an

I don’t really absorb it as an

I don’t really absorb it as an entrepreneur there actually is a

entrepreneur there actually is a

entrepreneur there actually is a definition of failure and a lot of

definition of failure and a lot of

definition of failure and a lot of people ask me when do you move on when

people ask me when do you move on when

people ask me when do you move on when do you when do you stop what you’re

do you when do you stop what you’re

do you when do you stop what you’re doing and say maybe this isn’t working

doing and say maybe this isn’t working

doing and say maybe this isn’t working out and I like to say well first you

out and I like to say well first you

out and I like to say well first you have to believe in if you keep believing

have to believe in if you keep believing

have to believe in if you keep believing in what you’re doing keep going but

in what you’re doing keep going but

in what you’re doing keep going but there’s one other criteria if keeping

there’s one other criteria if keeping

there’s one other criteria if keeping going means you are going to do severe

going means you are going to do severe

going means you are going to do severe physical or mental damage to yourself

physical or mental damage to yourself

physical or mental damage to yourself and you should move on yeah and my last

and you should move on yeah and my last

and you should move on yeah and my last company I sort of got to that point

company I sort of got to that point

company I sort of got to that point no I it was a success for me I mean I

no I it was a success for me I mean I

no I it was a success for me I mean I ultimately sold it to a large company

ultimately sold it to a large company

ultimately sold it to a large company out of Boston called Akamai but I was at

out of Boston called Akamai but I was at

out of Boston called Akamai but I was at that point where I’d gone seven years

that point where I’d gone seven years

that point where I’d gone seven years and it was really hard times and I knew

and it was really hard times and I knew

and it was really hard times and I knew that if I had kept going and this little

that if I had kept going and this little

that if I had kept going and this little blip of success we started to see if

blip of success we started to see if

blip of success we started to see if that was a mirage I knew I would kind of

that was a mirage I knew I would kind of

that was a mirage I knew I would kind of go I would start to go crazy like for

go I would start to go crazy like for

go I would start to go crazy like for real failure is when is maybe when at

real failure is when is maybe when at

real failure is when is maybe when at least I feel like I failed when I didn’t

least I feel like I failed when I didn’t

least I feel like I failed when I didn’t put everything I had into the into a

put everything I had into the into a

put everything I had into the into a problem so really it goes back to the

problem so really it goes back to the

problem so really it goes back to the analogy I made it at the beginning is if

analogy I made it at the beginning is if

analogy I made it at the beginning is if you don’t put it all out there if you

you don’t put it all out there if you

you don’t put it all out there if you don’t put everything you got into

don’t put everything you got into

don’t put everything you got into solving the problem then that’s failure

solving the problem then that’s failure

solving the problem then that’s failure over all that very thumbnail sketch of

over all that very thumbnail sketch of

over all that very thumbnail sketch of very interesting and very inspiring life

very interesting and very inspiring life

very interesting and very inspiring life what what do you think you’ve learnt

what what do you think you’ve learnt

what what do you think you’ve learnt most I mean what what what what would

most I mean what what what what would

most I mean what what what what would you do differently in other words do you

you do differently in other words do you

you do differently in other words do you know I wouldn’t do anything differently

know I wouldn’t do anything differently

know I wouldn’t do anything differently because I think getting things wrong is

because I think getting things wrong is

because I think getting things wrong is is we’ve just talked about getting

is we’ve just talked about getting

is we’ve just talked about getting things wrong as is important as getting

things wrong as is important as getting

things wrong as is important as getting things right so I wouldn’t change

things right so I wouldn’t change

things right so I wouldn’t change anything because actually I have learnt

anything because actually I have learnt

anything because actually I have learnt a lot and the thing that I’ve learnt is

a lot and the thing that I’ve learnt is

a lot and the thing that I’ve learnt is I know what I value in life I know

I know what I value in life I know

I know what I value in life I know what’s important to me I know what I

what’s important to me I know what I

what’s important to me I know what I want to spend my time doing I know the

want to spend my time doing I know the

want to spend my time doing I know the difference is that I want to make and

difference is that I want to make and

difference is that I want to make and more important I absolutely know what I

more important I absolutely know what I

more important I absolutely know what I don’t want to do I’m not going to do

don’t want to do I’m not going to do

don’t want to do I’m not going to do anybody else does I’m just gonna do what

anybody else does I’m just gonna do what

anybody else does I’m just gonna do what I want to do because life’s too short

I want to do because life’s too short

I want to do because life’s too short and I can’t live up to other people’s

and I can’t live up to other people’s

and I can’t live up to other people’s expectations I can only do what I could

expectations I can only do what I could

expectations I can only do what I could deliver a nice life so I put that on my

deliver a nice life so I put that on my

deliver a nice life so I put that on my wrist to remind me all times of like

wrist to remind me all times of like

wrist to remind me all times of like trusting himself you know I mean I’m

trusting himself you know I mean I’m

trusting himself you know I mean I’m flawless that may pop out in Jersey good

flawless that may pop out in Jersey good

flawless that may pop out in Jersey good so you know things up but you can learn

so you know things up but you can learn

so you know things up but you can learn from that you know there’s no such thing

from that you know there’s no such thing

from that you know there’s no such thing as absolute failure except sitting there

as absolute failure except sitting there

as absolute failure except sitting there and not trying you know it’s like that’s

and not trying you know it’s like that’s

and not trying you know it’s like that’s absolute failure but even if you fail at

absolute failure but even if you fail at

absolute failure but even if you fail at something failure is not a success

something failure is not a success

something failure is not a success training as you learn how to do it

training as you learn how to do it

training as you learn how to do it better the next time as long as you try

better the next time as long as you try

better the next time as long as you try again you’re smarter than the average

again you’re smarter than the average

again you’re smarter than the average bear some people trying to try something

bear some people trying to try something

bear some people trying to try something you falls apart and they walk away thank

you falls apart and they walk away thank

you falls apart and they walk away thank you guys so much for watching I hope you

you guys so much for watching I hope you

you guys so much for watching I hope you enjoyed I’d love to know what did you

enjoyed I’d love to know what did you

enjoyed I’d love to know what did you think of the video which clip had the

think of the video which clip had the

think of the video which clip had the biggest impact on you and why leaving

biggest impact on you and why leaving

biggest impact on you and why leaving the comments below and I’m gonna join in

the comments below and I’m gonna join in

the comments below and I’m gonna join in the discussion I also want to give a

the discussion I also want to give a

the discussion I also want to give a quick shout out to black pearls 87 thank

quick shout out to black pearls 87 thank

quick shout out to black pearls 87 thank you so much for picking up a copy of my

you so much for picking up a copy of my

you so much for picking up a copy of my book your one word and posting that

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enjoying it and I appreciate the support

enjoying it and I appreciate the support so thank you guys again for watching I

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so thank you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to

believe in you I hope you continue to

believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your

believe in yourself and whatever your

believe in yourself and whatever your one where it is much love I’ll see you

one where it is much love I’ll see you

one where it is much love I’ll see you soon