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Social Skills – Am I screwed if I’m not a people person?


am i screwed if I’m not a people person

am i screwed if I’m not a people person a lot of entrepreneurs write in to me

a lot of entrepreneurs write in to me

a lot of entrepreneurs write in to me and they have these preconceived notions

and they have these preconceived notions

and they have these preconceived notions on the type of personality that you need

on the type of personality that you need

on the type of personality that you need to have to be a success in the world of

to have to be a success in the world of

to have to be a success in the world of business and for the most part it’s not

business and for the most part it’s not

business and for the most part it’s not true you don’t have to be a people

true you don’t have to be a people

true you don’t have to be a people person to have success you don’t have to

person to have success you don’t have to

person to have success you don’t have to be good-looking you don’t have to be a

be good-looking you don’t have to be a

be good-looking you don’t have to be a certain age you don’t have to be from a

certain age you don’t have to be from a

certain age you don’t have to be from a certain background or speak a certain

certain background or speak a certain

certain background or speak a certain language none of that stuff matters it’s

language none of that stuff matters it’s

language none of that stuff matters it’s all in your head and so the question I

all in your head and so the question I

all in your head and so the question I got from one of my readers Anton was a

got from one of my readers Anton was a

got from one of my readers Anton was a new newsletter subscriber on my list

new newsletter subscriber on my list

new newsletter subscriber on my list wrote in and he has his long story

wrote in and he has his long story

wrote in and he has his long story basically had a failed business and he

basically had a failed business and he

basically had a failed business and he was talking about my story and how I

was talking about my story and how I

was talking about my story and how I found mentors and how they helped me and

found mentors and how they helped me and

found mentors and how they helped me and he’s worried that because he’s not a

he’s worried that because he’s not a

he’s worried that because he’s not a people person that he’s not going to

people person that he’s not going to

people person that he’s not going to achieve success and whether this is for

achieve success and whether this is for

achieve success and whether this is for him or not so I have an entrepreneur

him or not so I have an entrepreneur

him or not so I have an entrepreneur mindset test for me it’s more about your

mindset test for me it’s more about your

mindset test for me it’s more about your mindset than your personality because if

mindset than your personality because if

mindset than your personality because if you look at successful entrepreneurs

you look at successful entrepreneurs

you look at successful entrepreneurs they’re from all walks of life you have

they’re from all walks of life you have

they’re from all walks of life you have some entre NORs who are the type-a

some entre NORs who are the type-a

some entre NORs who are the type-a personalities are always talking these

personalities are always talking these

personalities are always talking these are the guys you see on camera all the

are the guys you see on camera all the

are the guys you see on camera all the time and doing big stunts and you got

time and doing big stunts and you got

time and doing big stunts and you got the ones who are shy and you’re

the ones who are shy and you’re

the ones who are shy and you’re occlusive and hate people and don’t like

occlusive and hate people and don’t like

occlusive and hate people and don’t like being in the spotlight it might be asses

being in the spotlight it might be asses

being in the spotlight it might be asses to write these are successful

to write these are successful

to write these are successful entrepreneurs as well and you don’t have

entrepreneurs as well and you don’t have

entrepreneurs as well and you don’t have to only look at one type and say I’m not

to only look at one type and say I’m not

to only look at one type and say I’m not that person so I won’t be successful in

that person so I won’t be successful in

that person so I won’t be successful in my entrepreneur mindset test there are

my entrepreneur mindset test there are

my entrepreneur mindset test there are hundred questions that you have to

hundred questions that you have to

hundred questions that you have to answer that gear you towards seeing if

answer that gear you towards seeing if

answer that gear you towards seeing if you’re going to be a successful

you’re going to be a successful

you’re going to be a successful entrepreneur or not and they don’t

entrepreneur or not and they don’t

entrepreneur or not and they don’t relate to personality they don’t relate

relate to personality they don’t relate

relate to personality they don’t relate to things like are you outgoing right

to things like are you outgoing right

to things like are you outgoing right that doesn’t matter for your successes

that doesn’t matter for your successes

that doesn’t matter for your successes entreprenuer using your skills properly

entreprenuer using your skills properly

entreprenuer using your skills properly so here’s an example from my background

so here’s an example from my background

so here’s an example from my background okay I am NOT I’m not the biggest people

okay I am NOT I’m not the biggest people

okay I am NOT I’m not the biggest people person okay I’m not uncomfortable

person okay I’m not uncomfortable

person okay I’m not uncomfortable talking to people but it’s not my my

talking to people but it’s not my my

talking to people but it’s not my my default okay when I go to an event I’m

default okay when I go to an event I’m

default okay when I go to an event I’m not

not

not I’m not handing up my business cards and

I’m not handing up my business cards and

I’m not handing up my business cards and shaking hands and telling people here’s

shaking hands and telling people here’s

shaking hands and telling people here’s what I do go check out my website when I

what I do go check out my website when I

what I do go check out my website when I get on an airplane

get on an airplane

get on an airplane I’m not chatting with the person next to

I’m not chatting with the person next to

I’m not chatting with the person next to me and and learning about them I keep to

me and and learning about them I keep to

me and and learning about them I keep to myself for the most part and if I was in

myself for the most part and if I was in

myself for the most part and if I was in a sales type of role that would hurt me

a sales type of role that would hurt me

a sales type of role that would hurt me and I’ve had to discover that for my

and I’ve had to discover that for my

and I’ve had to discover that for my business to be successful I had to lean

business to be successful I had to lean

business to be successful I had to lean more towards the marketing and so I

more towards the marketing and so I

more towards the marketing and so I create an environment where people want

create an environment where people want

create an environment where people want to talk to me and where people want to

to talk to me and where people want to

to talk to me and where people want to do business with me instead of me having

do business with me instead of me having

do business with me instead of me having to go out and talk to them because if

to go out and talk to them because if

to go out and talk to them because if that was how I built my business I

that was how I built my business I

that was how I built my business I wouldn’t be successful I’d be struggling

wouldn’t be successful I’d be struggling

wouldn’t be successful I’d be struggling and so you have to understand what your

and so you have to understand what your

and so you have to understand what your personality is and then design your

personality is and then design your

personality is and then design your business around something that will

business around something that will

business around something that will leverage your strengths just like

leverage your strengths just like

leverage your strengths just like whatever skills you have you know if I

whatever skills you have you know if I

whatever skills you have you know if I try to start a pizza making business it

try to start a pizza making business it

try to start a pizza making business it would suck because I don’t know anything

would suck because I don’t know anything

would suck because I don’t know anything about pizza I don’t know how to make

about pizza I don’t know how to make

about pizza I don’t know how to make pizza I’m not a baker I don’t know any

pizza I’m not a baker I don’t know any

pizza I’m not a baker I don’t know any of that stuff so it would suck but if I

of that stuff so it would suck but if I

of that stuff so it would suck but if I did something more towards my skills I’d

did something more towards my skills I’d

did something more towards my skills I’d have a much higher degree of success and

have a much higher degree of success and

have a much higher degree of success and so just like when you’re thinking about

so just like when you’re thinking about

so just like when you’re thinking about businesses start when you’re thinking

businesses start when you’re thinking

businesses start when you’re thinking about how you’re going to market and how

about how you’re going to market and how

about how you’re going to market and how you’re going to be successful you want

you’re going to be successful you want

you’re going to be successful you want to design the task that you’re working

to design the task that you’re working

to design the task that you’re working on around your personality that fits you

on around your personality that fits you

on around your personality that fits you because I guarantee you if you are going

because I guarantee you if you are going

because I guarantee you if you are going out thinking that I have to have I have

out thinking that I have to have I have

out thinking that I have to have I have to have a solid team of mentors and I

to have a solid team of mentors and I

to have a solid team of mentors and I have to have a big social network for me

have to have a big social network for me

have to have a big social network for me to be successful that’s your mindset and

to be successful that’s your mindset and

to be successful that’s your mindset and you’re not that kind of person to go out

you’re not that kind of person to go out

you’re not that kind of person to go out and do it then you’re not going to be

and do it then you’re not going to be

and do it then you’re not going to be successful other people will go out and

successful other people will go out and

successful other people will go out and do that and the people who you might see

do that and the people who you might see

do that and the people who you might see on TV who are you know they like being

on TV who are you know they like being

on TV who are you know they like being on camera and who are those type-a

on camera and who are those type-a

on camera and who are those type-a personalities those people they’re good

personalities those people they’re good

personalities those people they’re good at those things and so they leverage

at those things and so they leverage

at those things and so they leverage them but they suck at other stuff but

them but they suck at other stuff but

them but they suck at other stuff but they’ve designed their business around

they’ve designed their business around

they’ve designed their business around their personality and they make it work

their personality and they make it work

their personality and they make it work for them this is important so no you

for them this is important so no you

for them this is important so no you don’t have to be a people person but you

don’t have to be a people person but you

don’t have to be a people person but you have to do something you have to take

have to do something you have to take

have to do something you have to take action around something that you’re

action around something that you’re

action around something that you’re really good at and you really enjoy

really good at and you really enjoy

really good at and you really enjoy doing and you

doing and you

doing and you have to have the entrepreneurs mindset

have to have the entrepreneurs mindset

have to have the entrepreneurs mindset believe but those are you watching you

believe but those are you watching you

believe but those are you watching you like the video give it a thumbs up below

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