good morning believe nation today’s messages choose who you listen to open
messages choose who you listen to open
messages choose who you listen to open to you Gabrielle Union at my career I
to you Gabrielle Union at my career I
to you Gabrielle Union at my career I was named the next it girl and you’re
was named the next it girl and you’re
was named the next it girl and you’re like well you know I think we should you
like well you know I think we should you
like well you know I think we should you know I should really believe this you
know I should really believe this you
know I should really believe this you know and then you read your the worst
know and then you read your the worst
know and then you read your the worst thing ever you should never leave the
thing ever you should never leave the
thing ever you should never leave the house and you’re like that we should
house and you’re like that we should
house and you’re like that we should throw that out and eventually you just
throw that out and eventually you just
throw that out and eventually you just kind of get to a place where they kind
kind of get to a place where they kind
kind of get to a place where they kind of cancel each other out you’re gonna
of cancel each other out you’re gonna
of cancel each other out you’re gonna hear the naysayers and the people who
hear the naysayers and the people who
hear the naysayers and the people who think you suck and they’re gonna be the
think you suck and they’re gonna be the
think you suck and they’re gonna be the people who think you’re the second
people who think you’re the second
people who think you’re the second coming of you know pockets but like it’s
coming of you know pockets but like it’s
coming of you know pockets but like it’s usually somewhere in the middle if you
usually somewhere in the middle if you
usually somewhere in the middle if you believe all your your your praise
believe all your your your praise
believe all your your your praise there’s nowhere to go they’re not gonna
there’s nowhere to go they’re not gonna
there’s nowhere to go they’re not gonna grow and if you believe you know every
grow and if you believe you know every
grow and if you believe you know every negative thing about you you’re not
negative thing about you you’re not
negative thing about you you’re not gonna get out of bed so I try to be
gonna get out of bed so I try to be
gonna get out of bed so I try to be reasonable people whose opinion I
reasonable people whose opinion I
reasonable people whose opinion I respect I listen you need to be really
respect I listen you need to be really
respect I listen you need to be really careful who you listen to
careful who you listen to
careful who you listen to you’ve got this big dream you’ve got
you’ve got this big dream you’ve got
you’ve got this big dream you’ve got these big ambitions you want to make
these big ambitions you want to make
these big ambitions you want to make your mark you want to do your thing and
your mark you want to do your thing and
your mark you want to do your thing and often that’s scary you know if it
often that’s scary you know if it
often that’s scary you know if it involves doing something you’ve never
involves doing something you’ve never
involves doing something you’ve never done before that could be quite scary
done before that could be quite scary
done before that could be quite scary and when people tell you that you can’t
and when people tell you that you can’t
and when people tell you that you can’t do it when people tell you that you suck
do it when people tell you that you suck
do it when people tell you that you suck when people tell you said we’re gonna
when people tell you said we’re gonna
when people tell you said we’re gonna work out a lot of times that’s really
work out a lot of times that’s really
work out a lot of times that’s really hard to hear because you are doubting
hard to hear because you are doubting
hard to hear because you are doubting yourself and when you hear that from
yourself and when you hear that from
yourself and when you hear that from other people that just compounds the
other people that just compounds the
other people that just compounds the doubt it makes you wonder can I actually
doubt it makes you wonder can I actually
doubt it makes you wonder can I actually go and do this thing and so choosing who
go and do this thing and so choosing who
go and do this thing and so choosing who you listen to it really really important
you listen to it really really important
you listen to it really really important some people will pour rain on your
some people will pour rain on your
some people will pour rain on your parade because of jealous because maybe
parade because of jealous because maybe
parade because of jealous because maybe they’ve taken their shot at following
they’ve taken their shot at following
they’ve taken their shot at following their dreams and it didn’t work out and
their dreams and it didn’t work out and
their dreams and it didn’t work out and so now nobody around them can have
so now nobody around them can have
so now nobody around them can have success either nobody else is allowed to
success either nobody else is allowed to
success either nobody else is allowed to go off and be an entrepreneur and chase
go off and be an entrepreneur and chase
go off and be an entrepreneur and chase their dreams because they tried it and
their dreams because they tried it and
their dreams because they tried it and it didn’t work out and so nobody else
it didn’t work out and so nobody else
it didn’t work out and so nobody else can have it life sucks and they’re going
can have it life sucks and they’re going
can have it life sucks and they’re going to drag everybody down in the hole with
to drag everybody down in the hole with
to drag everybody down in the hole with them that’s a lot of people others may
them that’s a lot of people others may
them that’s a lot of people others may rain on your parade because they
rain on your parade because they
rain on your parade because they actually love you they just don’t see
actually love you they just don’t see
actually love you they just don’t see what you see you know your parents may
what you see you know your parents may
what you see you know your parents may think that it’s not a great idea or your
think that it’s not a great idea or your
think that it’s not a great idea or your guidance counselor or your friends may
guidance counselor or your friends may
guidance counselor or your friends may not think that what you’re doing is fee
not think that what you’re doing is fee
not think that what you’re doing is fee visible because in their world nobody’s
visible because in their world nobody’s
visible because in their world nobody’s ever done it because they haven’t done
ever done it because they haven’t done
ever done it because they haven’t done it and your parents may be thinking
it and your parents may be thinking
it and your parents may be thinking success equals this because that’s what
success equals this because that’s what
success equals this because that’s what success is for them because that’s the
success is for them because that’s the
success is for them because that’s the path that they took and so they may be
path that they took and so they may be
path that they took and so they may be raining on your parade but it’s out of
raining on your parade but it’s out of
raining on your parade but it’s out of love a sign of the jealousy at the end
love a sign of the jealousy at the end
love a sign of the jealousy at the end of the day they want to see you become
of the day they want to see you become
of the day they want to see you become successful they just have a different
successful they just have a different
successful they just have a different definition of success and they don’t
definition of success and they don’t
definition of success and they don’t want to see you go through pain and hurt
want to see you go through pain and hurt
want to see you go through pain and hurt and struggle and woes and maybe not
and struggle and woes and maybe not
and struggle and woes and maybe not reaching your goal and then there are
reaching your goal and then there are
reaching your goal and then there are other people who give you the perfect
other people who give you the perfect
other people who give you the perfect advice exactly what you need exactly at
advice exactly what you need exactly at
advice exactly what you need exactly at the right time that you need it and so
the right time that you need it and so
the right time that you need it and so really paying attention to who has given
really paying attention to who has given
really paying attention to who has given you this advice and not trying to have
you this advice and not trying to have
you this advice and not trying to have an emotional reaction to it but look at
an emotional reaction to it but look at
an emotional reaction to it but look at that person say has this person done
that person say has this person done
that person say has this person done what I want to do does this person have
what I want to do does this person have
what I want to do does this person have the expertise to give me the advice that
the expertise to give me the advice that
the expertise to give me the advice that I meet because if somebody is telling
I meet because if somebody is telling
I meet because if somebody is telling you that your idea sucks I will never
you that your idea sucks I will never
you that your idea sucks I will never work out and they haven’t done what you
work out and they haven’t done what you
work out and they haven’t done what you are trying to do then their advice is
are trying to do then their advice is
are trying to do then their advice is meaningless to you if anything you
meaningless to you if anything you
meaningless to you if anything you should do the opposite why are you
should do the opposite why are you
should do the opposite why are you taking advice from someone who hasn’t
taking advice from someone who hasn’t
taking advice from someone who hasn’t done what you want to do you cannot let
done what you want to do you cannot let
done what you want to do you cannot let their limited mindset prevent you from
their limited mindset prevent you from
their limited mindset prevent you from being great and it doesn’t mean you need
being great and it doesn’t mean you need
being great and it doesn’t mean you need to attack them it doesn’t mean you need
to attack them it doesn’t mean you need
to attack them it doesn’t mean you need to say you don’t know what you’re
to say you don’t know what you’re
to say you don’t know what you’re talking about
talking about
talking about you have a limited mindset you’ve never
you have a limited mindset you’ve never
you have a limited mindset you’ve never gone out and achieve your dreams you
gone out and achieve your dreams you
gone out and achieve your dreams you don’t have to hurt them back but you
don’t have to hurt them back but you
don’t have to hurt them back but you also don’t have to react to the
also don’t have to react to the
also don’t have to react to the information they’re giving you treat
information they’re giving you treat
information they’re giving you treat them like a child treat them like a
them like a child treat them like a
them like a child treat them like a puppy treat them like a baby they can’t
puppy treat them like a baby they can’t
puppy treat them like a baby they can’t help it they’re negative it made me have
help it they’re negative it made me have
help it they’re negative it made me have a jealousy it may be out of love but
a jealousy it may be out of love but
a jealousy it may be out of love but either way you wouldn’t take advice from
either way you wouldn’t take advice from
either way you wouldn’t take advice from a baby and if you can defuse that in
a baby and if you can defuse that in
a baby and if you can defuse that in your head if you can understand that
your head if you can understand that
your head if you can understand that these people have not done what you’re
these people have not done what you’re
these people have not done what you’re trying to do and not listen to their
trying to do and not listen to their
trying to do and not listen to their advice and not listen to their doubts
advice and not listen to their doubts
advice and not listen to their doubts and still know that you need to get this
and still know that you need to get this
and still know that you need to get this done it maybe doesn’t work out maybe you
done it maybe doesn’t work out maybe you
done it maybe doesn’t work out maybe you don’t hit that dream maybe you don’t get
don’t hit that dream maybe you don’t get
don’t hit that dream maybe you don’t get your goals but you still need to know
your goals but you still need to know
your goals but you still need to know because you would rather fail and at
because you would rather fail and at
because you would rather fail and at least know then live the rest of your
least know then live the rest of your
least know then live the rest of your life uncertain
life uncertain
life uncertain and then regret wishing you had gave
and then regret wishing you had gave
and then regret wishing you had gave more to the cause if you’re growing food
more to the cause if you’re growing food
more to the cause if you’re growing food work stop planning stop thinking with
work stop planning stop thinking with
work stop planning stop thinking with the head stop using your logic all the
the head stop using your logic all the
the head stop using your logic all the time with all the big decisions make
time with all the big decisions make
time with all the big decisions make them with the heart so the question fate
them with the heart so the question fate
them with the heart so the question fate today is I’m curious who has given you
today is I’m curious who has given you
today is I’m curious who has given you the best advice for your business and
the best advice for your business and
the best advice for your business and what was it leave in the comments below
what was it leave in the comments below
what was it leave in the comments below I’m super curious to find out I also
I’m super curious to find out I also
I’m super curious to find out I also want to give a quick shout out to Stefan
want to give a quick shout out to Stefan
want to give a quick shout out to Stefan Pataki thank you so much man for picking
Pataki thank you so much man for picking
Pataki thank you so much man for picking up a copy of my book your one-word
up a copy of my book your one-word
up a copy of my book your one-word really really really means a lot to me
really really really means a lot to me
really really really means a lot to me and I hope that you’re enjoying the read
and I hope that you’re enjoying the read
and I hope that you’re enjoying the read so thank you guys again for watching I
so thank you guys again for watching I
so thank you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to
believe in you I hope you continue to
believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever you’re
believe in yourself and whatever you’re
believe in yourself and whatever you’re one where it is much love I’ll see you
one where it is much love I’ll see you
one where it is much love I’ll see you guys again tomorrow morning for another
guys again tomorrow morning for another
guys again tomorrow morning for another shot events beso
the only time in the last couple of
the only time in the last couple of years that I knew as soon as we finished
years that I knew as soon as we finished
years that I knew as soon as we finished a song that it was sort of a like I hate
a song that it was sort of a like I hate
a song that it was sort of a like I hate to say that game-changer but it that it
to say that game-changer but it that it
to say that game-changer but it that it was sort of a next-level situation was
was sort of a next-level situation was
was sort of a next-level situation was when I finished shake it off and but I
when I finished shake it off and but I
when I finished shake it off and but I wanted me I wanted to be sure so I that
wanted me I wanted to be sure so I that
wanted me I wanted to be sure so I that was the very end of the recording
was the very end of the recording
was the very end of the recording process
process
process I finished shake it off and I knew I was
I finished shake it off and I knew I was
I finished shake it off and I knew I was done with the record and I flew back to
done with the record and I flew back to
done with the record and I flew back to Nashville had a bunch of label people
Nashville had a bunch of label people
Nashville had a bunch of label people who I trust and a bunch of management
who I trust and a bunch of management
who I trust and a bunch of management who I trust and my mom and dad sit in my
who I trust and my mom and dad sit in my
who I trust and my mom and dad sit in my parents living room and I played them
parents living room and I played them
parents living room and I played them the full record and I didn’t tell them
the full record and I didn’t tell them
the full record and I didn’t tell them anything about how I thought I had
anything about how I thought I had
anything about how I thought I had written the first single I didn’t tell
written the first single I didn’t tell
written the first single I didn’t tell them anything like you gotta listen like
them anything like you gotta listen like
them anything like you gotta listen like listen for track eight shake it off is
listen for track eight shake it off is
listen for track eight shake it off is the one I’m telling you but when that
the one I’m telling you but when that
the one I’m telling you but when that song came on and halfway through all of
song came on and halfway through all of
song came on and halfway through all of them look at me and go this is the one
them look at me and go this is the one
them look at me and go this is the one it was such a validating feeling because
it was such a validating feeling because
it was such a validating feeling because I thought I knew and I was so sure I
I thought I knew and I was so sure I
I thought I knew and I was so sure I knew and then it turned out I did know
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