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[Music] hello people I hope you are all doing

hello people I hope you are all doing

hello people I hope you are all doing well salami and ass each other into

well salami and ass each other into

well salami and ass each other into cuisine stopping for one second just

cuisine stopping for one second just

cuisine stopping for one second just think about what you believe of me that

think about what you believe of me that

think about what you believe of me that was a fake accent I just through there

was a fake accent I just through there

was a fake accent I just through there yeah sometimes stereotypes are what we

yeah sometimes stereotypes are what we

yeah sometimes stereotypes are what we view seems to somewhat seem like it’s

view seems to somewhat seem like it’s

view seems to somewhat seem like it’s almost the truth but it’s never really

almost the truth but it’s never really

almost the truth but it’s never really the truth so sometimes you have to like

the truth so sometimes you have to like

the truth so sometimes you have to like put that aside and try to actually know

put that aside and try to actually know

put that aside and try to actually know who you’re talking to let me illustrate

who you’re talking to let me illustrate

who you’re talking to let me illustrate how throughout my life I made people

how throughout my life I made people

how throughout my life I made people rethink how they viewed me I was born in

rethink how they viewed me I was born in

rethink how they viewed me I was born in Sudan at the age of 2 I moved to Egypt

Sudan at the age of 2 I moved to Egypt

Sudan at the age of 2 I moved to Egypt there I learn how to speak Arabic and

there I learn how to speak Arabic and

there I learn how to speak Arabic and the different dialects that came along

the different dialects that came along

the different dialects that came along with it at the age of 5 I moved here to

with it at the age of 5 I moved here to

with it at the age of 5 I moved here to the United States I thought nothing

the United States I thought nothing

the United States I thought nothing could ever really define me as a person

could ever really define me as a person

could ever really define me as a person that was until I really found out that

that was until I really found out that

that was until I really found out that people did label me yeah they thought

people did label me yeah they thought

people did label me yeah they thought they thought I would be the person or

they thought I would be the person or

they thought I would be the person or well let me hear that’s poured onto my

well let me hear that’s poured onto my

well let me hear that’s poured onto my life I were really amusing clothes so I

life I were really amusing clothes so I

life I were really amusing clothes so I wore dashikis and gel ideas I don’t

wore dashikis and gel ideas I don’t

wore dashikis and gel ideas I don’t think any of you know what those are so

think any of you know what those are so

think any of you know what those are so you can imagine their faces when I first

you can imagine their faces when I first

you can imagine their faces when I first walked in with a dashiki into my

walked in with a dashiki into my

walked in with a dashiki into my kindergartner class and then all the

kindergartner class and then all the

kindergartner class and then all the other kids are just staring at me like

other kids are just staring at me like

other kids are just staring at me like oh my god African royalty and it’s just

oh my god African royalty and it’s just

oh my god African royalty and it’s just like no first of all I’m not I really

like no first of all I’m not I really

like no first of all I’m not I really wish I was but that would be really it’d

wish I was but that would be really it’d

wish I was but that would be really it’d be really amazing you see my brother

be really amazing you see my brother

be really amazing you see my brother actually took advantage of that and it

actually took advantage of that and it

actually took advantage of that and it worked out really well

worked out really well

worked out really well [Laughter]

[Laughter]

[Laughter] sorry okay I went on and I started to

sorry okay I went on and I started to

sorry okay I went on and I started to realize that other people started to

realize that other people started to

realize that other people started to just start asking really hilarious

just start asking really hilarious

just start asking really hilarious questions like does your language have

questions like does your language have

questions like does your language have clicking noises like the movie like the

clicking noises like the movie like the

clicking noises like the movie like the Bushmen in the movies gotten must be

Bushmen in the movies gotten must be

Bushmen in the movies gotten must be crazy

crazy

crazy I’m like no not at all and the funniest

I’m like no not at all and the funniest

I’m like no not at all and the funniest question I’ve ever gotten was do you

question I’ve ever gotten was do you

question I’ve ever gotten was do you live in a hut or have you ever lived in

live in a hut or have you ever lived in

live in a hut or have you ever lived in a hut and I have yet to even see one so

a hut and I have yet to even see one so

a hut and I have yet to even see one so I think that’s really amazing don’t you

I think that’s really amazing don’t you

I think that’s really amazing don’t you guys stereotypes work out really funny

guys stereotypes work out really funny

guys stereotypes work out really funny because I remember the first year of

because I remember the first year of

because I remember the first year of school and kids just thought I was a

school and kids just thought I was a

school and kids just thought I was a regular kid and so like yeah you know my

regular kid and so like yeah you know my

regular kid and so like yeah you know my clothes and then I had to change that

clothes and then I had to change that

clothes and then I had to change that because I found out what winter was and

because I found out what winter was and

because I found out what winter was and it wasn’t really polite to me Tywin at

it wasn’t really polite to me Tywin at

it wasn’t really polite to me Tywin at all like it progressed and I started

all like it progressed and I started

all like it progressed and I started changing I moved to Kansas City Missouri

changing I moved to Kansas City Missouri

changing I moved to Kansas City Missouri and I started kind of figuring out the

and I started kind of figuring out the

and I started kind of figuring out the norms so that was flat build hats baggy

norms so that was flat build hats baggy

norms so that was flat build hats baggy chinos large shirts and then as I

chinos large shirts and then as I

chinos large shirts and then as I thought I was kind of like getting used

thought I was kind of like getting used

thought I was kind of like getting used to things

to things

to things I moved again to Des Moines Iowa the

I moved again to Des Moines Iowa the

I moved again to Des Moines Iowa the kids there thought I was a bug I was

kids there thought I was a bug I was

kids there thought I was a bug I was like what I’m only like six years old I

like what I’m only like six years old I

like what I’m only like six years old I can’t be a bug

can’t be a bug

can’t be a bug so I thought it was really hilarious

so I thought it was really hilarious

so I thought it was really hilarious guys and then to top that off I thought

guys and then to top that off I thought

guys and then to top that off I thought I was really an ordinary American my

I was really an ordinary American my

I was really an ordinary American my English became clear and like I

English became clear and like I

English became clear and like I struggled really hard to make it like to

struggled really hard to make it like to

struggled really hard to make it like to actually get English on to the point

actually get English on to the point

actually get English on to the point because I remember when they asked us

because I remember when they asked us

because I remember when they asked us what we ate at home I mixed up a corn

what we ate at home I mixed up a corn

what we ate at home I mixed up a corn with corn I was like yeah we eat acorns

with corn I was like yeah we eat acorns

with corn I was like yeah we eat acorns and the kids were like you yeah I was

and the kids were like you yeah I was

and the kids were like you yeah I was like yeah we’re not a family of

like yeah we’re not a family of

like yeah we’re not a family of squirrels so don’t worry about

and then time we’ve gone again so I

and then time we’ve gone again so I moved again to to Des Moines Iowa yeah

moved again to to Des Moines Iowa yeah

moved again to to Des Moines Iowa yeah kids thought I was a tag Yatta Yatta

kids thought I was a tag Yatta Yatta

kids thought I was a tag Yatta Yatta Yatta

Yatta

Yatta I picked up the trend of clothes that’s

I picked up the trend of clothes that’s

I picked up the trend of clothes that’s there so it was Hollister American Eagle

there so it was Hollister American Eagle

there so it was Hollister American Eagle it was somewhat of preppy somewhat of a

it was somewhat of preppy somewhat of a

it was somewhat of preppy somewhat of a preppy school and then I moved back here

preppy school and then I moved back here

preppy school and then I moved back here number-two Nebraska right the kids here

number-two Nebraska right the kids here

number-two Nebraska right the kids here really hilarious they’re like dude

really hilarious they’re like dude

really hilarious they’re like dude you’re whitewashed I was like what and

you’re whitewashed I was like what and

you’re whitewashed I was like what and like I had like these two extremes where

like I had like these two extremes where

like I had like these two extremes where I was a thug and then I was whitewashed

I was a thug and then I was whitewashed

I was a thug and then I was whitewashed and I thought those are really amazing

and I thought those are really amazing

and I thought those are really amazing guys because how often are you told hey

guys because how often are you told hey

guys because how often are you told hey man you look like a thug and then five

man you look like a thug and then five

man you look like a thug and then five seconds later you told hey you’re

seconds later you told hey you’re

seconds later you told hey you’re whitewashed why are you that whitewashed

whitewashed why are you that whitewashed

whitewashed why are you that whitewashed I’m like how how can I be labeled

I’m like how how can I be labeled

I’m like how how can I be labeled whitewashed I found out it was the way

whitewashed I found out it was the way

whitewashed I found out it was the way that I started dressing the way I spoke

that I started dressing the way I spoke

that I started dressing the way I spoke and came out to people that’s the way

and came out to people that’s the way

and came out to people that’s the way people labeled me and I think it made me

people labeled me and I think it made me

people labeled me and I think it made me stronger because I was starting to be

stronger because I was starting to be

stronger because I was starting to be proud of who I was because when you

proud of who I was because when you

proud of who I was because when you first come to the United States it’s

first come to the United States it’s

first come to the United States it’s like a melting pot where you’re just

like a melting pot where you’re just

like a melting pot where you’re just trying to catch on to every single

trying to catch on to every single

trying to catch on to every single culture and become an ordinary American

culture and become an ordinary American

culture and become an ordinary American because I mean isn’t that the dream to

because I mean isn’t that the dream to

because I mean isn’t that the dream to be an American but yeah I learned to be

be an American but yeah I learned to be

be an American but yeah I learned to be myself and I thought I was finally okay

myself and I thought I was finally okay

myself and I thought I was finally okay with labeling correct and then I went to

with labeling correct and then I went to

with labeling correct and then I went to this leadership economics program I UCLA

this leadership economics program I UCLA

this leadership economics program I UCLA and the kids there we’re all like lined

and the kids there we’re all like lined

and the kids there we’re all like lined up and then they did roll call they

up and then they did roll call they

up and then they did roll call they called Gow by the name my name is by the

called Gow by the name my name is by the

called Gow by the name my name is by the way my name is go so they’re all looking

way my name is go so they’re all looking

way my name is go so they’re all looking for an Asian kid which I thought was

for an Asian kid which I thought was

for an Asian kid which I thought was really hilarious I raised my hand I was

really hilarious I raised my hand I was

really hilarious I raised my hand I was just like here they seem to be waiting

just like here they seem to be waiting

just like here they seem to be waiting for like they they all seemed to be way

for like they they all seemed to be way

for like they they all seemed to be way for my need to be like Jerome I was like

for my need to be like Jerome I was like

for my need to be like Jerome I was like what and they and like the funniest part

what and they and like the funniest part

what and they and like the funniest part was I didn’t like that part to me faze

was I didn’t like that part to me faze

was I didn’t like that part to me faze me is just the fact that I told them I

me is just the fact that I told them I

me is just the fact that I told them I grew up in Nebraska oh my god it’s just

grew up in Nebraska oh my god it’s just

grew up in Nebraska oh my god it’s just so hilarious because they asked me do

so hilarious because they asked me do

so hilarious because they asked me do you have electricity

you have electricity

you have electricity it’s like butts and like some of them

it’s like butts and like some of them

it’s like butts and like some of them were so confused where Nebraska was

were so confused where Nebraska was

were so confused where Nebraska was there are you guys close to Minnesota

there are you guys close to Minnesota

there are you guys close to Minnesota like up there are you guys liked by

like up there are you guys liked by

like up there are you guys liked by Canada I’m like no we’re like dead

Canada I’m like no we’re like dead

Canada I’m like no we’re like dead center like have you never traveled

center like have you never traveled

center like have you never traveled there

there

there well Chicago I’ve been there I’m like

well Chicago I’ve been there I’m like

well Chicago I’ve been there I’m like well it’s right by there no I don’t

well it’s right by there no I don’t

well it’s right by there no I don’t think so it’s what they told me like

think so it’s what they told me like

think so it’s what they told me like okay but I learned to just be myself

okay but I learned to just be myself

okay but I learned to just be myself guys because I mean when you choose to

guys because I mean when you choose to

guys because I mean when you choose to label someone you’re choosing smallness

label someone you’re choosing smallness

label someone you’re choosing smallness over greatness I mean I think the

over greatness I mean I think the

over greatness I mean I think the campaign last year it was like make

campaign last year it was like make

campaign last year it was like make America great again we’re not making

America great again we’re not making

America great again we’re not making each other great if we’re choosing to

each other great if we’re choosing to

each other great if we’re choosing to label each other

label each other

label each other we’re just stereotype each other and can

we’re just stereotype each other and can

we’re just stereotype each other and can find each other in boxes they kept

find each other in boxes they kept

find each other in boxes they kept putting me in boxes like bees and I keep

putting me in boxes like bees and I keep

putting me in boxes like bees and I keep breaking out of them showing them I’m

breaking out of them showing them I’m

breaking out of them showing them I’m nothing like that I mean who would you

nothing like that I mean who would you

nothing like that I mean who would you be if the world give you a box you check

be if the world give you a box you check

be if the world give you a box you check who would you truly be I mean you could

who would you truly be I mean you could

who would you truly be I mean you could only be yourself right that’s who we

only be yourself right that’s who we

only be yourself right that’s who we should all pride ourself to be rethink

should all pride ourself to be rethink

should all pride ourself to be rethink how the world views you rethink your how

how the world views you rethink your how

how the world views you rethink your how you’re labeled don’t let it offend you

you’re labeled don’t let it offend you

you’re labeled don’t let it offend you find joy in it a lot because I find it

find joy in it a lot because I find it

find joy in it a lot because I find it really Larry’s just telling people yeah

really Larry’s just telling people yeah

really Larry’s just telling people yeah I build an electric longboard they’re

I build an electric longboard they’re

I build an electric longboard they’re like what and like yeah and then they’re

like what and like yeah and then they’re

like what and like yeah and then they’re like you’re a nerd I’m like okay but and

like you’re a nerd I’m like okay but and

like you’re a nerd I’m like okay but and just really I really just I don’t know

just really I really just I don’t know

just really I really just I don’t know how to explain it it’s just the that

how to explain it it’s just the that

how to explain it it’s just the that would be like the feeling you get of

would be like the feeling you get of

would be like the feeling you get of just proving someone wrong I think

just proving someone wrong I think

just proving someone wrong I think that’s like the best feeling in the

that’s like the best feeling in the

that’s like the best feeling in the world and I live for that guys so I

world and I live for that guys so I

world and I live for that guys so I would go out of my way to meet new

would go out of my way to meet new

would go out of my way to meet new people and it should introduce myself

people and it should introduce myself

people and it should introduce myself sometimes I kind of wear like different

sometimes I kind of wear like different

sometimes I kind of wear like different clothes to kind of throw them off you

clothes to kind of throw them off you

clothes to kind of throw them off you know and it works most of the time and

know and it works most of the time and

know and it works most of the time and I’ll throw on an accent the funny part

I’ll throw on an accent the funny part

I’ll throw on an accent the funny part of actually growing up in Egypt though

of actually growing up in Egypt though

of actually growing up in Egypt though is I picked up in here back soon so I

is I picked up in here back soon so I

is I picked up in here back soon so I could do that really well and I sound

could do that really well and I sound

could do that really well and I sound like cab driver and like New York or

like cab driver and like New York or

like cab driver and like New York or something yeah so I’ll be like I’ll say

something yeah so I’ll be like I’ll say

something yeah so I’ll be like I’ll say something everybody what you’re like

something everybody what you’re like

something everybody what you’re like yeah and it’s just like how

yeah and it’s just like how

yeah and it’s just like how I don’t know but I just really hope that

I don’t know but I just really hope that

I don’t know but I just really hope that me speaking to you about stereotypes

me speaking to you about stereotypes

me speaking to you about stereotypes will have you guys change your mind sets

will have you guys change your mind sets

will have you guys change your mind sets about how you view people and expect

about how you view people and expect

about how you view people and expect them to be a certain way just be you

them to be a certain way just be you

them to be a certain way just be you guys thank you very much

guys thank you very much

guys thank you very much [Music]

you

you [Music]

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