all right how are we doing today Tuesday its talk kind Tuesday isn’t it
Tuesday its talk kind Tuesday isn’t it
Tuesday its talk kind Tuesday isn’t it when you guys hear a principal that you
when you guys hear a principal that you
when you guys hear a principal that you guys have at Southport elementary thank
guys have at Southport elementary thank
guys have at Southport elementary thank you so much for having me today for your
you so much for having me today for your
you so much for having me today for your TEDx adventure you’ve heard many
TEDx adventure you’ve heard many
TEDx adventure you’ve heard many speakers there’ll be two more after me
speakers there’ll be two more after me
speakers there’ll be two more after me and I’d just like to take a moment at
and I’d just like to take a moment at
and I’d just like to take a moment at this time to talk to you guys about our
this time to talk to you guys about our
this time to talk to you guys about our lives online being safe and having fun
lives online being safe and having fun
lives online being safe and having fun one thing I’d like to say is some of
one thing I’d like to say is some of
one thing I’d like to say is some of what I’m going to show here are
what I’m going to show here are
what I’m going to show here are principles and tools you can take in
principles and tools you can take in
principles and tools you can take in your own life on how to be safe and have
your own life on how to be safe and have
your own life on how to be safe and have fun with our lives online some of the
fun with our lives online some of the
fun with our lives online some of the statistics and parts you’ll see in this
statistics and parts you’ll see in this
statistics and parts you’ll see in this presentation I took from our Canadian
presentation I took from our Canadian
presentation I took from our Canadian our northern neighbors Canadian get
our northern neighbors Canadian get
our northern neighbors Canadian get cyber safe and it’s a really excellent
cyber safe and it’s a really excellent
cyber safe and it’s a really excellent resource for how to handle situations
resource for how to handle situations
resource for how to handle situations when you’re using social media and being
when you’re using social media and being
when you’re using social media and being online I’d like to start my talk with
online I’d like to start my talk with
online I’d like to start my talk with two figures that I want you guys to
two figures that I want you guys to
two figures that I want you guys to consider so if you take a look at this
consider so if you take a look at this
consider so if you take a look at this picture here I want you guys to think
picture here I want you guys to think
picture here I want you guys to think about this for a moment it does relate
about this for a moment it does relate
about this for a moment it does relate to our lives online because how often
to our lives online because how often
to our lives online because how often when we or our parents or relatives
when we or our parents or relatives
when we or our parents or relatives older brothers sister show something
older brothers sister show something
older brothers sister show something online they put something forward to
online they put something forward to
online they put something forward to social media you can see that from one
social media you can see that from one
social media you can see that from one angle that’s true and from another angle
angle that’s true and from another angle
angle that’s true and from another angle another condition or facet of who we are
another condition or facet of who we are
another condition or facet of who we are is true but in the center what we are
is true but in the center what we are
is true but in the center what we are our humanity is what’s true similarly
our humanity is what’s true similarly
our humanity is what’s true similarly you can see here too one perspective
you can see here too one perspective
you can see here too one perspective it’s six from another perspective it’s
it’s six from another perspective it’s
it’s six from another perspective it’s nine both are true but the truth is it’s
nine both are true but the truth is it’s
nine both are true but the truth is it’s a number so with our lives online what
a number so with our lives online what
a number so with our lives online what is it that we show I’ll talk a little
is it that we show I’ll talk a little
is it that we show I’ll talk a little bit in a moment about masks and what we
bit in a moment about masks and what we
bit in a moment about masks and what we use when we’re having our online lives
use when we’re having our online lives
use when we’re having our online lives are we being authentic are we being real
are we being authentic are we being real
are we being authentic are we being real I want it to tell you guys 100% be sure
I want it to tell you guys 100% be sure
I want it to tell you guys 100% be sure of this what you post can last a
of this what you post can last a
of this what you post can last a lifetime
lifetime
lifetime now give you a technical reason for that
now give you a technical reason for that
now give you a technical reason for that there’s something called Google indexing
there’s something called Google indexing
there’s something called Google indexing so even if you were to send a picture
so even if you were to send a picture
so even if you were to send a picture using an app that claims to erase it
using an app that claims to erase it
using an app that claims to erase it after a certain amount of time even if
after a certain amount of time even if
after a certain amount of time even if you were to post a picture on a social
you were to post a picture on a social
you were to post a picture on a social media app and then remove it later it’s
media app and then remove it later it’s
media app and then remove it later it’s still out there you’ll see later on in
still out there you’ll see later on in
still out there you’ll see later on in this presentation that I’ll talk about
this presentation that I’ll talk about
this presentation that I’ll talk about how that happens but I also wanted to
how that happens but I also wanted to
how that happens but I also wanted to tell you another principle here do not
tell you another principle here do not
tell you another principle here do not take a temporary emotion and put it on
take a temporary emotion and put it on
take a temporary emotion and put it on the permanent Internet
the permanent Internet
the permanent Internet it’s very important you’ve heard
it’s very important you’ve heard
it’s very important you’ve heard speakers today talk about being
speakers today talk about being
speakers today talk about being compassionate and being caring and
compassionate and being caring and
compassionate and being caring and taking a moment even if somebody gets on
taking a moment even if somebody gets on
taking a moment even if somebody gets on your nerves taking a moment to pause and
your nerves taking a moment to pause and
your nerves taking a moment to pause and be our best selves our authentic selves
be our best selves our authentic selves
be our best selves our authentic selves being real if you do decide to share I
being real if you do decide to share I
being real if you do decide to share I wanted to give you some principles now
wanted to give you some principles now
wanted to give you some principles now you’ll see in the second point here
you’ll see in the second point here
you’ll see in the second point here being aware of what’s being shared often
being aware of what’s being shared often
being aware of what’s being shared often if we were to share something excitedly
if we were to share something excitedly
if we were to share something excitedly on social media we’re not really
on social media we’re not really
on social media we’re not really thinking about what’s in the background
thinking about what’s in the background
thinking about what’s in the background for example what’s in the background
for example what’s in the background
for example what’s in the background here obviously it says southport
here obviously it says southport
here obviously it says southport elementary that’s a piece of information
elementary that’s a piece of information
elementary that’s a piece of information that’s in this visual frame that’s
that’s in this visual frame that’s
that’s in this visual frame that’s showing that I’m here right now it’s the
showing that I’m here right now it’s the
showing that I’m here right now it’s the same with pictures or videos especially
same with pictures or videos especially
same with pictures or videos especially if your profile is world facing that’s a
if your profile is world facing that’s a
if your profile is world facing that’s a default setting on a lot of social media
default setting on a lot of social media
default setting on a lot of social media apps here’s something that I really want
apps here’s something that I really want
apps here’s something that I really want to share with you guys 88% of images
to share with you guys 88% of images
to share with you guys 88% of images that are posted online end up in a
that are posted online end up in a
that are posted online end up in a different location so again if you’d
different location so again if you’d
different location so again if you’d share so if you have shared something a
share so if you have shared something a
share so if you have shared something a video or picture via a social media app
video or picture via a social media app
video or picture via a social media app that claims to erase it not true if you
that claims to erase it not true if you
that claims to erase it not true if you posted a social media picture you’ve
posted a social media picture you’ve
posted a social media picture you’ve shared something its ends up eight out
shared something its ends up eight out
shared something its ends up eight out of ten times or more nine out of ten
of ten times or more nine out of ten
of ten times or more nine out of ten times it ends up on a different website
times it ends up on a different website
times it ends up on a different website or social media app how does that work
or social media app how does that work
or social media app how does that work well there’s things called web crawlers
well there’s things called web crawlers
well there’s things called web crawlers there could be malware there could be
there could be malware there could be
there could be malware there could be automated systems that pick pitchers
automated systems that pick pitchers
automated systems that pick pitchers when people select through the EU la you
when people select through the EU la you
when people select through the EU la you know that long agreement nobody reads
know that long agreement nobody reads
know that long agreement nobody reads then you hit that checkbox to use the
then you hit that checkbox to use the
then you hit that checkbox to use the social media app that’s the end-user
social media app that’s the end-user
social media app that’s the end-user License Agreement you agree to allow
License Agreement you agree to allow
License Agreement you agree to allow your pictures and content to be shared
your pictures and content to be shared
your pictures and content to be shared that’s something that a lot of people
that’s something that a lot of people
that’s something that a lot of people don’t consider so you can see here 88%
don’t consider so you can see here 88%
don’t consider so you can see here 88% of pitchers end up in another location
of pitchers end up in another location
of pitchers end up in another location so think about that if you’re going to
so think about that if you’re going to
so think about that if you’re going to share post only about others what you
share post only about others what you
share post only about others what you want posted about yourself think about
want posted about yourself think about
want posted about yourself think about that that’s that speaking nice Tuesday
that that’s that speaking nice Tuesday
that that’s that speaking nice Tuesday principal here at Southport and the
principal here at Southport and the
principal here at Southport and the second one is very important I want you
second one is very important I want you
second one is very important I want you guys to think about this never tell
guys to think about this never tell
guys to think about this never tell yourself something you wouldn’t tell a
yourself something you wouldn’t tell a
yourself something you wouldn’t tell a friend what is that that’s that moment
friend what is that that’s that moment
friend what is that that’s that moment when you’re in front of the mirror I had
when you’re in front of the mirror I had
when you’re in front of the mirror I had that moment today getting ready for this
that moment today getting ready for this
that moment today getting ready for this talk there’s nerves butterflies
talk there’s nerves butterflies
talk there’s nerves butterflies self-doubt self-deprecation negative
self-doubt self-deprecation negative
self-doubt self-deprecation negative self-talk it has a lot of different
self-talk it has a lot of different
self-talk it has a lot of different descriptions but what I want you guys to
descriptions but what I want you guys to
descriptions but what I want you guys to leave with today there’s the idea that
leave with today there’s the idea that
leave with today there’s the idea that self-worth is built in drops like a
self-worth is built in drops like a
self-worth is built in drops like a bucket filling a bucket and if you fill
bucket filling a bucket and if you fill
bucket filling a bucket and if you fill your bucket your self-worth your
your bucket your self-worth your
your bucket your self-worth your self-esteem slowly and with drops you
self-esteem slowly and with drops you
self-esteem slowly and with drops you can use those moments in front of the
can use those moments in front of the
can use those moments in front of the mirror to build yourself up not tear
mirror to build yourself up not tear
mirror to build yourself up not tear yourself down my daughter’s 11
yourself down my daughter’s 11
yourself down my daughter’s 11 she just had a birthday party and she
she just had a birthday party and she
she just had a birthday party and she was worried about one student a friend
was worried about one student a friend
was worried about one student a friend of hers and the concern was about the
of hers and the concern was about the
of hers and the concern was about the other students hair she’s in fifth grade
other students hair she’s in fifth grade
other students hair she’s in fifth grade so she’s worried about hair but I come
so she’s worried about hair but I come
so she’s worried about hair but I come to find out from the other mom that her
to find out from the other mom that her
to find out from the other mom that her daughter really likes my daughter’s hair
daughter really likes my daughter’s hair
daughter really likes my daughter’s hair so you see our perceptions of ourselves
so you see our perceptions of ourselves
so you see our perceptions of ourselves that’s something we can control and I
that’s something we can control and I
that’s something we can control and I want you guys to have self-worth and I
want you guys to have self-worth and I
want you guys to have self-worth and I want you guys to own your online
want you guys to own your online
want you guys to own your online presence and be authentic and be real be
presence and be authentic and be real be
presence and be authentic and be real be yourself now there are times in lives
yourself now there are times in lives
yourself now there are times in lives where we put up a different perception a
where we put up a different perception a
where we put up a different perception a mask you might say I want to talk about
mask you might say I want to talk about
mask you might say I want to talk about that
that
that and from the safety point of view it’s
and from the safety point of view it’s
and from the safety point of view it’s important to know that it’s always
important to know that it’s always
important to know that it’s always Halloween on the Internet
Halloween on the Internet
Halloween on the Internet people have masks and the person you’re
people have masks and the person you’re
people have masks and the person you’re talking to on the other end of a chat
talking to on the other end of a chat
talking to on the other end of a chat window or the under end of a social
window or the under end of a social
window or the under end of a social media app may not represent themselves
media app may not represent themselves
media app may not represent themselves accurately there are times in lives we
accurately there are times in lives we
accurately there are times in lives we have masks right now I’m very proud to
have masks right now I’m very proud to
have masks right now I’m very proud to be up here and very humbled and grateful
be up here and very humbled and grateful
be up here and very humbled and grateful that mask is a positive one in a sense
that mask is a positive one in a sense
that mask is a positive one in a sense but there are other other masks that
but there are other other masks that
but there are other other masks that people use online so be sure of those
people use online so be sure of those
people use online so be sure of those question who’s on the other end of your
question who’s on the other end of your
question who’s on the other end of your communications right now let’s move into
communications right now let’s move into
communications right now let’s move into something here maybe you didn’t know
something here maybe you didn’t know
something here maybe you didn’t know there’d be a test this morning I like to
there’d be a test this morning I like to
there’d be a test this morning I like to say it’s a game the self-worth game
say it’s a game the self-worth game
say it’s a game the self-worth game let’s call it that so you guys ready to
let’s call it that so you guys ready to
let’s call it that so you guys ready to play right on thanks ducks awesome so it
play right on thanks ducks awesome so it
play right on thanks ducks awesome so it has three parts and really the
has three parts and really the
has three parts and really the self-worth test or self-worth game as
self-worth test or self-worth game as
self-worth test or self-worth game as something as a tool I use with students
something as a tool I use with students
something as a tool I use with students and parents often with parents they ask
and parents often with parents they ask
and parents often with parents they ask is it the right time to get my child a
is it the right time to get my child a
is it the right time to get my child a phone is it the right time for my child
phone is it the right time for my child
phone is it the right time for my child to be on social media and so we’ll play
to be on social media and so we’ll play
to be on social media and so we’ll play that now so as three parts the first
that now so as three parts the first
that now so as three parts the first part is and ask yourself you don’t have
part is and ask yourself you don’t have
part is and ask yourself you don’t have to say out loud or raise your hand or
to say out loud or raise your hand or
to say out loud or raise your hand or anything but just ask yourself
anything but just ask yourself
anything but just ask yourself internally am I able to stay at home by
internally am I able to stay at home by
internally am I able to stay at home by myself confidently for four hours
myself confidently for four hours
myself confidently for four hours including a knock on the door that’s a
including a knock on the door that’s a
including a knock on the door that’s a question right okay part number two of
question right okay part number two of
question right okay part number two of the self-worth game am I able to
the self-worth game am I able to
the self-worth game am I able to assertively and positively end a
assertively and positively end a
assertively and positively end a conversation started by an adult I don’t
conversation started by an adult I don’t
conversation started by an adult I don’t know in public I’ll give an example
know in public I’ll give an example
know in public I’ll give an example let’s say you’re at Starbucks and you’re
let’s say you’re at Starbucks and you’re
let’s say you’re at Starbucks and you’re about to pick up your drink and you have
about to pick up your drink and you have
about to pick up your drink and you have a sweatshirt that says Southport
a sweatshirt that says Southport
a sweatshirt that says Southport Elementary and somebody walks up to
Elementary and somebody walks up to
Elementary and somebody walks up to Southport my daughter goes there what’s
Southport my daughter goes there what’s
Southport my daughter goes there what’s your name are you able to assertively
your name are you able to assertively
your name are you able to assertively and positively handle that interaction
and positively handle that interaction
and positively handle that interaction initiated by somebody else the answer
initiated by somebody else the answer
initiated by somebody else the answer might be yes answer might be no the last
might be yes answer might be no the last
might be yes answer might be no the last part of the self-worth test our
part of the self-worth test our
part of the self-worth test our self-worth game is very important and
self-worth game is very important and
self-worth game is very important and this is this is the core of what I’m
this is this is the core of what I’m
this is this is the core of what I’m speaking to you about today
speaking to you about today
speaking to you about today self-worth so right now think of three
self-worth so right now think of three
self-worth so right now think of three things that you’re really good at and
things that you’re really good at and
things that you’re really good at and that you love to do three things I’ll
that you love to do three things I’ll
that you love to do three things I’ll give an example my daughter says riding
give an example my daughter says riding
give an example my daughter says riding horses judo and eating ice cream so you
horses judo and eating ice cream so you
horses judo and eating ice cream so you guys gave your three things okay so with
guys gave your three things okay so with
guys gave your three things okay so with those three things in mind adults in the
those three things in mind adults in the
those three things in mind adults in the room – with those three things in mind
room – with those three things in mind
room – with those three things in mind here’s the question would you allow your
here’s the question would you allow your
here’s the question would you allow your best friend to talk down to you about
best friend to talk down to you about
best friend to talk down to you about those three activities maybe when you’re
those three activities maybe when you’re
those three activities maybe when you’re in college and dating would you allow a
in college and dating would you allow a
in college and dating would you allow a boyfriend or girlfriend to have you
boyfriend or girlfriend to have you
boyfriend or girlfriend to have you stopped doing those things you love that
stopped doing those things you love that
stopped doing those things you love that you’re really good at I’m hearing some
you’re really good at I’m hearing some
you’re really good at I’m hearing some knows that’s the foundation of
knows that’s the foundation of
knows that’s the foundation of self-worth being assertive and having
self-worth being assertive and having
self-worth being assertive and having self-esteem what you love to do and what
self-esteem what you love to do and what
self-esteem what you love to do and what you’re really good at following your
you’re really good at following your
you’re really good at following your passion having goals so that’s the
passion having goals so that’s the
passion having goals so that’s the self-worth game thanks for playing
self-worth game thanks for playing
self-worth game thanks for playing I want to talk a little bit about
I want to talk a little bit about
I want to talk a little bit about cyberbullying and here’s the thing you
cyberbullying and here’s the thing you
cyberbullying and here’s the thing you guys here’s some points on what you can
guys here’s some points on what you can
guys here’s some points on what you can do for cyberbullying the main thing is I
do for cyberbullying the main thing is I
do for cyberbullying the main thing is I want to tell you you’re never alone you
want to tell you you’re never alone you
want to tell you you’re never alone you have trusted adults in your life we’re
have trusted adults in your life we’re
have trusted adults in your life we’re in your home friends and family and
in your home friends and family and
in your home friends and family and especially the teachers administrators
especially the teachers administrators
especially the teachers administrators and counselors of Southport they’ve
and counselors of Southport they’ve
and counselors of Southport they’ve dedicated their careers to your lives
dedicated their careers to your lives
dedicated their careers to your lives and I want you to know that you’re never
and I want you to know that you’re never
and I want you to know that you’re never alone when it comes to bullying okay now
alone when it comes to bullying okay now
alone when it comes to bullying okay now I’m gonna pass on some other information
I’m gonna pass on some other information
I’m gonna pass on some other information as far as bullying goes but here’s what
as far as bullying goes but here’s what
as far as bullying goes but here’s what I want to do I want to give you guys a
I want to do I want to give you guys a
I want to do I want to give you guys a tool when someone posts underneath a
tool when someone posts underneath a
tool when someone posts underneath a picture you’ve placed on a social media
picture you’ve placed on a social media
picture you’ve placed on a social media app or says something to you in the
app or says something to you in the
app or says something to you in the playground or in a hallway or in school
playground or in a hallway or in school
playground or in a hallway or in school something that puts you down makes you
something that puts you down makes you
something that puts you down makes you not feel good inside a tool I’d like to
not feel good inside a tool I’d like to
not feel good inside a tool I’d like to give you as a phrase and that is your
give you as a phrase and that is your
give you as a phrase and that is your opinion of me is none of my business
opinion of me is none of my business
opinion of me is none of my business it’s a simple thing to say back to
it’s a simple thing to say back to
it’s a simple thing to say back to somebody think about that it’s sort of
somebody think about that it’s sort of
somebody think about that it’s sort of disarming your opinion of me is none of
disarming your opinion of me is none of
disarming your opinion of me is none of my business it’s sort of I don’t care
my business it’s sort of I don’t care
my business it’s sort of I don’t care but in a way that acknowledges them
but in a way that acknowledges them
but in a way that acknowledges them right that’s a tool that you guys can
right that’s a tool that you guys can
right that’s a tool that you guys can use one last thing about you’re never
use one last thing about you’re never
use one last thing about you’re never alone not here at Southport not online I
alone not here at Southport not online I
alone not here at Southport not online I wanted to share something that’s very
wanted to share something that’s very
wanted to share something that’s very special very powerful and that’s this
special very powerful and that’s this
special very powerful and that’s this crisis text line and you can text start
crisis text line and you can text start
crisis text line and you can text start 741 741 and somebody will respond now I
741 741 and somebody will respond now I
741 741 and somebody will respond now I want to ask you guys a question who do
want to ask you guys a question who do
want to ask you guys a question who do you think uses this free service the
you think uses this free service the
you think uses this free service the most it’s middle-aged men
most it’s middle-aged men
most it’s middle-aged men that’s who uses this the most now some
that’s who uses this the most now some
that’s who uses this the most now some of you might be thinking well that’s
of you might be thinking well that’s
of you might be thinking well that’s what why is that the statistics the
what why is that the statistics the
what why is that the statistics the anonymous metrics and statistics they
anonymous metrics and statistics they
anonymous metrics and statistics they take here at crisis texts online is that
take here at crisis texts online is that
take here at crisis texts online is that if we think about our society it’s
if we think about our society it’s
if we think about our society it’s really viewed in a different way for a
really viewed in a different way for a
really viewed in a different way for a middle-aged man for say for me to have a
middle-aged man for say for me to have a
middle-aged man for say for me to have a internal problem to have
internal problem to have
internal problem to have perhaps a crisis where I need to reach
perhaps a crisis where I need to reach
perhaps a crisis where I need to reach out to a therapist or a professional how
out to a therapist or a professional how
out to a therapist or a professional how was that viewed as me right and that’s
was that viewed as me right and that’s
was that viewed as me right and that’s why the the the demographic that uses
why the the the demographic that uses
why the the the demographic that uses them at the most as middle aged men so
them at the most as middle aged men so
them at the most as middle aged men so that’s an available tool for you I
that’s an available tool for you I
that’s an available tool for you I wanted to share a few more bits of
wanted to share a few more bits of
wanted to share a few more bits of information and talk about them now this
information and talk about them now this
information and talk about them now this one is very important it’s about trust
one is very important it’s about trust
one is very important it’s about trust now one of my favorite Twitter accounts
now one of my favorite Twitter accounts
now one of my favorite Twitter accounts is Swift on security it’s somebody who’s
is Swift on security it’s somebody who’s
is Swift on security it’s somebody who’s very smart who role plays as if they’re
very smart who role plays as if they’re
very smart who role plays as if they’re Taylor Swift but I’m in an information
Taylor Swift but I’m in an information
Taylor Swift but I’m in an information security point of view Swift on security
security point of view Swift on security
security point of view Swift on security sometimes they changed the name to
sometimes they changed the name to
sometimes they changed the name to secure it a it’s pretty funny but in
secure it a it’s pretty funny but in
secure it a it’s pretty funny but in this post they said trust does not scale
this post they said trust does not scale
this post they said trust does not scale because Trust is not reducible to math
because Trust is not reducible to math
because Trust is not reducible to math let’s think about what is trust well
let’s think about what is trust well
let’s think about what is trust well trust has built one truth at a time I
trust has built one truth at a time I
trust has built one truth at a time I know I trust my wife
know I trust my wife
know I trust my wife I trust my father-in-law my
I trust my father-in-law my
I trust my father-in-law my mother-in-law I trust my sisters-in-law
mother-in-law I trust my sisters-in-law
mother-in-law I trust my sisters-in-law I trust my brother I trust my sister why
I trust my brother I trust my sister why
I trust my brother I trust my sister why is that though it’s because they’re
is that though it’s because they’re
is that though it’s because they’re close I keep a tight circle that’s who I
close I keep a tight circle that’s who I
close I keep a tight circle that’s who I trust
trust
trust so I want you guys to think about that
so I want you guys to think about that
so I want you guys to think about that it’s not reducible to math there isn’t
it’s not reducible to math there isn’t
it’s not reducible to math there isn’t really a formula for trust you kind of
really a formula for trust you kind of
really a formula for trust you kind of know right and when you’re online though
know right and when you’re online though
know right and when you’re online though their screens separating you can you
their screens separating you can you
their screens separating you can you really build trust there maybe but
really build trust there maybe but
really build trust there maybe but that’s a question we have to ask
that’s a question we have to ask
that’s a question we have to ask ourselves and how do we be sure I don’t
ourselves and how do we be sure I don’t
ourselves and how do we be sure I don’t really have that answer but I want you
really have that answer but I want you
really have that answer but I want you to think about that because Trust is
to think about that because Trust is
to think about that because Trust is built one truth at a time okay here you
built one truth at a time okay here you
built one truth at a time okay here you guys I want you to tell you a little bit
guys I want you to tell you a little bit
guys I want you to tell you a little bit about followers and friends okay
about followers and friends okay
about followers and friends okay followers online are not friends and
followers online are not friends and
followers online are not friends and life is not about likes life is outside
life is not about likes life is outside
life is not about likes life is outside there in the sunlight life is playing
there in the sunlight life is playing
there in the sunlight life is playing your favorite sports and athletics
your favorite sports and athletics
your favorite sports and athletics that’s joining with friends for a hike
that’s joining with friends for a hike
that’s joining with friends for a hike or a picnic starting a movement as we’ve
or a picnic starting a movement as we’ve
or a picnic starting a movement as we’ve seen a previous speaker that’s where
seen a previous speaker that’s where
seen a previous speaker that’s where life is you’ve heard the phrase life
life is you’ve heard the phrase life
life is you’ve heard the phrase life that’s outside your comfort zone right
that’s outside your comfort zone right
that’s outside your comfort zone right followers are not friends and life is
followers are not friends and life is
followers are not friends and life is not about likes always choosing a filter
not about likes always choosing a filter
not about likes always choosing a filter that’s at all levels of our society arm
that’s at all levels of our society arm
that’s at all levels of our society arm our words true are the ethical are they
our words true are the ethical are they
our words true are the ethical are they right and speaking of what I write them
right and speaking of what I write them
right and speaking of what I write them being right when I write online I’m
being right when I write online I’m
being right when I write online I’m making post comments replying back to
making post comments replying back to
making post comments replying back to somebody okay always choosing the
somebody okay always choosing the
somebody okay always choosing the correct filter think before you post and
correct filter think before you post and
correct filter think before you post and a couple more bits of safety always
a couple more bits of safety always
a couple more bits of safety always backing up our information now it’s
backing up our information now it’s
backing up our information now it’s possible that you saw port ducks are the
possible that you saw port ducks are the
possible that you saw port ducks are the IT help in your house let’s be honest
IT help in your house let’s be honest
IT help in your house let’s be honest sometimes grandparents need a little
sometimes grandparents need a little
sometimes grandparents need a little extra assistance from us all right and
extra assistance from us all right and
extra assistance from us all right and we know how to use things some of these
we know how to use things some of these
we know how to use things some of these points may help the adults in your life
points may help the adults in your life
points may help the adults in your life so if you want if you’re taking notes
so if you want if you’re taking notes
so if you want if you’re taking notes you might want to put this down you know
you might want to put this down you know
you might want to put this down you know turning off that geo-tagging is really
turning off that geo-tagging is really
turning off that geo-tagging is really important those are all just default set
important those are all just default set
important those are all just default set for your pitchers on mobile devices and
for your pitchers on mobile devices and
for your pitchers on mobile devices and for social media apps the default
for social media apps the default
for social media apps the default setting is to geotag where you are and
setting is to geotag where you are and
setting is to geotag where you are and when you’re posting that picture or
when you’re posting that picture or
when you’re posting that picture or making that update so turn that off
making that update so turn that off
making that update so turn that off okay avoiding banking online when you’re
okay avoiding banking online when you’re
okay avoiding banking online when you’re at say a coffee shop or a public network
at say a coffee shop or a public network
at say a coffee shop or a public network and then backing up your data with an
and then backing up your data with an
and then backing up your data with an external hard drive that helps defeat
external hard drive that helps defeat
external hard drive that helps defeat people who do ransomware you’ve heard
people who do ransomware you’ve heard
people who do ransomware you’ve heard about that in the news perhaps where a
about that in the news perhaps where a
about that in the news perhaps where a computer gets locked and then there’s a
computer gets locked and then there’s a
computer gets locked and then there’s a message that says pay us 200 euros and
message that says pay us 200 euros and
message that says pay us 200 euros and we’ll release your data well it doesn’t
we’ll release your data well it doesn’t
we’ll release your data well it doesn’t matter if you have a backup you’re all
matter if you have a backup you’re all
matter if you have a backup you’re all set so what I want to leave you guys
set so what I want to leave you guys
set so what I want to leave you guys with is thinking about our lives online
with is thinking about our lives online
with is thinking about our lives online how to have fun and stay safe having
how to have fun and stay safe having
how to have fun and stay safe having that long term view think about yourself
that long term view think about yourself
that long term view think about yourself and self-esteem and self-worth
and self-esteem and self-worth
and self-esteem and self-worth self-worth before selfies self-worth
self-worth before selfies self-worth
self-worth before selfies self-worth before social media what foundation are
before social media what foundation are
before social media what foundation are you building here at Southport and your
you building here at Southport and your
you building here at Southport and your life and with our lives online thank you
life and with our lives online thank you
life and with our lives online thank you very much
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