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La relación más importante de tu vida | Mario Campos | TEDxTlalpan


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today with you to talk about the

most important relationship they have in

his life

the first they see when they wake up

they spend more time with the one they see

before sleeping I’m sure you already

You know who I’m talking about on your phone

cell phone

they are not the only ones who have this

relationship

a study that the agency developed

nielsen united states in 2006 says

that the American and probably

we have more than one bag

they spent 10 hours with 40 minutes 10 hours

with 40 minutes a day in front of a

screen either your screen

cellular the screen of the tablet or the

smart television screen

what do you have in your house

but there are more who have taken this

subject to another scale in Japan

example is a fact that surprised me

much more than 90 percent of the

cell phones 95 percent of the

Cell phones are waterproof because

What is the logic when you see the

advertisement that is waterproof

good because a significant percentage

of the population gets to bathe with

them so if someone is thinking

Take your relationship to a higher level

well there will be that is not the first person

that makes

and the big question is why do we have

this close relationship so close

with cell phones because

when we forget in the house we have

this anxiety this addiction we have

to the phone to know what happened

while I was connected and there is a

explanation of why this happens

addiction has to do with practices

that has even developed the industry

of technology and that we see today

natural way to those that we have already

used and are part of our

everydayness for example stimuli

permanent we all know here is

feeling that after the best

of this talk or this morning

having been gathered here the

feeling that there is again what

past what information has come to me

that personal messages Add to that

in addition the constant gratification

these social networks are built

in such a way that every time you

you post a picture every time you write it is

a comment an article

You are watching the little heart of the

jcc of the reaction and time it causes

with the last thing I put on and

immediate reward what I am

generating and adding of course the

endless conversation

those of us here are perhaps the

last generation that still the

conversations had a hello and a

goodbye at the end

how many chats do we have at this moment

open any other that is here

we better know when the

hello conversation here happened to you and

Now we are connected here and that

conversation is never ending

they are conversations that you better left

frozen two days and a day 2 as you

he said because at the same time he has the

conversation with your friends

of the conversation with your family with

those of work with those of jobs in

the boss who is actually the good group

we are constantly these

stimuli that have us connected by

what because we are so dependent

because we are so dependent on the

cell because it has become that we

solves a good part of our life is

the compass for those who do not install us

the orientation chip

some will say that the bulb asked that

the chip

we depend on the browser to know

how to get out of here how to get to the

house in our travel people where

we make the plans of our

vacation we are buying the ticket

our camera our directory

probably by means of the last

phone or the latest phones that

I learned are those of my friends from the

secondary where of course no longer

they live there but we no longer have registration

of nothing else because we are all

depending on that large space that

our portfolio our agenda

our information center and what

good that we live in a moment like

East

I know

but of course we bring these

devices in the bag that we

allow us to create that allow us

connect with very valuable people

I thank life for the opportunity to

live in this time but there is something that

we have to say there is something that also

we have to recognize and this is that this life

that we are living today

brings a cost brings a price and that

price we have to be aware and

the price at least I think so and what

I share with you is that we have

lost control over where we put

our attention and that has

very important implications there is a

author that what he says and the concept to

I love them are those that when

you say obvious yes obvious then

decorative

but it’s obvious since you see it and you say

clear is that it describes perfectly is

as if he saw my soul when he writes

because what this author says is that

we are living in a state of

permanent intermittent attention that is

that today these three minutes flipping

to see a person but suddenly hit

until the cell phone you dedicated another 40

seconds and then we started reading a

article with wheat new mail and what

that answered the mail you got the

notice that someone has updated their

status on facebook and we are jumping

constantly from one thing to the other and

this has important implications in

different planes has it for example

personal life

a study since 2012 when better

our dependence not even so

big as we can now have

some that it says that speaks in first

person shows from this study the

2012 when you put a phone

on the table

just on the table while they take

a coffee with a person affects the

quality of the conversation you have

in what influences intimacy in the

empathy in how much you open yourself because if

you were about to tell the best

is that even your life is not so successful

like the answer on facebook or that

you have a problem or something does not make you

You feel good when you’re going to

tell the other person turned to see your

phone to see what had happened and the

message that you have maybe something more

interesting or someone more important or

something that was

when that deserves your attention in that

moment and the conversation is no longer the

what could it have been and how it has

implications on the personal plane has

implications in the plane

scola on the professional level in

jobs four companies do not have anymore

this center policy the board leaves

your phone a little basket to center or

we see it in yoga classes classes already

more than 10 years ago and I believe that

all of us who have taught

we know that if travel exists

astral we all know when in some

moment in a class to someone suddenly

Once you have a suitable camera for that

there could feed the would see the

exact moment in which the soul is

detaches and goes to another place

the other day a student told me and with

all truth said no teacher is not a

astral travel

it’s not that I do not pay attention to you it ‘s way

energy saving

Well, if before battle we go with the

astral travel with saving mode

Energy

now we battle against the phone

against the constant look against

permanent conversation they have with

the boyfriend with the girlfriend with the parents or

with friends with anyone who is

through his cell phone and that

has implications

I’m not a technology critic

but I do recognize and the evidence and

this and experience shows that the

long-term memory is lost that you

you agree to the best in the immediate but

three later you do not remember what

that you saw why they were doing

so many things not time that does not hold is

equal or not deepens is the same but I’m going

more I even think that this we ‘re

living has implications as a country

I dedicate myself to the news of

many years and something that seen and that is

impressive is the way in which

information flows and it is normal that

this happens because today while

we are here we can reach the

notification that there was an attack on

somewhere in the world and we can go out to

the best at night is no longer the

attack without making scandal of

corruption that took us by surprise and

when we were more outraged

tomorrow we learned that a shootout

I do not know where and we’re already in that and this

it is important as a country because it does not

we are setting

attention on a particular topic

what I want to raise in this

conversation is that we have to review

what is it that matters to what we are going to

devote our minutes to what we’re going

to dedicate our eyes

what are we going to dedicate our

listen because it seems it seems

in the time that we are living

the only thing that matters is actually

only the latest the most recent that

we got the last message the last

conversation

the last news the last thing he said

The teacher

it’s as if suddenly in this world that

we are living in real time

permanently connected all

We lived only in the present not

in the past not in the future thinking

where we want to go and not only in the

present that we are at that moment

receiving through that stimulus

what we do before this we are

living

the other day one of these networks fell

it was blessed because I could not connect and

I met wonderful people in my house

they say they are my family there are places where

that what they propose that there is no connection

to the internet and then they challenge to

what practices that the person you have

opposite there are places where they are already

putting lanes for who is

connected and lanes for who’s going

looking forward so you do not

collide with each other but the truth is

that there is not a single gadget

there is not a single application that we go

to solve this problem

this problem that has to do with the

technology and how we relate to

she is not going to solve the

technology what we have to do is

recover attention return to the origin

and what is the origin the origin is where

we decide where we put

our worries

our looks our heart and

Our thinking

technology can not define the

rules of its use

technology does not define itself

social networking companies

wonderful good I’m there I

they love they will not tell us when

disconnect us ico

not because the incentive of these

platforms is that we are all the

time and the longer we are

connected better for them it’s fine

it’s a world it’s a business but we have

than to regain control over our

time management we have done it before

throughout the history of the

humanity we have done it before if

they invented weapons but that’s not

it means that we all pay for a gun

we established rules of who can and

when it can and where it is used and where it is not

they are used up to the physical being and have

rules

today there are museums where you can not

use because we know is very father

the photo but there are times to do it and

less to not be

the drones we are seeing in the

discussion in the world to establish

rules of if you have to register

because that can fly us without invasion

to privacy or not because the

technology

there it is but we have to be

those that we put the conditions of the

game

that’s why the invitation is to

let’s build new rules that

let’s build new rules of use in

not by decree, not because the

restaurant imposes it not because in the

Office are prohibited from connecting to your network

social but because it’s a matter

conscious of deliberate vélez of

social agreement in the dynamics in the

spaces in families in couples

let’s go to the topic

also in the professional field for

to be more productive and not lose

our time suddenly in these things

or to learn better and take advantage

of all the potential that we have in the

knowledge apparatus but that a

Sometimes we ourselves are

wasting and learning also from

this issue as a country because we can not

live in a country that lived

permanently in a succession of

scandals because that is not going to

transform anything we are

living

we have the challenge of maintaining attention

on a subject the time that is

necessary until there are consequences

of what we are seeing

there are three things we can do in this

moment

the first that is a topic of choice

what we decided to do

We decided that technology

determine or decide to determine what

we do with technology

it’s a matter of will is going to cost us

I work because I like to be

connected to me happened to me and probably

you too

-It is a matter of developing new

habits new routines new ways of

interaction

I am sure that this I am

proposing it will cost us a lot

work that we recover our attention

is one of the biggest challenges of the

epoch that we are living but

I am also sure that this effort

will be worth

thank you very much

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