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two things you don’t yawn because you’re

two things you don’t yawn because you’re tired you’re on to clean your tonsils

tired you’re on to clean your tonsils

tired you’re on to clean your tonsils and the second thing is we are just

and the second thing is we are just

and the second thing is we are just coming out of the circadian dip so I’m

coming out of the circadian dip so I’m

coming out of the circadian dip so I’m hopefully starting to wake and again at

hopefully starting to wake and again at

hopefully starting to wake and again at this point okay so I would like you to

this point okay so I would like you to

this point okay so I would like you to remember back to the turn of the new

remember back to the turn of the new

remember back to the turn of the new millennium year 2000 there’s an

millennium year 2000 there’s an

millennium year 2000 there’s an excitement optimism things were looking

excitement optimism things were looking

excitement optimism things were looking good

good

good there were fireworks parties for my wife

there were fireworks parties for my wife

there were fireworks parties for my wife Nikki and myself it was a good time our

Nikki and myself it was a good time our

Nikki and myself it was a good time our first daughter had just been born she’s

first daughter had just been born she’s

first daughter had just been born she’s here and feeling very embarrassed I

here and feeling very embarrassed I

here and feeling very embarrassed I suspect and it was looking good

suspect and it was looking good

suspect and it was looking good um now at the same time during her

um now at the same time during her

um now at the same time during her pregnancy she started to experience some

pregnancy she started to experience some

pregnancy she started to experience some interesting and slightly worrying

interesting and slightly worrying

interesting and slightly worrying symptoms in her legs she was feeling a

symptoms in her legs she was feeling a

symptoms in her legs she was feeling a bit of numbness tingling some pain now

bit of numbness tingling some pain now

bit of numbness tingling some pain now she’s a general practitioner and she she

she’s a general practitioner and she she

she’s a general practitioner and she she knew what was going on but as a good

knew what was going on but as a good

knew what was going on but as a good general practitioner she went through

general practitioner she went through

general practitioner she went through the process through the NHS to find out

the process through the NHS to find out

the process through the NHS to find out what was happening to her and she was

what was happening to her and she was

what was happening to her and she was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis ms so

diagnosed with multiple sclerosis ms so

diagnosed with multiple sclerosis ms so she has MS now ms for those of you who

she has MS now ms for those of you who

she has MS now ms for those of you who don’t know it’s a disease it’s your own

don’t know it’s a disease it’s your own

don’t know it’s a disease it’s your own you attack yourself it’s a disease where

you attack yourself it’s a disease where

you attack yourself it’s a disease where you wreak basically your nerve cells in

you wreak basically your nerve cells in

you wreak basically your nerve cells in your body it affects your eyesight your

your body it affects your eyesight your

your body it affects your eyesight your hearing your swallowing your speaking

hearing your swallowing your speaking

hearing your swallowing your speaking your arms your legs internal organs it

your arms your legs internal organs it

your arms your legs internal organs it affects all parts of your body

affects all parts of your body

affects all parts of your body however for Nikki the biggest issue was

however for Nikki the biggest issue was

however for Nikki the biggest issue was with her sleep it was affecting her

with her sleep it was affecting her

with her sleep it was affecting her sleep and this is really where my

sleep and this is really where my

sleep and this is really where my interest in sleep came from where it’s

interest in sleep came from where it’s

interest in sleep came from where it’s really kindled because I’m now a sleep

really kindled because I’m now a sleep

really kindled because I’m now a sleep researcher I work I work at the other

researcher I work I work at the other

researcher I work I work at the other University in Lincoln this

University in Lincoln this

University in Lincoln this the newer one shall I describe as and

the newer one shall I describe as and

the newer one shall I describe as and another professor of sweet research and

another professor of sweet research and

another professor of sweet research and that’s what I do is my day job but it

that’s what I do is my day job but it

that’s what I do is my day job but it started here with Nikki because there

started here with Nikki because there

started here with Nikki because there was we were trying to work out well what

was we were trying to work out well what

was we were trying to work out well what do you do about your sleep a lot of you

do you do about your sleep a lot of you

do you do about your sleep a lot of you in fact if you look at the statistics at

in fact if you look at the statistics at

in fact if you look at the statistics at least half of you have struggled with

least half of you have struggled with

least half of you have struggled with your sleep at times in your life 1/3 of

your sleep at times in your life 1/3 of

your sleep at times in your life 1/3 of you would describe yourselves as maybe

you would describe yourselves as maybe

you would describe yourselves as maybe suffering from insomnia these things are

suffering from insomnia these things are

suffering from insomnia these things are very prevalent and

harking back a little bit to previous

harking back a little bit to previous conversations we’ve had there are lots

conversations we’ve had there are lots

conversations we’ve had there are lots of conversations about sleep and lots of

of conversations about sleep and lots of

of conversations about sleep and lots of information about sleep and lots of

information about sleep and lots of

information about sleep and lots of mythology and stories about sleep now

mythology and stories about sleep now

mythology and stories about sleep now we’re here for ted.com we’re all signed

we’re here for ted.com we’re all signed

we’re here for ted.com we’re all signed up to this I think we all understand the

up to this I think we all understand the

up to this I think we all understand the importance ideas worth spreading

importance ideas worth spreading

importance ideas worth spreading however for sleep there are lots of

however for sleep there are lots of

however for sleep there are lots of ideas too many ideas lots are spread

ideas too many ideas lots are spread

ideas too many ideas lots are spread through conversations and descriptions

through conversations and descriptions

through conversations and descriptions and chats in the perb and all sorts of

and chats in the perb and all sorts of

and chats in the perb and all sorts of places

places

places however they are to some extent possibly

however they are to some extent possibly

however they are to some extent possibly incorrect they may be dangerous they may

incorrect they may be dangerous they may

incorrect they may be dangerous they may not be helpful at all these ideas that

not be helpful at all these ideas that

not be helpful at all these ideas that aren’t worth spreading so I’ve really

aren’t worth spreading so I’ve really

aren’t worth spreading so I’ve really call these grandma calm ok these are my

call these grandma calm ok these are my

call these grandma calm ok these are my two grandparents grandma calm stories

two grandparents grandma calm stories

two grandparents grandma calm stories that you look at you’ll have heard 1

that you look at you’ll have heard 1

that you look at you’ll have heard 1 hour before midnight is worth 2 hours

hour before midnight is worth 2 hours

hour before midnight is worth 2 hours afterwards I don’t know whether you’ve

afterwards I don’t know whether you’ve

afterwards I don’t know whether you’ve heard that one teenagers are lazy they

heard that one teenagers are lazy they

heard that one teenagers are lazy they sleep too much a classic how about the

sleep too much a classic how about the

sleep too much a classic how about the idea that you must wear your socks to

idea that you must wear your socks to

idea that you must wear your socks to bed or equally the opposite you mustn’t

bed or equally the opposite you mustn’t

bed or equally the opposite you mustn’t wear your socks to bed okay grandma calm

wear your socks to bed okay grandma calm

wear your socks to bed okay grandma calm comes up with all these ideas and so

comes up with all these ideas and so

comes up with all these ideas and so Nicky and I we started looking at these

Nicky and I we started looking at these

Nicky and I we started looking at these these myths to do with sleep and the

these myths to do with sleep and the

these myths to do with sleep and the evidence around them so I’m going to

evidence around them so I’m going to

evidence around them so I’m going to talk to you about a few of these we’ll

talk to you about a few of these we’ll

talk to you about a few of these we’ll start with a classic ok coffee caffeine

start with a classic ok coffee caffeine

start with a classic ok coffee caffeine who here drinks coffee

who here drinks coffee

who here drinks coffee most people okay you’re not unusual in

most people okay you’re not unusual in

most people okay you’re not unusual in the world

the world

the world day there are 2 billion cups of coffee

day there are 2 billion cups of coffee

day there are 2 billion cups of coffee drank 2 billion it’s exceptional huge

drank 2 billion it’s exceptional huge

drank 2 billion it’s exceptional huge number now caffeine enters your

number now caffeine enters your

number now caffeine enters your bloodstream within 15 or so minutes from

bloodstream within 15 or so minutes from

bloodstream within 15 or so minutes from from taking your first sip of coffee it

from taking your first sip of coffee it

from taking your first sip of coffee it stays in your bloodstream for between 5

stays in your bloodstream for between 5

stays in your bloodstream for between 5 and 6 hours until half of his removed

and 6 hours until half of his removed

and 6 hours until half of his removed but it hangs around for a long time it

but it hangs around for a long time it

but it hangs around for a long time it affects your heart rate it stops you

affects your heart rate it stops you

affects your heart rate it stops you from sleeping potentially now the

from sleeping potentially now the

from sleeping potentially now the government has a whole host of

government has a whole host of

government has a whole host of information about drinking coffee and it

information about drinking coffee and it

information about drinking coffee and it says in there’s a there’s a publication

says in there’s a there’s a publication

says in there’s a there’s a publication called sleep hygiene or about sleep

called sleep hygiene or about sleep

called sleep hygiene or about sleep hygiene and the idea is you look at your

hygiene and the idea is you look at your

hygiene and the idea is you look at your behavior in your environment in relation

behavior in your environment in relation

behavior in your environment in relation to sleep and it suggests you don’t drink

to sleep and it suggests you don’t drink

to sleep and it suggests you don’t drink coffee in the evenings if you’re

coffee in the evenings if you’re

coffee in the evenings if you’re struggling with your sleep okay so Niki

struggling with your sleep okay so Niki

struggling with your sleep okay so Niki writes I’m going to stop drinking coffee

writes I’m going to stop drinking coffee

writes I’m going to stop drinking coffee in the evening didn’t help right ok I’m

in the evening didn’t help right ok I’m

in the evening didn’t help right ok I’m going to stop drinking coffee at

going to stop drinking coffee at

going to stop drinking coffee at lunchtime still didn’t help ok even

lunchtime still didn’t help ok even

lunchtime still didn’t help ok even though I like coffee I’m only gonna have

though I like coffee I’m only gonna have

though I like coffee I’m only gonna have one coffee in the morning before the

one coffee in the morning before the

one coffee in the morning before the rest of the before I go to the rest of

rest of the before I go to the rest of

rest of the before I go to the rest of the day still didn’t help so she gave up

the day still didn’t help so she gave up

the day still didn’t help so she gave up coffee entirely and it worked amazingly

coffee entirely and it worked amazingly

coffee entirely and it worked amazingly well and the reason we know is because

well and the reason we know is because

well and the reason we know is because then every now and then accidentally

then every now and then accidentally

then every now and then accidentally shouldn’t she’ll ask for decaffeinated

shouldn’t she’ll ask for decaffeinated

shouldn’t she’ll ask for decaffeinated coffee for example in you know your

coffee for example in you know your

coffee for example in you know your favorite coffee shop and they don’t do

favorite coffee shop and they don’t do

favorite coffee shop and they don’t do it decaffeinated and then she’s wired

it decaffeinated and then she’s wired

it decaffeinated and then she’s wired all day and that evenings are nightmare

all day and that evenings are nightmare

all day and that evenings are nightmare and I as her bed partner I can I can say

and I as her bed partner I can I can say

and I as her bed partner I can I can say it’s a complete nightmare so coffee we

it’s a complete nightmare so coffee we

it’s a complete nightmare so coffee we we’ve got this idea that coffee is

we’ve got this idea that coffee is

we’ve got this idea that coffee is completely fine but actually the there

completely fine but actually the there

completely fine but actually the there are potentially some serious

are potentially some serious

are potentially some serious implications and maybe we shouldn’t be

implications and maybe we shouldn’t be

implications and maybe we shouldn’t be thinking just give it up in the evening

thinking just give it up in the evening

thinking just give it up in the evening ok other myths right light is very

ok other myths right light is very

ok other myths right light is very important

important

important I mentioned the circadian rhythm you all

I mentioned the circadian rhythm you all

I mentioned the circadian rhythm you all have a rhythm of your hormones and your

have a rhythm of your hormones and your

have a rhythm of your hormones and your physical properties of your body and

physical properties of your body and

physical properties of your body and it’s called the circadian rhythm it

it’s called the circadian rhythm it

it’s called the circadian rhythm it around the day so it’s daytime nighttime

around the day so it’s daytime nighttime

around the day so it’s daytime nighttime and your body needs to know where it is

and your body needs to know where it is

and your body needs to know where it is any one point in the day or in the night

any one point in the day or in the night

any one point in the day or in the night and one of the major ways it does that

and one of the major ways it does that

and one of the major ways it does that is through light

is through light

is through light now of course your body has no idea what

now of course your body has no idea what

now of course your body has no idea what an electric light is your mind your

an electric light is your mind your

an electric light is your mind your brain knows what electric lighting

brain knows what electric lighting

brain knows what electric lighting that makes sense however your body

that makes sense however your body

that makes sense however your body hasn’t got a clue what’s going on so

hasn’t got a clue what’s going on so

hasn’t got a clue what’s going on so when it sees light it thinks oh great

when it sees light it thinks oh great

when it sees light it thinks oh great it’s daytime I’m gonna wake myself up

it’s daytime I’m gonna wake myself up

it’s daytime I’m gonna wake myself up and this this is a photograph of the LED

and this this is a photograph of the LED

and this this is a photograph of the LED lights I don’t know whether you have

lights I don’t know whether you have

lights I don’t know whether you have them on the road near you very bright

them on the road near you very bright

them on the road near you very bright very white light contains a lot of blue

very white light contains a lot of blue

very white light contains a lot of blue what light which is really what your

what light which is really what your

what light which is really what your body reacts so and we have to be really

body reacts so and we have to be really

body reacts so and we have to be really careful with light so again going back

careful with light so again going back

careful with light so again going back to Nikki we decided you have to really

to Nikki we decided you have to really

to Nikki we decided you have to really blot out all light in the bedroom so

blot out all light in the bedroom so

blot out all light in the bedroom so that it really your body doesn’t get

that it really your body doesn’t get

that it really your body doesn’t get fooled into thinking it’s daytime again

fooled into thinking it’s daytime again

fooled into thinking it’s daytime again and the reality is you can’t just pull a

and the reality is you can’t just pull a

and the reality is you can’t just pull a few curtains across your across your

few curtains across your across your

few curtains across your across your window you need to completely blot out

window you need to completely blot out

window you need to completely blot out all light and that will then potentially

all light and that will then potentially

all light and that will then potentially help now a favorite myth of mine I’ve

help now a favorite myth of mine I’ve

help now a favorite myth of mine I’ve done a lot of work on myths I’m up to 57

done a lot of work on myths I’m up to 57

done a lot of work on myths I’m up to 57 myths there are so many myths this is

myths there are so many myths this is

myths there are so many myths this is one of my favorites it’s the cheese

one of my favorites it’s the cheese

one of my favorites it’s the cheese dream a myth okay I don’t know where

dream a myth okay I don’t know where

dream a myth okay I don’t know where anyone’s experience cheese dreams I have

anyone’s experience cheese dreams I have

anyone’s experience cheese dreams I have two nights ago I hope it’s are not quite

two nights ago I hope it’s are not quite

two nights ago I hope it’s are not quite close to bedtime and I had the most

close to bedtime and I had the most

close to bedtime and I had the most amazing dreams it’s brilliant so it’s

amazing dreams it’s brilliant so it’s

amazing dreams it’s brilliant so it’s quite a positive it’s not necessarily a

quite a positive it’s not necessarily a

quite a positive it’s not necessarily a bad thing now even though it sounds like

bad thing now even though it sounds like

bad thing now even though it sounds like a joke there’s been some real important

a joke there’s been some real important

a joke there’s been some real important actual actually real research on cheese

actual actually real research on cheese

actual actually real research on cheese and dreaming and nightmares but I’m

and dreaming and nightmares but I’m

and dreaming and nightmares but I’m gonna share with you one study this was

gonna share with you one study this was

gonna share with you one study this was a study conducted by the British cheese

a study conducted by the British cheese

a study conducted by the British cheese board I didn’t

board I didn’t

board I didn’t I didn’t make that up okay the British

I didn’t make that up okay the British

I didn’t make that up okay the British cheese board

cheese board

cheese board they represent the cheese manufacturers

they represent the cheese manufacturers

they represent the cheese manufacturers and they gave 200 people a piece of

and they gave 200 people a piece of

and they gave 200 people a piece of cheese with for bedtime and the

cheese with for bedtime and the

cheese with for bedtime and the following morning ask them what they

following morning ask them what they

following morning ask them what they dreamt about now what they found was

dreamt about now what they found was

dreamt about now what they found was blue cheese if you want to dream surreal

blue cheese if you want to dream surreal

blue cheese if you want to dream surreal think Salvador Dali you need to eat blue

think Salvador Dali you need to eat blue

think Salvador Dali you need to eat blue cheese before bed you’ll have some great

cheese before bed you’ll have some great

cheese before bed you’ll have some great dreams however now if you want to dream

dreams however now if you want to dream

dreams however now if you want to dream about your favorite celebrities this is

about your favorite celebrities this is

about your favorite celebrities this is my mother’s favorite celebrity I suspect

my mother’s favorite celebrity I suspect

my mother’s favorite celebrity I suspect she would quite be quite happy to dream

she would quite be quite happy to dream

she would quite be quite happy to dream about him

about him

about him cheddar that’s what you’ll need to eat

cheddar that’s what you’ll need to eat

cheddar that’s what you’ll need to eat the British cheese board says cheddar

the British cheese board says cheddar

the British cheese board says cheddar cheese will give you lovely dreams about

cheese will give you lovely dreams about

cheese will give you lovely dreams about your favorite celebrities now all of

your favorite celebrities now all of

your favorite celebrities now all of these myths we’re going going through

these myths we’re going going through

these myths we’re going going through these with Nicky for many years and

these with Nicky for many years and

these with Nicky for many years and we’re looking at all the different types

we’re looking at all the different types

we’re looking at all the different types and ways of dealing with and the

and ways of dealing with and the

and ways of dealing with and the evidence and the research and through

evidence and the research and through

evidence and the research and through all this time actually she’s a lot

all this time actually she’s a lot

all this time actually she’s a lot better than she was we’ve looked at all

better than she was we’ve looked at all

better than she was we’ve looked at all these myths and they’ve she’s managed to

these myths and they’ve she’s managed to

these myths and they’ve she’s managed to solve her problems and sleep much better

solve her problems and sleep much better

solve her problems and sleep much better her well-being is much improved but in

her well-being is much improved but in

her well-being is much improved but in the talks I gave a lot of people come up

the talks I gave a lot of people come up

the talks I gave a lot of people come up to me and they say but gram how do I

to me and they say but gram how do I

to me and they say but gram how do I design my best night’s sleep so I

design my best night’s sleep so I

design my best night’s sleep so I thought I’m going to share some ideas

thought I’m going to share some ideas

thought I’m going to share some ideas with you and one particular one because

with you and one particular one because

with you and one particular one because the reality is we are all different and

the reality is we are all different and

the reality is we are all different and we know we’re all different of course we

we know we’re all different of course we

we know we’re all different of course we do this huge diversity but in terms of

do this huge diversity but in terms of

do this huge diversity but in terms of sleep we are all different every single

sleep we are all different every single

sleep we are all different every single person here needs a different amount of

person here needs a different amount of

person here needs a different amount of sleep every night I can guarantee that

sleep every night I can guarantee that

sleep every night I can guarantee that not one of you will need the same number

not one of you will need the same number

not one of you will need the same number of hours or minutes per night it will

of hours or minutes per night it will

of hours or minutes per night it will all be slightly different some people

all be slightly different some people

all be slightly different some people will want 5 hours a night quite short

will want 5 hours a night quite short

will want 5 hours a night quite short sleep Margaret Thatcher for example you

sleep Margaret Thatcher for example you

sleep Margaret Thatcher for example you might need 9 hours sleep maybe even 10

might need 9 hours sleep maybe even 10

might need 9 hours sleep maybe even 10 if much above 10 or 11 you starting to

if much above 10 or 11 you starting to

if much above 10 or 11 you starting to think there might be some underlying

think there might be some underlying

think there might be some underlying reasons for this but we’re all different

reasons for this but we’re all different

reasons for this but we’re all different in that sense in terms of the your best

in that sense in terms of the your best

in that sense in terms of the your best night’s sleep you look at your

night’s sleep you look at your

night’s sleep you look at your environment what’s in it is the light

environment what’s in it is the light

environment what’s in it is the light coming in is there is it quiet is the

coming in is there is it quiet is the

coming in is there is it quiet is the temperature correct is your bedroom used

temperature correct is your bedroom used

temperature correct is your bedroom used and this is seems to be a theme is your

and this is seems to be a theme is your

and this is seems to be a theme is your bedroom used for sleeping and sex

bedroom used for sleeping and sex

bedroom used for sleeping and sex what about your behavior do you drink

what about your behavior do you drink

what about your behavior do you drink coffee is inappropriate do you eat at

coffee is inappropriate do you eat at

coffee is inappropriate do you eat at the right time do you have a very good

the right time do you have a very good

the right time do you have a very good regular pattern so we’re all different

regular pattern so we’re all different

regular pattern so we’re all different and the reality is you need to if you’re

and the reality is you need to if you’re

and the reality is you need to if you’re struggling you need to look at your own

struggling you need to look at your own

struggling you need to look at your own environment and behaviors because there

environment and behaviors because there

environment and behaviors because there are no simple solutions for example the

are no simple solutions for example the

are no simple solutions for example the government saying drink no coffee in the

government saying drink no coffee in the

government saying drink no coffee in the evenings is not a solution for a lot of

evenings is not a solution for a lot of

evenings is not a solution for a lot of people you need to look at it yourself

people you need to look at it yourself

people you need to look at it yourself but I want to leave you with one

but I want to leave you with one

but I want to leave you with one solution think that you could try if you

solution think that you could try if you

solution think that you could try if you were interested in trying to improve

were interested in trying to improve

were interested in trying to improve your sleep so what do we do every

your sleep so what do we do every

your sleep so what do we do every evening

evening

evening we’re often sitting out in our lounge

we’re often sitting out in our lounge

we’re often sitting out in our lounge maybe lying on our sofa maybe watching

maybe lying on our sofa maybe watching

maybe lying on our sofa maybe watching some television reading a book listening

some television reading a book listening

some television reading a book listening to the radio

to the radio

to the radio having a chat the duck the lights are

having a chat the duck the lights are

having a chat the duck the lights are dim you might have some candles on it’s

dim you might have some candles on it’s

dim you might have some candles on it’s lovely

lovely

lovely your body’s thinking great it’s becoming

your body’s thinking great it’s becoming

your body’s thinking great it’s becoming nighttime I’m going to produce the

nighttime I’m going to produce the

nighttime I’m going to produce the hormones for sleeping I’m going to

hormones for sleeping I’m going to

hormones for sleeping I’m going to reduce the hormones for activity

reduce the hormones for activity

reduce the hormones for activity everything’s good what’s that often what

everything’s good what’s that often what

everything’s good what’s that often what most people they then do is they go into

most people they then do is they go into

most people they then do is they go into the bathroom with a very bright light

the bathroom with a very bright light

the bathroom with a very bright light and they clean latif okay activity

and they clean latif okay activity

and they clean latif okay activity exercise light your body they’re going

exercise light your body they’re going

exercise light your body they’re going ahh I’ve just produced all these

ahh I’ve just produced all these

ahh I’ve just produced all these hormones and stop these I thought I was

hormones and stop these I thought I was

hormones and stop these I thought I was going to sleep turns out I’m waking

going to sleep turns out I’m waking

going to sleep turns out I’m waking again right back to activity so you stop

again right back to activity so you stop

again right back to activity so you stop this sleepiness in its tracks and so

this sleepiness in its tracks and so

this sleepiness in its tracks and so with that I would just like to say if

with that I would just like to say if

with that I would just like to say if you wish to sleep better you need to

you wish to sleep better you need to

you wish to sleep better you need to think very clearly about yourself there

think very clearly about yourself there

think very clearly about yourself there may be some things you could choose to

may be some things you could choose to

may be some things you could choose to do but anyway I hope you sleep better

do but anyway I hope you sleep better

do but anyway I hope you sleep better thank you very much

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