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Listening to Create a Better World | Aaron Painter | TEDxBergenCommunityCollege


I had always dreamed of living and

I had always dreamed of living and working outside the US and in 2009 I

working outside the US and in 2009 I

working outside the US and in 2009 I felt like my dream had come alive I’d

felt like my dream had come alive I’d

felt like my dream had come alive I’d been living and working in Paris for a

been living and working in Paris for a

been living and working in Paris for a few years and I loved everything about

few years and I loved everything about

few years and I loved everything about it the food the life on the streets the

it the food the life on the streets the

it the food the life on the streets the energy the language and particularly the

energy the language and particularly the

energy the language and particularly the culture

culture

culture I worked hard during the week but on the

I worked hard during the week but on the

I worked hard during the week but on the weekends people didn’t work they used it

weekends people didn’t work they used it

weekends people didn’t work they used it as a time to recharge if you put your

as a time to recharge if you put your

as a time to recharge if you put your mobile phone on a cafe table people

mobile phone on a cafe table people

mobile phone on a cafe table people would kind of look at you like something

would kind of look at you like something

would kind of look at you like something was wrong let alone if you took out a

was wrong let alone if you took out a

was wrong let alone if you took out a computer and started doing email so you

computer and started doing email so you

computer and started doing email so you can imagine my surprise when on a

can imagine my surprise when on a

can imagine my surprise when on a Saturday night in Paris I got a phone

Saturday night in Paris I got a phone

Saturday night in Paris I got a phone call and it was a work number I answered

call and it was a work number I answered

call and it was a work number I answered and to me even greater surprise someone

and to me even greater surprise someone

and to me even greater surprise someone from my company had called and offered

from my company had called and offered

from my company had called and offered me the opportunity to move to Brazil now

me the opportunity to move to Brazil now

me the opportunity to move to Brazil now to put it in perspective I had never

to put it in perspective I had never

to put it in perspective I had never been to Brazil I didn’t speak any

been to Brazil I didn’t speak any

been to Brazil I didn’t speak any Portuguese I didn’t know anyone from

Portuguese I didn’t know anyone from

Portuguese I didn’t know anyone from Brazil other than the person who had

Brazil other than the person who had

Brazil other than the person who had called me and I knew even more so that a

called me and I knew even more so that a

called me and I knew even more so that a lot of the people in our office didn’t

lot of the people in our office didn’t

lot of the people in our office didn’t speak much English

speak much English

speak much English and beyond our office most people in the

and beyond our office most people in the

and beyond our office most people in the country didn’t speak much English yet

country didn’t speak much English yet

country didn’t speak much English yet but again my dream was to live and to

but again my dream was to live and to

but again my dream was to live and to work outside the US and so I jumped into

work outside the US and so I jumped into

work outside the US and so I jumped into this opportunity and in 2009 I moved to

this opportunity and in 2009 I moved to

this opportunity and in 2009 I moved to South Paulo now this was just before the

South Paulo now this was just before the

South Paulo now this was just before the Olympics were announced and the economy

Olympics were announced and the economy

Olympics were announced and the economy was booming everybody was really excited

was booming everybody was really excited

was booming everybody was really excited that things in Brazil were changing and

that things in Brazil were changing and

that things in Brazil were changing and changing for the better but I realized

changing for the better but I realized

changing for the better but I realized that one of the reasons why I was

that one of the reasons why I was

that one of the reasons why I was invited to go to that and take the

invited to go to that and take the

invited to go to that and take the opportunity in Brazil was that to team

opportunity in Brazil was that to team

opportunity in Brazil was that to team there needed some fresh perspectives I

there needed some fresh perspectives I

there needed some fresh perspectives I remember my first day on the job though

remember my first day on the job though

remember my first day on the job though I was in a big meeting it was an all day

I was in a big meeting it was an all day

I was in a big meeting it was an all day review of all the elements of our

review of all the elements of our

review of all the elements of our business and traditionally the meeting

business and traditionally the meeting

business and traditionally the meeting was done in Portuguese of course I was

was done in Portuguese of course I was

was done in Portuguese of course I was the new boss and people wanted to try

the new boss and people wanted to try

the new boss and people wanted to try and accommodate and be inclusive and so

and accommodate and be inclusive and so

and accommodate and be inclusive and so they tried to speak some English but it

they tried to speak some English but it

they tried to speak some English but it was hard they did and they kind of

was hard they did and they kind of

was hard they did and they kind of struggled to the meeting at one point I

struggled to the meeting at one point I

struggled to the meeting at one point I remember even thinking I’m gonna sneak

remember even thinking I’m gonna sneak

remember even thinking I’m gonna sneak out and go to the restroom and as soon

out and go to the restroom and as soon

out and go to the restroom and as soon as I stood up everyone noticed I was

as I stood up everyone noticed I was

as I stood up everyone noticed I was leaving and they switched back to

leaving and they switched back to

leaving and they switched back to Portuguese I realized that wasn’t going

Portuguese I realized that wasn’t going

Portuguese I realized that wasn’t going to work I knew that language was going

to work I knew that language was going

to work I knew that language was going to be a big issue for my time in Brazil

to be a big issue for my time in Brazil

to be a big issue for my time in Brazil after a few months or actually even

after a few months or actually even

after a few months or actually even they’ve even asked over a few weeks I

they’ve even asked over a few weeks I

they’ve even asked over a few weeks I started to realize that things were

started to realize that things were

started to realize that things were getting better in the office but I was

getting better in the office but I was

getting better in the office but I was nervous about going outside the office

nervous about going outside the office

nervous about going outside the office was nervous about going out and visiting

was nervous about going out and visiting

was nervous about going out and visiting customers yet that nervousness didn’t

customers yet that nervousness didn’t

customers yet that nervousness didn’t didn’t last long

didn’t last long

didn’t last long suddenly a CEO of a large retail company

suddenly a CEO of a large retail company

suddenly a CEO of a large retail company located in a really rural part of Brazil

located in a really rural part of Brazil

located in a really rural part of Brazil had heard that I had moved to Brazil and

had heard that I had moved to Brazil and

had heard that I had moved to Brazil and he really wanted to meet of course I

he really wanted to meet of course I

he really wanted to meet of course I couldn’t refuse I asked my team if he

couldn’t refuse I asked my team if he

couldn’t refuse I asked my team if he spoke English and they kind of sort of

spoke English and they kind of sort of

spoke English and they kind of sort of laughed at me in the kind of fun way

laughed at me in the kind of fun way

laughed at me in the kind of fun way that Brazilians do to say you know that

that Brazilians do to say you know that

that Brazilians do to say you know that that’s definitely not gonna happen so I

that’s definitely not gonna happen so I

that’s definitely not gonna happen so I took the challenge I went to this really

took the challenge I went to this really

took the challenge I went to this really rural town and there wasn’t much there

rural town and there wasn’t much there

rural town and there wasn’t much there but there was a very lively Main Street

but there was a very lively Main Street

but there was a very lively Main Street and there was a big retail shop that

and there was a big retail shop that

and there was a big retail shop that sold electronics and computers and

sold electronics and computers and

sold electronics and computers and that’s the place where I was going I

that’s the place where I was going I

that’s the place where I was going I walked to the back of the shop through

walked to the back of the shop through

walked to the back of the shop through all the different things that they were

all the different things that they were

all the different things that they were selling and it was a little tiny

selling and it was a little tiny

selling and it was a little tiny conference room that was incredibly hot

conference room that was incredibly hot

conference room that was incredibly hot with no air-conditioning I was in a full

with no air-conditioning I was in a full

with no air-conditioning I was in a full suit and tie there’s a plate of kind of

suit and tie there’s a plate of kind of

suit and tie there’s a plate of kind of fresh Brazilian fruits on the table but

fresh Brazilian fruits on the table but

fresh Brazilian fruits on the table but it was really hot then the door swung

it was really hot then the door swung

it was really hot then the door swung open and this large gentleman with a big

open and this large gentleman with a big

open and this large gentleman with a big grey beard came and he was wearing a

grey beard came and he was wearing a

grey beard came and he was wearing a short sleeve shirt and he just gave me

short sleeve shirt and he just gave me

short sleeve shirt and he just gave me this big hug and had this huge smile on

this big hug and had this huge smile on

this big hug and had this huge smile on and you could tell that he was really

and you could tell that he was really

and you could tell that he was really glad I was there so he sat down and we

glad I was there so he sat down and we

glad I was there so he sat down and we started the meeting and he began

started the meeting and he began

started the meeting and he began explaining mostly in Portuguese but what

explaining mostly in Portuguese but what

explaining mostly in Portuguese but what was business challenge was and how he

was business challenge was and how he

was business challenge was and how he was hoping that technology could maybe

was hoping that technology could maybe

was hoping that technology could maybe help him in some new ways he was talking

help him in some new ways he was talking

help him in some new ways he was talking in Portuguese but he was so expressive

in Portuguese but he was so expressive

in Portuguese but he was so expressive and of course I brought someone with me

and of course I brought someone with me

and of course I brought someone with me from my team who I was hoping could help

from my team who I was hoping could help

from my team who I was hoping could help translate she had promised but quickly

translate she had promised but quickly

translate she had promised but quickly she realized he was speaking so fast

she realized he was speaking so fast

she realized he was speaking so fast they would be very hard to keep up so I

they would be very hard to keep up so I

they would be very hard to keep up so I just sat there and listened I listened

just sat there and listened I listened

just sat there and listened I listened intently I focused on what this person

intently I focused on what this person

intently I focused on what this person was saying I focused on their facial

was saying I focused on their facial

was saying I focused on their facial expressions I focused on their body

expressions I focused on their body

expressions I focused on their body language and how he was moving and I

language and how he was moving and I

language and how he was moving and I couldn’t quite understand all the

couldn’t quite understand all the

couldn’t quite understand all the content but what I could tell was he was

content but what I could tell was he was

content but what I could tell was he was very frustrated so in fact that’s the

very frustrated so in fact that’s the

very frustrated so in fact that’s the first thing I said and my colleague

first thing I said and my colleague

first thing I said and my colleague consequently translated I said literally

consequently translated I said literally

consequently translated I said literally I can feel that you’re frustrated and

I can feel that you’re frustrated and

I can feel that you’re frustrated and immediately his face lit up again he was

immediately his face lit up again he was

immediately his face lit up again he was so happy he started using a few more

so happy he started using a few more

so happy he started using a few more English words and he started expressing

English words and he started expressing

English words and he started expressing in more and more ways the challenges

in more and more ways the challenges

in more and more ways the challenges that he was facing at the end of the

that he was facing at the end of the

that he was facing at the end of the conversation what I learned was that he

conversation what I learned was that he

conversation what I learned was that he felt that someone had listened to him

felt that someone had listened to him

felt that someone had listened to him even though I didn’t speak the language

even though I didn’t speak the language

even though I didn’t speak the language I was so focused on trying to understand

I was so focused on trying to understand

I was so focused on trying to understand what he was saying that he felt I had

what he was saying that he felt I had

what he was saying that he felt I had listened he said most people that come

listened he said most people that come

listened he said most people that come to meet with him are there talking a lot

to meet with him are there talking a lot

to meet with him are there talking a lot and

and

and trying to sell things but that they’re

trying to sell things but that they’re

trying to sell things but that they’re not there to listen and as a result of

not there to listen and as a result of

not there to listen and as a result of my listening

my listening

my listening he felt respected he felt that we could

he felt respected he felt that we could

he felt respected he felt that we could build trust together and he felt that we

build trust together and he felt that we

build trust together and he felt that we could have a professional relationship

could have a professional relationship

could have a professional relationship and that was a successful meeting so I

and that was a successful meeting so I

and that was a successful meeting so I ran back to the office and I was so

ran back to the office and I was so

ran back to the office and I was so excited and I told my team what had

excited and I told my team what had

excited and I told my team what had happened and I said let’s go do more of

happened and I said let’s go do more of

happened and I said let’s go do more of these let’s go have more conversations

these let’s go have more conversations

these let’s go have more conversations with different kinds of customers and

with different kinds of customers and

with different kinds of customers and see what else we can learn in fact one

see what else we can learn in fact one

see what else we can learn in fact one of our founder of my company has a very

of our founder of my company has a very

of our founder of my company has a very famous quote on this concept of

famous quote on this concept of

famous quote on this concept of listening and that sometimes employees

listening and that sometimes employees

listening and that sometimes employees who are the most unaccustomed sewer the

who are the most unaccustomed sewer the

who are the most unaccustomed sewer the most unhappy can be some of your

most unhappy can be some of your

most unhappy can be some of your greatest source of learning and that

greatest source of learning and that

greatest source of learning and that definitely proved true in this case not

definitely proved true in this case not

definitely proved true in this case not only in that one meeting but in several

only in that one meeting but in several

only in that one meeting but in several meetings like it we learned so much that

meetings like it we learned so much that

meetings like it we learned so much that we changed our entire strategy for how

we changed our entire strategy for how

we changed our entire strategy for how we’re going to market in Brazil new

we’re going to market in Brazil new

we’re going to market in Brazil new campaigns new advertising new creatives

campaigns new advertising new creatives

campaigns new advertising new creatives fun social events and it changed the

fun social events and it changed the

fun social events and it changed the perception of what my product line was

perception of what my product line was

perception of what my product line was and our brand was in the market in fact

and our brand was in the market in fact

and our brand was in the market in fact it was such a success that we took

it was such a success that we took

it was such a success that we took Brazil from the 6th to the 3rd largest

Brazil from the 6th to the 3rd largest

Brazil from the 6th to the 3rd largest market in the world for PCs in two years

market in the world for PCs in two years

market in the world for PCs in two years we went through hyper growth people

we went through hyper growth people

we went through hyper growth people started wanting a car first as they got

started wanting a car first as they got

started wanting a car first as they got some income in Brazil and second they

some income in Brazil and second they

some income in Brazil and second they wanted a PC we were able to ride that

wanted a PC we were able to ride that

wanted a PC we were able to ride that momentum and really help build and grow

momentum and really help build and grow

momentum and really help build and grow a business and I was this hero but all I

a business and I was this hero but all I

a business and I was this hero but all I really did was listen and sit down and

really did was listen and sit down and

really did was listen and sit down and listen to our customers and what it was

listen to our customers and what it was

listen to our customers and what it was they had to say 2012

they had to say 2012

they had to say 2012 I moved to Hong Kong I had always been

I moved to Hong Kong I had always been

I moved to Hong Kong I had always been fascinated by Hong Kong I love big

fascinated by Hong Kong I love big

fascinated by Hong Kong I love big cities and one of the most exciting

cities and one of the most exciting

cities and one of the most exciting things about Hong Kong is this mix of

things about Hong Kong is this mix of

things about Hong Kong is this mix of East and West because in some cases

East and West because in some cases

East and West because in some cases people are speaking English and it’s

people are speaking English and it’s

people are speaking English and it’s very clean the streets and proper kind

very clean the streets and proper kind

very clean the streets and proper kind of British structured society and the

of British structured society and the

of British structured society and the other side sometimes the other side of

other side sometimes the other side of

other side sometimes the other side of town or even the other side of the

town or even the other side of the

town or even the other side of the street it’s people are speaking Chinese

street it’s people are speaking Chinese

street it’s people are speaking Chinese and they’re running around and it’s a

and they’re running around and it’s a

and they’re running around and it’s a lot more hectic and chaotic and a huge

lot more hectic and chaotic and a huge

lot more hectic and chaotic and a huge sense of energy I loved that mix of East

sense of energy I loved that mix of East

sense of energy I loved that mix of East and West but I was there for work and

and West but I was there for work and

and West but I was there for work and again on my first day on the job it

again on my first day on the job it

again on my first day on the job it wasn’t an easy one I remember an email

wasn’t an easy one I remember an email

wasn’t an easy one I remember an email that came in early that morning that

that came in early that morning that

that came in early that morning that said country performance in Asia and

said country performance in Asia and

said country performance in Asia and Hong Kong was ranked 14 out of 14 out of

Hong Kong was ranked 14 out of 14 out of

Hong Kong was ranked 14 out of 14 out of all the countries where we have

all the countries where we have

all the countries where we have significant presence in Asia it was the

significant presence in Asia it was the

significant presence in Asia it was the worst performing business unit in the

worst performing business unit in the

worst performing business unit in the world

world

world so I had to begin somewhere and I

so I had to begin somewhere and I

so I had to begin somewhere and I started with a listening tour and I went

started with a listening tour and I went

started with a listening tour and I went out and I scheduled filled up my Outlook

out and I scheduled filled up my Outlook

out and I scheduled filled up my Outlook calendar with probably close to a

calendar with probably close to a

calendar with probably close to a hundred meetings one-on-one meetings

hundred meetings one-on-one meetings

hundred meetings one-on-one meetings with team members and with colleagues to

with team members and with colleagues to

with team members and with colleagues to sit down and to ask them their opinion

sit down and to ask them their opinion

sit down and to ask them their opinion on what could be different this was

on what could be different this was

on what could be different this was incredibly unusual and everybody was

incredibly unusual and everybody was

incredibly unusual and everybody was talking about the new boss for a few

talking about the new boss for a few

talking about the new boss for a few reasons one I was breaking hierarchy I

reasons one I was breaking hierarchy I

reasons one I was breaking hierarchy I was sometimes going to different people

was sometimes going to different people

was sometimes going to different people in the organization without even

in the organization without even

in the organization without even speaking to their manager first second

speaking to their manager first second

speaking to their manager first second when I sat down I wasn’t telling in my

when I sat down I wasn’t telling in my

when I sat down I wasn’t telling in my opinion on what we should be doing but I

opinion on what we should be doing but I

opinion on what we should be doing but I was asking about them I was asking about

was asking about them I was asking about

was asking about them I was asking about their careers and what they had learned

their careers and what they had learned

their careers and what they had learned and their observations and what I

and their observations and what I

and their observations and what I learned was that there were so many

learned was that there were so many

learned was that there were so many great ideas but often there were people

great ideas but often there were people

great ideas but often there were people who weren’t in the right role or they

who weren’t in the right role or they

who weren’t in the right role or they weren’t set up to contribute in the

weren’t set up to contribute in the

weren’t set up to contribute in the right way or perhaps sometimes the

right way or perhaps sometimes the

right way or perhaps sometimes the hierarchy limited people hearing their

hierarchy limited people hearing their

hierarchy limited people hearing their voices but when I sat down to listen I

voices but when I sat down to listen I

voices but when I sat down to listen I learned enough great ideas to build a

learned enough great ideas to build a

learned enough great ideas to build a plan for how to go fix the business when

plan for how to go fix the business when

plan for how to go fix the business when I didn’t fully appreciate it at that

I didn’t fully appreciate it at that

I didn’t fully appreciate it at that time also was they just by listening I

time also was they just by listening I

time also was they just by listening I was earning the respect and eventually

was earning the respect and eventually

was earning the respect and eventually the trust of the people that I would

the trust of the people that I would

the trust of the people that I would work with to help make the plan

work with to help make the plan

work with to help make the plan successful

successful

successful I used this image because during the

I used this image because during the

I used this image because during the time that I was in Hong Kong there were

time that I was in Hong Kong there were

time that I was in Hong Kong there were also large protest movement of the

also large protest movement of the

also large protest movement of the students who were challenging the

students who were challenging the

students who were challenging the government because they felt that the

government because they felt that the

government because they felt that the government wasn’t listening to them and

government wasn’t listening to them and

government wasn’t listening to them and they put these post-its on a part of the

they put these post-its on a part of the

they put these post-its on a part of the city with their opinions and beliefs to

city with their opinions and beliefs to

city with their opinions and beliefs to try and encourage the government to

try and encourage the government to

try and encourage the government to listen to them very well connected later

listen to them very well connected later

listen to them very well connected later I moved to Beijing now Beijing and

I moved to Beijing now Beijing and

I moved to Beijing now Beijing and mainland China as we call it in Hong

mainland China as we call it in Hong

mainland China as we call it in Hong Kong had always seemed like the ultimate

Kong had always seemed like the ultimate

Kong had always seemed like the ultimate adventure and in Beijing I loved the

adventure and in Beijing I loved the

adventure and in Beijing I loved the culture and so much that was happening

culture and so much that was happening

culture and so much that was happening the traditional nature of what was going

the traditional nature of what was going

the traditional nature of what was going on there but I was assigned a very big

on there but I was assigned a very big

on there but I was assigned a very big task I was assigned to create a separate

task I was assigned to create a separate

task I was assigned to create a separate new division for my company in a world

new division for my company in a world

new division for my company in a world that was very different from what we had

that was very different from what we had

that was very different from what we had been doing and selling otherwise so far

been doing and selling otherwise so far

been doing and selling otherwise so far in China and I got to build my own team

in China and I got to build my own team

in China and I got to build my own team of sales and marketing and product

of sales and marketing and product

of sales and marketing and product management a customer support and

management a customer support and

management a customer support and engineering and all the different

engineering and all the different

engineering and all the different functions and treat it kind of like an

functions and treat it kind of like an

functions and treat it kind of like an incubated business unit to see if that

incubated business unit to see if that

incubated business unit to see if that we could do things differently it was

we could do things differently it was

we could do things differently it was hard but my second challenge was a

hard but my second challenge was a

hard but my second challenge was a little bit even more challenging and in

little bit even more challenging and in

little bit even more challenging and in some ways more fun and it was to be a

some ways more fun and it was to be a

some ways more fun and it was to be a sponsor for a millennial work force we

sponsor for a millennial work force we

sponsor for a millennial work force we hiring and retaining so many great fresh

hiring and retaining so many great fresh

hiring and retaining so many great fresh talents coming from University and MBA

talents coming from University and MBA

talents coming from University and MBA programs but the question was how could

programs but the question was how could

programs but the question was how could we make that experience better how could

we make that experience better how could

we make that experience better how could we help encourage them to stay even

we help encourage them to stay even

we help encourage them to stay even longer and to make sure that they had

longer and to make sure that they had

longer and to make sure that they had the skills to be really successful and

the skills to be really successful and

the skills to be really successful and contribute to the company I took both

contribute to the company I took both

contribute to the company I took both jobs very seriously and both of them

jobs very seriously and both of them

jobs very seriously and both of them helped really inform my experience in

helped really inform my experience in

helped really inform my experience in China I still remember my first meeting

China I still remember my first meeting

China I still remember my first meeting on that first day and it was to a large

on that first day and it was to a large

on that first day and it was to a large manufacturing customer now in China you

manufacturing customer now in China you

manufacturing customer now in China you can imagine there are a lot of

can imagine there are a lot of

can imagine there are a lot of manufacturing companies this one was

manufacturing companies this one was

manufacturing companies this one was located in a pretty big city and they

located in a pretty big city and they

located in a pretty big city and they had very big plant and I sat down with

had very big plant and I sat down with

had very big plant and I sat down with CEO of this company and she was so

CEO of this company and she was so

CEO of this company and she was so excited to meet and so excited to meet

excited to meet and so excited to meet

excited to meet and so excited to meet someone who maybe had some perspectives

someone who maybe had some perspectives

someone who maybe had some perspectives different than the people she met with

different than the people she met with

different than the people she met with in China and she told me about this

in China and she told me about this

in China and she told me about this situation she was facing she said you

situation she was facing she said you

situation she was facing she said you know business has been good in China we

know business has been good in China we

know business has been good in China we have a lot of demand for our

have a lot of demand for our

have a lot of demand for our manufactured products but increasingly

manufactured products but increasingly

manufactured products but increasingly there’s more and more competition and as

there’s more and more competition and as

there’s more and more competition and as a result of the competition our

a result of the competition our

a result of the competition our customers aren’t coming back to us

customers aren’t coming back to us

customers aren’t coming back to us they’re going to our competition and

they’re going to our competition and

they’re going to our competition and buying from them and what worried her

buying from them and what worried her

buying from them and what worried her more was that she was losing the

more was that she was losing the

more was that she was losing the feedback from our customers about what

feedback from our customers about what

feedback from our customers about what it would take to make products that were

it would take to make products that were

it would take to make products that were good for the long-term and how to evolve

good for the long-term and how to evolve

good for the long-term and how to evolve for product portfolio what I realized

for product portfolio what I realized

for product portfolio what I realized was that she needed customer loyalty she

was that she needed customer loyalty she

was that she needed customer loyalty she needs to find a way to create engagement

needs to find a way to create engagement

needs to find a way to create engagement with her customers so that they would

with her customers so that they would

with her customers so that they would come back the second big situation she

come back the second big situation she

come back the second big situation she talked about was and her employees she

talked about was and her employees she

talked about was and her employees she said she had a great work force but that

said she had a great work force but that

said she had a great work force but that she would train and invest in them and

she would train and invest in them and

she would train and invest in them and then they would often go and work for

then they would often go and work for

then they would often go and work for someone else

someone else

someone else sometimes just even for a little bit

sometimes just even for a little bit

sometimes just even for a little bit more money and she said all her great

more money and she said all her great

more money and she said all her great investment in training but sometimes

investment in training but sometimes

investment in training but sometimes just walk out the door and as I’ve

just walk out the door and as I’ve

just walk out the door and as I’ve reflected on that I reflected on the

reflected on that I reflected on the

reflected on that I reflected on the same importance of loyalty and that

same importance of loyalty and that

same importance of loyalty and that loyalty was what she needed to create

loyalty was what she needed to create

loyalty was what she needed to create with her customers as well as with her

with her customers as well as with her

with her customers as well as with her employees it was very clear that there

employees it was very clear that there

employees it was very clear that there was a connection between the two but if

was a connection between the two but if

was a connection between the two but if that’s what she needed what I didn’t yet

that’s what she needed what I didn’t yet

that’s what she needed what I didn’t yet know was how would I help her make it

know was how would I help her make it

know was how would I help her make it happen

happen

happen listening was what I reflected on as a

listening was what I reflected on as a

listening was what I reflected on as a possible solution and as I started

possible solution and as I started

possible solution and as I started talking and were thinking about my own

talking and were thinking about my own

talking and were thinking about my own experiment writing notes about those

experiment writing notes about those

experiment writing notes about those meetings and I reflected on my

meetings and I reflected on my

meetings and I reflected on my experience in Brazil and in Hong Kong

experience in Brazil and in Hong Kong

experience in Brazil and in Hong Kong and other places I realized that Brazil

and other places I realized that Brazil

and other places I realized that Brazil helped teach me how to listen to

helped teach me how to listen to

helped teach me how to listen to customers Hong Kong helped teach me how

customers Hong Kong helped teach me how

customers Hong Kong helped teach me how to listen to employees and in China I

to listen to employees and in China I

to listen to employees and in China I was starting

was starting

was starting find that I was teaching other

find that I was teaching other

find that I was teaching other businesses and other business leaders

businesses and other business leaders

businesses and other business leaders how to do both that there’s a strong

how to do both that there’s a strong

how to do both that there’s a strong connection because when you deeply

connection because when you deeply

connection because when you deeply listen to someone you hopefully earn

listen to someone you hopefully earn

listen to someone you hopefully earn their respect and they feel that you

their respect and they feel that you

their respect and they feel that you understand them and when you earn their

understand them and when you earn their

understand them and when you earn their respect you can earn trust and Trust is

respect you can earn trust and Trust is

respect you can earn trust and Trust is the foundation of a relationship and

the foundation of a relationship and

the foundation of a relationship and that’s how you can build an ongoing

that’s how you can build an ongoing

that’s how you can build an ongoing relationship with anyone that you’re

relationship with anyone that you’re

relationship with anyone that you’re working with or that you’re spending

working with or that you’re spending

working with or that you’re spending time with China it worked it worked for

time with China it worked it worked for

time with China it worked it worked for us in a big way we found a way to

us in a big way we found a way to

us in a big way we found a way to connect between customers and employees

connect between customers and employees

connect between customers and employees as I reflected so much of the

as I reflected so much of the

as I reflected so much of the conversations I was having I was writing

conversations I was having I was writing

conversations I was having I was writing and we started writing some articles and

and we started writing some articles and

and we started writing some articles and notes and eventually I wrote a whole

notes and eventually I wrote a whole

notes and eventually I wrote a whole book about what was happening in China

book about what was happening in China

book about what was happening in China and the connection between employees and

and the connection between employees and

and the connection between employees and customers when I looked around the world

customers when I looked around the world

customers when I looked around the world at examples where there was good

at examples where there was good

at examples where there was good engagement for companies of one or the

engagement for companies of one or the

engagement for companies of one or the other I found that they were often

other I found that they were often

other I found that they were often linked that there was strong engagement

linked that there was strong engagement

linked that there was strong engagement with employees that when costant when

with employees that when costant when

with employees that when costant when companies created a culture where they

companies created a culture where they

companies created a culture where they listened to employees those employees

listened to employees those employees

listened to employees those employees are motivated to go out and listen to

are motivated to go out and listen to

are motivated to go out and listen to customers because if a customer has a

customers because if a customer has a

customers because if a customer has a good idea or feedback or suggestion then

good idea or feedback or suggestion then

good idea or feedback or suggestion then you’re eager to go run and tell your

you’re eager to go run and tell your

you’re eager to go run and tell your manager about what you heard from the

manager about what you heard from the

manager about what you heard from the customer but if you don’t feel like

customer but if you don’t feel like

customer but if you don’t feel like there’s that culture of listening in

there’s that culture of listening in

there’s that culture of listening in your company like your managers aren’t

your company like your managers aren’t

your company like your managers aren’t going to listen to the feedback that

going to listen to the feedback that

going to listen to the feedback that you’re hearing from customers they don’t

you’re hearing from customers they don’t

you’re hearing from customers they don’t work so there’s this very strong

work so there’s this very strong

work so there’s this very strong connection between creating a culture of

connection between creating a culture of

connection between creating a culture of listening both for employees and for

listening both for employees and for

listening both for employees and for customers and it worked in China in our

customers and it worked in China in our

customers and it worked in China in our first year alone we became the fastest

first year alone we became the fastest

first year alone we became the fastest growing division for my company and

growing division for my company and

growing division for my company and continued from there we were hiring

continued from there we were hiring

continued from there we were hiring great people they wanted to stay on the

great people they wanted to stay on the

great people they wanted to stay on the team and our customers in the market saw

team and our customers in the market saw

team and our customers in the market saw we were doing saw how we were using

we were doing saw how we were using

we were doing saw how we were using technology and they wanted to learn from

technology and they wanted to learn from

technology and they wanted to learn from us sometimes people ask me the

us sometimes people ask me the

us sometimes people ask me the difference between hearing and listening

difference between hearing and listening

difference between hearing and listening and to me it’s very clear hearing is

and to me it’s very clear hearing is

and to me it’s very clear hearing is something that we do so often in our

something that we do so often in our

something that we do so often in our lives we might listen to headphones and

lives we might listen to headphones and

lives we might listen to headphones and we’re hearing music we’re hearing sounds

we’re hearing music we’re hearing sounds

we’re hearing music we’re hearing sounds around us we might overhear voices on a

around us we might overhear voices on a

around us we might overhear voices on a train or on the streets but it’s a

train or on the streets but it’s a

train or on the streets but it’s a passive exercise listening is something

passive exercise listening is something

passive exercise listening is something that’s active it requires focus it

that’s active it requires focus it

that’s active it requires focus it requires attention and so I encourage

requires attention and so I encourage

requires attention and so I encourage all of you whether you’re speaking to a

all of you whether you’re speaking to a

all of you whether you’re speaking to a a team member or a colleague coach a

a team member or a colleague coach a

a team member or a colleague coach a manager a friend a family member a

manager a friend a family member a

manager a friend a family member a teacher

teacher

teacher it’s an opportunity to step back and to

it’s an opportunity to step back and to

it’s an opportunity to step back and to close your laptop to put your phone away

close your laptop to put your phone away

close your laptop to put your phone away and to look at the person you’re

and to look at the person you’re

and to look at the person you’re speaking to and to intently and actively

speaking to and to intently and actively

speaking to and to intently and actively listen I believe that there’s an

listen I believe that there’s an

listen I believe that there’s an incredible opportunity in the world for

incredible opportunity in the world for

incredible opportunity in the world for better listeners that in a world where

better listeners that in a world where

better listeners that in a world where people are better listeners we can have

people are better listeners we can have

people are better listeners we can have deeper understanding even when people

deeper understanding even when people

deeper understanding even when people disagree a world where people understand

disagree a world where people understand

disagree a world where people understand different perspectives is a world I want

different perspectives is a world I want

different perspectives is a world I want to live in and I hope you’ll agree it

to live in and I hope you’ll agree it

to live in and I hope you’ll agree it can lead to a better world thank you

can lead to a better world thank you

can lead to a better world thank you [Applause]

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