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Laugh, Think, Cry, Laugh Again | Jessamyn Fairfield | TEDxTUM


I want you to take me seriously right

I want you to take me seriously right isn’t that why I’m up here standing on a

isn’t that why I’m up here standing on a

isn’t that why I’m up here standing on a stage wearing a microphone wearing my

stage wearing a microphone wearing my

stage wearing a microphone wearing my nice clothes

nice clothes

nice clothes I mean I’m speaking slowly and

I mean I’m speaking slowly and

I mean I’m speaking slowly and emphatically I have a PhD come on and

emphatically I have a PhD come on and

emphatically I have a PhD come on and that’s a lot of markers to show that I

that’s a lot of markers to show that I

that’s a lot of markers to show that I have status right as a scientist I can

have status right as a scientist I can

have status right as a scientist I can tell you status matters it’s how you get

tell you status matters it’s how you get

tell you status matters it’s how you get people to listen but it’s not the only

people to listen but it’s not the only

people to listen but it’s not the only way you can also get people to listen by

way you can also get people to listen by

way you can also get people to listen by cracking a joke by not being so serious

cracking a joke by not being so serious

cracking a joke by not being so serious by not taking yourself so seriously a

by not taking yourself so seriously a

by not taking yourself so seriously a joke is a surprise it’s an invitation to

joke is a surprise it’s an invitation to

joke is a surprise it’s an invitation to see what surprises are next so for me as

see what surprises are next so for me as

see what surprises are next so for me as a physicist who works on nanomaterials

a physicist who works on nanomaterials

a physicist who works on nanomaterials for novel electronics I find myself

for novel electronics I find myself

for novel electronics I find myself cracking jokes all the time my work is

cracking jokes all the time my work is

cracking jokes all the time my work is about building electronics that are

about building electronics that are

about building electronics that are structured like the brain to interface

structured like the brain to interface

structured like the brain to interface with the brain itself I’m basically

with the brain itself I’m basically

with the brain itself I’m basically enabling the cyborg revolution and as my

enabling the cyborg revolution and as my

enabling the cyborg revolution and as my dad always said to me if you can present

dad always said to me if you can present

dad always said to me if you can present new scientific results and crack a joke

new scientific results and crack a joke

new scientific results and crack a joke about them it shows that you’re really

about them it shows that you’re really

about them it shows that you’re really confident in your work but I think

confident in your work but I think

confident in your work but I think there’s more to it than that

there’s more to it than that

there’s more to it than that science and comedy have a lot in common

science and comedy have a lot in common

science and comedy have a lot in common they’re both creative they’re both about

they’re both creative they’re both about

they’re both creative they’re both about thinking outside the box about appending

thinking outside the box about appending

thinking outside the box about appending traditional frameworks about not

traditional frameworks about not

traditional frameworks about not accepting the status quo and science is

accepting the status quo and science is

accepting the status quo and science is about truth and comedy is about

well comedy is famously not universal

well comedy is famously not universal right what you find funny depends on

right what you find funny depends on

right what you find funny depends on context it depends on our shared

context it depends on our shared

context it depends on our shared understandings of the world around us it

understandings of the world around us it

understandings of the world around us it depends on national character it depends

depends on national character it depends

depends on national character it depends on culture so I would tell different

on culture so I would tell different

on culture so I would tell different jokes at a physics conference than I

jokes at a physics conference than I

jokes at a physics conference than I would at a stand-up comedy night this is

would at a stand-up comedy night this is

would at a stand-up comedy night this is because the things that physicists tend

because the things that physicists tend

because the things that physicists tend to laugh at are a bit weird which is why

to laugh at are a bit weird which is why

to laugh at are a bit weird which is why everyone else tends to laugh at

everyone else tends to laugh at

everyone else tends to laugh at physicists so thanks but even if comedy

physicists so thanks but even if comedy

physicists so thanks but even if comedy is not universal I think it’s something

is not universal I think it’s something

is not universal I think it’s something that we all do everyone has a sense of

that we all do everyone has a sense of

that we all do everyone has a sense of humor somewhere and when we do the act

humor somewhere and when we do the act

humor somewhere and when we do the act of comedy when we make jokes

of comedy when we make jokes

of comedy when we make jokes we’re actually fulfilling a lot of

we’re actually fulfilling a lot of

we’re actually fulfilling a lot of important social functions you know if

important social functions you know if

important social functions you know if you and I laugh at the same jokes that

you and I laugh at the same jokes that

you and I laugh at the same jokes that means we’re part of the same team right

means we’re part of the same team right

means we’re part of the same team right comedy is also a great social equalizer

comedy is also a great social equalizer

comedy is also a great social equalizer it breaks down socio-economic barriers

it breaks down socio-economic barriers

it breaks down socio-economic barriers because think about it who’s the perfect

because think about it who’s the perfect

because think about it who’s the perfect butt of a joke it’s a high-status person

butt of a joke it’s a high-status person

butt of a joke it’s a high-status person like a businessman walking and slipping

like a businessman walking and slipping

like a businessman walking and slipping on a banana peel that’s funny but if you

on a banana peel that’s funny but if you

on a banana peel that’s funny but if you make fun of someone who has low status

make fun of someone who has low status

make fun of someone who has low status that’s punching down it’s not good

that’s punching down it’s not good

that’s punching down it’s not good comedy

comedy

comedy so comedy innately appends these social

so comedy innately appends these social

so comedy innately appends these social hierarchies and comedy is important for

hierarchies and comedy is important for

hierarchies and comedy is important for forming identity you know if you laughed

forming identity you know if you laughed

forming identity you know if you laughed at my physics joke maybe that means

at my physics joke maybe that means

at my physics joke maybe that means you’re more likely to identify a science

you’re more likely to identify a science

you’re more likely to identify a science positive which in this case is a good

positive which in this case is a good

positive which in this case is a good thing not an STI comedy is also a really

thing not an STI comedy is also a really

thing not an STI comedy is also a really important way to talk about trickier

important way to talk about trickier

important way to talk about trickier things you know comedy news shows like

things you know comedy news shows like

things you know comedy news shows like The Daily Show and last week tonight are

The Daily Show and last week tonight are

The Daily Show and last week tonight are actually more popular than the real news

actually more popular than the real news

actually more popular than the real news a lot of the time have you ever heard

a lot of the time have you ever heard

a lot of the time have you ever heard the saying laughs so you don’t cry I

the saying laughs so you don’t cry I

the saying laughs so you don’t cry I think in our current political climate

think in our current political climate

think in our current political climate that’s especially apt and comedy is a

that’s especially apt and comedy is a

that’s especially apt and comedy is a great way to talk about even challenging

great way to talk about even challenging

great way to talk about even challenging academic topics so I run a comedy night

academic topics so I run a comedy night

academic topics so I run a comedy night in Ireland called bright Club where

in Ireland called bright Club where

in Ireland called bright Club where academics come

academics come

academics come and learn how to talk about their

and learn how to talk about their

and learn how to talk about their research using a stand-up comedy

research using a stand-up comedy

research using a stand-up comedy I’ve taught people to tell jokes about

I’ve taught people to tell jokes about

I’ve taught people to tell jokes about their research who study things like

their research who study things like

their research who study things like physics space medieval literature music

physics space medieval literature music

physics space medieval literature music gender theory you name it it turns out

gender theory you name it it turns out

gender theory you name it it turns out that comedy is an amazing way to engage

that comedy is an amazing way to engage

that comedy is an amazing way to engage with these challenging academic subjects

with these challenging academic subjects

with these challenging academic subjects and cutting-edge research I’ve also

and cutting-edge research I’ve also

and cutting-edge research I’ve also tried to get academics to do comedy sets

tried to get academics to do comedy sets

tried to get academics to do comedy sets about their research in areas like human

about their research in areas like human

about their research in areas like human rights violations and torture it turns

rights violations and torture it turns

rights violations and torture it turns out that torture comedy is not as

out that torture comedy is not as

out that torture comedy is not as popular as you might think

popular as you might think

popular as you might think apparently I’m a bad person for asking

apparently I’m a bad person for asking

apparently I’m a bad person for asking but I think that even in these really

but I think that even in these really

but I think that even in these really tough subjects you know if we can find

tough subjects you know if we can find

tough subjects you know if we can find the surprise the funny the humanity it’s

the surprise the funny the humanity it’s

the surprise the funny the humanity it’s a way to humanize the things that are

a way to humanize the things that are

a way to humanize the things that are hard to talk about we laugh so we don’t

hard to talk about we laugh so we don’t

hard to talk about we laugh so we don’t cry and of course the most obvious fact

cry and of course the most obvious fact

cry and of course the most obvious fact about comedy is also the truest it’s fun

about comedy is also the truest it’s fun

about comedy is also the truest it’s fun right comedy doesn’t have to always be

right comedy doesn’t have to always be

right comedy doesn’t have to always be about difficult subjects nor should it

about difficult subjects nor should it

about difficult subjects nor should it be but that doesn’t mean that we

be but that doesn’t mean that we

be but that doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t take comedy seriously because

shouldn’t take comedy seriously because

shouldn’t take comedy seriously because think about it when you’re listening to

think about it when you’re listening to

think about it when you’re listening to a joke what are you doing you’re waiting

a joke what are you doing you’re waiting

a joke what are you doing you’re waiting for the punchline you’re waiting for the

for the punchline you’re waiting for the

for the punchline you’re waiting for the other shoe to drop waiting for the

other shoe to drop waiting for the

other shoe to drop waiting for the script to be flipped waiting for the

script to be flipped waiting for the

script to be flipped waiting for the reveal you’re open to changing your mind

reveal you’re open to changing your mind

reveal you’re open to changing your mind and in fact you expect to so doesn’t

and in fact you expect to so doesn’t

and in fact you expect to so doesn’t that make comedy kind of the perfect

that make comedy kind of the perfect

that make comedy kind of the perfect antidote for this echo chamber bubble

antidote for this echo chamber bubble

antidote for this echo chamber bubble world that we’re all increasingly living

world that we’re all increasingly living

world that we’re all increasingly living in I mean it’s no fun to only talk to

in I mean it’s no fun to only talk to

in I mean it’s no fun to only talk to people who agree with you but it’s also

people who agree with you but it’s also

people who agree with you but it’s also tough if you try to engage with a new

tough if you try to engage with a new

tough if you try to engage with a new way of looking at something and you get

way of looking at something and you get

way of looking at something and you get piled on or harassed for it so if you’re

piled on or harassed for it so if you’re

piled on or harassed for it so if you’re interested in thinking about lots of

interested in thinking about lots of

interested in thinking about lots of different perspectives when you form

different perspectives when you form

different perspectives when you form your own opinion well comedy has that

your own opinion well comedy has that

your own opinion well comedy has that built in and if comedy can help someone

built in and if comedy can help someone

built in and if comedy can help someone think about a new angle on an important

think about a new angle on an important

think about a new angle on an important subject I think that’s amazing

subject I think that’s amazing

subject I think that’s amazing I think it’s an immense social good and

I think it’s an immense social good and

I think it’s an immense social good and it’s also a friendly way to talk about

it’s also a friendly way to talk about

it’s also a friendly way to talk about what matters now I sometimes wonder if

what matters now I sometimes wonder if

what matters now I sometimes wonder if the reason that I think comedy is so

the reason that I think comedy is so

the reason that I think comedy is so important for everyone is that it was

important for everyone is that it was

important for everyone is that it was really important

really important

really important for me growing up my dad and I used to

for me growing up my dad and I used to

for me growing up my dad and I used to tell jokes back and forth to each other

tell jokes back and forth to each other

tell jokes back and forth to each other all the time all jokes new jokes long

all the time all jokes new jokes long

all the time all jokes new jokes long jokes short jokes we would go through

jokes short jokes we would go through

jokes short jokes we would go through all of who’s on first together you know

all of who’s on first together you know

all of who’s on first together you know the classic Abbott and Costello routine

the classic Abbott and Costello routine

the classic Abbott and Costello routine about a baseball team we would practice

about a baseball team we would practice

about a baseball team we would practice telling these long jokes with elaborate

telling these long jokes with elaborate

telling these long jokes with elaborate setups and very convoluted punchlines

setups and very convoluted punchlines

setups and very convoluted punchlines and then we got really good at them we’d

and then we got really good at them we’d

and then we got really good at them we’d go back and retell the jokes getting

go back and retell the jokes getting

go back and retell the jokes getting every element of the punchlines subtly

every element of the punchlines subtly

every element of the punchlines subtly wrong and then present the final mangled

wrong and then present the final mangled

wrong and then present the final mangled punchline as if it was a triumph instead

punchline as if it was a triumph instead

punchline as if it was a triumph instead of a failure as a failure is funny too

of a failure as a failure is funny too

of a failure as a failure is funny too right

right

right well the biggest joke of all is that

well the biggest joke of all is that

well the biggest joke of all is that about a year and a half ago my dad was

about a year and a half ago my dad was

about a year and a half ago my dad was diagnosed with colon cancer he had to be

diagnosed with colon cancer he had to be

diagnosed with colon cancer he had to be hospitalized he needed emergency surgery

hospitalized he needed emergency surgery

hospitalized he needed emergency surgery had to start chemotherapy and it was

had to start chemotherapy and it was

had to start chemotherapy and it was awful it wasn’t funny at all at first

awful it wasn’t funny at all at first

awful it wasn’t funny at all at first and then I went to see this amazing

and then I went to see this amazing

and then I went to see this amazing comedy show called Edwin salmon versus

comedy show called Edwin salmon versus

comedy show called Edwin salmon versus cancer where the comedian Edmund salmon

cancer where the comedian Edmund salmon

cancer where the comedian Edmund salmon got up and talked about how he had been

got up and talked about how he had been

got up and talked about how he had been diagnosed with the exact same cancer as

diagnosed with the exact same cancer as

diagnosed with the exact same cancer as my dad was going through a lot of the

my dad was going through a lot of the

my dad was going through a lot of the same treatments and procedures and

same treatments and procedures and

same treatments and procedures and talking about what was funny or weird or

talking about what was funny or weird or

talking about what was funny or weird or surprising in that experience it was

surprising in that experience it was

surprising in that experience it was real and it was hilarious and it helped

real and it was hilarious and it helped

real and it was hilarious and it helped me find the humanity in what had been

me find the humanity in what had been

me find the humanity in what had been this really tough experience humor

this really tough experience humor

this really tough experience humor became a major way that my dad and I

became a major way that my dad and I

became a major way that my dad and I dealt with his cancer in addition to

dealt with his cancer in addition to

dealt with his cancer in addition to medicine I mean I don’t want to advocate

medicine I mean I don’t want to advocate

medicine I mean I don’t want to advocate some sort of humor Appa the–here at one

some sort of humor Appa the–here at one

some sort of humor Appa the–here at one point he was going into surgery and he

point he was going into surgery and he

point he was going into surgery and he had signed over power of attorney to me

had signed over power of attorney to me

had signed over power of attorney to me so I told him you know how much I loved

so I told him you know how much I loved

so I told him you know how much I loved him and then I described at length the

him and then I described at length the

him and then I described at length the tattoos that I was going to have the

tattoos that I was going to have the

tattoos that I was going to have the operating room staff put across his

operating room staff put across his

operating room staff put across his belly while he was under my favorite was

belly while he was under my favorite was

belly while he was under my favorite was rebel for life

and then afterwards when he was coming

and then afterwards when he was coming up from the anesthesia and someone said

up from the anesthesia and someone said

up from the anesthesia and someone said to him Eric

to him Eric

to him Eric can you hear me without even opening his

can you hear me without even opening his

can you hear me without even opening his eyes he just shook his head he was

eyes he just shook his head he was

eyes he just shook his head he was barely conscious and he had a tube down

barely conscious and he had a tube down

barely conscious and he had a tube down his throat and still his first instinct

his throat and still his first instinct

his throat and still his first instinct was to make a joke later on I was

was to make a joke later on I was

was to make a joke later on I was sitting with him in the hospital and I

sitting with him in the hospital and I

sitting with him in the hospital and I heard him tell some visitors a story

heard him tell some visitors a story

heard him tell some visitors a story from my childhood it was about how when

from my childhood it was about how when

from my childhood it was about how when I was three or four I was afraid of

I was three or four I was afraid of

I was three or four I was afraid of ghosts and so he developed this ghost

ghosts and so he developed this ghost

ghosts and so he developed this ghost removal procedure to do any time that I

removal procedure to do any time that I

removal procedure to do any time that I got scared so you know if I woke up in

got scared so you know if I woke up in

got scared so you know if I woke up in the middle of the night and I called him

the middle of the night and I called him

the middle of the night and I called him in I said dad I’m scared that there’s

in I said dad I’m scared that there’s

in I said dad I’m scared that there’s ghosts in my room you would check under

ghosts in my room you would check under

ghosts in my room you would check under the bed

the bed

the bed and he would look behind the curtains

and he would look behind the curtains

and he would look behind the curtains and if he found any ghosts he’d eat them

and if he found any ghosts he’d eat them

and if he found any ghosts he’d eat them problem solved right and I said dad I

problem solved right and I said dad I

problem solved right and I said dad I mean no wonder you ended up with colon

mean no wonder you ended up with colon

mean no wonder you ended up with colon cancer your bowels are full of ghosts

cancer your bowels are full of ghosts

cancer your bowels are full of ghosts they’re straight-up haunted fortunately

they’re straight-up haunted fortunately

they’re straight-up haunted fortunately he laughed too and over the course of my

he laughed too and over the course of my

he laughed too and over the course of my life with my dad we developed not a

life with my dad we developed not a

life with my dad we developed not a universal comedy but a very personal one

universal comedy but a very personal one

universal comedy but a very personal one one that was based on our own way of

one that was based on our own way of

one that was based on our own way of kidding around with and affirming each

kidding around with and affirming each

kidding around with and affirming each other of remembering and REE mixing the

other of remembering and REE mixing the

other of remembering and REE mixing the overlapping strands of our lives humor

overlapping strands of our lives humor

overlapping strands of our lives humor is a way even in the toughest times to

is a way even in the toughest times to

is a way even in the toughest times to show that we are creative thinking

show that we are creative thinking

show that we are creative thinking feeling beings comedy is a way to show

feeling beings comedy is a way to show

feeling beings comedy is a way to show our humanity to say that we can laugh

our humanity to say that we can laugh

our humanity to say that we can laugh and we can cry a month ago my dad passed

and we can cry a month ago my dad passed

and we can cry a month ago my dad passed away and I got to tell him that I loved

away and I got to tell him that I loved

away and I got to tell him that I loved him how proud I was of him and I told

him how proud I was of him and I told

him how proud I was of him and I told him that when this was all over I was

him that when this was all over I was

him that when this was all over I was going to tell him about a new business

going to tell him about a new business

going to tell him about a new business venture I was getting involved in I said

venture I was getting involved in I said

venture I was getting involved in I said dad I am looking to invest in this

dad I am looking to invest in this

dad I am looking to invest in this baseball team they’re really talented

baseball team they’re really talented

baseball team they’re really talented but

but

but players have some peculiar names and

players have some peculiar names and

players have some peculiar names and without missing a beat my dad said oh

without missing a beat my dad said oh

without missing a beat my dad said oh yeah who’s on first thank you

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