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hello everyone I’m Starr Jones an

hello everyone I’m Starr Jones an American Lawyer chick heart disease

American Lawyer chick heart disease

American Lawyer chick heart disease survivor who is free black and grown

survivor who is free black and grown

survivor who is free black and grown okay I’m also the president of the

okay I’m also the president of the

okay I’m also the president of the International Association of Women the

International Association of Women the

International Association of Women the largest professional women’s networking

largest professional women’s networking

largest professional women’s networking organization in the US and now global so

organization in the US and now global so

organization in the US and now global so I want to thank you for inviting me to

I want to thank you for inviting me to

I want to thank you for inviting me to the single whitest place I’ve ever been

the single whitest place I’ve ever been

the single whitest place I’ve ever been in my entire life to talk about

in my entire life to talk about

in my entire life to talk about diversity there Lord but I tell you your

diversity there Lord but I tell you your

diversity there Lord but I tell you your music is great okay no seriously what an

music is great okay no seriously what an

music is great okay no seriously what an honor it is to stand before you here

honor it is to stand before you here

honor it is to stand before you here today at your invitation to talk about

today at your invitation to talk about

today at your invitation to talk about diversity what I see as the global

diversity what I see as the global

diversity what I see as the global imperative for the world that we live in

imperative for the world that we live in

imperative for the world that we live in your commitment to this issue shown by

your commitment to this issue shown by

your commitment to this issue shown by your invitation to me says you actually

your invitation to me says you actually

your invitation to me says you actually feel the same way in the US and across

feel the same way in the US and across

feel the same way in the US and across the globe the discussion of gender

the globe the discussion of gender

the globe the discussion of gender equality and diversity at work is

equality and diversity at work is

equality and diversity at work is rightfully so an ongoing conversation

rightfully so an ongoing conversation

rightfully so an ongoing conversation gender inequality it is an issue

gender inequality it is an issue

gender inequality it is an issue diversity is a topic on the front burner

diversity is a topic on the front burner

diversity is a topic on the front burner of the global conversation but it’s

of the global conversation but it’s

of the global conversation but it’s still hard for a lot of people to

still hard for a lot of people to

still hard for a lot of people to discuss and I tell you that women must

discuss and I tell you that women must

discuss and I tell you that women must be diligent in keeping this conversation

be diligent in keeping this conversation

be diligent in keeping this conversation going our silence or allowing the

going our silence or allowing the

going our silence or allowing the dismissal of the topic will really never

dismissal of the topic will really never

dismissal of the topic will really never bring about any change so I make it a

bring about any change so I make it a

bring about any change so I make it a part of my personal mission to speak on

part of my personal mission to speak on

part of my personal mission to speak on this subject and encourage every young

this subject and encourage every young

this subject and encourage every young woman that I can to achieve her dreams

woman that I can to achieve her dreams

woman that I can to achieve her dreams to never stop being persistent in her

to never stop being persistent in her

to never stop being persistent in her pursuit of happiness and to remain

pursuit of happiness and to remain

pursuit of happiness and to remain resilient in the fight to put as much

resilient in the fight to put as much

resilient in the fight to put as much glass on the floor as possible as we

glass on the floor as possible as we

glass on the floor as possible as we shatter every glass ceiling above us

shatter every glass ceiling above us

shatter every glass ceiling above us that’s my goal

interestingly enough wherever I am no

interestingly enough wherever I am no matter the country the issue of gender

matter the country the issue of gender

matter the country the issue of gender and wage inequality at work is not a new

and wage inequality at work is not a new

and wage inequality at work is not a new one this is not a new phenomenon

one this is not a new phenomenon

one this is not a new phenomenon and every single country has some work

and every single country has some work

and every single country has some work still left to do inequality has been an

still left to do inequality has been an

still left to do inequality has been an issue since every woman stepped into the

issue since every woman stepped into the

issue since every woman stepped into the workforce or the workplace decades and

workforce or the workplace decades and

workforce or the workplace decades and decades ago perhaps this creates an even

decades ago perhaps this creates an even

decades ago perhaps this creates an even bigger problem because we’re sensitized

bigger problem because we’re sensitized

bigger problem because we’re sensitized globally to the issues women face in the

globally to the issues women face in the

globally to the issues women face in the workplace if the conversation of

workplace if the conversation of

workplace if the conversation of equality and diversity at work is

equality and diversity at work is

equality and diversity at work is mundane light-hearted and nonchalant

mundane light-hearted and nonchalant

mundane light-hearted and nonchalant well how do you gonna fight and fight it

well how do you gonna fight and fight it

well how do you gonna fight and fight it how can we be vigilant and like take a

how can we be vigilant and like take a

how can we be vigilant and like take a stand against something that we as a

stand against something that we as a

stand against something that we as a whole within our own communities can

whole within our own communities can

whole within our own communities can easily sweep under the rug and treat it

easily sweep under the rug and treat it

easily sweep under the rug and treat it as an issue of the past when we know

as an issue of the past when we know

as an issue of the past when we know it’s not one of the many solutions to

it’s not one of the many solutions to

it’s not one of the many solutions to given gender equality a voice and a

given gender equality a voice and a

given gender equality a voice and a platform that it really deserves is

platform that it really deserves is

platform that it really deserves is being bold and speaking out against

being bold and speaking out against

being bold and speaking out against these common myths that treat gender

these common myths that treat gender

these common myths that treat gender inequality like it’s a non-issue and I

inequality like it’s a non-issue and I

inequality like it’s a non-issue and I guess that’s why I’m here and what I

guess that’s why I’m here and what I

guess that’s why I’m here and what I plan to do today I call it the false

plan to do today I call it the false

plan to do today I call it the false five it’s my plan to debunk the myths

five it’s my plan to debunk the myths

five it’s my plan to debunk the myths that hold women back okay so today we

that hold women back okay so today we

that hold women back okay so today we get to call spades spades as we shine a

get to call spades spades as we shine a

get to call spades spades as we shine a light on these gender issues that have

light on these gender issues that have

light on these gender issues that have faded into the backgrounds of our busy

faded into the backgrounds of our busy

faded into the backgrounds of our busy lives so once they saying if you tell a

lives so once they saying if you tell a

lives so once they saying if you tell a lie often enough you really start to

lie often enough you really start to

lie often enough you really start to believe it well that’s salutely if we

believe it well that’s salutely if we

believe it well that’s salutely if we keep hearing and embracing these myths

keep hearing and embracing these myths

keep hearing and embracing these myths and untruths regarding women in the

and untruths regarding women in the

and untruths regarding women in the workplace we will start to believe them

workplace we will start to believe them

workplace we will start to believe them as factual representations of the state

as factual representations of the state

as factual representations of the state of gender equality some people call it

of gender equality some people call it

of gender equality some people call it fake news the bottom line is that you do

fake news the bottom line is that you do

fake news the bottom line is that you do not have to accept these myths you don’t

not have to accept these myths you don’t

not have to accept these myths you don’t have to be in that mold you don’t have

have to be in that mold you don’t have

have to be in that mold you don’t have to accept the status quo you can create

to accept the status quo you can create

to accept the status quo you can create your own reality let’s get real and

your own reality let’s get real and

your own reality let’s get real and break down these myths myth number one

break down these myths myth number one

break down these myths myth number one women choose to devote their time to

women choose to devote their time to

women choose to devote their time to families instead of the workplace the

families instead of the workplace the

families instead of the workplace the assumption that women cannot manage a

assumption that women cannot manage a

assumption that women cannot manage a thriving home life and be dynamic at

thriving home life and be dynamic at

thriving home life and be dynamic at work is absolutely insulting okay I

work is absolutely insulting okay I

work is absolutely insulting okay I bring home the bacon and fry it up in

bring home the bacon and fry it up in

bring home the bacon and fry it up in the pan let me be real clear on that is

the pan let me be real clear on that is

the pan let me be real clear on that is if we cannot be great and more than one

if we cannot be great and more than one

if we cannot be great and more than one area in our lives no manager or HR

area in our lives no manager or HR

area in our lives no manager or HR professional should be assuming that a

professional should be assuming that a

professional should be assuming that a woman would not want a promotion or to

woman would not want a promotion or to

woman would not want a promotion or to lead a project because oh that means

lead a project because oh that means

lead a project because oh that means that’s more work hours and I don’t think

that’s more work hours and I don’t think

that’s more work hours and I don’t think so

so

so well equally insulting is the assumption

well equally insulting is the assumption

well equally insulting is the assumption that a woman who chooses not to have

that a woman who chooses not to have

that a woman who chooses not to have children or hasn’t had them yet is

children or hasn’t had them yet is

children or hasn’t had them yet is available to take the load or pick up

available to take the load or pick up

available to take the load or pick up the slack from the rest of the team

the slack from the rest of the team

the slack from the rest of the team because she’s supposedly obligation for

because she’s supposedly obligation for

because she’s supposedly obligation for you don’t know what I have to do that

you don’t know what I have to do that

you don’t know what I have to do that don’t mean I’m more available what I’ve

don’t mean I’m more available what I’ve

don’t mean I’m more available what I’ve witnessed this and experienced it in my

witnessed this and experienced it in my

witnessed this and experienced it in my own career over the last thirty years

own career over the last thirty years

own career over the last thirty years I’m getting married in March and with my

I’m getting married in March and with my

I’m getting married in March and with my marriage comes the most delightful

marriage comes the most delightful

marriage comes the most delightful delicious and devilishly handsome

delicious and devilishly handsome

delicious and devilishly handsome twelve-year-old boy you have ever met I

twelve-year-old boy you have ever met I

twelve-year-old boy you have ever met I love him in a space where there is no

love him in a space where there is no

love him in a space where there is no place or time but trust me when I need

place or time but trust me when I need

place or time but trust me when I need to get on a plane and travel halfway

to get on a plane and travel halfway

to get on a plane and travel halfway around the globe for work my bonus son

around the globe for work my bonus son

around the globe for work my bonus son says you go Jima which is the Chinese

says you go Jima which is the Chinese

says you go Jima which is the Chinese word for stepmother he didn’t like

word for stepmother he didn’t like

word for stepmother he didn’t like stepmother he says it’s a negative

stepmother he says it’s a negative

stepmother he says it’s a negative connotation having children is not an

connotation having children is not an

connotation having children is not an excuse to withhold a growth opportunity

excuse to withhold a growth opportunity

excuse to withhold a growth opportunity from a woman at work nor children the

from a woman at work nor children the

from a woman at work nor children the only family structure or responsibility

only family structure or responsibility

only family structure or responsibility outside of work that a woman can have

outside of work that a woman can have

outside of work that a woman can have health and welfare means something women

health and welfare means something women

health and welfare means something women are often the pillars of our homes and

are often the pillars of our homes and

are often the pillars of our homes and our communities and for women our

our communities and for women our

our communities and for women our families are not an excuse

families are not an excuse

families are not an excuse they are our reason we are innately

they are our reason we are innately

they are our reason we are innately great at multitasking okay maybe I’m

great at multitasking okay maybe I’m

great at multitasking okay maybe I’m gonna be the face of heart disease in

gonna be the face of heart disease in

gonna be the face of heart disease in the United States I’m gonna help lead

the United States I’m gonna help lead

the United States I’m gonna help lead the February go red events throughout

the February go red events throughout

the February go red events throughout the whole month

the whole month

the whole month okay I’m planning a march wedding on a

okay I’m planning a march wedding on a

okay I’m planning a march wedding on a 5,000 person crew

5,000 person crew

5,000 person crew ship with 150 wedding guests I’m

ship with 150 wedding guests I’m

ship with 150 wedding guests I’m organizing the bell ring ceremony and

organizing the bell ring ceremony and

organizing the bell ring ceremony and entrepreneurs conference at the opening

entrepreneurs conference at the opening

entrepreneurs conference at the opening of the Nasdaq in April I’m participating

of the Nasdaq in April I’m participating

of the Nasdaq in April I’m participating in a capital raised Roadshow for my

in a capital raised Roadshow for my

in a capital raised Roadshow for my publicly traded company and coaching my

publicly traded company and coaching my

publicly traded company and coaching my new son on his next glee club

new son on his next glee club

new son on his next glee club performance and debate tournament which

performance and debate tournament which

performance and debate tournament which by the way he came in third the last

by the way he came in third the last

by the way he came in third the last time we worked together okay and the

time we worked together okay and the

time we worked together okay and the topic was stemming global warming I had

topic was stemming global warming I had

topic was stemming global warming I had to learn about that if you want

to learn about that if you want

to learn about that if you want something done ask a woman we get it

something done ask a woman we get it

something done ask a woman we get it done okay we get it’s time to play oh

done okay we get it’s time to play oh

done okay we get it’s time to play oh and by the way I do know how to bring in

and by the way I do know how to bring in

and by the way I do know how to bring in help the ability to successfully

help the ability to successfully

help the ability to successfully delegate is a trait of any good leader

delegate is a trait of any good leader

delegate is a trait of any good leader well we do not have to choose one or the

well we do not have to choose one or the

well we do not have to choose one or the other we just have to work smarter when

other we just have to work smarter when

other we just have to work smarter when women succeed at work and financially

women succeed at work and financially

women succeed at work and financially her whole family succeeds and reaps the

her whole family succeeds and reaps the

her whole family succeeds and reaps the benefits of her fruits of her labor myth

benefits of her fruits of her labor myth

benefits of her fruits of her labor myth number two women leaders are too

number two women leaders are too

number two women leaders are too emotional oh please get out of my face

emotional oh please get out of my face

emotional oh please get out of my face mistake too often in my career as an

mistake too often in my career as an

mistake too often in my career as an attorney and a prosecutor I’ve seen

attorney and a prosecutor I’ve seen

attorney and a prosecutor I’ve seen women overlooked or men preferred in the

women overlooked or men preferred in the

women overlooked or men preferred in the courtroom no one dare say it out loud

courtroom no one dare say it out loud

courtroom no one dare say it out loud but they really do show their sexism in

but they really do show their sexism in

but they really do show their sexism in other ways oh you know he’s a bulldog in

other ways oh you know he’s a bulldog in

other ways oh you know he’s a bulldog in the courtroom he’s better connected oh

the courtroom he’s better connected oh

the courtroom he’s better connected oh he was at the top of his class versus

he was at the top of his class versus

he was at the top of his class versus the comments for women she’s such a

the comments for women she’s such a

the comments for women she’s such a beautiful girl oh she’s not bad to be so

beautiful girl oh she’s not bad to be so

beautiful girl oh she’s not bad to be so young oh I wonder will he be assisting

young oh I wonder will he be assisting

young oh I wonder will he be assisting her in that case I could go on and on

her in that case I could go on and on

her in that case I could go on and on but still I did not accept that

but still I did not accept that

but still I did not accept that perception I created my own reality so

perception I created my own reality so

perception I created my own reality so when I started my legal career in the

when I started my legal career in the

when I started my legal career in the New York District Attorney’s Office I

New York District Attorney’s Office I

New York District Attorney’s Office I made it my mission Hey do my job to seek

made it my mission Hey do my job to seek

made it my mission Hey do my job to seek justice that’s the job of a prosecutor

justice that’s the job of a prosecutor

justice that’s the job of a prosecutor and not to let gender get in the way

and not to let gender get in the way

and not to let gender get in the way mind you I work with predominantly men

mind you I work with predominantly men

mind you I work with predominantly men so before I left to start my media

so before I left to start my media

so before I left to start my media career I was actually the youngest

career I was actually the youngest

career I was actually the youngest senior assistant district attorney whose

senior assistant district attorney whose

senior assistant district attorney whose specialty was homicide as serious felony

specialty was homicide as serious felony

specialty was homicide as serious felony offenses before I was 30

offenses before I was 30

offenses before I was 30 all while amassing the best record in

all while amassing the best record in

all while amassing the best record in the whole entire office ninety-eight

the whole entire office ninety-eight

the whole entire office ninety-eight percent conviction rate which is still

percent conviction rate which is still

percent conviction rate which is still the best 25 years later ask my

the best 25 years later ask my

the best 25 years later ask my defendants if I was too emotional mm-hmm

defendants if I was too emotional mm-hmm

defendants if I was too emotional mm-hmm I still get letters from the people I

I still get letters from the people I

I still get letters from the people I put in prison it is very weird to get

put in prison it is very weird to get

put in prison it is very weird to get that dear mrs. Jones I don’t like that

that dear mrs. Jones I don’t like that

that dear mrs. Jones I don’t like that women leaders are not too emotional

women leaders are not too emotional

women leaders are not too emotional there’s a time and a place though we’re

there’s a time and a place though we’re

there’s a time and a place though we’re great showing of empathy is needed in

great showing of empathy is needed in

great showing of empathy is needed in the workplace like when I worked with

the workplace like when I worked with

the workplace like when I worked with the victims of crime but a woman’s

the victims of crime but a woman’s

the victims of crime but a woman’s ability to show empathy use

ability to show empathy use

ability to show empathy use thoughtfulness and her intuition is not

thoughtfulness and her intuition is not

thoughtfulness and her intuition is not a sign of weakness it makes for a really

a sign of weakness it makes for a really

a sign of weakness it makes for a really positive work culture and it certainly

positive work culture and it certainly

positive work culture and it certainly does not lead to emotional

does not lead to emotional

does not lead to emotional decision-making statistics on women in

decision-making statistics on women in

decision-making statistics on women in leadership just don’t support this myth

leadership just don’t support this myth

leadership just don’t support this myth I’m a data-driven person so there’s new

I’m a data-driven person so there’s new

I’m a data-driven person so there’s new data from the Peterson Institute of

data from the Peterson Institute of

data from the Peterson Institute of International Economics and they analyze

International Economics and they analyze

International Economics and they analyze results from nearly 22,000 globally

results from nearly 22,000 globally

results from nearly 22,000 globally public traded companies in 91 countries

public traded companies in 91 countries

public traded companies in 91 countries around the world from various industries

around the world from various industries

around the world from various industries and sectors and it showed that having at

and sectors and it showed that having at

and sectors and it showed that having at least 30% of women in leadership

least 30% of women in leadership

least 30% of women in leadership positions or in the c-suite as we call

positions or in the c-suite as we call

positions or in the c-suite as we call it adds literally 6% to the net profit

it adds literally 6% to the net profit

it adds literally 6% to the net profit margin of a business having more women

margin of a business having more women

margin of a business having more women in the c-suite roles is good for

in the c-suite roles is good for

in the c-suite roles is good for business not just the right thing to do

business not just the right thing to do

business not just the right thing to do it’s a smart thing to do it has been

it’s a smart thing to do it has been

it’s a smart thing to do it has been proven that companies who have more

proven that companies who have more

proven that companies who have more women and c-suite roles perform better

women and c-suite roles perform better

women and c-suite roles perform better than their competitors this is the

than their competitors this is the

than their competitors this is the bottom line this drives the decisions

bottom line this drives the decisions

bottom line this drives the decisions and as sooner companies realize that and

and as sooner companies realize that and

and as sooner companies realize that and see the financial benefit of having more

see the financial benefit of having more

see the financial benefit of having more women executive leaders in their roles

women executive leaders in their roles

women executive leaders in their roles the sooner attitudes and the world

the sooner attitudes and the world

the sooner attitudes and the world culture will change myth number three Oh

culture will change myth number three Oh

culture will change myth number three Oh women in Hollywood do not face gender

women in Hollywood do not face gender

women in Hollywood do not face gender inequality oh the mighty dollar does you

inequality oh the mighty dollar does you

inequality oh the mighty dollar does you think do you think that wealth and

think do you think that wealth and

think do you think that wealth and success can exclude a woman from gender

success can exclude a woman from gender

success can exclude a woman from gender bias and inequality uh-uh

bias and inequality uh-uh

bias and inequality uh-uh how about the glitz and the glamour of

how about the glitz and the glamour of

how about the glitz and the glamour of Hollywood absolutely not

Hollywood absolutely not

Hollywood absolutely not the me2 movement in our country right

the me2 movement in our country right

the me2 movement in our country right now is showing that and it is spreading

now is showing that and it is spreading

now is showing that and it is spreading around the world sexism is alive and

around the world sexism is alive and

around the world sexism is alive and well in Hollywood if you need another

well in Hollywood if you need another

well in Hollywood if you need another example here I’m standing right in front

example here I’m standing right in front

example here I’m standing right in front of you it’s not sexual harassment I’m

of you it’s not sexual harassment I’m

of you it’s not sexual harassment I’m dealing with but when I was overweight

dealing with but when I was overweight

dealing with but when I was overweight and I mean overweight I used to weigh

and I mean overweight I used to weigh

and I mean overweight I used to weigh 300 pounds and my heart was failing my

300 pounds and my heart was failing my

300 pounds and my heart was failing my body I was literally ostracized in the

body I was literally ostracized in the

body I was literally ostracized in the media and criticized even more when I

media and criticized even more when I

media and criticized even more when I decided to have weight-loss surgery to

decided to have weight-loss surgery to

decided to have weight-loss surgery to save my life you know what I learned

save my life you know what I learned

save my life you know what I learned whether I was a size 22 or a size six my

whether I was a size 22 or a size six my

whether I was a size 22 or a size six my weight my hair my makeup my love life

weight my hair my makeup my love life

weight my hair my makeup my love life down to the words I used honey that got

down to the words I used honey that got

down to the words I used honey that got me labeled as angry or feisty it was

me labeled as angry or feisty it was

me labeled as angry or feisty it was constantly under a microscope and talked

constantly under a microscope and talked

constantly under a microscope and talked about but did males in my field face the

about but did males in my field face the

about but did males in my field face the same scrutiny at that time oh heck no

same scrutiny at that time oh heck no

same scrutiny at that time oh heck no and I’m not the only one the movies and

and I’m not the only one the movies and

and I’m not the only one the movies and the studies conducted throughout 2015

the studies conducted throughout 2015

the studies conducted throughout 2015 showed that there are still ridiculously

showed that there are still ridiculously

showed that there are still ridiculously few films being made with female

few films being made with female

few films being made with female protagonists there even fewer being

protagonists there even fewer being

protagonists there even fewer being helmed by female directors but that is

helmed by female directors but that is

helmed by female directors but that is changing and there is a decrease in

changing and there is a decrease in

changing and there is a decrease in women who have actually helped producing

women who have actually helped producing

women who have actually helped producing roles but that is a changing factor

roles but that is a changing factor

roles but that is a changing factor women in Hollywood such as actresses

women in Hollywood such as actresses

women in Hollywood such as actresses like Nia Long and Meryl Streep my

like Nia Long and Meryl Streep my

like Nia Long and Meryl Streep my favorite Patricia Arquette Gabrielle

favorite Patricia Arquette Gabrielle

favorite Patricia Arquette Gabrielle Union and countless others have all

Union and countless others have all

Union and countless others have all spoken out against wage inequality in

spoken out against wage inequality in

spoken out against wage inequality in the city of bright lights wage

the city of bright lights wage

the city of bright lights wage inequality mmm that’s the big deciding

inequality mmm that’s the big deciding

inequality mmm that’s the big deciding factor establish actresses especially

factor establish actresses especially

factor establish actresses especially those of color are paid significantly

those of color are paid significantly

those of color are paid significantly less for quality roles than their male

less for quality roles than their male

less for quality roles than their male counterparts also they and other

counterparts also they and other

counterparts also they and other television personalities are judged more

television personalities are judged more

television personalities are judged more harshly for their appearances so from

harshly for their appearances so from

harshly for their appearances so from the tiniest no-name City to one of the

the tiniest no-name City to one of the

the tiniest no-name City to one of the most popular cities in the world whether

most popular cities in the world whether

most popular cities in the world whether she works in a mailroom or is a rising

she works in a mailroom or is a rising

she works in a mailroom or is a rising executive or is the Hollywood its girl

executive or is the Hollywood its girl

executive or is the Hollywood its girl women everywhere are burdened with the

women everywhere are burdened with the

women everywhere are burdened with the wage gap and

wage gap and

wage gap and that is the decision-making wage gap is

that is the decision-making wage gap is

that is the decision-making wage gap is gender bias myth number four women are

gender bias myth number four women are

gender bias myth number four women are just not interested in technology and

just not interested in technology and

just not interested in technology and other male-dominated industries just

other male-dominated industries just

other male-dominated industries just stop that’s just some crap okay although

stop that’s just some crap okay although

stop that’s just some crap okay although industries such as technology and

industries such as technology and

industries such as technology and male-dominated other fields women are

male-dominated other fields women are

male-dominated other fields women are unapologetically skilled to participate

unapologetically skilled to participate

unapologetically skilled to participate in such industries and are joining

in such industries and are joining

in such industries and are joining male-dominated fields in record numbers

male-dominated fields in record numbers

male-dominated fields in record numbers I hear that is something Bulgaria has

I hear that is something Bulgaria has

I hear that is something Bulgaria has over a lot of other countries of course

over a lot of other countries of course

over a lot of other countries of course they’re interested of course women are

they’re interested of course women are

they’re interested of course women are interested we can see the growing number

interested we can see the growing number

interested we can see the growing number of women interested in technology just

of women interested in technology just

of women interested in technology just by looking at the overwhelming number of

by looking at the overwhelming number of

by looking at the overwhelming number of women seeking and achieving technology

women seeking and achieving technology

women seeking and achieving technology degrees mmm-hmm if you want to work in

degrees mmm-hmm if you want to work in

degrees mmm-hmm if you want to work in this area you are learning about this

this area you are learning about this

this area you are learning about this area in 2016 women earned over 50% of

area in 2016 women earned over 50% of

area in 2016 women earned over 50% of the bachelor degrees in science and

the bachelor degrees in science and

the bachelor degrees in science and engineering and nearly 40% in math okay

engineering and nearly 40% in math okay

engineering and nearly 40% in math okay girl doing it still women can hold or

girl doing it still women can hold or

girl doing it still women can hold or only hold excuse me about 25% of the

only hold excuse me about 25% of the

only hold excuse me about 25% of the stem when we’re talking science

stem when we’re talking science

stem when we’re talking science technology engineering and math

technology engineering and math

technology engineering and math occupations come on what is worse is the

occupations come on what is worse is the

occupations come on what is worse is the few who do make it in these

few who do make it in these

few who do make it in these male-dominated industries are super

male-dominated industries are super

male-dominated industries are super successful and they still earn less than

successful and they still earn less than

successful and they still earn less than the men male-dominated occupations

the men male-dominated occupations

the men male-dominated occupations generally pay more than female dominated

generally pay more than female dominated

generally pay more than female dominated occupations but women made less than men

occupations but women made less than men

occupations but women made less than men even in the median weekly earnings of

even in the median weekly earnings of

even in the median weekly earnings of every male-dominated occupation in 2016

every male-dominated occupation in 2016

every male-dominated occupation in 2016 I’m data driven so let’s be completely

I’m data driven so let’s be completely

I’m data driven so let’s be completely clear and bust this myth wide open the

clear and bust this myth wide open the

clear and bust this myth wide open the interest of women in technology and

interest of women in technology and

interest of women in technology and engineering

engineering

engineering is there but the equal opportunity is

is there but the equal opportunity is

is there but the equal opportunity is not this is yet another myth that we

not this is yet another myth that we

not this is yet another myth that we will not accept myth number five younger

will not accept myth number five younger

will not accept myth number five younger women are more valuable at work

I’m 55 this is a myth I proved false

I’m 55 this is a myth I proved false every day

every day

every day okay sure oh yeah fifty-five black don’t

okay sure oh yeah fifty-five black don’t

okay sure oh yeah fifty-five black don’t crack that I know no sure there are

crack that I know no sure there are

crack that I know no sure there are companies who prefer to fill certain

companies who prefer to fill certain

companies who prefer to fill certain positions with new graduates or

positions with new graduates or

positions with new graduates or Millennials especially if they’re

Millennials especially if they’re

Millennials especially if they’re looking for fresh energy talent to mold

looking for fresh energy talent to mold

looking for fresh energy talent to mold and a lower salary to pay blue to due to

and a lower salary to pay blue to due to

and a lower salary to pay blue to due to lack of experience because that’s the

lack of experience because that’s the

lack of experience because that’s the way they put you vibrant smart young

way they put you vibrant smart young

way they put you vibrant smart young women definitely are welcome and are

women definitely are welcome and are

women definitely are welcome and are growing in the workplace this is not a

growing in the workplace this is not a

growing in the workplace this is not a competition chicks not at all we can all

competition chicks not at all we can all

competition chicks not at all we can all have a seat at the table but never feel

have a seat at the table but never feel

have a seat at the table but never feel like because you are in your 40s or your

like because you are in your 40s or your

like because you are in your 40s or your 50s or even your 60s that you don’t know

50s or even your 60s that you don’t know

50s or even your 60s that you don’t know value in your field if you’re excellent

value in your field if you’re excellent

value in your field if you’re excellent at what you do I’m willing to bet you

at what you do I’m willing to bet you

at what you do I’m willing to bet you will get better with time

will get better with time

will get better with time like fine wine your network your skill

like fine wine your network your skill

like fine wine your network your skill your trial-and-error experience that

your trial-and-error experience that

your trial-and-error experience that been there done that stuff it’s so

been there done that stuff it’s so

been there done that stuff it’s so profound at this point and if your

profound at this point and if your

profound at this point and if your current company does not value your

current company does not value your

current company does not value your wisdom it may be time for you to seek a

wisdom it may be time for you to seek a

wisdom it may be time for you to seek a company that does and understand your

company that does and understand your

company that does and understand your value you are valuable and if you’re

value you are valuable and if you’re

value you are valuable and if you’re living and breathing huh your work is

living and breathing huh your work is

living and breathing huh your work is not done to every woman under the sound

not done to every woman under the sound

not done to every woman under the sound of my voice do not add a projected date

of my voice do not add a projected date

of my voice do not add a projected date to every milestone you hope to reach

to every milestone you hope to reach

to every milestone you hope to reach this is my best advice no you will not

this is my best advice no you will not

this is my best advice no you will not accomplish all of your life’s goals by

accomplish all of your life’s goals by

accomplish all of your life’s goals by age 35 who told you that crap maybe not

age 35 who told you that crap maybe not

age 35 who told you that crap maybe not even by 45 you are a fine wine ladies an

even by 45 you are a fine wine ladies an

even by 45 you are a fine wine ladies an age and wisdom will look good on you

age and wisdom will look good on you

age and wisdom will look good on you your talent your character your skills

your talent your character your skills

your talent your character your skills and your passion there are a journey not

and your passion there are a journey not

and your passion there are a journey not a destination and we will develop it

a destination and we will develop it

a destination and we will develop it over time Barbra Streisand says hmm

over time Barbra Streisand says hmm

over time Barbra Streisand says hmm myths are a waste of time they prevent

myths are a waste of time they prevent

myths are a waste of time they prevent progression I couldn’t agree more

progression I couldn’t agree more

progression I couldn’t agree more let me be really real I grew up in the

let me be really real I grew up in the

let me be really real I grew up in the public housing projects of New Jersey

public housing projects of New Jersey

public housing projects of New Jersey I knew that a solid education was my

I knew that a solid education was my

I knew that a solid education was my only ticket out I was more than willing

only ticket out I was more than willing

only ticket out I was more than willing to use my money from my low-paying job I

to use my money from my low-paying job I

to use my money from my low-paying job I was a fry girl at McDonald’s it was my

was a fry girl at McDonald’s it was my

was a fry girl at McDonald’s it was my first job and all the birthday gifts to

first job and all the birthday gifts to

first job and all the birthday gifts to help pay for my education and all the

help pay for my education and all the

help pay for my education and all the prep courses that I needed I knew the

prep courses that I needed I knew the

prep courses that I needed I knew the value of education and it’s no secret to

value of education and it’s no secret to

value of education and it’s no secret to any wise and driven woman sources such

any wise and driven woman sources such

any wise and driven woman sources such as Forbes and Yale and the Bureau of

as Forbes and Yale and the Bureau of

as Forbes and Yale and the Bureau of Labor Statistics have all recently

Labor Statistics have all recently

Labor Statistics have all recently reported that women are achieving higher

reported that women are achieving higher

reported that women are achieving higher education in higher numbers than men are

education in higher numbers than men are

education in higher numbers than men are about 30 36 percent of women and the

about 30 36 percent of women and the

about 30 36 percent of women and the ages of 25 to 34 have a bachelor’s

ages of 25 to 34 have a bachelor’s

ages of 25 to 34 have a bachelor’s degree or higher compared with about 28%

degree or higher compared with about 28%

degree or higher compared with about 28% of men who are also of the same age also

of men who are also of the same age also

of men who are also of the same age also about 29 percent of both men and women

about 29 percent of both men and women

about 29 percent of both men and women of all ages have a bachelor’s degree of

of all ages have a bachelor’s degree of

of all ages have a bachelor’s degree of higher so while these numbers may seem

higher so while these numbers may seem

higher so while these numbers may seem impressive women with bachelor’s degrees

impressive women with bachelor’s degrees

impressive women with bachelor’s degrees make an average of here this $50,000 a

make an average of here this $50,000 a

make an average of here this $50,000 a year which is the same average earning

year which is the same average earning

year which is the same average earning for a man with an associate degree you

for a man with an associate degree you

for a man with an associate degree you heard me right your sparkly diploma does

heard me right your sparkly diploma does

heard me right your sparkly diploma does States your fancy degree from your

States your fancy degree from your

States your fancy degree from your renowned school still does not close the

renowned school still does not close the

renowned school still does not close the wage gap even that doesn’t between men

wage gap even that doesn’t between men

wage gap even that doesn’t between men and women so are we as women making

and women so are we as women making

and women so are we as women making strides yes absolutely this is not old

strides yes absolutely this is not old

strides yes absolutely this is not old war with us we are smart and resourceful

war with us we are smart and resourceful

war with us we are smart and resourceful yes do we still have more work to do oh

yes do we still have more work to do oh

yes do we still have more work to do oh yes we have more noise to make we have

yes we have more noise to make we have

yes we have more noise to make we have more equality to achieve those are

more equality to achieve those are

more equality to achieve those are absolute yes if you are in a hiring or

absolute yes if you are in a hiring or

absolute yes if you are in a hiring or managerial position hopefully you will

managerial position hopefully you will

managerial position hopefully you will ask yourself going forward what type of

ask yourself going forward what type of

ask yourself going forward what type of work culture do I provide do I

work culture do I provide do I

work culture do I provide do I self-consciously perpetuate and support

self-consciously perpetuate and support

self-consciously perpetuate and support gender equality myths if you’re

gender equality myths if you’re

gender equality myths if you’re currently climbing the corporate ladder

currently climbing the corporate ladder

currently climbing the corporate ladder I hope you are motivated to speak up

I hope you are motivated to speak up

I hope you are motivated to speak up male or female to disrupt to claim what

male or female to disrupt to claim what

male or female to disrupt to claim what is yours wherever you are in your life

is yours wherever you are in your life

is yours wherever you are in your life you might want to ask yourself what can

you might want to ask yourself what can

you might want to ask yourself what can I

I

I you remember gender and wage inequality

you remember gender and wage inequality

you remember gender and wage inequality is not so big and systematic that your

is not so big and systematic that your

is not so big and systematic that your efforts are our efforts and decisions as

efforts are our efforts and decisions as

efforts are our efforts and decisions as leaders whole no impact we control it

leaders whole no impact we control it

leaders whole no impact we control it and if you are not going to join the

and if you are not going to join the

and if you are not going to join the vigorous fight for equality and

vigorous fight for equality and

vigorous fight for equality and diversity simply support another woman

diversity simply support another woman

diversity simply support another woman the world will make you think that you

the world will make you think that you

the world will make you think that you and other women are competing for the

and other women are competing for the

and other women are competing for the same prize no social media will have you

same prize no social media will have you

same prize no social media will have you comparing shades of grass relationships

comparing shades of grass relationships

comparing shades of grass relationships successes and dress sizes under no

successes and dress sizes under no

successes and dress sizes under no circumstances must you accept or

circumstances must you accept or

circumstances must you accept or participate in this dog-eat-dog culture

participate in this dog-eat-dog culture

participate in this dog-eat-dog culture I can tell you a rising tide lifts all

I can tell you a rising tide lifts all

I can tell you a rising tide lifts all boats there’s enough success to go

boats there’s enough success to go

boats there’s enough success to go around supporting other women is your

around supporting other women is your

around supporting other women is your mission supporting other women should be

mission supporting other women should be

mission supporting other women should be your life’s mandate and you will be

your life’s mandate and you will be

your life’s mandate and you will be happier and widely respected due to your

happier and widely respected due to your

happier and widely respected due to your willingness to lift other women up

willingness to lift other women up

willingness to lift other women up doubtless dream bigger and soar we can

doubtless dream bigger and soar we can

doubtless dream bigger and soar we can be unstoppable if you just dream rise

be unstoppable if you just dream rise

be unstoppable if you just dream rise and lead thank you all

and lead thank you all

and lead thank you all [Applause]

[Applause]

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you

you [Music]

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