[Music] I’m going to begin my 18 minutes under
I’m going to begin my 18 minutes under
I’m going to begin my 18 minutes under this incredible TEDx spotlight with a
this incredible TEDx spotlight with a
this incredible TEDx spotlight with a quote the quote is we are not human
quote the quote is we are not human
quote the quote is we are not human beings seeking a spiritual existence we
beings seeking a spiritual existence we
beings seeking a spiritual existence we are spiritual beings having a human
are spiritual beings having a human
are spiritual beings having a human experience think about it because when I
experience think about it because when I
experience think about it because when I heard this quote for me in my life
heard this quote for me in my life
heard this quote for me in my life everything changed
everything changed
everything changed we have so much of fear within us we
we have so much of fear within us we
we have so much of fear within us we fear loss whether it’s financial whether
fear loss whether it’s financial whether
fear loss whether it’s financial whether it’s professional whether it’s personal
it’s professional whether it’s personal
it’s professional whether it’s personal we fear death we fear pain there’s so
we fear death we fear pain there’s so
we fear death we fear pain there’s so much fear within us at all points of
much fear within us at all points of
much fear within us at all points of time and when you see things in
time and when you see things in
time and when you see things in perspective and say it’s just a human
perspective and say it’s just a human
perspective and say it’s just a human experience and we all need to go through
experience and we all need to go through
experience and we all need to go through it you see it so differently the voltage
it you see it so differently the voltage
it you see it so differently the voltage the charge that it carries just just
the charge that it carries just just
the charge that it carries just just disappears you see your life in
disappears you see your life in
disappears you see your life in perspective everything changes around
perspective everything changes around
perspective everything changes around you it’s like you’re riding this
you it’s like you’re riding this
you it’s like you’re riding this incredible wave but instead of being
incredible wave but instead of being
incredible wave but instead of being crushed under the waves you’re riding it
crushed under the waves you’re riding it
crushed under the waves you’re riding it the closest analogy I can give you is
the closest analogy I can give you is
the closest analogy I can give you is that perhaps of being on a roller
that perhaps of being on a roller
that perhaps of being on a roller coaster when you’re on a roller coaster
coaster when you’re on a roller coaster
coaster when you’re on a roller coaster you take your seat belt you strap it on
you take your seat belt you strap it on
you take your seat belt you strap it on and you get ready for this ride exactly
and you get ready for this ride exactly
and you get ready for this ride exactly the same way as you do with the journey
the same way as you do with the journey
the same way as you do with the journey of life you buckle yourself in and say
of life you buckle yourself in and say
of life you buckle yourself in and say that’s it and then your roller coaster
that’s it and then your roller coaster
that’s it and then your roller coaster begins and they’re these lovely twists
begins and they’re these lovely twists
begins and they’re these lovely twists and turns and everyone’s laughing and
and turns and everyone’s laughing and
and turns and everyone’s laughing and clapping and it’s a great ride and then
clapping and it’s a great ride and then
clapping and it’s a great ride and then suddenly you’re on top of this huge
suddenly you’re on top of this huge
suddenly you’re on top of this huge plunge and you’re looking down and
plunge and you’re looking down and
plunge and you’re looking down and there’s a sphere and you’re scared and
there’s a sphere and you’re scared and
there’s a sphere and you’re scared and whoa the whole roller coaster goes down
whoa the whole roller coaster goes down
whoa the whole roller coaster goes down in you’re screaming but despite the fact
in you’re screaming but despite the fact
in you’re screaming but despite the fact that you’re screaming you’re enjoying
that you’re screaming you’re enjoying
that you’re screaming you’re enjoying the ride there’s a thrill attached to it
the ride there’s a thrill attached to it
the ride there’s a thrill attached to it as an association that you just know
as an association that you just know
as an association that you just know okay it’s a ride I’m going to enjoy this
okay it’s a ride I’m going to enjoy this
okay it’s a ride I’m going to enjoy this ride it’s very similar with the journey
ride it’s very similar with the journey
ride it’s very similar with the journey of life to me
of life to me
of life to me it was this quote I’m sure there were
it was this quote I’m sure there were
it was this quote I’m sure there were many times in your life when there be
many times in your life when there be
many times in your life when there be these incidents which are life-changing
these incidents which are life-changing
these incidents which are life-changing in a flash something happens and you see
in a flash something happens and you see
in a flash something happens and you see a person or you see people or you see a
a person or you see people or you see a
a person or you see people or you see a situation or you see relationships very
situation or you see relationships very
situation or you see relationships very differently perhaps you read a book and
differently perhaps you read a book and
differently perhaps you read a book and that book is life-changing and
that book is life-changing and
that book is life-changing and transformative perhaps it’s a quote like
transformative perhaps it’s a quote like
transformative perhaps it’s a quote like in my case so what changes your
in my case so what changes your
in my case so what changes your perspective changes and when your
perspective changes and when your
perspective changes and when your perspective changes your attitude
perspective changes your attitude
perspective changes your attitude changes and when your attitude changes
changes and when your attitude changes
changes and when your attitude changes your life changes I’m going to repeat
your life changes I’m going to repeat
your life changes I’m going to repeat that because it’s important when your
that because it’s important when your
that because it’s important when your perspective changes your attitude
perspective changes your attitude
perspective changes your attitude changes and when your attitude changes
changes and when your attitude changes
changes and when your attitude changes your life changes your life changes
your life changes your life changes
your life changes your life changes forever
forever
forever you take that backwards if you are not
you take that backwards if you are not
you take that backwards if you are not happy today with where your life is at
happy today with where your life is at
happy today with where your life is at if you are unhappy or if you’re happy or
if you are unhappy or if you’re happy or
if you are unhappy or if you’re happy or if you’re not satisfied where your life
if you’re not satisfied where your life
if you’re not satisfied where your life is at it’s a result of your attitudes
is at it’s a result of your attitudes
is at it’s a result of your attitudes which in turn are shaped by your
which in turn are shaped by your
which in turn are shaped by your perspectives so what creates your
perspectives so what creates your
perspectives so what creates your perspectives it’s what’s known as your
perspectives it’s what’s known as your
perspectives it’s what’s known as your seer programming s for social efore
seer programming s for social efore
seer programming s for social efore economic efore experiences and alpha
economic efore experiences and alpha
economic efore experiences and alpha religious so you are a sum total of your
religious so you are a sum total of your
religious so you are a sum total of your experiences your social conditioning
experiences your social conditioning
experiences your social conditioning your economic conditioning and your
your economic conditioning and your
your economic conditioning and your religious conditioning that becomes your
religious conditioning that becomes your
religious conditioning that becomes your belief system and it is deeply ingrained
belief system and it is deeply ingrained
belief system and it is deeply ingrained within you and that is where you operate
within you and that is where you operate
within you and that is where you operate from that’s gorgeous your programming
from that’s gorgeous your programming
from that’s gorgeous your programming I’ll give you an example so say for
I’ll give you an example so say for
I’ll give you an example so say for example you’re really really really
example you’re really really really
example you’re really really really small and you have a sibling and your
small and you have a sibling and your
small and you have a sibling and your parent says look at your sibling they’re
parent says look at your sibling they’re
parent says look at your sibling they’re so good they’re so amazing why can’t you
so good they’re so amazing why can’t you
so good they’re so amazing why can’t you be like them and then you think to
be like them and then you think to
be like them and then you think to yourself I’m not good enough and then
yourself I’m not good enough and then
yourself I’m not good enough and then you grew a little bigger and you go to
you grew a little bigger and you go to
you grew a little bigger and you go to school and they’re you’re not the best
school and they’re you’re not the best
school and they’re you’re not the best kid in class nor the brightest kid in
kid in class nor the brightest kid in
kid in class nor the brightest kid in class and the teacher shouts at you and
class and the teacher shouts at you and
class and the teacher shouts at you and says look at the other children they’re
says look at the other children they’re
says look at the other children they’re doing so well shame on you buck up and
doing so well shame on you buck up and
doing so well shame on you buck up and you say I’m not good enough
you say I’m not good enough
you say I’m not good enough then you grow a little bigger and
then you grow a little bigger and
then you grow a little bigger and somebody comes into your life that you
somebody comes into your life that you
somebody comes into your life that you really like and you propose to that
really like and you propose to that
really like and you propose to that person and that person rejects you and
person and that person rejects you and
person and that person rejects you and again you think I’m not good enough then
again you think I’m not good enough then
again you think I’m not good enough then you grow a little bigger you try to get
you grow a little bigger you try to get
you grow a little bigger you try to get job either you reject it for your job or
job either you reject it for your job or
job either you reject it for your job or you get the job but you don’t get the
you get the job but you don’t get the
you get the job but you don’t get the promotion and again you say I’m not good
promotion and again you say I’m not good
promotion and again you say I’m not good enough now that becomes your core
enough now that becomes your core
enough now that becomes your core operating belief system and now every
operating belief system and now every
operating belief system and now every decision because it’s been amplified
decision because it’s been amplified
decision because it’s been amplified that I am not good enough you will never
that I am not good enough you will never
that I am not good enough you will never make a life choice that is actually
make a life choice that is actually
make a life choice that is actually worthy of you because you don’t feel
worthy of you because you don’t feel
worthy of you because you don’t feel good enough so tomorrow of a great job
good enough so tomorrow of a great job
good enough so tomorrow of a great job opportunity is flashed in the papers you
opportunity is flashed in the papers you
opportunity is flashed in the papers you wanna apply for it because you believe
wanna apply for it because you believe
wanna apply for it because you believe you’re not good enough you like a girl a
you’re not good enough you like a girl a
you’re not good enough you like a girl a guy you really want them in your life
guy you really want them in your life
guy you really want them in your life but you have no courage to approach them
but you have no courage to approach them
but you have no courage to approach them because your operating system is I am
because your operating system is I am
because your operating system is I am not good enough
you have to change your operating system
you have to change your operating system you have to upgrade your operating
you have to upgrade your operating
you have to upgrade your operating system or you have to completely change
system or you have to completely change
system or you have to completely change your entire software if you want things
your entire software if you want things
your entire software if you want things to be different think about it if you
to be different think about it if you
to be different think about it if you look at your life do you see the glass
look at your life do you see the glass
look at your life do you see the glass typically as they say do you see it
typically as they say do you see it
typically as they say do you see it half-full or do you see it half-empty
half-full or do you see it half-empty
half-full or do you see it half-empty where is your sweet even that is part of
where is your sweet even that is part of
where is your sweet even that is part of how you are ingrained to think and
how you are ingrained to think and
how you are ingrained to think and behave do you have a sway to optimism do
behave do you have a sway to optimism do
behave do you have a sway to optimism do tend to sway to pessimism if life throws
tend to sway to pessimism if life throws
tend to sway to pessimism if life throws something difficult your way do you look
something difficult your way do you look
something difficult your way do you look at it and say oh here’s a good challenge
at it and say oh here’s a good challenge
at it and say oh here’s a good challenge I’m going to come out of it really
I’m going to come out of it really
I’m going to come out of it really strong I’m going to rise to it and I’m
strong I’m going to rise to it and I’m
strong I’m going to rise to it and I’m going to make this my building block and
going to make this my building block and
going to make this my building block and watch in how I come out of it or do you
watch in how I come out of it or do you
watch in how I come out of it or do you say damn it all these obstacles and
say damn it all these obstacles and
say damn it all these obstacles and they’re in my path and everyone’s trying
they’re in my path and everyone’s trying
they’re in my path and everyone’s trying to come in my way do you when you fall
to come in my way do you when you fall
to come in my way do you when you fall flat on your face you turn around and
flat on your face you turn around and
flat on your face you turn around and dust yourself and get up and say try try
dust yourself and get up and say try try
dust yourself and get up and say try try and I’ll succeed or do you turn around
and I’ll succeed or do you turn around
and I’ll succeed or do you turn around and say dammit I always fall down and
and say dammit I always fall down and
and say dammit I always fall down and nobody’s beside me and you play the
nobody’s beside me and you play the
nobody’s beside me and you play the victim card over and over and over again
victim card over and over and over again
victim card over and over and over again do you see yourself as a victim do you
do you see yourself as a victim do you
do you see yourself as a victim do you see yourself as a victim what is your
see yourself as a victim what is your
see yourself as a victim what is your programming have you be brought up
programming have you be brought up
programming have you be brought up perhaps in an environment which has
perhaps in an environment which has
perhaps in an environment which has constantly been mother’s complaining and
constantly been mother’s complaining and
constantly been mother’s complaining and critical fault finding more than
critical fault finding more than
critical fault finding more than solution finding look around you look at
solution finding look around you look at
solution finding look around you look at what you’ve come into the world with
what you’ve come into the world with
what you’ve come into the world with what has shaped you to being the way you
what has shaped you to being the way you
what has shaped you to being the way you are today when you blame people when you
are today when you blame people when you
are today when you blame people when you blame others you get so angry when you
blame others you get so angry when you
blame others you get so angry when you blame yourself you feel so guilty and
blame yourself you feel so guilty and
blame yourself you feel so guilty and when you blame circumstances or blame
when you blame circumstances or blame
when you blame circumstances or blame the stars or blame karma you feel so
the stars or blame karma you feel so
the stars or blame karma you feel so helpless when I talk about deprogrammed
helpless when I talk about deprogrammed
helpless when I talk about deprogrammed reprogram and reinvent it starts with
reprogram and reinvent it starts with
reprogram and reinvent it starts with you doesn’t matter what has been around
you doesn’t matter what has been around
you doesn’t matter what has been around you till date this is your journey at
you till date this is your journey at
you till date this is your journey at this very moment you will start with
this very moment you will start with
this very moment you will start with accepting responsibility for where you
accepting responsibility for where you
accepting responsibility for where you are at today you have to take full
are at today you have to take full
are at today you have to take full responsibility for all your choices the
responsibility for all your choices the
responsibility for all your choices the clothes you wear were your choice the
clothes you wear were your choice the
clothes you wear were your choice the car you drive the home you have the job
car you drive the home you have the job
car you drive the home you have the job you seek the spouse of partner that you
you seek the spouse of partner that you
you seek the spouse of partner that you are involved with the
are involved with the
are involved with the these are all your choices you are
these are all your choices you are
these are all your choices you are nothing but a result of your choices if
nothing but a result of your choices if
nothing but a result of your choices if you say other people made those choices
you say other people made those choices
you say other people made those choices for me well you let those people make
for me well you let those people make
for me well you let those people make that choice for you that too was a
that choice for you that too was a
that choice for you that too was a choice to let other people make that
choice to let other people make that
choice to let other people make that choice for you if you say I’m helpless
choice for you if you say I’m helpless
choice for you if you say I’m helpless that too is a choice do you feel
that too is a choice do you feel
that too is a choice do you feel helpless is also a choice when do you
helpless is also a choice when do you
helpless is also a choice when do you recognize how much power you have when
recognize how much power you have when
recognize how much power you have when you recognize how powerful all of you
you recognize how powerful all of you
you recognize how powerful all of you are so often our word people say I don’t
are so often our word people say I don’t
are so often our word people say I don’t like being around negative people I keep
like being around negative people I keep
like being around negative people I keep them far away from me I only surround
them far away from me I only surround
them far away from me I only surround myself with positive people right sounds
myself with positive people right sounds
myself with positive people right sounds familiar
familiar
familiar the point is why do you believe that
the point is why do you believe that
the point is why do you believe that negativity can overpower positivity why
negativity can overpower positivity why
negativity can overpower positivity why do you not also believe that your
do you not also believe that your
do you not also believe that your positivity will actually rub off on to
positivity will actually rub off on to
positivity will actually rub off on to that negative person and you can
that negative person and you can
that negative person and you can transform a negative person into a
transform a negative person into a
transform a negative person into a positive one why do you limit yourself
positive one why do you limit yourself
positive one why do you limit yourself by these ingrained belief systems or
by these ingrained belief systems or
by these ingrained belief systems or what people say and that’s just the way
what people say and that’s just the way
what people say and that’s just the way it is one of the most debilitating
it is one of the most debilitating
it is one of the most debilitating mindset programs that a lot of people
mindset programs that a lot of people
mindset programs that a lot of people are programmed with and unfortunately a
are programmed with and unfortunately a
are programmed with and unfortunately a lot in India are is what will people
lot in India are is what will people
lot in India are is what will people think and our whole lives we are
think and our whole lives we are
think and our whole lives we are constantly constructing and
constantly constructing and
constantly constructing and deconstructing ourselves based on trying
deconstructing ourselves based on trying
deconstructing ourselves based on trying to fit in and trying to think about how
to fit in and trying to think about how
to fit in and trying to think about how other people will view us and therefore
other people will view us and therefore
other people will view us and therefore how we should lead our lives when I was
how we should lead our lives when I was
how we should lead our lives when I was about seven or eight years old
about seven or eight years old
about seven or eight years old my mother who was extremely bohemian and
my mother who was extremely bohemian and
my mother who was extremely bohemian and she is a classical respected Indian
she is a classical respected Indian
she is a classical respected Indian dancer she decided in a show of protest
dancer she decided in a show of protest
dancer she decided in a show of protest to be a rebel
to be a rebel
to be a rebel she streaked across Juhu beach and of
she streaked across Juhu beach and of
she streaked across Juhu beach and of course there was paparazzi and I went to
course there was paparazzi and I went to
course there was paparazzi and I went to school and my friend said my mommy said
school and my friend said my mommy said
school and my friend said my mommy said your mummy is so shocking so I went home
your mummy is so shocking so I went home
your mummy is so shocking so I went home and I said mom you have to stop doing
and I said mom you have to stop doing
and I said mom you have to stop doing whatever you’re doing because you’re so
whatever you’re doing because you’re so
whatever you’re doing because you’re so shocking
shocking
shocking and she looked at me says really well
and she looked at me says really well
and she looked at me says really well can you describe shocking and I said you
can you describe shocking and I said you
can you describe shocking and I said you know shocking you’re so shocking and she
know shocking you’re so shocking and she
know shocking you’re so shocking and she said that’s not a description let me
said that’s not a description let me
said that’s not a description let me describe the world shocking to you
describe the world shocking to you
describe the world shocking to you she’s a desert woman in a fundamentalist
she’s a desert woman in a fundamentalist
she’s a desert woman in a fundamentalist regime and that woman gets flogged for
regime and that woman gets flogged for
regime and that woman gets flogged for showing a bit of her wrist that woman
showing a bit of her wrist that woman
showing a bit of her wrist that woman will look at a woman in India in a
will look at a woman in India in a
will look at a woman in India in a partner and say God when she cooks or
partner and say God when she cooks or
partner and say God when she cooks or when she’s out there her wrist shows
when she’s out there her wrist shows
when she’s out there her wrist shows that’s so shocking the woman in a folder
that’s so shocking the woman in a folder
that’s so shocking the woman in a folder says what not since how dare you call me
says what not since how dare you call me
says what not since how dare you call me shocking my face is covered shocking is
shocking my face is covered shocking is
shocking my face is covered shocking is the woman who’s uncovered her face and
the woman who’s uncovered her face and
the woman who’s uncovered her face and shows her face to everybody that is
shows her face to everybody that is
shows her face to everybody that is shocking the woman who’s uncovered says
shocking the woman who’s uncovered says
shocking the woman who’s uncovered says excuse me at least I have my Sanskrit
excuse me at least I have my Sanskrit
excuse me at least I have my Sanskrit the–and Sabitha i’m at least wearing
the–and Sabitha i’m at least wearing
the–and Sabitha i’m at least wearing Indian clothes what I think is shocking
Indian clothes what I think is shocking
Indian clothes what I think is shocking are those women out there who wear jeans
are those women out there who wear jeans
are those women out there who wear jeans it’s not our culture to wear jeans
it’s not our culture to wear jeans
it’s not our culture to wear jeans that’s so shocking the woman who Jean
that’s so shocking the woman who Jean
that’s so shocking the woman who Jean says hello excuse me I’m fully clothed
says hello excuse me I’m fully clothed
says hello excuse me I’m fully clothed thank you very much shocking is the girl
thank you very much shocking is the girl
thank you very much shocking is the girl in the miniskirt she showing a leg the
in the miniskirt she showing a leg the
in the miniskirt she showing a leg the girl in a miniskirt says excuse me
girl in a miniskirt says excuse me
girl in a miniskirt says excuse me I’m not shocking at least I’ve covered
I’m not shocking at least I’ve covered
I’m not shocking at least I’ve covered myself till here shocking the girl in
myself till here shocking the girl in
myself till here shocking the girl in the bikini the girl in the bikini turns
the bikini the girl in the bikini turns
the bikini the girl in the bikini turns around says excuse me I have covered my
around says excuse me I have covered my
around says excuse me I have covered my private parts I’m not shocking truth him
private parts I’m not shocking truth him
private parts I’m not shocking truth him a baby street naked on the beach she’s
a baby street naked on the beach she’s
a baby street naked on the beach she’s shocking she too didn’t weigh anything
shocking she too didn’t weigh anything
shocking she too didn’t weigh anything at all and my mom says and so darling
at all and my mom says and so darling
at all and my mom says and so darling it’s come right back to me what do I
it’s come right back to me what do I
it’s come right back to me what do I think is shocking I think that woman in
think is shocking I think that woman in
think is shocking I think that woman in the fundamentalist regime who cannot
the fundamentalist regime who cannot
the fundamentalist regime who cannot show a bit of a risk to have me flogged
show a bit of a risk to have me flogged
show a bit of a risk to have me flogged for it I think that is shocking she says
for it I think that is shocking she says
for it I think that is shocking she says everything comes a full circle and
everything comes a full circle and
everything comes a full circle and constantly in life we’re living in
constantly in life we’re living in
constantly in life we’re living in judgment of other people and pointing
judgment of other people and pointing
judgment of other people and pointing fingers and pointing fingers and
fingers and pointing fingers and
fingers and pointing fingers and pointing fingers and all you’re doing is
pointing fingers and all you’re doing is
pointing fingers and all you’re doing is going round and round and round in
going round and round and round in
going round and round and round in circles trying to please people
circles trying to please people
circles trying to please people constructing yourself deconstructing
constructing yourself deconstructing
constructing yourself deconstructing yourself trying to fit in and it’s never
yourself trying to fit in and it’s never
yourself trying to fit in and it’s never good enough because everybody’s got a
good enough because everybody’s got a
good enough because everybody’s got a finger to point so what do you do you
finger to point so what do you do you
finger to point so what do you do you move forward you do your thing if you’re
move forward you do your thing if you’re
move forward you do your thing if you’re not breaking the lower hurting anybody
not breaking the lower hurting anybody
not breaking the lower hurting anybody you just go out there and do your thing
you just go out there and do your thing
you just go out there and do your thing when I was in my teenage years when I
when I was in my teenage years when I
when I was in my teenage years when I was in my teenage years I was the wild
was in my teenage years I was the wild
was in my teenage years I was the wild rebel child as for societal standards
rebel child as for societal standards
rebel child as for societal standards because I will miniskirt and bikinis and
because I will miniskirt and bikinis and
because I will miniskirt and bikinis and because I was drinking alcohol and I had
because I was drinking alcohol and I had
because I was drinking alcohol and I had boyfriends and I had no deadlines at
boyfriends and I had no deadlines at
boyfriends and I had no deadlines at night and all these mothers would
night and all these mothers would
night and all these mothers would caution their daughters about
caution their daughters about
caution their daughters about spending too much time with me notes
spending too much time with me notes
spending too much time with me notes rabbits karana to talk to the other
rabbits karana to talk to the other
rabbits karana to talk to the other girls who are more conventional etc etc
girls who are more conventional etc etc
girls who are more conventional etc etc today I have an award-winning column in
today I have an award-winning column in
today I have an award-winning column in the leading newspaper of this country I
the leading newspaper of this country I
the leading newspaper of this country I have these incredible workshops I
have these incredible workshops I
have these incredible workshops I represent the strong emancipated woman
represent the strong emancipated woman
represent the strong emancipated woman of this country today and I have all
of this country today and I have all
of this country today and I have all these women coming up to me all walks of
these women coming up to me all walks of
these women coming up to me all walks of life coming up to me and saying I want
life coming up to me and saying I want
life coming up to me and saying I want my daughter to be just like you and I
my daughter to be just like you and I
my daughter to be just like you and I laugh because I’m still that same person
laugh because I’m still that same person
laugh because I’m still that same person I still wear my miniskirts and bikinis
I still wear my miniskirts and bikinis
I still wear my miniskirts and bikinis and I still drink and I still don’t have
and I still drink and I still don’t have
and I still drink and I still don’t have deadlines I’m the same person society
deadlines I’m the same person society
deadlines I’m the same person society changes the acceptance changes what you
changes the acceptance changes what you
changes the acceptance changes what you do suddenly appeals to them they negate
do suddenly appeals to them they negate
do suddenly appeals to them they negate everything else you just continue
everything else you just continue
everything else you just continue forward and do your own thing just go
forward and do your own thing just go
forward and do your own thing just go out there and do what you believe in and
out there and do what you believe in and
out there and do what you believe in and carry on undeterred because at some
carry on undeterred because at some
carry on undeterred because at some point you would be loved and adored for
point you would be loved and adored for
point you would be loved and adored for simply being who you are because you had
simply being who you are because you had
simply being who you are because you had such conviction in being yourself when
such conviction in being yourself when
such conviction in being yourself when you start deep programming when you
you start deep programming when you
you start deep programming when you start breaking these boundaries when you
start breaking these boundaries when you
start breaking these boundaries when you start challenging things you turn around
start challenging things you turn around
start challenging things you turn around and say if I can do it for myself I need
and say if I can do it for myself I need
and say if I can do it for myself I need to make my environment around me
to make my environment around me
to make my environment around me conducive to that – it’ll enable my
conducive to that – it’ll enable my
conducive to that – it’ll enable my process so what you do is simultaneously
process so what you do is simultaneously
process so what you do is simultaneously you start helping other people
you start helping other people
you start helping other people I remember my cousin’s sister came home
I remember my cousin’s sister came home
I remember my cousin’s sister came home crying one day because she had a really
crying one day because she had a really
crying one day because she had a really dark complexion born to a south indian
dark complexion born to a south indian
dark complexion born to a south indian father and she said she came to my mom
father and she said she came to my mom
father and she said she came to my mom and she said you know everyone teases me
and she said you know everyone teases me
and she said you know everyone teases me so much in school all the time and they
so much in school all the time and they
so much in school all the time and they make fun of my complexion and call me
make fun of my complexion and call me
make fun of my complexion and call me Blacky and all kinds of things that she
Blacky and all kinds of things that she
Blacky and all kinds of things that she was really really crying they’re young
was really really crying they’re young
was really really crying they’re young and of course relatives were sitting
and of course relatives were sitting
and of course relatives were sitting around and everybody had an opinion some
around and everybody had an opinion some
around and everybody had an opinion some of them said oh just ignore it it
of them said oh just ignore it it
of them said oh just ignore it it doesn’t matter there’s nothing you can
doesn’t matter there’s nothing you can
doesn’t matter there’s nothing you can do about it somebody said use bleach you
do about it somebody said use bleach you
do about it somebody said use bleach you know they’re all these solutions coming
know they’re all these solutions coming
know they’re all these solutions coming up and my mom just looked at her and
up and my mom just looked at her and
up and my mom just looked at her and said my darling she said do you realize
said my darling she said do you realize
said my darling she said do you realize that if there’s a white spot and a
that if there’s a white spot and a
that if there’s a white spot and a person’s skin is called a disease and if
person’s skin is called a disease and if
person’s skin is called a disease and if there’s a black spot on someone’s face
there’s a black spot on someone’s face
there’s a black spot on someone’s face is called a beauty spot it’s just a
is called a beauty spot it’s just a
is called a beauty spot it’s just a question of perspective but that changed
question of perspective but that changed
question of perspective but that changed so much for my cousin’s sister from that
so much for my cousin’s sister from that
so much for my cousin’s sister from that day onwards anyone who came up to her
day onwards anyone who came up to her
day onwards anyone who came up to her and made an unkind comment about the
and made an unkind comment about the
and made an unkind comment about the color of her skin
color of her skin
color of her skin she just shot that quote back to them
she just shot that quote back to them
she just shot that quote back to them and walked out with her attitude and a
and walked out with her attitude and a
and walked out with her attitude and a head held high because she felt so
head held high because she felt so
head held high because she felt so goddamn good about it that’s the power
goddamn good about it that’s the power
goddamn good about it that’s the power of a quote that’s the best the power of
of a quote that’s the best the power of
of a quote that’s the best the power of a single perspective that just changes
a single perspective that just changes
a single perspective that just changes and everything changes in your life just
and everything changes in your life just
and everything changes in your life just based on that moment when you talk about
based on that moment when you talk about
based on that moment when you talk about quantum physics versus Newtonian physics
quantum physics versus Newtonian physics
quantum physics versus Newtonian physics Newtonian physics says you’re matter
Newtonian physics says you’re matter
Newtonian physics says you’re matter quantum physics says if you break down
quantum physics says if you break down
quantum physics says if you break down that matter down to molecules and
that matter down to molecules and
that matter down to molecules and electrons and protons and neutrons and
electrons and protons and neutrons and
electrons and protons and neutrons and you open that up all you see are energy
you open that up all you see are energy
you open that up all you see are energy waves so you are nothing but
waves so you are nothing but
waves so you are nothing but encapsulated energy waves vibrating and
encapsulated energy waves vibrating and
encapsulated energy waves vibrating and the common thing is what you vibrate at
the common thing is what you vibrate at
the common thing is what you vibrate at is what you attract what you vibrate at
is what you attract what you vibrate at
is what you attract what you vibrate at is what you attract and it’s true
is what you attract and it’s true
is what you attract and it’s true because when your frequency matches a
because when your frequency matches a
because when your frequency matches a certain frequency that’s all you keep
certain frequency that’s all you keep
certain frequency that’s all you keep bringing into your life and you have to
bringing into your life and you have to
bringing into your life and you have to constantly go out there and vibrate with
constantly go out there and vibrate with
constantly go out there and vibrate with the frequency you want to vibrate at to
the frequency you want to vibrate at to
the frequency you want to vibrate at to enable and attract the future that you
enable and attract the future that you
enable and attract the future that you all want for yourselves you can at this
all want for yourselves you can at this
all want for yourselves you can at this moment today sit down and say I am a
moment today sit down and say I am a
moment today sit down and say I am a product of my past my fear programming
product of my past my fear programming
product of my past my fear programming my social economic experiences my
my social economic experiences my
my social economic experiences my religious programming has taught me to
religious programming has taught me to
religious programming has taught me to be scared to be frightened not to speak
be scared to be frightened not to speak
be scared to be frightened not to speak up not to do this not to do that the
up not to do this not to do that the
up not to do this not to do that the knots are so plenty in all these
knots are so plenty in all these
knots are so plenty in all these programming’s you can turn around and
programming’s you can turn around and
programming’s you can turn around and say I am a product of my past or you can
say I am a product of my past or you can
say I am a product of my past or you can turn around and say I want to be this
turn around and say I want to be this
turn around and say I want to be this person in the future and you visualize
person in the future and you visualize
person in the future and you visualize what you want for your future you
what you want for your future you
what you want for your future you visualize exactly down to the last
visualize exactly down to the last
visualize exactly down to the last detail
detail
detail the life the perfect life that you
the life the perfect life that you
the life the perfect life that you visualize for yourself thirty years down
visualize for yourself thirty years down
visualize for yourself thirty years down the line 40 years down the line this is
the line 40 years down the line this is
the line 40 years down the line this is who I want to be and where I want to be
who I want to be and where I want to be
who I want to be and where I want to be at and every action you take today every
at and every action you take today every
at and every action you take today every single thought every single action that
single thought every single action that
single thought every single action that you take today is because of the future
you take today is because of the future
you take today is because of the future and not because of the past you can
and not because of the past you can
and not because of the past you can operate from your past or you can
operate from your past or you can
operate from your past or you can operate from your future you can be a
operate from your future you can be a
operate from your future you can be a victim if you choose to call it off your
victim if you choose to call it off your
victim if you choose to call it off your past or you can enable that change by
past or you can enable that change by
past or you can enable that change by simply wanting to be that person
simply wanting to be that person
simply wanting to be that person to see yourself being in the future when
to see yourself being in the future when
to see yourself being in the future when each of you goes back home today I urge
each of you goes back home today I urge
each of you goes back home today I urge you to look closely at the programs that
you to look closely at the programs that
you to look closely at the programs that are limiting you deconstruct yourself
are limiting you deconstruct yourself
are limiting you deconstruct yourself what other don’ts worse is the dues what
what other don’ts worse is the dues what
what other don’ts worse is the dues what are your fears what are your limitations
are your fears what are your limitations
are your fears what are your limitations there are so many modalities out there
there are so many modalities out there
there are so many modalities out there from hypnosis to NLP and various
from hypnosis to NLP and various
from hypnosis to NLP and various modalities out there to help you
modalities out there to help you
modalities out there to help you deprogram yourself use them go out there
deprogram yourself use them go out there
deprogram yourself use them go out there everybody and be the most empowered
everybody and be the most empowered
everybody and be the most empowered version of yourself
version of yourself
version of yourself simply because you can thank you
simply because you can thank you
simply because you can thank you [Applause]
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