I kissed a woman for the first time in the early 90s it happened in the parking
the early 90s it happened in the parking
the early 90s it happened in the parking lot of a gay bar she was a straight girl
lot of a gay bar she was a straight girl
lot of a gay bar she was a straight girl in the mood to party and she was dressed
in the mood to party and she was dressed
in the mood to party and she was dressed like one in capri pants fuchsia flats on
like one in capri pants fuchsia flats on
like one in capri pants fuchsia flats on a cropped sweater her eyes were the same
a cropped sweater her eyes were the same
a cropped sweater her eyes were the same walnut brown as the spiral curls that
walnut brown as the spiral curls that
walnut brown as the spiral curls that fell to her waist she was 21
fell to her waist she was 21
fell to her waist she was 21 her name was Karen the kiss was her idea
her name was Karen the kiss was her idea
her name was Karen the kiss was her idea and it took me by surprise but I’ve
and it took me by surprise but I’ve
and it took me by surprise but I’ve longed a dream to this moment
longed a dream to this moment
longed a dream to this moment so I praised my good luck and moved my
so I praised my good luck and moved my
so I praised my good luck and moved my curious hands to her waist I’d expected
curious hands to her waist I’d expected
curious hands to her waist I’d expected a woman to feel soft and small and she
a woman to feel soft and small and she
a woman to feel soft and small and she did I’d expected to enjoy the silkiness
did I’d expected to enjoy the silkiness
did I’d expected to enjoy the silkiness of her hair but I was surprised to be
of her hair but I was surprised to be
of her hair but I was surprised to be intrigued by the contour of her lower
intrigued by the contour of her lower
intrigued by the contour of her lower back under the fabric of her short
back under the fabric of her short
back under the fabric of her short blouse my finger slipped into the
blouse my finger slipped into the
blouse my finger slipped into the unexpectedly deep groove running the
unexpectedly deep groove running the
unexpectedly deep groove running the length of her spine her torso felt
length of her spine her torso felt
length of her spine her torso felt nothing like a man’s it wasn’t simply a
nothing like a man’s it wasn’t simply a
nothing like a man’s it wasn’t simply a smaller one but one ordered by foreign
smaller one but one ordered by foreign
smaller one but one ordered by foreign rules by the trigonometry that governs
rules by the trigonometry that governs
rules by the trigonometry that governs the proportions of a woman I imagined da
the proportions of a woman I imagined da
the proportions of a woman I imagined da Vinci’s Anatomy diagrams all circles and
Vinci’s Anatomy diagrams all circles and
Vinci’s Anatomy diagrams all circles and angles and lines as I followed the
angles and lines as I followed the
angles and lines as I followed the dimples where her back man her bottom
dimples where her back man her bottom
dimples where her back man her bottom traced the steady widening of her hips
traced the steady widening of her hips
traced the steady widening of her hips my encounter with Karen was brief there
my encounter with Karen was brief there
my encounter with Karen was brief there would be other women and more exciting
would be other women and more exciting
would be other women and more exciting moments but I’d remember the shape of
moments but I’d remember the shape of
moments but I’d remember the shape of Karen’s back more vividly than many of
Karen’s back more vividly than many of
Karen’s back more vividly than many of these its lucky you’re attracted to
these its lucky you’re attracted to
these its lucky you’re attracted to women friends often say but dear husband
women friends often say but dear husband
women friends often say but dear husband here in our bed tonight you need for me
here in our bed tonight you need for me
here in our bed tonight you need for me to not know the touch of a woman I come
to not know the touch of a woman I come
to not know the touch of a woman I come to you with my eyes open still in love
to you with my eyes open still in love
to you with my eyes open still in love with you ready to touch and appreciate
with you ready to touch and appreciate
with you ready to touch and appreciate every inch of your body but that makes
every inch of your body but that makes
every inch of your body but that makes you uncomfortable now you want me to see
you uncomfortable now you want me to see
you uncomfortable now you want me to see you only in candlelight and to squint to
you only in candlelight and to squint to
you only in candlelight and to squint to focus on your eyeliner and to overlook
focus on your eyeliner and to overlook
focus on your eyeliner and to overlook your receding hairline to pull your long
your receding hairline to pull your long
your receding hairline to pull your long hair in front of your chest and avert my
hair in front of your chest and avert my
hair in front of your chest and avert my eyes from its flatness you want me to
eyes from its flatness you want me to
eyes from its flatness you want me to map woman on to you to not just say but
map woman on to you to not just say but
map woman on to you to not just say but to believe as though I am not familiar
to believe as though I am not familiar
to believe as though I am not familiar with the curve of a woman’s back I try
with the curve of a woman’s back I try
with the curve of a woman’s back I try to concentrate but forbidden thoughts
to concentrate but forbidden thoughts
to concentrate but forbidden thoughts surface that a woman is a thing and not
surface that a woman is a thing and not
surface that a woman is a thing and not an absence of a thing that a woman is a
an absence of a thing that a woman is a
an absence of a thing that a woman is a woman in every cell of her body
woman in every cell of her body
woman in every cell of her body too complex to fashion wholly from
too complex to fashion wholly from
too complex to fashion wholly from something else more than hair removal
something else more than hair removal
something else more than hair removal and cosmetics and lace that you are
and cosmetics and lace that you are
and cosmetics and lace that you are already perfect and need not hide from
already perfect and need not hide from
already perfect and need not hide from me I suppress these thoughts redouble my
me I suppress these thoughts redouble my
me I suppress these thoughts redouble my efforts but the illusion is tenuous and
efforts but the illusion is tenuous and
efforts but the illusion is tenuous and easily broken you move or face the light
easily broken you move or face the light
easily broken you move or face the light and I see you so I do the unthinkable I
and I see you so I do the unthinkable I
and I see you so I do the unthinkable I go ahead and love the you I’m not
go ahead and love the you I’m not
go ahead and love the you I’m not supposed to love the one I’ve always
supposed to love the one I’ve always
supposed to love the one I’ve always loved
loved
loved I love the remaining stubble you’re
I love the remaining stubble you’re
I love the remaining stubble you’re paying a laser salon to remove I love
paying a laser salon to remove I love
paying a laser salon to remove I love the freckles you cover with foundation
the freckles you cover with foundation
the freckles you cover with foundation the jawline you stroke disapprovingly
the jawline you stroke disapprovingly
the jawline you stroke disapprovingly when you look in the mirror I close my
when you look in the mirror I close my
when you look in the mirror I close my eyes and let my hands find the truth you
eyes and let my hands find the truth you
eyes and let my hands find the truth you work so hard to conceal but you forbid
work so hard to conceal but you forbid
work so hard to conceal but you forbid this kind of love
this kind of love
this kind of love so I hide what I’m doing it wasn’t so
so I hide what I’m doing it wasn’t so
so I hide what I’m doing it wasn’t so long ago that this bed saw
long ago that this bed saw
long ago that this bed saw laughter play in passion but these have
laughter play in passion but these have
laughter play in passion but these have been displaced by your one and only
been displaced by your one and only
been displaced by your one and only preoccupation now there is work to do
preoccupation now there is work to do
preoccupation now there is work to do there are roles to play I’m no longer
there are roles to play I’m no longer
there are roles to play I’m no longer allowed to drink you in to just feel
allowed to drink you in to just feel
allowed to drink you in to just feel instead I perform for you flatter you
instead I perform for you flatter you
instead I perform for you flatter you censor myself and pretend I’ve learned
censor myself and pretend I’ve learned
censor myself and pretend I’ve learned that you can’t be here for me anymore
that you can’t be here for me anymore
that you can’t be here for me anymore then it’s my job to work around that but
then it’s my job to work around that but
then it’s my job to work around that but what happens when I can no longer be
what happens when I can no longer be
what happens when I can no longer be here for you I haven’t adjusted to being
here for you I haven’t adjusted to being
here for you I haven’t adjusted to being your actress I cling instead to a desire
your actress I cling instead to a desire
your actress I cling instead to a desire to just be your lover its lucky you’re
to just be your lover its lucky you’re
to just be your lover its lucky you’re attracted to women a friend said to me
attracted to women a friend said to me
attracted to women a friend said to me over coffee last week since your husband
over coffee last week since your husband
over coffee last week since your husband is becoming your wife it’s the
is becoming your wife it’s the
is becoming your wife it’s the conventional wisdom and it seemed true
conventional wisdom and it seemed true
conventional wisdom and it seemed true enough at the time you’ve said it
enough at the time you’ve said it
enough at the time you’ve said it yourself to your husband to me and to
yourself to your husband to me and to
yourself to your husband to me and to your support group and on your blog how
your support group and on your blog how
your support group and on your blog how lucky you are to have me a wife who is
lucky you are to have me a wife who is
lucky you are to have me a wife who is supportive adventurous a wife who
supportive adventurous a wife who
supportive adventurous a wife who encourages you to be yourself a wife
encourages you to be yourself a wife
encourages you to be yourself a wife who’s queer
you’ve just heard a condensed excerpt
you’ve just heard a condensed excerpt from my memoir in progress 18 months
from my memoir in progress 18 months
from my memoir in progress 18 months it’s the story of how a lovely 15-year
it’s the story of how a lovely 15-year
it’s the story of how a lovely 15-year relationship met its rapid demise when
relationship met its rapid demise when
relationship met its rapid demise when my husband whom all called Jaime came
my husband whom all called Jaime came
my husband whom all called Jaime came out as transgender on paper we
out as transgender on paper we
out as transgender on paper we represented the best case scenario for
represented the best case scenario for
represented the best case scenario for weathering this type of challenge I’m
weathering this type of challenge I’m
weathering this type of challenge I’m liberal open-minded adventurous and I
liberal open-minded adventurous and I
liberal open-minded adventurous and I was happy with Jaime and I was motivated
was happy with Jaime and I was motivated
was happy with Jaime and I was motivated to save my marriage
to save my marriage
to save my marriage but despite the tremendous amount of
but despite the tremendous amount of
but despite the tremendous amount of effort I put into supporting Jaime love
effort I put into supporting Jaime love
effort I put into supporting Jaime love was not enough within 18 short months my
was not enough within 18 short months my
was not enough within 18 short months my marriage failed spectacularly
marriage failed spectacularly
marriage failed spectacularly a quick word about pronouns it’s now
a quick word about pronouns it’s now
a quick word about pronouns it’s now commonly understood that journalists
commonly understood that journalists
commonly understood that journalists commit an unforgivable faux pas when
commit an unforgivable faux pas when
commit an unforgivable faux pas when they describe American trans woman
they describe American trans woman
they describe American trans woman Caitlyn Jenner as the athlete you may
Caitlyn Jenner as the athlete you may
Caitlyn Jenner as the athlete you may remember as Bruce we are to remember
remember as Bruce we are to remember
remember as Bruce we are to remember Caitlyn Jenner as a woman retro actively
Caitlyn Jenner as a woman retro actively
Caitlyn Jenner as a woman retro actively or to say that Kaelin grew up has a
or to say that Kaelin grew up has a
or to say that Kaelin grew up has a little girl and was the first woman to
little girl and was the first woman to
little girl and was the first woman to win a men’s Olympic decathlon so I’m
win a men’s Olympic decathlon so I’m
win a men’s Olympic decathlon so I’m expected to refer to Jamie with feminine
expected to refer to Jamie with feminine
expected to refer to Jamie with feminine pronouns and out of respect for Jamie I
pronouns and out of respect for Jamie I
pronouns and out of respect for Jamie I did that while we were together but I
did that while we were together but I
did that while we were together but I spent 15 years with Jamie a third of my
spent 15 years with Jamie a third of my
spent 15 years with Jamie a third of my life and I entered into that
life and I entered into that
life and I entered into that relationship as a heterosexual one with
relationship as a heterosexual one with
relationship as a heterosexual one with a man and that is how I experienced that
a man and that is how I experienced that
a man and that is how I experienced that relationship Jamie’s personal
relationship Jamie’s personal
relationship Jamie’s personal revelations didn’t reshape my experience
revelations didn’t reshape my experience
revelations didn’t reshape my experience of my past so I hope you will forgive me
of my past so I hope you will forgive me
of my past so I hope you will forgive me if I tell my story the way I remember it
if I tell my story the way I remember it
if I tell my story the way I remember it and not with revisionist language that
and not with revisionist language that
and not with revisionist language that would speak more to someone else’s truth
would speak more to someone else’s truth
would speak more to someone else’s truth than to my own a couple of things about
than to my own a couple of things about
than to my own a couple of things about my story one is that most people don’t
my story one is that most people don’t
my story one is that most people don’t want me to tell it and the second is
want me to tell it and the second is
want me to tell it and the second is that it contradicts the commonly popular
that it contradicts the commonly popular
that it contradicts the commonly popular narrative on what it’s like when someone
narrative on what it’s like when someone
narrative on what it’s like when someone comes out as transgender and these two
comes out as transgender and these two
comes out as transgender and these two things are related
things are related
things are related my story is inconvenient the popular
my story is inconvenient the popular
my story is inconvenient the popular narrative says that transgender people
narrative says that transgender people
narrative says that transgender people know their gender from
know their gender from
know their gender from young age it says they suffer for years
young age it says they suffer for years
young age it says they suffer for years and then as they come out as their true
and then as they come out as their true
and then as they come out as their true authentic self they become happy but
authentic self they become happy but
authentic self they become happy but this isn’t at all how my story goes we
this isn’t at all how my story goes we
this isn’t at all how my story goes we hear that males who want to transition
hear that males who want to transition
hear that males who want to transition to females have female brains but just
to females have female brains but just
to females have female brains but just before Jamie came out he worked in IT he
before Jamie came out he worked in IT he
before Jamie came out he worked in IT he enjoyed video games
enjoyed video games
enjoyed video games he loved backpacking and whisky Johnny
he loved backpacking and whisky Johnny
he loved backpacking and whisky Johnny Cash he even took pride in growing a
Cash he even took pride in growing a
Cash he even took pride in growing a large hipster beard the fact is gender
large hipster beard the fact is gender
large hipster beard the fact is gender identity didn’t cross Jamie’s mind until
identity didn’t cross Jamie’s mind until
identity didn’t cross Jamie’s mind until he was 40 years old and took an interest
he was 40 years old and took an interest
he was 40 years old and took an interest and what’s commonly called tranny porn
and what’s commonly called tranny porn
and what’s commonly called tranny porn even then Jamie cross dressed for the
even then Jamie cross dressed for the
even then Jamie cross dressed for the better part of a year and he called
better part of a year and he called
better part of a year and he called himself a gender non-conforming male he
himself a gender non-conforming male he
himself a gender non-conforming male he said he was happy being a man then Jamie
said he was happy being a man then Jamie
said he was happy being a man then Jamie started frequenting queer message boards
started frequenting queer message boards
started frequenting queer message boards where he saw transgender people lauded
where he saw transgender people lauded
where he saw transgender people lauded as beautiful and brave and he saw cross
as beautiful and brave and he saw cross
as beautiful and brave and he saw cross dressers disparaged as kinky or too
dressers disparaged as kinky or too
dressers disparaged as kinky or too cowardly to transition one by one we
cowardly to transition one by one we
cowardly to transition one by one we watched the people on those message
watched the people on those message
watched the people on those message boards who identified as cross dressers
boards who identified as cross dressers
boards who identified as cross dressers begin to come out as transgender and
begin to come out as transgender and
begin to come out as transgender and then Jamie became one of them and it was
then Jamie became one of them and it was
then Jamie became one of them and it was only after Jamie called himself
only after Jamie called himself
only after Jamie called himself transgender and pursued transition that
transgender and pursued transition that
transgender and pursued transition that he spiraled into depression he quit his
he spiraled into depression he quit his
he spiraled into depression he quit his job he stopped doing work around the
job he stopped doing work around the
job he stopped doing work around the house he even lost interest in hobbies
house he even lost interest in hobbies
house he even lost interest in hobbies we used to love to go camping but we
we used to love to go camping but we
we used to love to go camping but we couldn’t go anymore because it would
couldn’t go anymore because it would
couldn’t go anymore because it would interfere with his makeup routine
Jamie spiraled into depression he
Jamie spiraled into depression he started crying every night I had to
started crying every night I had to
started crying every night I had to console him through crying jags he spent
console him through crying jags he spent
console him through crying jags he spent every day ruminating about his
every day ruminating about his
every day ruminating about his appearance he started talking about
appearance he started talking about
appearance he started talking about suicide our sex life began to suffer and
suicide our sex life began to suffer and
suicide our sex life began to suffer and this was before Jamie went on hormones
this was before Jamie went on hormones
this was before Jamie went on hormones Jamie couldn’t reconcile hating his body
Jamie couldn’t reconcile hating his body
Jamie couldn’t reconcile hating his body with allowing me to love it and he
with allowing me to love it and he
with allowing me to love it and he couldn’t reconcile hating his body with
couldn’t reconcile hating his body with
couldn’t reconcile hating his body with using it for pleasure sex
using it for pleasure sex
using it for pleasure sex came a minefield of potential offenses
came a minefield of potential offenses
came a minefield of potential offenses and concerns and worse Jamie lost
and concerns and worse Jamie lost
and concerns and worse Jamie lost interest in ordinary sex and became
interest in ordinary sex and became
interest in ordinary sex and became interested only in sex games that made
interested only in sex games that made
interested only in sex games that made him feel submissive what was once a
him feel submissive what was once a
him feel submissive what was once a loving communion between the two of us
loving communion between the two of us
loving communion between the two of us had become a soulless negotiation and
had become a soulless negotiation and
had become a soulless negotiation and when I saw that my sex life would be
when I saw that my sex life would be
when I saw that my sex life would be sacrificed for Jamie’s priorities that
sacrificed for Jamie’s priorities that
sacrificed for Jamie’s priorities that felt like a betrayal of his commitment
felt like a betrayal of his commitment
felt like a betrayal of his commitment to our marriage
to our marriage
to our marriage and then our communication began to
and then our communication began to
and then our communication began to suffer Jamie found out that some of his
suffer Jamie found out that some of his
suffer Jamie found out that some of his views were offensive and out of favor so
views were offensive and out of favor so
views were offensive and out of favor so he denounced them and he even dropped
he denounced them and he even dropped
he denounced them and he even dropped friends whose views were not
friends whose views were not
friends whose views were not ideologically pure the truth became
ideologically pure the truth became
ideologically pure the truth became embarrassing to him it became
embarrassing to him it became
embarrassing to him it became unspeakable in our home
unspeakable in our home
unspeakable in our home Jamie stopped having frank conversations
Jamie stopped having frank conversations
Jamie stopped having frank conversations with me even about matters that deeply
with me even about matters that deeply
with me even about matters that deeply affected our lives like whether or not
affected our lives like whether or not
affected our lives like whether or not he planned to go on hormones so we
he planned to go on hormones so we
he planned to go on hormones so we weren’t having sex we weren’t talking we
weren’t having sex we weren’t talking we
weren’t having sex we weren’t talking we weren’t even enjoying hobbies together
weren’t even enjoying hobbies together
weren’t even enjoying hobbies together this was a barrage of assaults on our
this was a barrage of assaults on our
this was a barrage of assaults on our intimacy that would render our marriage
intimacy that would render our marriage
intimacy that would render our marriage unsalvageable my story surprises people
unsalvageable my story surprises people
unsalvageable my story surprises people why because the media likes to tell only
why because the media likes to tell only
why because the media likes to tell only one story when it comes to the
one story when it comes to the
one story when it comes to the transgender experience that’s the story
transgender experience that’s the story
transgender experience that’s the story of a particular happy healthy trans
of a particular happy healthy trans
of a particular happy healthy trans woman who were to understand does not
woman who were to understand does not
woman who were to understand does not merely identify as a woman but is
merely identify as a woman but is
merely identify as a woman but is literally a woman even biologically for
literally a woman even biologically for
literally a woman even biologically for her her life is held before transition
her her life is held before transition
her her life is held before transition but it is happy afterward for her
but it is happy afterward for her
but it is happy afterward for her transition is inevitable and it’s the
transition is inevitable and it’s the
transition is inevitable and it’s the only legitimate response but this story
only legitimate response but this story
only legitimate response but this story doesn’t fit Jamie at all the fact is
doesn’t fit Jamie at all the fact is
doesn’t fit Jamie at all the fact is people aren’t getting real about this
people aren’t getting real about this
people aren’t getting real about this issue as you might imagine my experience
issue as you might imagine my experience
issue as you might imagine my experience has put me in touch with a community of
has put me in touch with a community of
has put me in touch with a community of wives who are in a similar position to
wives who are in a similar position to
wives who are in a similar position to mine as well as parents and other allies
mine as well as parents and other allies
mine as well as parents and other allies and the recurring story I hear from them
and the recurring story I hear from them
and the recurring story I hear from them is that they do not feel that they’re
is that they do not feel that they’re
is that they do not feel that they’re allowed to tell the truth about what’s
allowed to tell the truth about what’s
allowed to tell the truth about what’s going on
going on
going on their homes and other voices are being
their homes and other voices are being
their homes and other voices are being lost too
just last year the Philadelphia trans
just last year the Philadelphia trans health conference had scheduled two
health conference had scheduled two
health conference had scheduled two people to speak about regretting their
people to speak about regretting their
people to speak about regretting their transitions they wanted to talk about
transitions they wanted to talk about
transitions they wanted to talk about alternatives to transition but they were
alternatives to transition but they were
alternatives to transition but they were cancelled when activists complained
cancelled when activists complained
cancelled when activists complained earlier last month protesters turned
earlier last month protesters turned
earlier last month protesters turned violent while trying to stop a debate in
violent while trying to stop a debate in
violent while trying to stop a debate in London called what is gender and baths
London called what is gender and baths
London called what is gender and baths Paul University blocked a psychotherapy
Paul University blocked a psychotherapy
Paul University blocked a psychotherapy students research into people who regret
students research into people who regret
students research into people who regret gender reassignment surgery calling it
gender reassignment surgery calling it
gender reassignment surgery calling it politically incorrect but if we want to
politically incorrect but if we want to
politically incorrect but if we want to get real and help this community we need
get real and help this community we need
get real and help this community we need to ask the hard questions is it possible
to ask the hard questions is it possible
to ask the hard questions is it possible that transition is not a panacea
that transition is not a panacea
that transition is not a panacea I watched Jamie’s condition worsen not
I watched Jamie’s condition worsen not
I watched Jamie’s condition worsen not improve as he pursued transition is it
improve as he pursued transition is it
improve as he pursued transition is it possible that activists are not telling
possible that activists are not telling
possible that activists are not telling the whole story but the story that best
the whole story but the story that best
the whole story but the story that best advances their political goals I went to
advances their political goals I went to
advances their political goals I went to a LGBT social at my university recently
a LGBT social at my university recently
a LGBT social at my university recently and I sat down at a table full of young
and I sat down at a table full of young
and I sat down at a table full of young people who took turns announcing their
people who took turns announcing their
people who took turns announcing their preferred pronouns fully 75% of the
preferred pronouns fully 75% of the
preferred pronouns fully 75% of the people at my table identified as
people at my table identified as
people at my table identified as transgender
transgender
transgender does it seem odd that I meant three
does it seem odd that I meant three
does it seem odd that I meant three times more trans people than all other
times more trans people than all other
times more trans people than all other representatives of the rainbow combined
representatives of the rainbow combined
representatives of the rainbow combined the number of Americans and people
the number of Americans and people
the number of Americans and people across the world who are identifying as
across the world who are identifying as
across the world who are identifying as transgender has increased sharply
transgender has increased sharply
transgender has increased sharply recently and the referrals of children
recently and the referrals of children
recently and the referrals of children to gender clinics has also increased by
to gender clinics has also increased by
to gender clinics has also increased by almost 900 percent by one estimate these
almost 900 percent by one estimate these
almost 900 percent by one estimate these clinics promote early and aggressive
clinics promote early and aggressive
clinics promote early and aggressive medical intervention for children who
medical intervention for children who
medical intervention for children who question their gender sometimes as young
question their gender sometimes as young
question their gender sometimes as young as four years old but where’s the
as four years old but where’s the
as four years old but where’s the research indicating that this is the
research indicating that this is the
research indicating that this is the best approach open dialog has never been
best approach open dialog has never been
best approach open dialog has never been our enemy and it is not our enemy now I
our enemy and it is not our enemy now I
our enemy and it is not our enemy now I cared about Jamie and I watched him
cared about Jamie and I watched him
cared about Jamie and I watched him become more and more unhappy if we want
become more and more unhappy if we want
become more and more unhappy if we want to support
to support
to support this community compassionately and
this community compassionately and
this community compassionately and effectively we need to move beyond the
effectively we need to move beyond the
effectively we need to move beyond the feel-good story with the ideal outcome
feel-good story with the ideal outcome
feel-good story with the ideal outcome and we need to ask the hard questions
and we need to ask the hard questions
and we need to ask the hard questions and we need to examine all the
and we need to examine all the
and we need to examine all the information not just that which is
information not just that which is
information not just that which is convenient pleasant or politically
convenient pleasant or politically
convenient pleasant or politically expedient
expedient
expedient [Applause]
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