Nice Guys Finish Last? – Is kindness a weakness?

is kindness a weakness I got a great

is kindness a weakness I got a great message from one of my youtube viewers

message from one of my youtube viewers

message from one of my youtube viewers love you guys who wrote in asking about

love you guys who wrote in asking about

love you guys who wrote in asking about one of my videos where I talked about I

one of my videos where I talked about I

one of my videos where I talked about I like to hire nice people okay I’d it’s

like to hire nice people okay I’d it’s

like to hire nice people okay I’d it’s true I’d like to hire nice people often

true I’d like to hire nice people often

true I’d like to hire nice people often put that on the job description that I

put that on the job description that I

put that on the job description that I like hiring nice people and she’s

like hiring nice people and she’s

like hiring nice people and she’s worried that she’s too nice a person so

worried that she’s too nice a person so

worried that she’s too nice a person so let me read what she wrote she wrote in

let me read what she wrote she wrote in

let me read what she wrote she wrote in the say I love that your company hire is

the say I love that your company hire is

the say I love that your company hire is nice people my last job I was told in

nice people my last job I was told in

nice people my last job I was told in the interview you seem like a nice

the interview you seem like a nice

the interview you seem like a nice person and that’s cute and all but what

person and that’s cute and all but what

person and that’s cute and all but what you what can you offer this company I

you what can you offer this company I

you what can you offer this company I got the job and I went from positive to

got the job and I went from positive to

got the job and I went from positive to negative and sad I realized I was

negative and sad I realized I was

negative and sad I realized I was absorbing all their bad energy and

absorbing all their bad energy and

absorbing all their bad energy and ideals I’m struggling to find a new job

ideals I’m struggling to find a new job

ideals I’m struggling to find a new job now and I’m not and I find myself

now and I’m not and I find myself

now and I’m not and I find myself wondering it being nice has anything to

wondering it being nice has anything to

wondering it being nice has anything to do with it yet it felt like poison to my

do with it yet it felt like poison to my

do with it yet it felt like poison to my soul

soul

soul so stain was not an option I have a

so stain was not an option I have a

so stain was not an option I have a question how do I have my kindness not

question how do I have my kindness not

question how do I have my kindness not taken for weakness what am I doing wrong

taken for weakness what am I doing wrong

taken for weakness what am I doing wrong here’s my view you’re not doing anything

here’s my view you’re not doing anything

here’s my view you’re not doing anything wrong okay you’re just not working with

wrong okay you’re just not working with

wrong okay you’re just not working with the right companies when I say I like

the right companies when I say I like

the right companies when I say I like hiring nice people I put that into my

hiring nice people I put that into my

hiring nice people I put that into my job description

job description

job description some people they read that and they

some people they read that and they

some people they read that and they laugh and they say this is stupid come

laugh and they say this is stupid come

laugh and they say this is stupid come on you’re like hiring nice people who

on you’re like hiring nice people who

on you’re like hiring nice people who writes that in in a job description

writes that in in a job description

writes that in in a job description that’s stupid I don’t want you working

that’s stupid I don’t want you working

that’s stupid I don’t want you working at my company

at my company

at my company that’s cool man if you don’t like it

that’s cool man if you don’t like it

that’s cool man if you don’t like it don’t apply they’re gonna self eliminate

don’t apply they’re gonna self eliminate

don’t apply they’re gonna self eliminate and then people like you who felt like

and then people like you who felt like

and then people like you who felt like you are a genuinely nice person you’re

you are a genuinely nice person you’re

you are a genuinely nice person you’re gonna read an say ah finally

gonna read an say ah finally

gonna read an say ah finally I can’t wait to apply there that’s the

I can’t wait to apply there that’s the

I can’t wait to apply there that’s the difference because you’re never going to

difference because you’re never going to

difference because you’re never going to be happy with your work you’re never

be happy with your work you’re never

be happy with your work you’re never gonna feel fulfilled with what you’re

gonna feel fulfilled with what you’re

gonna feel fulfilled with what you’re doing if you’re forcing yourself to work

doing if you’re forcing yourself to work

doing if you’re forcing yourself to work in a culture that doesn’t fit you if

in a culture that doesn’t fit you if

in a culture that doesn’t fit you if you’re forcing yourself to work with

you’re forcing yourself to work with

you’re forcing yourself to work with people who are not nice and you’re super

people who are not nice and you’re super

people who are not nice and you’re super nice it’s never gonna work I hate

nice it’s never gonna work I hate

nice it’s never gonna work I hate working with people who aren’t nice

working with people who aren’t nice

working with people who aren’t nice it just it drives me nuts and I love

it just it drives me nuts and I love

it just it drives me nuts and I love working with people who are nice so make

working with people who are nice so make

working with people who are nice so make it clear these are the types of people

it clear these are the types of people

it clear these are the types of people that we’re looking for

that we’re looking for

that we’re looking for that’s the company you need to find and

that’s the company you need to find and

that’s the company you need to find and it’s not just about being nice it’s

it’s not just about being nice it’s

it’s not just about being nice it’s whatever whatever characteristic you

whatever whatever characteristic you

whatever whatever characteristic you have whatever personality trait you have

have whatever personality trait you have

have whatever personality trait you have whatever you believe in you want to work

whatever you believe in you want to work

whatever you believe in you want to work at a company that respects and honors

at a company that respects and honors

at a company that respects and honors that if you’re really competitive you

that if you’re really competitive you

that if you’re really competitive you want to work at a company where

want to work at a company where

want to work at a company where everything is really competitive you

everything is really competitive you

everything is really competitive you wouldn’t have fun probably at a

wouldn’t have fun probably at a

wouldn’t have fun probably at a government job that’s super boring that

government job that’s super boring that

government job that’s super boring that wouldn’t be for you because not

wouldn’t be for you because not

wouldn’t be for you because not competitive enough you’re gonna be happy

competitive enough you’re gonna be happy

competitive enough you’re gonna be happy so if you’re nice you gotta go out and

so if you’re nice you gotta go out and

so if you’re nice you gotta go out and find nice companies people who talk

find nice companies people who talk

find nice companies people who talk about this people who live this so

about this people who live this so

about this people who live this so you’re not doing anything wrong you

you’re not doing anything wrong you

you’re not doing anything wrong you don’t need to change yourself you just

don’t need to change yourself you just

don’t need to change yourself you just need to find the culture at a company

need to find the culture at a company

need to find the culture at a company that fits you and it’s worth spending

that fits you and it’s worth spending

that fits you and it’s worth spending the time to do it right so you don’t get

the time to do it right so you don’t get

the time to do it right so you don’t get locked into one bad job after another

locked into one bad job after another

locked into one bad job after another bad job after another bad job you want a

bad job after another bad job you want a

bad job after another bad job you want a company who sees you as being nice as an

company who sees you as being nice as an

company who sees you as being nice as an asset will pay you more for that then a

asset will pay you more for that then a

asset will pay you more for that then a company that says oh you’re nice I don’t

company that says oh you’re nice I don’t

company that says oh you’re nice I don’t know what you can do for the business so

know what you can do for the business so

know what you can do for the business so don’t change who you are change the

don’t change who you are change the

don’t change who you are change the company that you work for it believed

company that you work for it believed

company that you work for it believed for those of you watching you liked this

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