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“Come farla finita col femminismo” | Veronica Benini | TEDxAlessandria


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when I was a child, the teacher brought in

children in two rows male right nor

left female or vice versa

at a certain point we see that I quarreled

with a child I threw a kick

in the stand that child was put to

crying the gym stops the row

In my opinion, others understand less

who kicked it was unkind

to the other child and of course me

he punishes but what he does he said to veronica

You kicked but the kicks are from

males you see that you want to be one

male and has put in the middle of the line

amused by the males

I have been humiliated in an atrocious manner and

I did not tell anything at home

Today this thing troubles me a lot

my teacher has been vehicles of

sterotype unconscious stereotypes that I

I call you did it for a good purpose

to punish me but it is not punished because I have

kicked the other human being

she punished me because according to you what

from males

this made me think that from

little we have two religions

the teacher and our parents and them

they form our vision of the world

through them

we have no way of doing ours

they are them through their actions

their talk their way to punish us

make sure we get an idea for

luck to parents of my parents

they played with bow and arrows on the

trees also with dolls so had

a much more varied education than not

the stereotyped one I received a

school, but this thing made me

reflect to qom we educate our own

little girls according to the concepts of

kindness of cleaning to be nice

not to be aggressive and these

concepts are also perpetrated by the

tales if you think about it

the stories I had my age I have

40 years was that there was this

beautiful beautiful princess in fashion

absurd at one point there was a

prince saved her and lived happily there

princess did nothing

sometimes he slept even until the 50s

the only way to survive for one

It was the marriage or you sposavi

paris of the you were nun but it is not

that there were other options

so we were educated as products from

place products to be placed at their best

on the market what you do when you have to

to place well is a product at the do

nice to do it attractive to do a good

to find a good party and then

we were nice to be super

beautiful kind young people always young and

if possible, virgins were not there

doubts about the fatherhood of the Serbian children

was a burden on your family and

however the concept of single repeat

there was no independence is not

an option

mass marketing that was born big

way the same years in the 50s

so he played on these three concepts

youth beauty fertility and do the

moms

marketing is still based on these

concepts that go through the

frustration

ok above all but there is a kind of

antagonism among the advertisements that there

they want all sexy make us see sexy

and the fact that we still have to

be serious 1 series that finds

It’s okay if you have a lot of partners

it’s not good you’re a little serious try a

say a dinner you’ve had maybe one

fifty sexual partners

consenting will look at you a bit badly

ok I try it often it’s funny but this

what makes me think I ‘ve had so many

partner makes me a bad person one

bad professional or would do with me

a bad mother

I do not believe however the world wants us

so it’s a theory that I called it

fear from female infinity and this

theory consists in the fact that

biologically physiologically a man

he may then have a certain number

of times in a day while one

woman may have affected the rasmi itself

leverage if he finds then having them alone in

company, etc.

and this makes the world of

completely odd sexuality between

men and women

this fact is in my opinion that in the

history we have been very limited

for our sexual aspects and it shows

still in many religions

so we are still dominated by the fact of

have the three key concepts of youth

and above all beauty for the car

modern marketing even if the world

in the meantime it has changed but we do not have it

it matters nothing because we have grown up

with those symbols

we know that we are much more than one

body but we still want the body

perfect

now I’ll tell you the trial costume not

we know it exists for us but we work

all year in the gym with diets

for those fifteen days of vacation

yet the year to 365 days and not

we work our body to be

healthy and healthy all year round no

trial costume is the concept that does not me

returns

now I am a pro at the age of 29

she was a politically correct graduate

I had a fixed -term contract

I got married he had a loft of my own

that I wanted a child now a certain

precisely life and bully happen

of things and I could not have the

child for a variety of reasons then

my plan politically

correct boxes has collapsed

I thought my life was over

because I had a precise plan that

but another time two years later

launched a start up was single and

He lived in a van

because my plan foresaw that I

I did not have to spend for totals in

rent, however, after years of boxes

I bought politically correct

started to design mine

boxes and in my boxes go to

live a van for two years and a

right choice to do without thinking about what

others would have said and that happens

when you draw the two boxes you start

to live according to what you want

really do and not what you are for

has been indoctrinated to do things happen

beautiful

I have succeeded thanks to the heels e

see what the heels have to do with everything

this centering a lot because I in the

I use my work as an instrument of

empowerment this thing here

in practice I put something together

very frivolous like that of a heel

that everyone thinks it’s a habit with

equal opportunities and is an instrument

physiological empowerment now I do not know if

there are women in the hall who use heels

and if I asked how you feel

by condemning facts, you know how to answer me

how you feel powerful power is there

very specific reason why a woman is

he feels power when he puts a pair of

heels but let’s start from a distance

men have on average 11 events

and reptiles a day

women do not because we have an organ

their external interior honor so much

so much confidence that they give you names

there are a lot of adjectives also in

many languages ​​there is no 6 badass balls

ilha de cui skype boskov hoeness

etc. e

badly it is also said to women you are one

woman with balls

now I honestly do not want them and not

I’d also like that there are six of me

It was a great chuene entrusting so

even then we do not connect

this thing of manly power with the

career and the power men

excessive that happens however when one

woman puts on her heels

change the posture you know that with i

heels to the most breasts plus buttocks

ok but because we have to straighten out

have a lumbar crush this

lombardi crushing what does brings the

sit backwards, however, doing so

our member moves about 4 cm

backwards and this creates one thing

very particular on a physiological level

we feel that we have a member

because the lips open slightly

and this feeling makes us enter the same

dynamic sex power career of the

men but with an attribute let me

feminine and an ager an accessory

feminine because when women are

come in mass to work you are

masculinized in the look with the suit

trousers in acting with the glue

aggression because man is being

human dominates the world because the

ability to adapt now centuries of

male domination in the world of

work had made the world of work

from the male dynamics the woman when

arrived that he did

Well he said I fit and got confused

masculinity with so are

professional so do not go and tell

a recent graduate not to go to one

talk in trouser suit why

she looks like that because only this way

he feels he is professional

now the problem is that you will tell me

Now yes, but I have the cabbage

put on your heels to feel me pussy for

feel power

no is an expedient an exercise if you

you feel bad an endless morning i

heels you feel a pussy go and conquer

the world and you can do it too

removing them because it is an exercise

ok in 2017

we no longer need to get married for

survive we are independent we are

our

now the marketing is continuous

hammering on the usual concepts must

be young and beautiful pussy you’re fat

you’re ugly, you’re old, you know

I’m fat ugly and old honestly

we can take back our image

ok and there is no prince we are

Prince

now there are so many leaders now

they begin to talk has become almost

a fashion win a prize weil and makes the

feminist and fashion talk but not

we can leave the leaders alone

carry on this cause the idea is

this the idea this they say that the

revolutions are not done on the keyboards

now I went to the square eight

March there were very few people for that

which is really the feminist cause

cause of the woman the feminist word

a bit of sanders the revolutions themselves

they can do in the keyboards the idea is

this company progresses for the average

not for the peaks that can be

speaker it’s good that they are there

because they tell us something is changing

something moves there they listen to us

let’s hear but we are millions and

we all have a cell phone all

how many we have an influence in our

entourage and everyone we can go

to tell a brand that advertising that

is doing and using the image of the

woman who was doing at that moment

with that campaign we do not like it

go there to treat them badly I do not say

to be active to become activists

digital constructively

so we can also hire women

we can promote virtuous campaigns

go and protest in the countryside that

we do not like them and share stories

because he shares a little story of

a friend who maybe launched herself in

own had this idea changed life

among the hundreds of friends we have

maybe

the person seeing that sharing

that one’s own history can have

that click on the head that makes you think

cabbage is right maybe I can do it

me too and can start a new one

path alone then sharing

networks are important do not think of

be small do not think that you do not have

the power to boycott a brand for

what I talk about average for what

I talk about small actions and for what

I speak that we are truly millions and one

click can make the difference can do

to click in the head of another I

I am a digital activist for 11 years e

I get so many letters so I know that

it works

do not leave us alone, however, each of us

he can do a very small thing and he has

sense to do it and it’s never small there

he wants courage, above all

constancy because we are all good

on March 8th all but on March 8th one

time a year and we are fighting for the

our rights to overthrow the

stereotypes for too many centuries

so we are millions

we are the market and the market

we can decide it then

tell each other share created

Sparks

you were and I declare the world to ours

image and likeness for us

we are millions whose thanks

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