what do you do if little man is a relative so I got a great question for
relative so I got a great question for
relative so I got a great question for one of my youtube viewers love you guys
one of my youtube viewers love you guys
one of my youtube viewers love you guys Samir who wrote in to say amazing videos
Samir who wrote in to say amazing videos
Samir who wrote in to say amazing videos thanks Evan
thanks Evan
thanks Evan I have a question for you what if the
I have a question for you what if the
I have a question for you what if the little man is your relative in my life I
little man is your relative in my life I
little man is your relative in my life I have many little men but these little
have many little men but these little
have many little men but these little men are my relatives and I love them so
men are my relatives and I love them so
men are my relatives and I love them so much what should I do
much what should I do
much what should I do so Samir you’re all gonna be honest with
so Samir you’re all gonna be honest with
so Samir you’re all gonna be honest with you this question caused me a lot of
stress usually when I get a question I I
stress usually when I get a question I I can get in front of the camera and they
can get in front of the camera and they
can get in front of the camera and they just started answering this one I had to
just started answering this one I had to
just started answering this one I had to kind of walk around and think about it
kind of walk around and think about it
kind of walk around and think about it for a while for those of you watching a
for a while for those of you watching a
for a while for those of you watching a little man the little man is the person
little man the little man is the person
little man the little man is the person in your life who tells you you can’t
in your life who tells you you can’t
in your life who tells you you can’t make it it tells you that you’re not
make it it tells you that you’re not
make it it tells you that you’re not good enough who tells you to give up on
good enough who tells you to give up on
good enough who tells you to give up on your dream it tells you to do something
your dream it tells you to do something
your dream it tells you to do something else and and you can’t listen to the
else and and you can’t listen to the
else and and you can’t listen to the little man you know you got to do your
little man you know you got to do your
little man you know you got to do your own thing and we all have these little
own thing and we all have these little
own thing and we all have these little men in our lives who holds us back from
men in our lives who holds us back from
men in our lives who holds us back from doing the things that we want to do what
doing the things that we want to do what
doing the things that we want to do what are you doing it’s a family member I’m
are you doing it’s a family member I’m
are you doing it’s a family member I’m kind of hesitant to jump on that kind of
kind of hesitant to jump on that kind of
kind of hesitant to jump on that kind of personal advice I don’t want the guilt I
personal advice I don’t want the guilt I
personal advice I don’t want the guilt I don’t want the guilt
don’t want the guilt
don’t want the guilt maybe I’ll just share my story I think
maybe I’ll just share my story I think
maybe I’ll just share my story I think first of all you have to determine who
first of all you have to determine who
first of all you have to determine who the family is if it’s your your spouse
the family is if it’s your your spouse
the family is if it’s your your spouse or not I think the person who you spend
or not I think the person who you spend
or not I think the person who you spend the rest of your life with should be
the rest of your life with should be
the rest of your life with should be somebody who who believes in what you’re
somebody who who believes in what you’re
somebody who who believes in what you’re doing who supports you even if he or she
doing who supports you even if he or she
doing who supports you even if he or she doesn’t understand what you’re doing we
doesn’t understand what you’re doing we
doesn’t understand what you’re doing we should be supportive of the people who
should be supportive of the people who
should be supportive of the people who who were married to right so hopefully
who were married to right so hopefully
who were married to right so hopefully the little man is not the person who
the little man is not the person who
the little man is not the person who you’re you’re seeing girlfriend
you’re you’re seeing girlfriend
you’re you’re seeing girlfriend boyfriend husband wife what do you do
boyfriend husband wife what do you do
boyfriend husband wife what do you do with the other members in your family
with the other members in your family
with the other members in your family you know there’s one person in my life
you know there’s one person in my life
you know there’s one person in my life I’m fortunate that my close family are
I’m fortunate that my close family are
I’m fortunate that my close family are all very supportive of what I do my
all very supportive of what I do my
all very supportive of what I do my parents my siblings you know my mom
parents my siblings you know my mom
parents my siblings you know my mom schedules in her calendar everyday I
schedules in her calendar everyday I
schedules in her calendar everyday I have a radio show which he listens in
have a radio show which he listens in
have a radio show which he listens in and you know that’s great to have that
and you know that’s great to have that
and you know that’s great to have that kind of support and well a lot of people
kind of support and well a lot of people
kind of support and well a lot of people don’t necessarily have that support
don’t necessarily have that support
don’t necessarily have that support growing up there is one person kind of
growing up there is one person kind of
growing up there is one person kind of my extended family who
my extended family who
my extended family who who is just negative and as I grew up
who is just negative and as I grew up
who is just negative and as I grew up caused tons of grief not only for me but
caused tons of grief not only for me but
caused tons of grief not only for me but for everybody in the family and so I’ve
for everybody in the family and so I’ve
for everybody in the family and so I’ve had to write this person off from my
had to write this person off from my
had to write this person off from my life and if there’s family functions
life and if there’s family functions
life and if there’s family functions you know I avoid them if I know that
you know I avoid them if I know that
you know I avoid them if I know that this person is gonna be there and it
this person is gonna be there and it
this person is gonna be there and it causes a little bit of scheduling issues
causes a little bit of scheduling issues
causes a little bit of scheduling issues I guess but but I’m so much happier
I guess but but I’m so much happier
I guess but but I’m so much happier right like I don’t need more negativity
right like I don’t need more negativity
right like I don’t need more negativity in my life running a business is hard
in my life running a business is hard
in my life running a business is hard enough I don’t need more frustrations
enough I don’t need more frustrations
enough I don’t need more frustrations and in general I eliminate people from
and in general I eliminate people from
and in general I eliminate people from my life who who are the little man I
my life who who are the little man I
my life who who are the little man I limit the people who who are just
limit the people who who are just
limit the people who who are just negative you know they’re people were
negative you know they’re people were
negative you know they’re people were just just just negative they suck your
just just just negative they suck your
just just just negative they suck your time they suck your energy
time they suck your energy
time they suck your energy they make you you know you leave a
they make you you know you leave a
they make you you know you leave a conversation with them feeling bad about
conversation with them feeling bad about
conversation with them feeling bad about yourself I don’t want to be surrounded
yourself I don’t want to be surrounded
yourself I don’t want to be surrounded by those people you know friends are
by those people you know friends are
by those people you know friends are easier or friends are easy to get rid of
easier or friends are easy to get rid of
easier or friends are easy to get rid of I guess than family members but there is
I guess than family members but there is
I guess than family members but there is one person my life who have had to that
one person my life who have had to that
one person my life who have had to that my family extended family we’ve had to
my family extended family we’ve had to
my family extended family we’ve had to do that with you no right or wrong
do that with you no right or wrong
do that with you no right or wrong decision I’m a happier person as a
decision I’m a happier person as a
decision I’m a happier person as a result of it I have less negativity in
result of it I have less negativity in
result of it I have less negativity in my life because of it so I’m
my life because of it so I’m
my life because of it so I’m uncomfortable with that decision you
uncomfortable with that decision you
uncomfortable with that decision you know I don’t want to tell you I don’t
know I don’t want to tell you I don’t
know I don’t want to tell you I don’t know who the little man is in your life
know who the little man is in your life
know who the little man is in your life I don’t want to tell you don’t talk to
I don’t want to tell you don’t talk to
I don’t want to tell you don’t talk to your parents because they’re the little
your parents because they’re the little
your parents because they’re the little man in your life this is a personal
man in your life this is a personal
man in your life this is a personal choice you have to make for yourself of
choice you have to make for yourself of
choice you have to make for yourself of what I what I believe in and maybe this
what I what I believe in and maybe this
what I what I believe in and maybe this helps is that you have to live your own
helps is that you have to live your own
helps is that you have to live your own life you’re living your life for you
life you’re living your life for you
life you’re living your life for you you can’t live somebody else’s dream you
you can’t live somebody else’s dream you
you can’t live somebody else’s dream you can’t live somebody else’s life you know
can’t live somebody else’s life you know
can’t live somebody else’s life you know if your parents want you to be a doctor
if your parents want you to be a doctor
if your parents want you to be a doctor and you want to be an entrepreneur my
and you want to be an entrepreneur my
and you want to be an entrepreneur my view is you got to do your thing like
view is you got to do your thing like
view is you got to do your thing like you’re never gonna be happy living
you’re never gonna be happy living
you’re never gonna be happy living somebody else’s life it’s just that
somebody else’s life it’s just that
somebody else’s life it’s just that somebody else’s dream it’s not your
somebody else’s dream it’s not your
somebody else’s dream it’s not your dream you have to do what excites you
dream you have to do what excites you
dream you have to do what excites you what gets you excited right and there’s
what gets you excited right and there’s
what gets you excited right and there’s a point as we grow up we’re you know
a point as we grow up we’re you know
a point as we grow up we’re you know we’re trying to please our parents all
we’re trying to please our parents all
we’re trying to please our parents all the time and you know through school
the time and you know through school
the time and you know through school then there’s a point where you break off
then there’s a point where you break off
then there’s a point where you break off and you decide like I’m ready to become
and you decide like I’m ready to become
and you decide like I’m ready to become my own person that may mean going
my own person that may mean going
my own person that may mean going against what your family wants you to do
against what your family wants you to do
against what your family wants you to do you know I think of I think of it’s
you know I think of I think of it’s
you know I think of I think of it’s harder in some cultures I think of the
harder in some cultures I think of the
harder in some cultures I think of the founder of of Sony Akio Morita his
founder of of Sony Akio Morita his
founder of of Sony Akio Morita his family had been in the same business for
family had been in the same business for
family had been in the same business for multiple generations and they just
multiple generations and they just
multiple generations and they just expected him to take over and he didn’t
expected him to take over and he didn’t
expected him to take over and he didn’t want to do that it’s a guy I don’t like
want to do that it’s a guy I don’t like
want to do that it’s a guy I don’t like this business I don’t want to be in this
this business I don’t want to be in this
this business I don’t want to be in this family business it’s not for me I want
family business it’s not for me I want
family business it’s not for me I want to do my own thing I want to start my
to do my own thing I want to start my
to do my own thing I want to start my own company and they you know didn’t
own company and they you know didn’t
own company and they you know didn’t agree and put huge pressure on him and
agree and put huge pressure on him and
agree and put huge pressure on him and that was more than you know the culture
that was more than you know the culture
that was more than you know the culture and just Japanese culture at the time
and just Japanese culture at the time
and just Japanese culture at the time and and he still had the courage to go
and and he still had the courage to go
and and he still had the courage to go and do his own thing and he built Sony
and do his own thing and he built Sony
and do his own thing and he built Sony but one of the biggest brands in the
but one of the biggest brands in the
but one of the biggest brands in the world and if he had just done you know
world and if he had just done you know
world and if he had just done you know his family business he wouldn’t be happy
his family business he wouldn’t be happy
his family business he wouldn’t be happy it wouldn’t be successful
it wouldn’t be successful
it wouldn’t be successful I need always be thinking like what if I
I need always be thinking like what if I
I need always be thinking like what if I went out and did my own thing how much
went out and did my own thing how much
went out and did my own thing how much happier how much more successful would I
happier how much more successful would I
happier how much more successful would I be you got to follow your heart you know
be you got to follow your heart you know
be you got to follow your heart you know you got to do what you believe is the
you got to do what you believe is the
you got to do what you believe is the best thing for you even if that means
best thing for you even if that means
best thing for you even if that means upsetting people in your family who
upsetting people in your family who
upsetting people in your family who think a different path is better for you
think a different path is better for you
think a different path is better for you how you maintain a relationship if you
how you maintain a relationship if you
how you maintain a relationship if you choose to maintain your relationship or
choose to maintain your relationship or
choose to maintain your relationship or not if there’s a break if it’s not
not if there’s a break if it’s not
not if there’s a break if it’s not talking about your business I don’t know
talking about your business I don’t know
talking about your business I don’t know like I’m not the expert on that but I
like I’m not the expert on that but I
like I’m not the expert on that but I sincerely hope that you don’t let other
sincerely hope that you don’t let other
sincerely hope that you don’t let other people’s dreams and other people’s
people’s dreams and other people’s
people’s dreams and other people’s visions for what they think you should
visions for what they think you should
visions for what they think you should do become your reality and instead I
do become your reality and instead I
do become your reality and instead I want you to focus on what you feel in
want you to focus on what you feel in
want you to focus on what you feel in your heart is the right thing to do do
your heart is the right thing to do do
your heart is the right thing to do do that first focus on that big thing first
that first focus on that big thing first
that first focus on that big thing first and then line everything up afterwards
and then line everything up afterwards
and then line everything up afterwards that’s the most important decision and
that’s the most important decision and
that’s the most important decision and then how everything else follows you
then how everything else follows you
then how everything else follows you have to figure it out I don’t know if
have to figure it out I don’t know if
have to figure it out I don’t know if that helps maybe not the most concrete
that helps maybe not the most concrete
that helps maybe not the most concrete video I’ve ever put together and it did
video I’ve ever put together and it did
video I’ve ever put together and it did cause me a lot of stress and thinking
cause me a lot of stress and thinking
cause me a lot of stress and thinking about it but those are my thoughts so
about it but those are my thoughts so
about it but those are my thoughts so believe those you’re watching like your
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