Wow hi all right how’s it going how are you feeling at shouldn’t be up there
you feeling at shouldn’t be up there
you feeling at shouldn’t be up there yeah okay
yeah okay
yeah okay how we all doing awful all forward not
how we all doing awful all forward not
how we all doing awful all forward not you what you did was absolutely fine I’m
you what you did was absolutely fine I’m
you what you did was absolutely fine I’m talking about the the torturous
talking about the the torturous
talking about the the torturous engagement tactic that I just used
engagement tactic that I just used
engagement tactic that I just used I hate that when when the person I know
I hate that when when the person I know
I hate that when when the person I know I just did it but when the person comes
I just did it but when the person comes
I just did it but when the person comes out and they start doing the thing and
out and they start doing the thing and
out and they start doing the thing and they asked a whole room a whole room
they asked a whole room a whole room
they asked a whole room a whole room full of people at the same time how
full of people at the same time how
full of people at the same time how they’re doing because the only thing you
they’re doing because the only thing you
they’re doing because the only thing you can really say in response to that is
can really say in response to that is
can really say in response to that is like oh whatever you just did and that
like oh whatever you just did and that
like oh whatever you just did and that isn’t an appropriate answer to how are
isn’t an appropriate answer to how are
isn’t an appropriate answer to how are you doing any other situation you know I
you doing any other situation you know I
you doing any other situation you know I could be shopping in Woolworths in 1994
could be shopping in Woolworths in 1994
could be shopping in Woolworths in 1994 and I go up to I see a mate in there
and I go up to I see a mate in there
and I go up to I see a mate in there looking at the fur bees and I’d be like
looking at the fur bees and I’d be like
looking at the fur bees and I’d be like hey Gordon you know how’s it going if
hey Gordon you know how’s it going if
hey Gordon you know how’s it going if Gordon just turns around and goes down
Gordon just turns around and goes down
Gordon just turns around and goes down like that just howls at the strip
like that just howls at the strip
like that just howls at the strip lighting at the top like some mad
lighting at the top like some mad
lighting at the top like some mad citified 90’s wolf I’m gonna think what
citified 90’s wolf I’m gonna think what
citified 90’s wolf I’m gonna think what freaked and just turn around leave my
freaked and just turn around leave my
freaked and just turn around leave my basket of pogs there and just walk off
but yeah when I when people ask me how
but yeah when I when people ask me how I’m doing I say I’m fine generally I
I’m doing I say I’m fine generally I
I’m doing I say I’m fine generally I think that’s that’s what everybody does
think that’s that’s what everybody does
think that’s that’s what everybody does but for me that’s not real appropriate
but for me that’s not real appropriate
but for me that’s not real appropriate answer either because for me it’s a way
answer either because for me it’s a way
answer either because for me it’s a way of deflecting the question it’s like a
of deflecting the question it’s like a
of deflecting the question it’s like a reflex and deflecting that question is
reflex and deflecting that question is
reflex and deflecting that question is something I’ve got really good at
something I’ve got really good at
something I’ve got really good at because a lot of the time I’m not fine
because a lot of the time I’m not fine
because a lot of the time I’m not fine in fact but I live with depression and
deflecting people away from what’s
deflecting people away from what’s really going on with me is just it’s
really going on with me is just it’s
really going on with me is just it’s just what I do when you get really
just what I do when you get really
just what I do when you get really convincing it pretending that you’re
convincing it pretending that you’re
convincing it pretending that you’re okay
okay
okay people just assume you are much like a
people just assume you are much like a
people just assume you are much like a lot of you thought there was nothing
lot of you thought there was nothing
lot of you thought there was nothing wrong with me when I first came out here
wrong with me when I first came out here
wrong with me when I first came out here none of my friends family anybody knew
none of my friends family anybody knew
none of my friends family anybody knew anything was wrong with me until maybe a
anything was wrong with me until maybe a
anything was wrong with me until maybe a year and a half ago when I decided to
year and a half ago when I decided to
year and a half ago when I decided to tell them I’ve been secretly living with
tell them I’ve been secretly living with
tell them I’ve been secretly living with dark thoughts and self-loathing for you
dark thoughts and self-loathing for you
dark thoughts and self-loathing for you know most of my adult life and saying
know most of my adult life and saying
know most of my adult life and saying I’m fine and not addressing it and not
I’m fine and not addressing it and not
I’m fine and not addressing it and not letting anybody in is if it’s just a bad
letting anybody in is if it’s just a bad
letting anybody in is if it’s just a bad move you know and the more the things
move you know and the more the things
move you know and the more the things that have happened to me over the last
that have happened to me over the last
that have happened to me over the last year that the more I’ve sort of realized
year that the more I’ve sort of realized
year that the more I’ve sort of realized that that’s it’s like putting a plaster
that that’s it’s like putting a plaster
that that’s it’s like putting a plaster over cancer you’re not dealing with
over cancer you’re not dealing with
over cancer you’re not dealing with anything last April was the worst time
anything last April was the worst time
anything last April was the worst time for me I was living with that feeling I
for me I was living with that feeling I
for me I was living with that feeling I can’t even describe I still can I’m have
can’t even describe I still can I’m have
can’t even describe I still can I’m have to now obviously but if I was to choose
to now obviously but if I was to choose
to now obviously but if I was to choose one word it’d be something like
one word it’d be something like
one word it’d be something like overwhelm I remember lying in bed one
overwhelm I remember lying in bed one
overwhelm I remember lying in bed one morning and I was overwhelmed because I
morning and I was overwhelmed because I
morning and I was overwhelmed because I was trying to remember what feeling
was trying to remember what feeling
was trying to remember what feeling happy felt like and I couldn’t remember
happy felt like and I couldn’t remember
happy felt like and I couldn’t remember and I thought there’s no point in living
and I thought there’s no point in living
and I thought there’s no point in living if I can’t actually remember how to be
if I can’t actually remember how to be
if I can’t actually remember how to be happy anymore I’d had suicidal thoughts
happy anymore I’d had suicidal thoughts
happy anymore I’d had suicidal thoughts before as everyone who suffers from
before as everyone who suffers from
before as everyone who suffers from depression it surely does but always
depression it surely does but always
depression it surely does but always knew I’d never really go through with it
knew I’d never really go through with it
knew I’d never really go through with it because of the the pain and you know
because of the the pain and you know
because of the the pain and you know everything that would cause the people
everything that would cause the people
everything that would cause the people that were close to me is you know what a
that were close to me is you know what a
that were close to me is you know what a great deterrent that is I just didn’t
great deterrent that is I just didn’t
great deterrent that is I just didn’t couldn’t do that but that morning when I
couldn’t do that but that morning when I
couldn’t do that but that morning when I lay in bed depression had completely
lay in bed depression had completely
lay in bed depression had completely taken over my thoughts it manipulated
taken over my thoughts it manipulated
taken over my thoughts it manipulated and it had lied its way into making me
and it had lied its way into making me
and it had lied its way into making me think that ending my own life wasn’t
think that ending my own life wasn’t
think that ending my own life wasn’t just best for me but actually would be
just best for me but actually would be
just best for me but actually would be best for everybody because that was that
best for everybody because that was that
best for everybody because that was that is what depression does it overpowers
is what depression does it overpowers
is what depression does it overpowers you it takes the wheel and it steers you
you it takes the wheel and it steers you
you it takes the wheel and it steers you away from everyone and everything you
away from everyone and everything you
away from everyone and everything you love and it takes you down a dark tunnel
love and it takes you down a dark tunnel
love and it takes you down a dark tunnel and when you’re in that turn oh it hugs
and when you’re in that turn oh it hugs
and when you’re in that turn oh it hugs you and it tells you that this is where
you and it tells you that this is where
you and it tells you that this is where you’re supposed to belong I called my
you’re supposed to belong I called my
you’re supposed to belong I called my mum that morning but it wasn’t because I
mum that morning but it wasn’t because I
mum that morning but it wasn’t because I needed help I thought I was beyond help
needed help I thought I was beyond help
needed help I thought I was beyond help I called her because I thought that day
I called her because I thought that day
I called her because I thought that day I was going to take my own life and I
I was going to take my own life and I
I was going to take my own life and I called her to hear her voice one last
called her to hear her voice one last
called her to hear her voice one last time
time
time not only does my mum love me I think she
not only does my mum love me I think she
not only does my mum love me I think she she knows me better than anyone and also
she knows me better than anyone and also
she knows me better than anyone and also she’s a mental health professional and I
she’s a mental health professional and I
she’s a mental health professional and I think by the tone of my voice the kind
think by the tone of my voice the kind
think by the tone of my voice the kind of things that I was saying she knew
of things that I was saying she knew
of things that I was saying she knew something really serious was up and and
something really serious was up and and
something really serious was up and and the love I heard in her voice she she
the love I heard in her voice she she
the love I heard in her voice she she managed to bring me back for a second
managed to bring me back for a second
managed to bring me back for a second and in that second she suggested that
and in that second she suggested that
and in that second she suggested that together we get me some help and that’s
together we get me some help and that’s
together we get me some help and that’s kind of all it took I went to my GP the
kind of all it took I went to my GP the
kind of all it took I went to my GP the next day and I did something I thought
next day and I did something I thought
next day and I did something I thought I’d never do I I told someone I didn’t
I’d never do I I told someone I didn’t
I’d never do I I told someone I didn’t know what was going on inside my own
know what was going on inside my own
know what was going on inside my own head and after a little conversation
head and after a little conversation
head and after a little conversation about depression he asked me a question
about depression he asked me a question
about depression he asked me a question I can’t believe I hadn’t asked myself he
I can’t believe I hadn’t asked myself he
I can’t believe I hadn’t asked myself he said do you actually want to die or do
said do you actually want to die or do
said do you actually want to die or do you just not want to feel like this
you just not want to feel like this
you just not want to feel like this anymore
anymore
anymore I thought what an important distinction
I thought what an important distinction
I thought what an important distinction to make because when you’re when you’re
to make because when you’re when you’re
to make because when you’re when you’re in that fog you cannot you can’t ask
in that fog you cannot you can’t ask
in that fog you cannot you can’t ask yourself questions like that my
yourself questions like that my
yourself questions like that my depression doesn’t hit me like a
depression doesn’t hit me like a
depression doesn’t hit me like a sledgehammer out of nowhere I needed
sledgehammer out of nowhere I needed
sledgehammer out of nowhere I needed this it leave like with sudden relief
this it leave like with sudden relief
this it leave like with sudden relief like waking up from a nightmare it
like waking up from a nightmare it
like waking up from a nightmare it creeps in and then it creeps away again
creeps in and then it creeps away again
creeps in and then it creeps away again it’s like taking a painkiller for a
it’s like taking a painkiller for a
it’s like taking a painkiller for a headache you don’t know the instant your
headache you don’t know the instant your
headache you don’t know the instant your headache is gone
headache is gone
headache is gone you just realize it’s been gone a while
you just realize it’s been gone a while
you just realize it’s been gone a while I realized I was feeling better when I
I realized I was feeling better when I
I realized I was feeling better when I was out walking the dog one day and I
was out walking the dog one day and I
was out walking the dog one day and I realized I’ve walked the thing 12 miles
realized I’ve walked the thing 12 miles
realized I’ve walked the thing 12 miles and everything just everything I just
and everything just everything I just
and everything just everything I just and I was perfectly happy doing that and
and I was perfectly happy doing that and
and I was perfectly happy doing that and it just felt good you know and this
it just felt good you know and this
it just felt good you know and this sounds weird but everything looks normal
sounds weird but everything looks normal
sounds weird but everything looks normal again all the colors looked how they
again all the colors looked how they
again all the colors looked how they should because depression kind of lowers
should because depression kind of lowers
should because depression kind of lowers the saturation on everything for me and
the saturation on everything for me and
the saturation on everything for me and everything just looked good it just felt
everything just looked good it just felt
everything just looked good it just felt good there’s like the part of my brain
good there’s like the part of my brain
good there’s like the part of my brain that conked out six months before had
that conked out six months before had
that conked out six months before had just spluttered back into life and all
just spluttered back into life and all
just spluttered back into life and all these my excitement and motivation and
these my excitement and motivation and
these my excitement and motivation and appreciation of beauty or this sort of
appreciation of beauty or this sort of
appreciation of beauty or this sort of thing had suddenly start to come back
thing had suddenly start to come back
thing had suddenly start to come back online and I was beginning to remember a
online and I was beginning to remember a
online and I was beginning to remember a feeling happy felt like I put it all
feeling happy felt like I put it all
feeling happy felt like I put it all down to the walk-in I put it well not
down to the walk-in I put it well not
down to the walk-in I put it well not all of it but I put it down to being
all of it but I put it down to being
all of it but I put it down to being outside and making that first step into
outside and making that first step into
outside and making that first step into talking home and I had an idea I went
talking home and I had an idea I went
talking home and I had an idea I went into town straightaway and I bought a
into town straightaway and I bought a
into town straightaway and I bought a map of Great Britain and I sat
map of Great Britain and I sat
map of Great Britain and I sat frantically circling all the all the
frantically circling all the all the
frantically circling all the all the parts of the country that I thought
parts of the country that I thought
parts of the country that I thought would inspire me to stay outside the
would inspire me to stay outside the
would inspire me to stay outside the hole you know then just to kind of keep
hole you know then just to kind of keep
hole you know then just to kind of keep this good feeling going and and I
this good feeling going and and I
this good feeling going and and I thought in turn if I document that then
thought in turn if I document that then
thought in turn if I document that then I might inspire other people who’ve been
I might inspire other people who’ve been
I might inspire other people who’ve been through what I’ve been through to to get
through what I’ve been through to to get
through what I’ve been through to to get outside as well
outside as well
outside as well once I’d circled all the bits of Great
once I’d circled all the bits of Great
once I’d circled all the bits of Great Britain that I wanted to see I put a big
Britain that I wanted to see I put a big
Britain that I wanted to see I put a big line through them all when this route
line through them all when this route
line through them all when this route appeared in front of me I’m like yes I’m
appeared in front of me I’m like yes I’m
appeared in front of me I’m like yes I’m doing that I need to do that that was
doing that I need to do that that was
doing that I need to do that that was the easy bit obviously the hard bit
the easy bit obviously the hard bit
the easy bit obviously the hard bit wasn’t getting myself match fit which
wasn’t getting myself match fit which
wasn’t getting myself match fit which was really hard you should have seen me
was really hard you should have seen me
was really hard you should have seen me it wasn’t researching and sourcing the
it wasn’t researching and sourcing the
it wasn’t researching and sourcing the kit I needed it wasn’t plotting my route
kit I needed it wasn’t plotting my route
kit I needed it wasn’t plotting my route to the end it was was telling people
to the end it was was telling people
to the end it was was telling people what I was good not so much what I was
what I was good not so much what I was
what I was good not so much what I was gonna do but why I was gonna do it
gonna do but why I was gonna do it
gonna do but why I was gonna do it because it meant coming clean finally
because it meant coming clean finally
because it meant coming clean finally all these feelings I’ve been so ashamed
all these feelings I’ve been so ashamed
all these feelings I’ve been so ashamed of for so long all this stuff that I
of for so long all this stuff that I
of for so long all this stuff that I fought compromised Who I am as a person
fought compromised Who I am as a person
fought compromised Who I am as a person I had to tell them all it was the worst
I had to tell them all it was the worst
I had to tell them all it was the worst thing I ever had to do and the best
thing I ever had to do and the best
thing I ever had to do and the best thing I ever did the response absolutely
thing I ever did the response absolutely
thing I ever did the response absolutely floored me and I couldn’t believe the
floored me and I couldn’t believe the
floored me and I couldn’t believe the amount of people that were going through
amount of people that were going through
amount of people that were going through the same kind of thing I was going
the same kind of thing I was going
the same kind of thing I was going through and all of a sudden I realized
through and all of a sudden I realized
through and all of a sudden I realized that this was important this is
that this was important this is
that this was important this is something I really really have to do the
something I really really have to do the
something I really really have to do the name I gave my 3,000 mile hike around
name I gave my 3,000 mile hike around
name I gave my 3,000 mile hike around Great Britain was black dog walks six
Great Britain was black dog walks six
Great Britain was black dog walks six weeks later I stood at Brighton Pier and
weeks later I stood at Brighton Pier and
weeks later I stood at Brighton Pier and just started heading west all I had on
just started heading west all I had on
just started heading west all I had on me ironically were the things that I
me ironically were the things that I
me ironically were the things that I needed to survive in a week I’d reached
needed to survive in a week I’d reached
needed to survive in a week I’d reached Bournemouth in a month and a half I’d
Bournemouth in a month and a half I’d
Bournemouth in a month and a half I’d reached Lands End and at this point it
reached Lands End and at this point it
reached Lands End and at this point it was all about promoting exercise of
was all about promoting exercise of
was all about promoting exercise of being outdoors as a way of managing
being outdoors as a way of managing
being outdoors as a way of managing mental health and raising money for the
mental health and raising money for the
mental health and raising money for the Mental Health Foundation but by the time
Mental Health Foundation but by the time
Mental Health Foundation but by the time I got up to Wales I’ve been gone for so
I got up to Wales I’ve been gone for so
I got up to Wales I’ve been gone for so long the thing had turned from a
long the thing had turned from a
long the thing had turned from a challenge into a lifestyle where I found
challenge into a lifestyle where I found
challenge into a lifestyle where I found a way to live in the moment serendipity
a way to live in the moment serendipity
a way to live in the moment serendipity serendipitous encounters with strangers
serendipitous encounters with strangers
serendipitous encounters with strangers of being immersed in nature all the time
of being immersed in nature all the time
of being immersed in nature all the time and having the feeling like you’re
and having the feeling like you’re
and having the feeling like you’re living completely in the moment is like
living completely in the moment is like
living completely in the moment is like gold dust to a depressive
by the time I’d made it into North Wales
by the time I’d made it into North Wales climb Mount Snowdon and come back I was
climb Mount Snowdon and come back I was
climb Mount Snowdon and come back I was getting messages from people all over
getting messages from people all over
getting messages from people all over the country and I couldn’t believe how
the country and I couldn’t believe how
the country and I couldn’t believe how open people were being about their own
open people were being about their own
open people were being about their own experiences and how much this was
experiences and how much this was
experiences and how much this was connecting with people and I know it was
connecting with people and I know it was
connecting with people and I know it was something really really interesting a
something really really interesting a
something really really interesting a lot of people who got in touch with me
lot of people who got in touch with me
lot of people who got in touch with me hadn’t actually told anyone else I was
hadn’t actually told anyone else I was
hadn’t actually told anyone else I was the first person they were telling and I
the first person they were telling and I
the first person they were telling and I was like no one no one else could
was like no one no one else could
was like no one no one else could understand and I remember having that
understand and I remember having that
understand and I remember having that feeling as well because everything in my
feeling as well because everything in my
feeling as well because everything in my life led me to my depression that awful
life led me to my depression that awful
life led me to my depression that awful feeling you know the situation’s have
feeling you know the situation’s have
feeling you know the situation’s have been in the people in my life the
been in the people in my life the
been in the people in my life the decisions I’ve made everything had just
decisions I’ve made everything had just
decisions I’ve made everything had just reached that one moment I thought how
reached that one moment I thought how
reached that one moment I thought how the hell is anyone gonna understand that
the hell is anyone gonna understand that
the hell is anyone gonna understand that and ever and that was the thread that
and ever and that was the thread that
and ever and that was the thread that was running through all these
was running through all these
was running through all these conversations I was having with people
conversations I was having with people
conversations I was having with people they were like no one’s gonna understand
they were like no one’s gonna understand
they were like no one’s gonna understand me cause I’ve been through this this
me cause I’ve been through this this
me cause I’ve been through this this this this and this and I realize it’s
this this and this and I realize it’s
this this and this and I realize it’s not that’s not what we should be talking
not that’s not what we should be talking
not that’s not what we should be talking about it’s the feeling itself because
about it’s the feeling itself because
about it’s the feeling itself because depression is it huge like it’s the
depression is it huge like it’s the
depression is it huge like it’s the biggest most inclusive club in the world
biggest most inclusive club in the world
biggest most inclusive club in the world like anyone can join it’s evolving all
like anyone can join it’s evolving all
like anyone can join it’s evolving all the time but the its biggest trick is
the time but the its biggest trick is
the time but the its biggest trick is convincing everyone who’s part of that
convincing everyone who’s part of that
convincing everyone who’s part of that club that they’re the only member isn’t
club that they’re the only member isn’t
club that they’re the only member isn’t that clever
that clever
that clever and everyone thinks that their stuff is
and everyone thinks that their stuff is
and everyone thinks that their stuff is the worst and no one’s ever had as bad
the worst and no one’s ever had as bad
the worst and no one’s ever had as bad as me and all the guilt that goes with
as me and all the guilt that goes with
as me and all the guilt that goes with that and everything but that’s because
that and everything but that’s because
that and everything but that’s because we’re talking about the wrong things we
we’re talking about the wrong things we
we’re talking about the wrong things we start talking about the feeling itself
start talking about the feeling itself
start talking about the feeling itself then people can get on board without
then people can get on board without
then people can get on board without people know what that’s like and that’s
people know what that’s like and that’s
people know what that’s like and that’s when things turn into a community last
when things turn into a community last
when things turn into a community last November I experienced the true nature
November I experienced the true nature
November I experienced the true nature of community when I did this got
of community when I did this got
of community when I did this got involved in a BBC documentary where I
involved in a BBC documentary where I
involved in a BBC documentary where I and nine other people with mental health
and nine other people with mental health
and nine other people with mental health problems decided to tell our stories to
problems decided to tell our stories to
problems decided to tell our stories to the nation and run the London Marathon
the nation and run the London Marathon
the nation and run the London Marathon together initially I thought it was just
together initially I thought it was just
together initially I thought it was just gonna be a you know something about
gonna be a you know something about
gonna be a you know something about mental health and endorphins and all the
mental health and endorphins and all the
mental health and endorphins and all the things I’ve been trying to sum up with
things I’ve been trying to sum up with
things I’ve been trying to sum up with in the walk but as it went on I realized
in the walk but as it went on I realized
in the walk but as it went on I realized that running was the backdrop and it was
that running was the backdrop and it was
that running was the backdrop and it was more of the community and the
more of the community and the
more of the community and the achievement and all these things that
achievement and all these things that
achievement and all these things that running led to that were having a real
running led to that were having a real
running led to that were having a real positive impact on my mental health
positive impact on my mental health
positive impact on my mental health movement is
movement is
movement is the words my coach Chevy is that guy
the words my coach Chevy is that guy
the words my coach Chevy is that guy used it instead of exercise I think I
used it instead of exercise I think I
used it instead of exercise I think I still don’t quite know his you know how
still don’t quite know his you know how
still don’t quite know his you know how his brain works and that’s why I love it
his brain works and that’s why I love it
his brain works and that’s why I love it but he but movement sort of isn’t just
but he but movement sort of isn’t just
but he but movement sort of isn’t just about exercise it’s about moving forward
about exercise it’s about moving forward
about exercise it’s about moving forward it’s about progression it’s about
it’s about progression it’s about
it’s about progression it’s about working on yourself physically and
working on yourself physically and
working on yourself physically and mentally and being there for other
mentally and being there for other
mentally and being there for other people but being in the documentary I
people but being in the documentary I
people but being in the documentary I mean I was communicating by you know
mean I was communicating by you know
mean I was communicating by you know doing the walk before through video
doing the walk before through video
doing the walk before through video blogging but I had the kind of safety
blogging but I had the kind of safety
blogging but I had the kind of safety net thereof of talking about it for you
net thereof of talking about it for you
net thereof of talking about it for you know talking into my phone on my own and
know talking into my phone on my own and
know talking into my phone on my own and having the luxury of being able to trim
having the luxury of being able to trim
having the luxury of being able to trim out some of the waffle that is some of
out some of the waffle that is some of
out some of the waffle that is some of the stuff that I thought wasn’t
the stuff that I thought wasn’t
the stuff that I thought wasn’t necessary later on before I posted it as
necessary later on before I posted it as
necessary later on before I posted it as a video blog what my neighbor meritum
a video blog what my neighbor meritum
a video blog what my neighbor meritum told me to do or force me to do even was
told me to do or force me to do even was
told me to do or force me to do even was to put an unedited version of myself out
to put an unedited version of myself out
to put an unedited version of myself out there and that’s when I realized what a
there and that’s when I realized what a
there and that’s when I realized what a great leveller talking about your mental
great leveller talking about your mental
great leveller talking about your mental health openly is nobody’s above anyone
health openly is nobody’s above anyone
health openly is nobody’s above anyone else in that conversation I think a lot
else in that conversation I think a lot
else in that conversation I think a lot of how we present ourselves is is run by
of how we present ourselves is is run by
of how we present ourselves is is run by ego in the status and I think a lot of
ego in the status and I think a lot of
ego in the status and I think a lot of that it governs how you know the things
that it governs how you know the things
that it governs how you know the things that we do and what we say a discussion
that we do and what we say a discussion
that we do and what we say a discussion about mental health seems to suspend all
about mental health seems to suspend all
about mental health seems to suspend all that and it levels the playing field and
that and it levels the playing field and
that and it levels the playing field and that’s great because it’s a reminder
that’s great because it’s a reminder
that’s great because it’s a reminder that really we’re all on the same team
that really we’re all on the same team
that really we’re all on the same team we all have mental health and the more
we all have mental health and the more
we all have mental health and the more we learn about each other’s the more we
we learn about each other’s the more we
we learn about each other’s the more we learn about our own whether it was
learn about our own whether it was
learn about our own whether it was talking to one of the guys my coach you
talking to one of the guys my coach you
talking to one of the guys my coach you know Nick Knowles Prince Harry you know
know Nick Knowles Prince Harry you know
know Nick Knowles Prince Harry you know I don’t if I’ve got a picture of Prince
I don’t if I’ve got a picture of Prince
I don’t if I’ve got a picture of Prince Harry actually oh yeah I totally do
so when we announced it we were having
so when we announced it we were having our first child that’s libelous that
our first child that’s libelous that
our first child that’s libelous that didn’t happen
didn’t happen
didn’t happen I didn’t impregnate Prince Harry on the
I didn’t impregnate Prince Harry on the
I didn’t impregnate Prince Harry on the set of my Nova marathon it’s important
set of my Nova marathon it’s important
set of my Nova marathon it’s important that you know that but I love this
that you know that but I love this
that you know that but I love this picture because we do look like mates
picture because we do look like mates
picture because we do look like mates and if we look relaxed and that’s
and if we look relaxed and that’s
and if we look relaxed and that’s because I’ve had I’ve been lucky enough
because I’ve had I’ve been lucky enough
because I’ve had I’ve been lucky enough to have that we’ll fight we bobbin in
to have that we’ll fight we bobbin in
to have that we’ll fight we bobbin in the background there we’d had this
the background there we’d had this
the background there we’d had this conversation this 15-minute 20 minute
conversation this 15-minute 20 minute
conversation this 15-minute 20 minute long conversation and I was asking him
long conversation and I was asking him
long conversation and I was asking him how he was doing he was asking me how I
how he was doing he was asking me how I
how he was doing he was asking me how I was doing it was real weed levelled it
was doing it was real weed levelled it
was doing it was real weed levelled it all out like and I didn’t feel beneath
all out like and I didn’t feel beneath
all out like and I didn’t feel beneath him Prince Harry
him Prince Harry
him Prince Harry fell on top of him right that stops now
fell on top of him right that stops now
fell on top of him right that stops now that stops now and breaking down the
that stops now and breaking down the
that stops now and breaking down the invisible barriers that society creates
invisible barriers that society creates
invisible barriers that society creates for us barriers which make us question
for us barriers which make us question
for us barriers which make us question our place in the world it’s just good
our place in the world it’s just good
our place in the world it’s just good for everybody talking about mental
for everybody talking about mental
for everybody talking about mental health is what’s best for society
health is what’s best for society
health is what’s best for society because deep down everyone craves human
because deep down everyone craves human
because deep down everyone craves human connection the walk still going on I’m I
connection the walk still going on I’m I
connection the walk still going on I’m I came down from Inverness I’ve walked
came down from Inverness I’ve walked
came down from Inverness I’ve walked over 2,000 miles and after this I’ll be
over 2,000 miles and after this I’ll be
over 2,000 miles and after this I’ll be heading back up there to to finish it up
heading back up there to to finish it up
heading back up there to to finish it up back to John O’Groats and then head back
back to John O’Groats and then head back
back to John O’Groats and then head back to Brighton and hopefully finished
to Brighton and hopefully finished
to Brighton and hopefully finished sometime this winter so I’m not gonna
sometime this winter so I’m not gonna
sometime this winter so I’m not gonna finish on that because it’s not done yet
finish on that because it’s not done yet
finish on that because it’s not done yet I want to I want to finish on something
I want to I want to finish on something
I want to I want to finish on something that I have achieved and something I’m
that I have achieved and something I’m
that I have achieved and something I’m proud of because I want to show that in
proud of because I want to show that in
proud of because I want to show that in the face of depression people can
the face of depression people can
the face of depression people can achieve big things and that’s a powerful
achieve big things and that’s a powerful
achieve big things and that’s a powerful thing this is something I wrote the day
thing this is something I wrote the day
thing this is something I wrote the day after I ran the London Marathon and a
after I ran the London Marathon and a
after I ran the London Marathon and a year after I lay in bed that day about
year after I lay in bed that day about
year after I lay in bed that day about to kill myself as I approached the
to kill myself as I approached the
to kill myself as I approached the marker at Mar 26 my body begins to feel
marker at Mar 26 my body begins to feel
marker at Mar 26 my body begins to feel heavy it feels like with every step that
heavy it feels like with every step that
heavy it feels like with every step that I take another layer of clothing goes on
I take another layer of clothing goes on
I take another layer of clothing goes on by the time me and poppy marched past
by the time me and poppy marched past
by the time me and poppy marched past the houses of parliament I feel like I’m
the houses of parliament I feel like I’m
the houses of parliament I feel like I’m wearing a suit of armor and then we run
wearing a suit of armor and then we run
wearing a suit of armor and then we run the last point two miles is harder than
the last point two miles is harder than
the last point two miles is harder than the 26 before it it’s almost impossible
the 26 before it it’s almost impossible
the 26 before it it’s almost impossible eight hundred meters to go six hundred
eight hundred meters to go six hundred
eight hundred meters to go six hundred meters to go four hundred I feel like
meters to go four hundred I feel like
meters to go four hundred I feel like I’m running through water 200 the crowds
I’m running through water 200 the crowds
I’m running through water 200 the crowds cheer snaps me back into reality and I
cheer snaps me back into reality and I
cheer snaps me back into reality and I realized what
realized what
realized what happening where I am and what I’m about
happening where I am and what I’m about
happening where I am and what I’m about to do I reach out and I grab Papa’s hand
to do I reach out and I grab Papa’s hand
to do I reach out and I grab Papa’s hand and do my best to hold it up what I’m so
and do my best to hold it up what I’m so
and do my best to hold it up what I’m so weak I could barely lift my own arm i
weak I could barely lift my own arm i
weak I could barely lift my own arm i feet pound the road in unison both knees
feet pound the road in unison both knees
feet pound the road in unison both knees strapped up as we finally crossed the
strapped up as we finally crossed the
strapped up as we finally crossed the line in 5 hours and 52 minutes and as my
line in 5 hours and 52 minutes and as my
line in 5 hours and 52 minutes and as my pace drops and I begin to walk I feel
pace drops and I begin to walk I feel
pace drops and I begin to walk I feel strangely calm I glide over to the
strangely calm I glide over to the
strangely calm I glide over to the people that have been there with me over
people that have been there with me over
people that have been there with me over the last six months as I watch them cry
the last six months as I watch them cry
the last six months as I watch them cry and hug and congratulate I take a step
and hug and congratulate I take a step
and hug and congratulate I take a step back and I make a promise to myself that
back and I make a promise to myself that
back and I make a promise to myself that whenever I feel worthless whenever I
whenever I feel worthless whenever I
whenever I feel worthless whenever I feel worthless whenever I feel alone and
feel worthless whenever I feel alone and
feel worthless whenever I feel alone and ashamed of the feelings I’m feeling I’ll
ashamed of the feelings I’m feeling I’ll
ashamed of the feelings I’m feeling I’ll play this moment over and over again in
play this moment over and over again in
play this moment over and over again in my head until it goes away because the
my head until it goes away because the
my head until it goes away because the feeling I have right now
feeling I have right now
feeling I have right now I don’t want to die I want to live
I don’t want to die I want to live
I don’t want to die I want to live forever thank you
forever thank you
forever thank you [Applause]
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