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one in six cellphones contain fecal

one in six cellphones contain fecal matter because the majority of us use

matter because the majority of us use

matter because the majority of us use our cell phones on the toilet and most

our cell phones on the toilet and most

our cell phones on the toilet and most of us don’t clean our phones in public

of us don’t clean our phones in public

of us don’t clean our phones in public restrooms we fix our hair or makeup you

restrooms we fix our hair or makeup you

restrooms we fix our hair or makeup you watch Netflix and we wash our hands

watch Netflix and we wash our hands

watch Netflix and we wash our hands hopefully we take narcotics both legal

hopefully we take narcotics both legal

hopefully we take narcotics both legal and illegal and the majority of us use

and illegal and the majority of us use

and illegal and the majority of us use the stall that is faded from the

the stall that is faded from the

the stall that is faded from the bathroom door because we believe it is

bathroom door because we believe it is

bathroom door because we believe it is the cleanest our restroom experiences

the cleanest our restroom experiences

the cleanest our restroom experiences are private and they’re common so if we

are private and they’re common so if we

are private and they’re common so if we use the Resurrection for the same

use the Resurrection for the same

use the Resurrection for the same experience and utilitarian purposes why

experience and utilitarian purposes why

experience and utilitarian purposes why is the label on the door such a concern

is the label on the door such a concern

is the label on the door such a concern public restrooms have a short yet

public restrooms have a short yet

public restrooms have a short yet complex history the public restrooms are

complex history the public restrooms are

complex history the public restrooms are less than 150 years old and back then

less than 150 years old and back then

less than 150 years old and back then Rett public restrooms were male only and

Rett public restrooms were male only and

Rett public restrooms were male only and today for the most part policy changed

today for the most part policy changed

today for the most part policy changed and their male and female but the

and their male and female but the

and their male and female but the original restroom the original public

original restroom the original public

original restroom the original public restroom was male female gender-neutral

restroom was male female gender-neutral

restroom was male female gender-neutral deer and dinosaur and when did trees

deer and dinosaur and when did trees

deer and dinosaur and when did trees become the victim of human elimination

become the victim of human elimination

become the victim of human elimination my first encounter with public restrooms

my first encounter with public restrooms

my first encounter with public restrooms or my first memorable encounter with

or my first memorable encounter with

or my first memorable encounter with restroom signage occurred on a United

restroom signage occurred on a United

restroom signage occurred on a United States military base overseas on this

States military base overseas on this

States military base overseas on this base there are public restroom trailers

base there are public restroom trailers

base there are public restroom trailers all throughout the base and although

all throughout the base and although

all throughout the base and although there are many I’m human and subjected

there are many I’m human and subjected

there are many I’m human and subjected patterns from complacency I used the

patterns from complacency I used the

patterns from complacency I used the same trailer every day I use the same

same trailer every day I use the same

same trailer every day I use the same trailer so often that I began to ignore

trailer so often that I began to ignore

trailer so often that I began to ignore the signs on the door then one morning I

the signs on the door then one morning I

the signs on the door then one morning I go to use the restroom of the shower I

go to use the restroom of the shower I

go to use the restroom of the shower I was the only person in the trailer so I

was the only person in the trailer so I

was the only person in the trailer so I step outside the shower curtain to dry

step outside the shower curtain to dry

step outside the shower curtain to dry off and for females walk in they stared

off and for females walk in they stared

off and for females walk in they stared at me and I stared back at them we

at me and I stared back at them we

at me and I stared back at them we stared at each other as if we owed one

stared at each other as if we owed one

stared at each other as if we owed one another money hey you’re in the wrong

another money hey you’re in the wrong

another money hey you’re in the wrong bathroom no no I’m not yes this became a

bathroom no no I’m not yes this became a

bathroom no no I’m not yes this became a female latrine 2 days ago

female latrine 2 days ago

female latrine 2 days ago there’s been a sign on the door for two

there’s been a sign on the door for two

there’s been a sign on the door for two weeks Oh as restrooms changed so did the

weeks Oh as restrooms changed so did the

weeks Oh as restrooms changed so did the law and we often say that technology is

law and we often say that technology is

law and we often say that technology is too slow – or the laws too slow to

too slow – or the laws too slow to

too slow – or the laws too slow to maintain pace with technology and to

maintain pace with technology and to

maintain pace with technology and to some people indoor plumbing is mono

some people indoor plumbing is mono

some people indoor plumbing is mono technology

technology

technology I still call my father

I still call my father

I still call my father for help with indoor plumbing I’ll share

for help with indoor plumbing I’ll share

for help with indoor plumbing I’ll share another story and I promise for less of

another story and I promise for less of

another story and I promise for less of a visualization when I first learned

a visualization when I first learned

a visualization when I first learned about North Carolina’s House bill – also

about North Carolina’s House bill – also

about North Carolina’s House bill – also known as the bathroom bill I wasn’t very

known as the bathroom bill I wasn’t very

known as the bathroom bill I wasn’t very knowledgeable about bathroom policy so

knowledgeable about bathroom policy so

knowledgeable about bathroom policy so when I first learned about the bathroom

when I first learned about the bathroom

when I first learned about the bathroom bill that restricted people to use the

bill that restricted people to use the

bill that restricted people to use the restroom associate with their gender

restroom associate with their gender

restroom associate with their gender identified at birth my initial reaction

identified at birth my initial reaction

identified at birth my initial reaction isn’t that already illegal then I

isn’t that already illegal then I

isn’t that already illegal then I encountered a restroom that

encountered a restroom that

encountered a restroom that discriminated one discriminated one

discriminated one discriminated one

discriminated one discriminated one gender and not another

gender and not another

gender and not another and also baffled and confused by the

and also baffled and confused by the

and also baffled and confused by the design of this restroom that had to

design of this restroom that had to

design of this restroom that had to figure out why it was done like that and

figure out why it was done like that and

figure out why it was done like that and more importantly how people felt about

more importantly how people felt about

more importantly how people felt about it

it

it so I ceased all other research and don’t

so I ceased all other research and don’t

so I ceased all other research and don’t head first into this phenomenon there

head first into this phenomenon there

head first into this phenomenon there are some organizations that will label

are some organizations that will label

are some organizations that will label one restroom as gender specific and the

one restroom as gender specific and the

one restroom as gender specific and the other as gender-neutral I’ll give you an

other as gender-neutral I’ll give you an

other as gender-neutral I’ll give you an example you’re walking to the restroom

example you’re walking to the restroom

example you’re walking to the restroom and you approach two doors the door on

and you approach two doors the door on

and you approach two doors the door on the left

the left

the left is female the door on the right is male

is female the door on the right is male

is female the door on the right is male and gender-neutral and the situations

and gender-neutral and the situations

and gender-neutral and the situations often reversed male and female and

often reversed male and female and

often reversed male and female and gender-neutral in concept this sounds

gender-neutral in concept this sounds

gender-neutral in concept this sounds like it solves a utilitarian problem but

like it solves a utilitarian problem but

like it solves a utilitarian problem but humans are utilitarian thinkers so I’ll

humans are utilitarian thinkers so I’ll

humans are utilitarian thinkers so I’ll share a story from a college professor I

share a story from a college professor I

share a story from a college professor I recently showed a college professor

recently showed a college professor

recently showed a college professor arrest true a gender neutral restroom

arrest true a gender neutral restroom

arrest true a gender neutral restroom placard and she said she would use the

placard and she said she would use the

placard and she said she would use the restroom measure the same college

restroom measure the same college

restroom measure the same college professor the female engineer neutral

professor the female engineer neutral

professor the female engineer neutral placard and she declined the two

placard and she declined the two

placard and she declined the two restrooms share the same meeting same

restrooms share the same meeting same

restrooms share the same meeting same definition of the placard but yet two

definition of the placard but yet two

definition of the placard but yet two different responses the utilitarian

different responses the utilitarian

different responses the utilitarian response would have been to use the

response would have been to use the

response would have been to use the restroom but the response was about the

restroom but the response was about the

restroom but the response was about the perceived experience and then we took

perceived experience and then we took

perceived experience and then we took that same scenario and we replicated

that same scenario and we replicated

that same scenario and we replicated with 6000 participants when we showed

with 6000 participants when we showed

with 6000 participants when we showed 6,000 females the female and gender

6,000 females the female and gender

6,000 females the female and gender neutral and gender neutral placards 89%

neutral and gender neutral placards 89%

neutral and gender neutral placards 89% were more than comfortable with using

were more than comfortable with using

were more than comfortable with using the female and gender-neutral version

the female and gender-neutral version

the female and gender-neutral version again two different restroom signs two

again two different restroom signs two

again two different restroom signs two different responses well how would males

different responses well how would males

different responses well how would males feel in this situation when we showed

feel in this situation when we showed

feel in this situation when we showed males the same placards but the male

males the same placards but the male

males the same placards but the male versions males typically did not care

versions males typically did not care

versions males typically did not care what the signage of the door said males

what the signage of the door said males

what the signage of the door said males a very utilitarian they’ll walk in the

a very utilitarian they’ll walk in the

a very utilitarian they’ll walk in the restroom

restroom

restroom use the restroom and exit the restroom

use the restroom and exit the restroom

use the restroom and exit the restroom but males did have one concern and it

but males did have one concern and it

but males did have one concern and it wasn’t their restroom

wasn’t their restroom

wasn’t their restroom the concern that most males had was the

the concern that most males had was the

the concern that most males had was the female restroom males did not want

female restroom males did not want

female restroom males did not want females sharing the female restroom

females sharing the female restroom

females sharing the female restroom during the tense bathroom debate of 2015

during the tense bathroom debate of 2015

during the tense bathroom debate of 2015 when most people are confused about what

when most people are confused about what

when most people are confused about what was going on in the bathroom I was

was going on in the bathroom I was

was going on in the bathroom I was Marcus what was going on outside the

Marcus what was going on outside the

Marcus what was going on outside the bathroom door when is the bathroom no

bathroom door when is the bathroom no

bathroom door when is the bathroom no longer bathroom one is it a can a John a

longer bathroom one is it a can a John a

longer bathroom one is it a can a John a lavatory of a tree nor a loo when is it

lavatory of a tree nor a loo when is it

lavatory of a tree nor a loo when is it a powder room a potty or privy and when

a powder room a potty or privy and when

a powder room a potty or privy and when is it a restroom a throne or water

is it a restroom a throne or water

is it a restroom a throne or water closet with so many names

closet with so many names

closet with so many names why are we so hung up on gendered

why are we so hung up on gendered

why are we so hung up on gendered pronouns more so why are we so hung upon

pronouns more so why are we so hung upon

pronouns more so why are we so hung upon using gender-neutral as the default

using gender-neutral as the default

using gender-neutral as the default option for shared restrooms behavioral

option for shared restrooms behavioral

option for shared restrooms behavioral science tells us that gender neutral is

science tells us that gender neutral is

science tells us that gender neutral is not the preferred option by most people

not the preferred option by most people

not the preferred option by most people so we have so many names to the restroom

so we have so many names to the restroom

so we have so many names to the restroom let’s start using more fun names

let’s start using more fun names

let’s start using more fun names although non-traditional restroom signs

although non-traditional restroom signs

although non-traditional restroom signs could create a more enjoyable restroom

could create a more enjoyable restroom

could create a more enjoyable restroom experience there isn’t a universal

experience there isn’t a universal

experience there isn’t a universal answer they can probably all relate to a

answer they can probably all relate to a

answer they can probably all relate to a time we’ve been to a restaurant that had

time we’ve been to a restaurant that had

time we’ve been to a restaurant that had a foreign theme and we didn’t know which

a foreign theme and we didn’t know which

a foreign theme and we didn’t know which bathroom door to use are we blokes or

bathroom door to use are we blokes or

bathroom door to use are we blokes or are we Sheila’s traditional restroom

are we Sheila’s traditional restroom

are we Sheila’s traditional restroom signs can be found nearly anywhere and

signs can be found nearly anywhere and

signs can be found nearly anywhere and organizations are constantly seeking new

organizations are constantly seeking new

organizations are constantly seeking new ways and more appropriate ways of

ways and more appropriate ways of

ways and more appropriate ways of conforming to the non-binary gender

conforming to the non-binary gender

conforming to the non-binary gender population so what would happen if we

population so what would happen if we

population so what would happen if we took the traditional restroom sign and

took the traditional restroom sign and

took the traditional restroom sign and reframe the message but let’s not

reframe the message but let’s not

reframe the message but let’s not reframe the message to match the

reframe the message to match the

reframe the message to match the transgender population let’s match

transgender population let’s match

transgender population let’s match everyone and we just might nudge a new

everyone and we just might nudge a new

everyone and we just might nudge a new normal or need default through behavior

normal or need default through behavior

normal or need default through behavior change so we took the traditional

change so we took the traditional

change so we took the traditional restroom placard with the traditional

restroom placard with the traditional

restroom placard with the traditional male silhouette and the word gendered

male silhouette and the word gendered

male silhouette and the word gendered below it and we showed it to males and

below it and we showed it to males and

below it and we showed it to males and males were very comfortable to

males were very comfortable to

males were very comfortable to expression design then we took the

expression design then we took the

expression design then we took the opposite version took the female

opposite version took the female

opposite version took the female silhouette and put gendered below it and

silhouette and put gendered below it and

silhouette and put gendered below it and females again were very comfortable with

females again were very comfortable with

females again were very comfortable with this design but then we thought would it

this design but then we thought would it

this design but then we thought would it be possible to increase acceptance and

be possible to increase acceptance and

be possible to increase acceptance and we’ll use to use if we removed the

we’ll use to use if we removed the

we’ll use to use if we removed the silhouette completely from the restroom

silhouette completely from the restroom

silhouette completely from the restroom placard so we created two more designs a

placard so we created two more designs a

placard so we created two more designs a gender M and in gender deaf and we

gender M and in gender deaf and we

gender M and in gender deaf and we showed these to males and females alike

showed these to males and females alike

showed these to males and females alike against 6,000

against 6,000

against 6,000 participants each and again males and

participants each and again males and

participants each and again males and females alike we’re extremely

females alike we’re extremely

females alike we’re extremely comfortable and extremely likely to use

comfortable and extremely likely to use

comfortable and extremely likely to use this restroom design then the moment of

this restroom design then the moment of

this restroom design then the moment of truth how would this placard feel fair

truth how would this placard feel fair

truth how would this placard feel fair for everyone if we had a shared version

for everyone if we had a shared version

for everyone if we had a shared version so we showed the share version to people

so we showed the share version to people

so we showed the share version to people who identified as male female non-binary

who identified as male female non-binary

who identified as male female non-binary and transgender and the significant

and transgender and the significant

and transgender and the significant majority were extremely comfortable with

majority were extremely comfortable with

majority were extremely comfortable with this rationale design but as we got

this rationale design but as we got

this rationale design but as we got closer to what we felt like was the

closer to what we felt like was the

closer to what we felt like was the appropriate answer for a restroom design

appropriate answer for a restroom design

appropriate answer for a restroom design that would work for everyone we realized

that would work for everyone we realized

that would work for everyone we realized you know we don’t live in a perfect

you know we don’t live in a perfect

you know we don’t live in a perfect world how would these wrestling designs

world how would these wrestling designs

world how would these wrestling designs fare if children were involved so I want

fare if children were involved so I want

fare if children were involved so I want you to imagine you’re at a concert and

you to imagine you’re at a concert and

you to imagine you’re at a concert and your favorite artist is about to perform

your favorite artist is about to perform

your favorite artist is about to perform you’re waiting in line for the restroom

you’re waiting in line for the restroom

you’re waiting in line for the restroom and the line is long and it’s moving

and the line is long and it’s moving

and the line is long and it’s moving slowly you’re anxious to get back to

slowly you’re anxious to get back to

slowly you’re anxious to get back to your seats then you notice the restroom

your seats then you notice the restroom

your seats then you notice the restroom for the opposite gender doesn’t have the

for the opposite gender doesn’t have the

for the opposite gender doesn’t have the line how likely are you to use the

line how likely are you to use the

line how likely are you to use the opposite genders restroom here’s what we

opposite genders restroom here’s what we

opposite genders restroom here’s what we know we know that males are too scared

know we know that males are too scared

know we know that males are too scared to go into the female restroom and we

to go into the female restroom and we

to go into the female restroom and we know that females are likely to invade

know that females are likely to invade

know that females are likely to invade the male restroom but are less

the male restroom but are less

the male restroom but are less comfortable doing so

same scenario now you wait in line for

same scenario now you wait in line for that restroom with a small child how

that restroom with a small child how

that restroom with a small child how likely are you to use that how likely

likely are you to use that how likely

likely are you to use that how likely are you to send a small child into that

are you to send a small child into that

are you to send a small child into that restroom alone less than 1% of people

restroom alone less than 1% of people

restroom alone less than 1% of people will have that child to enter that

will have that child to enter that

will have that child to enter that restroom by themselves so then we tested

restroom by themselves so then we tested

restroom by themselves so then we tested the all placard again and instead of 1%

the all placard again and instead of 1%

the all placard again and instead of 1% we got 20% not the highest results but

we got 20% not the highest results but

we got 20% not the highest results but greater than the previous 1% then we had

greater than the previous 1% then we had

greater than the previous 1% then we had one more nudge up our sleeve to nudge

one more nudge up our sleeve to nudge

one more nudge up our sleeve to nudge behavior change and get people to accept

behavior change and get people to accept

behavior change and get people to accept shared restrooms when children are

shared restrooms when children are

shared restrooms when children are involved the everyone placard the

involved the everyone placard the

involved the everyone placard the everyone placard has consistently given

everyone placard has consistently given

everyone placard has consistently given us the highest results of acceptance

us the highest results of acceptance

us the highest results of acceptance comfort and willingness to use across

comfort and willingness to use across

comfort and willingness to use across all gender identities in all situations

all gender identities in all situations

all gender identities in all situations and scenarios especially with parents of

and scenarios especially with parents of

and scenarios especially with parents of young children our perceptions of

young children our perceptions of

young children our perceptions of restrooms are likely to change from

restrooms are likely to change from

restrooms are likely to change from private restrooms to public restrooms

private restrooms to public restrooms

private restrooms to public restrooms for example we use this we use the stall

for example we use this we use the stall

for example we use this we use the stall that is furthest from the bathroom door

that is furthest from the bathroom door

that is furthest from the bathroom door because we believe it is the cleanest so

because we believe it is the cleanest so

because we believe it is the cleanest so if we’re all using the same stall is it

if we’re all using the same stall is it

if we’re all using the same stall is it really the cleanest 85% of Americans

really the cleanest 85% of Americans

really the cleanest 85% of Americans believe they had

believe they had

believe they had exceptionally clean toothbrush

exceptionally clean toothbrush

exceptionally clean toothbrush toothbrushes are recommended to be

toothbrushes are recommended to be

toothbrushes are recommended to be stored seven feet from a toilet but in

stored seven feet from a toilet but in

stored seven feet from a toilet but in America the average toothbrush the

America the average toothbrush the

America the average toothbrush the toilet distance is a mere three and a

toilet distance is a mere three and a

toilet distance is a mere three and a half feet and we all believe that we’re

half feet and we all believe that we’re

half feet and we all believe that we’re pretty quick on the toilet but one in

pretty quick on the toilet but one in

pretty quick on the toilet but one in four Americans will spend at least 60

four Americans will spend at least 60

four Americans will spend at least 60 minutes on the toilet each day so not

minutes on the toilet each day so not

minutes on the toilet each day so not all restroom concerns are about

all restroom concerns are about

all restroom concerns are about transgender individuals when we exploit

transgender individuals when we exploit

transgender individuals when we exploit a Canas then a period of time on the

a Canas then a period of time on the

a Canas then a period of time on the toilet

toilet

toilet we indirectly create a potty parody

we indirectly create a potty parody

we indirectly create a potty parody concern so I try to be equal but what

concern so I try to be equal but what

concern so I try to be equal but what does equal mean we can probably agree

does equal mean we can probably agree

does equal mean we can probably agree that an equal statement or action

that an equal statement or action

that an equal statement or action contains a one to one ratio

contains a one to one ratio

contains a one to one ratio New York City’s potty priority law state

New York City’s potty priority law state

New York City’s potty priority law state that female restrooms must have two

that female restrooms must have two

that female restrooms must have two stalls for every one male bathroom stall

stalls for every one male bathroom stall

stalls for every one male bathroom stall on adjacent male bathroom then there’s

on adjacent male bathroom then there’s

on adjacent male bathroom then there’s Denver Denver’s Convention Center

Denver Denver’s Convention Center

Denver Denver’s Convention Center created a unique restroom that has

created a unique restroom that has

created a unique restroom that has partition walls so on the Denver

partition walls so on the Denver

partition walls so on the Denver Convention Center hosts events that

Convention Center hosts events that

Convention Center hosts events that cater more to one gender than another

cater more to one gender than another

cater more to one gender than another the restroom size changes to reflect the

the restroom size changes to reflect the

the restroom size changes to reflect the audience demographics I often advocate

audience demographics I often advocate

audience demographics I often advocate that the restroom experience begins

that the restroom experience begins

that the restroom experience begins outside the restroom door and I’m not

outside the restroom door and I’m not

outside the restroom door and I’m not sure I’ve ever came across a person who

sure I’ve ever came across a person who

sure I’ve ever came across a person who was raised in a home with a gendered

was raised in a home with a gendered

was raised in a home with a gendered bathroom maybe the Denver Convention

bathroom maybe the Denver Convention

bathroom maybe the Denver Convention Center is a metaphor for potty priority

Center is a metaphor for potty priority

Center is a metaphor for potty priority and shared restrooms but is it possible

and shared restrooms but is it possible

and shared restrooms but is it possible that the solution to shared restrooms

that the solution to shared restrooms

that the solution to shared restrooms and potty priority is not forced policy

and potty priority is not forced policy

and potty priority is not forced policy change but rather creative solutions

change but rather creative solutions

change but rather creative solutions that are fun and engaging

that are fun and engaging

that are fun and engaging I’m Michael Barbera I’m a researcher and

I’m Michael Barbera I’m a researcher and

I’m Michael Barbera I’m a researcher and I love asking tough questions thank you

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