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Of Rugby and Life Lessons | Azmir Zed | TEDxKenyalang


right hello kucheng how’s everyone

right hello kucheng how’s everyone feeling today good I hope you are

feeling today good I hope you are

feeling today good I hope you are feeling well today I’m gonna live this

feeling well today I’m gonna live this

feeling well today I’m gonna live this to be standing on the stage being the

to be standing on the stage being the

to be standing on the stage being the first speaker I’ll try my best to share

first speaker I’ll try my best to share

first speaker I’ll try my best to share a thing or two of my rugby journey which

a thing or two of my rugby journey which

a thing or two of my rugby journey which I hope at the end of the talk I will be

I hope at the end of the talk I will be

I hope at the end of the talk I will be able to inspire you guys to be the best

able to inspire you guys to be the best

able to inspire you guys to be the best in life I am fortunate to be introduced

in life I am fortunate to be introduced

in life I am fortunate to be introduced to rugby at a very young age y’all

to rugby at a very young age y’all

to rugby at a very young age y’all started in 1997 I became best friend to

started in 1997 I became best friend to

started in 1997 I became best friend to mr. Gilbert over here when her father’s

mr. Gilbert over here when her father’s

mr. Gilbert over here when her father’s whether he study in Bangor wills I was

whether he study in Bangor wills I was

whether he study in Bangor wills I was only 10 at a time and when I came back

only 10 at a time and when I came back

only 10 at a time and when I came back after completing my upsr I went to

after completing my upsr I went to

after completing my upsr I went to scholar I’m sure one of the top playing

scholar I’m sure one of the top playing

scholar I’m sure one of the top playing rugby school in the country

rugby school in the country

rugby school in the country later I further my study in New Zealand

later I further my study in New Zealand

later I further my study in New Zealand the land of the mighty or black to Serie

the land of the mighty or black to Serie

the land of the mighty or black to Serie B she ate me as a person is an

B she ate me as a person is an

B she ate me as a person is an understatement Robbie made me the person

understatement Robbie made me the person

understatement Robbie made me the person I am today and now to be able to eat

I am today and now to be able to eat

I am today and now to be able to eat sleep and play rugby it’s beyond words

sleep and play rugby it’s beyond words

sleep and play rugby it’s beyond words let me live the dream we all know that

let me live the dream we all know that

let me live the dream we all know that sport is a good way of keeping you

sport is a good way of keeping you

sport is a good way of keeping you healthy and feed and we all know that

healthy and feed and we all know that

healthy and feed and we all know that sport is good in instilling good values

sport is good in instilling good values

sport is good in instilling good values such as teamwork discipline focus

such as teamwork discipline focus

such as teamwork discipline focus Morales

Morales

Morales but I’m not here to talk about all that

but I’m not here to talk about all that

but I’m not here to talk about all that yes I’m here to share with you six life

yes I’m here to share with you six life

yes I’m here to share with you six life lesson I’ve learned and discover

lesson I’ve learned and discover

lesson I’ve learned and discover throughout my playing career for the

throughout my playing career for the

throughout my playing career for the past 20 years it’s all pretty basic

past 20 years it’s all pretty basic

past 20 years it’s all pretty basic actually number one the best thing in

actually number one the best thing in

actually number one the best thing in life are the least understood all right

life are the least understood all right

life are the least understood all right can you show event how many of you have

can you show event how many of you have

can you show event how many of you have watched a rugby match before alright

watched a rugby match before alright

watched a rugby match before alright they probably a quarter of you guys sure

they probably a quarter of you guys sure

they probably a quarter of you guys sure then how many of

then how many of

then how many of you have what a football match I think

you have what a football match I think

you have what a football match I think almost everyone in this room okay so I

almost everyone in this room okay so I

almost everyone in this room okay so I don’t name you guys for that right be

don’t name you guys for that right be

don’t name you guys for that right be really really getting attention for the

really really getting attention for the

really really getting attention for the mainstream media be in a newspaper radio

mainstream media be in a newspaper radio

mainstream media be in a newspaper radio or even television

or even television

or even television some people even confuse between playing

some people even confuse between playing

some people even confuse between playing rugby and American football you know

rugby and American football you know

rugby and American football you know those game repeating even though rugby

those game repeating even though rugby

those game repeating even though rugby is quite famous at high school and

is quite famous at high school and

is quite famous at high school and university level but due to economic

university level but due to economic

university level but due to economic factors and lack of professional league

factors and lack of professional league

factors and lack of professional league in the country a lot of rubbish Allen

in the country a lot of rubbish Allen

in the country a lot of rubbish Allen have to stop play because it cannot

have to stop play because it cannot

have to stop play because it cannot consider as a career option hence when I

consider as a career option hence when I

consider as a career option hence when I decided to quit my good-paying job as a

decided to quit my good-paying job as a

decided to quit my good-paying job as a scene engineer from one of the largest

scene engineer from one of the largest

scene engineer from one of the largest IPP Malaysia after I got a call up to be

IPP Malaysia after I got a call up to be

IPP Malaysia after I got a call up to be part of the C game squad in 2015

part of the C game squad in 2015

part of the C game squad in 2015 definitely raised a few eyebrows I just

definitely raised a few eyebrows I just

definitely raised a few eyebrows I just took that leap of faith not knowing what

took that leap of faith not knowing what

took that leap of faith not knowing what to expect and what are the outcomes all

to expect and what are the outcomes all

to expect and what are the outcomes all I know that rugby has been sidelined for

I know that rugby has been sidelined for

I know that rugby has been sidelined for far too long and this it might be only

far too long and this it might be only

far too long and this it might be only chance to be part of the Malaysian right

chance to be part of the Malaysian right

chance to be part of the Malaysian right mystery this is a photo of me and my

mystery this is a photo of me and my

mystery this is a photo of me and my teammate winning the silver medal

teammate winning the silver medal

teammate winning the silver medal obviously we did not win the elusive

obviously we did not win the elusive

obviously we did not win the elusive goal that we’ve been looking for by

goal that we’ve been looking for by

goal that we’ve been looking for by settle for silver but because of this

settle for silver but because of this

settle for silver but because of this precious silver medal that we won rugby

precious silver medal that we won rugby

precious silver medal that we won rugby finally got the attention and funding

finally got the attention and funding

finally got the attention and funding needed and August 2017 this year mark an

needed and August 2017 this year mark an

needed and August 2017 this year mark an historical moment when my former

historical moment when my former

historical moment when my former teammate won our first gold medal in the

teammate won our first gold medal in the

teammate won our first gold medal in the recency game 2017 for some quitting your

recency game 2017 for some quitting your

recency game 2017 for some quitting your good paint job seems crazy but for me it

good paint job seems crazy but for me it

good paint job seems crazy but for me it was one of the best thing I did in my

was one of the best thing I did in my

was one of the best thing I did in my life remember to you got to play to the

life remember to you got to play to the

life remember to you got to play to the pin there’ll be instant during the match

pin there’ll be instant during the match

pin there’ll be instant during the match though you will experience injury and

though you will experience injury and

though you will experience injury and pain if you keep worrying on the

pain if you keep worrying on the

pain if you keep worrying on the slightest cut and bruised you will get

slightest cut and bruised you will get

slightest cut and bruised you will get nowhere

this is the four of me during a game

this is the four of me during a game again Philippines in Singapore 2015 can

again Philippines in Singapore 2015 can

again Philippines in Singapore 2015 can you or can you spot anything out in this

you or can you spot anything out in this

you or can you spot anything out in this feature I was actually playing with a

feature I was actually playing with a

feature I was actually playing with a broken index finger throughout the

broken index finger throughout the

broken index finger throughout the tournament which I broke a few weeks

tournament which I broke a few weeks

tournament which I broke a few weeks before leti how did I survive I strapped

before leti how did I survive I strapped

before leti how did I survive I strapped both my index and middle finger together

both my index and middle finger together

both my index and middle finger together with a spot tip and that was a moment I

with a spot tip and that was a moment I

with a spot tip and that was a moment I got an idea to start my own brain

got an idea to start my own brain

got an idea to start my own brain ATF’s what tipping but less than that

ATF’s what tipping but less than that

ATF’s what tipping but less than that for another day I gotta be honest with

for another day I gotta be honest with

for another day I gotta be honest with you guys there was instant during that

you guys there was instant during that

you guys there was instant during that game I was about to give up because I

game I was about to give up because I

game I was about to give up because I couldn’t in the other Pig but I Lin I

couldn’t in the other Pig but I Lin I

couldn’t in the other Pig but I Lin I had to fight to the pin because that

had to fight to the pin because that

had to fight to the pin because that might be my only chance for a CG victory

might be my only chance for a CG victory

might be my only chance for a CG victory having said that rugby have definitely

having said that rugby have definitely

having said that rugby have definitely me taught me that the best way to deal

me taught me that the best way to deal

me taught me that the best way to deal with discomfort and pain is to get back

with discomfort and pain is to get back

with discomfort and pain is to get back on your feet and try again

on your feet and try again

on your feet and try again number three such as come from playing

number three such as come from playing

number three such as come from playing with passion Robbie is definitely not a

with passion Robbie is definitely not a

with passion Robbie is definitely not a game for the faint hearted we put our

game for the faint hearted we put our

game for the faint hearted we put our body on the line carrying those tackles

body on the line carrying those tackles

body on the line carrying those tackles it’s hurt but we do it anyway because we

it’s hurt but we do it anyway because we

it’s hurt but we do it anyway because we love it seemed in life in rugby you

love it seemed in life in rugby you

love it seemed in life in rugby you gotta put your whole heart to it energy

gotta put your whole heart to it energy

gotta put your whole heart to it energy and passion since we never talking of

and passion since we never talking of

and passion since we never talking of passion and love have you ever noticed

passion and love have you ever noticed

passion and love have you ever noticed when a rugby player get hold on to the

when a rugby player get hold on to the

when a rugby player get hold on to the ball they will hold on tight as close as

ball they will hold on tight as close as

ball they will hold on tight as close as they can so they can protect it with all

they can so they can protect it with all

they can so they can protect it with all their might against their opposition

their might against their opposition

their might against their opposition singles in life in relationship if you

singles in life in relationship if you

singles in life in relationship if you love someone you hold them tight you

love someone you hold them tight you

love someone you hold them tight you protect them if you don’t believe me you

protect them if you don’t believe me you

protect them if you don’t believe me you can ask where’s my wife somewhere over

can ask where’s my wife somewhere over

can ask where’s my wife somewhere over there right in rugby rugby player may

there right in rugby rugby player may

there right in rugby rugby player may look rough and tough on the outside but

look rough and tough on the outside but

look rough and tough on the outside but Phil Winston Churchill once a

Phil Winston Churchill once a

Phil Winston Churchill once a rugby is a hooligans game played by

rugby is a hooligans game played by

rugby is a hooligans game played by gentlemen so any single ladies are here

gentlemen so any single ladies are here

gentlemen so any single ladies are here today you know where to go to rugby

today you know where to go to rugby

today you know where to go to rugby field of course number four when you get

field of course number four when you get

field of course number four when you get hit high you get back up

hit high you get back up

hit high you get back up this might sound cliche for them but

this might sound cliche for them but

this might sound cliche for them but there be instant in those eighty minutes

there be instant in those eighty minutes

there be instant in those eighty minutes that getting back on your feet seemed

that getting back on your feet seemed

that getting back on your feet seemed impossible especially after those brutal

impossible especially after those brutal

impossible especially after those brutal tackle by your opening but Robbie play

tackle by your opening but Robbie play

tackle by your opening but Robbie play just brush that aside all the pain and

just brush that aside all the pain and

just brush that aside all the pain and discomfort rushing back on their feet

discomfort rushing back on their feet

discomfort rushing back on their feet ready to take over the process again

ready to take over the process again

ready to take over the process again this same goes in life there’ll be

this same goes in life there’ll be

this same goes in life there’ll be moment that is impossible for you to go

moment that is impossible for you to go

moment that is impossible for you to go through until you push yourself to that

through until you push yourself to that

through until you push yourself to that there was instant back in June 2010 when

there was instant back in June 2010 when

there was instant back in June 2010 when I just got back from studying in New

I just got back from studying in New

I just got back from studying in New Zealand I was playing in a one of the

Zealand I was playing in a one of the

Zealand I was playing in a one of the exhibition game between NS wondrous

exhibition game between NS wondrous

exhibition game between NS wondrous against a Hong Kong Rugby Club after

against a Hong Kong Rugby Club after

against a Hong Kong Rugby Club after helping my team making a try

helping my team making a try

helping my team making a try I went for a tackle during that tackle

I went for a tackle during that tackle

I went for a tackle during that tackle the guy fell awkwardly on my leek is the

the guy fell awkwardly on my leek is the

the guy fell awkwardly on my leek is the four of me and the end as a result I got

four of me and the end as a result I got

four of me and the end as a result I got a dislocated ankle and a broken fibula

a dislocated ankle and a broken fibula

a dislocated ankle and a broken fibula the repair include inserting one plate

the repair include inserting one plate

the repair include inserting one plate and nine screws and it’s still intact

and nine screws and it’s still intact

and nine screws and it’s still intact until there and I’m always reminded

until there and I’m always reminded

until there and I’m always reminded every time I’m at the airport because

every time I’m at the airport because

every time I’m at the airport because every time I pass through that metal

every time I pass through that metal

every time I pass through that metal detector it will keep saying beep beep

detector it will keep saying beep beep

detector it will keep saying beep beep the doctor told me back then I couldn’t

the doctor told me back then I couldn’t

the doctor told me back then I couldn’t and shouldn’t be playing rugby anymore

and shouldn’t be playing rugby anymore

and shouldn’t be playing rugby anymore but I was adamant to not give up just

but I was adamant to not give up just

but I was adamant to not give up just yet learning to walk was hard

yet learning to walk was hard

yet learning to walk was hard probably one of the hardest thing I have

probably one of the hardest thing I have

probably one of the hardest thing I have had to do some already with much

had to do some already with much

had to do some already with much determination and hard work I managed to

determination and hard work I managed to

determination and hard work I managed to get back on my feet and started to play

get back on my feet and started to play

get back on my feet and started to play rugby again and in 2014 are finally

rugby again and in 2014 are finally

rugby again and in 2014 are finally my first call up to play for the country

my first call up to play for the country

my first call up to play for the country it was during issue rugby championship

it was during issue rugby championship

it was during issue rugby championship Division two in Doha Qatar it was

Division two in Doha Qatar it was

Division two in Doha Qatar it was probably one of the most memorable if

probably one of the most memorable if

probably one of the most memorable if not the best tournament I played with

not the best tournament I played with

not the best tournament I played with very little time for training because I

very little time for training because I

very little time for training because I was still working at Copper world and

was still working at Copper world and

was still working at Copper world and still juggling for a good I managed to

still juggling for a good I managed to

still juggling for a good I managed to grab the top scorer white as well

grab the top scorer white as well

grab the top scorer white as well helping my team emerge as champion with

helping my team emerge as champion with

helping my team emerge as champion with over only 40 rupees Robbie I definitely

over only 40 rupees Robbie I definitely

over only 40 rupees Robbie I definitely taught me that in life you may encounter

taught me that in life you may encounter

taught me that in life you may encounter many defeats but you must not be

many defeats but you must not be

many defeats but you must not be defeated

defeated

defeated number 5 good thing comes to those who

number 5 good thing comes to those who

number 5 good thing comes to those who wait

wait

wait in rugby you’re not going to be

in rugby you’re not going to be

in rugby you’re not going to be effective if you keep running around and

effective if you keep running around and

effective if you keep running around and trying to get involved in every aspect

trying to get involved in every aspect

trying to get involved in every aspect of the game and if your winger like me

of the game and if your winger like me

of the game and if your winger like me standing on the sidelines I’ll be a

standing on the sidelines I’ll be a

standing on the sidelines I’ll be a while before you get hold on to the ball

while before you get hold on to the ball

while before you get hold on to the ball but instead wait for the opportunity to

but instead wait for the opportunity to

but instead wait for the opportunity to come and trust your teammate to do their

come and trust your teammate to do their

come and trust your teammate to do their job in rugby as well you need to make

job in rugby as well you need to make

job in rugby as well you need to make quick decision where there is the right

quick decision where there is the right

quick decision where there is the right wine or the wrong wine all that matter

wine or the wrong wine all that matter

wine or the wrong wine all that matter you make one there is no room for

you make one there is no room for

you make one there is no room for hesitation or incentive in the game

hesitation or incentive in the game

hesitation or incentive in the game I was dubbed the national hero when my

I was dubbed the national hero when my

I was dubbed the national hero when my two tries

two tries

two tries how against Singapore how the country

how against Singapore how the country

how against Singapore how the country when our made an easier Championship

when our made an easier Championship

when our made an easier Championship Division wine in front of our home crowd

Division wine in front of our home crowd

Division wine in front of our home crowd how did I did it I was waiting on the

how did I did it I was waiting on the

how did I did it I was waiting on the sidelines waiting for the right moment

sidelines waiting for the right moment

sidelines waiting for the right moment analyzing and watching my teammate and

analyzing and watching my teammate and

analyzing and watching my teammate and opening making their move waiting for

opening making their move waiting for

opening making their move waiting for the perfect moment where the ball would

the perfect moment where the ball would

the perfect moment where the ball would come and when my prediction was right I

come and when my prediction was right I

come and when my prediction was right I followed my instinct and run through the

followed my instinct and run through the

followed my instinct and run through the area and grabbed the ball passing not

area and grabbed the ball passing not

area and grabbed the ball passing not only one but three opening along the way

only one but three opening along the way

only one but three opening along the way got a ball and the rest was history the

got a ball and the rest was history the

got a ball and the rest was history the win was more memorable because my mother

win was more memorable because my mother

win was more memorable because my mother was there for the very first time she

was there for the very first time she

was there for the very first time she had

had

had ever attended any of my game since I was

ever attended any of my game since I was

ever attended any of my game since I was a kid because she couldn’t bear watching

a kid because she couldn’t bear watching

a kid because she couldn’t bear watching me get hurt in life you gotta be patient

me get hurt in life you gotta be patient

me get hurt in life you gotta be patient stay calm under pressure decision you

stay calm under pressure decision you

stay calm under pressure decision you make will make or break you

make will make or break you

make will make or break you but when you make one make the best one

but when you make one make the best one

but when you make one make the best one and hear it hundred percent now music

and hear it hundred percent now music

and hear it hundred percent now music real world doesn’t have padding

real world doesn’t have padding

real world doesn’t have padding the only thing or most of people knows

the only thing or most of people knows

the only thing or most of people knows about rugby is Robbie play have little

about rugby is Robbie play have little

about rugby is Robbie play have little or no protection despite being one of

or no protection despite being one of

or no protection despite being one of the most physical game in the world we

the most physical game in the world we

the most physical game in the world we run and get the hit without little

run and get the hit without little

run and get the hit without little protection same goes in life there is no

protection same goes in life there is no

protection same goes in life there is no cushion or padding to protect you from

cushion or padding to protect you from

cushion or padding to protect you from the heavy blues instead you are relying

the heavy blues instead you are relying

the heavy blues instead you are relying on your own resilient to make it true in

on your own resilient to make it true in

on your own resilient to make it true in rugby you’re gonna make those tackle if

rugby you’re gonna make those tackle if

rugby you’re gonna make those tackle if you want to stop your opponents from

you want to stop your opponents from

you want to stop your opponents from scoring the strike and that was exactly

scoring the strike and that was exactly

scoring the strike and that was exactly what I did

what I did

what I did seven minutes into our first game

seven minutes into our first game

seven minutes into our first game against UAE in this year’s Yoruba

against UAE in this year’s Yoruba

against UAE in this year’s Yoruba championship unfortunately my tackle was

championship unfortunately my tackle was

championship unfortunately my tackle was a bit too high and I suffered a

a bit too high and I suffered a

a bit too high and I suffered a concussion the doctor told me that I

concussion the doctor told me that I

concussion the doctor told me that I couldn’t be playing for the next six day

couldn’t be playing for the next six day

couldn’t be playing for the next six day and by then the tournament was over I

and by then the tournament was over I

and by then the tournament was over I was said but luckily we won the

was said but luckily we won the

was said but luckily we won the tournament nonetheless my muse of

tournament nonetheless my muse of

tournament nonetheless my muse of getting concussion meat into the

getting concussion meat into the

getting concussion meat into the mainstream media for the first time

mainstream media for the first time

mainstream media for the first time rugby was covered in the radio

rugby was covered in the radio

rugby was covered in the radio nationwide the next year it wasn’t a

nationwide the next year it wasn’t a

nationwide the next year it wasn’t a story for glory though my I mean at

story for glory though my I mean at

story for glory though my I mean at least we were covered in the radio it’s

least we were covered in the radio it’s

least we were covered in the radio it’s not about the mistake that you made in

not about the mistake that you made in

not about the mistake that you made in life it’s how you recover from them from

life it’s how you recover from them from

life it’s how you recover from them from time to time you’re gonna miss those

time to time you’re gonna miss those

time to time you’re gonna miss those tackle but what is important what do you

tackle but what is important what do you

tackle but what is important what do you do after you miss that Tecna

do after you miss that Tecna

do after you miss that Tecna so that is a six lesson I want to share

so that is a six lesson I want to share

so that is a six lesson I want to share for you guys and hopefully you can

for you guys and hopefully you can

for you guys and hopefully you can connect and be the best in life so what

connect and be the best in life so what

connect and be the best in life so what next for me

next for me

next for me being promoted in being promoted from

being promoted in being promoted from

being promoted in being promoted from Division one to prima divisione

Division one to prima divisione

Division one to prima divisione we will be playing with a big boys we’re

we will be playing with a big boys we’re

we will be playing with a big boys we’re gonna play against Korea and Hong Kong

gonna play against Korea and Hong Kong

gonna play against Korea and Hong Kong next year it’s going to be difficult and

next year it’s going to be difficult and

next year it’s going to be difficult and hard for us as this is the first time we

hard for us as this is the first time we

hard for us as this is the first time we are playing at this level the team are

are playing at this level the team are

are playing at this level the team are highly spirited and motivated to create

highly spirited and motivated to create

highly spirited and motivated to create yet another history for Malaysian rugby

yet another history for Malaysian rugby

yet another history for Malaysian rugby we have been training since November

we have been training since November

we have been training since November this year this is a photo of our route

this year this is a photo of our route

this year this is a photo of our route to the Rugby World Cup if we win the

to the Rugby World Cup if we win the

to the Rugby World Cup if we win the prima divisione next year we are just

prima divisione next year we are just

prima divisione next year we are just two step closer to Rugby World Cup is it

two step closer to Rugby World Cup is it

two step closer to Rugby World Cup is it impossible seems like it all I know is

impossible seems like it all I know is

impossible seems like it all I know is I’m gonna give my very best to keep this

I’m gonna give my very best to keep this

I’m gonna give my very best to keep this World Cup dream alive with that I would

World Cup dream alive with that I would

World Cup dream alive with that I would like to end my talk with a short video

like to end my talk with a short video

like to end my talk with a short video of my career highlight

[Music]

[Music] there were more

there were more

there were more [Music]

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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