types of world
the world is that we live in a world with
access to technology access to education
access to information access to culture
access to leisure
this world another world
the parallel world that receives this
parallel adjective because it is in the
corner on the outskirts of the favela
dumps
these two worlds though they are not
see
so that the world we live in
with all these accesses see the world
parallel
it is necessary for us to get out of the
of numbness consciousness and go to the
there is another way of seeing the
that happens when the conflict between
two worlds
usually through violence, and here comes the
discrimination but this parallel world
it’s not the worst of the worlds there’s an equal
or maybe a little more painful the
invisible world inhabited by beings
human information that by its nature
are defenseless and by human action are
invisible
this world is called the invisible world
institutions of the Member States
children and adolescents inhabited
today in our country or about 45 thousand
children and adolescents
but where does the idea of this world come from?
it materialized
and how everything in our country an idea
the law were formidable but
in practice does not reach the essence of
standard
this world called the institution of
host was created so that the
children and adolescents who are
who will be in a situation of
with their natural families with their
biological families be from there
withdrawn by the Brazilian state and
placed in this institution where it will be
guaranteed all his rights
except for family cohabitation because the
institution is not equal to the family but
to be temporary
the host institution
on this fantastic idea of
risk child
It has to be temporary for the
child and teenager
that is the reason to exist when the
child arrives the Brazilian state has
that checking is going back to the family
natural biological
will the Brazilian state be able to
destroy that family can the
education counseling social support
to change the
and then receive as a priority the
the teenager who went from there
withdrawn
This is the priority is to go back to your
natural family has a second option
when this does not materialize is the option
to have some family with kinship with
the child and the adolescent but have
affective bond and that it can be
inserted without risk
these two options have not yet been
materialized there is a third option
a family that wanted to take that
child is that teenager and placed
with one more family member as if
son was without any kind of distinction
lovingly receiving the attention
irrevocably and irreversibly
through adoption
the formidable idea was not a
different reality
today a child arrives at the
host institution
if it has up to three years according to
data from the National Council of Justice
of adoption support groups on average
three year old female
clear light hair eyes and
healthy
the Brazilian state in a timely manner
can solve the situation of this
child
but this child and the color heals she is not
healthy, ie if you are physically disabled
mental or with any syndrome
incurable communal with difficult cure
conquest by medicine
this child is on the margins of those who
are registered want to adopt the
she stops being a temporary guest
become a permanent resident and the
host institution is not a family
How does this child come into play?
Claudia
how can she get into this
invisible world
stories are heavy stories
sad physical violence is burned
by cigarettes physical violence with
belt buckle that was the mark on your
sexual violence that sometimes
the pregnancy of a girl of 9 and 10 years
all with the participation of his family
natural psychological abandonment
because physical deficiency is neglected
because you have a mental disability because
carries HIV and leaves the floor
or on the corner a trash can
history already shows that our
are already weakened
the Brazilian state is very concerned
with the fantastic environment fantastic and
similar to be able to enable the
environment
the host institution for more than
wonderful that it is not going to be
family and we have no institution
wonderful host
in which all the professionals who
there they work and they try
to make the host institution a
home
structure and it is easy to explain the
child does not vote
imagines public policies to
arrive at the host institutions
where are the children and teenagers
may worsen may worsen
and when that child gets older
age
open the doors of institutions
she leaves the invisible world and goes to
parallel world drug thefts first
more complex crimes premature death
ceases to be invisible and becomes a
the scum of the society because the
company failed and because it has treatment
differentiated from children in
host institutions because the
our still prejudiced society
we sell history that Brazil is a
heterogeneous country is a country of mixed
but we do not accept the different
of our families
When we identify as parents
adoptive parents say sorry
You can not have kids there like you are.
a wonderful person you’ve done an act
of charity
we also believe that the issues
psychological and character traits are
by blood prejudice with the adoption with
the race with color with the social situation and
economic
stay in the host institution by
long time is so bad, just enter
there for five ten minutes
the first time I came in and left crying
and where is it that this invisible world
because the children there are
are touched by magic dust
called the secret of justice
The secret of justice for our children
wonderful fantastic protects
are at home in our various comforts
with love but for the children who are
host institution is the invisible
I can not pass on any image of them
Not here in Ted.
it would be fantastic maybe an adoptive parent
here or in the world where we
we are being seen i can not do
this because the secret of justice is
prevent the names of these children from
your data in the registers
society has access to a company
who already have an adoption bias
society that no longer want to see the
parallel world according to your level
consciousness could at least
look at a teenage child in this
invisible world to make it go away
had a home had a family
but it’s not all pain, the ted here is for the
well and being for good
I can say that 25 years ago a
small amount of that company
still prejudiced, decided to adopt and
their children from the institution of
these foster parents will come
with their classmates there they stayed with the
reality and tried to make the
difference and made the difference
25 years ago a movement was created
of adoption
these wonderful beings created
wonderful institutions that are
called adoption support groups and
no-profit institutions
party political ties without
religious ties that work
voluntarily and volunteer work
It’s not work for free. It’s not what works.
paid to work because gasoline is
paper is all that is done so that
that child is saved in a family
these adoption support groups have grown
so much that in Brazil today we have
about 150 a bit more in
some capitals have more than one here
christmas we have the design
of which I have a deep honor of
to be part of 15 years
these adoption support groups
have established in Brazil a culture of
adoption
even with all this prejudice and
numbers here eg from the big river
the north within the lullaby project
more than 1,300 children benefited
one thousand three hundred children who had
family and today are saved
I’m a parent on the donation route.
the greatest experience of my life
I advise everyone because words I do not
I will be able to achieve what I
I was a volunteer from the
adoption
I am part of the claw of the association
national of the adoption support groups
has made a fantastic difference in
relation to these children of this world
invisible
I had unique experiences, I cried and cried.
much for these children and adolescents
in host institutions with
that look of sadness waiting for a
family but I cried and cried a lot of
joy every time that little one
face enters a family with that
Fantastic smile I had the opportunity
to meet these wonderful people
that created these groups, among them the
doctor luiz skate a great psychologist
the student of the adoption of the state of
pernambuco and a famous phrase of his I
I leave you all the children
biological
all children are adopted are
because the only way to
exist are adopted because the only
way of loving the one who produces what
creates what generates your child and does not adopt
does not love does not constitute a family
From this sentence I know myself and I
I realized that I exist just to love us
we exist simply and simply for the
love
Material achievements are good.
necessary to have a life
comfortable but what matters is what
that we do in relation to the love that
is in power within the people in
of each of us
I hope the present here and
those who are seeing us around the world
may have the seed of the discomfort of the
discomfort of a hard reality and
inability to think, I still have not
did nothing
this discomfort is the first step of the
love and that comes the second step
find out more about this world
invisible on the support groups
adoption and a giant third step
adoptive families in the future
who knows
your children today are already
invisible in institutions of
host of Brazil and that this love
flourish and come to the fore now in the heart
of all
I had the experience of adoption in
state of ceará fortress
a child who walked in the institution of
crawling host then did not send
and this child already had the
AIDS and a couple that she
visited the host institution which
had the opportunity to see that
They did not even think about adopting
She even said that she wanted to adopt
within that perspective of a baby and
white
when they got there look at
that child that child of a
spontaneous smile and then they me
they spoke
there I recognized my daughter because I
I saw it in the smile
The attitude of love awakens in my
heart
today this child walks and how I made
adoption of the adoption process
I received last year’s gift and a lot
emotion that led to tears that was a
little pillow with her photograph
invitation I make today are part of
this story with love
thank you very much
[Applause]
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