I stand before you as a box burning belief barrier brainer but it wasn’t
belief barrier brainer but it wasn’t
belief barrier brainer but it wasn’t always that way
always that way
always that way how many of you saw me standing here in
how many of you saw me standing here in
how many of you saw me standing here in my bedazzled box and your attention
my bedazzled box and your attention
my bedazzled box and your attention immediately gravitated to how much you
immediately gravitated to how much you
immediately gravitated to how much you liked it well to tell you the truth I
liked it well to tell you the truth I
liked it well to tell you the truth I don’t like this box because no matter
don’t like this box because no matter
don’t like this box because no matter how pretty it is or how you dress it up
how pretty it is or how you dress it up
how pretty it is or how you dress it up it is still a box of limitations and
it is still a box of limitations and
it is still a box of limitations and while there are some who might suggest
while there are some who might suggest
while there are some who might suggest that you should just get out of the box
that you should just get out of the box
that you should just get out of the box or you should just move beyond the box I
or you should just move beyond the box I
or you should just move beyond the box I don’t recommend that I actually suggest
don’t recommend that I actually suggest
don’t recommend that I actually suggest that you burn it I’m speaking
that you burn it I’m speaking
that you burn it I’m speaking metaphorically of course the box
metaphorically of course the box
metaphorically of course the box represents the limitations you have in
represents the limitations you have in
represents the limitations you have in your subconscious mind and let me just
your subconscious mind and let me just
your subconscious mind and let me just tell you that your subconscious mind has
tell you that your subconscious mind has
tell you that your subconscious mind has been creating boxes for you ever since
been creating boxes for you ever since
been creating boxes for you ever since the day you were born in fact from birth
the day you were born in fact from birth
the day you were born in fact from birth through the age of seven the majority of
through the age of seven the majority of
through the age of seven the majority of your boxes were all formed based on the
your boxes were all formed based on the
your boxes were all formed based on the fear and lack based disempowering
fear and lack based disempowering
fear and lack based disempowering experiences you observed from those
experiences you observed from those
experiences you observed from those around you I sometimes joke with my
around you I sometimes joke with my
around you I sometimes joke with my clients and ask them if the
clients and ask them if the
clients and ask them if the seven-year-old version of themselves is
seven-year-old version of themselves is
seven-year-old version of themselves is running their business your boxes are
running their business your boxes are
running their business your boxes are the numerous limiting and self
the numerous limiting and self
the numerous limiting and self sabotaging beliefs that make you the way
sabotaging beliefs that make you the way
sabotaging beliefs that make you the way that you are and they keep you from
that you are and they keep you from
that you are and they keep you from reaching your full potential your boxes
reaching your full potential your boxes
reaching your full potential your boxes play with your confidence heightened
play with your confidence heightened
play with your confidence heightened fear taunts that you are not good enough
fear taunts that you are not good enough
fear taunts that you are not good enough and they keep you muddling and
and they keep you muddling and
and they keep you muddling and mediocrity and the truth is living in a
mediocrity and the truth is living in a
mediocrity and the truth is living in a box is like a prison for your mind and I
box is like a prison for your mind and I
box is like a prison for your mind and I have come to realize that 95 percent of
have come to realize that 95 percent of
have come to realize that 95 percent of your success or the lack thereof is tied
your success or the lack thereof is tied
your success or the lack thereof is tied to the six inches in between your ears
to the six inches in between your ears
to the six inches in between your ears now take it from me I’ve had my fair
now take it from me I’ve had my fair
now take it from me I’ve had my fair share of boxes one of the biggest but we
share of boxes one of the biggest but we
share of boxes one of the biggest but we don’t have time for me to tell you about
don’t have time for me to tell you about
don’t have time for me to tell you about all of the biggest but one of the
all of the biggest but one of the
all of the biggest but one of the biggest
biggest
biggest the limiting belief that almost kept me
the limiting belief that almost kept me
the limiting belief that almost kept me from playing a bigger game in my
from playing a bigger game in my
from playing a bigger game in my business and taking my biggest my
business and taking my biggest my
business and taking my biggest my business to the next level
business to the next level
business to the next level you see consciously I thought I deserved
you see consciously I thought I deserved
you see consciously I thought I deserved it but subconsciously well that was
it but subconsciously well that was
it but subconsciously well that was another story a few years ago I was
another story a few years ago I was
another story a few years ago I was preparing for my annual live event and I
preparing for my annual live event and I
preparing for my annual live event and I was working with my team to review all
was working with my team to review all
was working with my team to review all of our programs and to raise our rates
of our programs and to raise our rates
of our programs and to raise our rates our new higher rates would make
our new higher rates would make
our new higher rates would make achieving this goal easy peasy
achieving this goal easy peasy
achieving this goal easy peasy once we got everything solidified we
once we got everything solidified we
once we got everything solidified we sent the order form off to the printer
sent the order form off to the printer
sent the order form off to the printer and went on about our day that night
and went on about our day that night
and went on about our day that night however I had a fear-based nightmare
however I had a fear-based nightmare
however I had a fear-based nightmare that no one signed up for the program so
that no one signed up for the program so
that no one signed up for the program so what did I do
what did I do
what did I do I got back in my box and before anybody
I got back in my box and before anybody
I got back in my box and before anybody came into the office the next morning I
came into the office the next morning I
came into the office the next morning I quickly changed all the prices back and
quickly changed all the prices back and
quickly changed all the prices back and sent the order form back to the printer
sent the order form back to the printer
sent the order form back to the printer no one would be the wiser so I thought a
no one would be the wiser so I thought a
no one would be the wiser so I thought a few minutes later the phone rang it was
few minutes later the phone rang it was
few minutes later the phone rang it was the printer
the printer
the printer apparently the order form was corrupt
apparently the order form was corrupt
apparently the order form was corrupt and it could not be printed and I I had
and it could not be printed and I I had
and it could not be printed and I I had a decision to make was that going to
a decision to make was that going to
a decision to make was that going to stay in my box in muddled and mediocrity
stay in my box in muddled and mediocrity
stay in my box in muddled and mediocrity or was I going to shift my life you see
or was I going to shift my life you see
or was I going to shift my life you see the thing that is really important for
the thing that is really important for
the thing that is really important for you to understand about your boxes is
you to understand about your boxes is
you to understand about your boxes is that they come from the stories you tell
that they come from the stories you tell
that they come from the stories you tell yourself and that night the story I told
yourself and that night the story I told
yourself and that night the story I told myself was that I didn’t deserve it and
myself was that I didn’t deserve it and
myself was that I didn’t deserve it and I wasn’t worth it these stories are
I wasn’t worth it these stories are
I wasn’t worth it these stories are seldom powerful life-affirming or
seldom powerful life-affirming or
seldom powerful life-affirming or positive in nature they’re mostly
positive in nature they’re mostly
positive in nature they’re mostly written with doubts fear and anxiety and
written with doubts fear and anxiety and
written with doubts fear and anxiety and every time you tell yourself a story you
every time you tell yourself a story you
every time you tell yourself a story you guessed it you create another box now in
guessed it you create another box now in
guessed it you create another box now in that moment as I hung up from talking to
that moment as I hung up from talking to
that moment as I hung up from talking to the printer I realized that I was
the printer I realized that I was
the printer I realized that I was standing in a box of limitations and I
standing in a box of limitations and I
standing in a box of limitations and I knew that I couldn’t just get out of the
knew that I couldn’t just get out of the
knew that I couldn’t just get out of the box I knew that I couldn’t just move
box I knew that I couldn’t just move
box I knew that I couldn’t just move beyond the box I knew that I had to do
beyond the box I knew that I had to do
beyond the box I knew that I had to do something drastic I knew I had to burn
something drastic I knew I had to burn
something drastic I knew I had to burn it
it
it and if I didn’t everything would be at
and if I didn’t everything would be at
and if I didn’t everything would be at stake now why burn it you could be
stake now why burn it you could be
stake now why burn it you could be asking yourself catch this watching
asking yourself catch this watching
asking yourself catch this watching something burn creates a pattern
something burn creates a pattern
something burn creates a pattern interrupt in your sub-conscious mind and
interrupt in your sub-conscious mind and
interrupt in your sub-conscious mind and the best part it gives you an
the best part it gives you an
the best part it gives you an opportunity to rewrite the story you’ve
opportunity to rewrite the story you’ve
opportunity to rewrite the story you’ve been telling yourself and so in that
been telling yourself and so in that
been telling yourself and so in that moment I’ve realized that I needed to
moment I’ve realized that I needed to
moment I’ve realized that I needed to burn the box and I thought it would be
burn the box and I thought it would be
burn the box and I thought it would be really pretty cool to share with you
really pretty cool to share with you
really pretty cool to share with you what I did and what you two will need to
what I did and what you two will need to
what I did and what you two will need to do when you find yourself standing in
do when you find yourself standing in
do when you find yourself standing in your box of limitations you guys caught
your box of limitations you guys caught
your box of limitations you guys caught that I said win because it’s definitely
that I said win because it’s definitely
that I said win because it’s definitely going to happen number one I had to
going to happen number one I had to
going to happen number one I had to confront my limiting belief now I
confront my limiting belief now I
confront my limiting belief now I believe that you cannot conquer what you
believe that you cannot conquer what you
believe that you cannot conquer what you refuse to confront so I had to look that
refuse to confront so I had to look that
refuse to confront so I had to look that bad boy right in the face and get to the
bad boy right in the face and get to the
bad boy right in the face and get to the bottom of what was creating all of this
bottom of what was creating all of this
bottom of what was creating all of this fear in agita inside of me interestingly
fear in agita inside of me interestingly
fear in agita inside of me interestingly the fear of money and success it wasn’t
the fear of money and success it wasn’t
the fear of money and success it wasn’t even my own it belonged to my parents
even my own it belonged to my parents
even my own it belonged to my parents and the seven-year-old in me was simply
and the seven-year-old in me was simply
and the seven-year-old in me was simply replaying a cycle it had observed so
replaying a cycle it had observed so
replaying a cycle it had observed so many times before now I should quickly
many times before now I should quickly
many times before now I should quickly sidebar and say that it is possible that
sidebar and say that it is possible that
sidebar and say that it is possible that you too are suffering from the
you too are suffering from the
you too are suffering from the seven-year-old in you running some facet
seven-year-old in you running some facet
seven-year-old in you running some facet of your life and if you are you got it
of your life and if you are you got it
of your life and if you are you got it honestly after all remember your
honestly after all remember your
honestly after all remember your subconscious mind is literally like a
subconscious mind is literally like a
subconscious mind is literally like a hard drive and it is downloading every
hard drive and it is downloading every
hard drive and it is downloading every experience and it creates spends all of
experience and it creates spends all of
experience and it creates spends all of its time replaying those boxes until you
its time replaying those boxes until you
its time replaying those boxes until you burn them in order to really to get to
burn them in order to really to get to
burn them in order to really to get to the bottom of this belief I had to do
the bottom of this belief I had to do
the bottom of this belief I had to do some very hard inner work
some very hard inner work
some very hard inner work but this hard inner work is what created
but this hard inner work is what created
but this hard inner work is what created my outer results number two I had to see
my outer results number two I had to see
my outer results number two I had to see myself on the other side of my limiting
myself on the other side of my limiting
myself on the other side of my limiting belief now having the vision and the
belief now having the vision and the
belief now having the vision and the foresight to see myself over there
foresight to see myself over there
foresight to see myself over there o M G it’s so good and it gave me
o M G it’s so good and it gave me
o M G it’s so good and it gave me courage it gave me enough courage to do
courage it gave me enough courage to do
courage it gave me enough courage to do the third and final step I had to take
the third and final step I had to take
the third and final step I had to take the action that would most lead me to
the action that would most lead me to
the action that would most lead me to what I desired yup
what I desired yup
what I desired yup I burned
I burned
I burned I literally wrote the limiting belief
I literally wrote the limiting belief
I literally wrote the limiting belief down I forgave my parents for giving it
down I forgave my parents for giving it
down I forgave my parents for giving it to me i express gratitude for the
to me i express gratitude for the
to me i express gratitude for the courage to deserve more I placed it in a
courage to deserve more I placed it in a
courage to deserve more I placed it in a box
box
box I set the Box on fire and I watched that
I set the Box on fire and I watched that
I set the Box on fire and I watched that baby burn and let me just tell you the
baby burn and let me just tell you the
baby burn and let me just tell you the most amazing thing happened by giving
most amazing thing happened by giving
most amazing thing happened by giving myself permission and having the courage
myself permission and having the courage
myself permission and having the courage to burn my box of limitations I set
to burn my box of limitations I set
to burn my box of limitations I set myself up to generate four times as many
myself up to generate four times as many
myself up to generate four times as many clients and to grow my business by 400%
clients and to grow my business by 400%
clients and to grow my business by 400% and three short days
and three short days
and three short days it literally shifted my life and the
it literally shifted my life and the
it literally shifted my life and the cool thing about summoning the courage
cool thing about summoning the courage
cool thing about summoning the courage to burn your box and shift your life is
to burn your box and shift your life is
to burn your box and shift your life is that you will get some benefits and who
that you will get some benefits and who
that you will get some benefits and who out there doesn’t like a few benefits
out there doesn’t like a few benefits
out there doesn’t like a few benefits number one you will increase your
number one you will increase your
number one you will increase your confidence now I personally believe that
confidence now I personally believe that
confidence now I personally believe that confidence is the new currency it is
confidence is the new currency it is
confidence is the new currency it is amazing what you can create and what you
amazing what you can create and what you
amazing what you can create and what you can accomplish when you have the
can accomplish when you have the
can accomplish when you have the personal conviction and belief in
personal conviction and belief in
personal conviction and belief in yourself to do it number two you’ll put
yourself to do it number two you’ll put
yourself to do it number two you’ll put fear in its proper place did you know
fear in its proper place did you know
fear in its proper place did you know that fear was created by your ego to
that fear was created by your ego to
that fear was created by your ego to lead you to believe that where you are
lead you to believe that where you are
lead you to believe that where you are in that moment is your safe place but I
in that moment is your safe place but I
in that moment is your safe place but I think you and I can both agree that
think you and I can both agree that
think you and I can both agree that that’s really just a lie you’ve been
that’s really just a lie you’ve been
that’s really just a lie you’ve been telling yourself and number three you
telling yourself and number three you
telling yourself and number three you will emerge as a true leader defying
will emerge as a true leader defying
will emerge as a true leader defying limits is a true indicator of leadership
limits is a true indicator of leadership
limits is a true indicator of leadership and the most impactful leaders they push
and the most impactful leaders they push
and the most impactful leaders they push limits and they exist just to help
limits and they exist just to help
limits and they exist just to help others to do the same so today I have
others to do the same so today I have
others to do the same so today I have the pleasure of working alongside of
the pleasure of working alongside of
the pleasure of working alongside of some of the most courageous leaders and
some of the most courageous leaders and
some of the most courageous leaders and their teams helping them to burn the
their teams helping them to burn the
their teams helping them to burn the boxes of limitations that threaten to
boxes of limitations that threaten to
boxes of limitations that threaten to keep them from shifting their lives
keep them from shifting their lives
keep them from shifting their lives careers and businesses these
careers and businesses these
careers and businesses these entrepreneurs executives and community
entrepreneurs executives and community
entrepreneurs executives and community leaders are pushing limits they’re
leaders are pushing limits they’re
leaders are pushing limits they’re challenging the status quo and they are
challenging the status quo and they are
challenging the status quo and they are achieving in credit
achieving in credit
achieving in credit results so the box burning belief
results so the box burning belief
results so the box burning belief barrier breaker and me gets excited not
barrier breaker and me gets excited not
barrier breaker and me gets excited not to help you to move out of or get beyond
to help you to move out of or get beyond
to help you to move out of or get beyond the box but to hand you a match and
the box but to hand you a match and
the box but to hand you a match and watch you burn it and I just want to
watch you burn it and I just want to
watch you burn it and I just want to inspire you as I close that if you are
inspire you as I close that if you are
inspire you as I close that if you are currently a leader or you aspire to be a
currently a leader or you aspire to be a
currently a leader or you aspire to be a leader that you lead from within that
leader that you lead from within that
leader that you lead from within that you do your inner work that you figure
you do your inner work that you figure
you do your inner work that you figure out what limitations are threatening to
out what limitations are threatening to
out what limitations are threatening to derail you from shifting your life and
derail you from shifting your life and
derail you from shifting your life and you burn them because as you burn those
you burn them because as you burn those
you burn them because as you burn those boxes not only will you shift your life
boxes not only will you shift your life
boxes not only will you shift your life but you will shift the lives of those
but you will shift the lives of those
but you will shift the lives of those you’ve been called to serve thank you
you’ve been called to serve thank you
you’ve been called to serve thank you [Applause]
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