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Winning From Last Place | Jeff Hobbs | TEDxDavenport


[Music]

[Music] you know what it’s like to feel

you know what it’s like to feel

you know what it’s like to feel misunderstood you know you say the same

misunderstood you know you say the same

misunderstood you know you say the same thing four different times in five

thing four different times in five

thing four different times in five different languages but nothing is

different languages but nothing is

different languages but nothing is getting through that’s how I feel every

getting through that’s how I feel every

getting through that’s how I feel every single day both in society and in my own

single day both in society and in my own

single day both in society and in my own body you see I was born with spastic

body you see I was born with spastic

body you see I was born with spastic cerebral palsy spastic cerebral palsy is

cerebral palsy spastic cerebral palsy is

cerebral palsy spastic cerebral palsy is an injury at birth that that affects the

an injury at birth that that affects the

an injury at birth that that affects the mind that it injures to the brain and it

mind that it injures to the brain and it

mind that it injures to the brain and it affects muscle movement so my muscles

affects muscle movement so my muscles

affects muscle movement so my muscles are very rigid so it affects the way

are very rigid so it affects the way

are very rigid so it affects the way that I walk my mobility the one thing

that I walk my mobility the one thing

that I walk my mobility the one thing that kept me inspired to do more even

that kept me inspired to do more even

that kept me inspired to do more even though my most physical even though my

though my most physical even though my

though my most physical even though my biggest challenges were physical that

biggest challenges were physical that

biggest challenges were physical that included surgeries where they cut

included surgeries where they cut

included surgeries where they cut lengthened and transferred muscles and

lengthened and transferred muscles and

lengthened and transferred muscles and decades of occupational physical therapy

decades of occupational physical therapy

decades of occupational physical therapy it didn’t matter because you just get

it didn’t matter because you just get

it didn’t matter because you just get through it whatever comes at us you just

through it whatever comes at us you just

through it whatever comes at us you just find a way to overcome now

find a way to overcome now

find a way to overcome now what kept me going above everything else

what kept me going above everything else

what kept me going above everything else was my escape my escape when I wasn’t in

was my escape my escape when I wasn’t in

was my escape my escape when I wasn’t in the hospital my escape of sports I

the hospital my escape of sports I

the hospital my escape of sports I wanted to be an athlete I would go home

wanted to be an athlete I would go home

wanted to be an athlete I would go home and I throw my book bag as a

and I throw my book bag as a

and I throw my book bag as a ten-year-old against the against of the

ten-year-old against the against of the

ten-year-old against the against of the door my mom loved that

door my mom loved that

door my mom loved that and I would turn on a game and I admired

and I would turn on a game and I admired

and I would turn on a game and I admired my favorite athlete celebrating after a

my favorite athlete celebrating after a

my favorite athlete celebrating after a win and I wanted to be just like them

win and I wanted to be just like them

win and I wanted to be just like them this is the first time I felt the taste

this is the first time I felt the taste

this is the first time I felt the taste of competition this is Little League

of competition this is Little League

of competition this is Little League baseball and I’m 10 years old I’m at bad

baseball and I’m 10 years old I’m at bad

baseball and I’m 10 years old I’m at bad I’m taking my cuts and the first pitch

I’m taking my cuts and the first pitch

I’m taking my cuts and the first pitch I’m a little bit behind I should be

I’m a little bit behind I should be

I’m a little bit behind I should be better at that but the second pitch I

better at that but the second pitch I

better at that but the second pitch I made great contact and what I’m thinking

made great contact and what I’m thinking

made great contact and what I’m thinking is I just got to get to first base you

is I just got to get to first base you

is I just got to get to first base you can’t score until you get to first base

can’t score until you get to first base

can’t score until you get to first base and Here I am heading home and as I hit

and Here I am heading home and as I hit

and Here I am heading home and as I hit home plate I feel like we just won the

home plate I feel like we just won the

home plate I feel like we just won the ironic thing about that was at that age

ironic thing about that was at that age

ironic thing about that was at that age you’re not keeping score now if I were

you’re not keeping score now if I were

you’re not keeping score now if I were to tell you that two weeks prior to this

to tell you that two weeks prior to this

to tell you that two weeks prior to this I wasn’t supposed to be there when my

I wasn’t supposed to be there when my

I wasn’t supposed to be there when my own mother signed me up to play Little

own mother signed me up to play Little

own mother signed me up to play Little League baseball the literally committee

League baseball the literally committee

League baseball the literally committee everyone in which we knew who was on

everyone in which we knew who was on

everyone in which we knew who was on that literally committee said we don’t

that literally committee said we don’t

that literally committee said we don’t want Jeff to play they made my mom get

want Jeff to play they made my mom get

want Jeff to play they made my mom get three separate waivers meaning she had

three separate waivers meaning she had

three separate waivers meaning she had to take off work three separate times

to take off work three separate times

to take off work three separate times one for a physical therapist one for a

one for a physical therapist one for a

one for a physical therapist one for a surgeon and then one to get signed from

surgeon and then one to get signed from

surgeon and then one to get signed from the Little League lawyer what kind of

the Little League lawyer what kind of

the Little League lawyer what kind of what kind of Little League has wires oh

what kind of Little League has wires oh

what kind of Little League has wires oh that’s pretty impressive to begin with

that’s pretty impressive to begin with

that’s pretty impressive to begin with but the the last call was my mom and the

but the the last call was my mom and the

but the the last call was my mom and the Little League lawyer on the phone and

Little League lawyer on the phone and

Little League lawyer on the phone and the lawyer says to my mom sherry

the lawyer says to my mom sherry

the lawyer says to my mom sherry we’re just looking out for your son we

we’re just looking out for your son we

we’re just looking out for your son we don’t want him to get hurt and her

don’t want him to get hurt and her

don’t want him to get hurt and her response was and you think I do

response was and you think I do

response was and you think I do you’re hurting him in a way that will

you’re hurting him in a way that will

you’re hurting him in a way that will affect him for the rest of his life now

affect him for the rest of his life now

affect him for the rest of his life now fast forward three months later fifth

fast forward three months later fifth

fast forward three months later fifth grade intramural basketball we’re

grade intramural basketball we’re

grade intramural basketball we’re wearing our PE uniforms now only five

wearing our PE uniforms now only five

wearing our PE uniforms now only five people can start and I wasn’t one of the

people can start and I wasn’t one of the

people can start and I wasn’t one of the starters but that didn’t bother me

starters but that didn’t bother me

starters but that didn’t bother me because everybody’s supposed to get

because everybody’s supposed to get

because everybody’s supposed to get close to equal playing time but as the

close to equal playing time but as the

close to equal playing time but as the first quarter went by and I still wasn’t

first quarter went by and I still wasn’t

first quarter went by and I still wasn’t in and the second quarter went by and I

in and the second quarter went by and I

in and the second quarter went by and I still wasn’t in at this time I’m

still wasn’t in at this time I’m

still wasn’t in at this time I’m thinking man my legs are really fresh

thinking man my legs are really fresh

thinking man my legs are really fresh for the second half I bet I play a lot

for the second half I bet I play a lot

for the second half I bet I play a lot but as a third quarter went by and I

but as a third quarter went by and I

but as a third quarter went by and I still didn’t get in now I’m thinking

still didn’t get in now I’m thinking

still didn’t get in now I’m thinking okay is the watercooler going to get in

okay is the watercooler going to get in

okay is the watercooler going to get in before I do and with three seconds left

before I do and with three seconds left

before I do and with three seconds left my coach calls timeout he says Hobbs get

my coach calls timeout he says Hobbs get

my coach calls timeout he says Hobbs get in the game my teammates inbound the

in the game my teammates inbound the

in the game my teammates inbound the ball I never touched it three two one

ball I never touched it three two one

ball I never touched it three two one buzzer games over I get in line and we

buzzer games over I get in line and we

buzzer games over I get in line and we shake hands and go home and I remember

shake hands and go home and I remember

shake hands and go home and I remember being that 10 year old kid thinking

being that 10 year old kid thinking

being that 10 year old kid thinking sitting on the end of the bench knowing

sitting on the end of the bench knowing

sitting on the end of the bench knowing whether it was Little League or

whether it was Little League or

whether it was Little League or intramural basketball the one common

intramural basketball the one common

intramural basketball the one common theme I wasn’t wanted things would

theme I wasn’t wanted things would

theme I wasn’t wanted things would change though I managed junior high

change though I managed junior high

change though I managed junior high baseball but what I really wanted to be

baseball but what I really wanted to be

baseball but what I really wanted to be like those athletes that I looked up to

like those athletes that I looked up to

like those athletes that I looked up to on TV well my opportunity was gonna come

on TV well my opportunity was gonna come

on TV well my opportunity was gonna come in my hometown if you go out for

in my hometown if you go out for

in my hometown if you go out for football there’s no cuts that means if

football there’s no cuts that means if

football there’s no cuts that means if you’re breathing

if you’re breathing you can play and I

if you’re breathing you can play and I thought hey I checked checked my paws

thought hey I checked checked my paws

thought hey I checked checked my paws I’m breathing so I’m good to go and on

I’m breathing so I’m good to go and on

I’m breathing so I’m good to go and on the last day at Camp I’m super excited

the last day at Camp I’m super excited

the last day at Camp I’m super excited because of the disappointments that had

because of the disappointments that had

because of the disappointments that had led to this moment and as I’m standing

led to this moment and as I’m standing

led to this moment and as I’m standing in line I’m thinking of celebrating with

in line I’m thinking of celebrating with

in line I’m thinking of celebrating with my teammates scoring their first such

my teammates scoring their first such

my teammates scoring their first such town putting on the jersey for the first

town putting on the jersey for the first

town putting on the jersey for the first time running onto that field and of

time running onto that field and of

time running onto that field and of course on Friday afternoon what lucky

course on Friday afternoon what lucky

course on Friday afternoon what lucky girl is going to be able to wear my

girl is going to be able to wear my

girl is going to be able to wear my Jersey when all of a sudden the head

Jersey when all of a sudden the head

Jersey when all of a sudden the head coach out of the equipment room as I’m

coach out of the equipment room as I’m

coach out of the equipment room as I’m waiting in mind fantasizing about all of

waiting in mind fantasizing about all of

waiting in mind fantasizing about all of this says hey Hobbes

this says hey Hobbes

this says hey Hobbes I’m thinking ah he probably wants to

I’m thinking ah he probably wants to

I’m thinking ah he probably wants to know what position I want to play or

know what position I want to play or

know what position I want to play or what number I want we can’t give you a

what number I want we can’t give you a

what number I want we can’t give you a home in pads without a doctor’s note

home in pads without a doctor’s note

home in pads without a doctor’s note immediately

immediately

immediately I dropped my head and I remembered

I dropped my head and I remembered

I dropped my head and I remembered something crucial in my life my mom had

something crucial in my life my mom had

something crucial in my life my mom had told me earlier on that you never talked

told me earlier on that you never talked

told me earlier on that you never talked back to an adult so I stepped out of

back to an adult so I stepped out of

back to an adult so I stepped out of line and I walked to where my mom was to

line and I walked to where my mom was to

line and I walked to where my mom was to pick me up and I still remember to this

pick me up and I still remember to this

pick me up and I still remember to this day the gravel underneath my feet how it

day the gravel underneath my feet how it

day the gravel underneath my feet how it felt the moment that sticks with me is I

felt the moment that sticks with me is I

felt the moment that sticks with me is I open the passenger side view Pastner

open the passenger side view Pastner

open the passenger side view Pastner side door and I go to get in to sit down

side door and I go to get in to sit down

side door and I go to get in to sit down the first thing I notice is my mom

the first thing I notice is my mom

the first thing I notice is my mom looking out the driver’s side window in

looking out the driver’s side window in

looking out the driver’s side window in her hands are shaking uncontrollably she

her hands are shaking uncontrollably she

her hands are shaking uncontrollably she turns to me as I shut the door

turns to me as I shut the door

turns to me as I shut the door and she says Geoffrey I’m sorry baby but

and she says Geoffrey I’m sorry baby but

and she says Geoffrey I’m sorry baby but I can’t do this anymore I can’t say you

I can’t do this anymore I can’t say you

I can’t do this anymore I can’t say you constantly get your heart broken like I

constantly get your heart broken like I

constantly get your heart broken like I can’t do this it’s killing me

can’t do this it’s killing me

can’t do this it’s killing me and the toughest moment was when we

and the toughest moment was when we

and the toughest moment was when we pulled out

pulled out

pulled out of that parking lot out of my

of that parking lot out of my

of that parking lot out of my passenger-side window the one thing I

passenger-side window the one thing I

passenger-side window the one thing I remember was my freshman classmates

remember was my freshman classmates

remember was my freshman classmates being freshmen throwing their helmets in

being freshmen throwing their helmets in

being freshmen throwing their helmets in the air laughing with their friends it

the air laughing with their friends it

the air laughing with their friends it taught me a tough moment a real moment

taught me a tough moment a real moment

taught me a tough moment a real moment that just because my mom and I are

that just because my mom and I are

that just because my mom and I are crying in the car doesn’t mean that life

crying in the car doesn’t mean that life

crying in the car doesn’t mean that life stops and they should they should have

stops and they should they should have

stops and they should they should have been happy that was their moment but I

been happy that was their moment but I

been happy that was their moment but I was crushed

was crushed

was crushed so I decided on the way home to have a

so I decided on the way home to have a

so I decided on the way home to have a master plan to make a change in my life

master plan to make a change in my life

master plan to make a change in my life and the next day I ran the hallways I I

and the next day I ran the hallways I I

and the next day I ran the hallways I I said mom don’t pick me up at 3 o’clock

said mom don’t pick me up at 3 o’clock

said mom don’t pick me up at 3 o’clock cuz I’m not gonna be ready she was like

cuz I’m not gonna be ready she was like

cuz I’m not gonna be ready she was like what my goal was to run 30 minutes in

what my goal was to run 30 minutes in

what my goal was to run 30 minutes in that hallway my goal was just was to

that hallway my goal was just was to

that hallway my goal was just was to have those football coaches that were

have those football coaches that were

have those football coaches that were coaching outside see me running the

coaching outside see me running the

coaching outside see me running the halls and then have a change of heart

halls and then have a change of heart

halls and then have a change of heart and put me on the team I did this for

and put me on the team I did this for

and put me on the team I did this for two years

two years

two years Monday through Friday every day if I had

Monday through Friday every day if I had

Monday through Friday every day if I had served if I had therapy in the afternoon

served if I had therapy in the afternoon

served if I had therapy in the afternoon I would do this in the morning and over

I would do this in the morning and over

I would do this in the morning and over time I found this confidence is

time I found this confidence is

time I found this confidence is unwavering confidence that I could not

unwavering confidence that I could not

unwavering confidence that I could not be shaken well two years later my life

be shaken well two years later my life

be shaken well two years later my life changed when the cross-country coach

changed when the cross-country coach

changed when the cross-country coach came up to me and says hey Hobbs I’ve

came up to me and says hey Hobbs I’ve

came up to me and says hey Hobbs I’ve been noticing you’ve been running the

been noticing you’ve been running the

been noticing you’ve been running the halls a lot would you be would you be in

halls a lot would you be would you be in

halls a lot would you be would you be in a row and it rested run across country

a row and it rested run across country

a row and it rested run across country and immediately honestly I took a step

and immediately honestly I took a step

and immediately honestly I took a step back and thought what the hell are you

back and thought what the hell are you

back and thought what the hell are you thinking

thinking

thinking [Laughter]

[Laughter]

[Laughter] and then of course my second thought was

and then of course my second thought was

and then of course my second thought was I’d love to put on new jersey and

I’d love to put on new jersey and

I’d love to put on new jersey and compete I ran two years of cross-country

compete I ran two years of cross-country

compete I ran two years of cross-country in two years in track and I and I want

in two years in track and I and I want

in two years in track and I and I want to say that my workouts were no

to say that my workouts were no

to say that my workouts were no different than anybody else if they had

different than anybody else if they had

different than anybody else if they had to run five miles I had run five miles

to run five miles I had run five miles

to run five miles I had run five miles and I wouldn’t I wouldn’t have felt any

and I wouldn’t I wouldn’t have felt any

and I wouldn’t I wouldn’t have felt any better I didn’t want any way out I had

better I didn’t want any way out I had

better I didn’t want any way out I had to do this for me and this is my last

to do this for me and this is my last

to do this for me and this is my last race as a senior in high school as a

race as a senior in high school as a

race as a senior in high school as a two-mile race I finish this race in 18

two-mile race I finish this race in 18

two-mile race I finish this race in 18 minutes but I think you’ll notice me if

minutes but I think you’ll notice me if

minutes but I think you’ll notice me if you keep watching we all take off at the

you keep watching we all take off at the

you keep watching we all take off at the same time by the way

oh wait this thing it’s got a pan baby

oh wait this thing it’s got a pan baby there you go come on now I gotta stay

there you go come on now I gotta stay

there you go come on now I gotta stay with him you can’t make me emotional

so this felt great

so this felt great this felt amazing I felt free I felt

this felt amazing I felt free I felt

this felt amazing I felt free I felt vindicated and most importantly I wanted

vindicated and most importantly I wanted

vindicated and most importantly I wanted to make my mom and my coach proud but I

to make my mom and my coach proud but I

to make my mom and my coach proud but I got greedy I didn’t want to just compete

got greedy I didn’t want to just compete

got greedy I didn’t want to just compete I wanted to push myself I wanted to

I wanted to push myself I wanted to

I wanted to push myself I wanted to become more and running was great but I

become more and running was great but I

become more and running was great but I wanted to set goals that nobody thought

wanted to set goals that nobody thought

wanted to set goals that nobody thought was possible so I was going to do that

was possible so I was going to do that

was possible so I was going to do that my next goal was to run the Chicago

my next goal was to run the Chicago

my next goal was to run the Chicago Marathon and when I saw a sports

Marathon and when I saw a sports

Marathon and when I saw a sports physician he sat me down after looking

physician he sat me down after looking

physician he sat me down after looking at me for five minutes

he said there’s no way you’re gonna be

he said there’s no way you’re gonna be able to do this you want to get to the

able to do this you want to get to the

able to do this you want to get to the starting line and I looked at him and

starting line and I looked at him and

starting line and I looked at him and he’s sitting across the room probably

he’s sitting across the room probably

he’s sitting across the room probably for a good reason and I said with your

for a good reason and I said with your

for a good reason and I said with your help or without it I’m gonna do this

help or without it I’m gonna do this

help or without it I’m gonna do this zero percent of people with spastic

zero percent of people with spastic

zero percent of people with spastic cerebral palsy had ever done it but you

cerebral palsy had ever done it but you

cerebral palsy had ever done it but you know how much I cared about those

know how much I cared about those

know how much I cared about those statistics zero percent

now to give you an idea the average

now to give you an idea the average runner takes fifty two thousand four

runner takes fifty two thousand four

runner takes fifty two thousand four hundred steps to complete a marathon for

hundred steps to complete a marathon for

hundred steps to complete a marathon for me with my muscle tightness and the

me with my muscle tightness and the

me with my muscle tightness and the tug-of-war that we were talking about it

tug-of-war that we were talking about it

tug-of-war that we were talking about it would take me two hundred nine thousand

would take me two hundred nine thousand

would take me two hundred nine thousand six hundred steps but guess where I was

six hundred steps but guess where I was

six hundred steps but guess where I was this is me at Mile two of the Chicago

this is me at Mile two of the Chicago

this is me at Mile two of the Chicago Marathon now everything’s going well I’m

Marathon now everything’s going well I’m

Marathon now everything’s going well I’m at a good pace unfortunately I’m off

at a good pace unfortunately I’m off

at a good pace unfortunately I’m off five I tore my tendon that runs runs

five I tore my tendon that runs runs

five I tore my tendon that runs runs underneath my foot so from mile five

underneath my foot so from mile five

underneath my foot so from mile five until my eleven I’m literally just

until my eleven I’m literally just

until my eleven I’m literally just limping but my mentality is you can push

limping but my mentality is you can push

limping but my mentality is you can push through anything in life the pivotal

through anything in life the pivotal

through anything in life the pivotal moment was my high school coach that I

moment was my high school coach that I

moment was my high school coach that I talked about earlier who I wanted to

talked about earlier who I wanted to

talked about earlier who I wanted to make proud at the 11 mile mark everybody

make proud at the 11 mile mark everybody

make proud at the 11 mile mark everybody knew I wasn’t going to quit and he found

knew I wasn’t going to quit and he found

knew I wasn’t going to quit and he found me at this time during the race and he

me at this time during the race and he

me at this time during the race and he he comes up by me and he whispers

he comes up by me and he whispers

he comes up by me and he whispers something to me and he says Jeff you

something to me and he says Jeff you

something to me and he says Jeff you know how proud of proud of you I am you

know how proud of proud of you I am you

know how proud of proud of you I am you have nothing to prove to me I said

have nothing to prove to me I said

have nothing to prove to me I said thanks coach but I continued right and

thanks coach but I continued right and

thanks coach but I continued right and many whispers in my ear there’s an

many whispers in my ear there’s an

many whispers in my ear there’s an there’s toughness and there’s

there’s toughness and there’s

there’s toughness and there’s intelligent toughness and if you

intelligent toughness and if you

intelligent toughness and if you continue to go on you may never walk

continue to go on you may never walk

continue to go on you may never walk again

again

again so at the mall at the 12 and 1/2 mile

so at the mall at the 12 and 1/2 mile

so at the mall at the 12 and 1/2 mile mark Here I am with my medical staff

mark Here I am with my medical staff

mark Here I am with my medical staff they sat down and they said you you

they sat down and they said you you

they sat down and they said you you can’t continue there’s your body you’ll

can’t continue there’s your body you’ll

can’t continue there’s your body you’ll you’ll never walk again

you’ll never walk again

you’ll never walk again you’ll never respond the same you’ll

you’ll never respond the same you’ll

you’ll never respond the same you’ll never have a chance of this again and I

never have a chance of this again and I

never have a chance of this again and I looked at them dead in the eyes and said

looked at them dead in the eyes and said

looked at them dead in the eyes and said because I’ve never quite a race I’ve

because I’ve never quite a race I’ve

because I’ve never quite a race I’ve never

never

never practice I told them if you’re willing

practice I told them if you’re willing

practice I told them if you’re willing to train me again we’ll call it a day

to train me again we’ll call it a day

to train me again we’ll call it a day they both agreed and that’s exactly what

they both agreed and that’s exactly what

they both agreed and that’s exactly what I’m gonna do now it was it was crushing

I’m gonna do now it was it was crushing

I’m gonna do now it was it was crushing because I’m not a guy that’s in the

because I’m not a guy that’s in the

because I’m not a guy that’s in the moral victories I’m not a guy at all

moral victories I’m not a guy at all

moral victories I’m not a guy at all more victories I don’t need them they

more victories I don’t need them they

more victories I don’t need them they don’t make me feel good but looking back

don’t make me feel good but looking back

don’t make me feel good but looking back on what was accomplished I finished a

on what was accomplished I finished a

on what was accomplished I finished a hundred thousand steps a day that’s 50

hundred thousand steps a day that’s 50

hundred thousand steps a day that’s 50 miles and I did eight of it which

miles and I did eight of it which

miles and I did eight of it which equates to 32 miles on the torn tendon

sometimes I don’t think we equate

sometimes I don’t think we equate failure with not reaching that point but

failure with not reaching that point but

failure with not reaching that point but we learned so many things along the way

we learned so many things along the way

we learned so many things along the way and what I learned stems back to my

and what I learned stems back to my

and what I learned stems back to my first race I fell in my very first

first race I fell in my very first

first race I fell in my very first cross-country race three times and I cut

cross-country race three times and I cut

cross-country race three times and I cut my elbow open so bad that there was

my elbow open so bad that there was

my elbow open so bad that there was blood rushing down it and of course as I

blood rushing down it and of course as I

blood rushing down it and of course as I crawled back up to my feet I finished

crawled back up to my feet I finished

crawled back up to my feet I finished the race I finished races with stress

the race I finished races with stress

the race I finished races with stress fractures and before the marathon I had

fractures and before the marathon I had

fractures and before the marathon I had a double lung collapse

a double lung collapse

a double lung collapse the point is by not quitting by never

the point is by not quitting by never

the point is by not quitting by never giving up

giving up

giving up it puts ourself in a position that

it puts ourself in a position that

it puts ourself in a position that somebody’s opinion of you and what your

somebody’s opinion of you and what your

somebody’s opinion of you and what your potential can be doesn’t mean a dang

potential can be doesn’t mean a dang

potential can be doesn’t mean a dang thing all I can do is help you whether

thing all I can do is help you whether

thing all I can do is help you whether it’s doctors whether it’s coaches

it’s doctors whether it’s coaches

it’s doctors whether it’s coaches whoever it is in your life that trying

whoever it is in your life that trying

whoever it is in your life that trying to put you down there’s one thing that

to put you down there’s one thing that

to put you down there’s one thing that takes care of all that meant by not

takes care of all that meant by not

takes care of all that meant by not quitting I found my authentic self by

quitting I found my authentic self by

quitting I found my authentic self by not quitting and I implore you today to

not quitting and I implore you today to

not quitting and I implore you today to find out what the goals are that are

find out what the goals are that are

find out what the goals are that are closest to your heart not what somebody

closest to your heart not what somebody

closest to your heart not what somebody else thinks you should do but the things

else thinks you should do but the things

else thinks you should do but the things that you know that if you passed away

that you know that if you passed away

that you know that if you passed away that you Luke you would look back

that you Luke you would look back

that you Luke you would look back and regret that you didn’t take care of

and regret that you didn’t take care of

and regret that you didn’t take care of that’s what I want you to do for you and

that’s what I want you to do for you and

that’s what I want you to do for you and by doing that whether it’s being a

by doing that whether it’s being a

by doing that whether it’s being a better parent whether it’s setting a

better parent whether it’s setting a

better parent whether it’s setting a goal well they’re just showing more

goal well they’re just showing more

goal well they’re just showing more compassion or being open minded it’s all

compassion or being open minded it’s all

compassion or being open minded it’s all there and the greatest part about not

there and the greatest part about not

there and the greatest part about not quitting it keeps you in the game and it

quitting it keeps you in the game and it

quitting it keeps you in the game and it always gives you a chance and that’s how

always gives you a chance and that’s how

always gives you a chance and that’s how it doesn’t matter if you end up in first

it doesn’t matter if you end up in first

it doesn’t matter if you end up in first place or last place that’s how we all

place or last place that’s how we all

place or last place that’s how we all win together thank you

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