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“CONFRONT Your FEARS!” – Lupita Nyong’o (@Lupita_Nyongo) – Top 10 Rules


our dreams arise from our imaginations

our dreams arise from our imaginations they belong to us we owe it to ourselves

they belong to us we owe it to ourselves

they belong to us we owe it to ourselves to try and realize them you learn so

to try and realize them you learn so

to try and realize them you learn so much more when you are taking things

much more when you are taking things

much more when you are taking things personally every day you have to show up

personally every day you have to show up

personally every day you have to show up and like you have to focus on the thing

and like you have to focus on the thing

and like you have to focus on the thing you’re doing

what’s that belief nation that’s heaven

what’s that belief nation that’s heaven my one word is believe and I believe in

my one word is believe and I believe in

my one word is believe and I believe in you I believe you have an amazing gift

you I believe you have an amazing gift

you I believe you have an amazing gift inside you that I want to see explode

inside you that I want to see explode

inside you that I want to see explode out onto the world so let’s get your

out onto the world so let’s get your

out onto the world so let’s get your motivation to attend and get you

motivation to attend and get you

motivation to attend and get you believing in you grab a snack and chew

believing in you grab a snack and chew

believing in you grab a snack and chew in today’s lessons from a woman who grew

in today’s lessons from a woman who grew

in today’s lessons from a woman who grew up in Kenya and feared acting because of

up in Kenya and feared acting because of

up in Kenya and feared acting because of outside forces to becoming the first

outside forces to becoming the first

outside forces to becoming the first Kenyan to win an Academy Award

Kenyan to win an Academy Award

Kenyan to win an Academy Award she’s Lupita Nuno and here’s my take on

she’s Lupita Nuno and here’s my take on

she’s Lupita Nuno and here’s my take on her top ten Rose a success joy

let’s kick things off with rule number

let’s kick things off with rule number one ignore the naysayers when I watched

one ignore the naysayers when I watched

one ignore the naysayers when I watched the color purple and saw Oprah and

the color purple and saw Oprah and

the color purple and saw Oprah and Whoopi Goldberg a seed was planted in my

Whoopi Goldberg a seed was planted in my

Whoopi Goldberg a seed was planted in my heart to be an actor but I dared not

heart to be an actor but I dared not

heart to be an actor but I dared not water it in public you see being an

water it in public you see being an

water it in public you see being an actor wasn’t an honorable thing to do

actor wasn’t an honorable thing to do

actor wasn’t an honorable thing to do especially not for a politician’s

especially not for a politician’s

especially not for a politician’s daughter

daughter

daughter it was thing it’s something that a child

it was thing it’s something that a child

it was thing it’s something that a child did and grown-up children did but not

did and grown-up children did but not

did and grown-up children did but not anyone else

anyone else

anyone else I pursued acting opportunities on the

I pursued acting opportunities on the

I pursued acting opportunities on the side and as long as it was

side and as long as it was

side and as long as it was extracurricular and not my focus it felt

extracurricular and not my focus it felt

extracurricular and not my focus it felt safe and acceptable mind you my parents

safe and acceptable mind you my parents

safe and acceptable mind you my parents never put any pressure on me to be one

never put any pressure on me to be one

never put any pressure on me to be one thing or another but it was the

thing or another but it was the

thing or another but it was the expectations from the larger society

expectations from the larger society

expectations from the larger society that kept me ashamed of the real desire

that kept me ashamed of the real desire

that kept me ashamed of the real desire of my heart and so I got down to the

of my heart and so I got down to the

of my heart and so I got down to the most important work figuring out what

most important work figuring out what

most important work figuring out what steps would get me to being an actor the

steps would get me to being an actor the

steps would get me to being an actor the actor I wanted so badly to be I had an

actor I wanted so badly to be I had an

actor I wanted so badly to be I had an action plan something to work towards

action plan something to work towards

action plan something to work towards getting into the Yale School of Drama

getting into the Yale School of Drama

getting into the Yale School of Drama for acting training to go after my goal

for acting training to go after my goal

for acting training to go after my goal to attend the Yale School of Drama meant

to attend the Yale School of Drama meant

to attend the Yale School of Drama meant that I would have to confront my fear of

that I would have to confront my fear of

that I would have to confront my fear of failure of not being good enough as I

failure of not being good enough as I

failure of not being good enough as I boarded the plane to the US there were

boarded the plane to the US there were

boarded the plane to the US there were naysayers in my head telling me I was

naysayers in my head telling me I was

naysayers in my head telling me I was crazy that I shouldn’t even bother over

crazy that I shouldn’t even bother over

crazy that I shouldn’t even bother over 900 people audition for 15 spots each

900 people audition for 15 spots each

900 people audition for 15 spots each year and yet there was a part of me that

year and yet there was a part of me that

year and yet there was a part of me that knew I could do it even when the part of

knew I could do it even when the part of

knew I could do it even when the part of me that said it was impossible was

me that said it was impossible was

me that said it was impossible was louder our dreams arise from our

louder our dreams arise from our

louder our dreams arise from our imaginations they belong to us we owe it

imaginations they belong to us we owe it

imaginations they belong to us we owe it to ourselves to try and realize them to

to ourselves to try and realize them to

to ourselves to try and realize them to encourage myself I wrote in my diary on

encourage myself I wrote in my diary on

encourage myself I wrote in my diary on the 23rd 3rd of August 2008 I have this

the 23rd 3rd of August 2008 I have this

the 23rd 3rd of August 2008 I have this dream too and desire to be an actor and

dream too and desire to be an actor and

dream too and desire to be an actor and it dwarfs me but it is my dream god damn

it dwarfs me but it is my dream god damn

it dwarfs me but it is my dream god damn it I made it up how can what I dream

it I made it up how can what I dream

it I made it up how can what I dream defeat me

defeat me

defeat me to stay fresh Yale was those three years

to stay fresh Yale was those three years

to stay fresh Yale was those three years were the best years of my school life

were the best years of my school life

were the best years of my school life hands down and at the beginning of

hands down and at the beginning of

hands down and at the beginning of course I was like first of all how on

course I was like first of all how on

course I was like first of all how on earth did I get hit and but the Dean

earth did I get hit and but the Dean

earth did I get hit and but the Dean gave this talk of a first orientation

gave this talk of a first orientation

gave this talk of a first orientation talk and he talked about the imposter

talk and he talked about the imposter

talk and he talked about the imposter syndrome and how everyone in the room

syndrome and how everyone in the room

syndrome and how everyone in the room was probably going through that feeling

was probably going through that feeling

was probably going through that feeling like I don’t I tricked them into getting

like I don’t I tricked them into getting

like I don’t I tricked them into getting here and he was reassuring us that we

here and he was reassuring us that we

here and he was reassuring us that we were all going through it and indeed I

were all going through it and indeed I

were all going through it and indeed I was sitting next to my classmates and

was sitting next to my classmates and

was sitting next to my classmates and some of us broke down crying because we

some of us broke down crying because we

some of us broke down crying because we think yes I thought I was on my own but

think yes I thought I was on my own but

think yes I thought I was on my own but no we’re together you know it was just

no we’re together you know it was just

no we’re together you know it was just it was so reassuring to recognize that

it was so reassuring to recognize that

it was so reassuring to recognize that almost every artist feels that way and

almost every artist feels that way and

almost every artist feels that way and that therefore you’re not as unique as

that therefore you’re not as unique as

that therefore you’re not as unique as you think you are and that’s a good

you think you are and that’s a good

you think you are and that’s a good thing

thing

thing you know they often feel that way even

you know they often feel that way even

you know they often feel that way even after years of oh yeah always always and

after years of oh yeah always always and

after years of oh yeah always always and the thing about acting is that you’re

the thing about acting is that you’re

the thing about acting is that you’re always taking on new stuff you’re taking

always taking on new stuff you’re taking

always taking on new stuff you’re taking on a new role so just as soon as you

on a new role so just as soon as you

on a new role so just as soon as you feel like an expert in something you

feel like an expert in something you

feel like an expert in something you have to leave it and go on to a totally

have to leave it and go on to a totally

have to leave it and go on to a totally new thing and be and be ignorant and

new thing and be and be ignorant and

new thing and be and be ignorant and curious and yeah fresh again and that’s

curious and yeah fresh again and that’s

curious and yeah fresh again and that’s what’s so wonderful it’s it’s what’s

what’s so wonderful it’s it’s what’s

what’s so wonderful it’s it’s what’s wonderful and what’s extremely

wonderful and what’s extremely

wonderful and what’s extremely frustrating about about about this

frustrating about about about this

frustrating about about about this business rule number three live in the

business rule number three live in the

business rule number three live in the moment there are a lot of brutal moments

moment there are a lot of brutal moments

moment there are a lot of brutal moments in this film and one particularly

in this film and one particularly

in this film and one particularly harrowing moment is when you are whipped

harrowing moment is when you are whipped

harrowing moment is when you are whipped by both your slave master in Salomon

by both your slave master in Salomon

by both your slave master in Salomon talk to us about how you prepared to

talk to us about how you prepared to

talk to us about how you prepared to play that scene emotionally and mentally

play that scene emotionally and mentally

play that scene emotionally and mentally and I know the evening before was very

and I know the evening before was very

and I know the evening before was very difficult for you talk to us about that

difficult for you talk to us about that

difficult for you talk to us about that well yeah so the evening before I shot

well yeah so the evening before I shot

well yeah so the evening before I shot that scene we done another scene in

that scene we done another scene in

that scene we done another scene in which I needed that the whips the the

which I needed that the whips the the

which I needed that the whips the the scars from before Patsy is that epic

scars from before Patsy is that epic

scars from before Patsy is that epic whipping and it had taken four hours to

whipping and it had taken four hours to

whipping and it had taken four hours to do those scars and so when I looked at

do those scars and so when I looked at

do those scars and so when I looked at the call sheet for the next day I saw

the call sheet for the next day I saw

the call sheet for the next day I saw that it was gonna be six hours in the

that it was gonna be six hours in the

that it was gonna be six hours in the makeup chair and I was just like I’m not

makeup chair and I was just like I’m not

makeup chair and I was just like I’m not doing that so I suggested to Khaled av

doing that so I suggested to Khaled av

doing that so I suggested to Khaled av the makeup artist that I remain with the

the makeup artist that I remain with the

the makeup artist that I remain with the scars on my back so that we cut our work

scars on my back so that we cut our work

scars on my back so that we cut our work in half for the next day’s work

in half for the next day’s work

in half for the next day’s work I went home with these scars on my back

I went home with these scars on my back

I went home with these scars on my back and I I could only sleep on my belly

and I I could only sleep on my belly

and I I could only sleep on my belly because I didn’t want to mess them up

because I didn’t want to mess them up

because I didn’t want to mess them up and they just haunted me you know they

and they just haunted me you know they

and they just haunted me you know they were so present and I was so

were so present and I was so

were so present and I was so uncomfortable and I had trouble sleeping

uncomfortable and I had trouble sleeping

uncomfortable and I had trouble sleeping the whole time I was doing 12 years a

the whole time I was doing 12 years a

the whole time I was doing 12 years a slave but that night I got even less

slave but that night I got even less

slave but that night I got even less sleep but it occurred to me as I was

sleep but it occurred to me as I was

sleep but it occurred to me as I was weeping in the night that my discomfort

weeping in the night that my discomfort

weeping in the night that my discomfort was temporary and patsies wasn’t and it

was temporary and patsies wasn’t and it

was temporary and patsies wasn’t and it still makes me cry and I had been given

still makes me cry and I had been given

still makes me cry and I had been given this privilege to bring her back to life

this privilege to bring her back to life

this privilege to bring her back to life and it just quieted my soul and prepared

and it just quieted my soul and prepared

and it just quieted my soul and prepared me for the next day’s work is it

me for the next day’s work is it

me for the next day’s work is it emotionally hard to still now disconnect

emotionally hard to still now disconnect

emotionally hard to still now disconnect yourself with everything that you felt

yourself with everything that you felt

yourself with everything that you felt while filming I mean I feel you know the

while filming I mean I feel you know the

while filming I mean I feel you know the best of Patsy remains it hmm the lessons

best of Patsy remains it hmm the lessons

best of Patsy remains it hmm the lessons I learned about the value of presence

I learned about the value of presence

I learned about the value of presence and being in the present moment I feel

and being in the present moment I feel

and being in the present moment I feel like that lesson is what’s helping me

like that lesson is what’s helping me

like that lesson is what’s helping me survive this season Patsy had to live in

survive this season Patsy had to live in

survive this season Patsy had to live in the present moment because she had a

the present moment because she had a

the present moment because she had a master that was a volatile and dangerous

master that was a volatile and dangerous

master that was a volatile and dangerous so she had to be prepared for anything

so she had to be prepared for anything

so she had to be prepared for anything at anytime and that lesson living in the

at anytime and that lesson living in the

at anytime and that lesson living in the moment was just reinforced for me and so

moment was just reinforced for me and so

moment was just reinforced for me and so that remains rule number four write down

that remains rule number four write down

that remains rule number four write down your goals and dreams for do not

your goals and dreams for do not

your goals and dreams for do not underestimate the power of writing your

underestimate the power of writing your

underestimate the power of writing your dreams and goals down right before I got

dreams and goals down right before I got

dreams and goals down right before I got cast in 12 years of slave I wrote in my

cast in 12 years of slave I wrote in my

cast in 12 years of slave I wrote in my diary what kind of work I wanted to do I

diary what kind of work I wanted to do I

diary what kind of work I wanted to do I envisioned this was on May 4th 2012 that

envisioned this was on May 4th 2012 that

envisioned this was on May 4th 2012 that I wanted to make meaningful films that

I wanted to make meaningful films that

I wanted to make meaningful films that effect change in people’s understanding

effect change in people’s understanding

effect change in people’s understanding of and commitment to the world we live

of and commitment to the world we live

of and commitment to the world we live in I also wrote that I wanted to visit

in I also wrote that I wanted to visit

in I also wrote that I wanted to visit New Orleans for a week on May 13th

New Orleans for a week on May 13th

New Orleans for a week on May 13th I booked 12 years a slave and on June

I booked 12 years a slave and on June

I booked 12 years a slave and on June 6th I would be in Louisiana working on

6th I would be in Louisiana working on

6th I would be in Louisiana working on the film for five weeks

the film for five weeks

the film for five weeks rule number five be authentic a lot of

rule number five be authentic a lot of

rule number five be authentic a lot of people look at you as a symbol of black

people look at you as a symbol of black

people look at you as a symbol of black girl healing in a lot of ways and I

girl healing in a lot of ways and I

girl healing in a lot of ways and I think sometimes when you hold such a

think sometimes when you hold such a

think sometimes when you hold such a high standard I say what I believe in

high standard I say what I believe in

high standard I say what I believe in and and so it doesn’t feel like labor it

and and so it doesn’t feel like labor it

and and so it doesn’t feel like labor it actually feels like an opportunity you

actually feels like an opportunity you

actually feels like an opportunity you know and I I I’m it touches me when

know and I I I’m it touches me when

know and I I I’m it touches me when people say I say these things about what

people say I say these things about what

people say I say these things about what I mean I didn’t seek that I didn’t that

I mean I didn’t seek that I didn’t that

I mean I didn’t seek that I didn’t that was not my intention but I feel that you

was not my intention but I feel that you

was not my intention but I feel that you know like Fiona in this story her

know like Fiona in this story her

know like Fiona in this story her intention was to play chess she couldn’t

intention was to play chess she couldn’t

intention was to play chess she couldn’t have known that she would pull her

have known that she would pull her

have known that she would pull her family out of poverty by doing that she

family out of poverty by doing that she

family out of poverty by doing that she also couldn’t have known that she would

also couldn’t have known that she would

also couldn’t have known that she would give me a job by playing chess and yet

give me a job by playing chess and yet

give me a job by playing chess and yet she has and so I think when you follow

she has and so I think when you follow

she has and so I think when you follow your dream you follow your passion you

your dream you follow your passion you

your dream you follow your passion you have so much more use than you even

have so much more use than you even

have so much more use than you even realize you’re gonna be and so for me

realize you’re gonna be and so for me

realize you’re gonna be and so for me when you say that to me it’s just a

when you say that to me it’s just a

when you say that to me it’s just a encouragement for me to keep going doing

encouragement for me to keep going doing

encouragement for me to keep going doing the thing I love which is acting and

the thing I love which is acting and

the thing I love which is acting and that has given me a platform to say

that has given me a platform to say

that has given me a platform to say things and and be things to people way

things and and be things to people way

things and and be things to people way more than the thing that I’m passionate

more than the thing that I’m passionate

more than the thing that I’m passionate about well number six find your path I

about well number six find your path I

about well number six find your path I always love to perform I was the child

always love to perform I was the child

always love to perform I was the child who preferred to sit in my cupboard in

who preferred to sit in my cupboard in

who preferred to sit in my cupboard in the closet and play with my Barbies in

the closet and play with my Barbies in

the closet and play with my Barbies in the dark and then go outside didn’t like

the dark and then go outside didn’t like

the dark and then go outside didn’t like ride a bike yeah I loved make-believe

ride a bike yeah I loved make-believe

ride a bike yeah I loved make-believe and my mom tells the story about when I

and my mom tells the story about when I

and my mom tells the story about when I was like three I hadn’t even been to

was like three I hadn’t even been to

was like three I hadn’t even been to school yet but she had a guest over and

school yet but she had a guest over and

school yet but she had a guest over and I spun this tale about how I went to

I spun this tale about how I went to

I spun this tale about how I went to school and what I dad had for lunch and

school and what I dad had for lunch and

school and what I dad had for lunch and what uniform I wore and who had played

what uniform I wore and who had played

what uniform I wore and who had played with and everything I remember there was

with and everything I remember there was

with and everything I remember there was just like this child is bound to be in

just like this child is bound to be in

just like this child is bound to be in the performing arts yeah so it was an

the performing arts yeah so it was an

the performing arts yeah so it was an early

early

early passion and then it wasn’t until I

passion and then it wasn’t until I

passion and then it wasn’t until I watched the color purple that I thought

watched the color purple that I thought

watched the color purple that I thought oh maybe I could do this from in my life

oh maybe I could do this from in my life

oh maybe I could do this from in my life because you know it was like people that

because you know it was like people that

because you know it was like people that looked like me and I remember Whoopi

looked like me and I remember Whoopi

looked like me and I remember Whoopi Goldberg especially really moved me and

Goldberg especially really moved me and

Goldberg especially really moved me and yeah that was the first time that I

yeah that was the first time that I

yeah that was the first time that I thought oh maybe I could be an actor but

thought oh maybe I could be an actor but

thought oh maybe I could be an actor but it took a while before I actually

it took a while before I actually

it took a while before I actually uttered it out loud and said that that’s

uttered it out loud and said that that’s

uttered it out loud and said that that’s what I wanted to do number seven reach

what I wanted to do number seven reach

what I wanted to do number seven reach out to your stretcher-bearers reach out

out to your stretcher-bearers reach out

out to your stretcher-bearers reach out to your stretcher-bearers this is a

to your stretcher-bearers this is a

to your stretcher-bearers this is a concept I carried with me from high

concept I carried with me from high

concept I carried with me from high school bible teaching it speaks of a

school bible teaching it speaks of a

school bible teaching it speaks of a time when Jesus was teaching a crowd of

time when Jesus was teaching a crowd of

time when Jesus was teaching a crowd of people that had come from all over some

people that had come from all over some

people that had come from all over some men came late carrying their paralyzed

men came late carrying their paralyzed

men came late carrying their paralyzed friend on a stretcher it was so crowded

friend on a stretcher it was so crowded

friend on a stretcher it was so crowded around Jesus so they decided to go up on

around Jesus so they decided to go up on

around Jesus so they decided to go up on the roof

the roof

the roof take out the tiles and lower the man

take out the tiles and lower the man

take out the tiles and lower the man into the middle of the crowd in front of

into the middle of the crowd in front of

into the middle of the crowd in front of Jesus when Jesus saw their faith and how

Jesus when Jesus saw their faith and how

Jesus when Jesus saw their faith and how much love they had he cured the man

much love they had he cured the man

much love they had he cured the man instantly of his paralysis my teacher in

instantly of his paralysis my teacher in

instantly of his paralysis my teacher in her message encouraged us to make sure

her message encouraged us to make sure

her message encouraged us to make sure we too had those stretcher bearers in

we too had those stretcher bearers in

we too had those stretcher bearers in our lives at least for people who would

our lives at least for people who would

our lives at least for people who would carry us to healing and safety when we

carry us to healing and safety when we

carry us to healing and safety when we can’t do it for ourselves the people who

can’t do it for ourselves the people who

can’t do it for ourselves the people who will remind you that you are not alone

will remind you that you are not alone

will remind you that you are not alone when your emotions get the best of you

when your emotions get the best of you

when your emotions get the best of you emotionally the gem or the treasure that

emotionally the gem or the treasure that

emotionally the gem or the treasure that is acting is that you actually get to

is acting is that you actually get to

is acting is that you actually get to put your self in someone else’s shoes

put your self in someone else’s shoes

put your self in someone else’s shoes and there is a the it I learned you

and there is a the it I learned you

and there is a the it I learned you learned so much more when you are taking

learned so much more when you are taking

learned so much more when you are taking things personally and so for me to have

things personally and so for me to have

things personally and so for me to have to take slavery personally is something

to take slavery personally is something

to take slavery personally is something that I can never unlearn you know and I

that I can never unlearn you know and I

that I can never unlearn you know and I had learned about slavery theoretically

had learned about slavery theoretically

had learned about slavery theoretically analytically but what 12 years a slave

analytically but what 12 years a slave

analytically but what 12 years a slave gave me was to learn about it

gave me was to learn about it

gave me was to learn about it emotionally and physically and that kind

emotionally and physically and that kind

emotionally and physically and that kind of learning is so deep and you know I

of learning is so deep and you know I

of learning is so deep and you know I just went to the

just went to the

just went to the the opening of the National Museum of

the opening of the National Museum of

the opening of the National Museum of african-american history and culture and

african-american history and culture and

african-american history and culture and you know walking through the halls and

you know walking through the halls and

you know walking through the halls and visiting revisiting slavery and going up

visiting revisiting slavery and going up

visiting revisiting slavery and going up to emancipation civil rights and all

to emancipation civil rights and all

to emancipation civil rights and all that and ending up in a room where

that and ending up in a room where

that and ending up in a room where Patsy’s dress is on display I mean it

Patsy’s dress is on display I mean it

Patsy’s dress is on display I mean it it’s so alive for me and it it I into

it’s so alive for me and it it I into

it’s so alive for me and it it I into that history at that time and I will

that history at that time and I will

that history at that time and I will never be the same again you know and I

never be the same again you know and I

never be the same again you know and I think that’s what’s so powerful about

think that’s what’s so powerful about

think that’s what’s so powerful about cinema is that you can actually have a

cinema is that you can actually have a

cinema is that you can actually have a moment to take someone else’s life

moment to take someone else’s life

moment to take someone else’s life personally and and in doing so hopefully

personally and and in doing so hopefully

personally and and in doing so hopefully it encourages empathy and you know and

it encourages empathy and you know and

it encourages empathy and you know and that we share a humanity and we can

that we share a humanity and we can

that we share a humanity and we can share in those experiences in a very

share in those experiences in a very

share in those experiences in a very real and tangible way and hopefully draw

real and tangible way and hopefully draw

real and tangible way and hopefully draw closer to each other number nine

closer to each other number nine

closer to each other number nine work hard doing a play takes stamina and

work hard doing a play takes stamina and

work hard doing a play takes stamina and because you have to do the whole thing

because you have to do the whole thing

because you have to do the whole thing every single day and you have to do it

every single day and you have to do it

every single day and you have to do it like you’ve never done it before and

like you’ve never done it before and

like you’ve never done it before and that’s why I wanted to do a play because

that’s why I wanted to do a play because

that’s why I wanted to do a play because it makes you it brings you know a

it makes you it brings you know a

it makes you it brings you know a regimen and it just is a good workout

regimen and it just is a good workout

regimen and it just is a good workout for acting and so with black panther one

for acting and so with black panther one

for acting and so with black panther one of the things that I needed stamina for

of the things that I needed stamina for

of the things that I needed stamina for was the fighting that all the the

was the fighting that all the the

was the fighting that all the the physical challenge and so I went

physical challenge and so I went

physical challenge and so I went straight into we went into a six-week

straight into we went into a six-week

straight into we went into a six-week boot camp and it came in very handy you

boot camp and it came in very handy you

boot camp and it came in very handy you know that kind of like diligence just

know that kind of like diligence just

know that kind of like diligence just you know get there and do the work and

you know get there and do the work and

you know get there and do the work and it also helped me get over the fact that

it also helped me get over the fact that

it also helped me get over the fact that I was part of black panther you know

I was part of black panther you know

I was part of black panther you know because it takes work every day you have

because it takes work every day you have

because it takes work every day you have to show up and like you have to focus on

to show up and like you have to focus on

to show up and like you have to focus on the thing you’re doing you have to focus

the thing you’re doing you have to focus

the thing you’re doing you have to focus on that one ring baton and what it’s

on that one ring baton and what it’s

on that one ring baton and what it’s doing so yeah I’d say stamina I’m really

doing so yeah I’d say stamina I’m really

doing so yeah I’d say stamina I’m really retaining the last one before some very

retaining the last one before some very

retaining the last one before some very special bonus clips have fun the

special bonus clips have fun the

special bonus clips have fun the category is animals and you’re gonna act

category is animals and you’re gonna act

category is animals and you’re gonna act out animals you can’t talk okay I just

out animals you can’t talk okay I just

out animals you can’t talk okay I just have to move and be an animal that I’m

have to move and be an animal that I’m

have to move and be an animal that I’m gonna guess and so you’ll stand up if I

gonna guess and so you’ll stand up if I

gonna guess and so you’ll stand up if I do yeah I’m gonna you can make noises

do yeah I’m gonna you can make noises

do yeah I’m gonna you can make noises are you getting serious

are you getting serious

are you getting serious oh you’re a kangaroo no you’re a bunny

oh you’re a kangaroo no you’re a bunny

oh you’re a kangaroo no you’re a bunny yes okay elephant very good at this oh

yes okay elephant very good at this oh

yes okay elephant very good at this oh you’re a pig yes mmm a flamenco ostrich

you’re a pig yes mmm a flamenco ostrich

you’re a pig yes mmm a flamenco ostrich a giraffe

a giraffe

a giraffe [Applause]

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[Applause] your IRB

your IRB

your IRB [Music]

now I’ve got three very special bonus

now I’ve got three very special bonus clips from Lupita about working in a

clips from Lupita about working in a

clips from Lupita about working in a great environment opening yourself up

great environment opening yourself up

great environment opening yourself up for failure and fighting for equality

for failure and fighting for equality

for failure and fighting for equality but before that I want you to make a

but before that I want you to make a

but before that I want you to make a commitment of the day

commitment of the day

commitment of the day don’t just watch another video and

don’t just watch another video and

don’t just watch another video and continue on with your day if you were

continue on with your day if you were

continue on with your day if you were moved by this in any stretch write down

moved by this in any stretch write down

moved by this in any stretch write down in the comments below how you’re going

in the comments below how you’re going

in the comments below how you’re going to commit yourself to changing your life

to commit yourself to changing your life

to commit yourself to changing your life or your business leave it down below I’m

or your business leave it down below I’m

or your business leave it down below I’m really curious to find out thank you

really curious to find out thank you

really curious to find out thank you guys so much for watching I believe in

guys so much for watching I believe in

guys so much for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in

you I hope you continue to believe in

you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one word is

yourself and whatever your one word is

yourself and whatever your one word is much love I’ll see you soon and enjoy

much love I’ll see you soon and enjoy

much love I’ll see you soon and enjoy the bonus clips

acting is not like math where there is

acting is not like math where there is only one correct answer to the problem

only one correct answer to the problem

only one correct answer to the problem and once you’ve figured out the formula

and once you’ve figured out the formula

and once you’ve figured out the formula you’re all set in acting like in life

you’re all set in acting like in life

you’re all set in acting like in life sometimes coming up with the wrong

sometimes coming up with the wrong

sometimes coming up with the wrong answer to the problem is the best way to

answer to the problem is the best way to

answer to the problem is the best way to figure out the formula for yourself in

figure out the formula for yourself in

figure out the formula for yourself in acting school you are expected to fail

acting school you are expected to fail

acting school you are expected to fail and fail publicly a lot it is the

and fail publicly a lot it is the

and fail publicly a lot it is the constant exposure to failure that frees

constant exposure to failure that frees

constant exposure to failure that frees you from the strongholds of the ego and

you from the strongholds of the ego and

you from the strongholds of the ego and allows you to embrace vulnerability and

allows you to embrace vulnerability and

allows you to embrace vulnerability and it is an embracing vulnerability that

it is an embracing vulnerability that

it is an embracing vulnerability that you can surprise yourself in performance

you can surprise yourself in performance

you can surprise yourself in performance and share something really special about

and share something really special about

and share something really special about human nature without the possibility of

human nature without the possibility of

human nature without the possibility of being bad you will never be

being bad you will never be

being bad you will never be extraordinary and so I resolved to

extraordinary and so I resolved to

extraordinary and so I resolved to operate from a sense of self that was

operate from a sense of self that was

operate from a sense of self that was louder than my critic and faster than my

louder than my critic and faster than my

louder than my critic and faster than my worry it is only in that space that you

worry it is only in that space that you

worry it is only in that space that you can truly be free and innovate

can truly be free and innovate

can truly be free and innovate Michael is fire and ShoreTel is water

Michael is fire and ShoreTel is water

Michael is fire and ShoreTel is water and both elements are intriguing

and both elements are intriguing

and both elements are intriguing mysterious and dangerous and that was

mysterious and dangerous and that was

mysterious and dangerous and that was what it was like working with another

what it was like working with another

what it was like working with another thing that’s why they make such good

thing that’s why they make such good

thing that’s why they make such good they make such good scene partners

they make such good scene partners

they make such good scene partners because they have such different

because they have such different

because they have such different energies you know Michael anything

energies you know Michael anything

energies you know Michael anything happening with Michael at any time so he

happening with Michael at any time so he

happening with Michael at any time so he keeps you on your feet and with to tell

keeps you on your feet and with to tell

keeps you on your feet and with to tell especially with this character he’s

especially with this character he’s

especially with this character he’s playing he had he was he was grounded

playing he had he was he was grounded

playing he had he was he was grounded and he was still and he was present he

and he was still and he was present he

and he was still and he was present he was focused and he was calm and I think

was focused and he was calm and I think

was focused and he was calm and I think he really did set the culture on the set

he really did set the culture on the set

he really did set the culture on the set you know then allowed it for us to do

you know then allowed it for us to do

you know then allowed it for us to do this with ease he’s also a very

this with ease he’s also a very

this with ease he’s also a very efficient actor you know so with both of

efficient actor you know so with both of

efficient actor you know so with both of them you know you go in and you go in

them you know you go in and you go in

them you know you go in and you go in 110 percent and then you come out and

110 percent and then you come out and

110 percent and then you come out and you’re totally out and you’re going

you’re totally out and you’re going

you’re totally out and you’re going paintballing and and you know and

paintballing and and you know and

paintballing and and you know and and dancing and stuff like that so it

and dancing and stuff like that so it

and dancing and stuff like that so it was good to have that kind of work ethic

was good to have that kind of work ethic

was good to have that kind of work ethic where we’re fully focused for the time

where we’re fully focused for the time

where we’re fully focused for the time in which we’re making bringing the story

in which we’re making bringing the story

in which we’re making bringing the story back to life and then we leave it I

back to life and then we leave it I

back to life and then we leave it I don’t remember ever talking about the

don’t remember ever talking about the

don’t remember ever talking about the the story like the script very little

the story like the script very little

the story like the script very little very little did we speak about the

very little did we speak about the

very little did we speak about the script off set and yeah it was about

script off set and yeah it was about

script off set and yeah it was about just trusting that we were each doing

just trusting that we were each doing

just trusting that we were each doing our individual work and then coming full

our individual work and then coming full

our individual work and then coming full to like let go and give the scene just

to like let go and give the scene just

to like let go and give the scene just leave everything in the scene

don’t freeze it was such a breath of

don’t freeze it was such a breath of fresh air you know to see men and women

fresh air you know to see men and women

fresh air you know to see men and women occupying they’re just living in their

occupying they’re just living in their

occupying they’re just living in their power without one dwarfing the other and

power without one dwarfing the other and

power without one dwarfing the other and to me it was just like a reflective of

to me it was just like a reflective of

to me it was just like a reflective of the fact that sexism is learned at the

the fact that sexism is learned at the

the fact that sexism is learned at the end of the day and everything that comes

end of the day and everything that comes

end of the day and everything that comes with it you know and so to see an

with it you know and so to see an

with it you know and so to see an example of a society that’s not it

example of a society that’s not it

example of a society that’s not it doesn’t have that the gender is not the

doesn’t have that the gender is not the

doesn’t have that the gender is not the fabric with which society is built

fabric with which society is built

fabric with which society is built necessarily you know that it’s

necessarily you know that it’s

necessarily you know that it’s functioning wholesomely

functioning wholesomely

functioning wholesomely you know in the delineation of sex are

you know in the delineation of sex are

you know in the delineation of sex are not that oppressive and

not that oppressive and

not that oppressive and and that’s really cool and it’s possible

and that’s really cool and it’s possible

and that’s really cool and it’s possible [Music]

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the most important one word is for Tony

the most important one word is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk

Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk

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