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so thank you for the warm introduction

so thank you for the warm introduction my name is Frankie I’m 24 years old I I

my name is Frankie I’m 24 years old I I

my name is Frankie I’m 24 years old I I still live with my mom I live in the

still live with my mom I live in the

still live with my mom I live in the same small town that I grew up in never

same small town that I grew up in never

same small town that I grew up in never really been actually outside of Memphis

really been actually outside of Memphis

really been actually outside of Memphis for longer than six months reason why I

for longer than six months reason why I

for longer than six months reason why I wanted to tell you this when I was

wanted to tell you this when I was

wanted to tell you this when I was thinking through this talking what I was

thinking through this talking what I was

thinking through this talking what I was going to talk about I was trying to

going to talk about I was trying to

going to talk about I was trying to think through what I would have wanted

think through what I would have wanted

think through what I would have wanted to know when I was high phone one was

to know when I was high phone one was

to know when I was high phone one was still just iPhone I was graduating from

still just iPhone I was graduating from

still just iPhone I was graduating from high school and the question that you

high school and the question that you

high school and the question that you get during this stage of your life from

get during this stage of your life from

get during this stage of your life from pretty much everybody is what are you

pretty much everybody is what are you

pretty much everybody is what are you gonna do when I got that question seven

gonna do when I got that question seven

gonna do when I got that question seven years ago I remember telling people that

years ago I remember telling people that

years ago I remember telling people that uh I was on my way to college I was I

uh I was on my way to college I was I

uh I was on my way to college I was I was set to be a first-generation college

was set to be a first-generation college

was set to be a first-generation college student and that I was looking at law or

student and that I was looking at law or

student and that I was looking at law or finance and I want to travel the world

finance and I want to travel the world

finance and I want to travel the world obviously flash-forward seven years I’ve

obviously flash-forward seven years I’ve

obviously flash-forward seven years I’ve failed I don’t work in law or finance I

failed I don’t work in law or finance I

failed I don’t work in law or finance I still live in Millington Tennessee so

still live in Millington Tennessee so

still live in Millington Tennessee so you may be asking yourself why is he

you may be asking yourself why is he

you may be asking yourself why is he giving a TED talk you know he must have

giving a TED talk you know he must have

giving a TED talk you know he must have had some sort of success the truth is

had some sort of success the truth is

had some sort of success the truth is that not only was i lying to myself when

that not only was i lying to myself when

that not only was i lying to myself when I was telling people what I was gonna do

I was telling people what I was gonna do

I was telling people what I was gonna do when I grow up I was being irrational

when I grow up I was being irrational

when I grow up I was being irrational sixty-five percent of jobs that’ll be

sixty-five percent of jobs that’ll be

sixty-five percent of jobs that’ll be available to students entering primary

available to students entering primary

available to students entering primary school today aren’t even on our radar

school today aren’t even on our radar

school today aren’t even on our radar yet right now I have two jobs neither of

yet right now I have two jobs neither of

yet right now I have two jobs neither of which were available to me when I was

which were available to me when I was

which were available to me when I was graduating high school neither of them

graduating high school neither of them

graduating high school neither of them are in law or Finance so what do I do

are in law or Finance so what do I do

are in law or Finance so what do I do what was I going to do dope stuff and I

what was I going to do dope stuff and I

what was I going to do dope stuff and I do have an opportunity to you pretty

do have an opportunity to you pretty

do have an opportunity to you pretty dope stuff every day including this TED

dope stuff every day including this TED

dope stuff every day including this TED talk

talk

talk when I got to college I went to a small

when I got to college I went to a small

when I got to college I went to a small liberal arts college about 20 miles

liberal arts college about 20 miles

liberal arts college about 20 miles north of my hometown and I just like

north of my hometown and I just like

north of my hometown and I just like many first-generation college students I

many first-generation college students I

many first-generation college students I had no idea what I was gonna pursue or

had no idea what I was gonna pursue or

had no idea what I was gonna pursue or anything like that

anything like that

anything like that I ended up taking a couple classes in

I ended up taking a couple classes in

I ended up taking a couple classes in political science two years into my

political science two years into my

political science two years into my college career a little scandal happened

college career a little scandal happened

college career a little scandal happened back in my hometown right north and I

back in my hometown right north and I

back in my hometown right north and I went to a Board of Aldermen meeting so

went to a Board of Aldermen meeting so

went to a Board of Aldermen meeting so it’s like the City Council runs the city

it’s like the City Council runs the city

it’s like the City Council runs the city that type deal and what I realized was

that type deal and what I realized was

that type deal and what I realized was that’s nobody that was representing me

that’s nobody that was representing me

that’s nobody that was representing me in my hometown I didn’t know any of them

in my hometown I didn’t know any of them

in my hometown I didn’t know any of them I had been student government presidents

I had been student government presidents

I had been student government presidents like captain of a football team really

like captain of a football team really

like captain of a football team really successful high school career but I

successful high school career but I

successful high school career but I didn’t know any of these people so to me

didn’t know any of these people so to me

didn’t know any of these people so to me that was a problem one thing led to

that was a problem one thing led to

that was a problem one thing led to another and I decided there was an

another and I decided there was an

another and I decided there was an upcoming election that I was going to

upcoming election that I was going to

upcoming election that I was going to run for office at this time I was 19 and

run for office at this time I was 19 and

run for office at this time I was 19 and I had no obviously no political

I had no obviously no political

I had no obviously no political experience or anything like that there

experience or anything like that there

experience or anything like that there were seven positions that were open for

were seven positions that were open for

were seven positions that were open for election I was trying to decide who I

election I was trying to decide who I

election I was trying to decide who I was gonna run against so I think I made

was gonna run against so I think I made

was gonna run against so I think I made the right decision and you know the

the right decision and you know the

the right decision and you know the decision that had the most likely odds

decision that had the most likely odds

decision that had the most likely odds of success and I ran against the

of success and I ran against the

of success and I ran against the longest-serving incumbent on the board

longest-serving incumbent on the board

longest-serving incumbent on the board he had actually been on there for 16

he had actually been on there for 16

he had actually been on there for 16 years most of my life that’s my first

years most of my life that’s my first

years most of my life that’s my first job that wasn’t available to me when I

job that wasn’t available to me when I

job that wasn’t available to me when I was in high school

was in high school

was in high school long story short I got my friends

long story short I got my friends

long story short I got my friends together who I went to high school with

together who I went to high school with

together who I went to high school with and over a course of six months we ran a

and over a course of six months we ran a

and over a course of six months we ran a campaign we knocked on thousands of

campaign we knocked on thousands of

campaign we knocked on thousands of doors and by the end of the campaign I

doors and by the end of the campaign I

doors and by the end of the campaign I won with 59% of the vote against the

won with 59% of the vote against the

won with 59% of the vote against the longest-serving incumbent on the board

longest-serving incumbent on the board

longest-serving incumbent on the board and since then I’ve had my my first job

and since then I’ve had my my first job

and since then I’ve had my my first job alderman in Millington

nobody when I was asking people that

nobody when I was asking people that cared about me you know about how should

cared about me you know about how should

cared about me you know about how should I take this step forward should I run

I take this step forward should I run

I take this step forward should I run for office most people didn’t tell me

for office most people didn’t tell me

for office most people didn’t tell me yes the best-case scenario for them I

yes the best-case scenario for them I

yes the best-case scenario for them I lost and that way I wasn’t committed to

lost and that way I wasn’t committed to

lost and that way I wasn’t committed to four years in the same hometown that I

four years in the same hometown that I

four years in the same hometown that I grew up in and I guess worst-case

grew up in and I guess worst-case

grew up in and I guess worst-case scenario I won and then I was committed

scenario I won and then I was committed

scenario I won and then I was committed to four years in the same town that I

to four years in the same town that I

to four years in the same town that I grew up in and never got out of but for

grew up in and never got out of but for

grew up in and never got out of but for me it’s been a true gift ever since not

me it’s been a true gift ever since not

me it’s been a true gift ever since not only do I get to give TED talks like

only do I get to give TED talks like

only do I get to give TED talks like this but I get to cut ribbons with

this but I get to cut ribbons with

this but I get to cut ribbons with people twice my age you see how I’m

people twice my age you see how I’m

people twice my age you see how I’m trying to get in there that’s that’s a

trying to get in there that’s that’s a

trying to get in there that’s that’s a really a metaphor for how a young person

really a metaphor for how a young person

really a metaphor for how a young person in elected office has to perform I’ve

in elected office has to perform I’ve

in elected office has to perform I’ve been in that position now for five years

been in that position now for five years

been in that position now for five years but going back to my sophomore year

but going back to my sophomore year

but going back to my sophomore year college I come back my junior year after

college I come back my junior year after

college I come back my junior year after I had one-on-one my political office and

I had one-on-one my political office and

I had one-on-one my political office and really dove into my studies a year ahead

really dove into my studies a year ahead

really dove into my studies a year ahead of time I have an opportunity to travel

of time I have an opportunity to travel

of time I have an opportunity to travel across the country but I have to take a

across the country but I have to take a

across the country but I have to take a semester off from school I didn’t get

semester off from school I didn’t get

semester off from school I didn’t get this opportunity until two weeks before

this opportunity until two weeks before

this opportunity until two weeks before my senior year of college so as a

my senior year of college so as a

my senior year of college so as a first-generation college student going

first-generation college student going

first-generation college student going into your senior year means a lot to

into your senior year means a lot to

into your senior year means a lot to your to you and your family you’re like

your to you and your family you’re like

your to you and your family you’re like almost there so needless to say my

almost there so needless to say my

almost there so needless to say my parents and friends weren’t very happy

parents and friends weren’t very happy

parents and friends weren’t very happy when I told them that I was looking and

when I told them that I was looking and

when I told them that I was looking and taking a semester off to travel the

taking a semester off to travel the

taking a semester off to travel the country but for me I had never been

country but for me I had never been

country but for me I had never been further west in Arkansas I really want

further west in Arkansas I really want

further west in Arkansas I really want to accomplish my goal of traveling the

to accomplish my goal of traveling the

to accomplish my goal of traveling the world I guess I could start with our

world I guess I could start with our

world I guess I could start with our country so I didn’t take their advice

country so I didn’t take their advice

country so I didn’t take their advice and I did it this is me this is actually

and I did it this is me this is actually

and I did it this is me this is actually not in the United States this is an

not in the United States this is an

not in the United States this is an Israel a couple of new years ago but I

Israel a couple of new years ago but I

Israel a couple of new years ago but I just think it’s a dill picture so I put

just think it’s a dill picture so I put

just think it’s a dill picture so I put it up here but I got chance to travel

it up here but I got chance to travel

it up here but I got chance to travel the country and over the course of that

the country and over the course of that

the country and over the course of that I was a field organizer on a trip

I was a field organizer on a trip

I was a field organizer on a trip basically organizing a trip across the

basically organizing a trip across the

basically organizing a trip across the country to cities that I had only seen

country to cities that I had only seen

country to cities that I had only seen on TV that experience ended up being

on TV that experience ended up being

on TV that experience ended up being really one of the only reasons I got my

really one of the only reasons I got my

really one of the only reasons I got my second job which I’m about to tell you

second job which I’m about to tell you

second job which I’m about to tell you about

about

about so flash-forward couple years or one

so flash-forward couple years or one

so flash-forward couple years or one year I’m graduating from Rhodes College

year I’m graduating from Rhodes College

year I’m graduating from Rhodes College late because it took that semester and I

late because it took that semester and I

late because it took that semester and I was confronted with this question again

was confronted with this question again

was confronted with this question again what are you gonna do so me I had really

what are you gonna do so me I had really

what are you gonna do so me I had really two priorities for what I was gonna do

two priorities for what I was gonna do

two priorities for what I was gonna do next I wanted to stay in Memphis I love

next I wanted to stay in Memphis I love

next I wanted to stay in Memphis I love this area I was I was still elected to a

this area I was I was still elected to a

this area I was I was still elected to a role where I had two years left on my

role where I had two years left on my

role where I had two years left on my commitment and I wanted to work in

commitment and I wanted to work in

commitment and I wanted to work in public policy or economic development in

public policy or economic development in

public policy or economic development in somewhat the only problem was there’s

somewhat the only problem was there’s

somewhat the only problem was there’s really no jobs in that area for a recent

really no jobs in that area for a recent

really no jobs in that area for a recent college graduate that I could find but I

college graduate that I could find but I

college graduate that I could find but I did find one it was my dream job working

did find one it was my dream job working

did find one it was my dream job working for an organization focused on

for an organization focused on

for an organization focused on attracting and retaining talent and

attracting and retaining talent and

attracting and retaining talent and growing our economy through there the

growing our economy through there the

growing our economy through there the only problem was that I wasn’t qualified

only problem was that I wasn’t qualified

only problem was that I wasn’t qualified for the job at all not like not even a

for the job at all not like not even a

for the job at all not like not even a little bit required a master’s degree

little bit required a master’s degree

little bit required a master’s degree three or five years experience all that

three or five years experience all that

three or five years experience all that stuff long story short I I called

stuff long story short I I called

stuff long story short I I called everybody that was remotely related to

everybody that was remotely related to

everybody that was remotely related to the organization like if the my friends

the organization like if the my friends

the organization like if the my friends cousins auntie was an executive

cousins auntie was an executive

cousins auntie was an executive assessment assistant there she knew I

assessment assistant there she knew I

assessment assistant there she knew I was applying for that job that got me an

was applying for that job that got me an

was applying for that job that got me an interview got me in the front door I

interview got me in the front door I

interview got me in the front door I didn’t end up getting the job but I made

didn’t end up getting the job but I made

didn’t end up getting the job but I made a decent impression went back to the

a decent impression went back to the

a decent impression went back to the drawing board took a position working as

drawing board took a position working as

drawing board took a position working as a paralegal at a law firm for about six

a paralegal at a law firm for about six

a paralegal at a law firm for about six months and at this point in my life the

months and at this point in my life the

months and at this point in my life the same well-intentioned people that have

same well-intentioned people that have

same well-intentioned people that have been asking me what are you gonna do

been asking me what are you gonna do

been asking me what are you gonna do we’re saying you know well maybe you

we’re saying you know well maybe you

we’re saying you know well maybe you should just go to graduate school I

should just go to graduate school I

should just go to graduate school I opportunity I got a postgraduate

opportunity I got a postgraduate

opportunity I got a postgraduate fellowship walls and Rhodes College to

fellowship walls and Rhodes College to

fellowship walls and Rhodes College to fund my graduate school studies maybe

fund my graduate school studies maybe

fund my graduate school studies maybe you should do that just go ahead and get

you should do that just go ahead and get

you should do that just go ahead and get on the right path instead of taking this

on the right path instead of taking this

on the right path instead of taking this sort of temporary gig I didn’t listen to

sort of temporary gig I didn’t listen to

sort of temporary gig I didn’t listen to them I stayed in my role and I really do

them I stayed in my role and I really do

them I stayed in my role and I really do VIN I did with the work that I wanted to

VIN I did with the work that I wanted to

VIN I did with the work that I wanted to do an economic development in public

do an economic development in public

do an economic development in public policy but I did it for free six months

policy but I did it for free six months

policy but I did it for free six months down the road another job opens up at

down the road another job opens up at

down the road another job opens up at that organization first time this job

that organization first time this job

that organization first time this job has ever existed the organization has

has ever existed the organization has

has ever existed the organization has been around since 1979 it was a better

been around since 1979 it was a better

been around since 1979 it was a better fit for me

fit for me

fit for me I applied interviewed got the job two

I applied interviewed got the job two

I applied interviewed got the job two years later I’m still working at the

years later I’m still working at the

years later I’m still working at the organization

organization

organization and am now in a role that I’ve only been

and am now in a role that I’ve only been

and am now in a role that I’ve only been in for 11 months that was created for me

in for 11 months that was created for me

in for 11 months that was created for me so not only was this position that I

so not only was this position that I

so not only was this position that I hold now not available to me when I was

hold now not available to me when I was

hold now not available to me when I was graduating high school it wasn’t

graduating high school it wasn’t

graduating high school it wasn’t available 12 months ago so have I been

available 12 months ago so have I been

available 12 months ago so have I been successful by the terms that I define

successful by the terms that I define

successful by the terms that I define success when I was graduating from high

success when I was graduating from high

success when I was graduating from high school seven years ago absolutely not

school seven years ago absolutely not

school seven years ago absolutely not I failed on all accounts 24-year old

I failed on all accounts 24-year old

I failed on all accounts 24-year old dude still living in the same town

dude still living in the same town

dude still living in the same town living with my mom basically

living with my mom basically

living with my mom basically stereotypical millennial snowflake but

stereotypical millennial snowflake but

stereotypical millennial snowflake but that’s really only half the story I’m

that’s really only half the story I’m

that’s really only half the story I’m also a first generation college graduate

also a first generation college graduate

also a first generation college graduate last year I was 23 I bought my first

last year I was 23 I bought my first

last year I was 23 I bought my first house it’s my Jordan here for those of

house it’s my Jordan here for those of

house it’s my Jordan here for those of you that haven’t gotten to 23 yet it’s a

you that haven’t gotten to 23 yet it’s a

you that haven’t gotten to 23 yet it’s a Jordan year it’s a very important year

Jordan year it’s a very important year

Jordan year it’s a very important year I’m a recipient of the hairiest Truman

I’m a recipient of the hairiest Truman

I’m a recipient of the hairiest Truman fellowship for public service which is

fellowship for public service which is

fellowship for public service which is only given out to about 50 students

only given out to about 50 students

only given out to about 50 students every year just I mean yes if I can’t

every year just I mean yes if I can’t

every year just I mean yes if I can’t define success how I used to if I was

define success how I used to if I was

define success how I used to if I was going to define a success how other

going to define a success how other

going to define a success how other people define it for me just in the last

people define it for me just in the last

people define it for me just in the last week I was mentioned in the local media

week I was mentioned in the local media

week I was mentioned in the local media and reference to be a Power Ranger for

and reference to be a Power Ranger for

and reference to be a Power Ranger for my work at my current job which I

my work at my current job which I

my work at my current job which I obviously loved to hear that I was being

obviously loved to hear that I was being

obviously loved to hear that I was being compared to a Power Ranger and I opened

compared to a Power Ranger and I opened

compared to a Power Ranger and I opened up my browser about a week ago and got a

up my browser about a week ago and got a

up my browser about a week ago and got a positional reference in the national

positional reference in the national

positional reference in the national media at the hill where I was compared

media at the hill where I was compared

media at the hill where I was compared to Mayor Bill DeBlasio of New York

to Mayor Bill DeBlasio of New York

to Mayor Bill DeBlasio of New York Governor Missouri Chris Kuhn United

Governor Missouri Chris Kuhn United

Governor Missouri Chris Kuhn United States Senator and a host of other

States Senator and a host of other

States Senator and a host of other leaders basically I was like the butt

leaders basically I was like the butt

leaders basically I was like the butt end of that spectrum which is fine

end of that spectrum which is fine

end of that spectrum which is fine I was mentioned at least so success in

I was mentioned at least so success in

I was mentioned at least so success in terms of how other people view it

terms of how other people view it

terms of how other people view it perhaps so what do I do now I have two

perhaps so what do I do now I have two

perhaps so what do I do now I have two jobs neither of which were available to

jobs neither of which were available to

jobs neither of which were available to me seven years ago both of which and

me seven years ago both of which and

me seven years ago both of which and give me the opportunity to wake up every

give me the opportunity to wake up every

give me the opportunity to wake up every day and make a difference for the

day and make a difference for the

day and make a difference for the community that I grew up

community that I grew up

community that I grew up that I love also in my Jordan year I had

that I love also in my Jordan year I had

that I love also in my Jordan year I had a another decision to make that I was a

a another decision to make that I was a

a another decision to make that I was a really pivotal decision for me in my

really pivotal decision for me in my

really pivotal decision for me in my life my mother who raised me and he’s an

life my mother who raised me and he’s an

life my mother who raised me and he’s an amazing brilliant woman suffers from

amazing brilliant woman suffers from

amazing brilliant woman suffers from bipolar disorder and she has never had a

bipolar disorder and she has never had a

bipolar disorder and she has never had a stable home situation since her dad

stable home situation since her dad

stable home situation since her dad divorced back when I was a kid so I had

divorced back when I was a kid so I had

divorced back when I was a kid so I had a decision to make whether I was gonna

a decision to make whether I was gonna

a decision to make whether I was gonna ask my mom to come and live with me

ask my mom to come and live with me

ask my mom to come and live with me that’s 23 years old I’ve only been in

that’s 23 years old I’ve only been in

that’s 23 years old I’ve only been in the workforce for about a year everybody

the workforce for about a year everybody

the workforce for about a year everybody that I knew that really has you know

that I knew that really has you know

that I knew that really has you know their their heart out there for me told

their their heart out there for me told

their their heart out there for me told me that this wasn’t a good decision

me that this wasn’t a good decision

me that this wasn’t a good decision you know I’m too young to take on a

you know I’m too young to take on a

you know I’m too young to take on a burden take on a responsibility it’s

burden take on a responsibility it’s

burden take on a responsibility it’s been the best decision I’ve made in the

been the best decision I’ve made in the

been the best decision I’ve made in the last few years my mom makes me better

last few years my mom makes me better

last few years my mom makes me better and she makes me better for the work

and she makes me better for the work

and she makes me better for the work that I get to do every single day my

that I get to do every single day my

that I get to do every single day my point is that’s when I look back and

point is that’s when I look back and

point is that’s when I look back and what I get to do it’s not what I decided

what I get to do it’s not what I decided

what I get to do it’s not what I decided was gonna be successful for me seven

was gonna be successful for me seven

was gonna be successful for me seven years ago but I get to do some really

years ago but I get to do some really

years ago but I get to do some really dope stuff and it’s in and in terms of

dope stuff and it’s in and in terms of

dope stuff and it’s in and in terms of success for what really matters I’ve

success for what really matters I’ve

success for what really matters I’ve succeeded beyond my wildest dreams so

succeeded beyond my wildest dreams so

succeeded beyond my wildest dreams so far where do I go from here seven years

far where do I go from here seven years

far where do I go from here seven years from now who knows hopefully I’m still

from now who knows hopefully I’m still

from now who knows hopefully I’m still doing some dope stuff but I do want to

doing some dope stuff but I do want to

doing some dope stuff but I do want to leave you with this this is the only

leave you with this this is the only

leave you with this this is the only piece of advice that I’ve heard lately

piece of advice that I’ve heard lately

piece of advice that I’ve heard lately and trust me as a young person in

and trust me as a young person in

and trust me as a young person in government you hear lots of advice from

government you hear lots of advice from

government you hear lots of advice from people this is the only piece of advice

people this is the only piece of advice

people this is the only piece of advice that has really held any weight for me

that has really held any weight for me

that has really held any weight for me this is viola Street just turned 100

this is viola Street just turned 100

this is viola Street just turned 100 recently retired as a cafeteria lady

recently retired as a cafeteria lady

recently retired as a cafeteria lady after 35 years before that she held

after 35 years before that she held

after 35 years before that she held another position for 15 years and was a

another position for 15 years and was a

another position for 15 years and was a retired educator from Shelby County

retired educator from Shelby County

retired educator from Shelby County Schools she said stay busy help others

Schools she said stay busy help others

Schools she said stay busy help others don’t sit on your Fanny and think about

don’t sit on your Fanny and think about

don’t sit on your Fanny and think about what you can do or want to do get up and

what you can do or want to do get up and

what you can do or want to do get up and go do it so that’s all I’ll leave you

go do it so that’s all I’ll leave you

go do it so that’s all I’ll leave you with that’s the only really piece of

with that’s the only really piece of

with that’s the only really piece of advice that I’m gonna give this talk

advice that I’m gonna give this talk

advice that I’m gonna give this talk thank you

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