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How creating value can affect our lives | Vanessa Mbamarah | TEDxYouth@Ganhito


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[Applause] I can see everyone smiling because I’m

I can see everyone smiling because I’m

I can see everyone smiling because I’m speaking French okay so it’s great to be

speaking French okay so it’s great to be

speaking French okay so it’s great to be here but I have a question I want to

here but I have a question I want to

here but I have a question I want to start with a question should you ask

start with a question should you ask

start with a question should you ask yourself why you came here today I mean

yourself why you came here today I mean

yourself why you came here today I mean did you actually it’s it’s it’s it’s a

did you actually it’s it’s it’s it’s a

did you actually it’s it’s it’s it’s a bit weird but did you think about why

bit weird but did you think about why

bit weird but did you think about why you came here today okay for a couple of

you came here today okay for a couple of

you came here today okay for a couple of people they’re here because they’re

people they’re here because they’re

people they’re here because they’re speaking others are here to connect

speaking others are here to connect

speaking others are here to connect network but the fact remains that you’re

network but the fact remains that you’re

network but the fact remains that you’re all here today because of one thing

all here today because of one thing

all here today because of one thing value it’s either you’re creating value

value it’s either you’re creating value

value it’s either you’re creating value you’re giving value or you’re receiving

you’re giving value or you’re receiving

you’re giving value or you’re receiving value and I think that this is something

value and I think that this is something

value and I think that this is something that affects every part of our lives if

that affects every part of our lives if

that affects every part of our lives if it’s your personal life or your business

it’s your personal life or your business

it’s your personal life or your business life in 2009 I came to cotinue I just

life in 2009 I came to cotinue I just

life in 2009 I came to cotinue I just lost my mom and I just gave birth this

lost my mom and I just gave birth this

lost my mom and I just gave birth this as well so I was an orphan and a single

as well so I was an orphan and a single

as well so I was an orphan and a single mom when I came to the border of cotinue

mom when I came to the border of cotinue

mom when I came to the border of cotinue I looked around I was I was really

I looked around I was I was really

I looked around I was I was really scared because I didn’t know where I was

scared because I didn’t know where I was

scared because I didn’t know where I was gonna go I didn’t know who I was gonna

gonna go I didn’t know who I was gonna

gonna go I didn’t know who I was gonna be with I didn’t have family but I said

be with I didn’t have family but I said

be with I didn’t have family but I said to myself this is a new territory and I

to myself this is a new territory and I

to myself this is a new territory and I needed to conquer and I needed to make

needed to conquer and I needed to make

needed to conquer and I needed to make you know I needed to build something for

you know I needed to build something for

you know I needed to build something for myself but it wasn’t easy that was just

myself but it wasn’t easy that was just

myself but it wasn’t easy that was just me talking to myself so over time I got

me talking to myself so over time I got

me talking to myself so over time I got a job I said at work in many old jobs

a job I said at work in many old jobs

a job I said at work in many old jobs you know do this and that just to make

you know do this and that just to make

you know do this and that just to make enough money to feed and take care of my

enough money to feed and take care of my

enough money to feed and take care of my kid but you know as time went on I

kid but you know as time went on I

kid but you know as time went on I realized that it wasn’t enough it wasn’t

realized that it wasn’t enough it wasn’t

realized that it wasn’t enough it wasn’t gonna do a lot for me I had a little

gonna do a lot for me I had a little

gonna do a lot for me I had a little girl who had to who’s gonna who’s

girl who had to who’s gonna who’s

girl who had to who’s gonna who’s growing she she was eating more and more

growing she she was eating more and more

growing she she was eating more and more every day you know so I just had to do

every day you know so I just had to do

every day you know so I just had to do something and so one day I came back

something and so one day I came back

something and so one day I came back from work and I sat down I cried I did a

from work and I sat down I cried I did a

from work and I sat down I cried I did a lot of crying back then and so I I

lot of crying back then and so I I

lot of crying back then and so I I thought to myself I did re-evaluated

thought to myself I did re-evaluated

thought to myself I did re-evaluated myself when I came in I had a lot of

myself when I came in I had a lot of

myself when I came in I had a lot of dreams I wanted to do big things but

dreams I wanted to do big things but

dreams I wanted to do big things but look over the years look that’s like one

look over the years look that’s like one

look over the years look that’s like one two years I’m still where I am probably

two years I’m still where I am probably

two years I’m still where I am probably worse and then I had to ask myself what

worse and then I had to ask myself what

worse and then I had to ask myself what was I doing wrong

was I doing wrong

was I doing wrong why wasn’t I guess where I wanted to and

why wasn’t I guess where I wanted to and

why wasn’t I guess where I wanted to and then the question came probably you’re

then the question came probably you’re

then the question came probably you’re not giving out and no value because if

not giving out and no value because if

not giving out and no value because if you want to attract something better you

you want to attract something better you

you want to attract something better you need to be able to offer something way

need to be able to offer something way

need to be able to offer something way better than what you have already and so

better than what you have already and so

better than what you have already and so I said to myself I needed to improve

I said to myself I needed to improve

I said to myself I needed to improve myself I needed more value because if I

myself I needed more value because if I

myself I needed more value because if I had value people would come to me people

had value people would come to me people

had value people would come to me people would request for me and then I started

would request for me and then I started

would request for me and then I started the first thing I did was to reevaluate

the first thing I did was to reevaluate

the first thing I did was to reevaluate and then after that I had to upgrade I

and then after that I had to upgrade I

and then after that I had to upgrade I wasn’t been in a foreign country what

wasn’t been in a foreign country what

wasn’t been in a foreign country what was it about this country French I

was it about this country French I

was it about this country French I needed to learn their language so I

needed to learn their language so I

needed to learn their language so I started now I couldn’t afford to pay to

started now I couldn’t afford to pay to

started now I couldn’t afford to pay to go to a French school to learn so I

go to a French school to learn so I

go to a French school to learn so I learnt it you know the wrong way on the

learnt it you know the wrong way on the

learnt it you know the wrong way on the streets so when I go out you know

streets so when I go out you know

streets so when I go out you know everyone is yeah I stayed in an

everyone is yeah I stayed in an

everyone is yeah I stayed in an environment where you know when they

environment where you know when they

environment where you know when they because here in Benin when you speak

because here in Benin when you speak

because here in Benin when you speak English everyone wants to speak English

English everyone wants to speak English

English everyone wants to speak English with you because they weren’t learn

with you because they weren’t learn

with you because they weren’t learn English but I refused and so when they

English but I refused and so when they

English but I refused and so when they say ah good morning sister I say bonjour

say ah good morning sister I say bonjour

say ah good morning sister I say bonjour server and that was how I learned so I

server and that was how I learned so I

server and that was how I learned so I was speaking and I was just I was

was speaking and I was just I was

was speaking and I was just I was learning it wasn’t perfect but you know

learning it wasn’t perfect but you know

learning it wasn’t perfect but you know it kind of helped me scale a little bit

it kind of helped me scale a little bit

it kind of helped me scale a little bit and then after that I I wanted I learned

and then after that I I wanted I learned

and then after that I I wanted I learned French that was the first thing and then

French that was the first thing and then

French that was the first thing and then I said to myself what skills do I have

I said to myself what skills do I have

I said to myself what skills do I have okay what skills would I be able to tell

okay what skills would I be able to tell

okay what skills would I be able to tell someone I could do that would give me an

someone I could do that would give me an

someone I could do that would give me an opportunity better than the other

opportunity better than the other

opportunity better than the other pressive so I did all of this I

pressive so I did all of this I

pressive so I did all of this I researched I I wanted I wanting to build

researched I I wanted I wanting to build

researched I I wanted I wanting to build myself and then at a point I started to

myself and then at a point I started to

myself and then at a point I started to talk to people look I was I need another

talk to people look I was I need another

talk to people look I was I need another job I needed to do something better and

job I needed to do something better and

job I needed to do something better and then in front of my gave me an

then in front of my gave me an

then in front of my gave me an opportunity to you know

opportunity to you know

opportunity to you know got another job he put he took my CV and

got another job he put he took my CV and

got another job he put he took my CV and submitted it somewhere in her school so

submitted it somewhere in her school so

submitted it somewhere in her school so I mean I was excited but I was scared

I mean I was excited but I was scared

I mean I was excited but I was scared you know I promise there’s a reason why

you know I promise there’s a reason why

you know I promise there’s a reason why I’m telling the story and I’m gonna let

I’m telling the story and I’m gonna let

I’m telling the story and I’m gonna let you know so I went on but before I went

you know so I went on but before I went

you know so I went on but before I went for the interview I did a research I

for the interview I did a research I

for the interview I did a research I needed to know the organization I was

needed to know the organization I was

needed to know the organization I was gonna go to I needed to know their

gonna go to I needed to know their

gonna go to I needed to know their strengths I needed to know what they

strengths I needed to know what they

strengths I needed to know what they wanted because if I was going to bring

wanted because if I was going to bring

wanted because if I was going to bring value to them I needed to know what I

value to them I needed to know what I

value to them I needed to know what I was up against so I needed to study to

was up against so I needed to study to

was up against so I needed to study to find out what was lacking and then build

find out what was lacking and then build

find out what was lacking and then build myself enough to be able to provide that

myself enough to be able to provide that

myself enough to be able to provide that to them so I learned about the school it

to them so I learned about the school it

to them so I learned about the school it was a school that had that was using the

was a school that had that was using the

was a school that had that was using the Montessori system and you know the

Montessori system and you know the

Montessori system and you know the system they like to use

system they like to use

system they like to use um materials artifacts while teaching uh

um materials artifacts while teaching uh

um materials artifacts while teaching uh I was applying for to be a maths teacher

I was applying for to be a maths teacher

I was applying for to be a maths teacher so on the day of the interview I went

so on the day of the interview I went

so on the day of the interview I went and I prepared myself I was all dressed

and I prepared myself I was all dressed

and I prepared myself I was all dressed I didn’t just wear jeans I wore you know

I didn’t just wear jeans I wore you know

I didn’t just wear jeans I wore you know corporate I got I got the suit nice

corporate I got I got the suit nice

corporate I got I got the suit nice suits

suits

suits you know shoes made my hair and then I

you know shoes made my hair and then I

you know shoes made my hair and then I went for the interview now when I got

went for the interview now when I got

went for the interview now when I got there there were other people there I

there there were other people there I

there there were other people there I wasn’t the only one but I realized that

wasn’t the only one but I realized that

wasn’t the only one but I realized that a lot of people came there and they were

a lot of people came there and they were

a lot of people came there and they were just there to them yeah you know just

just there to them yeah you know just

just there to them yeah you know just try but I came there with a reason I

try but I came there with a reason I

try but I came there with a reason I needed to get that job so when I came in

needed to get that job so when I came in

needed to get that job so when I came in I came with them I came with a box I had

I came with them I came with a box I had

I came with them I came with a box I had to get woods little woods and I cut it

to get woods little woods and I cut it

to get woods little woods and I cut it into bits because I was I mean I was

into bits because I was I mean I was

into bits because I was I mean I was coming in to teach maths and I knew that

coming in to teach maths and I knew that

coming in to teach maths and I knew that they were gonna ask me to do a

they were gonna ask me to do a

they were gonna ask me to do a presentation or do something so I came

presentation or do something so I came

presentation or do something so I came with the box and you know during my

with the box and you know during my

with the box and you know during my interview it was it was it was great

interview it was it was it was great

interview it was it was it was great because they asked me to teach something

because they asked me to teach something

because they asked me to teach something just anything and I got out of the boxes

just anything and I got out of the boxes

just anything and I got out of the boxes and I got out two words and I said I’d

and I got out two words and I said I’d

and I got out two words and I said I’d demonstrated no it didn’t end there I

demonstrated no it didn’t end there I

demonstrated no it didn’t end there I knew that they were a Montessori School

knew that they were a Montessori School

knew that they were a Montessori School they were using the monetary system and

they were using the monetary system and

they were using the monetary system and there were better ways to improve and

there were better ways to improve and

there were better ways to improve and that’s the thing about value it’s all

that’s the thing about value it’s all

that’s the thing about value it’s all about improving giving people what they

about improving giving people what they

about improving giving people what they have what what if what it is they have

have what what if what it is they have

have what what if what it is they have given something given him something that

given something given him something that

given something given him something that is better than what they currently have

is better than what they currently have

is better than what they currently have so I talked to them about you know find

so I talked to them about you know find

so I talked to them about you know find that their system was great they had

that their system was great they had

that their system was great they had they had a lot of material but what

they had a lot of material but what

they had a lot of material but what about using computers to teach

about using computers to teach

about using computers to teach mathematics in games their games on the

mathematics in games their games on the

mathematics in games their games on the systems that you used entices kids and

systems that you used entices kids and

systems that you used entices kids and he makes learning easier so I didn’t

he makes learning easier so I didn’t

he makes learning easier so I didn’t just show them that I was good at

just show them that I was good at

just show them that I was good at teaching maths but I show them other

teaching maths but I show them other

teaching maths but I show them other ways better ways that they could start

ways better ways that they could start

ways better ways that they could start teaching mathematics now other schools

teaching mathematics now other schools

teaching mathematics now other schools didn’t do that other schools they the

didn’t do that other schools they the

didn’t do that other schools they the same you know counted on the board and

same you know counted on the board and

same you know counted on the board and so when I when I when I gave them that

so when I when I when I gave them that

so when I when I when I gave them that option they loved it cut the long story

option they loved it cut the long story

option they loved it cut the long story short I got the job okay but now why am

short I got the job okay but now why am

short I got the job okay but now why am I telling you the story to provide to to

I telling you the story to provide to to

I telling you the story to provide to to get an edge of other people you need to

get an edge of other people you need to

get an edge of other people you need to be able to provide you need to be able

be able to provide you need to be able

be able to provide you need to be able to create a vacuum that only you can

to create a vacuum that only you can

to create a vacuum that only you can feel so the question you should be

feel so the question you should be

feel so the question you should be asking yourself is am i creating enough

asking yourself is am i creating enough

asking yourself is am i creating enough vacuum in my niche in my business in my

vacuum in my niche in my business in my

vacuum in my niche in my business in my environment because if you don’t have a

environment because if you don’t have a

environment because if you don’t have a big enough vacuum then what do we need

big enough vacuum then what do we need

big enough vacuum then what do we need you why do people need you so that was

you why do people need you so that was

you why do people need you so that was the reason that’s the reason why I I

the reason that’s the reason why I I

the reason that’s the reason why I I took all of that I went all the way back

took all of that I went all the way back

took all of that I went all the way back ask myself questions what was I doing

ask myself questions what was I doing

ask myself questions what was I doing wrong what did I need to do where do I

wrong what did I need to do where do I

wrong what did I need to do where do I need to go which is very very important

need to go which is very very important

need to go which is very very important the value your value is measured by the

the value your value is measured by the

the value your value is measured by the vacuum that you’re able to create take

vacuum that you’re able to create take

vacuum that you’re able to create take for example your business for business

for example your business for business

for example your business for business owners over here a lot of times we

owners over here a lot of times we

owners over here a lot of times we complain that we don’t get clients or

complain that we don’t get clients or

complain that we don’t get clients or you know if we don’t get as much we’re

you know if we don’t get as much we’re

you know if we don’t get as much we’re not making as much money sometimes I

not making as much money sometimes I

not making as much money sometimes I wonder why why that question what are

wonder why why that question what are

wonder why why that question what are you doing wrong take out time to check

you doing wrong take out time to check

you doing wrong take out time to check what your competitors are doing what are

what your competitors are doing what are

what your competitors are doing what are they doing that I’m doing what can I do

they doing that I’m doing what can I do

they doing that I’m doing what can I do that makes my product better than what

that makes my product better than what

that makes my product better than what their products or what worker what what

their products or what worker what what

their products or what worker what what can I do to make me better because

can I do to make me better because

can I do to make me better because remember when consumers are looking for

remember when consumers are looking for

remember when consumers are looking for when they’re looking to buy products

when they’re looking to buy products

when they’re looking to buy products when you’re looking to do anything they

when you’re looking to do anything they

when you’re looking to do anything they search ok and you want to be amongst the

search ok and you want to be amongst the

search ok and you want to be amongst the chintz but it’s not just being amongst

chintz but it’s not just being amongst

chintz but it’s not just being amongst the option being the best option that is

the option being the best option that is

the option being the best option that is business let’s talk about personal life

business let’s talk about personal life

business let’s talk about personal life okay you have a job you’re working but

okay you have a job you’re working but

okay you have a job you’re working but you want a skill you don’t want to

you want a skill you don’t want to

you want a skill you don’t want to remain on the same level you want to get

remain on the same level you want to get

remain on the same level you want to get you know an increase in your salary you

you know an increase in your salary you

you know an increase in your salary you want to get a promotion what do you have

want to get a promotion what do you have

want to get a promotion what do you have to leverage on what do you have to do

to leverage on what do you have to do

to leverage on what do you have to do it’s just a question of asking yourself

it’s just a question of asking yourself

it’s just a question of asking yourself what I’m doing where am I am i creating

what I’m doing where am I am i creating

what I’m doing where am I am i creating a vacuum if I’m actually where I am

a vacuum if I’m actually where I am

a vacuum if I’m actually where I am today to move on will there be anyone

today to move on will there be anyone

today to move on will there be anyone capable enough to replace me now if you

capable enough to replace me now if you

capable enough to replace me now if you if you’re not valuable you’re easily let

if you’re not valuable you’re easily let

if you’re not valuable you’re easily let go okay so over time I worked I worked

go okay so over time I worked I worked

go okay so over time I worked I worked as thought I said to myself if I had to

as thought I said to myself if I had to

as thought I said to myself if I had to skill I needed to create more value so

skill I needed to create more value so

skill I needed to create more value so if I’m here today and I need to move

if I’m here today and I need to move

if I’m here today and I need to move there I need to have enough on you to

there I need to have enough on you to

there I need to have enough on you to carry what is in front of me because

carry what is in front of me because

carry what is in front of me because when I go to people and tell them look I

when I go to people and tell them look I

when I go to people and tell them look I can do this I can do that and I don’t

can do this I can do that and I don’t

can do this I can do that and I don’t have fats to back it up I don’t have

have fats to back it up I don’t have

have fats to back it up I don’t have anything to prove that yes I can do it

anything to prove that yes I can do it

anything to prove that yes I can do it then I’m just telling stories so it’s

then I’m just telling stories so it’s

then I’m just telling stories so it’s important probably if it’s it doesn’t

important probably if it’s it doesn’t

important probably if it’s it doesn’t matter if it’s business it doesn’t

matter if it’s business it doesn’t

matter if it’s business it doesn’t matter if it’s personal life value is

matter if it’s personal life value is

matter if it’s personal life value is important okay and I’m I’m excited that

important okay and I’m I’m excited that

important okay and I’m I’m excited that you know a lot of people that have taken

you know a lot of people that have taken

you know a lot of people that have taken this opportunity to build creating more

this opportunity to build creating more

this opportunity to build creating more values you see companies today they’re

values you see companies today they’re

values you see companies today they’re selling they’re producing more products

selling they’re producing more products

selling they’re producing more products okay because they have understood the

okay because they have understood the

okay because they have understood the importance of creating values so I want

importance of creating values so I want

importance of creating values so I want you to ask yourself this question but

you to ask yourself this question but

you to ask yourself this question but what I’m doing today with where I’m at

what I’m doing today with where I’m at

what I’m doing today with where I’m at where I want to go tomorrow am i

where I want to go tomorrow am i

where I want to go tomorrow am i creating enough value am i creating a

creating enough value am i creating a

creating enough value am i creating a work of am I created a vacuum that only

work of am I created a vacuum that only

work of am I created a vacuum that only me can feel if I live here today would

me can feel if I live here today would

me can feel if I live here today would people miss me when people think about

people miss me when people think about

people miss me when people think about me when people say to themselves oh my

me when people say to themselves oh my

me when people say to themselves oh my goodness I wish she was here or I wish

goodness I wish she was here or I wish

goodness I wish she was here or I wish he was here that’s a question we need to

he was here that’s a question we need to

he was here that’s a question we need to ask ourselves Dave because if you’re

ask ourselves Dave because if you’re

ask ourselves Dave because if you’re living a life that has no substance if

living a life that has no substance if

living a life that has no substance if you live in a life and you’re not making

you live in a life and you’re not making

you live in a life and you’re not making any impact if you’re living a life and

any impact if you’re living a life and

any impact if you’re living a life and there’s nothing to show after you’re

there’s nothing to show after you’re

there’s nothing to show after you’re gone and it means that you just leave

gone and it means that you just leave

gone and it means that you just leave and

and

and nt life to think about it whatever you

nt life to think about it whatever you

nt life to think about it whatever you do wherever you go think about creating

do wherever you go think about creating

do wherever you go think about creating a rig big enough vacuum that only you

a rig big enough vacuum that only you

a rig big enough vacuum that only you can feel when you do that then people

can feel when you do that then people

can feel when you do that then people that you do to listen to you

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