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Breaking the Stigma and Shame of Mental Illness | Kitty Westin | TEDxFargo


can you guess what all of these people

can you guess what all of these people have in common they all struggle with

have in common they all struggle with

have in common they all struggle with illnesses that don’t discriminate based

illnesses that don’t discriminate based

illnesses that don’t discriminate based on age sex ethnicity socioeconomic

on age sex ethnicity socioeconomic

on age sex ethnicity socioeconomic status occupation or political party

status occupation or political party

status occupation or political party they all struggle or have struggled with

they all struggle or have struggled with

they all struggle or have struggled with mental illness my daughter Anna had an

mental illness my daughter Anna had an

mental illness my daughter Anna had an eating disorder anorexia nervosa her

eating disorder anorexia nervosa her

eating disorder anorexia nervosa her battle started when she was 16 she had

battle started when she was 16 she had

battle started when she was 16 she had an illness that was widely misunderstood

an illness that was widely misunderstood

an illness that was widely misunderstood I remember the stunning lack of

I remember the stunning lack of

I remember the stunning lack of understanding by people that were trying

understanding by people that were trying

understanding by people that were trying to be helpful

to be helpful

to be helpful Kitty make her eat Wow

Kitty make her eat Wow

Kitty make her eat Wow thanks I didn’t think of that she was

thanks I didn’t think of that she was

thanks I didn’t think of that she was starving

tragically Anna died by suicide on

tragically Anna died by suicide on February 17 2000 he died of an illness

February 17 2000 he died of an illness

February 17 2000 he died of an illness that has the highest mortality rate of

that has the highest mortality rate of

that has the highest mortality rate of any mental illness when Anna died my

any mental illness when Anna died my

any mental illness when Anna died my world shattered and there’s really no

world shattered and there’s really no

world shattered and there’s really no getting away from the pain but I found

getting away from the pain but I found

getting away from the pain but I found my purpose and and I made a vow to work

my purpose and and I made a vow to work

my purpose and and I made a vow to work every single day to erase the stigma

every single day to erase the stigma

every single day to erase the stigma behind these illnesses and to make sure

behind these illnesses and to make sure

behind these illnesses and to make sure that other people with similar stories

that other people with similar stories

that other people with similar stories and differently I remember thinking

and differently I remember thinking

and differently I remember thinking early on how could this amazing spirited

early on how could this amazing spirited

early on how could this amazing spirited young woman go from fully alive to dead

young woman go from fully alive to dead

young woman go from fully alive to dead I began reading everything I could just

I began reading everything I could just

I began reading everything I could just trying to understand it I knew Anna

trying to understand it I knew Anna

trying to understand it I knew Anna didn’t choose to have an eating disorder

didn’t choose to have an eating disorder

didn’t choose to have an eating disorder any more than other people with mental

any more than other people with mental

any more than other people with mental illness choose to be sick but why is it

illness choose to be sick but why is it

illness choose to be sick but why is it so much stigma attached to mental

so much stigma attached to mental

so much stigma attached to mental illness when it’s not theirs

illness when it’s not theirs

illness when it’s not theirs stigma to have other diseases like

stigma to have other diseases like

stigma to have other diseases like cancer it’s not unusual to hear people

cancer it’s not unusual to hear people

cancer it’s not unusual to hear people with mental illness described as weak

with mental illness described as weak

with mental illness described as weak lazy violent unmotivated and conversely

lazy violent unmotivated and conversely

lazy violent unmotivated and conversely people battling cancer are described as

people battling cancer are described as

people battling cancer are described as strong brave determined and courageous

strong brave determined and courageous

strong brave determined and courageous it all has to do with what is perceived

it all has to do with what is perceived

it all has to do with what is perceived to be under a person’s control a huge

to be under a person’s control a huge

to be under a person’s control a huge misconception for all mental illness

misconception for all mental illness

misconception for all mental illness it’s been well documented that stigma is

it’s been well documented that stigma is

it’s been well documented that stigma is a deterrent to seeking treatment and

a deterrent to seeking treatment and

a deterrent to seeking treatment and untreated mental illness robs people of

untreated mental illness robs people of

untreated mental illness robs people of the very things that define quality of

the very things that define quality of

the very things that define quality of life so not long ago I met the

life so not long ago I met the

life so not long ago I met the grief-stricken parents of a young woman

grief-stricken parents of a young woman

grief-stricken parents of a young woman named Leslie Leslie went to a hospital

named Leslie Leslie went to a hospital

named Leslie Leslie went to a hospital complaining of stomach pain she admitted

complaining of stomach pain she admitted

complaining of stomach pain she admitted that she had bulimia and that she had

that she had bulimia and that she had

that she had bulimia and that she had benched rather than treating her

benched rather than treating her

benched rather than treating her symptoms the doctor said you did this to

symptoms the doctor said you did this to

symptoms the doctor said you did this to yourself you have to fix it yourself

yourself you have to fix it yourself

yourself you have to fix it yourself Leslie stomach burst she died she

Leslie stomach burst she died she

Leslie stomach burst she died she couldn’t fix it herself imagine taking

couldn’t fix it herself imagine taking

couldn’t fix it herself imagine taking your child to an emergency room with a

your child to an emergency room with a

your child to an emergency room with a broken leg and the doctors saying to you

broken leg and the doctors saying to you

broken leg and the doctors saying to you she has to fix it himself because he

she has to fix it himself because he

she has to fix it himself because he fell off his bike it’s his fault

fell off his bike it’s his fault

fell off his bike it’s his fault this is stigma at its worst

this is stigma at its worst

this is stigma at its worst this is stigma that discriminates and

this is stigma that discriminates and

this is stigma that discriminates and and and this the stigma is everywhere

and and this the stigma is everywhere

and and this the stigma is everywhere it’s in the media it’s in the words we

it’s in the media it’s in the words we

it’s in the media it’s in the words we use and it’s in our attitudes three out

use and it’s in our attitudes three out

use and it’s in our attitudes three out of four people that struggle with mental

of four people that struggle with mental

of four people that struggle with mental illness report feeling stigmatized have

illness report feeling stigmatized have

illness report feeling stigmatized have you ever called anybody crazy did you

you ever called anybody crazy did you

you ever called anybody crazy did you mean that in a compassionate way

I asked you to stop and think before

I asked you to stop and think before casually using those words because they

casually using those words because they

casually using those words because they are demeaning and they contribute to

are demeaning and they contribute to

are demeaning and they contribute to stigma I think people use those words

stigma I think people use those words

stigma I think people use those words because they don’t truly understand that

because they don’t truly understand that

because they don’t truly understand that mental illnesses are real illnesses

mental illnesses are real illnesses

mental illnesses are real illnesses brain chemistry contributes to brain

brain chemistry contributes to brain

brain chemistry contributes to brain illness research has proven that eating

illness research has proven that eating

illness research has proven that eating disorders just like schizophrenia and

disorders just like schizophrenia and

disorders just like schizophrenia and depression our brain based illnesses

depression our brain based illnesses

depression our brain based illnesses research has also shown us that one of

research has also shown us that one of

research has also shown us that one of the contributing factors to developing

the contributing factors to developing

the contributing factors to developing an eating disorder is a distillation of

an eating disorder is a distillation of

an eating disorder is a distillation of the inhibition and the reward center in

the inhibition and the reward center in

the inhibition and the reward center in the brain and the dopamine which is a

the brain and the dopamine which is a

the brain and the dopamine which is a neurotransmitter is altered in people

neurotransmitter is altered in people

neurotransmitter is altered in people that develop eating disorders this

that develop eating disorders this

that develop eating disorders this matters this is important because when

matters this is important because when

matters this is important because when we understand what’s going on in the

we understand what’s going on in the

we understand what’s going on in the brain we can develop truly effective

brain we can develop truly effective

brain we can develop truly effective treatments and save lives and even find

treatments and save lives and even find

treatments and save lives and even find cures and when people truly understand

cures and when people truly understand

cures and when people truly understand that mental illnesses aren’t choices

that mental illnesses aren’t choices

that mental illnesses aren’t choices then it reduces stigma and reducing

then it reduces stigma and reducing

then it reduces stigma and reducing stigma will save lives however much more

stigma will save lives however much more

stigma will save lives however much more money is necessary in order for us to

money is necessary in order for us to

money is necessary in order for us to fully understand mental illness so the

fully understand mental illness so the

fully understand mental illness so the National Institute of Health spent six

National Institute of Health spent six

National Institute of Health spent six hundred and seventy four million dollars

hundred and seventy four million dollars

hundred and seventy four million dollars on breast cancer research that’s good

on breast cancer research that’s good

on breast cancer research that’s good and only forty six million dollars on

and only forty six million dollars on

and only forty six million dollars on suicide research and the number of

suicide research and the number of

suicide research and the number of deaths from suicide is higher than the

deaths from suicide is higher than the

deaths from suicide is higher than the number of deaths from breast cancer

number of deaths from breast cancer

number of deaths from breast cancer to illustrate this some more have have

to illustrate this some more have have

to illustrate this some more have have you or ever participated in a breast

you or ever participated in a breast

you or ever participated in a breast cancer walk to raise awareness or funds

cancer walk to raise awareness or funds

cancer walk to raise awareness or funds have you or anybody you know ever

have you or anybody you know ever

have you or anybody you know ever participated in a walk or event for

participated in a walk or event for

participated in a walk or event for depression suicide addiction eating

depression suicide addiction eating

depression suicide addiction eating disorders or really any mental illness

disorders or really any mental illness

disorders or really any mental illness this lack of funding and fundraising is

this lack of funding and fundraising is

this lack of funding and fundraising is outrageous once we have more funding for

outrageous once we have more funding for

outrageous once we have more funding for mental illness we will be able to

mental illness we will be able to

mental illness we will be able to develop cures and we’ll be able to

develop cures and we’ll be able to

develop cures and we’ll be able to identify people early we’ll be able to

identify people early we’ll be able to

identify people early we’ll be able to identify high-risk behaviors and in the

identify high-risk behaviors and in the

identify high-risk behaviors and in the end I think the suicide rate will go way

end I think the suicide rate will go way

end I think the suicide rate will go way down so this is my mission when Anna

down so this is my mission when Anna

down so this is my mission when Anna died our family started a foundation to

died our family started a foundation to

died our family started a foundation to fight eating disorders it’s now called

fight eating disorders it’s now called

fight eating disorders it’s now called the Emily program foundation we opened

the Emily program foundation we opened

the Emily program foundation we opened the first residential treatment center

the first residential treatment center

the first residential treatment center for eating disorders in Minnesota I

for eating disorders in Minnesota I

for eating disorders in Minnesota I became an advocate and at the urging of

became an advocate and at the urging of

became an advocate and at the urging of Paul Wellstone I went to Washington DC

Paul Wellstone I went to Washington DC

Paul Wellstone I went to Washington DC and helped start the eating disorders

and helped start the eating disorders

and helped start the eating disorders coalition I have been traveling to DC

coalition I have been traveling to DC

coalition I have been traveling to DC for the past 17 years with thousands of

for the past 17 years with thousands of

for the past 17 years with thousands of advocates from all over the United

advocates from all over the United

advocates from all over the United States all fighting eating disorders we

States all fighting eating disorders we

States all fighting eating disorders we were working on a bill called the Anna

were working on a bill called the Anna

were working on a bill called the Anna Westin Act the purpose of the Anna

Westin Act the purpose of the Anna

Westin Act the purpose of the Anna Westin Act is to improve access to care

Westin Act is to improve access to care

Westin Act is to improve access to care and educate all healthcare professionals

and educate all healthcare professionals

and educate all healthcare professionals and the general public on eating

and the general public on eating

and the general public on eating disorders in late 2016 with the help of

disorders in late 2016 with the help of

disorders in late 2016 with the help of senator Amy Klobuchar we were able to

senator Amy Klobuchar we were able to

senator Amy Klobuchar we were able to get the language from the Anna Westin

get the language from the Anna Westin

get the language from the Anna Westin Act into the 21st century cures bill

Act into the 21st century cures bill

Act into the 21st century cures bill that President Obama signed into law on

that President Obama signed into law on

that President Obama signed into law on December 13th

December 13th

December 13th [Applause]

for the first time in history Congress

for the first time in history Congress passed eating disorder specific

passed eating disorder specific

passed eating disorder specific legislation I had the honor of being in

legislation I had the honor of being in

legislation I had the honor of being in the room when the President signed the

the room when the President signed the

the room when the President signed the legislation I thanked him for bringing

legislation I thanked him for bringing

legislation I thanked him for bringing hope and change so it started as a

hope and change so it started as a

hope and change so it started as a nearly unbearable tragedy 17 years ago

nearly unbearable tragedy 17 years ago

nearly unbearable tragedy 17 years ago ended with meaningful legislation that

ended with meaningful legislation that

ended with meaningful legislation that will help millions how did we do the

will help millions how did we do the

will help millions how did we do the seemingly impossible we said something’s

seemingly impossible we said something’s

seemingly impossible we said something’s got to change this leads me to what I am

got to change this leads me to what I am

got to change this leads me to what I am for we are all affected by mental

for we are all affected by mental

for we are all affected by mental illness and we all have to do our part

illness and we all have to do our part

illness and we all have to do our part to make it okay to talk about to seek

to make it okay to talk about to seek

to make it okay to talk about to seek treatment and to restore the peace and

treatment and to restore the peace and

treatment and to restore the peace and the health and the dignity and the hope

the health and the dignity and the hope

the health and the dignity and the hope for the millions of people who suffer

for the millions of people who suffer

for the millions of people who suffer what I’m asking you to do is talk listen

what I’m asking you to do is talk listen

what I’m asking you to do is talk listen and learn about mental illness we can

and learn about mental illness we can

and learn about mental illness we can all be advocates in our homes in our

all be advocates in our homes in our

all be advocates in our homes in our schools in our businesses and in our

schools in our businesses and in our

schools in our businesses and in our communities my family refused to hide in

communities my family refused to hide in

communities my family refused to hide in tuck and whispers about Anna’s illness

tuck and whispers about Anna’s illness

tuck and whispers about Anna’s illness and death we refuse to let stigma and

and death we refuse to let stigma and

and death we refuse to let stigma and shame silence us we held up mental

shame silence us we held up mental

shame silence us we held up mental illness is something to be discussed and

illness is something to be discussed and

illness is something to be discussed and treated not whispered about shamed or

treated not whispered about shamed or

treated not whispered about shamed or made fun of in these troubled times what

made fun of in these troubled times what

made fun of in these troubled times what are you for I challenge you to find your

are you for I challenge you to find your

are you for I challenge you to find your passion and use your voice join me stand

passion and use your voice join me stand

passion and use your voice join me stand up to make stigma a thing of the past or

up to make stigma a thing of the past or

up to make stigma a thing of the past or join a cause that’s important to you

join a cause that’s important to you

join a cause that’s important to you because the truth is there is no hope

because the truth is there is no hope

because the truth is there is no hope without action thank you

without action thank you

without action thank you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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