good morning believe nation today’s message is clarify what you want from
message is clarify what you want from
message is clarify what you want from life over to you David Allen I think
life over to you David Allen I think
life over to you David Allen I think people need to get sit down and clarify
people need to get sit down and clarify
people need to get sit down and clarify what experiences are you really looking
what experiences are you really looking
what experiences are you really looking for in your life and that doesn’t
for in your life and that doesn’t
for in your life and that doesn’t necessarily mean it can include lots of
necessarily mean it can include lots of
necessarily mean it can include lots of money but it can also include what do
money but it can also include what do
money but it can also include what do you want to experience with that money a
you want to experience with that money a
you want to experience with that money a sense of freedom a sense of service a
sense of freedom a sense of service a
sense of freedom a sense of service a sense of providing value to the world a
sense of providing value to the world a
sense of providing value to the world a sense of self confidence and self
sense of self confidence and self
sense of self confidence and self efficacy what is it that you’re after so
efficacy what is it that you’re after so
efficacy what is it that you’re after so there’s you know in my own you know
there’s you know in my own you know
there’s you know in my own you know explorations and the whole personal
explorations and the whole personal
explorations and the whole personal growth and self-awareness the own game
growth and self-awareness the own game
growth and self-awareness the own game for years I’ve been involved in that
for years I’ve been involved in that
for years I’ve been involved in that pretty seriously you know there’s an
pretty seriously you know there’s an
pretty seriously you know there’s an exercise that say well what do you want
exercise that say well what do you want
exercise that say well what do you want I want a red Porsche great what
I want a red Porsche great what
I want a red Porsche great what experience do you think that’s gonna
experience do you think that’s gonna
experience do you think that’s gonna give you freedom in a sense of fun
give you freedom in a sense of fun
give you freedom in a sense of fun whatever and then the people get the red
whatever and then the people get the red
whatever and then the people get the red Porsche and they’re worried about
Porsche and they’re worried about
Porsche and they’re worried about somebody going to Dennett and they you
somebody going to Dennett and they you
somebody going to Dennett and they you know they can’t afford the payments on
know they can’t afford the payments on
know they can’t afford the payments on it they didn’t really get the experience
it they didn’t really get the experience
it they didn’t really get the experience they were looking for what happened they
they were looking for what happened they
they were looking for what happened they got the they got the symbol but they
got the they got the symbol but they
got the they got the symbol but they didn’t get the inner experience but if
didn’t get the inner experience but if
didn’t get the inner experience but if you want the experience of freedom and
you want the experience of freedom and
you want the experience of freedom and fun you can have that this afternoon it
fun you can have that this afternoon it
fun you can have that this afternoon it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have the red
doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have the red
doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have the red Porsche but it just means that if you
Porsche but it just means that if you
Porsche but it just means that if you start to focus on the inner experience
start to focus on the inner experience
start to focus on the inner experience what would climbing the corporate ladder
what would climbing the corporate ladder
what would climbing the corporate ladder give you as an inner experience why do
give you as an inner experience why do
give you as an inner experience why do you want that what’s important to you
you want that what’s important to you
you want that what’s important to you about that and it could be it could be I
about that and it could be it could be I
about that and it could be it could be I want to I want to provide you know for
want to I want to provide you know for
want to I want to provide you know for my family for you know for after I’m
my family for you know for after I’m
my family for you know for after I’m gone so there’s a sense of building
gone so there’s a sense of building
gone so there’s a sense of building wealth or building net worth or building
wealth or building net worth or building
wealth or building net worth or building assets you know for the people around
assets you know for the people around
assets you know for the people around you that that care that matter to you
you that that care that matter to you
you that that care that matter to you that’s there’s no right or wrong about
that’s there’s no right or wrong about
that’s there’s no right or wrong about any of your answers to this but I think
any of your answers to this but I think
any of your answers to this but I think getting clear about whether you want to
getting clear about whether you want to
getting clear about whether you want to do that or whether you want to get there
do that or whether you want to get there
do that or whether you want to get there because you want to be able to impact a
because you want to be able to impact a
because you want to be able to impact a much larger segment of the world for
much larger segment of the world for
much larger segment of the world for doing good or taking it over I don’t
doing good or taking it over I don’t
doing good or taking it over I don’t know what do you know whatever you want
know what do you know whatever you want
know what do you know whatever you want but I think that’s the key is being able
but I think that’s the key is being able
but I think that’s the key is being able to externalize and start to become
to externalize and start to become
to externalize and start to become objective about well what is it that
objective about well what is it that
objective about well what is it that you’re after
you’re after
you’re after and so just crafting your own ideal
and so just crafting your own ideal
and so just crafting your own ideal scene not only of the things you want
scene not only of the things you want
scene not only of the things you want which is fine don’t don’t stop that
which is fine don’t don’t stop that
which is fine don’t don’t stop that knife right don’t feel embarrassed that
knife right don’t feel embarrassed that
knife right don’t feel embarrassed that you
you
you a red portion so there’s nothing wrong
a red portion so there’s nothing wrong
a red portion so there’s nothing wrong with any of that material stuff that you
with any of that material stuff that you
with any of that material stuff that you might want but it’s also true that it’s
might want but it’s also true that it’s
might want but it’s also true that it’s a real good idea to just say let me just
a real good idea to just say let me just
a real good idea to just say let me just play that all out and then use that as a
play that all out and then use that as a
play that all out and then use that as a map just to then guide you in terms of
map just to then guide you in terms of
map just to then guide you in terms of your intuitive decision-making I don’t
your intuitive decision-making I don’t
your intuitive decision-making I don’t think you have to work at it that hard
think you have to work at it that hard
think you have to work at it that hard but I think you do need to be conscious
but I think you do need to be conscious
but I think you do need to be conscious about it and validate it in some part of
about it and validate it in some part of
about it and validate it in some part of yourself I think people focus on the
yourself I think people focus on the
yourself I think people focus on the wrong things just in general just in
wrong things just in general just in
wrong things just in general just in life people focus on the wrong things
life people focus on the wrong things
life people focus on the wrong things you’re attached to like David said the
you’re attached to like David said the
you’re attached to like David said the porch right you want the porch why do
porch right you want the porch why do
porch right you want the porch why do you want the porch maybe because you
you want the porch maybe because you
you want the porch maybe because you want the excitement maybe just want it
want the excitement maybe just want it
want the excitement maybe just want it as a status symbol so many people have
as a status symbol so many people have
as a status symbol so many people have these goals that I want to make X amount
these goals that I want to make X amount
these goals that I want to make X amount of dollars or I want to go on that
of dollars or I want to go on that
of dollars or I want to go on that vacation or I want to buy that car or
vacation or I want to buy that car or
vacation or I want to buy that car or get that house because it’s a status
get that house because it’s a status
get that house because it’s a status symbol because that’s the sign getting
symbol because that’s the sign getting
symbol because that’s the sign getting that Porsche is a sign that I’ve made it
that Porsche is a sign that I’ve made it
that Porsche is a sign that I’ve made it I’ve made it now because I got that car
I’ve made it now because I got that car
I’ve made it now because I got that car and the fact that you have so much of
and the fact that you have so much of
and the fact that you have so much of your self-worth tied up into objects is
your self-worth tied up into objects is
your self-worth tied up into objects is ridiculous you’re a valuable human being
ridiculous you’re a valuable human being
ridiculous you’re a valuable human being whether you have that car or not I’ve
whether you have that car or not I’ve
whether you have that car or not I’ve gone from living in a basement apartment
gone from living in a basement apartment
gone from living in a basement apartment to living with my parents
to living with my parents
to living with my parents to building a 5,000 square foot custom
to building a 5,000 square foot custom
to building a 5,000 square foot custom home from scratch to living in a condo
home from scratch to living in a condo
home from scratch to living in a condo renting buying doesn’t matter where I am
renting buying doesn’t matter where I am
renting buying doesn’t matter where I am doesn’t matter doesn’t impact my
doesn’t matter doesn’t impact my
doesn’t matter doesn’t impact my self-worth and because somebody else
self-worth and because somebody else
self-worth and because somebody else might look at me and say oh you’re
might look at me and say oh you’re
might look at me and say oh you’re living with your parents versus oh you
living with your parents versus oh you
living with your parents versus oh you have this 5,000 square-foot modern
have this 5,000 square-foot modern
have this 5,000 square-foot modern custom home their impact their thoughts
custom home their impact their thoughts
custom home their impact their thoughts on me has nothing to do with how I think
on me has nothing to do with how I think
on me has nothing to do with how I think about myself and the value that I add to
about myself and the value that I add to
about myself and the value that I add to myself and I think that’s an important
myself and I think that’s an important
myself and I think that’s an important distinction because a lot of the things
distinction because a lot of the things
distinction because a lot of the things that you’re doing in life in your
that you’re doing in life in your
that you’re doing in life in your business and in life are just trying to
business and in life are just trying to
business and in life are just trying to impress other people because the fact
impress other people because the fact
impress other people because the fact that they think highly of you now makes
that they think highly of you now makes
that they think highly of you now makes you feel better about yourself stop
you feel better about yourself stop
you feel better about yourself stop caring so much about what other people
caring so much about what other people
caring so much about what other people think about you there’s a great line I
think about you there’s a great line I
think about you there’s a great line I think from Quincy Jones who said not one
think from Quincy Jones who said not one
think from Quincy Jones who said not one ounce of my self-worth comes from what
ounce of my self-worth comes from what
ounce of my self-worth comes from what you think about me and I think it’s
you think about me and I think it’s
you think about me and I think it’s incredibly powerful if you can really
incredibly powerful if you can really
incredibly powerful if you can really embrace that and let that go and stop
embrace that and let that go and stop
embrace that and let that go and stop getting things and stop chasing dreams
getting things and stop chasing dreams
getting things and stop chasing dreams and goals because you’re worried about
and goals because you’re worried about
and goals because you’re worried about or you’re trying to impress somebody
or you’re trying to impress somebody
or you’re trying to impress somebody else you know I look at some of the
else you know I look at some of the
else you know I look at some of the goals that I have you know I want to
goals that I have you know I want to
goals that I have you know I want to have a million subscribers on this
have a million subscribers on this
have a million subscribers on this channel right I want to reach a billion
channel right I want to reach a billion
channel right I want to reach a billion entrepreneurs the goals themselves don’t
entrepreneurs the goals themselves don’t
entrepreneurs the goals themselves don’t matter
matter
matter much more important than how many
much more important than how many
much more important than how many subscribers I’d get is how I get my
subscribers I’d get is how I get my
subscribers I’d get is how I get my subscribers much more important than how
subscribers much more important than how
subscribers much more important than how much money you make is how you make your
much money you make is how you make your
much money you make is how you make your money it makes a big difference because
money it makes a big difference because
money it makes a big difference because yes I’d love to have a million
yes I’d love to have a million
yes I’d love to have a million subscribers yeah I’d get a new I’d get a
subscribers yeah I’d get a new I’d get a
subscribers yeah I’d get a new I’d get a new plaque here that I could put here
new plaque here that I could put here
new plaque here that I could put here this little gold YouTube play button
this little gold YouTube play button
this little gold YouTube play button that’s awesome but does that mean that I
that’s awesome but does that mean that I
that’s awesome but does that mean that I made it now does that mean that suddenly
made it now does that mean that suddenly
made it now does that mean that suddenly I’m a good youtuber and before I wasn’t
I’m a good youtuber and before I wasn’t
I’m a good youtuber and before I wasn’t I love the stuff I’m making I’m really
I love the stuff I’m making I’m really
I love the stuff I’m making I’m really proud of the videos that I’m making I
proud of the videos that I’m making I
proud of the videos that I’m making I was proud of the videos I was making a
was proud of the videos I was making a
was proud of the videos I was making a month ago in six months ago in 3 years
month ago in six months ago in 3 years
month ago in six months ago in 3 years ago and five years ago I might be better
ago and five years ago I might be better
ago and five years ago I might be better now I might have more practice I might
now I might have more practice I might
now I might have more practice I might be turning up a little bit more now I
be turning up a little bit more now I
be turning up a little bit more now I might feel like my impact because of the
might feel like my impact because of the
might feel like my impact because of the skill and work and effort that I put in
skill and work and effort that I put in
skill and work and effort that I put in my impact is greater now but the number
my impact is greater now but the number
my impact is greater now but the number itself the vanity symbol doesn’t mean
itself the vanity symbol doesn’t mean
itself the vanity symbol doesn’t mean anything now I still want to have that
anything now I still want to have that
anything now I still want to have that goal it’s great to have goals I think
goal it’s great to have goals I think
goal it’s great to have goals I think the goals are are important measures
the goals are are important measures
the goals are are important measures that go after it’s awesome but my
that go after it’s awesome but my
that go after it’s awesome but my self-worth is not tied up to whether I
self-worth is not tied up to whether I
self-worth is not tied up to whether I hit a million subscribers or not
hit a million subscribers or not
hit a million subscribers or not and I think that’s a problem for a lot
and I think that’s a problem for a lot
and I think that’s a problem for a lot of people I think people make the wrong
of people I think people make the wrong
of people I think people make the wrong decisions do the wrong things and focus
decisions do the wrong things and focus
decisions do the wrong things and focus on the things are not important me
on the things are not important me
on the things are not important me having a million subscribers is nowhere
having a million subscribers is nowhere
having a million subscribers is nowhere close nowhere near as important as the
close nowhere near as important as the
close nowhere near as important as the impact that I feel like I’m having on
impact that I feel like I’m having on
impact that I feel like I’m having on you guys touching your life getting in
you guys touching your life getting in
you guys touching your life getting in here for you that’s important for me I
here for you that’s important for me I
here for you that’s important for me I want you to go off and do amazing things
want you to go off and do amazing things
want you to go off and do amazing things with your life and with your business
with your life and with your business
with your life and with your business that’s why I make these videos I hope
that’s why I make these videos I hope
that’s why I make these videos I hope that something in here inspires you to
that something in here inspires you to
that something in here inspires you to want to go off and have a positive
want to go off and have a positive
want to go off and have a positive impact on the world
impact on the world
impact on the world that fuels me every single day and it
that fuels me every single day and it
that fuels me every single day and it doesn’t matter if I have a million
doesn’t matter if I have a million
doesn’t matter if I have a million subscribers or not I think just asking
subscribers or not I think just asking
subscribers or not I think just asking yourself why why is this important to me
yourself why why is this important to me
yourself why why is this important to me why is that thing that you’re chasing so
why is that thing that you’re chasing so
why is that thing that you’re chasing so important to you and at the end of the
important to you and at the end of the
important to you and at the end of the day it’s because it’s to impress
day it’s because it’s to impress
day it’s because it’s to impress somebody else or because your self-worth
somebody else or because your self-worth
somebody else or because your self-worth is tied up into something else that’s
is tied up into something else that’s
is tied up into something else that’s the wrong reason to do it and you’ll
the wrong reason to do it and you’ll
the wrong reason to do it and you’ll never really have success doing it
never really have success doing it
never really have success doing it because it’s always gonna be something
because it’s always gonna be something
because it’s always gonna be something else is that was gonna be some new
else is that was gonna be some new
else is that was gonna be some new person to impress or the impressed
person to impress or the impressed
person to impress or the impressed feeling lasts for five minutes and then
feeling lasts for five minutes and then
feeling lasts for five minutes and then they’re not impressed anymore so you got
they’re not impressed anymore so you got
they’re not impressed anymore so you got to go off and do something else or that
to go off and do something else or that
to go off and do something else or that status symbol that you got great great
status symbol that you got great great
status symbol that you got great great for where you are but now it’s always
for where you are but now it’s always
for where you are but now it’s always gonna be somebody else who has more than
gonna be somebody else who has more than
gonna be somebody else who has more than you and that’s just chasing a hollow
you and that’s just chasing a hollow
you and that’s just chasing a hollow existence we’re doing meaningful work
existence we’re doing meaningful work
existence we’re doing meaningful work proud of that’s what you want to focus
proud of that’s what you want to focus
proud of that’s what you want to focus on so I think it’s super important to
on so I think it’s super important to
on so I think it’s super important to understand why you’re chasing the things
understand why you’re chasing the things
understand why you’re chasing the things you are and get that clarity on your
you are and get that clarity on your
you are and get that clarity on your life and when you do has a big it has a
life and when you do has a big it has a
life and when you do has a big it has a big impact in such a direction for you
big impact in such a direction for you
big impact in such a direction for you to be able to go off and do something
to be able to go off and do something
to be able to go off and do something meaningful and powerful so the question
meaningful and powerful so the question
meaningful and powerful so the question of the day today is are you chasing the
of the day today is are you chasing the
of the day today is are you chasing the right things in life what are you
right things in life what are you
right things in life what are you chasing leave it in the comments below
chasing leave it in the comments below
chasing leave it in the comments below I’m gonna join in the discussion I also
I’m gonna join in the discussion I also
I’m gonna join in the discussion I also want to give a quick shout out to Roger
want to give a quick shout out to Roger
want to give a quick shout out to Roger Pierce from Pierce words comm Roger
Pierce from Pierce words comm Roger
Pierce from Pierce words comm Roger bought 2 copies of my audiobook Thank
bought 2 copies of my audiobook Thank
bought 2 copies of my audiobook Thank You Roger really means a lot to me so
You Roger really means a lot to me so
You Roger really means a lot to me so thank you guys again for watching I
thank you guys again for watching I
thank you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to
believe in you I hope you continue to
believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your
believe in yourself and whatever your
believe in yourself and whatever your one word is much love I’ll see you soon
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