7 Ways to Become Attractive On the INSIDE – #7Ways

hello belief nation today I’m going to

hello belief nation today I’m going to talk about seven ways to become

talk about seven ways to become

talk about seven ways to become attractive on the inside so find that a

attractive on the inside so find that a

attractive on the inside so find that a lot of entrepreneurs are self-conscious

lot of entrepreneurs are self-conscious

lot of entrepreneurs are self-conscious they may not have the self confidence

they may not have the self confidence

they may not have the self confidence that they’re looking forward they rely

that they’re looking forward they rely

that they’re looking forward they rely too much on other people’s validation

too much on other people’s validation

too much on other people’s validation and acceptance and I get that it can be

and acceptance and I get that it can be

and acceptance and I get that it can be hard when you’re starting the business

hard when you’re starting the business

hard when you’re starting the business you don’t have customers you don’t have

you don’t have customers you don’t have

you don’t have customers you don’t have momentum you’re not making money you may

momentum you’re not making money you may

momentum you’re not making money you may be losing money you’re afraid of failure

be losing money you’re afraid of failure

be losing money you’re afraid of failure you’re afraid of how people might judge

you’re afraid of how people might judge

you’re afraid of how people might judge you and if you’re out there you’re not

you and if you’re out there you’re not

you and if you’re out there you’re not being successful and so today’s your it

being successful and so today’s your it

being successful and so today’s your it is important because I want to hear the

is important because I want to hear the

is important because I want to hear the things that will help you love yourself

things that will help you love yourself

things that will help you love yourself more be more attractive to yourself

more be more attractive to yourself

more be more attractive to yourself which will help project a better image

which will help project a better image

which will help project a better image out but also allow you to have more

out but also allow you to have more

out but also allow you to have more success in your business so number one

success in your business so number one

success in your business so number one is being grateful there’s a lot of

is being grateful there’s a lot of

is being grateful there’s a lot of studies that show the connection between

studies that show the connection between

studies that show the connection between gratitude and happiness and it’s an

gratitude and happiness and it’s an

gratitude and happiness and it’s an amazing practice to get into a daily

amazing practice to get into a daily

amazing practice to get into a daily habit of being grateful for the things

habit of being grateful for the things

habit of being grateful for the things that you have around you one of the

that you have around you one of the

that you have around you one of the things that I do with my team is every

things that I do with my team is every

things that I do with my team is every day we have a private Facebook group and

day we have a private Facebook group and

day we have a private Facebook group and we share three things that were grateful

we share three things that were grateful

we share three things that were grateful for as part of our morning routine and

for as part of our morning routine and

for as part of our morning routine and some of them could be major life

some of them could be major life

some of them could be major life important things if you’re thinking

important things if you’re thinking

important things if you’re thinking about your friends and family and your

about your friends and family and your

about your friends and family and your health and all that and some of them may

health and all that and some of them may

health and all that and some of them may be just silly things that you may not

be just silly things that you may not

be just silly things that you may not think about on a regular basis you know

think about on a regular basis you know

think about on a regular basis you know I’m grateful for YouTube I’m grateful

I’m grateful for YouTube I’m grateful

I’m grateful for YouTube I’m grateful for the Internet you know the internet

for the Internet you know the internet

for the Internet you know the internet was not here I would not have the

was not here I would not have the

was not here I would not have the business that I have right now so it’s

business that I have right now so it’s

business that I have right now so it’s something to be grateful for and what

something to be grateful for and what

something to be grateful for and what you’ll find is the more you do that the

you’ll find is the more you do that the

you’ll find is the more you do that the more you are grateful the more you

more you are grateful the more you

more you are grateful the more you appreciate the things that are around

appreciate the things that are around

appreciate the things that are around you the more likely you’re going to be

you the more likely you’re going to be

you the more likely you’re going to be happy the less likely you’re going to

happy the less likely you’re going to

happy the less likely you’re going to need the acceptance and approval and the

need the acceptance and approval and the

need the acceptance and approval and the of others in them and the less you’re

of others in them and the less you’re

of others in them and the less you’re gonna worry about how people judge you

gonna worry about how people judge you

gonna worry about how people judge you the more confidence you’re gonna have

the more confidence you’re gonna have

the more confidence you’re gonna have the less you’re gonna worry about things

the less you’re gonna worry about things

the less you’re gonna worry about things that you might lose if something bad

that you might lose if something bad

that you might lose if something bad happens in your business the more you’re

happens in your business the more you’re

happens in your business the more you’re gonna be able to better handle the ups

gonna be able to better handle the ups

gonna be able to better handle the ups and downs that come with the

and downs that come with the

and downs that come with the entrepreneurial life and so it’s a

entrepreneurial life and so it’s a

entrepreneurial life and so it’s a practice that I recommend to everybody

practice that I recommend to everybody

practice that I recommend to everybody at least try it out for a week start the

at least try it out for a week start the

at least try it out for a week start the morning to think about three things that

morning to think about three things that

morning to think about three things that you’re grateful for and see if you don’t

you’re grateful for and see if you don’t

you’re grateful for and see if you don’t feel happier throughout the day and also

feel happier throughout the day and also

feel happier throughout the day and also by the end of that week

number two is create habits to remind

number two is create habits to remind yourself for a lot of people this is

yourself for a lot of people this is

yourself for a lot of people this is what really makes the difference between

what really makes the difference between

what really makes the difference between lasting change or just having a blip and

lasting change or just having a blip and

lasting change or just having a blip and then falling back into the life that you

then falling back into the life that you

then falling back into the life that you had before because a lot of people get

had before because a lot of people get

had before because a lot of people get inspired by a speech or they watch a

inspired by a speech or they watch a

inspired by a speech or they watch a video or they read a book or the hearing

video or they read a book or the hearing

video or they read a book or the hearing interview and then say yeah I’m gonna

interview and then say yeah I’m gonna

interview and then say yeah I’m gonna make that change I’m gonna be more

make that change I’m gonna be more

make that change I’m gonna be more grateful you know I love that point I’m

grateful you know I love that point I’m

grateful you know I love that point I’m gonna go and just be more grateful every

gonna go and just be more grateful every

gonna go and just be more grateful every day and then today you’re grateful but

day and then today you’re grateful but

day and then today you’re grateful but then the next day you forget and the

then the next day you forget and the

then the next day you forget and the next day you forget and then you’ve

next day you forget and then you’ve

next day you forget and then you’ve forgotten about that entire plane that

forgotten about that entire plane that

forgotten about that entire plane that you had and look how many times has it

you had and look how many times has it

you had and look how many times has it happened to you and so what’s important

happened to you and so what’s important

happened to you and so what’s important is that if you want to make a change in

is that if you want to make a change in

is that if you want to make a change in your life that you form a habit around

your life that you form a habit around

your life that you form a habit around it so that you can be consistent around

it so that you can be consistent around

it so that you can be consistent around anything around making sales calls

anything around making sales calls

anything around making sales calls around working out around eating

around working out around eating

around working out around eating healthier I’m drinking more water around

healthier I’m drinking more water around

healthier I’m drinking more water around working on your website whatever it is

working on your website whatever it is

working on your website whatever it is if you schedule it into your calendar

if you schedule it into your calendar

if you schedule it into your calendar you’re much more likely to stick with it

you’re much more likely to stick with it

you’re much more likely to stick with it so for example in my group we made it a

so for example in my group we made it a

so for example in my group we made it a private group but there’s a bunch of us

private group but there’s a bunch of us

private group but there’s a bunch of us in it where every day in the morning we

in it where every day in the morning we

in it where every day in the morning we have to say the things that we’re

have to say the things that we’re

have to say the things that we’re grateful for and because I know other

grateful for and because I know other

grateful for and because I know other people are gonna be reading it and

people are gonna be reading it and

people are gonna be reading it and they’re posting theirs too

they’re posting theirs too

they’re posting theirs too I’m much more likely to come and follow

I’m much more likely to come and follow

I’m much more likely to come and follow through and it’s in my calendar so it

through and it’s in my calendar so it

through and it’s in my calendar so it shows up every day that I have to do

shows up every day that I have to do

shows up every day that I have to do this thing and so creating that routine

this thing and so creating that routine

this thing and so creating that routine for yourself is really important

for yourself is really important

for yourself is really important schedule it in books um accountability

schedule it in books um accountability

schedule it in books um accountability whatever it is that you want to work on

whatever it is that you want to work on

whatever it is that you want to work on so another example when my wife and I

so another example when my wife and I

so another example when my wife and I are lying in bed about to go to sleep we

are lying in bed about to go to sleep we

are lying in bed about to go to sleep we ask each other one thing that we’re

ask each other one thing that we’re

ask each other one thing that we’re happy about that happened today it’s a

happy about that happened today it’s a

happy about that happened today it’s a new experiment that we’re running with

new experiment that we’re running with

new experiment that we’re running with and I think you’re seen to see the

and I think you’re seen to see the

and I think you’re seen to see the things that we’re both happy for and it

things that we’re both happy for and it

things that we’re both happy for and it helps also relieve the pressure and the

helps also relieve the pressure and the

helps also relieve the pressure and the stress because sometimes you just have a

stress because sometimes you just have a

stress because sometimes you just have a really stressful day a lot of bad stuff

really stressful day a lot of bad stuff

really stressful day a lot of bad stuff happened and being forced to think about

happened and being forced to think about

happened and being forced to think about something that went well that day can be

something that went well that day can be

something that went well that day can be hard but also changes our perspective

hard but also changes our perspective

hard but also changes our perspective that you know what it wasn’t that bad a

that you know what it wasn’t that bad a

that you know what it wasn’t that bad a day after all in my life you know is

day after all in my life you know is

day after all in my life you know is actually pretty good

actually pretty good

actually pretty good and so again being able to share that

and so again being able to share that

and so again being able to share that and building it into a regular routine

and building it into a regular routine

and building it into a regular routine is super helpful so whatever it is that

is super helpful so whatever it is that

is super helpful so whatever it is that you want to stick to of this gratitude

you want to stick to of this gratitude

you want to stick to of this gratitude thing or what you love about the day put

thing or what you love about the day put

thing or what you love about the day put it in your schedule and commit to

it in your schedule and commit to

it in your schedule and commit to somebody else you create a routine in a

somebody else you create a routine in a

somebody else you create a routine in a new habit that helps it stick

number three is help others instead of

number three is help others instead of just trying to make a show for others I

just trying to make a show for others I

just trying to make a show for others I find a lot of reasons why we’re not

find a lot of reasons why we’re not

find a lot of reasons why we’re not happy and we’re not self-confident and

happy and we’re not self-confident and

happy and we’re not self-confident and we’re not loving ourselves enough as

we’re not loving ourselves enough as

we’re not loving ourselves enough as we’re always trying to just win the

we’re always trying to just win the

we’re always trying to just win the approval of others and you buy the stuff

approval of others and you buy the stuff

approval of others and you buy the stuff that you don’t really need to impress

that you don’t really need to impress

that you don’t really need to impress people that you don’t really care about

people that you don’t really care about

people that you don’t really care about right and so the way around that is to

right and so the way around that is to

right and so the way around that is to approach in a much more genuine way

approach in a much more genuine way

approach in a much more genuine way where you are trying to interact with

where you are trying to interact with

where you are trying to interact with somebody to help them not to show off to

somebody to help them not to show off to

somebody to help them not to show off to them so it doesn’t matter what new gear

them so it doesn’t matter what new gear

them so it doesn’t matter what new gear you bought or how many records you said

you bought or how many records you said

you bought or how many records you said or what you did yesterday as a way of

or what you did yesterday as a way of

or what you did yesterday as a way of showing off to them but connecting with

showing off to them but connecting with

showing off to them but connecting with them in a way that you’re understanding

them in a way that you’re understanding

them in a way that you’re understanding what their fears are what their goals

what their fears are what their goals

what their fears are what their goals are what they’re trying to accomplish

are what they’re trying to accomplish

are what they’re trying to accomplish what their ideal life looks like and how

what their ideal life looks like and how

what their ideal life looks like and how you may be able to help support them on

you may be able to help support them on

you may be able to help support them on that path whether it’s just listening to

that path whether it’s just listening to

that path whether it’s just listening to them and being an ear to help them or

them and being an ear to help them or

them and being an ear to help them or maybe you can actually contribute

maybe you can actually contribute

maybe you can actually contribute something along their path when I sit

something along their path when I sit

something along their path when I sit down with all the people at Toronto

down with all the people at Toronto

down with all the people at Toronto dance salsa every quarter I have a

dance salsa every quarter I have a

dance salsa every quarter I have a meeting with the people on my team

meeting with the people on my team

meeting with the people on my team individually and I always ask them

individually and I always ask them

individually and I always ask them what’s the ideal version of your life

what’s the ideal version of your life

what’s the ideal version of your life what does that look like for you what

what does that look like for you what

what does that look like for you what are you doing and then I try to figure

are you doing and then I try to figure

are you doing and then I try to figure out how can I do my best to help them

out how can I do my best to help them

out how can I do my best to help them along that path even if it’s just

along that path even if it’s just

along that path even if it’s just listening to them and giving them

listening to them and giving them

listening to them and giving them encouragement and they might be afraid

encouragement and they might be afraid

encouragement and they might be afraid of taking some of the steps they need to

of taking some of the steps they need to

of taking some of the steps they need to take and giving a little bit of a push

take and giving a little bit of a push

take and giving a little bit of a push that can help but maybe through the

that can help but maybe through the

that can help but maybe through the business as the business owner maybe I

business as the business owner maybe I

business as the business owner maybe I can help them give them more

can help them give them more

can help them give them more opportunities or train them or give them

opportunities or train them or give them

opportunities or train them or give them some other chance to do that thing that

some other chance to do that thing that

some other chance to do that thing that they really want to do or maybe it’s my

they really want to do or maybe it’s my

they really want to do or maybe it’s my connections in the entrepreneurial world

connections in the entrepreneurial world

connections in the entrepreneurial world and the stuff that I’ve learned in the

and the stuff that I’ve learned in the

and the stuff that I’ve learned in the videos that I’ve watched if there’s

videos that I’ve watched if there’s

videos that I’ve watched if there’s something that they are really concerned

something that they are really concerned

something that they are really concerned about learning about growing through I

about learning about growing through I

about learning about growing through I can push them on to resource that might

can push them on to resource that might

can push them on to resource that might help but it’s not about me trying to

help but it’s not about me trying to

help but it’s not about me trying to show off to them it shouldn’t be about

show off to them it shouldn’t be about

show off to them it shouldn’t be about you trying to show off the people and

you trying to show off the people and

you trying to show off the people and look at me and look how great and

look at me and look how great and

look at me and look how great and successful I am meanwhile you go home

successful I am meanwhile you go home

successful I am meanwhile you go home when you’re you know really afraid about

when you’re you know really afraid about

when you’re you know really afraid about how you can show up the next time

how you can show up the next time

how you can show up the next time instead of that focus your energy and

instead of that focus your energy and

instead of that focus your energy and trying to help others because that is

trying to help others because that is

trying to help others because that is what really nourishes and fulfills the

what really nourishes and fulfills the

what really nourishes and fulfills the soul

the number four way to being attractive

the number four way to being attractive on the inside is step into the fear of

on the inside is step into the fear of

on the inside is step into the fear of being judged anytime that you feel

being judged anytime that you feel

being judged anytime that you feel yourself cowering away from the

yourself cowering away from the

yourself cowering away from the situation being afraid not wanting to do

situation being afraid not wanting to do

situation being afraid not wanting to do something because you’re afraid of how

something because you’re afraid of how

something because you’re afraid of how other people will look at you will think

other people will look at you will think

other people will look at you will think about you then you have to go and do

about you then you have to go and do

about you then you have to go and do that thing and something that I have

that thing and something that I have

that thing and something that I have trained myself to do that whenever I’m

trained myself to do that whenever I’m

trained myself to do that whenever I’m afraid of how somebody will judge me for

afraid of how somebody will judge me for

afraid of how somebody will judge me for something

something

something then I have to go and do that thing to

then I have to go and do that thing to

then I have to go and do that thing to release the fear because usually they

release the fear because usually they

release the fear because usually they don’t care and if they do why am I so

don’t care and if they do why am I so

don’t care and if they do why am I so concerned with other people’s opinions

concerned with other people’s opinions

concerned with other people’s opinions of me so an example I talked about on

of me so an example I talked about on

of me so an example I talked about on this channel about the different colored

this channel about the different colored

this channel about the different colored socks that I wore on purpose because I

socks that I wore on purpose because I

socks that I wore on purpose because I was afraid of how people might judge me

was afraid of how people might judge me

was afraid of how people might judge me for in different color socks an older

for in different color socks an older

for in different color socks an older story told was where I was walking to

story told was where I was walking to

story told was where I was walking to Toronto in sauce and I was dancing you

Toronto in sauce and I was dancing you

Toronto in sauce and I was dancing you know grooving had my music on and

know grooving had my music on and

know grooving had my music on and dancing on the street and then I got to

dancing on the street and then I got to

dancing on the street and then I got to the intersection and then as I got

the intersection and then as I got

the intersection and then as I got closer I saw people and so I just now

closer I saw people and so I just now

closer I saw people and so I just now kind of conformed to what everybody else

kind of conformed to what everybody else

kind of conformed to what everybody else is doing and I thought well this is

is doing and I thought well this is

is doing and I thought well this is silly why am I doing this right

silly why am I doing this right

silly why am I doing this right and because I was afraid because I was

and because I was afraid because I was

and because I was afraid because I was uncomfortable and so I forced myself to

uncomfortable and so I forced myself to

uncomfortable and so I forced myself to on the street on the busy street start

on the street on the busy street start

on the street on the busy street start dancing again right and so whenever you

dancing again right and so whenever you

dancing again right and so whenever you feel like you are doing something

feel like you are doing something

feel like you are doing something because you’re afraid of being judged

because you’re afraid of being judged

because you’re afraid of being judged and stepped into that fear as another

and stepped into that fear as another

and stepped into that fear as another example early this week Alex from a

example early this week Alex from a

example early this week Alex from a Toronto that it’s also bought a selfie

Toronto that it’s also bought a selfie

Toronto that it’s also bought a selfie stick so he could do snapchats more and

stick so he could do snapchats more and

stick so he could do snapchats more and he like there’s a button on the selfie

he like there’s a button on the selfie

he like there’s a button on the selfie stick that can record his snapchat he’s

stick that can record his snapchat he’s

stick that can record his snapchat he’s all in on snapchat at the moment what he

all in on snapchat at the moment what he

all in on snapchat at the moment what he doesn’t want to do it in public because

doesn’t want to do it in public because

doesn’t want to do it in public because I go I’m I don’t do in public is that

I go I’m I don’t do in public is that

I go I’m I don’t do in public is that because people might feel like I’m

because people might feel like I’m

because people might feel like I’m really narcissistic and a big egomaniac

really narcissistic and a big egomaniac

really narcissistic and a big egomaniac but he’s willing to do it in private

but he’s willing to do it in private

but he’s willing to do it in private right and because of that fear of being

right and because of that fear of being

right and because of that fear of being judged now I’m forcing Alex to go out

judged now I’m forcing Alex to go out

judged now I’m forcing Alex to go out and do it because you need to release it

and do it because you need to release it

and do it because you need to release it you need to get that out of your system

you need to get that out of your system

you need to get that out of your system and the more you do that just like a

and the more you do that just like a

and the more you do that just like a muscle the more comfortable you’ll get

muscle the more comfortable you’ll get

muscle the more comfortable you’ll get doing it over and over and over and over

doing it over and over and over and over

doing it over and over and over and over again so if you want to love yourself

again so if you want to love yourself

again so if you want to love yourself you want to feel attractive you want to

you want to feel attractive you want to

you want to feel attractive you want to be outwardly attractive as well then it

be outwardly attractive as well then it

be outwardly attractive as well then it starts by stepping into the fear of

starts by stepping into the fear of

starts by stepping into the fear of being judged so that you can release it

number five is spend more time with

number five is spend more time with yourself now this might be an introvert

yourself now this might be an introvert

yourself now this might be an introvert thing you know this is my list and I’m

thing you know this is my list and I’m

thing you know this is my list and I’m more introverted I need to spend time

more introverted I need to spend time

more introverted I need to spend time with myself if I don’t I get antsy I get

with myself if I don’t I get antsy I get

with myself if I don’t I get antsy I get nervous I get stressed I can’t just be

nervous I get stressed I can’t just be

nervous I get stressed I can’t just be around people all day long I need my own

around people all day long I need my own

around people all day long I need my own time I need my time with my family and

time I need my time with my family and

time I need my time with my family and eat my time just me and my wife and

eat my time just me and my wife and

eat my time just me and my wife and ain’t my time just by myself with nobody

ain’t my time just by myself with nobody

ain’t my time just by myself with nobody around me if I don’t get that I start to

around me if I don’t get that I start to

around me if I don’t get that I start to stress out a little bit but I think also

stress out a little bit but I think also

stress out a little bit but I think also in general we spend way too much time to

in general we spend way too much time to

in general we spend way too much time to the last point of just trying to please

the last point of just trying to please

the last point of just trying to please other people and try to be in the

other people and try to be in the

other people and try to be in the in-group and fit in and always be

in-group and fit in and always be

in-group and fit in and always be invited to the parties and you don’t

invited to the parties and you don’t

invited to the parties and you don’t spend enough time with yourself thinking

spend enough time with yourself thinking

spend enough time with yourself thinking about what do I really want you know

about what do I really want you know

about what do I really want you know what do you really want what makes you

what do you really want what makes you

what do you really want what makes you happy where do you want to spend your

happy where do you want to spend your

happy where do you want to spend your time instead of just catching up on

time instead of just catching up on

time instead of just catching up on Facebook and being a part of the group

Facebook and being a part of the group

Facebook and being a part of the group all the time where you don’t have your

all the time where you don’t have your

all the time where you don’t have your own identity it’s only that group’s

own identity it’s only that group’s

own identity it’s only that group’s identity or someone else’s identity

identity or someone else’s identity

identity or someone else’s identity spending time they really understand

spending time they really understand

spending time they really understand what you want out of life and who you

what you want out of life and who you

what you want out of life and who you are as a person where you want to really

are as a person where you want to really

are as a person where you want to really be spending your time is important and

be spending your time is important and

be spending your time is important and having regular check-ins whether that’s

having regular check-ins whether that’s

having regular check-ins whether that’s once a month once a week once a quarter

once a month once a week once a quarter

once a month once a week once a quarter depending on your personality I think

depending on your personality I think

depending on your personality I think it’s important and again I think

it’s important and again I think

it’s important and again I think introverts might need that a little bit

introverts might need that a little bit

introverts might need that a little bit more but if you do it and you’re really

more but if you do it and you’re really

more but if you do it and you’re really truly more deeply understand yourself

truly more deeply understand yourself

truly more deeply understand yourself and spend more time with yourself you’ll

and spend more time with yourself you’ll

and spend more time with yourself you’ll be happier and you’ll have more success

number six is having an environment of

number six is having an environment of attractiveness and so what I found is

attractiveness and so what I found is

attractiveness and so what I found is not just scheduling it in not just you

not just scheduling it in not just you

not just scheduling it in not just you know writing things down but the entire

know writing things down but the entire

know writing things down but the entire environment around you has to support

environment around you has to support

environment around you has to support you on the goals that you want to do so

you on the goals that you want to do so

you on the goals that you want to do so what makes you feel attractive on the

what makes you feel attractive on the

what makes you feel attractive on the inside like what speech did you watch

inside like what speech did you watch

inside like what speech did you watch and then can you turn that into a poster

and then can you turn that into a poster

and then can you turn that into a poster that you put on your wall if you look at

that you put on your wall if you look at

that you put on your wall if you look at the videos that I have when I film at my

the videos that I have when I film at my

the videos that I have when I film at my home I’ve got five pictures behind me

home I’ve got five pictures behind me

home I’ve got five pictures behind me each of those represents something else

each of those represents something else

each of those represents something else some of them are from a specific speech

some of them are from a specific speech

some of them are from a specific speech some of these just a reminder that when

some of these just a reminder that when

some of these just a reminder that when I look at it and I walk into my office I

I look at it and I walk into my office I

I look at it and I walk into my office I feel different and that’s the point when

feel different and that’s the point when

feel different and that’s the point when I made my closet at home I wanted the

I made my closet at home I wanted the

I made my closet at home I wanted the closet to inspire me and I told that to

closet to inspire me and I told that to

closet to inspire me and I told that to my wife

my wife

my wife I needed the closet to inspire me and so

I needed the closet to inspire me and so

I needed the closet to inspire me and so people opened my closet and they say you

people opened my closet and they say you

people opened my closet and they say you Batman or Superman like why is

Batman or Superman like why is

Batman or Superman like why is everything the same but I did that for

everything the same but I did that for

everything the same but I did that for me because I wanted to be inspired when

me because I wanted to be inspired when

me because I wanted to be inspired when I opened up that closet I don’t care

I opened up that closet I don’t care

I opened up that closet I don’t care what other people think about how I

what other people think about how I

what other people think about how I organize my closet and so thinking about

organize my closet and so thinking about

organize my closet and so thinking about your own environment thinking about your

your own environment thinking about your

your own environment thinking about your workspace think about where you’re

workspace think about where you’re

workspace think about where you’re working right now as you’re watching

working right now as you’re watching

working right now as you’re watching this video what’s around you is the

this video what’s around you is the

this video what’s around you is the environment around you allowing you to

environment around you allowing you to

environment around you allowing you to be that best version of yourself does it

be that best version of yourself does it

be that best version of yourself does it allow you to feel more attractive to

allow you to feel more attractive to

allow you to feel more attractive to yourself do you feel like you’re adding

yourself do you feel like you’re adding

yourself do you feel like you’re adding a lot of value you’re gaining momentum

a lot of value you’re gaining momentum

a lot of value you’re gaining momentum or is it neutral or is it negative

or is it neutral or is it negative

or is it neutral or is it negative because a lot of times we surround

because a lot of times we surround

because a lot of times we surround yourself with people who just beat us

yourself with people who just beat us

yourself with people who just beat us down bring us down we fill our heads

down bring us down we fill our heads

down bring us down we fill our heads with media and news that’s negative that

with media and news that’s negative that

with media and news that’s negative that doesn’t support us that’s irrelevant to

doesn’t support us that’s irrelevant to

doesn’t support us that’s irrelevant to our goals right so instead of just

our goals right so instead of just

our goals right so instead of just living your life by accident and having

living your life by accident and having

living your life by accident and having an accidental environment and being just

an accidental environment and being just

an accidental environment and being just reactionary being more purposeful with

reactionary being more purposeful with

reactionary being more purposeful with the people we spend time with to build

the people we spend time with to build

the people we spend time with to build us up with the books that we read with

us up with the books that we read with

us up with the books that we read with the videos that we watch with our

the videos that we watch with our

the videos that we watch with our physical surroundings with the music we

physical surroundings with the music we

physical surroundings with the music we listen to with the food that we eat all

listen to with the food that we eat all

listen to with the food that we eat all of that is really important to helping

of that is really important to helping

of that is really important to helping you be that best version of you

and the number seven way to become

and the number seven way to become attractive on the inside is to love what

attractive on the inside is to love what

attractive on the inside is to love what you do if you want to feel confident if

you do if you want to feel confident if

you do if you want to feel confident if you want to feel attractive you have to

you want to feel attractive you have to

you want to feel attractive you have to love what you’re doing it’s really hard

love what you’re doing it’s really hard

love what you’re doing it’s really hard to feel confident attractive when you’re

to feel confident attractive when you’re

to feel confident attractive when you’re doing work that you hate because when

doing work that you hate because when

doing work that you hate because when you’re doing work that you hate you’re

you’re doing work that you hate you’re

you’re doing work that you hate you’re probably not having a lot of success at

probably not having a lot of success at

probably not having a lot of success at it right you’re not moving up the ladder

it right you’re not moving up the ladder

it right you’re not moving up the ladder you’re not getting momentum you’re not

you’re not getting momentum you’re not

you’re not getting momentum you’re not making the money you want you’re not

making the money you want you’re not

making the money you want you’re not getting the impact that you want you’re

getting the impact that you want you’re

getting the impact that you want you’re not getting the recognition credibility

not getting the recognition credibility

not getting the recognition credibility you’re not getting the growth you’re not

you’re not getting the growth you’re not

you’re not getting the growth you’re not getting any of that stuff because you’re

getting any of that stuff because you’re

getting any of that stuff because you’re doing work that might be beneath you or

doing work that might be beneath you or

doing work that might be beneath you or that you don’t feel challenged by or

that you don’t feel challenged by or

that you don’t feel challenged by or that you don’t want to learn more about

that you don’t want to learn more about

that you don’t want to learn more about where if you’re doing something that you

where if you’re doing something that you

where if you’re doing something that you love

love

love then you’re gonna engulf yourself in it

then you’re gonna engulf yourself in it

then you’re gonna engulf yourself in it then you’re gonna love it right you’re

then you’re gonna love it right you’re

then you’re gonna love it right you’re gonna spend the time on it you’re gonna

gonna spend the time on it you’re gonna

gonna spend the time on it you’re gonna hustle in it you’re gonna feel confident

hustle in it you’re gonna feel confident

hustle in it you’re gonna feel confident about you’re gonna can’t wait to go back

about you’re gonna can’t wait to go back

about you’re gonna can’t wait to go back and do it and that is attractive right

and do it and that is attractive right

and do it and that is attractive right to yourself and also to others if people

to yourself and also to others if people

to yourself and also to others if people see you you’ve probably seen this in

see you you’ve probably seen this in

see you you’ve probably seen this in some of the your friends and the people

some of the your friends and the people

some of the your friends and the people around you when you see them all of a

around you when you see them all of a

around you when you see them all of a sudden come alive you’re like well what

sudden come alive you’re like well what

sudden come alive you’re like well what happened like well I started this

happened like well I started this

happened like well I started this business where I took this course or

business where I took this course or

business where I took this course or meeting this new person that really

meeting this new person that really

meeting this new person that really makes me feel alive and so the more you

makes me feel alive and so the more you

makes me feel alive and so the more you can do that during your day right

can do that during your day right

can do that during your day right spending time on the work that you love

spending time on the work that you love

spending time on the work that you love and if you’re in a job that you hate

and if you’re in a job that you hate

and if you’re in a job that you hate maybe it’s time to move on and does mean

maybe it’s time to move on and does mean

maybe it’s time to move on and does mean you have to start a business but go find

you have to start a business but go find

you have to start a business but go find a job that makes you come alive or if

a job that makes you come alive or if

a job that makes you come alive or if you are an entrepreneur make sure you’re

you are an entrepreneur make sure you’re

you are an entrepreneur make sure you’re doing the work inside your business that

doing the work inside your business that

doing the work inside your business that has your genius level talent applied to

has your genius level talent applied to

has your genius level talent applied to it that you could be the best in the

it that you could be the best in the

it that you could be the best in the world at that makes you come alive that

world at that makes you come alive that

world at that makes you come alive that fulfills you because that’s gonna make

fulfills you because that’s gonna make

fulfills you because that’s gonna make you love yourself more that’s gonna make

you love yourself more that’s gonna make

you love yourself more that’s gonna make you filled with more confidence and

you filled with more confidence and

you filled with more confidence and ultimately that’s gonna lead to you

ultimately that’s gonna lead to you

ultimately that’s gonna lead to you having the success that you’re after so

having the success that you’re after so

having the success that you’re after so those are my tips on the seven ways that

those are my tips on the seven ways that

those are my tips on the seven ways that you can become attractive on the inside

you can become attractive on the inside

you can become attractive on the inside I’d love to know what you guys think

I’d love to know what you guys think

I’d love to know what you guys think what did you like what did you not like

what did you like what did you not like

what did you like what did you not like which one resonated the most with you is

which one resonated the most with you is

which one resonated the most with you is there an eighth ninth or tenth one that

there an eighth ninth or tenth one that

there an eighth ninth or tenth one that should be added to the list leave your

should be added to the list leave your

should be added to the list leave your comments below I’m gonna join in the

comments below I’m gonna join in the

comments below I’m gonna join in the discussion and finally I want to give a

discussion and finally I want to give a

discussion and finally I want to give a quick shout out to Matthew from katryca

quick shout out to Matthew from katryca

quick shout out to Matthew from katryca Matthew thank you so much for all the

Matthew thank you so much for all the

Matthew thank you so much for all the support on the channel and for picking

support on the channel and for picking

support on the channel and for picking up cup of my book if you guys watching

up cup of my book if you guys watching

up cup of my book if you guys watching if you want a chance at a future shadow

if you want a chance at a future shadow

if you want a chance at a future shadow in the video make sure to grab a copy of

in the video make sure to grab a copy of

in the video make sure to grab a copy of the book and email a me receipt so that

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I can keep track thank you guys so much

I can keep track thank you guys so much for watching

for watching

for watching continue to believe or whatever your one

continue to believe or whatever your one

continue to believe or whatever your one word is and I’ll see you soon