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Creating the Human Library:Fighting taboos & stigma through dialogue | Ronni Abergel | TEDxBucharest


my name is Ronnie and I’m here to share

my name is Ronnie and I’m here to share with you today a little bit about the

with you today a little bit about the

with you today a little bit about the human library I don’t know how many of

human library I don’t know how many of

human library I don’t know how many of you heard of us before we’ve been around

you heard of us before we’ve been around

you heard of us before we’ve been around for a while because 17 years ago me and

for a while because 17 years ago me and

for a while because 17 years ago me and my colleagues from stop the violence in

my colleagues from stop the violence in

my colleagues from stop the violence in Denmark decided we were gonna try and

Denmark decided we were gonna try and

Denmark decided we were gonna try and create a safe space where we could

create a safe space where we could

create a safe space where we could challenge stigma and stereotypes through

challenge stigma and stereotypes through

challenge stigma and stereotypes through dialogue a place where you could walk in

dialogue a place where you could walk in

dialogue a place where you could walk in borrow a human being and talk to them

borrow a human being and talk to them

borrow a human being and talk to them about a very challenging topic ideally

about a very challenging topic ideally

about a very challenging topic ideally we wanted people to talk about issues

we wanted people to talk about issues

we wanted people to talk about issues that they normally would not talk about

that they normally would not talk about

that they normally would not talk about or potentially don’t like to talk about

or potentially don’t like to talk about

or potentially don’t like to talk about but that we need to talk about I came

but that we need to talk about I came

but that we need to talk about I came here today to share with you our idea

here today to share with you our idea

here today to share with you our idea the idea that we could sit together and

the idea that we could sit together and

the idea that we could sit together and talk openly about taboos and stigma that

talk openly about taboos and stigma that

talk openly about taboos and stigma that we could be courageous meet someone a

we could be courageous meet someone a

we could be courageous meet someone a complete stranger and share a moment

complete stranger and share a moment

complete stranger and share a moment with them that’s what we’re trying to do

with them that’s what we’re trying to do

with them that’s what we’re trying to do now we try to publish people you could

now we try to publish people you could

now we try to publish people you could say as open books they volunteer they

say as open books they volunteer they

say as open books they volunteer they come to us they say I have experience

come to us they say I have experience

come to us they say I have experience with being a refugee I have experience

with being a refugee I have experience

with being a refugee I have experience being transgender I have experience

being transgender I have experience

being transgender I have experience being Jewish Muslim bipolar

being Jewish Muslim bipolar

being Jewish Muslim bipolar pansexual living with an eating disorder

pansexual living with an eating disorder

pansexual living with an eating disorder all of these are issues that could be

all of these are issues that could be

all of these are issues that could be difficult and challenging to talk about

difficult and challenging to talk about

difficult and challenging to talk about in many societies and so we put them on

in many societies and so we put them on

in many societies and so we put them on a bookshelf and host an event similar to

a bookshelf and host an event similar to

a bookshelf and host an event similar to the Ted where we get to inspire and

the Ted where we get to inspire and

the Ted where we get to inspire and learn from each other and it’s a safe

learn from each other and it’s a safe

learn from each other and it’s a safe space to ask questions the human library

space to ask questions the human library

space to ask questions the human library really is a place where personal stories

really is a place where personal stories

really is a place where personal stories and experiences come together and

and experiences come together and

and experiences come together and you become a reader just like a real

you become a reader just like a real

you become a reader just like a real library you go you take the book you

library you go you take the book you

library you go you take the book you want and basically we have a lot of

want and basically we have a lot of

want and basically we have a lot of great books we call them bestsellers but

great books we call them bestsellers but

great books we call them bestsellers but on our bookshelf we carry people from

on our bookshelf we carry people from

on our bookshelf we carry people from all kinds of backgrounds social stigma

all kinds of backgrounds social stigma

all kinds of backgrounds social stigma admission gender sexuality lifestyle and

admission gender sexuality lifestyle and

admission gender sexuality lifestyle and I wanted to show you this one of our

I wanted to show you this one of our

I wanted to show you this one of our bestsellers the body modified this is a

bestsellers the body modified this is a

bestsellers the body modified this is a lifestyle topic where our bestseller

lifestyle topic where our bestseller

lifestyle topic where our bestseller here volunteered to answer any question

here volunteered to answer any question

here volunteered to answer any question you want to know about why I decided to

you want to know about why I decided to

you want to know about why I decided to look this way and maybe if you saw him

look this way and maybe if you saw him

look this way and maybe if you saw him on the street you wouldn’t feel

on the street you wouldn’t feel

on the street you wouldn’t feel comfortable or secure walking over there

comfortable or secure walking over there

comfortable or secure walking over there and saying hey guy that’s some pretty

and saying hey guy that’s some pretty

and saying hey guy that’s some pretty funky horn you got there but in the

funky horn you got there but in the

funky horn you got there but in the human library it’s okay in fact we have

human library it’s okay in fact we have

human library it’s okay in fact we have very simple rules bring the book back on

very simple rules bring the book back on

very simple rules bring the book back on time similar to the real library don’t

time similar to the real library don’t

time similar to the real library don’t take pages and tear them out don’t write

take pages and tear them out don’t write

take pages and tear them out don’t write notes in the book and don’t take it home

notes in the book and don’t take it home

notes in the book and don’t take it home we need it to give it to other readers

we need it to give it to other readers

we need it to give it to other readers and basically treat the people you

and basically treat the people you

and basically treat the people you borrow with the same respect that you

borrow with the same respect that you

borrow with the same respect that you want to be treated and then you have a

want to be treated and then you have a

want to be treated and then you have a unique opportunity to gain insight into

unique opportunity to gain insight into

unique opportunity to gain insight into someone who volunteered to share what

someone who volunteered to share what

someone who volunteered to share what they know we don’t have all the answers

they know we don’t have all the answers

they know we don’t have all the answers but we built a little safe space where

but we built a little safe space where

but we built a little safe space where you can go and find some of the answers

you can go and find some of the answers

you can go and find some of the answers if you have the courage now what defines

if you have the courage now what defines

if you have the courage now what defines the people we publish basically um we

the people we publish basically um we

the people we publish basically um we try to put up people that are facing

try to put up people that are facing

try to put up people that are facing stereotypes stigma discrimination some

stereotypes stigma discrimination some

stereotypes stigma discrimination some are exposed to hate crimes others are

are exposed to hate crimes others are

are exposed to hate crimes others are persecuted by the authorities in st.

persecuted by the authorities in st.

persecuted by the authorities in st. Petersburg recently we were supposed to

Petersburg recently we were supposed to

Petersburg recently we were supposed to have a human library at the Lenin

have a human library at the Lenin

have a human library at the Lenin library which is the state library

library which is the state library

library which is the state library in st. Petersburg Russia but the

in st. Petersburg Russia but the

in st. Petersburg Russia but the authorities looked at the list of topics

authorities looked at the list of topics

authorities looked at the list of topics we wanted to publish amongst them the

we wanted to publish amongst them the

we wanted to publish amongst them the homosexual and the authorities said we

homosexual and the authorities said we

homosexual and the authorities said we cannot allow you to publish a homosexual

cannot allow you to publish a homosexual

cannot allow you to publish a homosexual in a state library and so we had to move

in a state library and so we had to move

in a state library and so we had to move the event because obviously we can have

the event because obviously we can have

the event because obviously we can have cannot have anyone censoring our

cannot have anyone censoring our

cannot have anyone censoring our bookshelf what we’re really trying to to

bookshelf what we’re really trying to to

bookshelf what we’re really trying to to build is a place where all the talks

build is a place where all the talks

build is a place where all the talks that we were too afraid to do could

that we were too afraid to do could

that we were too afraid to do could happen in a safe environment so when we

happen in a safe environment so when we

happen in a safe environment so when we publish our books we go to high schools

publish our books we go to high schools

publish our books we go to high schools we go to libraries we go to universities

we go to libraries we go to universities

we go to libraries we go to universities colleges festivals we’re even a part of

colleges festivals we’re even a part of

colleges festivals we’re even a part of I don’t know how many of you know

I don’t know how many of you know

I don’t know how many of you know Heineken the beer but we’re working

Heineken the beer but we’re working

Heineken the beer but we’re working pretty closely with Heineken one of

pretty closely with Heineken one of

pretty closely with Heineken one of their slogans is open your world and if

their slogans is open your world and if

their slogans is open your world and if you go to the human library you could

you go to the human library you could

you go to the human library you could basically open your world you could meet

basically open your world you could meet

basically open your world you could meet someone you otherwise would never get a

someone you otherwise would never get a

someone you otherwise would never get a chance to meet and have a talk and gain

chance to meet and have a talk and gain

chance to meet and have a talk and gain insight we also work with institutions

insight we also work with institutions

insight we also work with institutions like the IMF and we work with labor

like the IMF and we work with labor

like the IMF and we work with labor unions housing associations but

unions housing associations but

unions housing associations but primarily we focus on civil society on

primarily we focus on civil society on

primarily we focus on civil society on building opportunities for you children

building opportunities for you children

building opportunities for you children elder everyone to come and meet the

elder everyone to come and meet the

elder everyone to come and meet the people they hear about the people they

people they hear about the people they

people they hear about the people they read about the the people they think

read about the the people they think

read about the the people they think they know something about but they never

they know something about but they never

they know something about but they never met them how many how many men are

met them how many how many men are

met them how many how many men are transsexual how many are friends with a

transsexual how many are friends with a

transsexual how many are friends with a Roma one of our bestsellers in Denmark

Roma one of our bestsellers in Denmark

Roma one of our bestsellers in Denmark is the Roma maybe I have a picture I can

is the Roma maybe I have a picture I can

is the Roma maybe I have a picture I can show he’s one of our best books and a

show he’s one of our best books and a

show he’s one of our best books and a lot of readers come to him and ask him

lot of readers come to him and ask him

lot of readers come to him and ask him you know but you don’t live in a trailer

you know but you don’t live in a trailer

you know but you don’t live in a trailer you’re not criminal you’re not no he’s

you’re not criminal you’re not no he’s

you’re not criminal you’re not no he’s got a job he’s educated he has a family

got a job he’s educated he has a family

got a job he’s educated he has a family his children is in school

his children is in school

his children is in school but the only Roma that the Danish people

but the only Roma that the Danish people

but the only Roma that the Danish people hear about are the Roma in the newspaper

hear about are the Roma in the newspaper

hear about are the Roma in the newspaper that are getting negative exposure they

that are getting negative exposure they

that are getting negative exposure they don’t have access to regular people so

don’t have access to regular people so

don’t have access to regular people so does it make sense or uncommon sense

does it make sense or uncommon sense

does it make sense or uncommon sense that we need to build a space where

that we need to build a space where

that we need to build a space where people can talk why can’t you go over to

people can talk why can’t you go over to

people can talk why can’t you go over to the fat guy in the supermarket and say

the fat guy in the supermarket and say

the fat guy in the supermarket and say hey dude how’d you get so fat why

hey dude how’d you get so fat why

hey dude how’d you get so fat why because it’s not in our norms

because it’s not in our norms

because it’s not in our norms we’re polite well some of us I’m not but

we’re polite well some of us I’m not but

we’re polite well some of us I’m not but most because I might go over to the guy

most because I might go over to the guy

most because I might go over to the guy and say hey I’d like to publish you and

and say hey I’d like to publish you and

and say hey I’d like to publish you and anyone would actually recruit books off

anyone would actually recruit books off

anyone would actually recruit books off the street if I need to I take books

the street if I need to I take books

the street if I need to I take books from everywhere books there is a great

from everywhere books there is a great

from everywhere books there is a great book hidden in most of us and a lot of

book hidden in most of us and a lot of

book hidden in most of us and a lot of you probably would be a best-seller

you probably would be a best-seller

you probably would be a best-seller you’d find a good topic for you and this

you’d find a good topic for you and this

you’d find a good topic for you and this concept really brings out winners on all

concept really brings out winners on all

concept really brings out winners on all sides why and how readers sitting down

sides why and how readers sitting down

sides why and how readers sitting down face to face with a person they would

face to face with a person they would

face to face with a person they would otherwise never meet and have access to

otherwise never meet and have access to

otherwise never meet and have access to and ask freely and not be judged books

and ask freely and not be judged books

and ask freely and not be judged books who are not only meeting readers and

who are not only meeting readers and

who are not only meeting readers and gaining insight into what people are

gaining insight into what people are

gaining insight into what people are thinking about people like me but also

thinking about people like me but also

thinking about people like me but also books being with other books you see the

books being with other books you see the

books being with other books you see the most beautiful part that I’ve come to

most beautiful part that I’ve come to

most beautiful part that I’ve come to learn about the human library is inside

learn about the human library is inside

learn about the human library is inside the book Depot you see in the book Depot

the book Depot you see in the book Depot

the book Depot you see in the book Depot all of the bestsellers are waiting for

all of the bestsellers are waiting for

all of the bestsellers are waiting for you the readers to come and take them

you the readers to come and take them

you the readers to come and take them and while they wait guess what they’re

and while they wait guess what they’re

and while they wait guess what they’re doing they’re reading each other so we

doing they’re reading each other so we

doing they’re reading each other so we got Jews Muslims disabled bipolar

got Jews Muslims disabled bipolar

got Jews Muslims disabled bipolar homeless Anonymous alcoholic sober

homeless Anonymous alcoholic sober

homeless Anonymous alcoholic sober alcoholic eating disorder refugees

alcoholic eating disorder refugees

alcoholic eating disorder refugees unemployed transgender asexuals vegans

unemployed transgender asexuals vegans

unemployed transgender asexuals vegans all coming together in a diversity like

all coming together in a diversity like

all coming together in a diversity like I’ve never seen

I’ve never seen

I’ve never seen so the beautiful part the meeting

so the beautiful part the meeting

so the beautiful part the meeting between the reader in the book and where

between the reader in the book and where

between the reader in the book and where we’re actually touching and meeting each

we’re actually touching and meeting each

we’re actually touching and meeting each other is great

other is great

other is great but behind the scenes these people

but behind the scenes these people

but behind the scenes these people become friends here’s a trends a body

become friends here’s a trends a body

become friends here’s a trends a body modified and a pansexual who are now

modified and a pansexual who are now

modified and a pansexual who are now colleagues bound together in their

colleagues bound together in their

colleagues bound together in their volunteer work to build social change in

volunteer work to build social change in

volunteer work to build social change in the society

the society

the society it’s a beautiful mission why do books

it’s a beautiful mission why do books

it’s a beautiful mission why do books volunteer

volunteer

volunteer why would someone facially disfigured or

why would someone facially disfigured or

why would someone facially disfigured or one of our victims of incest

one of our victims of incest

one of our victims of incest why does kamila volunteer to talk about

why does kamila volunteer to talk about

why does kamila volunteer to talk about being a victim of incest well let me

being a victim of incest well let me

being a victim of incest well let me give you an example of what happens

give you an example of what happens

give you an example of what happens inside because we work really hard to

inside because we work really hard to

inside because we work really hard to build a space where readers feel safe

build a space where readers feel safe

build a space where readers feel safe asking personal questions so a reading

asking personal questions so a reading

asking personal questions so a reading will typically last half an hour and

will typically last half an hour and

will typically last half an hour and we’ll start with five minutes where the

we’ll start with five minutes where the

we’ll start with five minutes where the book is gonna say hi my name is Ronnie

book is gonna say hi my name is Ronnie

book is gonna say hi my name is Ronnie I am your bereaved title today I lost my

I am your bereaved title today I lost my

I am your bereaved title today I lost my wife 4 and a half years ago I

wife 4 and a half years ago I

wife 4 and a half years ago I volunteered to answer questions because

volunteered to answer questions because

volunteered to answer questions because I’ve learned that talking about death

I’ve learned that talking about death

I’ve learned that talking about death and bereavement and sorrow is a big

and bereavement and sorrow is a big

and bereavement and sorrow is a big taboo and I’m prepared to talk to you

taboo and I’m prepared to talk to you

taboo and I’m prepared to talk to you about it if you want I’ll open up like

about it if you want I’ll open up like

about it if you want I’ll open up like that making you feel safe making you

that making you feel safe making you

that making you feel safe making you understand I volunteered I’m here to

understand I volunteered I’m here to

understand I volunteered I’m here to answer questions if you ask me something

answer questions if you ask me something

answer questions if you ask me something I don’t want to answer or maybe I don’t

I don’t want to answer or maybe I don’t

I don’t want to answer or maybe I don’t like talking about it because it’s too

like talking about it because it’s too

like talking about it because it’s too personal or I will say to you that that

personal or I will say to you that that

personal or I will say to you that that page hasn’t been published yet I’m very

page hasn’t been published yet I’m very

page hasn’t been published yet I’m very sorry and so will all of our books

sorry and so will all of our books

sorry and so will all of our books because we train them to be books we

because we train them to be books we

because we train them to be books we prepared them to be books we vetted

prepared them to be books we vetted

prepared them to be books we vetted their content we built their covers we

their content we built their covers we

their content we built their covers we put their chapters together to protect

put their chapters together to protect

put their chapters together to protect them and to ensure everybody had a good

them and to ensure everybody had a good

them and to ensure everybody had a good experience now Camilla

experience now Camilla

experience now Camilla Camila’s our victim of incest and a

Camila’s our victim of incest and a

Camila’s our victim of incest and a couple months ago well it’s more than

couple months ago well it’s more than

couple months ago well it’s more than that it was August last year to be

that it was August last year to be

that it was August last year to be honest we had an event in Denmark in a

honest we had an event in Denmark in a

honest we had an event in Denmark in a public library a man comes in and when

public library a man comes in and when

public library a man comes in and when we’re in a public library we have a desk

we’re in a public library we have a desk

we’re in a public library we have a desk just like the real library and at that

just like the real library and at that

just like the real library and at that desk

desk

desk we have librarians and those librarians

we have librarians and those librarians

we have librarians and those librarians have a list of catalog a list of all the

have a list of catalog a list of all the

have a list of catalog a list of all the topics we have on our bookshelf today

topics we have on our bookshelf today

topics we have on our bookshelf today available to you and then they’ll go

available to you and then they’ll go

available to you and then they’ll go through the list with you you’re gonna

through the list with you you’re gonna

through the list with you you’re gonna see something Wow

see something Wow

see something Wow oh wait that’s what I want to know about

oh wait that’s what I want to know about

oh wait that’s what I want to know about give me the deafblind Jamila got picked

give me the deafblind Jamila got picked

give me the deafblind Jamila got picked up by a reader and she came to me after

up by a reader and she came to me after

up by a reader and she came to me after the reading and she said to me what

the reading and she said to me what

the reading and she said to me what happened she told me this the man starts

happened she told me this the man starts

happened she told me this the man starts after she opened the session explaining

after she opened the session explaining

after she opened the session explaining her name is Kim Miller she’s the victim

her name is Kim Miller she’s the victim

her name is Kim Miller she’s the victim of incest and briefly what happened and

of incest and briefly what happened and

of incest and briefly what happened and why she volunteered to be a book the man

why she volunteered to be a book the man

why she volunteered to be a book the man said to her well I came here today to

said to her well I came here today to

said to her well I came here today to borrow you because I am pedophile i

borrow you because I am pedophile i

borrow you because I am pedophile i abused my five-year-old child I’ve been

abused my five-year-old child I’ve been

abused my five-year-old child I’ve been to jail for years and now I’m in medical

to jail for years and now I’m in medical

to jail for years and now I’m in medical treatment and everybody hates me he says

treatment and everybody hates me he says

treatment and everybody hates me he says and if I don’t take my medicine I might

and if I don’t take my medicine I might

and if I don’t take my medicine I might do something stupid again but I came

do something stupid again but I came

do something stupid again but I came here today because I want to ask your

here today because I want to ask your

here today because I want to ask your advice what can I do to help my child do

advice what can I do to help my child do

advice what can I do to help my child do you have any ideas of me what can I do

you have any ideas of me what can I do

you have any ideas of me what can I do to reduce the harm I caused to my

to reduce the harm I caused to my

to reduce the harm I caused to my journal now we thought this space was a

journal now we thought this space was a

journal now we thought this space was a space to challenge what you think you

space to challenge what you think you

space to challenge what you think you know about other people I think Muslims

know about other people I think Muslims

know about other people I think Muslims I think gay I think unemployed people

I think gay I think unemployed people

I think gay I think unemployed people don’t want to work whatever but what

don’t want to work whatever but what

don’t want to work whatever but what people really use the space for who are

people really use the space for who are

people really use the space for who are we to judge we just build the space we

we to judge we just build the space we

we to judge we just build the space we had another session with a woman in my

had another session with a woman in my

had another session with a woman in my neighborhood in Copenhagen

neighborhood in Copenhagen

neighborhood in Copenhagen coming into the Central Library to take

coming into the Central Library to take

coming into the Central Library to take out our Muslim book she lived in the

out our Muslim book she lived in the

out our Muslim book she lived in the Muslim neighborhood that’s where I live

Muslim neighborhood that’s where I live

Muslim neighborhood that’s where I live although I’m not Muslim but I grew up in

although I’m not Muslim but I grew up in

although I’m not Muslim but I grew up in this neighborhood and the demographics

this neighborhood and the demographics

this neighborhood and the demographics changed and now there’s a lot of people

changed and now there’s a lot of people

changed and now there’s a lot of people from different Muslim countries and it’s

from different Muslim countries and it’s

from different Muslim countries and it’s very nice place where I live and many

very nice place where I live and many

very nice place where I live and many nice people there this woman lives in a

nice people there this woman lives in a

nice people there this woman lives in a social housing project close to where I

social housing project close to where I

social housing project close to where I live and she came all the way to the

live and she came all the way to the

live and she came all the way to the human library downtown to borrow a

human library downtown to borrow a

human library downtown to borrow a muslim book and after 30 minutes she

muslim book and after 30 minutes she

muslim book and after 30 minutes she said to him it was very nice meeting you

said to him it was very nice meeting you

said to him it was very nice meeting you but I don’t believe you really a Muslim

but I don’t believe you really a Muslim

but I don’t believe you really a Muslim and he goes what she goes yeah you don’t

and he goes what she goes yeah you don’t

and he goes what she goes yeah you don’t live up to any of my stereotypes and he

live up to any of my stereotypes and he

live up to any of my stereotypes and he says well I’m happy for that that’s the

says well I’m happy for that that’s the

says well I’m happy for that that’s the whole idea is but the idea is actually

whole idea is but the idea is actually

whole idea is but the idea is actually that you take from the human library

that you take from the human library

that you take from the human library what you want you take the conversation

what you want you take the conversation

what you want you take the conversation in the direction you want and you’re

in the direction you want and you’re

in the direction you want and you’re gonna get out of it what you put into it

gonna get out of it what you put into it

gonna get out of it what you put into it we do not have an agenda we’re a neutral

we do not have an agenda we’re a neutral

we do not have an agenda we’re a neutral library and the library is one of the

library and the library is one of the

library and the library is one of the few neutral institutions in society our

few neutral institutions in society our

few neutral institutions in society our only agenda is to put the image the

only agenda is to put the image the

only agenda is to put the image the information forward and we’ve been doing

information forward and we’ve been doing

information forward and we’ve been doing that for 17 years now it started as a

that for 17 years now it started as a

that for 17 years now it started as a project for the festival I was lucky to

project for the festival I was lucky to

project for the festival I was lucky to write a little handbook about it it

write a little handbook about it it

write a little handbook about it it spread around Europe now we’re in 84

spread around Europe now we’re in 84

spread around Europe now we’re in 84 countries around the world yesterday

countries around the world yesterday

countries around the world yesterday while I was sitting in the hotel here in

while I was sitting in the hotel here in

while I was sitting in the hotel here in Bucharest nervous about this morning we

Bucharest nervous about this morning we

Bucharest nervous about this morning we opened in Amman Jordan and the readers

opened in Amman Jordan and the readers

opened in Amman Jordan and the readers at the King’s Academy in in Amman took

at the King’s Academy in in Amman took

at the King’s Academy in in Amman took advantage and it was beautiful and this

advantage and it was beautiful and this

advantage and it was beautiful and this weekend will be open in Cape Town South

weekend will be open in Cape Town South

weekend will be open in Cape Town South Africa for the first time events are

Africa for the first time events are

Africa for the first time events are happening sort of viral we try to

happening sort of viral we try to

happening sort of viral we try to quality and assure them we work with

quality and assure them we work with

quality and assure them we work with partners we have a human library network

partners we have a human library network

partners we have a human library network in Italy we got a whole country in

in Italy we got a whole country in

in Italy we got a whole country in Poland full of partners 40 or 50

Poland full of partners 40 or 50

Poland full of partners 40 or 50 different human library local partners

different human library local partners

different human library local partners organizing the children library we’re

organizing the children library we’re

organizing the children library we’re working with school districts library

working with school districts library

working with school districts library systems Library Association’s anybody

systems Library Association’s anybody

systems Library Association’s anybody who wants to implement this methodology

who wants to implement this methodology

who wants to implement this methodology to try and build a greater understanding

to try and build a greater understanding

to try and build a greater understanding for our diversity and more tolerance

what we’re really offering is real

what we’re really offering is real people and it’s a real conversation and

people and it’s a real conversation and

people and it’s a real conversation and there are no two conversations that will

there are no two conversations that will

there are no two conversations that will be the same

be the same

be the same we also offer group readings because

we also offer group readings because

we also offer group readings because when we go to a workplace there’s no

when we go to a workplace there’s no

when we go to a workplace there’s no time for a one-on-one so typically staff

time for a one-on-one so typically staff

time for a one-on-one so typically staff will be at tables with four or six

will be at tables with four or six

will be at tables with four or six readers at each table sharing a book and

readers at each table sharing a book and

readers at each table sharing a book and then after half an hour that book will

then after half an hour that book will

then after half an hour that book will get up go to the next table and meet

get up go to the next table and meet

get up go to the next table and meet another group of readers each session

another group of readers each session

another group of readers each session will include three readings and this is

will include three readings and this is

will include three readings and this is also a way to do diversity and inclusion

also a way to do diversity and inclusion

also a way to do diversity and inclusion work in the workplace to help build a

work in the workplace to help build a

work in the workplace to help build a greater understanding for the diversity

greater understanding for the diversity

greater understanding for the diversity we have now all of our books volunteer

we have now all of our books volunteer

we have now all of our books volunteer because they have personal experience

because they have personal experience

because they have personal experience they have faced discrimination stigma

they have faced discrimination stigma

they have faced discrimination stigma stereotypes on their own body and

stereotypes on their own body and

stereotypes on their own body and they’re ready to share they’re ready to

they’re ready to share they’re ready to

they’re ready to share they’re ready to help pave the way for greater

help pave the way for greater

help pave the way for greater understanding for the rest of the group

understanding for the rest of the group

understanding for the rest of the group that’s behind them so in a way we

that’s behind them so in a way we

that’s behind them so in a way we recruit people and make them sort of

recruit people and make them sort of

recruit people and make them sort of ambassadors for a group we find we try

ambassadors for a group we find we try

ambassadors for a group we find we try to find great examples good good role

to find great examples good good role

to find great examples good good role models but normal people regular people

models but normal people regular people

models but normal people regular people who live a regular life and who can show

who live a regular life and who can show

who live a regular life and who can show that we have a lot more in common than

that we have a lot more in common than

that we have a lot more in common than what’s keeping us apart at the moment we

what’s keeping us apart at the moment we

what’s keeping us apart at the moment we live in highly polarized times

live in highly polarized times

live in highly polarized times politicians are profiting from pitting

politicians are profiting from pitting

politicians are profiting from pitting us against each other

us against each other

us against each other politicians are instead of building

politicians are instead of building

politicians are instead of building bridges between people they’re actually

bridges between people they’re actually

bridges between people they’re actually widening the gap it’s all over the world

widening the gap it’s all over the world

widening the gap it’s all over the world it’s not a specially American problem

it’s not a specially American problem

it’s not a specially American problem although it’s significant there it’s

although it’s significant there it’s

although it’s significant there it’s it’s a problem everywhere

it’s a problem everywhere

it’s a problem everywhere because when people are afraid you can

because when people are afraid you can

because when people are afraid you can get them to vote I fear something and

get them to vote I fear something and

get them to vote I fear something and filling your heart with anger and fear

filling your heart with anger and fear

filling your heart with anger and fear it’s much easier than trust and love why

it’s much easier than trust and love why

it’s much easier than trust and love why should I trust him he looks so different

should I trust him he looks so different

should I trust him he looks so different how can I love this person how can I

how can I love this person how can I

how can I love this person how can I trust that I won’t be disappointed or

trust that I won’t be disappointed or

trust that I won’t be disappointed or letdown

letdown

letdown those are much more difficult emotions

those are much more difficult emotions

those are much more difficult emotions to handle than anger and hate I’m angry

to handle than anger and hate I’m angry

to handle than anger and hate I’m angry with the traffic this morning I’m angry

with the traffic this morning I’m angry

with the traffic this morning I’m angry with the hotel breakfast I’m angry with

with the hotel breakfast I’m angry with

with the hotel breakfast I’m angry with the can get angry easily but it’s very

the can get angry easily but it’s very

the can get angry easily but it’s very difficult to find trust and open to

difficult to find trust and open to

difficult to find trust and open to people so we actually say come on down

people so we actually say come on down

people so we actually say come on down try this in Copenhagen we have a book

try this in Copenhagen we have a book

try this in Copenhagen we have a book depot with over 70 publications and we

depot with over 70 publications and we

depot with over 70 publications and we publish them 25 to 30 times a year in

publish them 25 to 30 times a year in

publish them 25 to 30 times a year in Chicago we have 65 we publish them 8 to

Chicago we have 65 we publish them 8 to

Chicago we have 65 we publish them 8 to 12 times a year in what Slav and Poland

12 times a year in what Slav and Poland

12 times a year in what Slav and Poland we have about 10 events in the city a

we have about 10 events in the city a

we have about 10 events in the city a year on their book collection and today

year on their book collection and today

year on their book collection and today if everything goes well and you guys

if everything goes well and you guys

if everything goes well and you guys feel inspired after this time in the

feel inspired after this time in the

feel inspired after this time in the lunch break we hope to invite you to

lunch break we hope to invite you to

lunch break we hope to invite you to become readers of the human library

become readers of the human library

become readers of the human library thank you very much for joining us today

thank you very much for joining us today

thank you very much for joining us today [Applause]

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