I’m the kind of person that believes you should always make decisions with your
should always make decisions with your
should always make decisions with your heart and soul the Y comes before the
heart and soul the Y comes before the
heart and soul the Y comes before the how the Y is the heart the head is the
how the Y is the heart the head is the
how the Y is the heart the head is the how most of the time if I follow my
how most of the time if I follow my
how most of the time if I follow my heart and everything else will fall in
heart and everything else will fall in
heart and everything else will fall in place rise and shine it’s an spresso
place rise and shine it’s an spresso
place rise and shine it’s an spresso time good morning believe nation it
time good morning believe nation it
time good morning believe nation it seven my one word is believe and I
seven my one word is believe and I
seven my one word is believe and I believe in you I believe you have an
believe in you I believe you have an
believe in you I believe you have an amazing gift inside you that I want to
amazing gift inside you that I want to
amazing gift inside you that I want to see exploded onto the world so grab your
see exploded onto the world so grab your
see exploded onto the world so grab your coffee and sip on today’s message follow
coffee and sip on today’s message follow
coffee and sip on today’s message follow your heart
over to you Mel Robbins I’m the kind of
over to you Mel Robbins I’m the kind of person that believes you should always
person that believes you should always
person that believes you should always make decisions with your heart and soul
make decisions with your heart and soul
make decisions with your heart and soul you can use your brain for math you can
you can use your brain for math you can
you can use your brain for math you can use your brain to look at the fine print
use your brain to look at the fine print
use your brain to look at the fine print and a contract but when it comes to the
and a contract but when it comes to the
and a contract but when it comes to the actual feel of the decision you always
actual feel of the decision you always
actual feel of the decision you always want to go inward and check it against
want to go inward and check it against
want to go inward and check it against your heart and soul how do you do that
your heart and soul how do you do that
your heart and soul how do you do that here’s the simple test does the decision
here’s the simple test does the decision
here’s the simple test does the decision that you’re about to make expand you
that you’re about to make expand you
that you’re about to make expand you expand your future or expand the
expand your future or expand the
expand your future or expand the possibilities of your life if the answer
possibilities of your life if the answer
possibilities of your life if the answer is yes then the decision is yes no
is yes then the decision is yes no
is yes then the decision is yes no matter how terrifying it is if you
matter how terrifying it is if you
matter how terrifying it is if you conversely look at the choice that you
conversely look at the choice that you
conversely look at the choice that you have to make and the decision will
have to make and the decision will
have to make and the decision will shrink you will silence you will inhibit
shrink you will silence you will inhibit
shrink you will silence you will inhibit you in some way then the answer is no no
you in some way then the answer is no no
you in some way then the answer is no no matter how easy the decision is no
matter how easy the decision is no
matter how easy the decision is no matter how safe the decision is the
matter how safe the decision is the
matter how safe the decision is the answer is no now one of the things I
answer is no now one of the things I
answer is no now one of the things I want to point out that when you start to
want to point out that when you start to
want to point out that when you start to use this does it expand or does it
use this does it expand or does it
use this does it expand or does it shrink me does it open possibilities or
shrink me does it open possibilities or
shrink me does it open possibilities or does it keep things closed does it raise
does it keep things closed does it raise
does it keep things closed does it raise my voice or does it silence me right is
my voice or does it silence me right is
my voice or does it silence me right is that there’s always a short-term and a
that there’s always a short-term and a
that there’s always a short-term and a long-term impact to the decision the
long-term impact to the decision the
long-term impact to the decision the short-term impact to making an expansive
short-term impact to making an expansive
short-term impact to making an expansive decision a decision that’s based in your
decision a decision that’s based in your
decision a decision that’s based in your heart in your soul
heart in your soul
heart in your soul sometimes it’s terrifying because
sometimes it’s terrifying because
sometimes it’s terrifying because sometimes it means Moo
sometimes it means Moo
sometimes it means Moo or it means changing a job or changing a
or it means changing a job or changing a
or it means changing a job or changing a relationship or having a difficult
relationship or having a difficult
relationship or having a difficult conversation or starting something new
conversation or starting something new
conversation or starting something new and those sorts of things are always
and those sorts of things are always
and those sorts of things are always uncomfortable so brace for impact
uncomfortable so brace for impact
uncomfortable so brace for impact put the force fields up but make the
put the force fields up but make the
put the force fields up but make the decision anyway because the long-term
decision anyway because the long-term
decision anyway because the long-term impact of making a decision from your
impact of making a decision from your
impact of making a decision from your heart and soul that is where the best
heart and soul that is where the best
heart and soul that is where the best life comes from because you’re living
life comes from because you’re living
life comes from because you’re living for what’s true for you not what’s safe
for what’s true for you not what’s safe
for what’s true for you not what’s safe in the moment you should make the big
in the moment you should make the big
in the moment you should make the big decisions in your life and in your
decisions in your life and in your
decisions in your life and in your business with your heart and the small
business with your heart and the small
business with your heart and the small ones with your head big decisions with
ones with your head big decisions with
ones with your head big decisions with the heart small decisions with your head
the heart small decisions with your head
the heart small decisions with your head why the head can only understand a world
why the head can only understand a world
why the head can only understand a world that currently exists it’s the logical
that currently exists it’s the logical
that currently exists it’s the logical world it’s the practical world but
world it’s the practical world but
world it’s the practical world but unless you would just want to be a
unless you would just want to be a
unless you would just want to be a photocopy of somebody else then you need
photocopy of somebody else then you need
photocopy of somebody else then you need to make the decision with your heart
to make the decision with your heart
to make the decision with your heart because your heart can create something
because your heart can create something
because your heart can create something new created something that hasn’t
new created something that hasn’t
new created something that hasn’t existed before comes from a place of
existed before comes from a place of
existed before comes from a place of passion not from a place in your head
passion not from a place in your head
passion not from a place in your head and so you need to decide whether you
and so you need to decide whether you
and so you need to decide whether you want to live a unique life or not if all
want to live a unique life or not if all
want to live a unique life or not if all you want to be is a photocopy of
you want to be is a photocopy of
you want to be is a photocopy of somebody else then use your head forever
somebody else then use your head forever
somebody else then use your head forever in your life for every major decision
in your life for every major decision
in your life for every major decision that you ever have to make and you’ll
that you ever have to make and you’ll
that you ever have to make and you’ll just be a junior version of somebody
just be a junior version of somebody
just be a junior version of somebody else but if you want to create an
else but if you want to create an
else but if you want to create an extraordinary life you want to create a
extraordinary life you want to create a
extraordinary life you want to create a life on your terms you want to create
life on your terms you want to create
life on your terms you want to create something amazing as an entrepreneur as
something amazing as an entrepreneur as
something amazing as an entrepreneur as a father or a mother or a husband or
a father or a mother or a husband or
a father or a mother or a husband or wife then you have to make the big
wife then you have to make the big
wife then you have to make the big decisions with your heart I look at my
decisions with your heart I look at my
decisions with your heart I look at my youtube channel as an example first even
youtube channel as an example first even
youtube channel as an example first even the decision to get into YouTube needs
the decision to get into YouTube needs
the decision to get into YouTube needs to be one from the heart that you love
to be one from the heart that you love
to be one from the heart that you love making videos that you love be able to
making videos that you love be able to
making videos that you love be able to spread a message I love helping
spread a message I love helping
spread a message I love helping entrepreneurs I love it I get energy
entrepreneurs I love it I get energy
entrepreneurs I love it I get energy from it it fuels me it’s not a practical
from it it fuels me it’s not a practical
from it it fuels me it’s not a practical thing for me I would do it even if I
thing for me I would do it even if I
thing for me I would do it even if I wasn’t making any money and at the start
wasn’t making any money and at the start
wasn’t making any money and at the start I wasn’t at the start I had three people
I wasn’t at the start I had three people
I wasn’t at the start I had three people show up to a free event and I was making
show up to a free event and I was making
show up to a free event and I was making no money and I thought I would never
no money and I thought I would never
no money and I thought I would never make money doing this I thought no big
make money doing this I thought no big
make money doing this I thought no big company is ever gonna pay me to come in
company is ever gonna pay me to come in
company is ever gonna pay me to come in and speak because I’ll tell they’re
and speak because I’ll tell they’re
and speak because I’ll tell they’re people that go beyond Trinette know
people that go beyond Trinette know
people that go beyond Trinette know entrepreneurs gonna be able to pay me
entrepreneurs gonna be able to pay me
entrepreneurs gonna be able to pay me because entrepreneur starting up don’t
because entrepreneur starting up don’t
because entrepreneur starting up don’t have a lot of money so how will I ever
have a lot of money so how will I ever
have a lot of money so how will I ever make money off of this I won’t but it’s
make money off of this I won’t but it’s
make money off of this I won’t but it’s okay because I love and I have to find a
okay because I love and I have to find a
okay because I love and I have to find a way to keep going and that led me
way to keep going and that led me
way to keep going and that led me eventually into YouTube I love making
eventually into YouTube I love making
eventually into YouTube I love making videos
videos
videos boom the share message with you guys I
boom the share message with you guys I
boom the share message with you guys I love waking up and seeing the comments
love waking up and seeing the comments
love waking up and seeing the comments that come in and knowing that is having
that come in and knowing that is having
that come in and knowing that is having a big impact so the decision to get into
a big impact so the decision to get into
a big impact so the decision to get into YouTube was based off of the heart even
YouTube was based off of the heart even
YouTube was based off of the heart even the decision to make certain kinds of
the decision to make certain kinds of
the decision to make certain kinds of videos is still coming from the heart I
videos is still coming from the heart I
videos is still coming from the heart I strongly believe in modeling success I
strongly believe in modeling success I
strongly believe in modeling success I love it I love being surrounded by
love it I love being surrounded by
love it I love being surrounded by people who’ve accomplished big things it
people who’ve accomplished big things it
people who’ve accomplished big things it forces and stretches me to want to do
forces and stretches me to want to do
forces and stretches me to want to do bigger things myself when I watch videos
bigger things myself when I watch videos
bigger things myself when I watch videos of Elon Musk or Oprah Winfrey or Mel
of Elon Musk or Oprah Winfrey or Mel
of Elon Musk or Oprah Winfrey or Mel Robbins and makes me want to strive to
Robbins and makes me want to strive to
Robbins and makes me want to strive to do more and I think that’s a great thing
do more and I think that’s a great thing
do more and I think that’s a great thing and I want to share that with you guys I
and I want to share that with you guys I
and I want to share that with you guys I make my videos self with you for myself
make my videos self with you for myself
make my videos self with you for myself and I share it with you guys then the
and I share it with you guys then the
and I share it with you guys then the head comes in to help optimize
head comes in to help optimize
head comes in to help optimize everything the head is what am I going
everything the head is what am I going
everything the head is what am I going to call this video what’s going to be on
to call this video what’s going to be on
to call this video what’s going to be on my thumbnail what’s the intro and Extro
my thumbnail what’s the intro and Extro
my thumbnail what’s the intro and Extro going to look like what clips are we
going to look like what clips are we
going to look like what clips are we going to use how are we going to do
going to use how are we going to do
going to use how are we going to do special effects on the videos to make it
special effects on the videos to make it
special effects on the videos to make it as good as possible so it’s always both
as good as possible so it’s always both
as good as possible so it’s always both you need the heart and the head working
you need the heart and the head working
you need the heart and the head working together but the heart makes the big
together but the heart makes the big
together but the heart makes the big decisions the head then helps you figure
decisions the head then helps you figure
decisions the head then helps you figure out the how the why comes before the how
out the how the why comes before the how
out the how the why comes before the how the why is the heart the head is the how
the why is the heart the head is the how
the why is the heart the head is the how I hate it when people make pros and cons
I hate it when people make pros and cons
I hate it when people make pros and cons lists should I marry this person or not
lists should I marry this person or not
lists should I marry this person or not well what are the pros and the cons you
well what are the pros and the cons you
well what are the pros and the cons you can write down the list right and Demi
can write down the list right and Demi
can write down the list right and Demi only be one thing on the Pro and 10
only be one thing on the Pro and 10
only be one thing on the Pro and 10 things on the cons you don’t say no
things on the cons you don’t say no
things on the cons you don’t say no because there’s 10 things on the cons
because there’s 10 things on the cons
because there’s 10 things on the cons and one thing on the pro and maybe on
and one thing on the pro and maybe on
and one thing on the pro and maybe on the cons list is they live in a
the cons list is they live in a
the cons list is they live in a different country or they speak a
different country or they speak a
different country or they speak a different language or they have
different language or they have
different language or they have different you know religious and
different you know religious and
different you know religious and cultural backgrounds or whatever it is
cultural backgrounds or whatever it is
cultural backgrounds or whatever it is on that list and there’s only one thing
on that list and there’s only one thing
on that list and there’s only one thing on the pro and that’s that you love that
on the pro and that’s that you love that
on the pro and that’s that you love that person don’t marry them and you can
person don’t marry them and you can
person don’t marry them and you can figure everything else out your brain
figure everything else out your brain
figure everything else out your brain can come up with an answer for
can come up with an answer for
can come up with an answer for everything else that’s on the negative
everything else that’s on the negative
everything else that’s on the negative list in every single big decision that
list in every single big decision that
list in every single big decision that you ever have to make in your life or
you ever have to make in your life or
you ever have to make in your life or your business please make it with your
your business please make it with your
your business please make it with your heart it’s scary it’s impractical it’s
heart it’s scary it’s impractical it’s
heart it’s scary it’s impractical it’s illogical it’ll be the decision that
illogical it’ll be the decision that
illogical it’ll be the decision that your friends and your family and the
your friends and your family and the
your friends and your family and the people around you tell you is crazy to
people around you tell you is crazy to
people around you tell you is crazy to do but if you’re feeling it then you
do but if you’re feeling it then you
do but if you’re feeling it then you have to do it otherwise you risk living
have to do it otherwise you risk living
have to do it otherwise you risk living the rest of your life in regret big
the rest of your life in regret big
the rest of your life in regret big decisions with the heart small ones with
decisions with the heart small ones with
decisions with the heart small ones with had always now I’ve got some special
had always now I’ve got some special
had always now I’ve got some special bonus clips for you but before that my
bonus clips for you but before that my
bonus clips for you but before that my question of the day is I want to know
question of the day is I want to know
question of the day is I want to know what was the last big decision that you
what was the last big decision that you
what was the last big decision that you made with your heart I want to get
made with your heart I want to get
made with your heart I want to get inspired leave it down in the comments
inspired leave it down in the comments
inspired leave it down in the comments below I look forward to hearing what you
below I look forward to hearing what you
below I look forward to hearing what you have to say thank you guys so much for
have to say thank you guys so much for
have to say thank you guys so much for watching I believe in you I hope you
watching I believe in you I hope you
watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and
continue to believe in yourself and
continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one where it is much love
whatever your one where it is much love
whatever your one where it is much love enjoy the bonus clips and I’ll see you
enjoy the bonus clips and I’ll see you
enjoy the bonus clips and I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for another shot
again tomorrow morning for another shot
again tomorrow morning for another shot of an espresso
what is it about investment and
what is it about investment and entrepreneurship that sort of has bitten
entrepreneurship that sort of has bitten
entrepreneurship that sort of has bitten you I’ve never looked at it as
you I’ve never looked at it as
you I’ve never looked at it as investments believe it or not I’m just
investments believe it or not I’m just
investments believe it or not I’m just look at it as partnerships help changing
look at it as partnerships help changing
look at it as partnerships help changing the world and just being part of
the world and just being part of
the world and just being part of something that’s inspiring my business
something that’s inspiring my business
something that’s inspiring my business people out of time whenever they talk
people out of time whenever they talk
people out of time whenever they talk about money you’re gonna ask the mother
about money you’re gonna ask the mother
about money you’re gonna ask the mother guy I don’t want to hear it but if they
guy I don’t want to hear it but if they
guy I don’t want to hear it but if they bring an idea to me and I think it’s
bring an idea to me and I think it’s
bring an idea to me and I think it’s gonna go to the next level most of the
gonna go to the next level most of the
gonna go to the next level most of the time if I follow my heart and everything
time if I follow my heart and everything
time if I follow my heart and everything else will fall in place I’ve never ever
else will fall in place I’ve never ever
else will fall in place I’ve never ever done a deal and we got this suit company
done a deal and we got this suit company
done a deal and we got this suit company we throw some pinstripes in the suit you
we throw some pinstripes in the suit you
we throw some pinstripes in the suit you give me out a thousand we sell 20 of
give me out a thousand we sell 20 of
give me out a thousand we sell 20 of them we make I’ve never did a deal where
them we make I’ve never did a deal where
them we make I’ve never did a deal where it was always based on money
it was always based on money
it was always based on money I’ve always did my business deals better
I’ve always did my business deals better
I’ve always did my business deals better I felt it was going to go in the future
I felt it was going to go in the future
I felt it was going to go in the future I felt it was gonna help and inspire
I felt it was gonna help and inspire
I felt it was gonna help and inspire somebody people that I look up to and
somebody people that I look up to and
somebody people that I look up to and admire it’s not anything physically
admire it’s not anything physically
admire it’s not anything physically different between them and me it’s just
different between them and me it’s just
different between them and me it’s just the way that they think when I was able
the way that they think when I was able
the way that they think when I was able to realize that it was a mindset thing
to realize that it was a mindset thing
to realize that it was a mindset thing that mental constructs and breaking them
that mental constructs and breaking them
that mental constructs and breaking them down and habits and all these things
down and habits and all these things
down and habits and all these things were able to be rearranged and you could
were able to be rearranged and you could
were able to be rearranged and you could literally rebuild the way that you
literally rebuild the way that you
literally rebuild the way that you thought to be the type of person that
thought to be the type of person that
thought to be the type of person that you want to be and achieve the type of
you want to be and achieve the type of
you want to be and achieve the type of goals you want to achieve that’s when
goals you want to achieve that’s when
goals you want to achieve that’s when our life changed yeah because I realized
our life changed yeah because I realized
our life changed yeah because I realized that it really was all the way that I
that it really was all the way that I
that it really was all the way that I was thinking sometimes you close doors
was thinking sometimes you close doors
was thinking sometimes you close doors to yourself that you didn’t even know
to yourself that you didn’t even know
to yourself that you didn’t even know we’re always open you literally put the
we’re always open you literally put the
we’re always open you literally put the door in knob and the handle and the key
door in knob and the handle and the key
door in knob and the handle and the key on them when they never were there and
on them when they never were there and
on them when they never were there and once I realized that I was like the sky
once I realized that I was like the sky
once I realized that I was like the sky really is the limit like it really is
really is the limit like it really is
really is the limit like it really is the limit but you know it’s not to go
the limit but you know it’s not to go
the limit but you know it’s not to go biblical but it’s like you know as I
biblical but it’s like you know as I
biblical but it’s like you know as I walk through the valley of the shadow of
walk through the valley of the shadow of
walk through the valley of the shadow of death I shall fear no evil for them I
death I shall fear no evil for them I
death I shall fear no evil for them I you know I mean you know what I’m
you know I mean you know what I’m
you know I mean you know what I’m talking about
talking about
talking about yeah that is the mind that is the valley
yeah that is the mind that is the valley
yeah that is the mind that is the valley of the shadow of death the thoughts that
of the shadow of death the thoughts that
of the shadow of death the thoughts that people the things that people say to you
people the things that people say to you
people the things that people say to you that we rotating your mind the things
that we rotating your mind the things
that we rotating your mind the things you see on on who you look like you know
you see on on who you look like you know
you see on on who you look like you know that is a big thing you watch TV is
that is a big thing you watch TV is
that is a big thing you watch TV is showing you see a blonde and they’re
showing you see a blonde and they’re
showing you see a blonde and they’re supposed to be stupid am i stupid
supposed to be stupid am i stupid
supposed to be stupid am i stupid yeah ignore if you see a person a black
yeah ignore if you see a person a black
yeah ignore if you see a person a black person and they’re belligerent am I
person and they’re belligerent am I
person and they’re belligerent am I supposed to be belligerent those are the
supposed to be belligerent those are the
supposed to be belligerent those are the things that aren’t that that isn’t you
things that aren’t that that isn’t you
things that aren’t that that isn’t you your mind is like a computer and it’s
your mind is like a computer and it’s
your mind is like a computer and it’s just playing back in itself what it’s
just playing back in itself what it’s
just playing back in itself what it’s already seen that’s why you have to
already seen that’s why you have to
already seen that’s why you have to follow your heart your heart it may not
follow your heart your heart it may not
follow your heart your heart it may not know how things are gonna happen but it
know how things are gonna happen but it
know how things are gonna happen but it feels it so if you follow that
feels it so if you follow that
feels it so if you follow that that’s where you end up where it is
that’s where you end up where it is
that’s where you end up where it is you’ll be able to really manifest what
you’ll be able to really manifest what
you’ll be able to really manifest what it is your dreams are because your mind
it is your dreams are because your mind
it is your dreams are because your mind doesn’t know because it hasn’t seen them
doesn’t know because it hasn’t seen them
doesn’t know because it hasn’t seen them yet you’re the one that’s supposed to
yet you’re the one that’s supposed to
yet you’re the one that’s supposed to deliver it to the world your first work
deliver it to the world your first work
deliver it to the world your first work it was a television job I think it’s
it was a television job I think it’s
it was a television job I think it’s Rosanne is that correct oh yeah that was
Rosanne is that correct oh yeah that was
Rosanne is that correct oh yeah that was my first job
my first job
my first job so was was that did you always want to
so was was that did you always want to
so was was that did you always want to do television I know that you come from
do television I know that you come from
do television I know that you come from a television family or did you did you
a television family or did you did you
a television family or did you did you go out to Hollywood to work in film or
go out to Hollywood to work in film or
go out to Hollywood to work in film or television how did that work I would
television how did that work I would
television how did that work I would never do television I was that was
never do television I was that was
never do television I was that was beneath me I studied film and my bad my
beneath me I studied film and my bad my
beneath me I studied film and my bad my best friend senior year used to taunt me
best friend senior year used to taunt me
best friend senior year used to taunt me you’re gonna be a third generation
you’re gonna be a third generation
you’re gonna be a third generation television writer 3g TV you call me that
television writer 3g TV you call me that
television writer 3g TV you call me that all the time
all the time
all the time and then I you know I got out to
and then I you know I got out to
and then I you know I got out to Hollywood and discovered incredible lack
Hollywood and discovered incredible lack
Hollywood and discovered incredible lack of money and so I started poking my nose
of money and so I started poking my nose
of money and so I started poking my nose around and then realized oh there’s some
around and then realized oh there’s some
around and then realized oh there’s some very good television that’s being made
very good television that’s being made
very good television that’s being made and and as soon as I started writing it
and and as soon as I started writing it
and and as soon as I started writing it was really the first writing I’d ever
was really the first writing I’d ever
was really the first writing I’d ever done over my television specs that I
done over my television specs that I
done over my television specs that I wrote trying to get a job and and that’s
wrote trying to get a job and and that’s
wrote trying to get a job and and that’s when I fell in love with writing was
when I fell in love with writing was
when I fell in love with writing was through television so and I had the
through television so and I had the
through television so and I had the privilege to work on Roseanne which was
privilege to work on Roseanne which was
privilege to work on Roseanne which was you know he of the best show on and it
you know he of the best show on and it
you know he of the best show on and it really it had a level of reality that no
really it had a level of reality that no
really it had a level of reality that no other show was really busting out just
other show was really busting out just
other show was really busting out just then if you had to think of one word
then if you had to think of one word
then if you had to think of one word that’s most important to you or that
that’s most important to you or that
that’s most important to you or that sums you up or that would be like a
sums you up or that would be like a
sums you up or that would be like a little beacon hey believe nation if you
little beacon hey believe nation if you
little beacon hey believe nation if you want to know what the most important one
want to know what the most important one
want to know what the most important one word is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk
word is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk
word is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am and Howard
Oprah Winfrey will.i.am and Howard
Oprah Winfrey will.i.am and Howard Schultz I have a very special secret
Schultz I have a very special secret
Schultz I have a very special secret video for you check the description for
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