let me speak from the bottom of my heart but it’s usually her Russian scientists
but it’s usually her Russian scientists
but it’s usually her Russian scientists are thought to be speaking English and
are thought to be speaking English and
are thought to be speaking English and that’s not going to happen today okay
that’s not going to happen today okay
that’s not going to happen today okay the whole lecture will be in English
the whole lecture will be in English
the whole lecture will be in English then that questions will be in Russian
then that questions will be in Russian
then that questions will be in Russian and what I really want to talk about
and what I really want to talk about
and what I really want to talk about here is a really mysterious topic I want
here is a really mysterious topic I want
here is a really mysterious topic I want to talk about love so if you remember
to talk about love so if you remember
to talk about love so if you remember Forrest Gump usually called love who’s
Forrest Gump usually called love who’s
Forrest Gump usually called love who’s usually called life to be a box of
usually called life to be a box of
usually called life to be a box of chocolate but love in this box of
chocolate but love in this box of
chocolate but love in this box of chocolate even actually Kinder Surprise
chocolate even actually Kinder Surprise
chocolate even actually Kinder Surprise you may ask why first of all because
you may ask why first of all because
you may ask why first of all because it’s very simple I mean you know there’s
it’s very simple I mean you know there’s
it’s very simple I mean you know there’s a chocolate egg right it’s it’s pretty
a chocolate egg right it’s it’s pretty
a chocolate egg right it’s it’s pretty simple you know it you also know there
simple you know it you also know there
simple you know it you also know there is a toy inside and it’s also don’t seem
is a toy inside and it’s also don’t seem
is a toy inside and it’s also don’t seem really complicated and on the other hand
really complicated and on the other hand
really complicated and on the other hand I Kinder Surprise it’s actually sweetie
I Kinder Surprise it’s actually sweetie
I Kinder Surprise it’s actually sweetie and when we want to tell someone that we
and when we want to tell someone that we
and when we want to tell someone that we love them
love them
love them we call them sweetheart so today my idea
we call them sweetheart so today my idea
we call them sweetheart so today my idea is to tell you a little bit about how
is to tell you a little bit about how
is to tell you a little bit about how scientists try to investigate love and
scientists try to investigate love and
scientists try to investigate love and what different areas of science have a
what different areas of science have a
what different areas of science have a thought about clock first of all they
thought about clock first of all they
thought about clock first of all they can’t psychologists and what they said
can’t psychologists and what they said
can’t psychologists and what they said they said well why can’t we just measure
they said well why can’t we just measure
they said well why can’t we just measure love and get to know how strongly do a
love and get to know how strongly do a
love and get to know how strongly do a lab each other so the Jackson data
lab each other so the Jackson data
lab each other so the Jackson data dispassionate work scale it’s only about
dispassionate work scale it’s only about
dispassionate work scale it’s only about 20 questions you just have to say how
20 questions you just have to say how
20 questions you just have to say how strongly you agree or disagree with the
strongly you agree or disagree with the
strongly you agree or disagree with the statement like I strongly agree that I
statement like I strongly agree that I
statement like I strongly agree that I think about my beloved one every day or
think about my beloved one every day or
think about my beloved one every day or I strongly disagree with that and in the
I strongly disagree with that and in the
I strongly disagree with that and in the end when you when you take this test you
end when you when you take this test you
end when you when you take this test you just have the result what’s really
just have the result what’s really
just have the result what’s really interesting that Helen Fisher group has
interesting that Helen Fisher group has
interesting that Helen Fisher group has found that is highly correlated with the
found that is highly correlated with the
found that is highly correlated with the activation of accommodate new clothes
activation of accommodate new clothes
activation of accommodate new clothes it’s the name of the in the brain
it’s the name of the in the brain
it’s the name of the in the brain structure that is somehow must be an
structure that is somehow must be an
structure that is somehow must be an account the root of love the part of the
account the root of love the part of the
account the root of love the part of the brain responsible for love who actually
brain responsible for love who actually
brain responsible for love who actually is now but many near that is highly
is now but many near that is highly
is now but many near that is highly correlated the highest cause you have in
correlated the highest cause you have in
correlated the highest cause you have in the passionate love scale the high is
the passionate love scale the high is
the passionate love scale the high is activation in the cow at nucleus and for
activation in the cow at nucleus and for
activation in the cow at nucleus and for those of you who have come via partner
those of you who have come via partner
those of you who have come via partner who is just right now thinking to take
who is just right now thinking to take
who is just right now thinking to take this test or to make their partner take
this test or to make their partner take
this test or to make their partner take this test just keep in mind that the
this test just keep in mind that the
this test just keep in mind that the highest scores are quite typical for the
highest scores are quite typical for the
highest scores are quite typical for the first year relationship when you’re
first year relationship when you’re
first year relationship when you’re installing deep romantic love because
installing deep romantic love because
installing deep romantic love because later it goes a little bit down but it’s
later it goes a little bit down but it’s
later it goes a little bit down but it’s absolutely okay I mean the means cause
absolutely okay I mean the means cause
absolutely okay I mean the means cause can be from even four or five to nine it
can be from even four or five to nine it
can be from even four or five to nine it still means you love each other okay
still means you love each other okay
still means you love each other okay just keep that in mind if you won’t take
just keep that in mind if you won’t take
just keep that in mind if you won’t take it
it
it another thing was that when this test
another thing was that when this test
another thing was that when this test this insane didn’t seem to be really
this insane didn’t seem to be really
this insane didn’t seem to be really cool they came another group of
cool they came another group of
cool they came another group of psychologists and what they said was
psychologists and what they said was
psychologists and what they said was well a LOF is not about measuring love
well a LOF is not about measuring love
well a LOF is not about measuring love love is about the level of dopamine in
love is about the level of dopamine in
love is about the level of dopamine in the brain so the more you love the high
the brain so the more you love the high
the brain so the more you love the high is a level of document in your brain
is a level of document in your brain
is a level of document in your brain it’s easy peasy
it’s easy peasy
it’s easy peasy isn’t it so the point is if you want to
isn’t it so the point is if you want to
isn’t it so the point is if you want to impress ago but to make a girl to fell
impress ago but to make a girl to fell
impress ago but to make a girl to fell in love with you you just have to go on
in love with you you just have to go on
in love with you you just have to go on adventure to raise your level of
adventure to raise your level of
adventure to raise your level of dopamine
dopamine
dopamine for example horror movies would walk I
for example horror movies would walk I
for example horror movies would walk I mean now you know why some boys republic
mean now you know why some boys republic
mean now you know why some boys republic that they goes to horror movies in the
that they goes to horror movies in the
that they goes to horror movies in the cinema but also keep in mind that
cinema but also keep in mind that
cinema but also keep in mind that actually it may not work as well as you
actually it may not work as well as you
actually it may not work as well as you could think because there was a story
could think because there was a story
could think because there was a story when a booth page the guy decided to use
when a booth page the guy decided to use
when a booth page the guy decided to use his document role and to raise the level
his document role and to raise the level
his document role and to raise the level of document the brain of the golf who
of document the brain of the golf who
of document the brain of the golf who wanted to fell in love with him and he
wanted to fell in love with him and he
wanted to fell in love with him and he went to hell remove them we have the
went to hell remove them we have the
went to hell remove them we have the result was when they came after the
result was when they came after the
result was when they came after the movie she said oh my god the leading
movie she said oh my god the leading
movie she said oh my god the leading actor in that her mother was so handsome
actor in that her mother was so handsome
actor in that her mother was so handsome would fall another camp so you see the
would fall another camp so you see the
would fall another camp so you see the guy failed and that’s because we
guy failed and that’s because we
guy failed and that’s because we actually don’t know how it works I mean
actually don’t know how it works I mean
actually don’t know how it works I mean you can call log the right level of
you can call log the right level of
you can call log the right level of dopamine but what it actually gives us
dopamine but what it actually gives us
dopamine but what it actually gives us not so much so then they can you’re a
not so much so then they can you’re a
not so much so then they can you’re a biologist and they actually said hey can
biologist and they actually said hey can
biologist and they actually said hey can you adjust the Ted Club and say what
you adjust the Ted Club and say what
you adjust the Ted Club and say what love is just by detecting it they didn’t
love is just by detecting it they didn’t
love is just by detecting it they didn’t try to define what love is they just put
try to define what love is they just put
try to define what love is they just put a group of guys who were truly deeply
a group of guys who were truly deeply
a group of guys who were truly deeply light in love I’m sizing the article now
light in love I’m sizing the article now
light in love I’m sizing the article now they were truly and deeply in love and
they were truly and deeply in love and
they were truly and deeply in love and put these guys into an fMRI scanner and
put these guys into an fMRI scanner and
put these guys into an fMRI scanner and here the results on the upper part of
here the results on the upper part of
here the results on the upper part of the slide you can see that some brain
the slide you can see that some brain
the slide you can see that some brain regions were highly activated and in
regions were highly activated and in
regions were highly activated and in other brain regions while the opposite
other brain regions while the opposite
other brain regions while the opposite they activated so please love guys
they activated so please love guys
they activated so please love guys that’s it if you wanted to know what
that’s it if you wanted to know what
that’s it if you wanted to know what love is that’s it if I wanted to impress
love is that’s it if I wanted to impress
love is that’s it if I wanted to impress you I could tell you for example that in
you I could tell you for example that in
you I could tell you for example that in Seoul hippocampus and anterior cingulate
Seoul hippocampus and anterior cingulate
Seoul hippocampus and anterior cingulate gyrus are activated it’s just the name
gyrus are activated it’s just the name
gyrus are activated it’s just the name of structures and again we still don’t
of structures and again we still don’t
of structures and again we still don’t know what love is that was a part of
know what love is that was a part of
know what love is that was a part of brain activation and deactivation
brain activation and deactivation
brain activation and deactivation actually doubt it and now the question
actually doubt it and now the question
actually doubt it and now the question the main question of this lecture how
the main question of this lecture how
the main question of this lecture how many of you have tindy installed on your
many of you have tindy installed on your
many of you have tindy installed on your phone raise your hand right now come on
phone raise your hand right now come on
phone raise your hand right now come on I know you they’re here yeah and I also
I know you they’re here yeah and I also
I know you they’re here yeah and I also doubt there’s a couple of you who didn’t
doubt there’s a couple of you who didn’t
doubt there’s a couple of you who didn’t raise your hand but you have tend on the
raise your hand but you have tend on the
raise your hand but you have tend on the phone thank you
phone thank you
phone thank you I know you okay so the main idea about
I know you okay so the main idea about
I know you okay so the main idea about tinder is it recently they presented and
tinder is it recently they presented and
tinder is it recently they presented and updated tinder where you don’t have to
updated tinder where you don’t have to
updated tinder where you don’t have to swipe right swipe left you just put on
swipe right swipe left you just put on
swipe right swipe left you just put on an Apple watch or a fitness tracker will
an Apple watch or a fitness tracker will
an Apple watch or a fitness tracker will special detector detector of the hotbed
special detector detector of the hotbed
special detector detector of the hotbed there is a following if you have look at
there is a following if you have look at
there is a following if you have look at the photograph or someone who seems to
the photograph or someone who seems to
the photograph or someone who seems to be attractive to you your helmet Rises
be attractive to you your helmet Rises
be attractive to you your helmet Rises and if you humble Rises
and if you humble Rises
and if you humble Rises detected so it’s automatic swipe to the
detected so it’s automatic swipe to the
detected so it’s automatic swipe to the right on the opposite if you have a look
right on the opposite if you have a look
right on the opposite if you have a look at the photo and you don’t really like
at the photo and you don’t really like
at the photo and you don’t really like the guy on it you hug beat decreases and
the guy on it you hug beat decreases and
the guy on it you hug beat decreases and the swipe to the left now let me know it
the swipe to the left now let me know it
the swipe to the left now let me know it I just want to tell you a little social
I just want to tell you a little social
I just want to tell you a little social psychology experiment that was done in
psychology experiment that was done in
psychology experiment that was done in nineteen seventies by BAM the idea was
nineteen seventies by BAM the idea was
nineteen seventies by BAM the idea was the following he actually made somehow a
the following he actually made somehow a
the following he actually made somehow a parody of tinder
parody of tinder
parody of tinder he gave a group of kids participant a
he gave a group of kids participant a
he gave a group of kids participant a group of boys a pack of photos of
group of boys a pack of photos of
group of boys a pack of photos of different girls and he just asked the
different girls and he just asked the
different girls and he just asked the participants the softness goes out into
participants the softness goes out into
participants the softness goes out into groups to put on the right
groups to put on the right
groups to put on the right the girls are laughed and to put on the
the girls are laughed and to put on the
the girls are laughed and to put on the left the girls they didn’t love it would
left the girls they didn’t love it would
left the girls they didn’t love it would like to date and also he put some false
like to date and also he put some false
like to date and also he put some false detectors and several participants they
detectors and several participants they
detectors and several participants they would detect their heartbeat so the
would detect their heartbeat so the
would detect their heartbeat so the participants have done dicks have done a
participants have done dicks have done a
participants have done dicks have done a task they sorted out the girls of the
task they sorted out the girls of the
task they sorted out the girls of the groups the girls are loved the girls it
groups the girls are loved the girls it
groups the girls are loved the girls it is love and after that the experimenter
is love and after that the experimenter
is love and after that the experimenter lied to them and she thought like hey
lied to them and she thought like hey
lied to them and she thought like hey guys frankly speaking hug but realized
guys frankly speaking hug but realized
guys frankly speaking hug but realized when they had a look at the photos of
when they had a look at the photos of
when they had a look at the photos of the girls you put in you didn’t like
the girls you put in you didn’t like
the girls you put in you didn’t like group and the husband decreases when you
group and the husband decreases when you
group and the husband decreases when you had a look at the girls that you put in
had a look at the girls that you put in
had a look at the girls that you put in I liked them rope so you see the point
I liked them rope so you see the point
I liked them rope so you see the point with all them the opposite information
with all them the opposite information
with all them the opposite information then she gave them ten minutes to think
then she gave them ten minutes to think
then she gave them ten minutes to think it over and gain the same back of photos
it over and gain the same back of photos
it over and gain the same back of photos to sort out again and do know what
to sort out again and do know what
to sort out again and do know what actually all the participants changed
actually all the participants changed
actually all the participants changed their preferences so they really
their preferences so they really
their preferences so they really believed that the like the girls they
believed that the like the girls they
believed that the like the girls they didn’t like the first time and now they
didn’t like the first time and now they
didn’t like the first time and now they put them into the group I love them and
put them into the group I love them and
put them into the group I love them and I would like to date them
I would like to date them
I would like to date them so one thing the real the rule is is is
so one thing the real the rule is is is
so one thing the real the rule is is is update you really should think over do
update you really should think over do
update you really should think over do you need it because just imagine the
you need it because just imagine the
you need it because just imagine the second
second
second with your detector and it’s getting your
with your detector and it’s getting your
with your detector and it’s getting your raw information and also there’s a
raw information and also there’s a
raw information and also there’s a really common question about hacking of
really common question about hacking of
really common question about hacking of medical data
medical data
medical data who knows maybe in the future there will
who knows maybe in the future there will
who knows maybe in the future there will be some kind of hacking love data
be some kind of hacking love data
be some kind of hacking love data okay so just sum it up I want to have a
okay so just sum it up I want to have a
okay so just sum it up I want to have a look at what science can really tell us
look at what science can really tell us
look at what science can really tell us about love
about love
about love it’s not that much really I mean if you
it’s not that much really I mean if you
it’s not that much really I mean if you ask a scientist a scientist what should
ask a scientist a scientist what should
ask a scientist a scientist what should you do about love scientists would give
you do about love scientists would give
you do about love scientists would give you rather banal advice for example you
you rather banal advice for example you
you rather banal advice for example you should go to an adventure with a
should go to an adventure with a
should go to an adventure with a girlfriend a boyfriend it would be fun
girlfriend a boyfriend it would be fun
girlfriend a boyfriend it would be fun it would raise your level of document
it would raise your level of document
it would raise your level of document you know on the other hand some
you know on the other hand some
you know on the other hand some scientists would just tell you well just
scientists would just tell you well just
scientists would just tell you well just have a look at the photos of the blood
have a look at the photos of the blood
have a look at the photos of the blood ones causes it activate all those
ones causes it activate all those
ones causes it activate all those languages that we call love you know so
languages that we call love you know so
languages that we call love you know so that it is that when it comes to love
that it is that when it comes to love
that it is that when it comes to love the science is Jones now because science
the science is Jones now because science
the science is Jones now because science knows nothing about love we can have a
knows nothing about love we can have a
knows nothing about love we can have a lot of talks about what love is we can
lot of talks about what love is we can
lot of talks about what love is we can try to find different definitions of it
try to find different definitions of it
try to find different definitions of it but again coming back to Kinder Surprise
but again coming back to Kinder Surprise
but again coming back to Kinder Surprise he’s a toy in sight we all know there’s
he’s a toy in sight we all know there’s
he’s a toy in sight we all know there’s toy but if you just open it I mean it
toy but if you just open it I mean it
toy but if you just open it I mean it doesn’t seem like a toy right it just a
doesn’t seem like a toy right it just a
doesn’t seem like a toy right it just a piece of a group of details and what
piece of a group of details and what
piece of a group of details and what scientists really know we know what are
scientists really know we know what are
scientists really know we know what are these details with to make it love to
these details with to make it love to
these details with to make it love to make love out of it we take some report
make love out of it we take some report
make love out of it we take some report at some time in the time that depends on
at some time in the time that depends on
at some time in the time that depends on you and just summing up if science is
you and just summing up if science is
you and just summing up if science is not so cool about love maybe we should
not so cool about love maybe we should
not so cool about love maybe we should raise about it and focus on science
raise about it and focus on science
raise about it and focus on science itself thank you for your attention
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