thank you I love the theme it’s your world it’s like it’s your world it’s
world it’s like it’s your world it’s
world it’s like it’s your world it’s it’s it’s it’s kind of empowering right
it’s it’s it’s kind of empowering right
it’s it’s it’s kind of empowering right it’s your it’s my world how do I do that
it’s your it’s my world how do I do that
it’s your it’s my world how do I do that how does that did you guys read the fine
how does that did you guys read the fine
how does that did you guys read the fine print my husband’s a lawyer he always
print my husband’s a lawyer he always
print my husband’s a lawyer he always makes me read the fine print I know the
makes me read the fine print I know the
makes me read the fine print I know the fine print says in order to access that
fine print says in order to access that
fine print says in order to access that world of yours in order to really
world of yours in order to really
world of yours in order to really appreciate it you have to fail a lot of
appreciate it you have to fail a lot of
appreciate it you have to fail a lot of people think that failure is the
people think that failure is the
people think that failure is the opposite of success but it’s not failure
opposite of success but it’s not failure
opposite of success but it’s not failure our rungs on the ladder to success not
our rungs on the ladder to success not
our rungs on the ladder to success not my rules sorry I didn’t make them but
my rules sorry I didn’t make them but
my rules sorry I didn’t make them but they’re the rules I do career counseling
they’re the rules I do career counseling
they’re the rules I do career counseling career coaching that means for me I work
career coaching that means for me I work
career coaching that means for me I work with executives all around the world in
with executives all around the world in
with executives all around the world in strategizing what they want to do with
strategizing what they want to do with
strategizing what they want to do with their careers talking about problems
their careers talking about problems
their careers talking about problems they’re having challenges what they’re
they’re having challenges what they’re
they’re having challenges what they’re gonna do setting goals all of that good
gonna do setting goals all of that good
gonna do setting goals all of that good stuff and I was at my desk one morning
stuff and I was at my desk one morning
stuff and I was at my desk one morning and I got a call from one of my very
and I got a call from one of my very
and I got a call from one of my very favorite clients hi Bill whoa screaming
favorite clients hi Bill whoa screaming
favorite clients hi Bill whoa screaming he’s screaming at me
he’s screaming at me
he’s screaming at me I have no bench bill what are we talking
I have no bench bill what are we talking
I have no bench bill what are we talking about apparently what we were talking
about apparently what we were talking
about apparently what we were talking about was a job opening he had the
about was a job opening he had the
about was a job opening he had the person he had been grooming for that
person he had been grooming for that
person he had been grooming for that position she didn’t want it the next
position she didn’t want it the next
position she didn’t want it the next person in line had some medical issues
person in line had some medical issues
person in line had some medical issues he couldn’t take it
he couldn’t take it
he couldn’t take it and now Bill’s got nobody come on bill
and now Bill’s got nobody come on bill
and now Bill’s got nobody come on bill you’re a vice president in a fortune 50
you’re a vice president in a fortune 50
you’re a vice president in a fortune 50 multinational corporation you’ve got
multinational corporation you’ve got
multinational corporation you’ve got tens of thousands of people to choose
tens of thousands of people to choose
tens of thousands of people to choose from it is not possible that not one of
from it is not possible that not one of
from it is not possible that not one of those people can do this job the
those people can do this job the
those people can do this job the screaming continues you’re not listening
screaming continues you’re not listening
screaming continues you’re not listening to me I’ve got nobody when I was raising
to me I’ve got nobody when I was raising
to me I’ve got nobody when I was raising my kids I had two main goals one was to
my kids I had two main goals one was to
my kids I had two main goals one was to get them to 18 in one piece
get them to 18 in one piece
get them to 18 in one piece that was iffy at times the second was to
that was iffy at times the second was to
that was iffy at times the second was to get them with at least a plan about how
get them with at least a plan about how
get them with at least a plan about how they were going to move out of my house
they were going to move out of my house
they were going to move out of my house did I want them to be successful and
did I want them to be successful and
did I want them to be successful and happy and productive yeah yeah yeah but
happy and productive yeah yeah yeah but
happy and productive yeah yeah yeah but I wanted that to happen in their house
I wanted that to happen in their house
I wanted that to happen in their house not in my house to accomplish that my
not in my house to accomplish that my
not in my house to accomplish that my kids had to be able to be on Bill’s
kids had to be able to be on Bill’s
kids had to be able to be on Bill’s bench or somebody’s bench they had to be
bench or somebody’s bench they had to be
bench or somebody’s bench they had to be able to be plucked out of the crowd by
able to be plucked out of the crowd by
able to be plucked out of the crowd by some manager executive boss who had the
some manager executive boss who had the
some manager executive boss who had the faith that they could make decisions
faith that they could make decisions
faith that they could make decisions that they could solve problems and they
that they could solve problems and they
that they could solve problems and they could do a good job that required that
could do a good job that required that
could do a good job that required that they be willing to fail I want you to
they be willing to fail I want you to
they be willing to fail I want you to think about how success and failure and
think about how success and failure and
think about how success and failure and and risk was dealt with in your life and
and risk was dealt with in your life and
and risk was dealt with in your life and your growing up were you told to go out
your growing up were you told to go out
your growing up were you told to go out and and make decisions and and suffer
and and make decisions and and suffer
and and make decisions and and suffer the consequences of those decisions were
the consequences of those decisions were
the consequences of those decisions were you encouraged to get up and try again
you encouraged to get up and try again
you encouraged to get up and try again if you if you failed were you kind of
if you if you failed were you kind of
if you if you failed were you kind of protected you know that looks too hard I
protected you know that looks too hard I
protected you know that looks too hard I don’t want you to feel bad I don’t I
don’t want you to feel bad I don’t I
don’t want you to feel bad I don’t I don’t you know I want to protect you did
don’t you know I want to protect you did
don’t you know I want to protect you did you thrive on participation trophies
you thrive on participation trophies
you thrive on participation trophies most importantly how does all of that
most importantly how does all of that
most importantly how does all of that affect how you deal with success and
affect how you deal with success and
affect how you deal with success and failure and risk today and before you
failure and risk today and before you
failure and risk today and before you start going to know my parents well it’s
start going to know my parents well it’s
start going to know my parents well it’s not just about about feeling bad
not just about about feeling bad
not just about about feeling bad there’s also safety issues and there’s
there’s also safety issues and there’s
there’s also safety issues and there’s how culturally we look at risk and
how culturally we look at risk and
how culturally we look at risk and failure and success culturally how we’ve
failure and success culturally how we’ve
failure and success culturally how we’ve done that those attitudes have shrunk in
done that those attitudes have shrunk in
done that those attitudes have shrunk in a very very small number of generations
a very very small number of generations
a very very small number of generations an example of that is my husband’s
an example of that is my husband’s
an example of that is my husband’s generation my husband’s uncle is a
generation my husband’s uncle is a
generation my husband’s uncle is a pioneer in rock climbing if you have any
pioneer in rock climbing if you have any
pioneer in rock climbing if you have any interested in rock climbing Google Mark
interested in rock climbing Google Mark
interested in rock climbing Google Mark Powell rock climber he was amazing
Powell rock climber he was amazing
Powell rock climber he was amazing he went to high school in Fresno which
he went to high school in Fresno which
he went to high school in Fresno which is a city smack dab in the middle of
is a city smack dab in the middle of
is a city smack dab in the middle of California 50 miles down in the valley
California 50 miles down in the valley
California 50 miles down in the valley from Yosemite which is in the Sierra
from Yosemite which is in the Sierra
from Yosemite which is in the Sierra Nevada mountains tallest mountain range
Nevada mountains tallest mountain range
Nevada mountains tallest mountain range in the contiguous United States the
in the contiguous United States the
in the contiguous United States the summer of Marc’s fifteenth year he got
summer of Marc’s fifteenth year he got
summer of Marc’s fifteenth year he got on his little bicycle and he rode it up
on his little bicycle and he rode it up
on his little bicycle and he rode it up into Yosemite and he spent the summer
into Yosemite and he spent the summer
into Yosemite and he spent the summer there rock climbing and I don’t know
there rock climbing and I don’t know
there rock climbing and I don’t know eating fish he caught whatever he did
eating fish he caught whatever he did
eating fish he caught whatever he did lots of room for success lots of room
lots of room for success lots of room
lots of room for success lots of room for failure one generation later my
for failure one generation later my
for failure one generation later my generation we had to be in by the time
generation we had to be in by the time
generation we had to be in by the time the street lights are on
the street lights are on
the street lights are on there was no writing off tune to
there was no writing off tune to
there was no writing off tune to anywhere for the summer for us street
anywhere for the summer for us street
anywhere for the summer for us street lights came on we had to be home and
lights came on we had to be home and
lights came on we had to be home and still there was a lot of autonomy I
still there was a lot of autonomy I
still there was a lot of autonomy I started kindergarten at four and a half
started kindergarten at four and a half
started kindergarten at four and a half years old I had to we live pretty close
years old I had to we live pretty close
years old I had to we live pretty close to downtown Los Angeles and I had to
to downtown Los Angeles and I had to
to downtown Los Angeles and I had to walk over a freeway and down and around
walk over a freeway and down and around
walk over a freeway and down and around to get to school every day at 4 and a
to get to school every day at 4 and a
to get to school every day at 4 and a half by myself less autonomy then uncle
half by myself less autonomy then uncle
half by myself less autonomy then uncle Marc but more than today today a couple
Marc but more than today today a couple
Marc but more than today today a couple had the police and Social Child
had the police and Social Child
had the police and Social Child Protective Services called on them
Protective Services called on them
Protective Services called on them because they’re 9 and 10 year old sons
because they’re 9 and 10 year old sons
because they’re 9 and 10 year old sons walked a block and a half alone to the
walked a block and a half alone to the
walked a block and a half alone to the park culturally we have much much less
park culturally we have much much less
park culturally we have much much less tolerance for any kind of risk at all
tolerance for any kind of risk at all
tolerance for any kind of risk at all psychologists will tell us that in our
psychologists will tell us that in our
psychologists will tell us that in our little brains failure the prospect of
little brains failure the prospect of
little brains failure the prospect of failure equals the prospect of death
failure equals the prospect of death
failure equals the prospect of death kind of makes sense you’re you’re a
kind of makes sense you’re you’re a
kind of makes sense you’re you’re a caveman and you’re out there and you’re
caveman and you’re out there and you’re
caveman and you’re out there and you’re hunting a saber-toothed tiger and you go
hunting a saber-toothed tiger and you go
hunting a saber-toothed tiger and you go out and you let that spear fly and it
out and you let that spear fly and it
out and you let that spear fly and it misses not a pretty sight and even
misses not a pretty sight and even
misses not a pretty sight and even though that’s not the life that we live
though that’s not the life that we live
though that’s not the life that we live today our brains still go if we fail we
today our brains still go if we fail we
today our brains still go if we fail we could die
could die
could die so if failure equals death and
so if failure equals death and
so if failure equals death and culturally we’re saying better safe and
culturally we’re saying better safe and
culturally we’re saying better safe and sorry you’ve all heard that rights
sorry you’ve all heard that rights
sorry you’ve all heard that rights better safe than sorry and frankly
better safe than sorry and frankly
better safe than sorry and frankly failure doesn’t feel good doesn’t it’s
failure doesn’t feel good doesn’t it’s
failure doesn’t feel good doesn’t it’s not pleasant it’s kind of scary it’s
not pleasant it’s kind of scary it’s
not pleasant it’s kind of scary it’s uncomfortable if all of that is true why
uncomfortable if all of that is true why
uncomfortable if all of that is true why am i standing up here saying go out and
am i standing up here saying go out and
am i standing up here saying go out and bail bail
bail bail
bail bail well the first casualty of not being
well the first casualty of not being
well the first casualty of not being willing to fail is innovation and
willing to fail is innovation and
willing to fail is innovation and creativity and I’m not even talking
creativity and I’m not even talking
creativity and I’m not even talking about Steve Jobs kind of creativity
about Steve Jobs kind of creativity
about Steve Jobs kind of creativity although he was a master at being
although he was a master at being
although he was a master at being willing to fail I’m talking about a new
willing to fail I’m talking about a new
willing to fail I’m talking about a new and different world that offers us
and different world that offers us
and different world that offers us different kinds of challenges every
different kinds of challenges every
different kinds of challenges every single day and if we are not if we’re
single day and if we are not if we’re
single day and if we are not if we’re not approaching those within creative
not approaching those within creative
not approaching those within creative innovative solutions solutions that may
innovative solutions solutions that may
innovative solutions solutions that may work may not work if we’re not doing
work may not work if we’re not doing
work may not work if we’re not doing that we’re failing by default the second
that we’re failing by default the second
that we’re failing by default the second thing is personal development if you’re
thing is personal development if you’re
thing is personal development if you’re not pushing that edge of what you can do
not pushing that edge of what you can do
not pushing that edge of what you can do someplace work that might not work out
someplace work that might not work out
someplace work that might not work out if you’re not pushing that then you’re
if you’re not pushing that then you’re
if you’re not pushing that then you’re not growing my daughter came home from
not growing my daughter came home from
not growing my daughter came home from my oldest came home from first grade and
my oldest came home from first grade and
my oldest came home from first grade and she was a bit of an overachiever and she
she was a bit of an overachiever and she
she was a bit of an overachiever and she comes home with the paper chefs at my
comes home with the paper chefs at my
comes home with the paper chefs at my facebook I missed – that’s awesome not
facebook I missed – that’s awesome not
facebook I missed – that’s awesome not awesome I was going to go complain if
awesome I was going to go complain if
awesome I was going to go complain if you’re never missing any if you’re never
you’re never missing any if you’re never
you’re never missing any if you’re never getting any wrong it’s too easy they’re
getting any wrong it’s too easy they’re
getting any wrong it’s too easy they’re not pushing you they’re not challenging
not pushing you they’re not challenging
not pushing you they’re not challenging you I don’t want it to be too easy I
you I don’t want it to be too easy I
you I don’t want it to be too easy I want you to struggle a little bit I want
want you to struggle a little bit I want
want you to struggle a little bit I want you to work getting better my first talk
you to work getting better my first talk
you to work getting better my first talk up in front of people it was a disaster
up in front of people it was a disaster
up in front of people it was a disaster it was a terrible failure I was 13 it
it was a terrible failure I was 13 it
it was a terrible failure I was 13 it was in front of my whole junior high
did I die I wanted to my parents
did I die I wanted to my parents wouldn’t let me drop out of school they
wouldn’t let me drop out of school they
wouldn’t let me drop out of school they made me go back the next day you know
made me go back the next day you know
made me go back the next day you know what happened to me nobody cared I mean
what happened to me nobody cared I mean
what happened to me nobody cared I mean a couple of my friends went at but
a couple of my friends went at but
a couple of my friends went at but really nobody cared I went Wow look at
really nobody cared I went Wow look at
really nobody cared I went Wow look at that I could go over all the things I
that I could go over all the things I
that I could go over all the things I did right well I’d spent the whole night
did right well I’d spent the whole night
did right well I’d spent the whole night before going over all the things I did
before going over all the things I did
before going over all the things I did wrong what I did right what I could
wrong what I did right what I could
wrong what I did right what I could change what I could do better next next
change what I could do better next next
change what I could do better next next time next time next time I’m one day I
time next time next time I’m one day I
time next time next time I’m one day I could do a TEDx talk right next time in
could do a TEDx talk right next time in
could do a TEDx talk right next time in a weird kind of counterintuitive way
a weird kind of counterintuitive way
a weird kind of counterintuitive way failure creates a little bit of
failure creates a little bit of
failure creates a little bit of self-confidence
self-confidence
self-confidence okay picture I’m in I’m playing
okay picture I’m in I’m playing
okay picture I’m in I’m playing basketball I’m in the NBA Finals I’m not
basketball I’m in the NBA Finals I’m not
basketball I’m in the NBA Finals I’m not not school astray I’m in the a bit five
not school astray I’m in the a bit five
not school astray I’m in the a bit five right I’m out there on the floor
right I’m out there on the floor
right I’m out there on the floor and the clock is ticking down five four
and the clock is ticking down five four
and the clock is ticking down five four three two and my team is down by two
three two and my team is down by two
three two and my team is down by two points and I’m looking over at that guy
points and I’m looking over at that guy
points and I’m looking over at that guy with the ball I’m going please pass that
with the ball I’m going please pass that
with the ball I’m going please pass that ball to somebody else because I don’t
ball to somebody else because I don’t
ball to somebody else because I don’t know how to do this I haven’t trained my
know how to do this I haven’t trained my
know how to do this I haven’t trained my mind about this okay I I just got up for
mind about this okay I I just got up for
mind about this okay I I just got up for soda I don’t even know what I’m doing
soda I don’t even know what I’m doing
soda I don’t even know what I’m doing out here it’s like one of those weird
out here it’s like one of those weird
out here it’s like one of those weird dreams where you didn’t put all your
dreams where you didn’t put all your
dreams where you didn’t put all your clothes on that’s like I I have no idea
clothes on that’s like I I have no idea
clothes on that’s like I I have no idea what I’m doing here but the real
what I’m doing here but the real
what I’m doing here but the real basketball players they’ve taken that
basketball players they’ve taken that
basketball players they’ve taken that shot a thousand times they’ve made it a
shot a thousand times they’ve made it a
shot a thousand times they’ve made it a bunch of times they’ve missed it a bunch
bunch of times they’ve missed it a bunch
bunch of times they’ve missed it a bunch of times and they know that success or
of times and they know that success or
of times and they know that success or failure tomorrow they’re back in the gym
failure tomorrow they’re back in the gym
failure tomorrow they’re back in the gym trying to get better they know what the
trying to get better they know what the
trying to get better they know what the consequences are consequences is a big
consequences are consequences is a big
consequences are consequences is a big key to this whole thing I was talking to
key to this whole thing I was talking to
key to this whole thing I was talking to a vice president of a major corporation
a vice president of a major corporation
a vice president of a major corporation when you all know the name of and she
when you all know the name of and she
when you all know the name of and she had to call in one of her subordinates
had to call in one of her subordinates
had to call in one of her subordinates she had it she had to chew him out and
she had it she had to chew him out and
she had it she had to chew him out and this isn’t at a mail room level this is
this isn’t at a mail room level this is
this isn’t at a mail room level this is in the executive suite she calls him in
in the executive suite she calls him in
in the executive suite she calls him in and she says this is what you did wrong
and she says this is what you did wrong
and she says this is what you did wrong this is how we’re gonna fix it these are
this is how we’re gonna fix it these are
this is how we’re gonna fix it these are the consequences we’re gonna have to
the consequences we’re gonna have to
the consequences we’re gonna have to suffer and this is how we’re gonna make
suffer and this is how we’re gonna make
suffer and this is how we’re gonna make sure you never do this again it was not
sure you never do this again it was not
sure you never do this again it was not a career-ending mistake but it was a
a career-ending mistake but it was a
a career-ending mistake but it was a serious conversation
serious conversation
serious conversation the next day his mom called to discuss
the next day his mom called to discuss
the next day his mom called to discuss it with her now
it with her now
it with her now I don’t know how many about out there
I don’t know how many about out there
I don’t know how many about out there are going yeah my mom she’s like how
are going yeah my mom she’s like how
are going yeah my mom she’s like how many moms they’re saying darn straight I
many moms they’re saying darn straight I
many moms they’re saying darn straight I call let me explain to you all the
call let me explain to you all the
call let me explain to you all the mistake was not career-ending the phone
mistake was not career-ending the phone
mistake was not career-ending the phone call the phone call put his name on the
call the phone call put his name on the
call the phone call put his name on the list in permanent marker this guy will
list in permanent marker this guy will
list in permanent marker this guy will never go anywhere in this company
never go anywhere in this company
never go anywhere in this company because they don’t believe he can deal
because they don’t believe he can deal
because they don’t believe he can deal with consequences because they don’t
with consequences because they don’t
with consequences because they don’t have the faith that he can make
have the faith that he can make
have the faith that he can make decisions that he can solve problems
decisions that he can solve problems
decisions that he can solve problems without having to hold his mommy’s hand
without having to hold his mommy’s hand
without having to hold his mommy’s hand so how do we do this how do we train our
so how do we do this how do we train our
so how do we do this how do we train our brains how do we train them that goes
brains how do we train them that goes
brains how do we train them that goes you know I’m not gonna die this isn’t
you know I’m not gonna die this isn’t
you know I’m not gonna die this isn’t this isn’t terminal
this isn’t terminal
this isn’t terminal unfortunately Facebook memes don’t work
unfortunately Facebook memes don’t work
unfortunately Facebook memes don’t work it would be nice if they do you’ve all
it would be nice if they do you’ve all
it would be nice if they do you’ve all seen them right Abraham Lincoln lost
seen them right Abraham Lincoln lost
seen them right Abraham Lincoln lost eight elections and failed in two
eight elections and failed in two
eight elections and failed in two businesses before he was elected
businesses before he was elected
businesses before he was elected president Babe Ruth
president Babe Ruth
president Babe Ruth Babe Ruth was a strikeout King in
Babe Ruth was a strikeout King in
Babe Ruth was a strikeout King in baseball on his way to breaking the
baseball on his way to breaking the
baseball on his way to breaking the homerun record and our brains love that
homerun record and our brains love that
homerun record and our brains love that because those are that’s so motivating
because those are that’s so motivating
because those are that’s so motivating that feels so good they failed they
that feels so good they failed they
that feels so good they failed they tried again they succeeded that look at
tried again they succeeded that look at
tried again they succeeded that look at how awesome they are um but if I fail
how awesome they are um but if I fail
how awesome they are um but if I fail I’m gonna die it’s about teaching them
I’m gonna die it’s about teaching them
I’m gonna die it’s about teaching them it’s about teaching your brain how to do
it’s about teaching your brain how to do
it’s about teaching your brain how to do it how do you start goals you set your
it how do you start goals you set your
it how do you start goals you set your goal out further than what you think
goal out further than what you think
goal out further than what you think you’re capable of that space that’s bass
you’re capable of that space that’s bass
you’re capable of that space that’s bass in the middle that’s the magic space
in the middle that’s the magic space
in the middle that’s the magic space that’s where all the successes all the
that’s where all the successes all the
that’s where all the successes all the failures all the growth that’s where
failures all the growth that’s where
failures all the growth that’s where that happens you set your goal up
that happens you set your goal up
that happens you set your goal up further and then you get better and you
further and then you get better and you
further and then you get better and you set your Co out further and then you get
set your Co out further and then you get
set your Co out further and then you get better if my goal is to get up brush my
better if my goal is to get up brush my
better if my goal is to get up brush my teeth and make a pot of tea I’m not
teeth and make a pot of tea I’m not
teeth and make a pot of tea I’m not getting better I’m not doing anything
getting better I’m not doing anything
getting better I’m not doing anything it’s living in that magic space it’s
it’s living in that magic space it’s
it’s living in that magic space it’s taking the two dues of that goal how do
taking the two dues of that goal how do
taking the two dues of that goal how do I reach that goal these are the steps
I reach that goal these are the steps
I reach that goal these are the steps it’s taking the scary one do the scary
it’s taking the scary one do the scary
it’s taking the scary one do the scary one first do the scary things Mark Twain
one first do the scary things Mark Twain
one first do the scary things Mark Twain said if you eat a frog first thing in
said if you eat a frog first thing in
said if you eat a frog first thing in the morning everything for the rest of
the morning everything for the rest of
the morning everything for the rest of the day is pleasant do the scary thing
the day is pleasant do the scary thing
the day is pleasant do the scary thing and either you have to spend the rest of
and either you have to spend the rest of
and either you have to spend the rest of day cleaning it up or you get to do the
day cleaning it up or you get to do the
day cleaning it up or you get to do the easy stuff either way you’re getting
easy stuff either way you’re getting
easy stuff either way you’re getting better I learned to do this when I was
better I learned to do this when I was
better I learned to do this when I was launching a membership website
launching a membership website
launching a membership website I had lessons and I had videos and I had
I had lessons and I had videos and I had
I had lessons and I had videos and I had resources and my business coach came to
resources and my business coach came to
resources and my business coach came to me and she said when are you gonna push
me and she said when are you gonna push
me and she said when are you gonna push go when are you gonna launch it so well
go when are you gonna launch it so well
go when are you gonna launch it so well it’s not good enough yet I need more
it’s not good enough yet I need more
it’s not good enough yet I need more lessons and more videos and and she came
lessons and more videos and and she came
lessons and more videos and and she came back and she said well okay so now when
back and she said well okay so now when
back and she said well okay so now when you launch it go it’s not going to stop
you launch it go it’s not going to stop
you launch it go it’s not going to stop stop when is it going to be good enough
never never because it was never about
never never because it was never about the website was it it was about me me
the website was it it was about me me
the website was it it was about me me fearing to fail and the minute I
fearing to fail and the minute I
fearing to fail and the minute I recognized that I knew I had to do the
recognized that I knew I had to do the
recognized that I knew I had to do the scary thing I had to push go and then I
scary thing I had to push go and then I
scary thing I had to push go and then I had to spend my my time cleaning up the
had to spend my my time cleaning up the
had to spend my my time cleaning up the problems and celebrating the successes
problems and celebrating the successes
problems and celebrating the successes and getting better getting better and
and getting better getting better and
and getting better getting better and living with the consequences I told you
living with the consequences I told you
living with the consequences I told you consequences is the key if somebody if
consequences is the key if somebody if
consequences is the key if somebody if you make a mistake and somebody else
you make a mistake and somebody else
you make a mistake and somebody else cleans it up every time what you’re
cleans it up every time what you’re
cleans it up every time what you’re teaching your brain is somebody else
teaching your brain is somebody else
teaching your brain is somebody else will clean it up I didn’t die cuz
will clean it up I didn’t die cuz
will clean it up I didn’t die cuz they’re gonna fix it not I didn’t die
they’re gonna fix it not I didn’t die
they’re gonna fix it not I didn’t die because it’s not terminal and I can fix
because it’s not terminal and I can fix
because it’s not terminal and I can fix it I can do it those are your
it I can do it those are your
it I can do it those are your consequences
consequences
consequences don’t let anybody take them away from
don’t let anybody take them away from
don’t let anybody take them away from you you warned them
you you warned them
you you warned them you deserved them keep them work with
you deserved them keep them work with
you deserved them keep them work with them get better it is all encapsulated
them get better it is all encapsulated
them get better it is all encapsulated in learning how to ride a bicycle
in learning how to ride a bicycle
in learning how to ride a bicycle remember you’re you’re up there and
remember you’re you’re up there and
remember you’re you’re up there and you’re imbalanced and and you can’t
you’re imbalanced and and you can’t
you’re imbalanced and and you can’t quite do it and and your parent your
quite do it and and your parent your
quite do it and and your parent your parents running behind and they’re
parents running behind and they’re
parents running behind and they’re holding on and then they let go
holding on and then they let go
holding on and then they let go hopefully they let go they let go and
hopefully they let go they let go and
hopefully they let go they let go and you’re going I can
you’re going I can
you’re going I can [Music]
[Music]
[Music] I got this I can do this right and then
I got this I can do this right and then
I got this I can do this right and then and then what they do they yelled stop
and then what they do they yelled stop
and then what they do they yelled stop stop stop
stop stop
stop stop I’ve waited stop I didn’t stop no no
I’ve waited stop I didn’t stop no no
I’ve waited stop I didn’t stop no no buddy don’t stop like the first time
buddy don’t stop like the first time
buddy don’t stop like the first time they let go how did you stop maybe
they let go how did you stop maybe
they let go how did you stop maybe there’s some tears maybe there’s some
there’s some tears maybe there’s some
there’s some tears maybe there’s some blood let’s say something terrible
blood let’s say something terrible
blood let’s say something terrible happened and you actually broke your arm
happened and you actually broke your arm
happened and you actually broke your arm well you got a cast that was kind of
well you got a cast that was kind of
well you got a cast that was kind of cool but he got better right and the
cool but he got better right and the
cool but he got better right and the next time you got up there you might
next time you got up there you might
next time you got up there you might okay I got to figure out this stop thing
okay I got to figure out this stop thing
okay I got to figure out this stop thing because I want to do that again and I
because I want to do that again and I
because I want to do that again and I got the good go thing and I’m I got a
got the good go thing and I’m I got a
got the good go thing and I’m I got a guy pretty soon like conquered the
guy pretty soon like conquered the
guy pretty soon like conquered the bicycle monster plus you got the added
bicycle monster plus you got the added
bicycle monster plus you got the added benefit of being able to go with friends
benefit of being able to go with friends
benefit of being able to go with friends like later on in life and say you know
like later on in life and say you know
like later on in life and say you know when I learned how to bite ride a
when I learned how to bite ride a
when I learned how to bite ride a bicycle hahaha I broke my arm like
bicycle hahaha I broke my arm like
bicycle hahaha I broke my arm like wouldn’t you rather have that story then
wouldn’t you rather have that story then
wouldn’t you rather have that story then my mommy called my boss what happened
my mommy called my boss what happened
my mommy called my boss what happened with Bill and his job he hired someone
with Bill and his job he hired someone
with Bill and his job he hired someone he hired someone who actually been taken
he hired someone who actually been taken
he hired someone who actually been taken off of the contention list because he’d
off of the contention list because he’d
off of the contention list because he’d made some mistakes guy was really smart
made some mistakes guy was really smart
made some mistakes guy was really smart did a good job but you know he didn’t
did a good job but you know he didn’t
did a good job but you know he didn’t messed up some stuff and bill took a
messed up some stuff and bill took a
messed up some stuff and bill took a chance on him and he’s doing a fabulous
chance on him and he’s doing a fabulous
chance on him and he’s doing a fabulous job
job
job I said bill keep encouraging him to fail
I said bill keep encouraging him to fail
I said bill keep encouraging him to fail Koen oh but Secretary of State Colin
Koen oh but Secretary of State Colin
Koen oh but Secretary of State Colin Powell said there is no secret to
Powell said there is no secret to
Powell said there is no secret to success it’s hard work it’s perseverance
success it’s hard work it’s perseverance
success it’s hard work it’s perseverance and it’s learning from failure the
and it’s learning from failure the
and it’s learning from failure the wonderful people organizers here
wonderful people organizers here
wonderful people organizers here ask me how this idea fits in with the
ask me how this idea fits in with the
ask me how this idea fits in with the whole theme of it’s your world and my
whole theme of it’s your world and my
whole theme of it’s your world and my response is it’s only your world if you
response is it’s only your world if you
response is it’s only your world if you stand up there and risk creating it
stand up there and risk creating it
stand up there and risk creating it otherwise it’s someone else’s world
otherwise it’s someone else’s world
otherwise it’s someone else’s world imposed upon you my encouragement for
imposed upon you my encouragement for
imposed upon you my encouragement for you is that you never ever ever stop
you is that you never ever ever stop
you is that you never ever ever stop failing thank you
failing thank you
failing thank you you
you
you [Applause]
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