if you’re looking for ways to disrupt your standards master time management
your standards master time management
your standards master time management and like yourself first then this video
and like yourself first then this video
and like yourself first then this video is for you will say oh Lisa how do I do
is for you will say oh Lisa how do I do
is for you will say oh Lisa how do I do this and I go do this this this and this
this and I go do this this this and this
this and I go do this this this and this I give you the steps and the next thing
I give you the steps and the next thing
I give you the steps and the next thing they say is mmm that’s so hard I heard
they say is mmm that’s so hard I heard
they say is mmm that’s so hard I heard once if you don’t have your agenda then
once if you don’t have your agenda then
once if you don’t have your agenda then you’re gonna work for somebody else’s
you’re gonna work for somebody else’s
you’re gonna work for somebody else’s agenda that your perception of me after
agenda that your perception of me after
agenda that your perception of me after I tell my truth is actually none of my
I tell my truth is actually none of my
I tell my truth is actually none of my business need motivation
business need motivation
business need motivation watch it top 10 of the leaf nation
watch it top 10 of the leaf nation
watch it top 10 of the leaf nation what’s up in seven my wine or disbelieve
what’s up in seven my wine or disbelieve
what’s up in seven my wine or disbelieve and I believe in you I believe in that
and I believe in you I believe in that
and I believe in you I believe in that amazing thing you have inside you that I
amazing thing you have inside you that I
amazing thing you have inside you that I want to see burst out into the world so
want to see burst out into the world so
want to see burst out into the world so let’s get your motivation to attend and
let’s get your motivation to attend and
let’s get your motivation to attend and have you believing in you grab a snack
have you believing in you grab a snack
have you believing in you grab a snack and chew on today’s lessons from a woman
and chew on today’s lessons from a woman
and chew on today’s lessons from a woman who went from struggling as a single mom
who went from struggling as a single mom
who went from struggling as a single mom on public assistance to becoming a
on public assistance to becoming a
on public assistance to becoming a millionaire entrepreneur and
millionaire entrepreneur and
millionaire entrepreneur and best-selling author of seven books
best-selling author of seven books
best-selling author of seven books she’s Lisa Nichols and here’s my take on
she’s Lisa Nichols and here’s my take on
she’s Lisa Nichols and here’s my take on her top ten real success vol 2 enjoy
alright let’s kick things off with rule
alright let’s kick things off with rule number one disrupt your standard I run
number one disrupt your standard I run
number one disrupt your standard I run into so many people all around the world
into so many people all around the world
into so many people all around the world who are living this duality one I want
who are living this duality one I want
who are living this duality one I want more but two I don’t want to disrupt
more but two I don’t want to disrupt
more but two I don’t want to disrupt what I have and the challenge is in
what I have and the challenge is in
what I have and the challenge is in order for you to have a break through to
order for you to have a break through to
order for you to have a break through to the next level your your your standard
the next level your your your standard
the next level your your your standard your average and your ordinary has to be
your average and your ordinary has to be
your average and your ordinary has to be disrupted people say oh Lisa how do I do
disrupted people say oh Lisa how do I do
disrupted people say oh Lisa how do I do this and I go do this this this and this
this and I go do this this this and this
this and I go do this this this and this I give you the steps and the next thing
I give you the steps and the next thing
I give you the steps and the next thing they say is mmm that’s so hard I’m sorry
they say is mmm that’s so hard I’m sorry
they say is mmm that’s so hard I’m sorry did you think your breath taking life
did you think your breath taking life
did you think your breath taking life will come on a merry-go-round did you
will come on a merry-go-round did you
will come on a merry-go-round did you think you’re gonna do the swings and get
think you’re gonna do the swings and get
think you’re gonna do the swings and get there you’re gonna sweat so get up ready
there you’re gonna sweat so get up ready
there you’re gonna sweat so get up ready to sweat get up ready to forgive the
to sweat get up ready to forgive the
to sweat get up ready to forgive the perceiving Li unforgivable get up ready
perceiving Li unforgivable get up ready
perceiving Li unforgivable get up ready to take the higher Road even when the
to take the higher Road even when the
to take the higher Road even when the smallness in you wants to get engaged
smallness in you wants to get engaged
smallness in you wants to get engaged avoid the fight because the fight keeps
avoid the fight because the fight keeps
avoid the fight because the fight keeps you in the little you when you’re
you in the little you when you’re
you in the little you when you’re committed to being the bigger version of
committed to being the bigger version of
committed to being the bigger version of yourself yeah you gonna have to say some
yourself yeah you gonna have to say some
yourself yeah you gonna have to say some things you never said and do some things
things you never said and do some things
things you never said and do some things you’ve never done so you can meet the
you’ve never done so you can meet the
you’ve never done so you can meet the man the woman you’ve always known
man the woman you’ve always known
man the woman you’ve always known yourself to be I love this clip what a
yourself to be I love this clip what a
yourself to be I love this clip what a great lead I was smiling throughout the
great lead I was smiling throughout the
great lead I was smiling throughout the entire video I think it’s so important
entire video I think it’s so important
entire video I think it’s so important to understand that the actual steps
to understand that the actual steps
to understand that the actual steps don’t matter as much as the mindset as
don’t matter as much as the mindset as
don’t matter as much as the mindset as much as the decision that you will raise
much as the decision that you will raise
much as the decision that you will raise your standard and every single big
your standard and every single big
your standard and every single big breakthrough that you will find in your
breakthrough that you will find in your
breakthrough that you will find in your life will come as a result of making the
life will come as a result of making the
life will come as a result of making the decision to change what you are no
decision to change what you are no
decision to change what you are no longer willing to accept in your life
longer willing to accept in your life
longer willing to accept in your life when you raise your standards to that
when you raise your standards to that
when you raise your standards to that point that’s when change starts to
point that’s when change starts to
point that’s when change starts to happen thank you Lisa
happen thank you Lisa
happen thank you Lisa we’re gonna kick us off let’s move to
we’re gonna kick us off let’s move to
we’re gonna kick us off let’s move to rule number two create micro wins this
rule number two create micro wins this
rule number two create micro wins this whole piece of my book abundance now I
whole piece of my book abundance now I
whole piece of my book abundance now I wrote it a while ago and it’s amazing in
wrote it a while ago and it’s amazing in
wrote it a while ago and it’s amazing in terms of just talking about and breaking
terms of just talking about and breaking
terms of just talking about and breaking down
down
down what’s the difference between a macro
what’s the difference between a macro
what’s the difference between a macro win and a micro wind and a micro win is
win and a micro wind and a micro win is
win and a micro wind and a micro win is that smaller goal that’s you could see
that smaller goal that’s you could see
that smaller goal that’s you could see it’s attainable you get that instant
it’s attainable you get that instant
it’s attainable you get that instant result and most people are chasing the
result and most people are chasing the
result and most people are chasing the macro win all the time and they’re not
macro win all the time and they’re not
macro win all the time and they’re not looking at all the micro wins that they
looking at all the micro wins that they
looking at all the micro wins that they can feel really good about to get them
can feel really good about to get them
can feel really good about to get them to that macro result if you create 5 7 8
to that macro result if you create 5 7 8
to that macro result if you create 5 7 8 10 micro wins guess what now you’re in a
10 micro wins guess what now you’re in a
10 micro wins guess what now you’re in a rhythm now you’re building some
rhythm now you’re building some
rhythm now you’re building some consistency now you like the way it
consistency now you like the way it
consistency now you like the way it feels and then before you know you look
feels and then before you know you look
feels and then before you know you look up and go whoa there’s that macro win
up and go whoa there’s that macro win
up and go whoa there’s that macro win that huge goal that I thought was a
that huge goal that I thought was a
that huge goal that I thought was a hundred miles away it wasn’t a hundred
hundred miles away it wasn’t a hundred
hundred miles away it wasn’t a hundred miles away it was seven eight eleven
miles away it was seven eight eleven
miles away it was seven eight eleven micro wins away I love her energy and
micro wins away I love her energy and
micro wins away I love her energy and how she bounces I’m watching on a
how she bounces I’m watching on a
how she bounces I’m watching on a trampoline I’m like I’m bouncing
trampoline I’m like I’m bouncing
trampoline I’m like I’m bouncing alongside her and she’s doing it a huge
alongside her and she’s doing it a huge
alongside her and she’s doing it a huge fan of this message I think too often
fan of this message I think too often
fan of this message I think too often we’re only thinking about the big vision
we’re only thinking about the big vision
we’re only thinking about the big vision the big picture and then we don’t
the big picture and then we don’t
the big picture and then we don’t actually do anything with the keys you
actually do anything with the keys you
actually do anything with the keys you want to think big and act small think
want to think big and act small think
want to think big and act small think big towards your big dream your big
big towards your big dream your big
big towards your big dream your big vision but then do something and
vision but then do something and
vision but then do something and recognize that that little step you took
recognize that that little step you took
recognize that that little step you took today and tomorrow and the next day and
today and tomorrow and the next day and
today and tomorrow and the next day and the next day you look back those little
the next day you look back those little
the next day you look back those little micro wins lead to something big let’s
micro wins lead to something big let’s
micro wins lead to something big let’s move to rule number three master time
move to rule number three master time
move to rule number three master time management so when you look at
management so when you look at
management so when you look at prioritizing it really lives in and I
prioritizing it really lives in and I
prioritizing it really lives in and I must say this word and you’re probably
must say this word and you’re probably
must say this word and you’re probably not gonna want to hear it but when I
not gonna want to hear it but when I
not gonna want to hear it but when I tell you it’s a game changer when you
tell you it’s a game changer when you
tell you it’s a game changer when you master and just for now begin to operate
master and just for now begin to operate
master and just for now begin to operate inside of time management I use some
inside of time management I use some
inside of time management I use some resist time management because I’m a
resist time management because I’m a
resist time management because I’m a free spirit / people will call me a
free spirit / people will call me a
free spirit / people will call me a rebel back in the day meaning I didn’t
rebel back in the day meaning I didn’t
rebel back in the day meaning I didn’t want to be controlled I want it I’m a
want to be controlled I want it I’m a
want to be controlled I want it I’m a butterfly I wanted to I wanted to soar I
butterfly I wanted to I wanted to soar I
butterfly I wanted to I wanted to soar I wanted to be free well the reality is
wanted to be free well the reality is
wanted to be free well the reality is that when you manage your time more
that when you manage your time more
that when you manage your time more effectively you actually create more
effectively you actually create more
effectively you actually create more freedom
freedom
freedom that was a huge army somebody’s gonna be
that was a huge army somebody’s gonna be
that was a huge army somebody’s gonna be ill right now like break through out
ill right now like break through out
ill right now like break through out loud because when you time manage
loud because when you time manage
loud because when you time manage meaning I’m gonna use better blocks of
meaning I’m gonna use better blocks of
meaning I’m gonna use better blocks of my time let me give you some examples
my time let me give you some examples
my time let me give you some examples for that let me use better blocks in my
for that let me use better blocks in my
for that let me use better blocks in my time meaning I’m only gonna go in my
time meaning I’m only gonna go in my
time meaning I’m only gonna go in my email three times a day I go on my email
email three times a day I go on my email
email three times a day I go on my email about 9:30 between 9:20 and 9:40 I go in
about 9:30 between 9:20 and 9:40 I go in
about 9:30 between 9:20 and 9:40 I go in my email I stay in my email for 30
my email I stay in my email for 30
my email I stay in my email for 30 minutes I’ll go back in my email about
minutes I’ll go back in my email about
minutes I’ll go back in my email about three o’clock in the afternoon I stay in
three o’clock in the afternoon I stay in
three o’clock in the afternoon I stay in my email again for about thirty minutes
my email again for about thirty minutes
my email again for about thirty minutes I go back a name one more time at 6:00
I go back a name one more time at 6:00
I go back a name one more time at 6:00 p.m. I stay in for about thirty minutes
p.m. I stay in for about thirty minutes
p.m. I stay in for about thirty minutes that’s it I don’t go in nineteen times I
that’s it I don’t go in nineteen times I
that’s it I don’t go in nineteen times I don’t go on twenty times because three
don’t go on twenty times because three
don’t go on twenty times because three times a day gives me adequate time to
times a day gives me adequate time to
times a day gives me adequate time to see what’s in there see what’s new and
see what’s in there see what’s new and
see what’s in there see what’s new and act appropriately otherwise it’s
act appropriately otherwise it’s
act appropriately otherwise it’s throwing me off I’m blocked my day about
throwing me off I’m blocked my day about
throwing me off I’m blocked my day about ninety minutes each time blocked to do a
ninety minutes each time blocked to do a
ninety minutes each time blocked to do a task even if a task only takes me 30
task even if a task only takes me 30
task even if a task only takes me 30 minutes I timed like 90 minutes because
minutes I timed like 90 minutes because
minutes I timed like 90 minutes because I get distracted but when you time block
I get distracted but when you time block
I get distracted but when you time block your day and then you schedule each day
your day and then you schedule each day
your day and then you schedule each day not every day looks the same I have a
not every day looks the same I have a
not every day looks the same I have a time block for everything I need to do
time block for everything I need to do
time block for everything I need to do for seven days out of the week can you
for seven days out of the week can you
for seven days out of the week can you believe that in that time I got more
believe that in that time I got more
believe that in that time I got more things done you have to become
things done you have to become
things done you have to become comfortable with your note my
comfortable with your note my
comfortable with your note my grandmother says baby
grandmother says baby
grandmother says baby she starts every sentence with baby baby
she starts every sentence with baby baby
she starts every sentence with baby baby if you want your yes to have more value
if you want your yes to have more value
if you want your yes to have more value you need to learn how to exercise your
you need to learn how to exercise your
you need to learn how to exercise your note see your yes might not have this
note see your yes might not have this
note see your yes might not have this value anymore why because you give it
value anymore why because you give it
value anymore why because you give it away too much you give it to too many
away too much you give it to too many
away too much you give it to too many people you give it away too often
people you give it away too often
people you give it away too often you’re always over committing and then
you’re always over committing and then
you’re always over committing and then you feel drained and frustrated and you
you feel drained and frustrated and you
you feel drained and frustrated and you don’t have gratitude in your heart
don’t have gratitude in your heart
don’t have gratitude in your heart because you’re over committed well that
because you’re over committed well that
because you’re over committed well that all started with a yes that should have
all started with a yes that should have
all started with a yes that should have been enough or should have been a I’d
been enough or should have been a I’d
been enough or should have been a I’d love to but not now and so number two
love to but not now and so number two
love to but not now and so number two number one is more effective time
number one is more effective time
number one is more effective time management that has your agenda in it it
management that has your agenda in it it
management that has your agenda in it it has your priority priorities in it right
has your priority priorities in it right
has your priority priorities in it right now your agenda is covered with everyone
now your agenda is covered with everyone
now your agenda is covered with everyone else’s task I often I heard once if you
else’s task I often I heard once if you
else’s task I often I heard once if you don’t have a urine
don’t have a urine
don’t have a urine you’re gonna work for somebody else’s
you’re gonna work for somebody else’s
you’re gonna work for somebody else’s agenda and so number one is your time
agenda and so number one is your time
agenda and so number one is your time manager with your agenda and number two
manager with your agenda and number two
manager with your agenda and number two is operating utilizing and being
is operating utilizing and being
is operating utilizing and being comfortable in a note and not an
comfortable in a note and not an
comfortable in a note and not an attitude no not to like oh thanks no
attitude no not to like oh thanks no
attitude no not to like oh thanks no like no not that mm-hmm just uh no not
like no not that mm-hmm just uh no not
like no not that mm-hmm just uh no not now
now
now you know I I would love to but my plate
you know I I would love to but my plate
you know I I would love to but my plate is full I’m free in 90 days just don’t
is full I’m free in 90 days just don’t
is full I’m free in 90 days just don’t make no no energy just not now don’t be
make no no energy just not now don’t be
make no no energy just not now don’t be surprised when everyone comes to you
surprised when everyone comes to you
surprised when everyone comes to you you’re great you’re amazing you’re
you’re great you’re amazing you’re
you’re great you’re amazing you’re brilliant look at you you’re on this
brilliant look at you you’re on this
brilliant look at you you’re on this channel so you know you smart you want a
channel so you know you smart you want a
channel so you know you smart you want a better life you want an abundant life of
better life you want an abundant life of
better life you want an abundant life of course you’re here of course everyone
course you’re here of course everyone
course you’re here of course everyone wants you and your priorities matters so
wants you and your priorities matters so
wants you and your priorities matters so I think there are two very important
I think there are two very important
I think there are two very important points buried in this rule and I think
points buried in this rule and I think
points buried in this rule and I think it’s so important because entrepreneurs
it’s so important because entrepreneurs
it’s so important because entrepreneurs we’re working crazy hours to get our
we’re working crazy hours to get our
we’re working crazy hours to get our dream off the ground and maybe we have
dream off the ground and maybe we have
dream off the ground and maybe we have jobs and family and all this other stuff
jobs and family and all this other stuff
jobs and family and all this other stuff happened at the same time and so how do
happened at the same time and so how do
happened at the same time and so how do you balance everything how do you allow
you balance everything how do you allow
you balance everything how do you allow that creativity to come out it’s by
that creativity to come out it’s by
that creativity to come out it’s by scheduling it’s by setting aside time
scheduling it’s by setting aside time
scheduling it’s by setting aside time every single day and by creating
every single day and by creating
every single day and by creating different paths for different days so
different paths for different days so
different paths for different days so for me my Monday looks one way my
for me my Monday looks one way my
for me my Monday looks one way my Tuesday looks one way my Wednesday looks
Tuesday looks one way my Wednesday looks
Tuesday looks one way my Wednesday looks going away and every week then I repeat
going away and every week then I repeat
going away and every week then I repeat that same thing so Monday my T vs I’m
that same thing so Monday my T vs I’m
that same thing so Monday my T vs I’m working on TBS stuff that’s that’s my
working on TBS stuff that’s that’s my
working on TBS stuff that’s that’s my entire day I’m not being distracted by a
entire day I’m not being distracted by a
entire day I’m not being distracted by a bunch of other things and so figuring
bunch of other things and so figuring
bunch of other things and so figuring out that time management for yourself to
out that time management for yourself to
out that time management for yourself to chunk your tasks down to do one thing on
chunk your tasks down to do one thing on
chunk your tasks down to do one thing on certain days I find at least really
certain days I find at least really
certain days I find at least really helps me focus and go far so I’m not
helps me focus and go far so I’m not
helps me focus and go far so I’m not just constantly being bombarded and
just constantly being bombarded and
just constantly being bombarded and reacting to other people the second part
reacting to other people the second part
reacting to other people the second part was saying no I’m focusing right like
was saying no I’m focusing right like
was saying no I’m focusing right like understanding that your goals are your
understanding that your goals are your
understanding that your goals are your goals and you’re trying to build
goals and you’re trying to build
goals and you’re trying to build something better for yourself and of all
something better for yourself and of all
something better for yourself and of all you’re doing is reacting to other
you’re doing is reacting to other
you’re doing is reacting to other people’s goals for you then you’re
people’s goals for you then you’re
people’s goals for you then you’re living their life you’re helping them
living their life you’re helping them
living their life you’re helping them build their empire you’re up on them
build their empire you’re up on them
build their empire you’re up on them have a huge impact in your playing small
have a huge impact in your playing small
have a huge impact in your playing small and so sometimes those things are
and so sometimes those things are
and so sometimes those things are aligned sometimes what your friends our
aligned sometimes what your friends our
aligned sometimes what your friends our family your partners or colleagues want
family your partners or colleagues want
family your partners or colleagues want you to do is also aligned with what you
you to do is also aligned with what you
you to do is also aligned with what you want to do and that’s where the magic
want to do and that’s where the magic
want to do and that’s where the magic happens but if it’s not then be willing
happens but if it’s not then be willing
happens but if it’s not then be willing to say no in a respectful way so that
to say no in a respectful way so that
to say no in a respectful way so that you can focus on the things that you
you can focus on the things that you
you can focus on the things that you will need to get done I love at least
will need to get done I love at least
will need to get done I love at least that let’s move on to rule number four
that let’s move on to rule number four
that let’s move on to rule number four leap afraid so we talked about making
leap afraid so we talked about making
leap afraid so we talked about making your dash
your dash
your dash point one you gotta be willing to do it
point one you gotta be willing to do it
point one you gotta be willing to do it afraid see you might be waiting for the
afraid see you might be waiting for the
afraid see you might be waiting for the fear to stop Lisa I heard this so many
fear to stop Lisa I heard this so many
fear to stop Lisa I heard this so many times Lisa I’m afraid what do I do do it
times Lisa I’m afraid what do I do do it
times Lisa I’m afraid what do I do do it anyway Lisa I’m afraid I don’t quite
anyway Lisa I’m afraid I don’t quite
anyway Lisa I’m afraid I don’t quite know if I should move move anyway I
know if I should move move anyway I
know if I should move move anyway I don’t know if I should leap leap afraid
don’t know if I should leap leap afraid
don’t know if I should leap leap afraid and then gather your courage on the way
and then gather your courage on the way
and then gather your courage on the way down and if you don’t get it before you
down and if you don’t get it before you
down and if you don’t get it before you hit you what’s gonna hit anyway I’d
hit you what’s gonna hit anyway I’d
hit you what’s gonna hit anyway I’d rather die leaping then on the edge
rather die leaping then on the edge
rather die leaping then on the edge figuring out how to get the courage to
figuring out how to get the courage to
figuring out how to get the courage to leap yes yes yes yes so many times we’re
leap yes yes yes yes so many times we’re
leap yes yes yes yes so many times we’re waiting we’re waiting I’m waiting I’m
waiting we’re waiting I’m waiting I’m
waiting we’re waiting I’m waiting I’m waiting to get something rise I see your
waiting to get something rise I see your
waiting to get something rise I see your hands going up you guys know if it’s
hands going up you guys know if it’s
hands going up you guys know if it’s your truth you can raise your hand just
your truth you can raise your hand just
your truth you can raise your hand just like we did on day zero you’re just kind
like we did on day zero you’re just kind
like we did on day zero you’re just kind of waiting you’re waiting to get
of waiting you’re waiting to get
of waiting you’re waiting to get everything in order you’re waiting
everything in order you’re waiting
everything in order you’re waiting you’re waiting so that everything is is
you’re waiting so that everything is is
you’re waiting so that everything is is Inuits together you’re waiting to not be
Inuits together you’re waiting to not be
Inuits together you’re waiting to not be afraid you’re waiting to have the
afraid you’re waiting to have the
afraid you’re waiting to have the courage you’re waiting to have all the
courage you’re waiting to have all the
courage you’re waiting to have all the money you’re waiting to lose weight see
money you’re waiting to lose weight see
money you’re waiting to lose weight see see if I waited to release my unwanted
see if I waited to release my unwanted
see if I waited to release my unwanted pounds before I got in front of you Lisa
pounds before I got in front of you Lisa
pounds before I got in front of you Lisa Nichols would be the secret yes yes I
Nichols would be the secret yes yes I
Nichols would be the secret yes yes I thought how about I just leap with my
thought how about I just leap with my
thought how about I just leap with my imperfection and then find my form of
imperfection and then find my form of
imperfection and then find my form of perfecting my imperfection while I’m
perfecting my imperfection while I’m
perfecting my imperfection while I’m sorry how about I do that
sorry how about I do that
sorry how about I do that how about I how about you not wait to
how about I how about you not wait to
how about I how about you not wait to get it right
get it right
get it right you look at you figure out how does it
you look at you figure out how does it
you look at you figure out how does it look doing it wrong how does that look
look doing it wrong how does that look
look doing it wrong how does that look because you’re 80% of right is somebody
because you’re 80% of right is somebody
because you’re 80% of right is somebody else’s hundred and fifty nine percent of
else’s hundred and fifty nine percent of
else’s hundred and fifty nine percent of what they needed yes yes and what you
what they needed yes yes and what you
what they needed yes yes and what you want to do it right and you want to wait
want to do it right and you want to wait
want to do it right and you want to wait to you not afraid and you want to wait
to you not afraid and you want to wait
to you not afraid and you want to wait together all together oh you made it
together all together oh you made it
together all together oh you made it about you again see Nelson Mandela did
about you again see Nelson Mandela did
about you again see Nelson Mandela did it he just did it not knowing if it were
it he just did it not knowing if it were
it he just did it not knowing if it were right Mahatma Gandhi just did it not
right Mahatma Gandhi just did it not
right Mahatma Gandhi just did it not knowing if it were right mother Teresa
knowing if it were right mother Teresa
knowing if it were right mother Teresa just did it not looking for affirmation
just did it not looking for affirmation
just did it not looking for affirmation or confirmation is this right Martin
or confirmation is this right Martin
or confirmation is this right Martin Luther King did it not even knowing if
Luther King did it not even knowing if
Luther King did it not even knowing if it would
it would
it would before his life ended what are you
before his life ended what are you
before his life ended what are you waiting on are you willing to do it
waiting on are you willing to do it
waiting on are you willing to do it afraid are you willing to do it knowing
afraid are you willing to do it knowing
afraid are you willing to do it knowing that you got so much work to do to get
that you got so much work to do to get
that you got so much work to do to get it better to get it more perfect but are
it better to get it more perfect but are
it better to get it more perfect but are you willing to do it inside your
you willing to do it inside your
you willing to do it inside your imperfection do you realize that in your
imperfection do you realize that in your
imperfection do you realize that in your imperfection you’re perfect for the job
imperfection you’re perfect for the job
imperfection you’re perfect for the job I really love this point I think if
I really love this point I think if
I really love this point I think if you’re not scared about some of the work
you’re not scared about some of the work
you’re not scared about some of the work that you’re doing then then you’re bored
that you’re doing then then you’re bored
that you’re doing then then you’re bored then then you’re not living then you’re
then then you’re not living then you’re
then then you’re not living then you’re racing against three-year-olds if you
racing against three-year-olds if you
racing against three-year-olds if you know that you’re gonna win then your
know that you’re gonna win then your
know that you’re gonna win then your dreams are too small I think it’s really
dreams are too small I think it’s really
dreams are too small I think it’s really important that you have something that
important that you have something that
important that you have something that challenges you and that concept of don’t
challenges you and that concept of don’t
challenges you and that concept of don’t feel the fear like just fear is not real
feel the fear like just fear is not real
feel the fear like just fear is not real the fear is real recognize the fear and
the fear is real recognize the fear and
the fear is real recognize the fear and you jump through the fear because every
you jump through the fear because every
you jump through the fear because every great thing that you will ever
great thing that you will ever
great thing that you will ever accomplish in your life will be on the
accomplish in your life will be on the
accomplish in your life will be on the opposite side of a big wall of fear so
opposite side of a big wall of fear so
opposite side of a big wall of fear so what are you waiting for let’s jump over
what are you waiting for let’s jump over
what are you waiting for let’s jump over it and let’s also jump to rule number
it and let’s also jump to rule number
it and let’s also jump to rule number five
five
five visualize visualization is a gift to
visualize visualization is a gift to
visualize visualization is a gift to your heart and your soul it’s a gift
your heart and your soul it’s a gift
your heart and your soul it’s a gift because if the the idea is the seed
because if the the idea is the seed
because if the the idea is the seed visualization is the is the it’s the
visualization is the is the it’s the
visualization is the is the it’s the fertilizer it’s the fertilizer because
fertilizer it’s the fertilizer because
fertilizer it’s the fertilizer because when your thoughts are connected with an
when your thoughts are connected with an
when your thoughts are connected with an emotion see you would visualize yourself
emotion see you would visualize yourself
emotion see you would visualize yourself winning and you would feel all the
winning and you would feel all the
winning and you would feel all the emotion that came with that and all
emotion that came with that and all
emotion that came with that and all you’re doing now is you’re not chasing a
you’re doing now is you’re not chasing a
you’re doing now is you’re not chasing a foreign emotion you know the feeling and
foreign emotion you know the feeling and
foreign emotion you know the feeling and now you’re just doing what’s necessary
now you’re just doing what’s necessary
now you’re just doing what’s necessary to get back to that feeling in real time
to get back to that feeling in real time
to get back to that feeling in real time and so what what a good friend of mine
and so what what a good friend of mine
and so what what a good friend of mine vision of the CEO of my value you know I
vision of the CEO of my value you know I
vision of the CEO of my value you know I would I did a visualization with him we
would I did a visualization with him we
would I did a visualization with him we were in Bali and he said to me
were in Bali and he said to me
were in Bali and he said to me afterwards I never get emotional yeah
afterwards I never get emotional yeah
afterwards I never get emotional yeah well he was like I cried I got emotional
well he was like I cried I got emotional
well he was like I cried I got emotional because I figured it out
because I figured it out
because I figured it out it’s visualization a good visualization
it’s visualization a good visualization
it’s visualization a good visualization brings an emotion he was like that’s how
brings an emotion he was like that’s how
brings an emotion he was like that’s how you do it and so I love doing
you do it and so I love doing
you do it and so I love doing visualizations because and and it’s
visualizations because and and it’s
visualizations because and and it’s really important in the visualization
really important in the visualization
really important in the visualization you can’t see it over there you have to
you can’t see it over there you have to
you can’t see it over there you have to see it right here you got to feel it
see it right here you got to feel it
see it right here you got to feel it right here like I am it’s all I am I am
right here like I am it’s all I am I am
right here like I am it’s all I am I am I am in my dream home I
I am in my dream home I
I am in my dream home I in my dream relationship and then unpack
in my dream relationship and then unpack
in my dream relationship and then unpack what that looks like but most
what that looks like but most
what that looks like but most importantly unpack what it feels like
importantly unpack what it feels like
importantly unpack what it feels like and when you have that that emotion in
and when you have that that emotion in
and when you have that that emotion in this moment all of a sudden you stir up
this moment all of a sudden you stir up
this moment all of a sudden you stir up something that I don’t think will ever
something that I don’t think will ever
something that I don’t think will ever go back to sleep it’ll go ok let’s go
go back to sleep it’ll go ok let’s go
go back to sleep it’ll go ok let’s go get that and what it really does is it
get that and what it really does is it
get that and what it really does is it sets up a state of cognitive dissonance
sets up a state of cognitive dissonance
sets up a state of cognitive dissonance and cognitive dissonance is when you see
and cognitive dissonance is when you see
and cognitive dissonance is when you see something in your mind and you see
something in your mind and you see
something in your mind and you see yourself in a way that your behaviors
yourself in a way that your behaviors
yourself in a way that your behaviors are not currently leading to us so your
are not currently leading to us so your
are not currently leading to us so your mind becomes disrupted and it goes ok
mind becomes disrupted and it goes ok
mind becomes disrupted and it goes ok can we get there right it’s not there
can we get there right it’s not there
can we get there right it’s not there right now right now and that’s not
right now right now and that’s not
right now right now and that’s not comfortable your mind wants to literally
comfortable your mind wants to literally
comfortable your mind wants to literally be congruent what it thinks is what
be congruent what it thinks is what
be congruent what it thinks is what you’re doing what it thinks is what
you’re doing what it thinks is what
you’re doing what it thinks is what you’re doing and so when you set up a
you’re doing and so when you set up a
you’re doing and so when you set up a constant and abundant thinkers like you
constant and abundant thinkers like you
constant and abundant thinkers like you and I we do it unconsciously
and I we do it unconsciously
and I we do it unconsciously we we are constantly keeping ourself in
we we are constantly keeping ourself in
we we are constantly keeping ourself in a state of cognitive dissonance meaning
a state of cognitive dissonance meaning
a state of cognitive dissonance meaning ok what else and I’m seeing Lisa over
ok what else and I’m seeing Lisa over
ok what else and I’m seeing Lisa over there I’m gonna okay let me go WOW while
there I’m gonna okay let me go WOW while
there I’m gonna okay let me go WOW while being grateful for am I now yeah it’s
being grateful for am I now yeah it’s
being grateful for am I now yeah it’s not in that I’m gonna be holding
not in that I’m gonna be holding
not in that I’m gonna be holding complete when I get over there I’m
complete when I get over there I’m
complete when I get over there I’m holding complete now I just know I’m
holding complete now I just know I’m
holding complete now I just know I’m supposed to be over there so let me do
supposed to be over there so let me do
supposed to be over there so let me do what’s necessary to get over there and
what’s necessary to get over there and
what’s necessary to get over there and let me let me evict any behaviors or
let me let me evict any behaviors or
let me let me evict any behaviors or characteristics that are stopping me and
characteristics that are stopping me and
characteristics that are stopping me and let me adopt any new ones that I need I
let me adopt any new ones that I need I
let me adopt any new ones that I need I really love this point and I do
really love this point and I do
really love this point and I do visualization I think it’s really
visualization I think it’s really
visualization I think it’s really helpful and clear to have an
helpful and clear to have an
helpful and clear to have an understanding of what you want and every
understanding of what you want and every
understanding of what you want and every time I’ve had a vision for something
time I’ve had a vision for something
time I’ve had a vision for something specific that I wanted it just started
specific that I wanted it just started
specific that I wanted it just started happening and I got it I haven’t had
happening and I got it I haven’t had
happening and I got it I haven’t had visualization that though to the point
visualization that though to the point
visualization that though to the point where I’m crying and overwhelmed with
where I’m crying and overwhelmed with
where I’m crying and overwhelmed with emotion so I’m gonna I’m gonna think
emotion so I’m gonna I’m gonna think
emotion so I’m gonna I’m gonna think about this once more I’m gonna look into
about this once more I’m gonna look into
about this once more I’m gonna look into it more maybe lisa has some programs on
it more maybe lisa has some programs on
it more maybe lisa has some programs on how to do that effectively or something
how to do that effectively or something
how to do that effectively or something coming up but it made me think and I’m
coming up but it made me think and I’m
coming up but it made me think and I’m curious to see how that turns out for me
curious to see how that turns out for me
curious to see how that turns out for me and for you guys who might have done it
and for you guys who might have done it
and for you guys who might have done it I’d love to hear your thoughts in the
I’d love to hear your thoughts in the
I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below too let’s keep the ball
comments below too let’s keep the ball
comments below too let’s keep the ball rolling rule number six define
rolling rule number six define
rolling rule number six define prosperity for yourself so when you ask
prosperity for yourself so when you ask
prosperity for yourself so when you ask the class
the class
the class look at the question how do I create a
look at the question how do I create a
look at the question how do I create a life of prosperity when I haven’t known
life of prosperity when I haven’t known
life of prosperity when I haven’t known it when my family hasn’t known it when
it when my family hasn’t known it when
it when my family hasn’t known it when it’s not what where it’s not what I was
it’s not what where it’s not what I was
it’s not what where it’s not what I was born into you know there many people was
born into you know there many people was
born into you know there many people was born who were born into prosperity I
born who were born into prosperity I
born who were born into prosperity I wasn’t one and you may or may not be one
wasn’t one and you may or may not be one
wasn’t one and you may or may not be one but how you transform a life or create
but how you transform a life or create
but how you transform a life or create lack of prosperity is number one you
lack of prosperity is number one you
lack of prosperity is number one you identify what does prosperity look like
identify what does prosperity look like
identify what does prosperity look like to you define prosperity by your own
to you define prosperity by your own
to you define prosperity by your own terms and don’t make it a global
terms and don’t make it a global
terms and don’t make it a global Universal answer you want to define
Universal answer you want to define
Universal answer you want to define prosperity in each area of your life I
prosperity in each area of your life I
prosperity in each area of your life I know that sounds like it’s really
know that sounds like it’s really
know that sounds like it’s really detailed but you cannot hit a moving
detailed but you cannot hit a moving
detailed but you cannot hit a moving target you won’t ever hit a moving talks
target you won’t ever hit a moving talks
target you won’t ever hit a moving talks so the more detail you get the more the
so the more detail you get the more the
so the more detail you get the more the target slows down I think this point
target slows down I think this point
target slows down I think this point ties in really well to the last one I
ties in really well to the last one I
ties in really well to the last one I think the more you have a clear
think the more you have a clear
think the more you have a clear understanding of what it is that you
understanding of what it is that you
understanding of what it is that you want what what press bertie looks like
want what what press bertie looks like
want what what press bertie looks like to you not to your friends or your your
to you not to your friends or your your
to you not to your friends or your your spouse so your significant other your
spouse so your significant other your
spouse so your significant other your family or anybody around you
family or anybody around you
family or anybody around you but what press-ready looks like to you
but what press-ready looks like to you
but what press-ready looks like to you the clearer that becomes the easier it
the clearer that becomes the easier it
the clearer that becomes the easier it is to you actually to go out and make it
is to you actually to go out and make it
is to you actually to go out and make it happen I love it it’s a great point
happen I love it it’s a great point
happen I love it it’s a great point let’s move on the rule number seven
let’s move on the rule number seven
let’s move on the rule number seven trust your intuition you know when you
trust your intuition you know when you
trust your intuition you know when you want to learn how to trust your
want to learn how to trust your
want to learn how to trust your intuition more you know I say and this
intuition more you know I say and this
intuition more you know I say and this is me and my walk and my my belief
is me and my walk and my my belief
is me and my walk and my my belief system that your intuition is your
system that your intuition is your
system that your intuition is your internal GPS system your internal God
internal GPS system your internal God
internal GPS system your internal God placement system
placement system
placement system it’s that whisper and sometimes it’s
it’s that whisper and sometimes it’s
it’s that whisper and sometimes it’s that screamed that tells you to leap or
that screamed that tells you to leap or
that screamed that tells you to leap or to be still your intuition is a
to be still your intuition is a
to be still your intuition is a combination of spirit emotion and logic
combination of spirit emotion and logic
combination of spirit emotion and logic and it’s guiding you and so often we
and it’s guiding you and so often we
and it’s guiding you and so often we don’t hear our intuition why don’t we
don’t hear our intuition why don’t we
don’t hear our intuition why don’t we hear it because we’re having too much
hear it because we’re having too much
hear it because we’re having too much chatter in our head like the chatter in
chatter in our head like the chatter in
chatter in our head like the chatter in our head doubt
our head doubt
our head doubt worried judgment oh my god
worried judgment oh my god
worried judgment oh my god judgment are fear fear of other people’s
judgment are fear fear of other people’s
judgment are fear fear of other people’s perception of you so your intuition is
perception of you so your intuition is
perception of you so your intuition is saying I love to dance I want to dance I
saying I love to dance I want to dance I
saying I love to dance I want to dance I want to sing your intuition is saying we
want to sing your intuition is saying we
want to sing your intuition is saying we can have a great time your intuition
can have a great time your intuition
can have a great time your intuition said I want love your intuition is
said I want love your intuition is
said I want love your intuition is saying gosh let’s go take that chance on
saying gosh let’s go take that chance on
saying gosh let’s go take that chance on that writing that book or let’s take
that writing that book or let’s take
that writing that book or let’s take that chance on starting that business
that chance on starting that business
that chance on starting that business then your chatter comes in no what if I
then your chatter comes in no what if I
then your chatter comes in no what if I fail so let me explain this to you your
fail so let me explain this to you your
fail so let me explain this to you your mind your brain is designed to keep you
mind your brain is designed to keep you
mind your brain is designed to keep you safe
safe
safe it’s designed and it only has the
it’s designed and it only has the
it’s designed and it only has the ability to go back in time in the mental
ability to go back in time in the mental
ability to go back in time in the mental file cabinet and look at the last time
file cabinet and look at the last time
file cabinet and look at the last time you tried something like this and it may
you tried something like this and it may
you tried something like this and it may not have been good or it may have ended
not have been good or it may have ended
not have been good or it may have ended in some dangerous situations where
in some dangerous situations where
in some dangerous situations where people could judge you and your brain is
people could judge you and your brain is
people could judge you and your brain is designed to protect you that’s it your
designed to protect you that’s it your
designed to protect you that’s it your brains desire to protect you is logical
brains desire to protect you is logical
brains desire to protect you is logical your intuition is that spark of passion
your intuition is that spark of passion
your intuition is that spark of passion it’s that spark of desire it’s that
it’s that spark of desire it’s that
it’s that spark of desire it’s that spark of love it’s that spark of pull me
spark of love it’s that spark of pull me
spark of love it’s that spark of pull me forward it’s that little bit of radical
forward it’s that little bit of radical
forward it’s that little bit of radical it’s that a lot a bit of I want to leave
it’s that a lot a bit of I want to leave
it’s that a lot a bit of I want to leave my fingerprint on this planet your brain
my fingerprint on this planet your brain
my fingerprint on this planet your brain isn’t designed to have those same IDs
isn’t designed to have those same IDs
isn’t designed to have those same IDs now now your intuition can kick the
now now your intuition can kick the
now now your intuition can kick the brain in and the brake and start
brain in and the brake and start
brain in and the brake and start thinking of ways to but the intuition is
thinking of ways to but the intuition is
thinking of ways to but the intuition is where it’s gonna start it’s in your gut
where it’s gonna start it’s in your gut
where it’s gonna start it’s in your gut and see this is why when you feel
and see this is why when you feel
and see this is why when you feel something you kind of go here you don’t
something you kind of go here you don’t
something you kind of go here you don’t go oh I feel so special you don’t say I
go oh I feel so special you don’t say I
go oh I feel so special you don’t say I feel special here you say I feel it here
feel special here you say I feel it here
feel special here you say I feel it here I feel it here and so your job is not to
I feel it here and so your job is not to
I feel it here and so your job is not to turn down the doubt your job is to turn
turn down the doubt your job is to turn
turn down the doubt your job is to turn up the passion it’s to turn up the faith
up the passion it’s to turn up the faith
up the passion it’s to turn up the faith is to turn up the possibility now still
is to turn up the possibility now still
is to turn up the possibility now still make well-thought-out plan I always say
make well-thought-out plan I always say
make well-thought-out plan I always say the best plan is the plan made I don’t
the best plan is the plan made I don’t
the best plan is the plan made I don’t care if you have to upgrade it you have
care if you have to upgrade it you have
care if you have to upgrade it you have to modify it but if you if you if you if
to modify it but if you if you if you if
to modify it but if you if you if you if you fail to plan then you plan to fail
you fail to plan then you plan to fail
you fail to plan then you plan to fail so every dream every passion every
so every dream every passion every
so every dream every passion every desire follow it with a plan because
desire follow it with a plan because
desire follow it with a plan because actually your brain gets excited your
actually your brain gets excited your
actually your brain gets excited your brain goes yes we got a plan now
brain goes yes we got a plan now
brain goes yes we got a plan now now you can believe yourself see you set
now you can believe yourself see you set
now you can believe yourself see you set big goals and dreams and you have
big goals and dreams and you have
big goals and dreams and you have desires and then you don’t achieve it
desires and then you don’t achieve it
desires and then you don’t achieve it but you don’t achieve it because you
but you don’t achieve it because you
but you don’t achieve it because you didn’t set the plan in place you didn’t
didn’t set the plan in place you didn’t
didn’t set the plan in place you didn’t do the details and then you stopped
do the details and then you stopped
do the details and then you stopped believing you could do it then you do
believing you could do it then you do
believing you could do it then you do the biggest tragedy you stop dreaming
the biggest tragedy you stop dreaming
the biggest tragedy you stop dreaming you stop hoping you stop stretching
you stop hoping you stop stretching
you stop hoping you stop stretching yourself you stop listening to your GPS
yourself you stop listening to your GPS
yourself you stop listening to your GPS your God placement system that says
your God placement system that says
your God placement system that says you’ve been put here on a divine
you’ve been put here on a divine
you’ve been put here on a divine assignment and your assignment may
assignment and your assignment may
assignment and your assignment may change over years guess what your
change over years guess what your
change over years guess what your assignment you had 15 years ago may be
assignment you had 15 years ago may be
assignment you had 15 years ago may be very different from the assignment on
very different from the assignment on
very different from the assignment on your life today your job is to turn down
your life today your job is to turn down
your life today your job is to turn down the volume in your head the volume of
the volume in your head the volume of
the volume in your head the volume of judgment the volume of fear the volume
judgment the volume of fear the volume
judgment the volume of fear the volume of worry the volume of perfection turned
of worry the volume of perfection turned
of worry the volume of perfection turned down the volume in your head and turn up
down the volume in your head and turn up
down the volume in your head and turn up the volume in your intuition then your
the volume in your intuition then your
the volume in your intuition then your solar plex in that God placement system
solar plex in that God placement system
solar plex in that God placement system in that heart space turn up the volume
in that heart space turn up the volume
in that heart space turn up the volume that place that just says what do I want
that place that just says what do I want
that place that just says what do I want what ask yourself this tonight today
what ask yourself this tonight today
what ask yourself this tonight today tomorrow what feels
tomorrow what feels
tomorrow what feels and then be still and be quiet I love
and then be still and be quiet I love
and then be still and be quiet I love this clip it reminds me of a quote in
this clip it reminds me of a quote in
this clip it reminds me of a quote in the new book from Kevin O’Leary from the
the new book from Kevin O’Leary from the
the new book from Kevin O’Leary from the shark tanks who said I listen to my gut
shark tanks who said I listen to my gut
shark tanks who said I listen to my gut it’s not an emotion it’s an index of
it’s not an emotion it’s an index of
it’s not an emotion it’s an index of risk and you get it as you age you
risk and you get it as you age you
risk and you get it as you age you become better every year and I think
become better every year and I think
become better every year and I think it’s so important that your your gut
it’s so important that your your gut
it’s so important that your your gut gets better the more you listen to it
gets better the more you listen to it
gets better the more you listen to it and the more you trust it if you’re
and the more you trust it if you’re
and the more you trust it if you’re feeling something and you don’t act on
feeling something and you don’t act on
feeling something and you don’t act on it then it’s hard to continue to develop
it then it’s hard to continue to develop
it then it’s hard to continue to develop that intuition but you want to be making
that intuition but you want to be making
that intuition but you want to be making the big decisions in life with your
the big decisions in life with your
the big decisions in life with your heart and the Swans with your head
heart and the Swans with your head
heart and the Swans with your head big decisions with the heart or your gut
big decisions with the heart or your gut
big decisions with the heart or your gut and the small ones with the head because
and the small ones with the head because
and the small ones with the head because the head only understands the world that
the head only understands the world that
the head only understands the world that currently exists what your heart your
currently exists what your heart your
currently exists what your heart your gut can create something new and the
gut can create something new and the
gut can create something new and the more you listen to this the more you
more you listen to this the more you
more you listen to this the more you said listen to your heart and your gut
said listen to your heart and your gut
said listen to your heart and your gut instead of your head that’s when things
instead of your head that’s when things
instead of your head that’s when things really start to take off for you
really start to take off for you
really start to take off for you let’s move on the rule number eight like
let’s move on the rule number eight like
let’s move on the rule number eight like yourself first these to me this is the
yourself first these to me this is the
yourself first these to me this is the road to true freedom I have nothing to
road to true freedom I have nothing to
road to true freedom I have nothing to prove mmm I have nothing to protect I
prove mmm I have nothing to protect I
prove mmm I have nothing to protect I have nothing to hide and I have nothing
have nothing to hide and I have nothing
have nothing to hide and I have nothing to defend mmm that your perception of me
to defend mmm that your perception of me
to defend mmm that your perception of me after I tell my truth is actually none
after I tell my truth is actually none
after I tell my truth is actually none of my business my perception of me that
of my business my perception of me that
of my business my perception of me that I go to bed as whole and complete as I
I go to bed as whole and complete as I
I go to bed as whole and complete as I woke up before I check how many likes I
woke up before I check how many likes I
woke up before I check how many likes I have on Facebook that I like me first
have on Facebook that I like me first
have on Facebook that I like me first mmm and every other like is bonus very
mmm and every other like is bonus very
mmm and every other like is bonus very good market that was a long road to get
good market that was a long road to get
good market that was a long road to get to low roads for long road this is
to low roads for long road this is
to low roads for long road this is another fantastic clip it reminds me of
another fantastic clip it reminds me of
another fantastic clip it reminds me of Quincy Jones who said not one drop of my
Quincy Jones who said not one drop of my
Quincy Jones who said not one drop of my self-worth is dependent on your
self-worth is dependent on your
self-worth is dependent on your acceptance of me and I love that I’m
acceptance of me and I love that I’m
acceptance of me and I love that I’m getting close to that I don’t know that
getting close to that I don’t know that
getting close to that I don’t know that I don’t know how you get to that a
I don’t know how you get to that a
I don’t know how you get to that a hundred percent because somebody’s
hundred percent because somebody’s
hundred percent because somebody’s opinion even if you don’t know them even
opinion even if you don’t know them even
opinion even if you don’t know them even if you don’t respect them it still can
if you don’t respect them it still can
if you don’t respect them it still can hurt it can still play a role even
hurt it can still play a role even
hurt it can still play a role even though you get a thicker and thicker and
though you get a thicker and thicker and
though you get a thicker and thicker and thicker skin as you get bigger as you as
thicker skin as you get bigger as you as
thicker skin as you get bigger as you as you practices more I’m at least till on
you practices more I’m at least till on
you practices more I’m at least till on my journey it still bothers me a little
my journey it still bothers me a little
my journey it still bothers me a little bit and I’d like to learn more ways to
bit and I’d like to learn more ways to
bit and I’d like to learn more ways to get even better at it so thank you Lisa
get even better at it so thank you Lisa
get even better at it so thank you Lisa for the reminder let’s move on the rule
for the reminder let’s move on the rule
for the reminder let’s move on the rule number nine play big I get
number nine play big I get
number nine play big I get ask the question a lot how do I jump
ask the question a lot how do I jump
ask the question a lot how do I jump start again when I’ve been complacent
start again when I’ve been complacent
start again when I’ve been complacent you know I found that I had to ask
you know I found that I had to ask
you know I found that I had to ask myself this question as well for so many
myself this question as well for so many
myself this question as well for so many years I was working hard to feed Jelani
years I was working hard to feed Jelani
years I was working hard to feed Jelani I was working hard to give him an equal
I was working hard to give him an equal
I was working hard to give him an equal chance I had this goal that by the time
chance I had this goal that by the time
chance I had this goal that by the time he was 18 I would have transformed our
he was 18 I would have transformed our
he was 18 I would have transformed our lives and I ran hard for it and I worked
lives and I ran hard for it and I worked
lives and I ran hard for it and I worked hard for it and by the time he was 18
hard for it and by the time he was 18
hard for it and by the time he was 18 our lives were completely transformed
our lives were completely transformed
our lives were completely transformed and barely recognizable and I found that
and barely recognizable and I found that
and barely recognizable and I found that I had slowed down a bit still running
I had slowed down a bit still running
I had slowed down a bit still running but running at about 70% and the
but running at about 70% and the
but running at about 70% and the challenge that you have to watch out for
challenge that you have to watch out for
challenge that you have to watch out for is that your 70% could be someone else
is that your 70% could be someone else
is that your 70% could be someone else as a hundred and fifteen percent because
as a hundred and fifteen percent because
as a hundred and fifteen percent because you are such a game changer so you can
you are such a game changer so you can
you are such a game changer so you can impress a lot of people never playing
impress a lot of people never playing
impress a lot of people never playing full-out and you can look up in a years
full-out and you can look up in a years
full-out and you can look up in a years past three years past five years have
past three years past five years have
past three years past five years have passed and you haven’t played full-out
passed and you haven’t played full-out
passed and you haven’t played full-out for a while because you’ve already
for a while because you’ve already
for a while because you’ve already achieved a lot by some people’s
achieved a lot by some people’s
achieved a lot by some people’s standards but there’s still so much more
standards but there’s still so much more
standards but there’s still so much more that you can do I want to coach you in
that you can do I want to coach you in
that you can do I want to coach you in this way dream a dream are set a goal
this way dream a dream are set a goal
this way dream a dream are set a goal that’s big enough to make you get
that’s big enough to make you get
that’s big enough to make you get nervous often times if you’re not
nervous often times if you’re not
nervous often times if you’re not setting a goal that’s beyond three years
setting a goal that’s beyond three years
setting a goal that’s beyond three years out in front of you there’s not enough
out in front of you there’s not enough
out in front of you there’s not enough to run for so I want you to look at your
to run for so I want you to look at your
to run for so I want you to look at your goals can you achieve them in a year two
goals can you achieve them in a year two
goals can you achieve them in a year two years I want you to set a goal for three
years I want you to set a goal for three
years I want you to set a goal for three years so to go for five years and set a
years so to go for five years and set a
years so to go for five years and set a goal for ten years yes I said ten years
goal for ten years yes I said ten years
goal for ten years yes I said ten years when I did this phenomenal program
when I did this phenomenal program
when I did this phenomenal program called life book they had me set 10-year
called life book they had me set 10-year
called life book they had me set 10-year goals and I was so uncomfortable I said
goals and I was so uncomfortable I said
goals and I was so uncomfortable I said they’re silent for a moment I hadn’t
they’re silent for a moment I hadn’t
they’re silent for a moment I hadn’t thought ten years out about my life but
thought ten years out about my life but
thought ten years out about my life but if you go out far enough ten five
if you go out far enough ten five
if you go out far enough ten five three then all of a sudden you’re
three then all of a sudden you’re
three then all of a sudden you’re playing for something so much bigger and
playing for something so much bigger and
playing for something so much bigger and then set a goal that makes your knees
then set a goal that makes your knees
then set a goal that makes your knees knock and your teeth chatter a bit if
knock and your teeth chatter a bit if
knock and your teeth chatter a bit if you know how to get to your goal you’re
you know how to get to your goal you’re
you know how to get to your goal you’re not dreaming big enough now the goal
not dreaming big enough now the goal
not dreaming big enough now the goal also has to be realistic has to be
also has to be realistic has to be
also has to be realistic has to be realistic something you can do if you’re
realistic something you can do if you’re
realistic something you can do if you’re currently making 80,000 then your goal
currently making 80,000 then your goal
currently making 80,000 then your goal in three years isn’t to make 500,000
in three years isn’t to make 500,000
in three years isn’t to make 500,000 unless you have a path that’s viable to
unless you have a path that’s viable to
unless you have a path that’s viable to get you there that’s real the thing
get you there that’s real the thing
get you there that’s real the thing that’s really important to remember
that’s really important to remember
that’s really important to remember about a goal is that if you set lofty
about a goal is that if you set lofty
about a goal is that if you set lofty goals that you will never hit because
goals that you will never hit because
goals that you will never hit because they’re not realistic in the first place
they’re not realistic in the first place
they’re not realistic in the first place you have to set realistic goals that
you have to set realistic goals that
you have to set realistic goals that doesn’t mean you’re not capable doesn’t
doesn’t mean you’re not capable doesn’t
doesn’t mean you’re not capable doesn’t mean that you don’t believe in yourself
mean that you don’t believe in yourself
mean that you don’t believe in yourself but realistic goals if you set a bunch
but realistic goals if you set a bunch
but realistic goals if you set a bunch of unrealistic goals and you don’t hit
of unrealistic goals and you don’t hit
of unrealistic goals and you don’t hit them every time you don’t hit a goal you
them every time you don’t hit a goal you
them every time you don’t hit a goal you lose just a little bit of hoping
lose just a little bit of hoping
lose just a little bit of hoping yourself a little bit of faith in
yourself a little bit of faith in
yourself a little bit of faith in yourself and then what happens is you
yourself and then what happens is you
yourself and then what happens is you look up five years ten years from now
look up five years ten years from now
look up five years ten years from now and you’re not dreaming anymore you’re
and you’re not dreaming anymore you’re
and you’re not dreaming anymore you’re not setting goals anymore you’re afraid
not setting goals anymore you’re afraid
not setting goals anymore you’re afraid to tell anyone so set a goal that makes
to tell anyone so set a goal that makes
to tell anyone so set a goal that makes your knees knocking your teeth chatter a
your knees knocking your teeth chatter a
your knees knocking your teeth chatter a bit set a goal that’s three years out in
bit set a goal that’s three years out in
bit set a goal that’s three years out in front of you set one that’s five years
front of you set one that’s five years
front of you set one that’s five years and set one that’s ten years and matter
and set one that’s ten years and matter
and set one that’s ten years and matter of fact sets several and all those
of fact sets several and all those
of fact sets several and all those timelines and then hook your caboose to
timelines and then hook your caboose to
timelines and then hook your caboose to the Train of other people who are
the Train of other people who are
the Train of other people who are running as fast as you are surround
running as fast as you are surround
running as fast as you are surround yourself in a community that inspires
yourself in a community that inspires
yourself in a community that inspires you to want to stand on your tippy toes
you to want to stand on your tippy toes
you to want to stand on your tippy toes they inspire you because they’re doing
they inspire you because they’re doing
they inspire you because they’re doing so much now they believe in values they
so much now they believe in values they
so much now they believe in values they believe in faith they believe in family
believe in faith they believe in family
believe in faith they believe in family but they also believe in running hard
but they also believe in running hard
but they also believe in running hard playing hard and living big because if
playing hard and living big because if
playing hard and living big because if you’re the biggest fish in your
you’re the biggest fish in your
you’re the biggest fish in your community then that’s okay you just need
community then that’s okay you just need
community then that’s okay you just need to get a second community to play inside
to get a second community to play inside
to get a second community to play inside of as well and so if you find yourself
of as well and so if you find yourself
of as well and so if you find yourself going hold on I become complacent
going hold on I become complacent
going hold on I become complacent walk out 15 years and go do I want to
walk out 15 years and go do I want to
walk out 15 years and go do I want to look back in 15 years and this was the
look back in 15 years and this was the
look back in 15 years and this was the best that I did the answer probably is
best that I did the answer probably is
best that I did the answer probably is no I love this rule and I think it ties
no I love this rule and I think it ties
no I love this rule and I think it ties in really well to rule number two which
in really well to rule number two which
in really well to rule number two which was create micro wins
was create micro wins
was create micro wins so you’re dreaming big we have a big
so you’re dreaming big we have a big
so you’re dreaming big we have a big action plan you want to go and change
action plan you want to go and change
action plan you want to go and change the world they have this huge dream for
the world they have this huge dream for
the world they have this huge dream for yourself they think is realistic or
yourself they think is realistic or
yourself they think is realistic or nené shattering but still something you
nené shattering but still something you
nené shattering but still something you can accomplish in 3 5 15 years and you
can accomplish in 3 5 15 years and you
can accomplish in 3 5 15 years and you create micro wins you start getting
create micro wins you start getting
create micro wins you start getting going on it immediately I think the
going on it immediately I think the
going on it immediately I think the biggest threat and Lisa talked about it
biggest threat and Lisa talked about it
biggest threat and Lisa talked about it here is your potential is not being
here is your potential is not being
here is your potential is not being reached you are talented you are genius
reached you are talented you are genius
reached you are talented you are genius and allows you to coast and everybody
and allows you to coast and everybody
and allows you to coast and everybody thinks you’re doing a great job and you
thinks you’re doing a great job and you
thinks you’re doing a great job and you just coast it along because you’re
just coast it along because you’re
just coast it along because you’re really playing at 65% or 70% of what
really playing at 65% or 70% of what
really playing at 65% or 70% of what you’re capable
you’re capable
you’re capable you’re not playing full-out because
you’re not playing full-out because
you’re not playing full-out because nobody’s pushing you to play full of as
nobody’s pushing you to play full of as
nobody’s pushing you to play full of as you need to push yourself to do it by
you need to push yourself to do it by
you need to push yourself to do it by setting big goals that inspire you
setting big goals that inspire you
setting big goals that inspire you regularly
regularly
regularly let’s finish his awesome video off with
let’s finish his awesome video off with
let’s finish his awesome video off with rule number 10 live your quest when we
rule number 10 live your quest when we
rule number 10 live your quest when we talk about living our quest and I think
talk about living our quest and I think
talk about living our quest and I think that living my quest really if I look at
that living my quest really if I look at
that living my quest really if I look at on a daily basis it’s finding my own
on a daily basis it’s finding my own
on a daily basis it’s finding my own voice it’s finding your voice it’s
voice it’s finding your voice it’s
voice it’s finding your voice it’s finding the song that only you can sing
finding the song that only you can sing
finding the song that only you can sing off key or not it’s finding your rhythm
off key or not it’s finding your rhythm
off key or not it’s finding your rhythm it’s discovering what it feels like to
it’s discovering what it feels like to
it’s discovering what it feels like to walk in your shoes today it won’t look
walk in your shoes today it won’t look
walk in your shoes today it won’t look like it looked 10 years ago living your
like it looked 10 years ago living your
like it looked 10 years ago living your quest is what can I do with my life so
quest is what can I do with my life so
quest is what can I do with my life so that my life becomes infectious to
that my life becomes infectious to
that my life becomes infectious to someone else living my quest
someone else living my quest
someone else living my quest looks like how do I make my fingerprint
looks like how do I make my fingerprint
looks like how do I make my fingerprint matters so big that it lives beyond my
matters so big that it lives beyond my
matters so big that it lives beyond my transition day living your quest is how
transition day living your quest is how
transition day living your quest is how can I forgive the perceiving Lea
can I forgive the perceiving Lea
can I forgive the perceiving Lea unforgivable so I can love the absolute
unforgivable so I can love the absolute
unforgivable so I can love the absolute loveable living your quest is how do I
loveable living your quest is how do I
loveable living your quest is how do I give myself a thousand second chances
give myself a thousand second chances
give myself a thousand second chances and every time I get to 999 press reset
and every time I get to 999 press reset
and every time I get to 999 press reset yeah yeah living my quest is is not some
yeah yeah living my quest is is not some
yeah yeah living my quest is is not some ambiguous untouchable experience living
ambiguous untouchable experience living
ambiguous untouchable experience living my quest means going back and healing
my quest means going back and healing
my quest means going back and healing the little girl in me so that the woman
the little girl in me so that the woman
the little girl in me so that the woman can be free it’s going back at embracing
can be free it’s going back at embracing
can be free it’s going back at embracing the little boy in you so that the man
the little boy in you so that the man
the little boy in you so that the man can show up and give himself permission
can show up and give himself permission
can show up and give himself permission to cry when necessary living your quest
to cry when necessary living your quest
to cry when necessary living your quest is not something that you can’t touch
is not something that you can’t touch
is not something that you can’t touch it’s not something that requires a stage
it’s not something that requires a stage
it’s not something that requires a stage or lights or cameras living your quest
or lights or cameras living your quest
or lights or cameras living your quest is being completing content with who you
is being completing content with who you
is being completing content with who you are in the dark of the night so who you
are in the dark of the night so who you
are in the dark of the night so who you are in the middle of the day is all
are in the middle of the day is all
are in the middle of the day is all right
right
right living your quest is as simple as it is
living your quest is as simple as it is
living your quest is as simple as it is complex living your quest is about
complex living your quest is about
complex living your quest is about giving yourself permission say
giving yourself permission say
giving yourself permission say permission on a daily basis to become
permission on a daily basis to become
permission on a daily basis to become the next best version of yourself living
the next best version of yourself living
the next best version of yourself living your quest is not holding yourself
your quest is not holding yourself
your quest is not holding yourself hostage to old decisions not holding
hostage to old decisions not holding
hostage to old decisions not holding yourself hostage to shame blame guilt
yourself hostage to shame blame guilt
yourself hostage to shame blame guilt regret and anger living your quest is
regret and anger living your quest is
regret and anger living your quest is about recognizing that everyday I can be
about recognizing that everyday I can be
about recognizing that everyday I can be reborn to my possibility living your
reborn to my possibility living your
reborn to my possibility living your quest is as internal and personal as it
quest is as internal and personal as it
quest is as internal and personal as it is public living your quest is about
is public living your quest is about
is public living your quest is about recognizing that you have brilliance in
recognizing that you have brilliance in
recognizing that you have brilliance in you and not being willing to dim your
you and not being willing to dim your
you and not being willing to dim your light one more day living your quest
light one more day living your quest
light one more day living your quest means not being afraid of the genius in
means not being afraid of the genius in
means not being afraid of the genius in you even though you have doubt living
you even though you have doubt living
you even though you have doubt living your quest is recognizing that you get
your quest is recognizing that you get
your quest is recognizing that you get to sing your song off tune that you can
to sing your song off tune that you can
to sing your song off tune that you can get to live in perfection while you
get to live in perfection while you
get to live in perfection while you master in perfection I love this clip
master in perfection I love this clip
master in perfection I love this clip it’s so beautiful I’m just gonna leave
it’s so beautiful I’m just gonna leave
it’s so beautiful I’m just gonna leave it as it is thank you Lisa for all the
it as it is thank you Lisa for all the
it as it is thank you Lisa for all the awesomeness that you continue to share
awesomeness that you continue to share
awesomeness that you continue to share to inspire people around the world
so thank you guys so much for watching
so thank you guys so much for watching I’d love to know what was your favorite
I’d love to know what was your favorite
I’d love to know what was your favorite rule what message really resonated with
rule what message really resonated with
rule what message really resonated with you the most that you’re going to apply
you the most that you’re going to apply
you the most that you’re going to apply immediately in your life or your
immediately in your life or your
immediately in your life or your business my personal favorite was rule
business my personal favorite was rule
business my personal favorite was rule number one which was disrupt your
number one which was disrupt your
number one which was disrupt your standards and I think rule number five
standards and I think rule number five
standards and I think rule number five the visualize one is something that I’m
the visualize one is something that I’m
the visualize one is something that I’m gonna dig into little bit more to
gonna dig into little bit more to
gonna dig into little bit more to improve on I’d love to know again what
improve on I’d love to know again what
improve on I’d love to know again what was your favorite and why leave it down
was your favorite and why leave it down
was your favorite and why leave it down in the comments below
in the comments below
in the comments below now I made this video because Charmaine
now I made this video because Charmaine
now I made this video because Charmaine Robinson asked me to if there’s a famous
Robinson asked me to if there’s a famous
Robinson asked me to if there’s a famous entrepreneur that you would like me to
entrepreneur that you would like me to
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leave your vote in the comments and have
leave your vote in the comments and have your say I also want to give a quick
your say I also want to give a quick
your say I also want to give a quick shout out to Polly matzo Co Polly thank
shout out to Polly matzo Co Polly thank
shout out to Polly matzo Co Polly thank you so much for picking up a copy of my
you so much for picking up a copy of my
you so much for picking up a copy of my book your one word and posting about it
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I really really appreciate the support
I really really appreciate the support and I hope you enjoyed the read so thank
and I hope you enjoyed the read so thank
and I hope you enjoyed the read so thank you guys again for watching I believe in
you guys again for watching I believe in
you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in
you I hope you continue to believe in
you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one where it
yourself and whatever your one where it
yourself and whatever your one where it is much love
is much love
is much love I’ll see you soon
so often people are consumed with fear
so often people are consumed with fear the fear of judgement that’s a huge one
the fear of judgement that’s a huge one
the fear of judgement that’s a huge one the fear of failure what happens if it
the fear of failure what happens if it
the fear of failure what happens if it doesn’t work the fear of success what
doesn’t work the fear of success what
doesn’t work the fear of success what happens if it does work and people see
happens if it does work and people see
happens if it does work and people see me like they really see me for who I am
me like they really see me for who I am
me like they really see me for who I am what happens if I get hurt in a
what happens if I get hurt in a
what happens if I get hurt in a relationship like there’s so many
relationship like there’s so many
relationship like there’s so many what-ifs
what-ifs
what-ifs but what happens when you what if
but what happens when you what if
but what happens when you what if yourself all over yourself you never
yourself all over yourself you never
yourself all over yourself you never think about the what if it works what if
think about the what if it works what if
think about the what if it works what if what if it has just them just as much
what if it has just them just as much
what if it has just them just as much chance at working as it doesn’t not
chance at working as it doesn’t not
chance at working as it doesn’t not working and what if you redefine what we
working and what if you redefine what we
working and what if you redefine what we call failure and in my language I love
call failure and in my language I love
call failure and in my language I love it in the book abundance now that I
it in the book abundance now that I
it in the book abundance now that I wrote and many of you have read it I
wrote and many of you have read it I
wrote and many of you have read it I talked about you can fail all day long
talked about you can fail all day long
talked about you can fail all day long just fail forward the only distinction
just fail forward the only distinction
just fail forward the only distinction between a bunch of really successful
between a bunch of really successful
between a bunch of really successful individuals and a bunch of individuals
individuals and a bunch of individuals
individuals and a bunch of individuals really wanting success is that the
really wanting success is that the
really wanting success is that the successful individuals we’re willing to
successful individuals we’re willing to
successful individuals we’re willing to fail and they did fail they just failed
fail and they did fail they just failed
fail and they did fail they just failed forward some of my best lessons are born
forward some of my best lessons are born
forward some of my best lessons are born out of my failures literally to this day
out of my failures literally to this day
out of my failures literally to this day and my failures these days cost six
and my failures these days cost six
and my failures these days cost six figures or more but I’m willing to do
figures or more but I’m willing to do
figures or more but I’m willing to do that because I want the lesson or the
that because I want the lesson or the
that because I want the lesson or the outcome and if you allow a failure to
outcome and if you allow a failure to
outcome and if you allow a failure to feed your futures what I call feeding
feed your futures what I call feeding
feed your futures what I call feeding your future meaning what are the two
your future meaning what are the two
your future meaning what are the two things that I did really well and what’s
things that I did really well and what’s
things that I did really well and what’s the one area that I can improve upon or
the one area that I can improve upon or
the one area that I can improve upon or what’s the three things I did really
what’s the three things I did really
what’s the three things I did really well and what are the two areas that I
well and what are the two areas that I
well and what are the two areas that I can improve upon and then take those two
can improve upon and then take those two
can improve upon and then take those two things and pull those that lesson
things and pull those that lesson
things and pull those that lesson forward or take the three things that
forward or take the three things that
forward or take the three things that you did well and make sure you don’t
you did well and make sure you don’t
you did well and make sure you don’t lose those to me the tragedy the tragedy
lose those to me the tragedy the tragedy
lose those to me the tragedy the tragedy of when something doesn’t go the way you
of when something doesn’t go the way you
of when something doesn’t go the way you thought is when you only beat yourself
thought is when you only beat yourself
thought is when you only beat yourself up from it you never ever look at what
up from it you never ever look at what
up from it you never ever look at what did I do well and where can I improve I
did I do well and where can I improve I
did I do well and where can I improve I learned from a brilliant brilliant
learned from a brilliant brilliant
learned from a brilliant brilliant friend of mine Ivy Meisner that balance
friend of mine Ivy Meisner that balance
friend of mine Ivy Meisner that balance is a myth but harmony is a must see I
is a myth but harmony is a must see I
is a myth but harmony is a must see I write about an abundance now and I
write about an abundance now and I
write about an abundance now and I really took a lot of time to open this
really took a lot of time to open this
really took a lot of time to open this up to unpack this and I really want to
up to unpack this and I really want to
up to unpack this and I really want to recommend that you read that part so
recommend that you read that part so
recommend that you read that part so that you can understand
that you can understand
that you can understand intellectually which will cause you to
intellectually which will cause you to
intellectually which will cause you to make different decisions so when you
make different decisions so when you
make different decisions so when you seek balance you’re seeking to equalize
seek balance you’re seeking to equalize
seek balance you’re seeking to equalize your entire life you want the same
your entire life you want the same
your entire life you want the same portions you want to have as much time
portions you want to have as much time
portions you want to have as much time with family as you have at work you
with family as you have at work you
with family as you have at work you would have as much time at play as you
would have as much time at play as you
would have as much time at play as you have with family you want to have as
have with family you want to have as
have with family you want to have as much personal time as you have family
much personal time as you have family
much personal time as you have family time and if you think about it when you
time and if you think about it when you
time and if you think about it when you look at all the quadrants of your life
look at all the quadrants of your life
look at all the quadrants of your life which I think they’re about twelve when
which I think they’re about twelve when
which I think they’re about twelve when you really break them down some people
you really break them down some people
you really break them down some people say for I like to break them down into
say for I like to break them down into
say for I like to break them down into twelve when you look at all those areas
twelve when you look at all those areas
twelve when you look at all those areas and they’re subcategories under
and they’re subcategories under
and they’re subcategories under relationship like romantic family
relationship like romantic family
relationship like romantic family friends and under work and then there’s
friends and under work and then there’s
friends and under work and then there’s under health and wellness personal
under health and wellness personal
under health and wellness personal development self esteem spirituality if
development self esteem spirituality if
development self esteem spirituality if you try to give equal amount to everyone
you try to give equal amount to everyone
you try to give equal amount to everyone that’s like twelve point something
that’s like twelve point something
that’s like twelve point something percent time is it’s just unrealistic
percent time is it’s just unrealistic
percent time is it’s just unrealistic especially if you’re in a career that’s
especially if you’re in a career that’s
especially if you’re in a career that’s demanding or God knows if you’re an
demanding or God knows if you’re an
demanding or God knows if you’re an entrepreneur then it just doesn’t happen
entrepreneur then it just doesn’t happen
entrepreneur then it just doesn’t happen so what occurs is we begin to spend our
so what occurs is we begin to spend our
so what occurs is we begin to spend our energy and time pursuing an unrealistic
energy and time pursuing an unrealistic
energy and time pursuing an unrealistic expectation in the first place setting
expectation in the first place setting
expectation in the first place setting ourselves up for constant failure have
ourselves up for constant failure have
ourselves up for constant failure have you ever thought of pursuing a goal that
you ever thought of pursuing a goal that
you ever thought of pursuing a goal that you know you’d probably never reach who
you know you’d probably never reach who
you know you’d probably never reach who wants to do that we do it all the time
wants to do that we do it all the time
wants to do that we do it all the time when we pursue balance on the other hand
when we pursue balance on the other hand
when we pursue balance on the other hand what if you pursued harmony see balance
what if you pursued harmony see balance
what if you pursued harmony see balance says I need to equalize everything
says I need to equalize everything
says I need to equalize everything harmony says I need to make sure they
harmony says I need to make sure they
harmony says I need to make sure they learn how to play together and dance
learn how to play together and dance
learn how to play together and dance together so that my life overall 360
together so that my life overall 360
together so that my life overall 360 feels good to live with that let me give
feels good to live with that let me give
feels good to live with that let me give an example how I used to do that so I
an example how I used to do that so I
an example how I used to do that so I would work all day when Jelani was about
would work all day when Jelani was about
would work all day when Jelani was about six or seven years old well I did I
six or seven years old well I did I
six or seven years old well I did I worked all day when he was 9 10 12 and
worked all day when he was 9 10 12 and
worked all day when he was 9 10 12 and 14 – but he was 6 and 7 I was just
14 – but he was 6 and 7 I was just
14 – but he was 6 and 7 I was just establishing my company we had just
establishing my company we had just
establishing my company we had just packed our bags and moved from Los
packed our bags and moved from Los
packed our bags and moved from Los Angeles I moved away from my nest of my
Angeles I moved away from my nest of my
Angeles I moved away from my nest of my mom and my dad and my family and my my
mom and my dad and my family and my my
mom and my dad and my family and my my cousins and my siblings and now we’re by
cousins and my siblings and now we’re by
cousins and my siblings and now we’re by ourselves in San Diego California and so
ourselves in San Diego California and so
ourselves in San Diego California and so I spend all day working really really
I spend all day working really really
I spend all day working really really hard so that I can ideally make this
hard so that I can ideally make this
hard so that I can ideally make this dream work but every day seeking harmony
dream work but every day seeking harmony
dream work but every day seeking harmony not
not
not every day at 6:29 not stop and from 6:30
every day at 6:29 not stop and from 6:30
every day at 6:29 not stop and from 6:30 until 8:30
until 8:30
until 8:30 that was Jelani and mommy time and
that was Jelani and mommy time and
that was Jelani and mommy time and during that Jelani and mommy time I
during that Jelani and mommy time I
during that Jelani and mommy time I would do everything
would do everything
would do everything Jelani what do you want to do every day
Jelani what do you want to do every day
Jelani what do you want to do every day I’d ask them question what do you want
I’d ask them question what do you want
I’d ask them question what do you want to do and he had the same answer every
to do and he had the same answer every
to do and he had the same answer every day he wanted to play Monopoly and I
day he wanted to play Monopoly and I
day he wanted to play Monopoly and I gotta tell you you know my son loves
gotta tell you you know my son loves
gotta tell you you know my son loves monopoly and I think I used to like it
monopoly and I think I used to like it
monopoly and I think I used to like it but I’ve played more games of monopoly
but I’ve played more games of monopoly
but I’ve played more games of monopoly we’ve had monopoly we’ve had try ah
we’ve had monopoly we’ve had try ah
we’ve had monopoly we’ve had try ah Polly we’ve had monopoly with the credit
Polly we’ve had monopoly with the credit
Polly we’ve had monopoly with the credit cards we’ve had monopoly with dinosaurs
cards we’ve had monopoly with dinosaurs
cards we’ve had monopoly with dinosaurs we had monopoly with Pokemon we have
we had monopoly with Pokemon we have
we had monopoly with Pokemon we have chef ugly because he want to be a chef
chef ugly because he want to be a chef
chef ugly because he want to be a chef we’ve had every woman monopoly possible
we’ve had every woman monopoly possible
we’ve had every woman monopoly possible but during that time we had our
but during that time we had our
but during that time we had our connection time and then we cook
connection time and then we cook
connection time and then we cook together and he would be mustard man and
together and he would be mustard man and
together and he would be mustard man and I would be garlic girl and literally on
I would be garlic girl and literally on
I would be garlic girl and literally on my bed today our two pillows one pillow
my bed today our two pillows one pillow
my bed today our two pillows one pillow says mustard man and another pillow says
says mustard man and another pillow says
says mustard man and another pillow says garlic girl and we made those two hours
garlic girl and we made those two hours
garlic girl and we made those two hours matter then I pay them I surprised him
matter then I pay them I surprised him
matter then I pay them I surprised him bathing himself and then I put him to
bathing himself and then I put him to
bathing himself and then I put him to bed and we make up stories together and
bed and we make up stories together and
bed and we make up stories together and we have this thing where he’d start a
we have this thing where he’d start a
we have this thing where he’d start a story then I add to it then he’d add to
story then I add to it then he’d add to
story then I add to it then he’d add to it then I’d add to it and every time he
it then I’d add to it and every time he
it then I’d add to it and every time he added to the story someone got hurt and
added to the story someone got hurt and
added to the story someone got hurt and every time I added to the story
every time I added to the story
every time I added to the story everything worked out fine and he always
everything worked out fine and he always
everything worked out fine and he always tried to kill or sabotage or hurt the
tried to kill or sabotage or hurt the
tried to kill or sabotage or hurt the the main character not always trying to
the main character not always trying to
the main character not always trying to make a happy ending and we would have
make a happy ending and we would have
make a happy ending and we would have this hilarious experience for about 25
this hilarious experience for about 25
this hilarious experience for about 25 minutes and at 8:30 I’d kiss him on his
minutes and at 8:30 I’d kiss him on his
minutes and at 8:30 I’d kiss him on his forehead and I’d go back and I’d work
forehead and I’d go back and I’d work
forehead and I’d go back and I’d work some more until midnight I truly believe
some more until midnight I truly believe
some more until midnight I truly believe that the relationship I have with my son
that the relationship I have with my son
that the relationship I have with my son which is not perfect but it’s absolutely
which is not perfect but it’s absolutely
which is not perfect but it’s absolutely breathtakingly beautiful for me it’s as
breathtakingly beautiful for me it’s as
breathtakingly beautiful for me it’s as a direct result of me seeking harmony
a direct result of me seeking harmony
a direct result of me seeking harmony not valence and so harmony is about the
not valence and so harmony is about the
not valence and so harmony is about the quality of the time that you spend when
quality of the time that you spend when
quality of the time that you spend when you’re doing something are you fully
you’re doing something are you fully
you’re doing something are you fully present are you when you’re with someone
present are you when you’re with someone
present are you when you’re with someone are you off of your phone when you’re
are you off of your phone when you’re
are you off of your phone when you’re watching a movie are you connected when
watching a movie are you connected when
watching a movie are you connected when you’re having dinner are you discussing
you’re having dinner are you discussing
you’re having dinner are you discussing life so harmony is being fully present
life so harmony is being fully present
life so harmony is being fully present and deepening the experience versus
and deepening the experience versus
and deepening the experience versus trying to get more time time is
trying to get more time time is
trying to get more time time is something that’s finite you only have 24
something that’s finite you only have 24
something that’s finite you only have 24 hours in a day but boy you can make
hours in a day but boy you can make
hours in a day but boy you can make those 24 mean a whole
those 24 mean a whole
those 24 mean a whole more depending on how you spend the time
more depending on how you spend the time
more depending on how you spend the time raise your standard Apple at the core
raise your standard Apple at the core
raise your standard Apple at the core its core value is that means that people
its core value is that means that people
its core value is that means that people your passion can change the way people
your passion can change the way people
your passion can change the way people not one drop of myself work depends on
not one drop of myself work depends on
not one drop of myself work depends on your it’s supposed to mean I don’t ever
your it’s supposed to mean I don’t ever
your it’s supposed to mean I don’t ever give up I’d have to be dead or
give up I’d have to be dead or
give up I’d have to be dead or completely incapacitated hey believe
completely incapacitated hey believe
completely incapacitated hey believe nation if you want to see my all-time
nation if you want to see my all-time
nation if you want to see my all-time favorite top ten rows of success I have
favorite top ten rows of success I have
favorite top ten rows of success I have a very special secret video for you
a very special secret video for you
a very special secret video for you these are the individual clips that I
these are the individual clips that I
these are the individual clips that I have personally learned the most from
have personally learned the most from
have personally learned the most from and applied to my life and my business
and applied to my life and my business
and applied to my life and my business check the link in description for
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