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surprising facts about Tony Robbins I
surprising facts about Tony Robbins I hope you enjoy fact number one he
hope you enjoy fact number one he
hope you enjoy fact number one he started in the person development field
started in the person development field
started in the person development field when he was working for Jim Rohn at the
when he was working for Jim Rohn at the
when he was working for Jim Rohn at the age of 17 selling his motivational
age of 17 selling his motivational
age of 17 selling his motivational seminars I was working for Jim Rohn this
seminars I was working for Jim Rohn this
seminars I was working for Jim Rohn this speaker and I was 17 years old I had
speaker and I was 17 years old I had
speaker and I was 17 years old I had long hair minestrone soup acne on my
long hair minestrone soup acne on my
long hair minestrone soup acne on my face and I was trying to call on Bear
face and I was trying to call on Bear
face and I was trying to call on Bear Stearns type of people and convince them
Stearns type of people and convince them
Stearns type of people and convince them why they should go to this man seminar
why they should go to this man seminar
why they should go to this man seminar be more successful I was driving a 1968
be more successful I was driving a 1968
be more successful I was driving a 1968 Volkswagen that I’d earned at $40 a week
Volkswagen that I’d earned at $40 a week
Volkswagen that I’d earned at $40 a week as a janitor the only way I did it was
as a janitor the only way I did it was
as a janitor the only way I did it was parked far from the building and then go
parked far from the building and then go
parked far from the building and then go in and I love people I believe and I put
in and I love people I believe and I put
in and I love people I believe and I put myself in state and I was able to
myself in state and I was able to
myself in state and I was able to influence people that were far more
influence people that were far more
influence people that were far more successful I was at the time I had a
successful I was at the time I had a
successful I was at the time I had a dear dear friend and mentor named Jim
dear dear friend and mentor named Jim
dear dear friend and mentor named Jim Rohn who was my teacher when I was 17
Rohn who was my teacher when I was 17
Rohn who was my teacher when I was 17 years old he’s somebody I sent out some
years old he’s somebody I sent out some
years old he’s somebody I sent out some videos I’ll probably attach some things
videos I’ll probably attach some things
videos I’ll probably attach some things to this video or another one about him
to this video or another one about him
to this video or another one about him just to honor him and his teachings but
just to honor him and his teachings but
just to honor him and his teachings but he gave me a way of looking at life that
he gave me a way of looking at life that
he gave me a way of looking at life that allowed me to not ask life would be
allowed me to not ask life would be
allowed me to not ask life would be easier but to ask that I be better
easier but to ask that I be better
easier but to ask that I be better he got me to realize that the secret to
he got me to realize that the secret to
he got me to realize that the secret to life was to work harder on myself than
life was to work harder on myself than
life was to work harder on myself than my job or anything else because then I’d
my job or anything else because then I’d
my job or anything else because then I’d have something to give people and he
have something to give people and he
have something to give people and he really shaped me and he just passed away
really shaped me and he just passed away
really shaped me and he just passed away and I was thinking wow I’m gonna be 49
and I was thinking wow I’m gonna be 49
and I was thinking wow I’m gonna be 49 years old I met him when I was 17 think
years old I met him when I was 17 think
years old I met him when I was 17 think of the fact that my journey is just
of the fact that my journey is just
of the fact that my journey is just beginning and think of all the impact of
beginning and think of all the impact of
beginning and think of all the impact of just a couple ideas out of my life and I
just a couple ideas out of my life and I
just a couple ideas out of my life and I want to really continue to do that for
want to really continue to do that for
want to really continue to do that for you or anybody you care about so fact
you or anybody you care about so fact
you or anybody you care about so fact number two what made his early career
number two what made his early career
number two what made his early career was when he challenged a psychiatrist
was when he challenged a psychiatrist
was when he challenged a psychiatrist saying that he could cure someone snake
saying that he could cure someone snake
saying that he could cure someone snake phobia in a matter of minutes so I mean
phobia in a matter of minutes so I mean
phobia in a matter of minutes so I mean it’s the famous story about something I
it’s the famous story about something I
it’s the famous story about something I forgot Nana it was if somebody had some
forgot Nana it was if somebody had some
forgot Nana it was if somebody had some kind of phobic snake phobia that’s I got
kind of phobic snake phobia that’s I got
kind of phobic snake phobia that’s I got for seven years and you did it in 15
for seven years and you did it in 15
for seven years and you did it in 15 minutes yeah and but what made my career
minutes yeah and but what made my career
minutes yeah and but what made my career was that I was attacked by the
was that I was attacked by the
was that I was attacked by the psychiatrist on the radio saying you’re
psychiatrist on the radio saying you’re
psychiatrist on the radio saying you’re a liar you’re a charlatan people like
a liar you’re a charlatan people like
a liar you’re a charlatan people like you should not be allowed on the radio
you should not be allowed on the radio
you should not be allowed on the radio you can’t do this and so I was a real
you can’t do this and so I was a real
you can’t do this and so I was a real rebel frankly I was like in his face
rebel frankly I was like in his face
rebel frankly I was like in his face saying gray are you a scientist if you
saying gray are you a scientist if you
saying gray are you a scientist if you are then test your hypothesis give me
are then test your hypothesis give me
are then test your hypothesis give me your patient I’ll be
your patient I’ll be
your patient I’ll be the Holiday Inn tomorrow night so it was
the Holiday Inn tomorrow night so it was
the Holiday Inn tomorrow night so it was like this shootout and it was like a
like this shootout and it was like a
like this shootout and it was like a movie he brought her I wiped it out I
movie he brought her I wiped it out I
movie he brought her I wiped it out I wrapped the snake around her a phobia is
wrapped the snake around her a phobia is
wrapped the snake around her a phobia is an uncontrollable physical response to
an uncontrollable physical response to
an uncontrollable physical response to some stimulus you know it’s not just
some stimulus you know it’s not just
some stimulus you know it’s not just fear it’s shaking spitting and if the
fear it’s shaking spitting and if the
fear it’s shaking spitting and if the Andrews don’t they finally worked on it
Andrews don’t they finally worked on it
Andrews don’t they finally worked on it for seven years so that became my
for seven years so that became my
for seven years so that became my signature it was to challenge and then
signature it was to challenge and then
signature it was to challenge and then gradually I grew because I was really
gradually I grew because I was really
gradually I grew because I was really just trying to prove to everybody and
just trying to prove to everybody and
just trying to prove to everybody and myself as well that I was worthy rather
myself as well that I was worthy rather
myself as well that I was worthy rather than you know maturing a little bit and
than you know maturing a little bit and
than you know maturing a little bit and just knowing that there are skill sets
just knowing that there are skill sets
just knowing that there are skill sets that are valuable for everybody fact
that are valuable for everybody fact
that are valuable for everybody fact number three in the 1980s he used
number three in the 1980s he used
number three in the 1980s he used television infomercials to promote his
television infomercials to promote his
television infomercials to promote his books and programs do you want to
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four he did a cameo role as himself in
four he did a cameo role as himself in the film shallow house tour in Jack
the film shallow house tour in Jack
the film shallow house tour in Jack Black hey it’s you you’re the TV guru
Black hey it’s you you’re the TV guru
Black hey it’s you you’re the TV guru guy yes Tony Robbins please the beaches
guy yes Tony Robbins please the beaches
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Brothers are our friends and fans and they’re brilliant funny crazy guys and
they’re brilliant funny crazy guys and
they’re brilliant funny crazy guys and they invited me to participate in the
they invited me to participate in the
they invited me to participate in the movie and I didn’t turn them out I just
movie and I didn’t turn them out I just
movie and I didn’t turn them out I just said no because it wasn’t for me and
said no because it wasn’t for me and
said no because it wasn’t for me and when they brought me the script I was
when they brought me the script I was
when they brought me the script I was moved by it because the message is about
moved by it because the message is about
moved by it because the message is about inner beauty and not being a surface
inner beauty and not being a surface
inner beauty and not being a surface driven person who’s a part of my life’s
driven person who’s a part of my life’s
driven person who’s a part of my life’s about a hypothetical situation which do
about a hypothetical situation which do
about a hypothetical situation which do you prefer the girlfriend missing one
you prefer the girlfriend missing one
you prefer the girlfriend missing one breasts or half a brain
breasts or half a brain
breasts or half a brain ooh Tuffy and then I found out that the
ooh Tuffy and then I found out that the
ooh Tuffy and then I found out that the story was written by a man who’d bought
story was written by a man who’d bought
story was written by a man who’d bought my personal power audio program off of
my personal power audio program off of
my personal power audio program off of television off an infomercial years ago
television off an infomercial years ago
television off an infomercial years ago so I said yeah I want to do this yeah I
so I said yeah I want to do this yeah I
so I said yeah I want to do this yeah I wasn’t originally in the script
wasn’t originally in the script
wasn’t originally in the script they were using this like seance guy to
they were using this like seance guy to
they were using this like seance guy to do this you got a pattern of looking
do this you got a pattern of looking
do this you got a pattern of looking women and judging them by the exterior
women and judging them by the exterior
women and judging them by the exterior you know they wrote the script and you
you know they wrote the script and you
you know they wrote the script and you know none of it was really me and I said
know none of it was really me and I said
know none of it was really me and I said you know I’ve memorized this and I’m
you know I’ve memorized this and I’m
you know I’ve memorized this and I’m very respectful you put me in the middle
very respectful you put me in the middle
very respectful you put me in the middle of this movie as a central character and
of this movie as a central character and
of this movie as a central character and but this is not what I’d say so I’ll do
but this is not what I’d say so I’ll do
but this is not what I’d say so I’ll do what you want but can I just show you
what you want but can I just show you
what you want but can I just show you what I’d really do and they go Tony it’s
what I’d really do and they go Tony it’s
what I’d really do and they go Tony it’s a movie I said just you know let me try
a movie I said just you know let me try
a movie I said just you know let me try one specific time we’re really shallow
that he’ll seem right smack I’m on hand
that he’ll seem right smack I’m on hand here that was coming they had no idea
here that was coming they had no idea
here that was coming they had no idea the coming in fact they laughed so hard
the coming in fact they laughed so hard
the coming in fact they laughed so hard when it happened that his reactions are
when it happened that his reactions are
when it happened that his reactions are not fake reactions that are active
not fake reactions that are active
not fake reactions that are active reactions they were real reactions you
reactions they were real reactions you
reactions they were real reactions you know what’s coming and then that they
know what’s coming and then that they
know what’s coming and then that they shot the thing 15 angles cuz everybody’s
shot the thing 15 angles cuz everybody’s
shot the thing 15 angles cuz everybody’s laughing so our cameras were shaking
laughing so our cameras were shaking
laughing so our cameras were shaking everything else but you know that’s why
everything else but you know that’s why
everything else but you know that’s why I approached my approaches jar people
I approached my approaches jar people
I approached my approaches jar people until we help me quickly not talk about
until we help me quickly not talk about
until we help me quickly not talk about things it was a great privilege to be
things it was a great privilege to be
things it was a great privilege to be part of the film and I have no desire to
part of the film and I have no desire to
part of the film and I have no desire to be an actor but I’m grateful that I was
be an actor but I’m grateful that I was
be an actor but I’m grateful that I was part of that great little story fact
part of that great little story fact
part of that great little story fact number five u.s. President Bill Clinton
number five u.s. President Bill Clinton
number five u.s. President Bill Clinton called him before he was impeached I get
called him before he was impeached I get
called him before he was impeached I get a phone call where a child is suicidal
a phone call where a child is suicidal
a phone call where a child is suicidal or President States calls and says
or President States calls and says
or President States calls and says they’re gonna peach me in the morning
they’re gonna peach me in the morning
they’re gonna peach me in the morning what should I do that actually happened
what should I do that actually happened
what should I do that actually happened she called you the night before 1998 and
she called you the night before 1998 and
she called you the night before 1998 and said Tony they may be impeaching me in
said Tony they may be impeaching me in
said Tony they may be impeaching me in the morning what should I do what an
the morning what should I do what an
the morning what should I do what an extraordinary position of responsibility
extraordinary position of responsibility
extraordinary position of responsibility you have not the only person he calls
you have not the only person he calls
you have not the only person he calls you’re one of the people he killed
you’re one of the people he killed
you’re one of the people he killed yes just step back for a moment that
yes just step back for a moment that
yes just step back for a moment that moment how did you feel me despite all
moment how did you feel me despite all
moment how did you feel me despite all these incredible things you’ve
these incredible things you’ve
these incredible things you’ve experienced to have the president of
experienced to have the president of
experienced to have the president of your country call you in his great hour
your country call you in his great hour
your country call you in his great hour of need well you know if you’re thinking
of need well you know if you’re thinking
of need well you know if you’re thinking about yourself at a moment like that you
about yourself at a moment like that you
about yourself at a moment like that you can’t really serve so you know the deal
can’t really serve so you know the deal
can’t really serve so you know the deal about you what I felt was a sense of
about you what I felt was a sense of
about you what I felt was a sense of responsibility and I also felt I need to
responsibility and I also felt I need to
responsibility and I also felt I need to sell him straight or what I really
sell him straight or what I really
sell him straight or what I really believed and you know I knew he’s gonna
believed and you know I knew he’s gonna
believed and you know I knew he’s gonna get different opinions and I don’t
get different opinions and I don’t
get different opinions and I don’t really talk about what I do is someone
really talk about what I do is someone
really talk about what I do is someone less they speak about it but I did speak
less they speak about it but I did speak
less they speak about it but I did speak at that point and said frankly you know
at that point and said frankly you know
at that point and said frankly you know you’re not going to be impeached in the
you’re not going to be impeached in the
you’re not going to be impeached in the morning easy for me to say I’m not here
morning easy for me to say I’m not here
morning easy for me to say I’m not here position it just politically it’s not
position it just politically it’s not
position it just politically it’s not gonna happen but what you have to decide
gonna happen but what you have to decide
gonna happen but what you have to decide is what your legacy is gonna be what’s
is what your legacy is gonna be what’s
is what your legacy is gonna be what’s your outcome because you have to decide
your outcome because you have to decide
your outcome because you have to decide what you’re gonna be able to say that
what you’re gonna be able to say that
what you’re gonna be able to say that people at home can tell their children
people at home can tell their children
people at home can tell their children about you have to look at what you can
about you have to look at what you can
about you have to look at what you can do legally but if I were you I’d be
do legally but if I were you I’d be
do legally but if I were you I’d be doing what you know is right and nothing
doing what you know is right and nothing
doing what you know is right and nothing less than that process because you want
less than that process because you want
less than that process because you want to look yourself in the face fact number
to look yourself in the face fact number
to look yourself in the face fact number six the best advice he ever got was also
six the best advice he ever got was also
six the best advice he ever got was also from Jim Rohn what’s the best piece of
from Jim Rohn what’s the best piece of
from Jim Rohn what’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever done have had so much
advice you’ve ever done have had so much
advice you’ve ever done have had so much but I think one of the most important
but I think one of the most important
but I think one of the most important ones was early in my life one of my
ones was early in my life one of my
ones was early in my life one of my mentors men named Jim Rohn said Tony all
mentors men named Jim Rohn said Tony all
mentors men named Jim Rohn said Tony all you have to focus on your life is find a
you have to focus on your life is find a
you have to focus on your life is find a way to add more value than anybody else
way to add more value than anybody else
way to add more value than anybody else does and you’ll never have to worry
does and you’ll never have to worry
does and you’ll never have to worry about anything be the person that does
about anything be the person that does
about anything be the person that does more for others and life will just be
more for others and life will just be
more for others and life will just be any one thing you want out of it really
any one thing you want out of it really
any one thing you want out of it really is what it is and so and he also said
is what it is and so and he also said
is what it is and so and he also said the way to do that is every day work
the way to do that is every day work
the way to do that is every day work harder than yourself anything else
harder than yourself anything else
harder than yourself anything else because if you become more intelligent
because if you become more intelligent
because if you become more intelligent more valuable more skilled you can add
more valuable more skilled you can add
more valuable more skilled you can add more value to other people
more value to other people
more value to other people fact number seven he wants to feed over
fact number seven he wants to feed over
fact number seven he wants to feed over 1 billion people over Thanksgiving you
1 billion people over Thanksgiving you
1 billion people over Thanksgiving you were growing up you were really poor
were growing up you were really poor
were growing up you were really poor right extremely in the poor we had no
right extremely in the poor we had no
right extremely in the poor we had no money for Thanksgiving for food it’s
money for Thanksgiving for food it’s
money for Thanksgiving for food it’s part of why last year I fed I started
part of why last year I fed I started
part of why last year I fed I started out feeding when I was 17 I started
out feeding when I was 17 I started
out feeding when I was 17 I started feeding family since dad was 11 and I’ve
feeding family since dad was 11 and I’ve
feeding family since dad was 11 and I’ve had two families literally and it was so
had two families literally and it was so
had two families literally and it was so moving I said I’m gonna double I went to
moving I said I’m gonna double I went to
moving I said I’m gonna double I went to four and then eight and then it was a
four and then eight and then it was a
four and then eight and then it was a like a game to see how could I reach
like a game to see how could I reach
like a game to see how could I reach more people and then I started with some
more people and then I started with some
more people and then I started with some my employees and then eventually got two
my employees and then eventually got two
my employees and then eventually got two million people here than two million
million people here than two million
million people here than two million then I started matching my foundation
then I started matching my foundation
then I started matching my foundation with two million so for 12 years I’ve
with two million so for 12 years I’ve
with two million so for 12 years I’ve fed four million people a year and then
fed four million people a year and then
fed four million people a year and then when I was writing this book I’m
when I was writing this book I’m
when I was writing this book I’m interviewing if you can imagine all
interviewing if you can imagine all
interviewing if you can imagine all these people start with nothing in our
these people start with nothing in our
these people start with nothing in our multi-billionaires at the same time
multi-billionaires at the same time
multi-billionaires at the same time Congress cut food stamps called snap now
Congress cut food stamps called snap now
Congress cut food stamps called snap now but it was food stamps originally by
but it was food stamps originally by
but it was food stamps originally by eight billion dollars so it’s equivalent
eight billion dollars so it’s equivalent
eight billion dollars so it’s equivalent to give you an idea of every family
to give you an idea of every family
to give you an idea of every family that’s being supported giving up all
that’s being supported giving up all
that’s being supported giving up all their meals one week out of every month
their meals one week out of every month
their meals one week out of every month for 12 months so I decided I wanted to
for 12 months so I decided I wanted to
for 12 months so I decided I wanted to do something about it so I got a five
do something about it so I got a five
do something about it so I got a five million dollar advance of the book I
million dollar advance of the book I
million dollar advance of the book I gave all the money to feeding America
gave all the money to feeding America
gave all the money to feeding America and then I said if I want to feed 100
and then I said if I want to feed 100
and then I said if I want to feed 100 million people what I got to do so I
million people what I got to do so I
million people what I got to do so I wrote a much bigger check and now I’m so
wrote a much bigger check and now I’m so
wrote a much bigger check and now I’m so it we did a hundred two million people
it we did a hundred two million people
it we did a hundred two million people last year but now I’m gonna do a hundred
last year but now I’m gonna do a hundred
last year but now I’m gonna do a hundred million again this year and I got a plan
million again this year and I got a plan
million again this year and I got a plan to feed a billion people over the next
to feed a billion people over the next
to feed a billion people over the next 10 years so I’m it’s it’s so full circle
10 years so I’m it’s it’s so full circle
10 years so I’m it’s it’s so full circle from where I began it’s crazy and it’s
from where I began it’s crazy and it’s
from where I began it’s crazy and it’s it’s it’s an incredible privilege to be
it’s it’s an incredible privilege to be
it’s it’s an incredible privilege to be I’ll make a difference like that
I’ll make a difference like that
I’ll make a difference like that fact number 8 he uses cryotherapy to
fact number 8 he uses cryotherapy to
fact number 8 he uses cryotherapy to help his body recover from being onstage
help his body recover from being onstage
help his body recover from being onstage all day I’m like an athlete you got a
all day I’m like an athlete you got a
all day I’m like an athlete you got a train your nervous system
train your nervous system
train your nervous system besides physically working out I also
besides physically working out I also
besides physically working out I also trained my mind to do in my emotions to
trained my mind to do in my emotions to
trained my mind to do in my emotions to do what’s the most difficult and I do
do what’s the most difficult and I do
do what’s the most difficult and I do that all kinds of ways I like to play at
that all kinds of ways I like to play at
that all kinds of ways I like to play at my edge you know that’s how you get
my edge you know that’s how you get
my edge you know that’s how you get better so I put my demands myself but
better so I put my demands myself but
better so I put my demands myself but the first thing I do every morning is
the first thing I do every morning is
the first thing I do every morning is part of that ritual is I jump into
part of that ritual is I jump into
part of that ritual is I jump into Jacuzzi which loosen the muscles and
Jacuzzi which loosen the muscles and
Jacuzzi which loosen the muscles and then I jump in freezing cold water I
then I jump in freezing cold water I
then I jump in freezing cold water I have a cold plunge if he would it’s 57
have a cold plunge if he would it’s 57
have a cold plunge if he would it’s 57 degrees and I hop into that thing I also
degrees and I hop into that thing I also
degrees and I hop into that thing I also for recovery sake I use cryotherapy
for recovery sake I use cryotherapy
for recovery sake I use cryotherapy which was developed in Europe it’s
which was developed in Europe it’s
which was developed in Europe it’s amazing a lot of athletes around the
amazing a lot of athletes around the
amazing a lot of athletes around the world are using it now and it lowers
world are using it now and it lowers
world are using it now and it lowers your body temperature using nitrogen so
your body temperature using nitrogen so
your body temperature using nitrogen so if there’s no water on your you would
if there’s no water on your you would
if there’s no water on your you would freeze it up or you would burn by using
freeze it up or you would burn by using
freeze it up or you would burn by using these gases it brings the temperature
these gases it brings the temperature
these gases it brings the temperature down your body down to minus 225
down your body down to minus 225
down your body down to minus 225 Fahrenheit which is my wild for three
Fahrenheit which is my wild for three
Fahrenheit which is my wild for three minutes and what it does is it like
minutes and what it does is it like
minutes and what it does is it like resets your whole nervous system and it
resets your whole nervous system and it
resets your whole nervous system and it takes all the inflammation out of your
takes all the inflammation out of your
takes all the inflammation out of your body so I’m on stage and I’ll do 27
body so I’m on stage and I’ll do 27
body so I’m on stage and I’ll do 27 miles on my most intense day of a
miles on my most intense day of a
miles on my most intense day of a three-day program so I’m doing like
three-day program so I’m doing like
three-day program so I’m doing like multiple days of ultramarathon because
multiple days of ultramarathon because
multiple days of ultramarathon because I’m not standing there talking I mean
I’m not standing there talking I mean
I’m not standing there talking I mean people would not come if B won’t sit for
people would not come if B won’t sit for
people would not come if B won’t sit for a three hour movie someone spent 300
a three hour movie someone spent 300
a three hour movie someone spent 300 million dollars on to make for two hours
million dollars on to make for two hours
million dollars on to make for two hours they’re gonna stay with me for 50 hours
they’re gonna stay with me for 50 hours
they’re gonna stay with me for 50 hours over weekend I gotta deliver right and I
over weekend I gotta deliver right and I
over weekend I gotta deliver right and I got you know the Paul Tudor Jones is the
got you know the Paul Tudor Jones is the
got you know the Paul Tudor Jones is the world in there the Oprah Winfrey’s in
world in there the Oprah Winfrey’s in
world in there the Oprah Winfrey’s in you know Oprah tells me Tony I love you
you know Oprah tells me Tony I love you
you know Oprah tells me Tony I love you but I can’t sit anywhere for more than
but I can’t sit anywhere for more than
but I can’t sit anywhere for more than two hours in the end of 12 hours you
two hours in the end of 12 hours you
two hours in the end of 12 hours you stand your chair going on camera this is
stand your chair going on camera this is
stand your chair going on camera this is one the greatest experience of my life
one the greatest experience of my life
one the greatest experience of my life well to do that you’re standing still
well to do that you’re standing still
well to do that you’re standing still I’m plunging the audience I’m doing
I’m plunging the audience I’m doing
I’m plunging the audience I’m doing things I’m spontaneous so that’s a lot
things I’m spontaneous so that’s a lot
things I’m spontaneous so that’s a lot of miles so I’m literally doing one
of miles so I’m literally doing one
of miles so I’m literally doing one marathon I go into this machine and
marathon I go into this machine and
marathon I go into this machine and three minutes later I come out the next
three minutes later I come out the next
three minutes later I come out the next day it’s like instead of all these aches
day it’s like instead of all these aches
day it’s like instead of all these aches and pains and tears I’m recovered so I’m
and pains and tears I’m recovered so I’m
and pains and tears I’m recovered so I’m always looking for technology that can
always looking for technology that can
always looking for technology that can enhance my ability to perform and
enhance my ability to perform and
enhance my ability to perform and produce great results and also stay
produce great results and also stay
produce great results and also stay healthy in fact number nine he has one
healthy in fact number nine he has one
healthy in fact number nine he has one of the three most popular TED talk
of the three most popular TED talk
of the three most popular TED talk videos of all time for his talk why we
videos of all time for his talk why we
videos of all time for his talk why we do what we do
do what we do
do what we do I have to tell you I’m both challenged
I have to tell you I’m both challenged
I have to tell you I’m both challenged and excited my excitement is I get a
and excited my excitement is I get a
and excited my excitement is I get a chance to give something back my
chance to give something back my
chance to give something back my challenge is the shortest seminar I
challenge is the shortest seminar I
challenge is the shortest seminar I usually do is 50 hours I’m not
usually do is 50 hours I’m not
usually do is 50 hours I’m not exaggerating I do weekend’s and what I
exaggerating I do weekend’s and what I
exaggerating I do weekend’s and what I do right even more than that obviously
do right even more than that obviously
do right even more than that obviously coach people but I’m into immersion
coach people but I’m into immersion
coach people but I’m into immersion because how’d you learn language you
because how’d you learn language you
because how’d you learn language you didn’t learn it by just learning
didn’t learn it by just learning
didn’t learn it by just learning principles you’ve got in it and you did
principles you’ve got in it and you did
principles you’ve got in it and you did it so often that it became real and the
it so often that it became real and the
it so often that it became real and the bottom line of why I’m here besides
bottom line of why I’m here besides
bottom line of why I’m here besides being crazy mofo is that I’m really in a
being crazy mofo is that I’m really in a
being crazy mofo is that I’m really in a position I’m not here to motivate you
position I’m not here to motivate you
position I’m not here to motivate you obviously you don’t need that a lot of
obviously you don’t need that a lot of
obviously you don’t need that a lot of times that’s what people think I do and
times that’s what people think I do and
times that’s what people think I do and it’s the furthest thing from it what
it’s the furthest thing from it what
it’s the furthest thing from it what happens though is people say to me oh I
happens though is people say to me oh I
happens though is people say to me oh I don’t need any motivation and I said
don’t need any motivation and I said
don’t need any motivation and I said well that’s interesting that’s not what
well that’s interesting that’s not what
well that’s interesting that’s not what I do I’m the white guy I don’t know why
I do I’m the white guy I don’t know why
I do I’m the white guy I don’t know why you do what you do what is your motive
you do what you do what is your motive
you do what you do what is your motive for action what is it that Drive you in
for action what is it that Drive you in
for action what is it that Drive you in your life today not 10 years ago are you
your life today not 10 years ago are you
your life today not 10 years ago are you running the same pattern because I
running the same pattern because I
running the same pattern because I believe that the invisible force of
believe that the invisible force of
believe that the invisible force of internal Drive activate is the most
internal Drive activate is the most
internal Drive activate is the most important thing in the world I’m here
important thing in the world I’m here
important thing in the world I’m here because I believe emotion is the force
because I believe emotion is the force
because I believe emotion is the force of life all of us here have great minds
of life all of us here have great minds
of life all of us here have great minds you know most of us here great minds hey
you know most of us here great minds hey
you know most of us here great minds hey I don’t know if I know the category but
I don’t know if I know the category but
I don’t know if I know the category but we all know how to think and with our
we all know how to think and with our
we all know how to think and with our minds we can rationalize anything we can
minds we can rationalize anything we can
minds we can rationalize anything we can make anything happen
make anything happen
make anything happen we can I agree with what was described a
we can I agree with what was described a
we can I agree with what was described a few days ago but this idea that people
few days ago but this idea that people
few days ago but this idea that people work in their self-interest but we all
work in their self-interest but we all
work in their self-interest but we all know that that’s at times you
know that that’s at times you
know that that’s at times you don’t work in your self-interest all the
don’t work in your self-interest all the
don’t work in your self-interest all the time because when emotion comes into it
time because when emotion comes into it
time because when emotion comes into it the wiring changes in the way it
the wiring changes in the way it
the wiring changes in the way it functions and so it’s wonderful for us
functions and so it’s wonderful for us
functions and so it’s wonderful for us to think intellectually about how the
to think intellectually about how the
to think intellectually about how the life of the world is and especially
life of the world is and especially
life of the world is and especially those who are very smart we can play
those who are very smart we can play
those who are very smart we can play this game in our head but I really want
this game in our head but I really want
this game in our head but I really want to know what’s driving you and what I’d
to know what’s driving you and what I’d
to know what’s driving you and what I’d like to maybe invite you to do by the
like to maybe invite you to do by the
like to maybe invite you to do by the end of this talk is explore where you
end of this talk is explore where you
end of this talk is explore where you are today for two reasons one so that
are today for two reasons one so that
are today for two reasons one so that you can contribute more and two so that
you can contribute more and two so that
you can contribute more and two so that hopefully we can not just understand
hopefully we can not just understand
hopefully we can not just understand other people more but maybe appreciate
other people more but maybe appreciate
other people more but maybe appreciate them more and create the kinds of
them more and create the kinds of
them more and create the kinds of connections that can stop some of the
connections that can stop some of the
connections that can stop some of the challenges that we face in our society
challenges that we face in our society
challenges that we face in our society today they’re only going to get
today they’re only going to get
today they’re only going to get magnified by the very technology that’s
magnified by the very technology that’s
magnified by the very technology that’s connecting us because it’s making us
connecting us because it’s making us
connecting us because it’s making us intersect and that intersection doesn’t
intersect and that intersection doesn’t
intersect and that intersection doesn’t always create the view of everybody now
always create the view of everybody now
always create the view of everybody now understands everybody and everybody
understands everybody and everybody
understands everybody and everybody appreciates everybody so I’ve had an
appreciates everybody so I’ve had an
appreciates everybody so I’ve had an obsession basically for 30 years and
obsession basically for 30 years and
obsession basically for 30 years and that obsession has been what makes the
that obsession has been what makes the
that obsession has been what makes the difference in the quality of people’s
difference in the quality of people’s
difference in the quality of people’s lives
lives
lives what makes the difference in their
what makes the difference in their
what makes the difference in their performance because that’s what I got
performance because that’s what I got
performance because that’s what I got hired to do I got to produce the result
hired to do I got to produce the result
hired to do I got to produce the result now that’s what I’ve done for 30 years I
now that’s what I’ve done for 30 years I
now that’s what I’ve done for 30 years I get the phone call when the athlete is
get the phone call when the athlete is
get the phone call when the athlete is burning down on national television and
burning down on national television and
burning down on national television and they were ahead by five strokes and now
they were ahead by five strokes and now
they were ahead by five strokes and now they can’t get back on the course and I
they can’t get back on the course and I
they can’t get back on the course and I got to do something right now I get the
got to do something right now I get the
got to do something right now I get the result in nothing matters I get the
result in nothing matters I get the
result in nothing matters I get the phone call when the child is going to
phone call when the child is going to
phone call when the child is going to commit suicide and I go to something
commit suicide and I go to something
commit suicide and I go to something right now and in 29 years I’m very
right now and in 29 years I’m very
right now and in 29 years I’m very grateful to tell you I’ve never lost one
grateful to tell you I’ve never lost one
grateful to tell you I’ve never lost one in 29 years it doesn’t mean I won’t
in 29 years it doesn’t mean I won’t
in 29 years it doesn’t mean I won’t someday but I’ve done it and the reason
someday but I’ve done it and the reason
someday but I’ve done it and the reason is an understanding of these human needs
is an understanding of these human needs
is an understanding of these human needs I want to talk to you about so when I
I want to talk to you about so when I
I want to talk to you about so when I get those calls about performance that’s
get those calls about performance that’s
get those calls about performance that’s one thing like how do you make a change
one thing like how do you make a change
one thing like how do you make a change but also I’m looking to see what is it
but also I’m looking to see what is it
but also I’m looking to see what is it that’s shaping that person’s ability to
that’s shaping that person’s ability to
that’s shaping that person’s ability to contribute to do something beyond
contribute to do something beyond
contribute to do something beyond themselves so maybe the real question is
themselves so maybe the real question is
themselves so maybe the real question is you know I look at life and say there’s
you know I look at life and say there’s
you know I look at life and say there’s two master lessons one is there’s the
two master lessons one is there’s the
two master lessons one is there’s the science of achievement which almost
science of achievement which almost
science of achievement which almost everything this room is mastered to an
everything this room is mastered to an
everything this room is mastered to an amazing step that’s how do you take the
amazing step that’s how do you take the
amazing step that’s how do you take the invisible and make it visible right how
invisible and make it visible right how
invisible and make it visible right how you take what you’re dreaming out and
you take what you’re dreaming out and
you take what you’re dreaming out and make it happen whether it be your
make it happen whether it be your
make it happen whether it be your business your contribution society money
business your contribution society money
business your contribution society money whatever it is for you your body your
whatever it is for you your body your
whatever it is for you your body your family but the other lesson of life that
family but the other lesson of life that
family but the other lesson of life that is rarely mastered is the art of
is rarely mastered is the art of
is rarely mastered is the art of fulfillment because science is easy
fulfillment because science is easy
fulfillment because science is easy right we know the rules you write the
right we know the rules you write the
right we know the rules you write the code you follow the and you get the
code you follow the and you get the
code you follow the and you get the result once you know the game you just
result once you know the game you just
result once you know the game you just you know you up the ante don’t you but
you know you up the ante don’t you but
you know you up the ante don’t you but when it comes to fulfillment that’s an
when it comes to fulfillment that’s an
when it comes to fulfillment that’s an art and the reason is it’s about
art and the reason is it’s about
art and the reason is it’s about appreciation and it’s about contribution
appreciation and it’s about contribution
appreciation and it’s about contribution you can only feel so much by yourself so
you can only feel so much by yourself so
you can only feel so much by yourself so I’ve had an interesting laboratory try
I’ve had an interesting laboratory try
I’ve had an interesting laboratory try to answer the question of the real
to answer the question of the real
to answer the question of the real question which is what’s the difference
question which is what’s the difference
question which is what’s the difference in somebody’s life if you look at
in somebody’s life if you look at
in somebody’s life if you look at somebody like those people that you’ve
somebody like those people that you’ve
somebody like those people that you’ve given everything to like that all the
given everything to like that all the
given everything to like that all the resources they say they need you give
resources they say they need you give
resources they say they need you give them not one hundred older computer you
them not one hundred older computer you
them not one hundred older computer you give them the best computer you give
give them the best computer you give
give them the best computer you give them love you gave them joy you were
them love you gave them joy you were
them love you gave them joy you were there to comfort them
there to comfort them
there to comfort them and those people very often and you know
and those people very often and you know
and those people very often and you know some of them I’m sure end up the rest of
some of them I’m sure end up the rest of
some of them I’m sure end up the rest of their life with all those love education
their life with all those love education
their life with all those love education money a background spending the life
money a background spending the life
money a background spending the life going in and out of rehab and then you
going in and out of rehab and then you
going in and out of rehab and then you meet people they’ve been through
meet people they’ve been through
meet people they’ve been through ultimate pain psychologically sexually
ultimate pain psychologically sexually
ultimate pain psychologically sexually spiritually emotionally abused and not
spiritually emotionally abused and not
spiritually emotionally abused and not always but often they become some of the
always but often they become some of the
always but often they become some of the people to contribute the most to society
people to contribute the most to society
people to contribute the most to society so the course we gotta ask ourselves
so the course we gotta ask ourselves
so the course we gotta ask ourselves really is what is it what is it the
really is what is it what is it the
really is what is it what is it the shapes us and we live in a therapy
shapes us and we live in a therapy
shapes us and we live in a therapy culture most of us don’t do that but the
culture most of us don’t do that but the
culture most of us don’t do that but the cultures of therapy culture what I mean
cultures of therapy culture what I mean
cultures of therapy culture what I mean by that is the mindset that we are past
by that is the mindset that we are past
by that is the mindset that we are past and everybody in this room you wouldn’t
and everybody in this room you wouldn’t
and everybody in this room you wouldn’t be in this room if you bought that
be in this room if you bought that
be in this room if you bought that theory but the most of society thinks
theory but the most of society thinks
theory but the most of society thinks biography
biography
biography destiny the past equals the future and
destiny the past equals the future and
destiny the past equals the future and of course it does if you live there but
of course it does if you live there but
of course it does if you live there but what people in this room know and what
what people in this room know and what
what people in this room know and what we have to remind ourselves though
we have to remind ourselves though
we have to remind ourselves though because you can know something
because you can know something
because you can know something intellectually you can know what to do
intellectually you can know what to do
intellectually you can know what to do and then not use it not apply it so
and then not use it not apply it so
and then not use it not apply it so really we’re gonna my selves is decision
really we’re gonna my selves is decision
really we’re gonna my selves is decision is the ultimate power that’s what it
is the ultimate power that’s what it
is the ultimate power that’s what it really is now when you ask people you
really is now when you ask people you
really is now when you ask people you know have you failed to achieve
know have you failed to achieve
know have you failed to achieve something how many have ever failed to
something how many have ever failed to
something how many have ever failed to achieve something significant your life
achieve something significant your life
achieve something significant your life say I
say I
say I thanks for the interaction on a high
thanks for the interaction on a high
thanks for the interaction on a high level there but if you if you ask people
level there but if you if you ask people
level there but if you if you ask people why didn’t you achieve something
why didn’t you achieve something
why didn’t you achieve something somebody was working for you you know or
somebody was working for you you know or
somebody was working for you you know or a part nor even yourself and you failed
a part nor even yourself and you failed
a part nor even yourself and you failed to achieve a goal what’s the reason
to achieve a goal what’s the reason
to achieve a goal what’s the reason people say they fail to achieve what do
people say they fail to achieve what do
people say they fail to achieve what do they tell you don’t have didn’t know
they tell you don’t have didn’t know
they tell you don’t have didn’t know enough didn’t have the knowledge didn’t
enough didn’t have the knowledge didn’t
enough didn’t have the knowledge didn’t have the money didn’t have the time
have the money didn’t have the time
have the money didn’t have the time didn’t have the technology you know I
didn’t have the technology you know I
didn’t have the technology you know I didn’t have the right manager didn’t
didn’t have the right manager didn’t
didn’t have the right manager didn’t have the Supreme Court
have the Supreme Court
have the Supreme Court [Applause]
what all those including the Supreme
what all those including the Supreme Court have in common
Court have in common
Court have in common they are a claim to you missing
they are a claim to you missing
they are a claim to you missing resources and they may be accurate you
resources and they may be accurate you
resources and they may be accurate you may not have the money you may not have
may not have the money you may not have
may not have the money you may not have the Supreme Court but that is not the
the Supreme Court but that is not the
the Supreme Court but that is not the defining factor
and you correct me if I’m wrong the
and you correct me if I’m wrong the defining factor is never resources its
defining factor is never resources its
defining factor is never resources its resourcefulness and what I mean
resourcefulness and what I mean
resourcefulness and what I mean specifically rather than just some
specifically rather than just some
specifically rather than just some phrase is if you have emotion human
phrase is if you have emotion human
phrase is if you have emotion human emotion something that I experienced
emotion something that I experienced
emotion something that I experienced from you
from you
from you day before yesterday at a level that is
day before yesterday at a level that is
day before yesterday at a level that is as profound as I’ve ever experienced and
as profound as I’ve ever experienced and
as profound as I’ve ever experienced and if you communicate with that emotion I
if you communicate with that emotion I
if you communicate with that emotion I believe you would have beat his ass and
believe you would have beat his ass and
believe you would have beat his ass and won
but how easy for me to tell him what he
but how easy for me to tell him what he should do
should do
should do [Music]
[Music]
[Music] idiot Robbins but I know when we watch
idiot Robbins but I know when we watch
idiot Robbins but I know when we watch the debates when we watch the debate at
the debates when we watch the debate at
the debates when we watch the debate at that time there were emotions that
that time there were emotions that
that time there were emotions that blocked people’s ability to get this
blocked people’s ability to get this
blocked people’s ability to get this man’s intellect and capacity and the way
man’s intellect and capacity and the way
man’s intellect and capacity and the way they came across to some people in that
they came across to some people in that
they came across to some people in that day because I know people that wanted to
day because I know people that wanted to
day because I know people that wanted to vote in your direction and didn’t and
vote in your direction and didn’t and
vote in your direction and didn’t and I’m loves upset but there was emotion
I’m loves upset but there was emotion
I’m loves upset but there was emotion that was there how many know what I’m
that was there how many know what I’m
that was there how many know what I’m talking about here say I so emotion is
talking about here say I so emotion is
talking about here say I so emotion is in if we get the right emotion we can
in if we get the right emotion we can
in if we get the right emotion we can get ourselves to do anything we can get
get ourselves to do anything we can get
get ourselves to do anything we can get through it if you’re creative enough
through it if you’re creative enough
through it if you’re creative enough playful enough fun enough can you get
playful enough fun enough can you get
playful enough fun enough can you get through to anybody yes or no if you
through to anybody yes or no if you
through to anybody yes or no if you don’t have the money but you’re creative
don’t have the money but you’re creative
don’t have the money but you’re creative to determine if you find the way so this
to determine if you find the way so this
to determine if you find the way so this is the ultimate resource but this is not
is the ultimate resource but this is not
is the ultimate resource but this is not the story that people tell us right the
the story that people tell us right the
the story that people tell us right the story people tell us as a bunch of
story people tell us as a bunch of
story people tell us as a bunch of different stories they tell us we don’t
different stories they tell us we don’t
different stories they tell us we don’t the resources but ultimately if you take
the resources but ultimately if you take
the resources but ultimately if you take a look here flip it up if you would they
a look here flip it up if you would they
a look here flip it up if you would they say what all the reason they haven’t
say what all the reason they haven’t
say what all the reason they haven’t Conway said that next one please
Conway said that next one please
Conway said that next one please he’s broken my pattern that son of a
but I appreciated the energy I’ll tell
but I appreciated the energy I’ll tell you that
you that
you that what determines your resources we’ve
what determines your resources we’ve
what determines your resources we’ve said decision shape destiny which is my
said decision shape destiny which is my
said decision shape destiny which is my focus here if decisions shape destiny
focus here if decisions shape destiny
focus here if decisions shape destiny what determines it is three decisions
what determines it is three decisions
what determines it is three decisions what are you gonna focus on right now
what are you gonna focus on right now
what are you gonna focus on right now you have to decide what you’re gonna
you have to decide what you’re gonna
you have to decide what you’re gonna focus on in this second consciously or
focus on in this second consciously or
focus on in this second consciously or unconsciously the mini you decide to
unconsciously the mini you decide to
unconsciously the mini you decide to focus on something got to give it a
focus on something got to give it a
focus on something got to give it a meaning and whatever that meaning is
meaning and whatever that meaning is
meaning and whatever that meaning is produces emotion is this the end or the
produces emotion is this the end or the
produces emotion is this the end or the beginning it’s God punishing me or
beginning it’s God punishing me or
beginning it’s God punishing me or rewarding me or is this the roll of the
rewarding me or is this the roll of the
rewarding me or is this the roll of the dice in emotion then creates what we’re
dice in emotion then creates what we’re
dice in emotion then creates what we’re going to do or the action so think about
going to do or the action so think about
going to do or the action so think about your own life the decisions that have
your own life the decisions that have
your own life the decisions that have shaped your destiny and that sounds
shaped your destiny and that sounds
shaped your destiny and that sounds really heavy but in the last five or ten
really heavy but in the last five or ten
really heavy but in the last five or ten years fifteen years have there been some
years fifteen years have there been some
years fifteen years have there been some decisions you’ve made that you made a
decisions you’ve made that you made a
decisions you’ve made that you made a different decision your life would be
different decision your life would be
different decision your life would be completely different
completely different
completely different how many can think of honestly better or
how many can think of honestly better or
how many can think of honestly better or worse say I so the bottom line is maybe
worse say I so the bottom line is maybe
worse say I so the bottom line is maybe it was where to go to work and you met
it was where to go to work and you met
it was where to go to work and you met the love of your life there maybe was a
the love of your life there maybe was a
the love of your life there maybe was a career decision I know that Google
career decision I know that Google
career decision I know that Google geniuses I saw here I mean I understand
geniuses I saw here I mean I understand
geniuses I saw here I mean I understand that their decision was to sell their
that their decision was to sell their
that their decision was to sell their technology at first what do they made
technology at first what do they made
technology at first what do they made that decision versus to build their own
that decision versus to build their own
that decision versus to build their own culture how would the world be different
culture how would the world be different
culture how would the world be different how will their lives be different their
how will their lives be different their
how will their lives be different their impact the history of our world is these
impact the history of our world is these
impact the history of our world is these decisions when a woman stands up and
decisions when a woman stands up and
decisions when a woman stands up and says no I won’t go to the back of the
says no I won’t go to the back of the
says no I won’t go to the back of the bus she didn’t just affect her life that
bus she didn’t just affect her life that
bus she didn’t just affect her life that decision shaped our culture or someone
decision shaped our culture or someone
decision shaped our culture or someone standing in front of a tank or being in
standing in front of a tank or being in
standing in front of a tank or being in a position like our Lance Armstrong and
a position like our Lance Armstrong and
a position like our Lance Armstrong and someone says to you you got testicular
someone says to you you got testicular
someone says to you you got testicular cancer that’s pretty tough for any male
cancer that’s pretty tough for any male
cancer that’s pretty tough for any male especially if you ride a bike
you got in your brain you got in your
you got in your brain you got in your lungs but what was his decision of what
lungs but what was his decision of what
lungs but what was his decision of what to focus on different the most people
to focus on different the most people
to focus on different the most people what did it mean it wasn’t the end it
what did it mean it wasn’t the end it
what did it mean it wasn’t the end it was the beginning what I’m gonna do
was the beginning what I’m gonna do
was the beginning what I’m gonna do he goes off and wins seven championships
he goes off and wins seven championships
he goes off and wins seven championships he never once once before the cancer
he never once once before the cancer
he never once once before the cancer because he got emotional fitness
because he got emotional fitness
because he got emotional fitness psychological strength that’s the
psychological strength that’s the
psychological strength that’s the difference in human beings that I’ve
difference in human beings that I’ve
difference in human beings that I’ve seen of the three million I’ve been
seen of the three million I’ve been
seen of the three million I’ve been around cause that’s what my lab I’ve had
around cause that’s what my lab I’ve had
around cause that’s what my lab I’ve had three million people from eighty
three million people from eighty
three million people from eighty different countries that I’ve had a
different countries that I’ve had a
different countries that I’ve had a chance to interact with over the last
chance to interact with over the last
chance to interact with over the last twenty nine years and after a while
twenty nine years and after a while
twenty nine years and after a while patterns become obvious you see that
patterns become obvious you see that
patterns become obvious you see that South America and Africa maybe connect
South America and Africa maybe connect
South America and Africa maybe connect in a certain way right other people say
in a certain way right other people say
in a certain way right other people say all that sounds ridiculous it’s simple
all that sounds ridiculous it’s simple
all that sounds ridiculous it’s simple so what shaped Lance what shapes you to
so what shaped Lance what shapes you to
so what shaped Lance what shapes you to invisible forces very quickly one state
invisible forces very quickly one state
invisible forces very quickly one state we all have had time say if you’re the
we all have had time say if you’re the
we all have had time say if you’re the time you did something and after you did
time you did something and after you did
time you did something and after you did you thought to yourself I can’t believe
you thought to yourself I can’t believe
you thought to yourself I can’t believe I said that I can’t believe I did that
I said that I can’t believe I did that
I said that I can’t believe I did that that was so stupid who’s been there say
that was so stupid who’s been there say
that was so stupid who’s been there say I have you done something after you do
I have you done something after you do
I have you done something after you do you that was me right it wasn’t your
you that was me right it wasn’t your
you that was me right it wasn’t your ability was your state you’re a model of
ability was your state you’re a model of
ability was your state you’re a model of the world is what shapes you long term
the world is what shapes you long term
the world is what shapes you long term your model the world is the filter
your model the world is the filter
your model the world is the filter that’s what’s shaping us that’s what
that’s what’s shaping us that’s what
that’s what’s shaping us that’s what makes people make decisions we want to
makes people make decisions we want to
makes people make decisions we want to influence somebody we don’t know what
influence somebody we don’t know what
influence somebody we don’t know what already influences them and it’s made
already influences them and it’s made
already influences them and it’s made about three parts I believe first what’s
about three parts I believe first what’s
about three parts I believe first what’s your target what are you after
your target what are you after
your target what are you after which I believe it’s not your desires
which I believe it’s not your desires
which I believe it’s not your desires you need your desires of goals how many
you need your desires of goals how many
you need your desires of goals how many ever got a goal desire and thought is
ever got a goal desire and thought is
ever got a goal desire and thought is this all there is how many been there
this all there is how many been there
this all there is how many been there say I so its needs we have I believe
say I so its needs we have I believe
say I so its needs we have I believe there are six human needs second once
there are six human needs second once
there are six human needs second once you know what the target that’s driving
you know what the target that’s driving
you know what the target that’s driving you is and then you uncover it for the
you is and then you uncover it for the
you is and then you uncover it for the truth you don’t form it you uncover it
truth you don’t form it you uncover it
truth you don’t form it you uncover it then you find out what’s your map what’s
then you find out what’s your map what’s
then you find out what’s your map what’s the belief systems that are telling you
the belief systems that are telling you
the belief systems that are telling you how to get those needs some people think
how to get those needs some people think
how to get those needs some people think a way to get those needs is destroy the
a way to get those needs is destroy the
a way to get those needs is destroy the world some people is to build something
world some people is to build something
world some people is to build something create something love someone and then
create something love someone and then
create something love someone and then there’s the fuel you pick so very
there’s the fuel you pick so very
there’s the fuel you pick so very quickly
quickly
quickly six needs let me tell you what there are
six needs let me tell you what there are
six needs let me tell you what there are first one certainty now these are not
first one certainty now these are not
first one certainty now these are not goals or desires either universal
goals or desires either universal
goals or desires either universal everyone needs certainty that they can
everyone needs certainty that they can
everyone needs certainty that they can avoid pain at least be comfortable now
avoid pain at least be comfortable now
avoid pain at least be comfortable now how do you get it control everybody
how do you get it control everybody
how do you get it control everybody develop a skill give up smoke a
develop a skill give up smoke a
develop a skill give up smoke a cigarette if you got totally certain
cigarette if you got totally certain
cigarette if you got totally certain ironically even though we all need that
ironically even though we all need that
ironically even though we all need that like you’re not certain about your
like you’re not certain about your
like you’re not certain about your health or your children or money you
health or your children or money you
health or your children or money you don’t think about much where you’re not
don’t think about much where you’re not
don’t think about much where you’re not sure the ceilings gonna hold up here
sure the ceilings gonna hold up here
sure the ceilings gonna hold up here listen any speaker but while we go for
listen any speaker but while we go for
listen any speaker but while we go for certainly differently if we get total
certainly differently if we get total
certainly differently if we get total certainty we get what do you feel if
certainty we get what do you feel if
certainty we get what do you feel if you’re certain you know what’s gonna
you’re certain you know what’s gonna
you’re certain you know what’s gonna and when that’s gonna happen how it’s
and when that’s gonna happen how it’s
and when that’s gonna happen how it’s gonna happen what would you feel bored
gonna happen what would you feel bored
gonna happen what would you feel bored out of your mind so God in her infinite
out of your mind so God in her infinite
out of your mind so God in her infinite wisdom gave us a second human need which
wisdom gave us a second human need which
wisdom gave us a second human need which is uncertainty we need variety we need
is uncertainty we need variety we need
is uncertainty we need variety we need surprise how many of you here love
surprise how many of you here love
surprise how many of you here love surprises say aye
surprises say aye
surprises say aye you like the surprises you want
you like the surprises you want
you like the surprises you want the ones you don’t want you call
the ones you don’t want you call
the ones you don’t want you call problems but you need them so variety is
problems but you need them so variety is
problems but you need them so variety is important have you ever rented a video
important have you ever rented a video
important have you ever rented a video or a film that you’ve already seen was
or a film that you’ve already seen was
or a film that you’ve already seen was done this get a life why are you
done this get a life why are you
done this get a life why are you doing it you’re certain it’s good cuz
doing it you’re certain it’s good cuz
doing it you’re certain it’s good cuz you read it before I saw it before but
you read it before I saw it before but
you read it before I saw it before but you’re hoping it’s been long enough
you’re hoping it’s been long enough
you’re hoping it’s been long enough you’ve forgotten up this variety third
you’ve forgotten up this variety third
you’ve forgotten up this variety third human need critical significance we all
human need critical significance we all
human need critical significance we all need to feel important special unique
need to feel important special unique
need to feel important special unique you can get it by making more money you
you can get it by making more money you
you can get it by making more money you can do it by being more spiritual you
can do it by being more spiritual you
can do it by being more spiritual you can do it by getting yourself in a
can do it by getting yourself in a
can do it by getting yourself in a situation will you put more tattoos and
situation will you put more tattoos and
situation will you put more tattoos and earrings in place as humans don’t want
earrings in place as humans don’t want
earrings in place as humans don’t want to know whatever it takes the fastest
to know whatever it takes the fastest
to know whatever it takes the fastest way to do this if you have no background
way to do this if you have no background
way to do this if you have no background no culture and no belief and resources
no culture and no belief and resources
no culture and no belief and resources or resourcefulness is violence if I put
or resourcefulness is violence if I put
or resourcefulness is violence if I put a gun to your head and I live in the
a gun to your head and I live in the
a gun to your head and I live in the hood instantly I’m significant zero to
hood instantly I’m significant zero to
hood instantly I’m significant zero to ten how I ten how certain in mind you’re
ten how I ten how certain in mind you’re
ten how I ten how certain in mind you’re gonna respond to me ten how much
gonna respond to me ten how much
gonna respond to me ten how much uncertainty who knows what’s gonna
uncertainty who knows what’s gonna
uncertainty who knows what’s gonna happen next kind of exciting like climb
happen next kind of exciting like climb
happen next kind of exciting like climb it up into a cave and doing that stuff
it up into a cave and doing that stuff
it up into a cave and doing that stuff all the way down there total variety and
all the way down there total variety and
all the way down there total variety and uncertainty and it’s significant isn’t
uncertainty and it’s significant isn’t
uncertainty and it’s significant isn’t it so you want to risk your life for it
it so you want to risk your life for it
it so you want to risk your life for it so that’s why violence has always been
so that’s why violence has always been
so that’s why violence has always been around will be around us we have a
around will be around us we have a
around will be around us we have a consciousness change as a species now
consciousness change as a species now
consciousness change as a species now you can get significance a million ways
you can get significance a million ways
you can get significance a million ways but to be significant you got to be
but to be significant you got to be
but to be significant you got to be unique and different here’s what we
unique and different here’s what we
unique and different here’s what we really need connection alot fourth need
really need connection alot fourth need
really need connection alot fourth need we all want it most people settle for
we all want it most people settle for
we all want it most people settle for connection just loves to scary don’t
connection just loves to scary don’t
connection just loves to scary don’t want to get hurt who here has ever been
want to get hurt who here has ever been
want to get hurt who here has ever been hurt in an intimate relationship say I
hurt in an intimate relationship say I
hurt in an intimate relationship say I if you don’t raise your hand you’ll have
if you don’t raise your hand you’ll have
if you don’t raise your hand you’ll have that other to come on and you’re
that other to come on and you’re
that other to come on and you’re gonna get hurt again aren’t you glad you
gonna get hurt again aren’t you glad you
gonna get hurt again aren’t you glad you came to this positive visit but here’s
came to this positive visit but here’s
came to this positive visit but here’s what’s true we need it we can do it
what’s true we need it we can do it
what’s true we need it we can do it through intimacy through friendship
through intimacy through friendship
through intimacy through friendship through prayer through walking in nature
through prayer through walking in nature
through prayer through walking in nature if nothing else works for you get a dog
if nothing else works for you get a dog
if nothing else works for you get a dog don’t get a cat get a dog as if you
don’t get a cat get a dog as if you
don’t get a cat get a dog as if you leave for two minutes it’s like you’ve
leave for two minutes it’s like you’ve
leave for two minutes it’s like you’ve been gone for six months when you shut
been gone for six months when you shut
been gone for six months when you shut back up again five minutes later right
back up again five minutes later right
back up again five minutes later right now these first four needs every human
now these first four needs every human
now these first four needs every human finds a way to meet even if you lie to
finds a way to meet even if you lie to
finds a way to meet even if you lie to yourself units of split personalities
yourself units of split personalities
yourself units of split personalities but the last two needs the first four
but the last two needs the first four
but the last two needs the first four needs are called the needs of the
needs are called the needs of the
needs are called the needs of the personality is what I call it the last
personality is what I call it the last
personality is what I call it the last two are the needs of the Spirit
two are the needs of the Spirit
two are the needs of the Spirit and this is where fulfillment comes you
and this is where fulfillment comes you
and this is where fulfillment comes you won’t get fulfillment for the first four
won’t get fulfillment for the first four
won’t get fulfillment for the first four you’ll figure away smoke drink do
you’ll figure away smoke drink do
you’ll figure away smoke drink do whatever meet the first for it but the
whatever meet the first for it but the
whatever meet the first for it but the last to number five you must glow we all
last to number five you must glow we all
last to number five you must glow we all know the answer here if you don’t grow
know the answer here if you don’t grow
know the answer here if you don’t grow you what the relationships not growing
you what the relationships not growing
you what the relationships not growing if a business is not growing if you’re
if a business is not growing if you’re
if a business is not growing if you’re not growing doesn’t how much money you
not growing doesn’t how much money you
not growing doesn’t how much money you have how many friends you have how many
have how many friends you have how many
have how many friends you have how many people love you you feel like hell and
people love you you feel like hell and
people love you you feel like hell and the reason we grow I believe is so we
the reason we grow I believe is so we
the reason we grow I believe is so we have something to give a value because
have something to give a value because
have something to give a value because the six need is to contribute beyond
the six need is to contribute beyond
the six need is to contribute beyond ourselves because we all know corny as
ourselves because we all know corny as
ourselves because we all know corny as it sounds
it sounds
it sounds the secret of living is giving we all
the secret of living is giving we all
the secret of living is giving we all know life’s not about me it’s about we
know life’s not about me it’s about we
know life’s not about me it’s about we this culture knows that this room knows
this culture knows that this room knows
this culture knows that this room knows that it’s exciting when you see Nicholas
that it’s exciting when you see Nicholas
that it’s exciting when you see Nicholas if you’re talking about his hundred
if you’re talking about his hundred
if you’re talking about his hundred dollar computer the most passionate
dollar computer the most passionate
dollar computer the most passionate exciting thing is here’s a genius but
exciting thing is here’s a genius but
exciting thing is here’s a genius but he’s got a calling now you can feel the
he’s got a calling now you can feel the
he’s got a calling now you can feel the difference in him and is beautiful and
difference in him and is beautiful and
difference in him and is beautiful and that calling can touch other people in
that calling can touch other people in
that calling can touch other people in my own life my life was touched because
my own life my life was touched because
my own life my life was touched because when I was 11 years old
when I was 11 years old
when I was 11 years old Thanksgiving no money no food and we’re
Thanksgiving no money no food and we’re
Thanksgiving no money no food and we’re not gonna starve but my father was
not gonna starve but my father was
not gonna starve but my father was totally messed up my mom was letting him
totally messed up my mom was letting him
totally messed up my mom was letting him know how bad he messed up and somebody
know how bad he messed up and somebody
know how bad he messed up and somebody came to the door and delivered food my
came to the door and delivered food my
came to the door and delivered food my father made three decisions I know what
father made three decisions I know what
father made three decisions I know what they were briefly his focus was this is
they were briefly his focus was this is
they were briefly his focus was this is charity what does it mean I’m worthless
charity what does it mean I’m worthless
charity what does it mean I’m worthless what I got to do leave my family which
what I got to do leave my family which
what I got to do leave my family which he did the time when the most painful
he did the time when the most painful
he did the time when the most painful experiences of life my three decisions
experiences of life my three decisions
experiences of life my three decisions gave me a different path I said focus on
gave me a different path I said focus on
gave me a different path I said focus on there’s food with a concept yeah second
there’s food with a concept yeah second
there’s food with a concept yeah second but this is what changed my life this is
but this is what changed my life this is
but this is what changed my life this is what shaped me as a human being
what shaped me as a human being
what shaped me as a human being somebody’s gift I don’t know who it is I
somebody’s gift I don’t know who it is I
somebody’s gift I don’t know who it is I thought my father always said no one
thought my father always said no one
thought my father always said no one gives a and all sudden somebody I
gives a and all sudden somebody I
gives a and all sudden somebody I don’t know they’re not asking for this
don’t know they’re not asking for this
don’t know they’re not asking for this giving our family food looking out for
giving our family food looking out for
giving our family food looking out for us it made me believe this what does it
us it made me believe this what does it
us it made me believe this what does it mean that strangers care and what that
mean that strangers care and what that
mean that strangers care and what that made me decide if strangers care about
made me decide if strangers care about
made me decide if strangers care about me and my family I care about them what
me and my family I care about them what
me and my family I care about them what I’m gonna do I’m gonna I’m gonna do
I’m gonna do I’m gonna I’m gonna do
I’m gonna do I’m gonna I’m gonna do something make a difference so when I
something make a difference so when I
something make a difference so when I was seventeen I went out one day and
was seventeen I went out one day and
was seventeen I went out one day and Thanksgiving it was my target for years
Thanksgiving it was my target for years
Thanksgiving it was my target for years have enough money feed two families most
have enough money feed two families most
have enough money feed two families most fun thing I ever did in my life most
fun thing I ever did in my life most
fun thing I ever did in my life most moving then next year I did four and I
moving then next year I did four and I
moving then next year I did four and I didn’t tell anybody was doing next year
didn’t tell anybody was doing next year
didn’t tell anybody was doing next year eight I wasn’t doing four brownie points
eight I wasn’t doing four brownie points
eight I wasn’t doing four brownie points but after eight I thought I could use
but after eight I thought I could use
but after eight I thought I could use some help so sure enough I went out and
some help so sure enough I went out and
some help so sure enough I went out and what did i do I got my friends involved
what did i do I got my friends involved
what did i do I got my friends involved in I grew companies in the eleven
in I grew companies in the eleven
in I grew companies in the eleven companies and I built the foundation now
companies and I built the foundation now
companies and I built the foundation now 18 years later I’m proud to tell you
18 years later I’m proud to tell you
18 years later I’m proud to tell you last year we fed 2 million people in 35
last year we fed 2 million people in 35
last year we fed 2 million people in 35 countries through our foundation all
countries through our foundation all
countries through our foundation all during the holidays Thanksgiving
during the holidays Thanksgiving
during the holidays Thanksgiving Christmas and all
Christmas and all
Christmas and all thank you so I don’t tell you how to
thank you so I don’t tell you how to
thank you so I don’t tell you how to brag I tell you guys I’m proud of human
brag I tell you guys I’m proud of human
brag I tell you guys I’m proud of human beings because they get excited to
beings because they get excited to
beings because they get excited to contribute once they’ve had the chance
contribute once they’ve had the chance
contribute once they’ve had the chance to experience it not talked about
to experience it not talked about
to experience it not talked about so finally I’m about out of time it’s a
so finally I’m about out of time it’s a
so finally I’m about out of time it’s a the target that shapes you here’s what’s
the target that shapes you here’s what’s
the target that shapes you here’s what’s different about people we have the same
different about people we have the same
different about people we have the same needs but are you a certainty freak is
needs but are you a certainty freak is
needs but are you a certainty freak is that what you value most or uncertainty
that what you value most or uncertainty
that what you value most or uncertainty this man here couldn’t be a certainty
this man here couldn’t be a certainty
this man here couldn’t be a certainty freak if he climbed those through those
freak if he climbed those through those
freak if he climbed those through those caves are you driven by significance or
caves are you driven by significance or
caves are you driven by significance or love we all need all six but whatever
love we all need all six but whatever
love we all need all six but whatever your lead system is tilts you in a
your lead system is tilts you in a
your lead system is tilts you in a different direction and as you move in a
different direction and as you move in a
different direction and as you move in a direction you have a destination or
direction you have a destination or
direction you have a destination or destiny the second piece is the map
destiny the second piece is the map
destiny the second piece is the map think of that as the operating system
think of that as the operating system
think of that as the operating system tells you how to get there and some
tells you how to get there and some
tells you how to get there and some people’s map is I’m gonna save lives
people’s map is I’m gonna save lives
people’s map is I’m gonna save lives even if I die for other people and
even if I die for other people and
even if I die for other people and they’re firemen somebody else is I’m
they’re firemen somebody else is I’m
they’re firemen somebody else is I’m gonna kill people to do it they’re
gonna kill people to do it they’re
gonna kill people to do it they’re trying to meet the same needs of
trying to meet the same needs of
trying to meet the same needs of significance right they want to honor
significance right they want to honor
significance right they want to honor God or honor their family but they have
God or honor their family but they have
God or honor their family but they have a different map and there are seven
a different map and there are seven
a different map and there are seven different beliefs I can’t go through
different beliefs I can’t go through
different beliefs I can’t go through them because I’m done the last piece is
them because I’m done the last piece is
them because I’m done the last piece is emotion I said one of the parts of the
emotion I said one of the parts of the
emotion I said one of the parts of the map was like time some people’s idea of
map was like time some people’s idea of
map was like time some people’s idea of a long time is 100 years somebody else
a long time is 100 years somebody else
a long time is 100 years somebody else says is 3 seconds which is what I have
says is 3 seconds which is what I have
says is 3 seconds which is what I have and the last one I’ve already mentioned
and the last one I’ve already mentioned
and the last one I’ve already mentioned that felt you if you got a target and
that felt you if you got a target and
that felt you if you got a target and you got a map and let’s say I can’t use
you got a map and let’s say I can’t use
you got a map and let’s say I can’t use Google because I love maps and they
Google because I love maps and they
Google because I love maps and they haven’t made it good format yet so if
haven’t made it good format yet so if
haven’t made it good format yet so if you use MapQuest how many made this
you use MapQuest how many made this
you use MapQuest how many made this fatal mistake of using that press that
fatal mistake of using that press that
fatal mistake of using that press that sometimes you use this thing and you
sometimes you use this thing and you
sometimes you use this thing and you don’t get there well imagine if your
don’t get there well imagine if your
don’t get there well imagine if your beliefs guarantee you can never get to
beliefs guarantee you can never get to
beliefs guarantee you can never get to where you want to go the last thing is
where you want to go the last thing is
where you want to go the last thing is emotion now here’s what I’ll tell you
emotion now here’s what I’ll tell you
emotion now here’s what I’ll tell you about emotion there are 6,000 emotions
about emotion there are 6,000 emotions
about emotion there are 6,000 emotions that we all have words for in the
that we all have words for in the
that we all have words for in the English language was just a linguistic
English language was just a linguistic
English language was just a linguistic representation right it changes my
representation right it changes my
representation right it changes my language but if your dominant emotions
language but if your dominant emotions
language but if your dominant emotions if I have more time I have 20,000 people
if I have more time I have 20,000 people
if I have more time I have 20,000 people or a thousand and I am write down all
or a thousand and I am write down all
or a thousand and I am write down all the emotions that they experience in an
the emotions that they experience in an
the emotions that they experience in an average week and I give as long as they
average week and I give as long as they
average week and I give as long as they need and on one side there are
need and on one side there are
need and on one side there are empowering emotions the others
empowering emotions the others
empowering emotions the others disempowering guess how many emotions
disempowering guess how many emotions
disempowering guess how many emotions people experience less than 12 and half
people experience less than 12 and half
people experience less than 12 and half of those make them feel like so
of those make them feel like so
of those make them feel like so they got five or six good freaking
they got five or six good freaking
they got five or six good freaking feelings right it’s like they feel happy
feelings right it’s like they feel happy
feelings right it’s like they feel happy happy excited oh
happy excited oh
happy excited oh frustrated frustrated overwhelmed
frustrated frustrated overwhelmed
frustrated frustrated overwhelmed depressed how many of you know somebody
depressed how many of you know somebody
depressed how many of you know somebody who no matter what happens finds a way
who no matter what happens finds a way
who no matter what happens finds a way to get pissed off how he knows the Mayo
to get pissed off how he knows the Mayo
to get pissed off how he knows the Mayo test
test
test or Nemo what happens no matter what
or Nemo what happens no matter what
or Nemo what happens no matter what happens they find a way to be happier
happens they find a way to be happier
happens they find a way to be happier excited how many Elsa male I guess come
excited how many Elsa male I guess come
excited how many Elsa male I guess come on when 9/11 happened I’ll finish with
on when 9/11 happened I’ll finish with
on when 9/11 happened I’ll finish with this I was in Hawaii I was with two
this I was in Hawaii I was with two
this I was in Hawaii I was with two thousand people from 45 countries we
thousand people from 45 countries we
thousand people from 45 countries we were translating four languages
were translating four languages
were translating four languages simultaneously for a program that I was
simultaneously for a program that I was
simultaneously for a program that I was conducting for a week the night before
conducting for a week the night before
conducting for a week the night before was called emotional mastery I got up
was called emotional mastery I got up
was called emotional mastery I got up had no plan for this and I said we had
had no plan for this and I said we had
had no plan for this and I said we had Alyssa fireworks I do crazy fun stuff
Alyssa fireworks I do crazy fun stuff
Alyssa fireworks I do crazy fun stuff and then at the end of thought I had
and then at the end of thought I had
and then at the end of thought I had this plan I was gonna say but I never do
this plan I was gonna say but I never do
this plan I was gonna say but I never do what I’m gonna say and all of a sudden I
what I’m gonna say and all of a sudden I
what I’m gonna say and all of a sudden I said when do people really start to live
said when do people really start to live
said when do people really start to live when they face death and then with this
when they face death and then with this
when they face death and then with this whole thing about if you were gonna get
whole thing about if you were gonna get
whole thing about if you were gonna get off this island
off this island
off this island if nine days from now you were gonna die
if nine days from now you were gonna die
if nine days from now you were gonna die who would you call what would you say
who would you call what would you say
who would you call what would you say what did you do one woman well that
what did you do one woman well that
what did you do one woman well that night is when I want to happen one woman
night is when I want to happen one woman
night is when I want to happen one woman had come to the seminar and what she
had come to the seminar and what she
had come to the seminar and what she came there she or her previous boyfriend
came there she or her previous boyfriend
came there she or her previous boyfriend had been kidnapped and murdered her
had been kidnapped and murdered her
had been kidnapped and murdered her friend or a new boyfriend wanted to
friend or a new boyfriend wanted to
friend or a new boyfriend wanted to marry her and she said no he said if you
marry her and she said no he said if you
marry her and she said no he said if you leave and go to Hawaii thing it’s over
leave and go to Hawaii thing it’s over
leave and go to Hawaii thing it’s over with us she said it’s over when I
with us she said it’s over when I
with us she said it’s over when I finished that night she called him and
finished that night she called him and
finished that night she called him and left a message true story at the top of
left a message true story at the top of
left a message true story at the top of the World Trade Center where he worked
the World Trade Center where he worked
the World Trade Center where he worked saying honey I love you I just want you
saying honey I love you I just want you
saying honey I love you I just want you to know I I want to marry it was stupid
to know I I want to marry it was stupid
to know I I want to marry it was stupid of me she was asleep because it was 3:00
of me she was asleep because it was 3:00
of me she was asleep because it was 3:00 a.m. for us when he called her back from
a.m. for us when he called her back from
a.m. for us when he called her back from the top and said honey I can’t tell you
the top and said honey I can’t tell you
the top and said honey I can’t tell you what this means he said I don’t have to
what this means he said I don’t have to
what this means he said I don’t have to tell you this but you give me the
tell you this but you give me the
tell you this but you give me the greatest gift because I’m gonna die
greatest gift because I’m gonna die
greatest gift because I’m gonna die and she played the recording for us in
and she played the recording for us in
and she played the recording for us in the room she was on Larry King later and
the room she was on Larry King later and
the room she was on Larry King later and he said you’re probably wondering how on
he said you’re probably wondering how on
he said you’re probably wondering how on earth this could happen you twice and he
earth this could happen you twice and he
earth this could happen you twice and he said all I can say to you is this must
said all I can say to you is this must
said all I can say to you is this must be God’s message to you honey from now
be God’s message to you honey from now
be God’s message to you honey from now on every day give your all love you all
on every day give your all love you all
on every day give your all love you all don’t let anything ever stop you she
don’t let anything ever stop you she
don’t let anything ever stop you she finishes and a man stands up and he says
finishes and a man stands up and he says
finishes and a man stands up and he says I’m from Pakistan I’m a Muslim I’d love
I’m from Pakistan I’m a Muslim I’d love
I’m from Pakistan I’m a Muslim I’d love to hold your hand and say I’m sorry but
to hold your hand and say I’m sorry but
to hold your hand and say I’m sorry but frankly this is retribution I can’t tell
frankly this is retribution I can’t tell
frankly this is retribution I can’t tell you the rest cos I’m out of time
you the rest cos I’m out of time
you the rest cos I’m out of time [Applause]
[Applause]
[Applause] oh shoot
oh shoot
oh shoot [Applause]
[Applause]
[Applause] ten seconds
ten seconds
ten seconds [Applause]
[Applause]
[Applause] 10 seconds I want to be respectful 10
10 seconds I want to be respectful 10
10 seconds I want to be respectful 10 seconds all I can tell you as I brought
seconds all I can tell you as I brought
seconds all I can tell you as I brought this man on stage with a man from New
this man on stage with a man from New
this man on stage with a man from New York who worked in the World Trade
York who worked in the World Trade
York who worked in the World Trade Center because I had about 200 New
Center because I had about 200 New
Center because I had about 200 New Yorkers there more than 50 lost their
Yorkers there more than 50 lost their
Yorkers there more than 50 lost their entire companies their friends marking
entire companies their friends marking
entire companies their friends marking off their Palm Pilots one financial
off their Palm Pilots one financial
off their Palm Pilots one financial trader this woman made of steel bawling
trader this woman made of steel bawling
trader this woman made of steel bawling 30 friends crossing off it all died and
30 friends crossing off it all died and
30 friends crossing off it all died and what I did the people said what are we
what I did the people said what are we
what I did the people said what are we gonna focus on what does this mean was
gonna focus on what does this mean was
gonna focus on what does this mean was it what are we gonna do and I took the
it what are we gonna do and I took the
it what are we gonna do and I took the group and got people to focus on if you
group and got people to focus on if you
group and got people to focus on if you didn’t lose somebody today your focus
didn’t lose somebody today your focus
didn’t lose somebody today your focus could be how to serve somebody else
could be how to serve somebody else
could be how to serve somebody else there are people don’t want my god I’m
there are people don’t want my god I’m
there are people don’t want my god I’m just so angry and screaming yelling that
just so angry and screaming yelling that
just so angry and screaming yelling that actually wasn’t for New York she’s not
actually wasn’t for New York she’s not
actually wasn’t for New York she’s not an American she doesn’t know anybody
an American she doesn’t know anybody
an American she doesn’t know anybody here I said you always get angry she
here I said you always get angry she
here I said you always get angry she said yes guilty people got guilty sad
said yes guilty people got guilty sad
said yes guilty people got guilty sad people got sad and I took these two men
people got sad and I took these two men
people got sad and I took these two men and did what I call an indirect
and did what I call an indirect
and did what I call an indirect negotiation Jewish man was family in the
negotiation Jewish man was family in the
negotiation Jewish man was family in the occupied territories some New York who
occupied territories some New York who
occupied territories some New York who would have died if he was at work that
would have died if he was at work that
would have died if he was at work that day and his man who want to be a
day and his man who want to be a
day and his man who want to be a terrorist and made it very clear in the
terrorist and made it very clear in the
terrorist and made it very clear in the integration that happened is on a film
integration that happened is on a film
integration that happened is on a film which I’ll be happy to send you so you
which I’ll be happy to send you so you
which I’ll be happy to send you so you can really see what actually happened
can really see what actually happened
can really see what actually happened said of my verbalization of it but the
said of my verbalization of it but the
said of my verbalization of it but the two of them not only came together and
two of them not only came together and
two of them not only came together and change their beliefs and models of the
change their beliefs and models of the
change their beliefs and models of the world but they worked together to bring
world but they worked together to bring
world but they worked together to bring for almost four years now to various
for almost four years now to various
for almost four years now to various mosques and synagogues the idea of how
mosques and synagogues the idea of how
mosques and synagogues the idea of how to create peace and you wrote a book
to create peace and you wrote a book
to create peace and you wrote a book which is called my jihad my way of peace
which is called my jihad my way of peace
which is called my jihad my way of peace so transformation can happen so my
so transformation can happen so my
so transformation can happen so my invitation to use this explore your web
invitation to use this explore your web
invitation to use this explore your web the web in here the needs the beliefs
the web in here the needs the beliefs
the web in here the needs the beliefs the emotions that are controlling you
the emotions that are controlling you
the emotions that are controlling you for two reasons so there’s more of you
for two reasons so there’s more of you
for two reasons so there’s more of you to give me achieve – we don’t want to do
to give me achieve – we don’t want to do
to give me achieve – we don’t want to do it but I mean give cuz that’s what’s
it but I mean give cuz that’s what’s
it but I mean give cuz that’s what’s gonna fill you out and secondly so you
gonna fill you out and secondly so you
gonna fill you out and secondly so you can appreciate not just understand
can appreciate not just understand
can appreciate not just understand that’s intellectual that’s mine but
that’s intellectual that’s mine but
that’s intellectual that’s mine but appreciate what’s driving other people
appreciate what’s driving other people
appreciate what’s driving other people it’s the only way our world is gonna
it’s the only way our world is gonna
it’s the only way our world is gonna change god bless you thank you hope
change god bless you thank you hope
change god bless you thank you hope there’s a service
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chatter to Jennifer Clark Jennifer thank
chatter to Jennifer Clark Jennifer thank you so much for picking a copy off of my
you so much for picking a copy off of my
you so much for picking a copy off of my book your one word it really really
book your one word it really really
book your one word it really really really really means a lot to me so thank
really really means a lot to me so thank
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you I hope you continue to believe in
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yourself and whatever your one word is
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