good morning believe nation today we’re going to talk about five ways to find
going to talk about five ways to find
going to talk about five ways to find your soulmate this is what you want to
your soulmate this is what you want to
your soulmate this is what you want to reach out this week and remind you what
reach out this week and remind you what
reach out this week and remind you what you already know and that is no matter
you already know and that is no matter
you already know and that is no matter how stressful your life can be whether
how stressful your life can be whether
how stressful your life can be whether it be the economy or kids or your
it be the economy or kids or your
it be the economy or kids or your business ultimately it makes you feel
business ultimately it makes you feel
business ultimately it makes you feel alive is love love and passion together
alive is love love and passion together
alive is love love and passion together we’re incredibly passionate about this
we’re incredibly passionate about this
we’re incredibly passionate about this subject and you know love is something
subject and you know love is something
subject and you know love is something that you certainly just don’t take for
that you certainly just don’t take for
that you certainly just don’t take for granted and something that you
granted and something that you
granted and something that you consciously create every moment every
consciously create every moment every
consciously create every moment every day of your life the correct mindset to
day of your life the correct mindset to
day of your life the correct mindset to attract soulmate is not to look for the
attract soulmate is not to look for the
attract soulmate is not to look for the right person but to become the right
right person but to become the right
right person but to become the right person so never ask what kind of person
person so never ask what kind of person
person so never ask what kind of person I want to attract in my life ask
I want to attract in my life ask
I want to attract in my life ask yourself what kind of person I want to
yourself what kind of person I want to
yourself what kind of person I want to be and then when you become those
be and then when you become those
be and then when you become those qualities and the soulmate will show up
qualities and the soulmate will show up
qualities and the soulmate will show up to reflect those qualities because every
to reflect those qualities because every
to reflect those qualities because every relationship is a mirror and if you
relationship is a mirror and if you
relationship is a mirror and if you don’t like what you’re seeing in the
don’t like what you’re seeing in the
don’t like what you’re seeing in the mirror then you don’t fight with the
mirror then you don’t fight with the
mirror then you don’t fight with the mirror or break it you change the
mirror or break it you change the
mirror or break it you change the reflection by changing yourself you know
reflection by changing yourself you know
reflection by changing yourself you know most people think they need to know the
most people think they need to know the
most people think they need to know the right thing to say or the right strategy
right thing to say or the right strategy
right thing to say or the right strategy or the place to go and strategy is
or the place to go and strategy is
or the place to go and strategy is important in life but strategy’s not
important in life but strategy’s not
important in life but strategy’s not usually what holds people back from
usually what holds people back from
usually what holds people back from getting a great relationship it’s a
getting a great relationship it’s a
getting a great relationship it’s a belief system in their head that limits
belief system in their head that limits
belief system in their head that limits them it’s a story
honestly those stories I remember
honestly those stories I remember wouldn’t be right before we met I was
wouldn’t be right before we met I was
wouldn’t be right before we met I was thinking I was scared and thinking
thinking I was scared and thinking
thinking I was scared and thinking honestly I wanted to be alone and want
honestly I wanted to be alone and want
honestly I wanted to be alone and want to live on my own and wasn’t looking for
to live on my own and wasn’t looking for
to live on my own and wasn’t looking for a relationship and then in a moment God
a relationship and then in a moment God
a relationship and then in a moment God intervened and I think just at that time
intervened and I think just at that time
intervened and I think just at that time even though I wasn’t ready or prepared
even though I wasn’t ready or prepared
even though I wasn’t ready or prepared God was and life showed up and it was
God was and life showed up and it was
God was and life showed up and it was one of those divine moments and so
one of those divine moments and so
one of those divine moments and so sometimes our fears and her stories to
sometimes our fears and her stories to
sometimes our fears and her stories to remain open to what’s possible creates a
remain open to what’s possible creates a
remain open to what’s possible creates a pathway to be able to find enough yeah I
pathway to be able to find enough yeah I
pathway to be able to find enough yeah I was in the same place I’d end your
was in the same place I’d end your
was in the same place I’d end your relationship in the last thing I wanted
relationship in the last thing I wanted
relationship in the last thing I wanted was another relationship I associated so
was another relationship I associated so
was another relationship I associated so much pain to it I had so much more a joy
much pain to it I had so much more a joy
much pain to it I had so much more a joy and happiness with my kids and joint
and happiness with my kids and joint
and happiness with my kids and joint happiness with my work and my mission
happiness with my work and my mission
happiness with my work and my mission but really the only being that keeps you
but really the only being that keeps you
but really the only being that keeps you from getting what you want is the story
from getting what you want is the story
from getting what you want is the story about why you can’t have it all right
about why you can’t have it all right
about why you can’t have it all right you don’t have it and most common
you don’t have it and most common
you don’t have it and most common stories are things like you know all the
stories are things like you know all the
stories are things like you know all the good ones are gone for you know or you
good ones are gone for you know or you
good ones are gone for you know or you know I’m not ready or I have too much
know I’m not ready or I have too much
know I’m not ready or I have too much time for work later stage of life
time for work later stage of life
time for work later stage of life relationship such a painful it’s not
relationship such a painful it’s not
relationship such a painful it’s not worth the time I’m set in my ways I love
worth the time I’m set in my ways I love
worth the time I’m set in my ways I love my life my work is my first there’s just
my life my work is my first there’s just
my life my work is my first there’s just so many stories and Staffing’s that we
so many stories and Staffing’s that we
so many stories and Staffing’s that we create that prevent us from the
create that prevent us from the
create that prevent us from the possibility of love so you gotta just
possibility of love so you gotta just
possibility of love so you gotta just first maybe analyze what’s your story
first maybe analyze what’s your story
first maybe analyze what’s your story and find a new story new opportunity and
and find a new story new opportunity and
and find a new story new opportunity and what will help you to change your
what will help you to change your
what will help you to change your stories the third thing we always look
stories the third thing we always look
stories the third thing we always look at breakthroughs in life you change
at breakthroughs in life you change
at breakthroughs in life you change everything in a moment takes maybe a new
everything in a moment takes maybe a new
everything in a moment takes maybe a new strategy but usually a new story a new
strategy but usually a new story a new
strategy but usually a new story a new belief a new opening it also makes a new
belief a new opening it also makes a new
belief a new opening it also makes a new state a new emotional state if you’re
state a new emotional state if you’re
state a new emotional state if you’re all uptight about relationship and your
all uptight about relationship and your
all uptight about relationship and your is this the right one the level of
is this the right one the level of
is this the right one the level of tension in your body pushes people away
tension in your body pushes people away
tension in your body pushes people away from you
from you
from you you know or if you’re thinking
you know or if you’re thinking
you know or if you’re thinking relationships not for me is throw off an
relationships not for me is throw off an
relationships not for me is throw off an aura it makes people not be attracted to
aura it makes people not be attracted to
aura it makes people not be attracted to you then you wonder why you know people
you then you wonder why you know people
you then you wonder why you know people aren’t approaching Illium most people
aren’t approaching Illium most people
aren’t approaching Illium most people has nothing to do with what they’re
has nothing to do with what they’re
has nothing to do with what they’re physically like you know people that are
physically like you know people that are
physically like you know people that are physically beautiful but they’re ugly
physically beautiful but they’re ugly
physically beautiful but they’re ugly and they’re state they’re angry they’re
and they’re state they’re angry they’re
and they’re state they’re angry they’re frustrated they’re bitter if you change
frustrated they’re bitter if you change
frustrated they’re bitter if you change your state you start to change
your state you start to change
your state you start to change everything in your story it’s amazing to
everything in your story it’s amazing to
everything in your story it’s amazing to me how much time people spend worrying
me how much time people spend worrying
me how much time people spend worrying about lamenting about their relationship
about lamenting about their relationship
about lamenting about their relationship with somebody else
they spend absolutely no time developing
they spend absolutely no time developing a relationship with themselves so very
a relationship with themselves so very
a relationship with themselves so very often people want to be with somebody
often people want to be with somebody
often people want to be with somebody because they don’t want to be by
because they don’t want to be by
because they don’t want to be by themselves well here’s a question if you
themselves well here’s a question if you
themselves well here’s a question if you don’t want to be with you why does
don’t want to be with you why does
don’t want to be with you why does anybody else want to be with you what do
anybody else want to be with you what do
anybody else want to be with you what do you look like from the inside out do you
you look like from the inside out do you
you look like from the inside out do you have a clear mind do you have a sweet
have a clear mind do you have a sweet
have a clear mind do you have a sweet spirit do you have an open heart have
spirit do you have an open heart have
spirit do you have an open heart have you abandoned you have you abandoned
you abandoned you have you abandoned
you abandoned you have you abandoned your dreams have you abandoned your
your dreams have you abandoned your
your dreams have you abandoned your gifts when was the last time you had an
gifts when was the last time you had an
gifts when was the last time you had an intimate conversation with you when was
intimate conversation with you when was
intimate conversation with you when was the last time you took you out for a
the last time you took you out for a
the last time you took you out for a good evening when was the last time you
good evening when was the last time you
good evening when was the last time you enjoyed being home in your PJs with you
enjoyed being home in your PJs with you
enjoyed being home in your PJs with you doing something fun oh we live in a
doing something fun oh we live in a
doing something fun oh we live in a world where we expect something or
world where we expect something or
world where we expect something or someone outside of ourselves to make us
someone outside of ourselves to make us
someone outside of ourselves to make us happy remember the only relationship
happy remember the only relationship
happy remember the only relationship that you can ever have is a reflection
that you can ever have is a reflection
that you can ever have is a reflection of the one you’re having with yourself
of the one you’re having with yourself
of the one you’re having with yourself so if you want somebody really good and
so if you want somebody really good and
so if you want somebody really good and wonderful in your life start with you
wonderful in your life start with you
wonderful in your life start with you build that relationship and let’s see
build that relationship and let’s see
build that relationship and let’s see what happens if you want something to
what happens if you want something to
what happens if you want something to change are the things that you look at
change are the things that you look at
change are the things that you look at the change change the way that you look
the change change the way that you look
the change change the way that you look at things that begins by examining not
at things that begins by examining not
at things that begins by examining not only who you are today but what made you
only who you are today but what made you
only who you are today but what made you that way what started those triggers
that way what started those triggers
that way what started those triggers what prompted those responses and you’re
what prompted those responses and you’re
what prompted those responses and you’re gonna find that most of those things you
gonna find that most of those things you
gonna find that most of those things you either learn through modeling or
either learn through modeling or
either learn through modeling or conditioning yeah all right and also put
conditioning yeah all right and also put
conditioning yeah all right and also put your toxic relationships behind you
your toxic relationships behind you
your toxic relationships behind you because I can make so many people so
because I can make so many people so
because I can make so many people so bitter and they keep talking about that
bitter and they keep talking about that
bitter and they keep talking about that bad relationship which they chose I mean
bad relationship which they chose I mean
bad relationship which they chose I mean we gotta admit that we choose those
we gotta admit that we choose those
we gotta admit that we choose those relationships yeah I had a lady I was
relationships yeah I had a lady I was
relationships yeah I had a lady I was doing a lecture at one point and this
doing a lecture at one point and this
doing a lecture at one point and this lady says well the last four men I’ve
lady says well the last four men I’ve
lady says well the last four men I’ve dated they were this and they were that
dated they were this and they were that
dated they were this and they were that and I said well dear you know the one
and I said well dear you know the one
and I said well dear you know the one thing they all had in common you so when
thing they all had in common you so when
thing they all had in common you so when I told her yeah amazing faith
I told her yeah amazing faith
I told her yeah amazing faith yeah so when I told her that you know
yeah so when I told her that you know
yeah so when I told her that you know she set there with her mouth open and
she set there with her mouth open and
she set there with her mouth open and what I had to let her know is that if
what I had to let her know is that if
what I had to let her know is that if you want something different why don’t
you want something different why don’t
you want something different why don’t you make a fresh start in quit recycling
you make a fresh start in quit recycling
you make a fresh start in quit recycling old people situations and circumstance
old people situations and circumstance
old people situations and circumstance yeah my husband has a line that I always
yeah my husband has a line that I always
yeah my husband has a line that I always quote because it’s it’s not all why I
quote because it’s it’s not all why I
quote because it’s it’s not all why I married him but it’s a lot of why I
married him but it’s a lot of why I
married him but it’s a lot of why I married him is this line he said a
married him is this line he said a
married him is this line he said a woman’s place is in the kitchen with her
woman’s place is in the kitchen with her
woman’s place is in the kitchen with her feet up drinking a glass of wine
feet up drinking a glass of wine
feet up drinking a glass of wine watching her husband cook her a meal
we’re never beaten up treating watching
we’re never beaten up treating watching her husband cook her a meal and that is
her husband cook her a meal and that is
her husband cook her a meal and that is I just that’s it I come home and he
I just that’s it I come home and he
I just that’s it I come home and he loves to cook
loves to cook
loves to cook and I sit down and this is why I like it
and I sit down and this is why I like it
and I sit down and this is why I like it I almost want to cry but he’ll just
I almost want to cry but he’ll just
I almost want to cry but he’ll just stand there and he’ll be like I’m gonna
stand there and he’ll be like I’m gonna
stand there and he’ll be like I’m gonna make a big curry I’m gonna make cuz he
make a big curry I’m gonna make cuz he
make a big curry I’m gonna make cuz he loves to do these big Mama’s cooking
loves to do these big Mama’s cooking
loves to do these big Mama’s cooking things his Brazilian but his mother was
things his Brazilian but his mother was
things his Brazilian but his mother was Italian so he loves like slow cooking
Italian so he loves like slow cooking
Italian so he loves like slow cooking and then got to invite me to use a glass
and then got to invite me to use a glass
and then got to invite me to use a glass of wine oh you you are welcome and he’ll
of wine oh you you are welcome and he’ll
of wine oh you you are welcome and he’ll pour me a glass of wine and he’ll say
pour me a glass of wine and he’ll say
pour me a glass of wine and he’ll say now darling tell me everything Wow what
now darling tell me everything Wow what
now darling tell me everything Wow what happened today tell me and and I’ll just
happened today tell me and and I’ll just
happened today tell me and and I’ll just sit there with my feet I’m like how did
sit there with my feet I’m like how did
sit there with my feet I’m like how did I win this life Wow
I win this life Wow
I win this life Wow how did I win this life and and I was
how did I win this life and and I was
how did I win this life and and I was talking about this with a friend and she
talking about this with a friend and she
talking about this with a friend and she said because you blossomed into this
said because you blossomed into this
said because you blossomed into this sort of person who attracted a man like
sort of person who attracted a man like
sort of person who attracted a man like that and you learned how to treat
that and you learned how to treat
that and you learned how to treat yourself so well on your own that when
yourself so well on your own that when
yourself so well on your own that when someone came along who treated you well
someone came along who treated you well
someone came along who treated you well you finally recognized what that feels
you finally recognized what that feels
you finally recognized what that feels like because you’ve been doing it to
like because you’ve been doing it to
like because you’ve been doing it to yourself the whole time
yourself the whole time
yourself the whole time hallelujah so I noticed him I was like
hallelujah so I noticed him I was like
hallelujah so I noticed him I was like oh he treats me the way I treat me now
oh he treats me the way I treat me now
oh he treats me the way I treat me now so yeah let’s go for me finally my soul
so yeah let’s go for me finally my soul
so yeah let’s go for me finally my soul mate was easy just go out salsa dancing
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make in your life as a result of
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watching it leave in the comments below
watching it leave in the comments below if you have found your soul mate I’m
if you have found your soul mate I’m
if you have found your soul mate I’m curious to find out how you guys met
curious to find out how you guys met
curious to find out how you guys met leave in the comments doing a little
leave in the comments doing a little
leave in the comments doing a little personal today I’d love to see the
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much for watching have an amazing day
much for watching have an amazing day continue to believe and I’ll see you
continue to believe and I’ll see you
continue to believe and I’ll see you soon
you know someone earlier asked us about
you know someone earlier asked us about how do you start dating again especially
how do you start dating again especially
how do you start dating again especially a middle-aged mm-hmm well the first
a middle-aged mm-hmm well the first
a middle-aged mm-hmm well the first thing is this if you want to convert an
thing is this if you want to convert an
thing is this if you want to convert an idea to a plan it’s a four-letter word
idea to a plan it’s a four-letter word
idea to a plan it’s a four-letter word and not that word it’s date yeah you you
and not that word it’s date yeah you you
and not that word it’s date yeah you you put a date on it the second thing is go
put a date on it the second thing is go
put a date on it the second thing is go to the places where someone’s
to the places where someone’s
to the places where someone’s personality is incidental to the place
personality is incidental to the place
personality is incidental to the place that you’re going meaning if you want
that you’re going meaning if you want
that you’re going meaning if you want someone that takes good care of
someone that takes good care of
someone that takes good care of themselves go to the gym go you know go
themselves go to the gym go you know go
themselves go to the gym go you know go and if you want someone that’s nurturing
and if you want someone that’s nurturing
and if you want someone that’s nurturing and empathetic and compassionate find
and empathetic and compassionate find
and empathetic and compassionate find somebody that volunteers their time in a
somebody that volunteers their time in a
somebody that volunteers their time in a social service situation or something
social service situation or something
social service situation or something you’re starting off where you have
you’re starting off where you have
you’re starting off where you have evidence
evidence
evidence remember evidence that this person
remember evidence that this person
remember evidence that this person possesses that which you seek the great
possesses that which you seek the great
possesses that which you seek the great Indian boy to Gore once said love is not
Indian boy to Gore once said love is not
Indian boy to Gore once said love is not a mere sentiment it is the ultimate
a mere sentiment it is the ultimate
a mere sentiment it is the ultimate truth at the heart of creation which
truth at the heart of creation which
truth at the heart of creation which means that your essential state is love
means that your essential state is love
means that your essential state is love what distorts that is that we look
what distorts that is that we look
what distorts that is that we look outside for love not realizing that the
outside for love not realizing that the
outside for love not realizing that the love that we experience outside is a
love that we experience outside is a
love that we experience outside is a reflection of the love we have for our
reflection of the love we have for our
reflection of the love we have for our deepest self and when I say deeper self
deepest self and when I say deeper self
deepest self and when I say deeper self I don’t mean your ego which is not
I don’t mean your ego which is not
I don’t mean your ego which is not yourself it that’s a socially induced
yourself it that’s a socially induced
yourself it that’s a socially induced hallucination I mean your soul which is
hallucination I mean your soul which is
hallucination I mean your soul which is beyond your self image your true self
beyond your self image your true self
beyond your self image your true self your true self is love and so in your
your true self is love and so in your
your true self is love and so in your actions in the world if you just ask
actions in the world if you just ask
actions in the world if you just ask yourself if I made this choice am i
yourself if I made this choice am i
yourself if I made this choice am i loving myself if I really loved myself
loving myself if I really loved myself
loving myself if I really loved myself would I make this choice now that means
would I make this choice now that means
would I make this choice now that means everything from how you speak to a
everything from how you speak to a
everything from how you speak to a person how you take care of your body
person how you take care of your body
person how you take care of your body how you talk to your parents or your
how you talk to your parents or your
how you talk to your parents or your children how you put food in your body
children how you put food in your body
children how you put food in your body before you do that ask yourself if I
before you do that ask yourself if I
before you do that ask yourself if I love myself would I do this and then
love myself would I do this and then
love myself would I do this and then intuitively choose the right on
intuitively choose the right on
intuitively choose the right on and stop looking for the right person
and stop looking for the right person
and stop looking for the right person because the right person is only a
because the right person is only a
because the right person is only a reflection of who you are instead of
reflection of who you are instead of
reflection of who you are instead of looking for the right person become the
looking for the right person become the
looking for the right person become the right person so when people show you
right person so when people show you
right person so when people show you please understand the truth of them and
please understand the truth of them and
please understand the truth of them and yourself and do not waste your time with
yourself and do not waste your time with
yourself and do not waste your time with people who have shown you that they
people who have shown you that they
people who have shown you that they really mean no good for you Maya has
really mean no good for you Maya has
really mean no good for you Maya has another phrase do not let yourself be
another phrase do not let yourself be
another phrase do not let yourself be surrounded by people who will Peck you
surrounded by people who will Peck you
surrounded by people who will Peck you to death like a duck she says if you
to death like a duck she says if you
to death like a duck she says if you allow yourself to be around people who
allow yourself to be around people who
allow yourself to be around people who show you who they are and you refuse to
show you who they are and you refuse to
show you who they are and you refuse to believe it they will each time they
believe it they will each time they
believe it they will each time they enter into your space take a little
enter into your space take a little
enter into your space take a little piece of your soul
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