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Stop and Think! A Solution doesn’t mean THE solution | Sherry Weesner | TEDxSugarLand


good morning we’re still morning today I

good morning we’re still morning today I want to remind you all that each one of

want to remind you all that each one of

want to remind you all that each one of us makes dozens and even hundreds of

us makes dozens and even hundreds of

us makes dozens and even hundreds of decisions every day we really act as if

decisions every day we really act as if

decisions every day we really act as if that’s almost inconsequential today I’d

that’s almost inconsequential today I’d

that’s almost inconsequential today I’d like you to consider that not only are

like you to consider that not only are

like you to consider that not only are your decisions important but that you

your decisions important but that you

your decisions important but that you can use better processes to think about

can use better processes to think about

can use better processes to think about how you make those decisions

how you make those decisions

how you make those decisions I think Ike has reminded us all how

I think Ike has reminded us all how

I think Ike has reminded us all how important our decisions are when you

important our decisions are when you

important our decisions are when you were preparing for Ike and trying to

were preparing for Ike and trying to

were preparing for Ike and trying to make sure that your children were safe

make sure that your children were safe

make sure that your children were safe during all the tornado warnings did you

during all the tornado warnings did you

during all the tornado warnings did you throw them in the closet and say stay

throw them in the closet and say stay

throw them in the closet and say stay there because it’s dangerous out of here

there because it’s dangerous out of here

there because it’s dangerous out of here or did you like a friend of mine get

or did you like a friend of mine get

or did you like a friend of mine get creative and create a mini movie theater

creative and create a mini movie theater

creative and create a mini movie theater in your powder room every day we make

in your powder room every day we make

in your powder room every day we make these small decisions but occasionally

these small decisions but occasionally

these small decisions but occasionally we have to make big decisions we decide

we have to make big decisions we decide

we have to make big decisions we decide where to live and we decide whether

where to live and we decide whether

where to live and we decide whether we’re gonna have children where we

we’re gonna have children where we

we’re gonna have children where we consider all the options and we try to

consider all the options and we try to

consider all the options and we try to think about the pros and cons but how

think about the pros and cons but how

think about the pros and cons but how many of you looked at the flood plain

many of you looked at the flood plain

many of you looked at the flood plain Maps before you picked where to live I

Maps before you picked where to live I

Maps before you picked where to live I can see who the engineers in the room

can see who the engineers in the room

can see who the engineers in the room are deciding on where to live is one of

are deciding on where to live is one of

are deciding on where to live is one of the most important decisions you can

the most important decisions you can

the most important decisions you can make it’s a big financial commitment and

make it’s a big financial commitment and

make it’s a big financial commitment and it has other qualities too but it’s

it has other qualities too but it’s

it has other qualities too but it’s really a big decision and what did you

really a big decision and what did you

really a big decision and what did you think about what did you think was

think about what did you think was

think about what did you think was important even big decisions like this

important even big decisions like this

important even big decisions like this rarely get the attention they deserve

rarely get the attention they deserve

rarely get the attention they deserve usually we think about what’s in front

usually we think about what’s in front

usually we think about what’s in front of us and we go with that we make a

of us and we go with that we make a

of us and we go with that we make a decision and move on quick decisions

decision and move on quick decisions

decision and move on quick decisions help us move through our daily life on a

help us move through our daily life on a

help us move through our daily life on a regular basis it works for us most of

regular basis it works for us most of

regular basis it works for us most of the time I’d like to ask you how would

the time I’d like to ask you how would

the time I’d like to ask you how would your life be different if when faced

your life be different if when faced

your life be different if when faced with the decision you stopped fought for

with the decision you stopped fought for

with the decision you stopped fought for a minute evaluated what the real

a minute evaluated what the real

a minute evaluated what the real question is and what the possible

question is and what the possible

question is and what the possible consequences might be before you came up

consequences might be before you came up

consequences might be before you came up with your choice by thinking of lots of

with your choice by thinking of lots of

with your choice by thinking of lots of options occasionally we get stuck in

options occasionally we get stuck in

options occasionally we get stuck in what society wants us to do our society

what society wants us to do our society

what society wants us to do our society encourages us

encourages us

encourages us to think short-term to think literally

to think short-term to think literally

to think short-term to think literally to to go forward to think quickly we

to to go forward to think quickly we

to to go forward to think quickly we start that in elementary school with

start that in elementary school with

start that in elementary school with multiple-choice tests followed by the

multiple-choice tests followed by the

multiple-choice tests followed by the fact that our whole corporate corporate

fact that our whole corporate corporate

fact that our whole corporate corporate system and our political world focuses

system and our political world focuses

system and our political world focuses on the very short-term and not on the

on the very short-term and not on the

on the very short-term and not on the long-term and not how things work so but

long-term and not how things work so but

long-term and not how things work so but while each one of us stays focused on

while each one of us stays focused on

while each one of us stays focused on the small problem in front of us we miss

the small problem in front of us we miss

the small problem in front of us we miss an infinite number of opportunities to

an infinite number of opportunities to

an infinite number of opportunities to make the better future to make better

make the better future to make better

make the better future to make better decisions each of us is capable of

decisions each of us is capable of

decisions each of us is capable of looking beyond the current moment of

looking beyond the current moment of

looking beyond the current moment of identifying the bigger picture of taking

identifying the bigger picture of taking

identifying the bigger picture of taking a different path and when we use our

a different path and when we use our

a different path and when we use our time and our skills to think outside the

time and our skills to think outside the

time and our skills to think outside the box to look holistically at the at the

box to look holistically at the at the

box to look holistically at the at the wait situation we begin to see new

wait situation we begin to see new

wait situation we begin to see new possibilities we see new choices and

possibilities we see new choices and

possibilities we see new choices and when we pay attention to those choices

when we pay attention to those choices

when we pay attention to those choices not only can we make a better decision

not only can we make a better decision

not only can we make a better decision today for the small item that we’re

today for the small item that we’re

today for the small item that we’re thinking about but we can also make a

thinking about but we can also make a

thinking about but we can also make a better decision for the future our

better decision for the future our

better decision for the future our inability to see the big picture is

inability to see the big picture is

inability to see the big picture is pretty obvious when we go through our

pretty obvious when we go through our

pretty obvious when we go through our daily life think about a trip to the

daily life think about a trip to the

daily life think about a trip to the mall where when you leave you tend to

mall where when you leave you tend to

mall where when you leave you tend to end up in a exit with 10 or 12 or 15

end up in a exit with 10 or 12 or 15

end up in a exit with 10 or 12 or 15 other cars all trying to turn left why

other cars all trying to turn left why

other cars all trying to turn left why are we all there I don’t know but I

are we all there I don’t know but I

are we all there I don’t know but I think it’s probably because we looked at

think it’s probably because we looked at

think it’s probably because we looked at the closest exit and headed that way

the closest exit and headed that way

the closest exit and headed that way we didn’t take three seconds to consider

we didn’t take three seconds to consider

we didn’t take three seconds to consider what our options were now but quick

what our options were now but quick

what our options were now but quick quick straight-line to the quick answer

quick straight-line to the quick answer

quick straight-line to the quick answer is sometimes the right way to go if

is sometimes the right way to go if

is sometimes the right way to go if there’s a drowning person or someone

there’s a drowning person or someone

there’s a drowning person or someone trapped in a house with the water rising

trapped in a house with the water rising

trapped in a house with the water rising the only question is how to get them out

the only question is how to get them out

the only question is how to get them out of the house as quickly as possible

of the house as quickly as possible

of the house as quickly as possible without putting yourself or anyone else

without putting yourself or anyone else

without putting yourself or anyone else in danger on the other hand many of us

in danger on the other hand many of us

in danger on the other hand many of us at work actually use processes to help

at work actually use processes to help

at work actually use processes to help us make better decisions with some of us

us make better decisions with some of us

us make better decisions with some of us use Design Thinking where we try to get

use Design Thinking where we try to get

use Design Thinking where we try to get rid of our assumptions and analyze

rid of our assumptions and analyze

rid of our assumptions and analyze what’s going on and figure out what the

what’s going on and figure out what the

what’s going on and figure out what the real question is before we use that

real question is before we use that

real question is before we use that information to brainstorm lots of

information to brainstorm lots of

information to brainstorm lots of possible options companies like Apple

possible options companies like Apple

possible options companies like Apple IKEA and Samsung used that kind of

IKEA and Samsung used that kind of

IKEA and Samsung used that kind of process every day in order to make the

process every day in order to make the

process every day in order to make the products we use all the time

products we use all the time

products we use all the time some companies or some organizations

some companies or some organizations

some companies or some organizations that we don’t think of as very creative

that we don’t think of as very creative

that we don’t think of as very creative are using these processes to try and do

are using these processes to try and do

are using these processes to try and do better

better

better so think about text dot who’s trying to

so think about text dot who’s trying to

so think about text dot who’s trying to improve the traffic through downtown

improve the traffic through downtown

improve the traffic through downtown they’re actually thinking outside their

they’re actually thinking outside their

they’re actually thinking outside their typical box they’re looking at changing

typical box they’re looking at changing

typical box they’re looking at changing the traffic flow to increase the number

the traffic flow to increase the number

the traffic flow to increase the number of cars that can get through without

of cars that can get through without

of cars that can get through without increasing the area too much then

increasing the area too much then

increasing the area too much then there’s communities that are using this

there’s communities that are using this

there’s communities that are using this kind of process to reinvent themselves

kind of process to reinvent themselves

kind of process to reinvent themselves think Detroit or Greensburg Kansas where

think Detroit or Greensburg Kansas where

think Detroit or Greensburg Kansas where in 2007 the tornado came through and

in 2007 the tornado came through and

in 2007 the tornado came through and destroyed 95% of all their buildings the

destroyed 95% of all their buildings the

destroyed 95% of all their buildings the big question that the day was would they

big question that the day was would they

big question that the day was would they rebuild but the townspeople held weekly

rebuild but the townspeople held weekly

rebuild but the townspeople held weekly tent meetings to consider their options

tent meetings to consider their options

tent meetings to consider their options they looked at the possibilities

they looked at the possibilities

they looked at the possibilities Greensburg has rebuilt as a green town

Greensburg has rebuilt as a green town

Greensburg has rebuilt as a green town it’s considered the greenest in America

it’s considered the greenest in America

it’s considered the greenest in America they have a sustainable comprehensive

they have a sustainable comprehensive

they have a sustainable comprehensive plan a mostly built most leads certified

plan a mostly built most leads certified

plan a mostly built most leads certified buildings per capita of anywhere in the

buildings per capita of anywhere in the

buildings per capita of anywhere in the world and a continuing recovery plan

world and a continuing recovery plan

world and a continuing recovery plan should Houston be using a similar

should Houston be using a similar

should Houston be using a similar process to figure out what we should do

process to figure out what we should do

process to figure out what we should do post Ike should we be advocating for a

post Ike should we be advocating for a

post Ike should we be advocating for a process where each one of us is part of

process where each one of us is part of

process where each one of us is part of the solution I’m sure you’ve all seen

the solution I’m sure you’ve all seen

the solution I’m sure you’ve all seen It’s a Wonderful Life with George Bailey

It’s a Wonderful Life with George Bailey

It’s a Wonderful Life with George Bailey where he thinks that he’s not an

where he thinks that he’s not an

where he thinks that he’s not an important person but he gets to see what

important person but he gets to see what

important person but he gets to see what life would be like without his fight

life would be like without his fight

life would be like without his fight without his operation in it he discovers

without his operation in it he discovers

without his operation in it he discovers that his actions have made a difference

that his actions have made a difference

that his actions have made a difference in in his town like George each of our

in in his town like George each of our

in in his town like George each of our decisions bounced around in the universe

decisions bounced around in the universe

decisions bounced around in the universe and they impact not only ourselves but

and they impact not only ourselves but

and they impact not only ourselves but also everyone else and like corporations

also everyone else and like corporations

also everyone else and like corporations we can use processes to help us think to

we can use processes to help us think to

we can use processes to help us think to help us do better in order to do that we

help us do better in order to do that we

help us do better in order to do that we need to create an environment where we

need to create an environment where we

need to create an environment where we can access all the information that’s

can access all the information that’s

can access all the information that’s around us good ideas are rarely like

around us good ideas are rarely like

around us good ideas are rarely like light bulbs it go in our head what we

light bulbs it go in our head what we

light bulbs it go in our head what we need to do is is pay attention to what’s

need to do is is pay attention to what’s

need to do is is pay attention to what’s going on around us our reliance on the

going on around us our reliance on the

going on around us our reliance on the Internet tends to reinforce our

Internet tends to reinforce our

Internet tends to reinforce our viewpoints and usually our friends are

viewpoints and usually our friends are

viewpoints and usually our friends are like-minded also when we hang around

like-minded also when we hang around

like-minded also when we hang around with like-minded people we don’t have a

with like-minded people we don’t have a

with like-minded people we don’t have a reason to question our assumptions

reason to question our assumptions

reason to question our assumptions question

question

question choices so in order to make sure that

choices so in order to make sure that

choices so in order to make sure that you don’t create an echo chamber in your

you don’t create an echo chamber in your

you don’t create an echo chamber in your head attend events like today where

head attend events like today where

head attend events like today where we’re all learning about new things and

we’re all learning about new things and

we’re all learning about new things and having things to think about read widely

having things to think about read widely

having things to think about read widely divergent views talk to people with

divergent views talk to people with

divergent views talk to people with different opinions watch educational

different opinions watch educational

different opinions watch educational television take classes attend cultural

television take classes attend cultural

television take classes attend cultural events all of these ideas and many more

events all of these ideas and many more

events all of these ideas and many more help to create the library of ideas in

help to create the library of ideas in

help to create the library of ideas in your head where you can see new

your head where you can see new

your head where you can see new consequences and new options and new

consequences and new options and new

consequences and new options and new choices I personally take a reading

choices I personally take a reading

choices I personally take a reading vacation every year where I read 10 or

vacation every year where I read 10 or

vacation every year where I read 10 or 15 books non-fiction take notes all at

15 books non-fiction take notes all at

15 books non-fiction take notes all at once in five to seven days and I just am

once in five to seven days and I just am

once in five to seven days and I just am amazed at the new connections and the

amazed at the new connections and the

amazed at the new connections and the new things I see good decision-making

new things I see good decision-making

new things I see good decision-making doesn’t have to take a long time next

doesn’t have to take a long time next

doesn’t have to take a long time next time you come across a question take a

time you come across a question take a

time you come across a question take a second and decide should you think more

second and decide should you think more

second and decide should you think more clearly about it

clearly about it

clearly about it don’t waste your time on everything

don’t waste your time on everything

don’t waste your time on everything focus on the things that can use some

focus on the things that can use some

focus on the things that can use some creativity if it’s an untied shoelace

creativity if it’s an untied shoelace

creativity if it’s an untied shoelace tie your shoe and get on with your run

tie your shoe and get on with your run

tie your shoe and get on with your run if it’s a quick trip to the mall look

if it’s a quick trip to the mall look

if it’s a quick trip to the mall look around and see what’s the best exit to

around and see what’s the best exit to

around and see what’s the best exit to take but if it’s a little more

take but if it’s a little more

take but if it’s a little more complicated take a few seconds or a few

complicated take a few seconds or a few

complicated take a few seconds or a few minutes to analyze it ask yourself a

minutes to analyze it ask yourself a

minutes to analyze it ask yourself a couple of quick questions what’s the

couple of quick questions what’s the

couple of quick questions what’s the real question what’s the actual

real question what’s the actual

real question what’s the actual situation who are the stakeholder and

situation who are the stakeholder and

situation who are the stakeholder and what are the resources then consider

what are the resources then consider

what are the resources then consider time how does time play into this will

time how does time play into this will

time how does time play into this will my question will my decision play out

my question will my decision play out

my question will my decision play out now how about in five minutes

now how about in five minutes

now how about in five minutes what about six months and then in ten

what about six months and then in ten

what about six months and then in ten years when you change your focus from

years when you change your focus from

years when you change your focus from the short-term to the bigger picture you

the short-term to the bigger picture you

the short-term to the bigger picture you begin to see new choices new options

begin to see new choices new options

begin to see new choices new options these options are important as you move

these options are important as you move

these options are important as you move forward they allow you to make better

forward they allow you to make better

forward they allow you to make better decisions our ability to impact the

decisions our ability to impact the

decisions our ability to impact the world is obvious and it happens every

world is obvious and it happens every

world is obvious and it happens every single day the next time you’re headed

single day the next time you’re headed

single day the next time you’re headed out to pick up your fourth grader at the

out to pick up your fourth grader at the

out to pick up your fourth grader at the local school consider a recent study for

local school consider a recent study for

local school consider a recent study for a local elementary school here in

a local elementary school here in

a local elementary school here in Houston the carpool line takes 30

Houston the carpool line takes 30

Houston the carpool line takes 30 minutes to clear but there are parents

minutes to clear but there are parents

minutes to clear but there are parents that arrive an hour and a half early

that arrive an hour and a half early

that arrive an hour and a half early in order to avoid sitting in the line

in order to avoid sitting in the line

in order to avoid sitting in the line they sit in their cars for 90 minutes

they sit in their cars for 90 minutes

they sit in their cars for 90 minutes with the engine running

with the engine running

with the engine running think about all the options they had

think about all the options they had

think about all the options they had they could have come and waited 30

they could have come and waited 30

they could have come and waited 30 minutes in line or showing up late and

minutes in line or showing up late and

minutes in line or showing up late and only waited 10 minutes they could have

only waited 10 minutes they could have

only waited 10 minutes they could have ridden their bikes with their kid to

ridden their bikes with their kid to

ridden their bikes with their kid to school or they could have walked or last

school or they could have walked or last

school or they could have walked or last of all they could have gone around the

of all they could have gone around the

of all they could have gone around the corner and met them where there isn’t a

corner and met them where there isn’t a

corner and met them where there isn’t a line at all I’m sure there’s even other

line at all I’m sure there’s even other

line at all I’m sure there’s even other options that I didn’t think of however

options that I didn’t think of however

options that I didn’t think of however each one of these options has an effect

each one of these options has an effect

each one of these options has an effect not only on your time your money but

not only on your time your money but

not only on your time your money but everyone’s health and air quality and

everyone’s health and air quality and

everyone’s health and air quality and has an impact on each person you your

has an impact on each person you your

has an impact on each person you your children their friends and your

children their friends and your

children their friends and your community at home now I know you’re all

community at home now I know you’re all

community at home now I know you’re all sitting there going oh yes she’s come up

sitting there going oh yes she’s come up

sitting there going oh yes she’s come up with that one one little everyday thing

with that one one little everyday thing

with that one one little everyday thing that makes a big difference or makes a

that makes a big difference or makes a

that makes a big difference or makes a small difference but in my life I don’t

small difference but in my life I don’t

small difference but in my life I don’t have time and the things I do don’t

have time and the things I do don’t

have time and the things I do don’t really make a difference I’d like you to

really make a difference I’d like you to

really make a difference I’d like you to suspend your skepticism and go with the

suspend your skepticism and go with the

suspend your skepticism and go with the ideas that’s in front of you

ideas that’s in front of you

ideas that’s in front of you you can create a process for yourself

you can create a process for yourself

you can create a process for yourself that will help you make better decisions

that will help you make better decisions

that will help you make better decisions they can help you be more think more

they can help you be more think more

they can help you be more think more globally and more creatively and your

globally and more creatively and your

globally and more creatively and your decisions matter if a small thing like

decisions matter if a small thing like

decisions matter if a small thing like like picking up your child at school can

like picking up your child at school can

like picking up your child at school can make a small difference in so many

make a small difference in so many

make a small difference in so many people’s lives and each of us makes

people’s lives and each of us makes

people’s lives and each of us makes dozens if not hundreds of decisions

dozens if not hundreds of decisions

dozens if not hundreds of decisions every day how would the world be

every day how would the world be

every day how would the world be different if you create a process for

different if you create a process for

different if you create a process for yourself where you stop think for a

yourself where you stop think for a

yourself where you stop think for a minute identify what the real question

minute identify what the real question

minute identify what the real question is and what the possible consequences

is and what the possible consequences

is and what the possible consequences are before you come up with lots of

are before you come up with lots of

are before you come up with lots of possible options and pick your path try

possible options and pick your path try

possible options and pick your path try it for six months I believe you will see

it for six months I believe you will see

it for six months I believe you will see both small and large changes in the

both small and large changes in the

both small and large changes in the world around you and I believe that you

world around you and I believe that you

world around you and I believe that you will make a bigger impact thank you

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