do you buy will enable connect like the first one ecstasy turn to the person
first one ecstasy turn to the person
first one ecstasy turn to the person next to task would you hold my hand say
next to task would you hold my hand say
next to task would you hold my hand say yes or no give no response
oh great from you that’s a shoulder
oh great from you that’s a shoulder massage
our sin our society who relegated touch
our sin our society who relegated touch for babies small children and lovers as
for babies small children and lovers as
for babies small children and lovers as a professional atonic touch and cuddling
a professional atonic touch and cuddling
a professional atonic touch and cuddling specialists people pay me experience
specialists people pay me experience
specialists people pay me experience price this industry is promoting because
price this industry is promoting because
price this industry is promoting because people are realizing that it’s really
people are realizing that it’s really
people are realizing that it’s really difficult to access atomic touch so what
difficult to access atomic touch so what
difficult to access atomic touch so what sonic touch upon touch to the touch
sonic touch upon touch to the touch
sonic touch upon touch to the touch that’s kind gentle presence and it’s
that’s kind gentle presence and it’s
that’s kind gentle presence and it’s actually absence of romanticism and our
actually absence of romanticism and our
actually absence of romanticism and our sexual intention it’s not the kind of
sexual intention it’s not the kind of
sexual intention it’s not the kind of touch that makes it photonic it’s the
touch that makes it photonic it’s the
touch that makes it photonic it’s the intention behind it so examples right
intention behind it so examples right
intention behind it so examples right what does it look like it’s like
what does it look like it’s like
what does it look like it’s like something you’re doing right now you
something you’re doing right now you
something you’re doing right now you make simple as holding someone’s hand
make simple as holding someone’s hand
make simple as holding someone’s hand all the way up to a full embrace where
all the way up to a full embrace where
all the way up to a full embrace where I’m holding the client and the – and
I’m holding the client and the – and
I’m holding the client and the – and everything in between
everything in between
everything in between touches one of the five fundamental love
touches one of the five fundamental love
touches one of the five fundamental love languages described by dr. Gary Chapman
languages described by dr. Gary Chapman
languages described by dr. Gary Chapman is several violent languages did you
is several violent languages did you
is several violent languages did you know that people can be touched start
know that people can be touched start
know that people can be touched start even in relationships and those not
even in relationships and those not
even in relationships and those not relationships our society as few buddies
relationships our society as few buddies
relationships our society as few buddies must take agent metonic touch not
must take agent metonic touch not
must take agent metonic touch not uncommon for my clients tell me majority
uncommon for my clients tell me majority
uncommon for my clients tell me majority of my clients don’t want anyone to know
of my clients don’t want anyone to know
of my clients don’t want anyone to know that they see me shame feeling that
that they see me shame feeling that
that they see me shame feeling that something is wrong with me you with us
something is wrong with me you with us
something is wrong with me you with us the need permit on touches seen as a
the need permit on touches seen as a
the need permit on touches seen as a weakness not accessible or programmed
weakness not accessible or programmed
weakness not accessible or programmed like why should I pay for something that
like why should I pay for something that
like why should I pay for something that should be free
should be free
should be free we’re ashamed of our lonely ministers
we’re ashamed of our lonely ministers
we’re ashamed of our lonely ministers who worth it may feel impotent to be
who worth it may feel impotent to be
who worth it may feel impotent to be able to meet our touching use at the
able to meet our touching use at the
able to meet our touching use at the same time many of us have experienced
same time many of us have experienced
same time many of us have experienced such that’s not that state appropriate
such that’s not that state appropriate
such that’s not that state appropriate asks for or consensual raise your hand
asks for or consensual raise your hand
asks for or consensual raise your hand if you’re willing if you’ve had one time
if you’re willing if you’ve had one time
if you’re willing if you’ve had one time in your life and experience touch this
in your life and experience touch this
in your life and experience touch this natural state appropriate ask for
natural state appropriate ask for
natural state appropriate ask for consent case some point here is that I
consent case some point here is that I
consent case some point here is that I tell you we all know that one person
tell you we all know that one person
tell you we all know that one person that when they see it they read up to us
that when they see it they read up to us
that when they see it they read up to us and they can simply use and we embrace
and they can simply use and we embrace
and they can simply use and we embrace ourselves and my family is like that I
ourselves and my family is like that I
ourselves and my family is like that I give a kiss on the cheek to every
give a kiss on the cheek to every
give a kiss on the cheek to every relative they see and well this is
relative they see and well this is
relative they see and well this is widely accepted in our culture it’s rare
widely accepted in our culture it’s rare
widely accepted in our culture it’s rare that a lot is offered for a sport it’s
that a lot is offered for a sport it’s
that a lot is offered for a sport it’s expected that everyone wants to be
expected that everyone wants to be
expected that everyone wants to be touched in this way this rule and
touched in this way this rule and
touched in this way this rule and actually this makes touch them attention
actually this makes touch them attention
actually this makes touch them attention less accessible as many of us have our
less accessible as many of us have our
less accessible as many of us have our defenses up types just taken from us not
defenses up types just taken from us not
defenses up types just taken from us not requested for this reason many people
requested for this reason many people
requested for this reason many people think this is what I do
[Music]
[Music] many people can’t imagine what I do
many people can’t imagine what I do
many people can’t imagine what I do because the touch that they’ve received
because the touch that they’ve received
because the touch that they’ve received has not helped but it’s not been
has not helped but it’s not been
has not helped but it’s not been consensual
consensual
consensual we are both afraid initiating the touch
we are both afraid initiating the touch
we are both afraid initiating the touch we don’t trust us and yet here is the
we don’t trust us and yet here is the
we don’t trust us and yet here is the truth about touch it is the first fun
truth about touch it is the first fun
truth about touch it is the first fun experience in the womb and it is the
experience in the womb and it is the
experience in the womb and it is the last sense we keep intact into our very
last sense we keep intact into our very
last sense we keep intact into our very last breath research shows that children
last breath research shows that children
last breath research shows that children they need touch they can thrive without
they need touch they can thrive without
they need touch they can thrive without it and if they don’t have it they can
it and if they don’t have it they can
it and if they don’t have it they can suffer developmental cognitive disorders
suffer developmental cognitive disorders
suffer developmental cognitive disorders I’m here to tell you that we never grow
I’m here to tell you that we never grow
I’m here to tell you that we never grow out of our names were touch again we
out of our names were touch again we
out of our names were touch again we never grow out of our movie or touch
never grow out of our movie or touch
never grow out of our movie or touch it’s essential for living it’s important
it’s essential for living it’s important
it’s essential for living it’s important as the air we breathe and the water we
as the air we breathe and the water we
as the air we breathe and the water we drink in the largest organ in our body
drink in the largest organ in our body
drink in the largest organ in our body was created to be experienced with
was created to be experienced with
was created to be experienced with others so what’s the problem with touch
others so what’s the problem with touch
others so what’s the problem with touch in our society it may ask reasons one in
in our society it may ask reasons one in
in our society it may ask reasons one in five children experience sexual
five children experience sexual
five children experience sexual molestation one in four children are
molestation one in four children are
molestation one in four children are beaten by a parent to the point of marks
beaten by a parent to the point of marks
beaten by a parent to the point of marks being left on their body one in six
being left on their body one in six
being left on their body one in six women survive attempted aggravated
women survive attempted aggravated
women survive attempted aggravated sexual assault and women three couples
sexual assault and women three couples
sexual assault and women three couples engages in physical – injecting this
engages in physical – injecting this
engages in physical – injecting this problem might just teaching them consent
problem might just teaching them consent
problem might just teaching them consent is not going to deplore the problem I’m
is not going to deplore the problem I’m
is not going to deplore the problem I’m here to propose that our touch disease
here to propose that our touch disease
here to propose that our touch disease of touch abuse touch aggression touch
of touch abuse touch aggression touch
of touch abuse touch aggression touch deprivation and touch aversion is
deprivation and touch aversion is
deprivation and touch aversion is requiring an intense touch careful
requiring an intense touch careful
requiring an intense touch careful Tiffany filled the head of the touch
Tiffany filled the head of the touch
Tiffany filled the head of the touch Research Institute that they need a
Research Institute that they need a
Research Institute that they need a versatile and easy Miller School of
versatile and easy Miller School of
versatile and easy Miller School of Medicine has some numerous these on the
Medicine has some numerous these on the
Medicine has some numerous these on the power massage a touch for adults and
power massage a touch for adults and
power massage a touch for adults and children alike I’m just having profound
children alike I’m just having profound
children alike I’m just having profound impact we’re seeing it’s lowering blood
impact we’re seeing it’s lowering blood
impact we’re seeing it’s lowering blood pressure and body inflammation heart
pressure and body inflammation heart
pressure and body inflammation heart rate words the level and many other
rate words the level and many other
rate words the level and many other things as well moving the quality of
things as well moving the quality of
things as well moving the quality of life and that’s what the body what’s
life and that’s what the body what’s
life and that’s what the body what’s going on in the brain for example our
going on in the brain for example our
going on in the brain for example our veterans are experiencing all levels of
veterans are experiencing all levels of
veterans are experiencing all levels of trauma and it’s not uncommon to have
trauma and it’s not uncommon to have
trauma and it’s not uncommon to have touched wrong and while we’ve been
touched wrong and while we’ve been
touched wrong and while we’ve been trying to figure it out that tuck
trying to figure it out that tuck
trying to figure it out that tuck they’re really recognizing that it’s not
they’re really recognizing that it’s not
they’re really recognizing that it’s not enough
enough
enough normal scientific inviting us to you to
normal scientific inviting us to you to
normal scientific inviting us to you to make the brains of meeting their less to
make the brains of meeting their less to
make the brains of meeting their less to speak and what these touch trauma people
speak and what these touch trauma people
speak and what these touch trauma people on we need positive experience that
on we need positive experience that
on we need positive experience that contradict those touch trauma stories
contradict those touch trauma stories
contradict those touch trauma stories that they keep reliving and that’s
that they keep reliving and that’s
that they keep reliving and that’s that’s why I do not give me ask okay
that’s why I do not give me ask okay
that’s why I do not give me ask okay what about the research there is no
what about the research there is no
what about the research there is no research absolutely nothing based on the
research absolutely nothing based on the
research absolutely nothing based on the what I do exactly which is a platonic
what I do exactly which is a platonic
what I do exactly which is a platonic touch and cuddling session where there’s
touch and cuddling session where there’s
touch and cuddling session where there’s a mutual and consensual giving and
a mutual and consensual giving and
a mutual and consensual giving and receiving of touch where communication
receiving of touch where communication
receiving of touch where communication is very important meanwhile how to begin
is very important meanwhile how to begin
is very important meanwhile how to begin to access this is difficult among our
to access this is difficult among our
to access this is difficult among our family and friends I have a single mail
family and friends I have a single mail
family and friends I have a single mail client control
client control
client control and it very clear there’s not a painting
and it very clear there’s not a painting
and it very clear there’s not a painting the touch niece and nephew because
the touch niece and nephew because
the touch niece and nephew because looking these fears around single men
looking these fears around single men
looking these fears around single men touch and such a tease although sexual
touch and such a tease although sexual
touch and such a tease although sexual deuce are definitely is a real concern
deuce are definitely is a real concern
deuce are definitely is a real concern when he heard that he immediately shut
when he heard that he immediately shut
when he heard that he immediately shut himself down the sons never get to touch
himself down the sons never get to touch
himself down the sons never get to touch anyone ever again in his family we don’t
anyone ever again in his family we don’t
anyone ever again in his family we don’t trust men that they are able to engage
trust men that they are able to engage
trust men that they are able to engage in Catan in touch and I’ll tell you that
in Catan in touch and I’ll tell you that
in Catan in touch and I’ll tell you that that the men tell me that they don’t
that the men tell me that they don’t
that the men tell me that they don’t think they can do either so how do we do
think they can do either so how do we do
think they can do either so how do we do it how we begin to break the type of
it how we begin to break the type of
it how we begin to break the type of touch baggage our communities raise your
touch baggage our communities raise your
touch baggage our communities raise your hand if you are getting all the touch
hand if you are getting all the touch
hand if you are getting all the touch that you want to need to thrive in life
there is indeed a platonic touch and
there is indeed a platonic touch and cuddling session this any more intensive
cuddling session this any more intensive
cuddling session this any more intensive protocol that I created called the
protocol that I created called the
protocol that I created called the rehabilitative touch there this is a
rehabilitative touch there this is a
rehabilitative touch there this is a woman where I can look like some of my
woman where I can look like some of my
woman where I can look like some of my clients is desired name Richard and have
clients is desired name Richard and have
clients is desired name Richard and have that connection in that moment in that
that connection in that moment in that
that connection in that moment in that they recognize it back but this all
they recognize it back but this all
they recognize it back but this all stems from a need that was broken and
stems from a need that was broken and
stems from a need that was broken and non-existent on with their mother or a
non-existent on with their mother or a
non-existent on with their mother or a parent under the cleanser playful and in
parent under the cleanser playful and in
parent under the cleanser playful and in self-discovery
self-discovery
self-discovery but then that you can figure out who
but then that you can figure out who
but then that you can figure out who they are touches an exploration while
they are touches an exploration while
they are touches an exploration while others feel shame about their bodies and
others feel shame about their bodies and
others feel shame about their bodies and about themselves and my Nana has met
about themselves and my Nana has met
about themselves and my Nana has met some presence in touch they’re able to
some presence in touch they’re able to
some presence in touch they’re able to see that shame and begin to release them
see that shame and begin to release them
see that shame and begin to release them to the pair okay but the majority of my
to the pair okay but the majority of my
to the pair okay but the majority of my clients are burned out the overworked
clients are burned out the overworked
clients are burned out the overworked overstressed and over dull team they
overstressed and over dull team they
overstressed and over dull team they just want a moment where they can be
just want a moment where they can be
just want a moment where they can be free from responsibilities and space
free from responsibilities and space
free from responsibilities and space accepting and nurturing there are no
accepting and nurturing there are no
accepting and nurturing there are no expectations no pressure
expectations no pressure
expectations no pressure and you know performance required trauma
and you know performance required trauma
and you know performance required trauma and heartbreak had happened in any age
and heartbreak had happened in any age
and heartbreak had happened in any age oftentimes of our language just go
oftentimes of our language just go
oftentimes of our language just go online not all of our memories are
online not all of our memories are
online not all of our memories are stored in our brain our bodies have
stored in our brain our bodies have
stored in our brain our bodies have these stores of
these stores of
these stores of when a person experiences a savings my
when a person experiences a savings my
when a person experiences a savings my stay in touch
stay in touch
stay in touch those emotions come to the surface can
those emotions come to the surface can
those emotions come to the surface can be released
be released
be released sometimes in tears now I know what
sometimes in tears now I know what
sometimes in tears now I know what you’re thinking
you’re thinking
you’re thinking I have perspective things that say I
I have perspective things that say I
I have perspective things that say I don’t know about that I don’t think you
don’t know about that I don’t think you
don’t know about that I don’t think you could have touched without flexible
could have touched without flexible
could have touched without flexible intention I remind that healthy
intention I remind that healthy
intention I remind that healthy relationships long for time they can be
relationships long for time they can be
relationships long for time they can be mutually giving in this period of
mutually giving in this period of
mutually giving in this period of pledged or no sexes are water
pledged or no sexes are water
pledged or no sexes are water just being together the sad irony is a
just being together the sad irony is a
just being together the sad irony is a same clients once they reach retirement
same clients once they reach retirement
same clients once they reach retirement age all they want to do is cuddle with
age all they want to do is cuddle with
age all they want to do is cuddle with their lives and why was one nothing to
their lives and why was one nothing to
their lives and why was one nothing to do with it I think there’s a touch of a
do with it I think there’s a touch of a
do with it I think there’s a touch of a trail I think the trust has been broken
trail I think the trust has been broken
trail I think the trust has been broken it’s not uncommon to me that the mind
it’s not uncommon to me that the mind
it’s not uncommon to me that the mind that has ten to twenty years in the
that has ten to twenty years in the
that has ten to twenty years in the marriage with absolutely no cuts
marriage with absolutely no cuts
marriage with absolutely no cuts sometimes for years without sex we have
sometimes for years without sex we have
sometimes for years without sex we have an epidemic of touch deprivation so
an epidemic of touch deprivation so
an epidemic of touch deprivation so let’s see if anyone’s still holding
let’s see if anyone’s still holding
let’s see if anyone’s still holding hands
what if that’s how to touch the safe hmm
what if that’s how to touch the safe hmm what if time touch was natural what is a
what if time touch was natural what is a
what if time touch was natural what is a tonic touch was appropriate what if the
tonic touch was appropriate what if the
tonic touch was appropriate what if the time touch was welcome
time touch was welcome
time touch was welcome what if Vuitton touch was asked for
what if Vuitton touch was asked for
what if Vuitton touch was asked for offered consensual the first step is
offered consensual the first step is
offered consensual the first step is believing that this is possible at the
believing that this is possible at the
believing that this is possible at the beginning I asked you to connect with
beginning I asked you to connect with
beginning I asked you to connect with the person next to you not sure what
the person next to you not sure what
the person next to you not sure what your life could look like you can
your life could look like you can
your life could look like you can continue to send out these connections
continue to send out these connections
continue to send out these connections are you brave enough to do this so let’s
connect up your neighbor and ask would
connect up your neighbor and ask would you give me a hug
you give me a hug
you give me a hug yes and no are appropriate responses
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