today I get the opportunity to share with you one of the greatest
with you one of the greatest
with you one of the greatest technologies that the world knows but
technologies that the world knows but
technologies that the world knows but before that I want to share two stories
before that I want to share two stories
before that I want to share two stories and ask you what would you do in these
and ask you what would you do in these
and ask you what would you do in these situations the first is a story of Joe
situations the first is a story of Joe
situations the first is a story of Joe as a principal in the early 2000s and
as a principal in the early 2000s and
as a principal in the early 2000s and Joel was that kind of student who no
Joel was that kind of student who no
Joel was that kind of student who no matter what he did it tended not to turn
matter what he did it tended not to turn
matter what he did it tended not to turn out so well he spent more time with me
out so well he spent more time with me
out so well he spent more time with me than he did in the classroom not only
than he did in the classroom not only
than he did in the classroom not only that but I got to know his mom very well
that but I got to know his mom very well
that but I got to know his mom very well for many different reasons
for many different reasons
for many different reasons I wouldn’t visit him at his house he’s a
I wouldn’t visit him at his house he’s a
I wouldn’t visit him at his house he’s a kind of kid who would do the wrong thing
kind of kid who would do the wrong thing
kind of kid who would do the wrong thing but actually would make other people do
but actually would make other people do
but actually would make other people do the wrong thing and they’d have no idea
the wrong thing and they’d have no idea
the wrong thing and they’d have no idea while they’re doing it probably some of
while they’re doing it probably some of
while they’re doing it probably some of you are sitting the crowd that can do
you are sitting the crowd that can do
you are sitting the crowd that can do that two things came to a climax if you
that two things came to a climax if you
that two things came to a climax if you would it was I believe it was the spring
would it was I believe it was the spring
would it was I believe it was the spring of 2007 Jonah’s mom and my compact
of 2007 Jonah’s mom and my compact
of 2007 Jonah’s mom and my compact packed middle school office and we’re
packed middle school office and we’re
packed middle school office and we’re talking about something I’m like how can
talking about something I’m like how can
talking about something I’m like how can I get to a better resolution what can go
I get to a better resolution what can go
I get to a better resolution what can go on how can things work and all of a
on how can things work and all of a
on how can things work and all of a sudden things are starting to ask elite
sudden things are starting to ask elite
sudden things are starting to ask elite they’re getting bigger and bigger and
they’re getting bigger and bigger and
they’re getting bigger and bigger and Joe stands up and I can see his mom
Joe stands up and I can see his mom
Joe stands up and I can see his mom she’s cheering Joe says mr. Sadoff
she’s cheering Joe says mr. Sadoff
she’s cheering Joe says mr. Sadoff at least he said mister when you die I
at least he said mister when you die I
at least he said mister when you die I am gonna piss on Your Grave well come
am gonna piss on Your Grave well come
am gonna piss on Your Grave well come back to that story
let’s go back maybe about seven eight
let’s go back maybe about seven eight nine ten years earlier as my wife and I
nine ten years earlier as my wife and I
nine ten years earlier as my wife and I brought home our first child this is
brought home our first child this is
brought home our first child this is going to be about one of the most
going to be about one of the most
going to be about one of the most arduous hateful types of tasks that
arduous hateful types of tasks that
arduous hateful types of tasks that parents have to do and it’s called
parents have to do and it’s called
parents have to do and it’s called washing bottles so you haven’t done it
washing bottles so you haven’t done it
washing bottles so you haven’t done it before it’s a lot I came home from
before it’s a lot I came home from
before it’s a lot I came home from paternity I was I had paternity leave a
paternity I was I had paternity leave a
paternity I was I had paternity leave a little bit went back was teaching came
little bit went back was teaching came
little bit went back was teaching came back five o’clock as I walk in my wife
back five o’clock as I walk in my wife
back five o’clock as I walk in my wife says to me hey Aaron did you wash the
says to me hey Aaron did you wash the
says to me hey Aaron did you wash the bottles and I said to her you know what
bottles and I said to her you know what
bottles and I said to her you know what I haven’t even taken my shoes off I
I haven’t even taken my shoes off I
I haven’t even taken my shoes off I don’t even know if I’ve taken a breath
don’t even know if I’ve taken a breath
don’t even know if I’ve taken a breath yet you’ve been here all day what did
yet you’ve been here all day what did
yet you’ve been here all day what did you do well needless to say things got a
you do well needless to say things got a
you do well needless to say things got a little bit tense we’ve been married for
little bit tense we’ve been married for
little bit tense we’ve been married for 22 years so that’s cool she oversaw some
22 years so that’s cool she oversaw some
22 years so that’s cool she oversaw some things but I did learn by using this
things but I did learn by using this
things but I did learn by using this technology so what is this technology
technology so what is this technology
technology so what is this technology that I’m going to talk about first off I
that I’m going to talk about first off I
that I’m going to talk about first off I wanted to find technology i defined
wanted to find technology i defined
wanted to find technology i defined technology as anything that makes us
technology as anything that makes us
technology as anything that makes us more efficient and effective in anything
more efficient and effective in anything
more efficient and effective in anything being a relationship be it in a job a
being a relationship be it in a job a
being a relationship be it in a job a hobby anything anything that makes you
hobby anything anything that makes you
hobby anything anything that makes you more efficient and effective now this
more efficient and effective now this
more efficient and effective now this technology I’m going to share with you
technology I’m going to share with you
technology I’m going to share with you you don’t plug in it’s not on internet
you don’t plug in it’s not on internet
you don’t plug in it’s not on internet it doesn’t it’s not a device not even
it doesn’t it’s not a device not even
it doesn’t it’s not a device not even idea this technology is a group of
idea this technology is a group of
idea this technology is a group of emotions that I call happiness now
emotions that I call happiness now
emotions that I call happiness now happiness happiness is a group of
happiness happiness is a group of
happiness happiness is a group of emotions as positive psychology
emotions as positive psychology
emotions as positive psychology researcher and happiness guru shawn
researcher and happiness guru shawn
researcher and happiness guru shawn Achor would say is being in a positive
Achor would say is being in a positive
Achor would say is being in a positive emotional state or as ancient Greeks
emotional state or as ancient Greeks
emotional state or as ancient Greeks would say that joy one feels striving to
would say that joy one feels striving to
would say that joy one feels striving to restore potential happiness is not just
restore potential happiness is not just
restore potential happiness is not just about pleasure happiness is a whole
about pleasure happiness is a whole
about pleasure happiness is a whole bunch of different emotions including aw
bunch of different emotions including aw
bunch of different emotions including aw and confidence and gratitude and
and confidence and gratitude and
and confidence and gratitude and inspiration and hope just to name a few
inspiration and hope just to name a few
inspiration and hope just to name a few so how does one leverage this idea of
so how does one leverage this idea of
so how does one leverage this idea of using happiness to make our lives more
using happiness to make our lives more
using happiness to make our lives more efficient and effective here’s a three
efficient and effective here’s a three
efficient and effective here’s a three keys that I’m going to talk about and
keys that I’m going to talk about and
keys that I’m going to talk about and that is number one judge good as Joe had
that is number one judge good as Joe had
that is number one judge good as Joe had said and by the way it wasn’t that Joel
said and by the way it wasn’t that Joel
said and by the way it wasn’t that Joel that I dealt with earlier second one is
that I dealt with earlier second one is
that I dealt with earlier second one is patience and the third one is get two
patience and the third one is get two
patience and the third one is get two now before I get into utilizing and
now before I get into utilizing and
now before I get into utilizing and sharing you a little bit of what I have
sharing you a little bit of what I have
sharing you a little bit of what I have learned about how to implement these
learned about how to implement these
learned about how to implement these type these keys and using happiness
type these keys and using happiness
type these keys and using happiness I think with any time that we do
I think with any time that we do
I think with any time that we do anything scientific people need to buy
anything scientific people need to buy
anything scientific people need to buy in so what we’re gonna do right now
in so what we’re gonna do right now
in so what we’re gonna do right now now we don’t have as much time as I’d
now we don’t have as much time as I’d
now we don’t have as much time as I’d like but you guys look like a very very
like but you guys look like a very very
like but you guys look like a very very good group out there and I think you’re
good group out there and I think you’re
good group out there and I think you’re smart actually I know you are we’re
smart actually I know you are we’re
smart actually I know you are we’re gonna do a quick experiment that’s done
gonna do a quick experiment that’s done
gonna do a quick experiment that’s done many different times what I want you to
many different times what I want you to
many different times what I want you to do is look at the person next to you if
do is look at the person next to you if
do is look at the person next to you if not next to you behind you do that
not next to you behind you do that
not next to you behind you do that please you got a few minutes looking at
please you got a few minutes looking at
please you got a few minutes looking at them not that a harmony farmersonly.com
them not that a harmony farmersonly.com
them not that a harmony farmersonly.com thing lighten up and by the way that’s
thing lighten up and by the way that’s
thing lighten up and by the way that’s my wife okay so alright so I want you to
my wife okay so alright so I want you to
my wife okay so alright so I want you to look at each other in the ice it’s gonna
look at each other in the ice it’s gonna
look at each other in the ice it’s gonna be a little awkward okay if you are a
be a little awkward okay if you are a
be a little awkward okay if you are a letter a you’re a person if you are on
letter a you’re a person if you are on
letter a you’re a person if you are on this side or in front so you’re eight if
this side or in front so you’re eight if
this side or in front so you’re eight if you’re on this side or in back you’re B
you’re on this side or in back you’re B
you’re on this side or in back you’re B now if you’re a when I count to three I
now if you’re a when I count to three I
now if you’re a when I count to three I want you to smile if you’re B I want you
want you to smile if you’re B I want you
want you to smile if you’re B I want you to have a straight face that’s it got it
to have a straight face that’s it got it
to have a straight face that’s it got it a czar gonna smile B’s we’ll start
a czar gonna smile B’s we’ll start
a czar gonna smile B’s we’ll start straight face okay here we go one two
straight face okay here we go one two
straight face okay here we go one two three all right all right chaos all
three all right all right chaos all
three all right all right chaos all ready experiment has gone absolutely as
ready experiment has gone absolutely as
ready experiment has gone absolutely as planned see what you’ve realized here is
planned see what you’ve realized here is
planned see what you’ve realized here is this has done many different times
this has done many different times
this has done many different times you’ve probably heard it where somebody
you’ve probably heard it where somebody
you’ve probably heard it where somebody says keep this face or keep that face I
says keep this face or keep that face I
says keep this face or keep that face I didn’t tell you to keep anything I told
didn’t tell you to keep anything I told
didn’t tell you to keep anything I told you to look at each other I didn’t say
you to look at each other I didn’t say
you to look at each other I didn’t say the person with a straight face keep a
the person with a straight face keep a
the person with a straight face keep a straight face I didn’t say the person
straight face I didn’t say the person
straight face I didn’t say the person with a smile smile keep a smile we are
with a smile smile keep a smile we are
with a smile smile keep a smile we are biologically built to be happy it’s just
biologically built to be happy it’s just
biologically built to be happy it’s just it’s been beat out of us over years
it’s been beat out of us over years
it’s been beat out of us over years social media our leadership the news
social media our leadership the news
social media our leadership the news friends caves which is citizens against
friends caves which is citizens against
friends caves which is citizens against virtually everything it’s been beat out
virtually everything it’s been beat out
virtually everything it’s been beat out of us but we are biologically wired to
of us but we are biologically wired to
of us but we are biologically wired to be happy remember that the second thing
be happy remember that the second thing
be happy remember that the second thing now that we did an experiment let’s look
now that we did an experiment let’s look
now that we did an experiment let’s look at some data first piece of data comes
at some data first piece of data comes
at some data first piece of data comes from a very informational source
from a very informational source
from a very informational source this source is the original fake news
this source is the original fake news
this source is the original fake news now of all the research I believe this
now of all the research I believe this
now of all the research I believe this one is 100% true and this one is in 1997
one is 100% true and this one is in 1997
one is 100% true and this one is in 1997 in January they came out with some
in January they came out with some
in January they came out with some earth-shattering data that said 100% of
earth-shattering data that said 100% of
earth-shattering data that said 100% of the people will die from mortality and I
the people will die from mortality and I
the people will die from mortality and I venture to say if we look at that data
venture to say if we look at that data
venture to say if we look at that data today it would be the same the key here
today it would be the same the key here
today it would be the same the key here is people we are going to die it’s not
is people we are going to die it’s not
is people we are going to die it’s not if it’s when we’re predisposed to be
if it’s when we’re predisposed to be
if it’s when we’re predisposed to be happy we have a short time on this earth
happy we have a short time on this earth
happy we have a short time on this earth so what are we gonna do with it now
so what are we gonna do with it now
so what are we gonna do with it now that’s the second piece of data some
that’s the second piece of data some
that’s the second piece of data some might think is a little more credible
might think is a little more credible
might think is a little more credible all right this is a piece of data that
all right this is a piece of data that
all right this is a piece of data that comes from our world in numbers these
comes from our world in numbers these
comes from our world in numbers these are six different graphs and what these
are six different graphs and what these
are six different graphs and what these six different graphs do is they compare
six different graphs do is they compare
six different graphs do is they compare the world in 2015 to the world that was
the world in 2015 to the world that was
the world in 2015 to the world that was in 1820 so if we look at this first
in 1820 so if we look at this first
in 1820 so if we look at this first graph I’m gonna highlight just three of
graph I’m gonna highlight just three of
graph I’m gonna highlight just three of them and the first one extreme poverty
them and the first one extreme poverty
them and the first one extreme poverty we hear about poverty now the reality of
we hear about poverty now the reality of
we hear about poverty now the reality of it is do we have a growing difference
it is do we have a growing difference
it is do we have a growing difference between the wealthy and maybe not so
between the wealthy and maybe not so
between the wealthy and maybe not so wealthy but the reality of it is if you
wealthy but the reality of it is if you
wealthy but the reality of it is if you look at this graph only 6 percent of the
look at this graph only 6 percent of the
look at this graph only 6 percent of the people in an entire world in 1820 we’re
people in an entire world in 1820 we’re
people in an entire world in 1820 we’re not living in poverty today 90 now
not living in poverty today 90 now
not living in poverty today 90 now poverty abject poverty even though we
poverty abject poverty even though we
poverty abject poverty even though we think of poor today it’s not even close
think of poor today it’s not even close
think of poor today it’s not even close to what poor used to be number one we
to what poor used to be number one we
to what poor used to be number one we have so much less poverty than ever
have so much less poverty than ever
have so much less poverty than ever before the second one I think is really
before the second one I think is really
before the second one I think is really important for when we look at the key to
important for when we look at the key to
important for when we look at the key to democracy when we look at the key to
democracy when we look at the key to
democracy when we look at the key to self-governance when we look at the key
self-governance when we look at the key
self-governance when we look at the key to just getting better and inventing and
to just getting better and inventing and
to just getting better and inventing and eradicating it’s called education I’m
eradicating it’s called education I’m
eradicating it’s called education I’m guessing in 1820 either you were some
guessing in 1820 either you were some
guessing in 1820 either you were some sort of religious person or a white male
sort of religious person or a white male
sort of religious person or a white male and that’s where the education mostly
and that’s where the education mostly
and that’s where the education mostly came from of 17% of the people in this
came from of 17% of the people in this
came from of 17% of the people in this world
world
world now 86% have a basic education in 2015
now 86% have a basic education in 2015
now 86% have a basic education in 2015 think about that that’s why we have more
think about that that’s why we have more
think about that that’s why we have more democracies that’s why we solve problems
democracies that’s why we solve problems
democracies that’s why we solve problems that’s why we have vaccinations and
that’s why we have vaccinations and
that’s why we have vaccinations and eradicated so many different things our
eradicated so many different things our
eradicated so many different things our world isn’t so bad let’s check this out
world isn’t so bad let’s check this out
world isn’t so bad let’s check this out this is an absolute incredible thing
this is an absolute incredible thing
this is an absolute incredible thing 43 babies didn’t make it till the age 5
43 babies didn’t make it till the age 5
43 babies didn’t make it till the age 5 in 1820 43 almost one out of two today
in 1820 43 almost one out of two today
in 1820 43 almost one out of two today although sad and it’s painful when we
although sad and it’s painful when we
although sad and it’s painful when we lose any child 96% of all births result
lose any child 96% of all births result
lose any child 96% of all births result in somebody living
in somebody living
in somebody living age of five realize something people
age of five realize something people
age of five realize something people number one our default emulsions are
number one our default emulsions are
number one our default emulsions are happy number two we’re here for a short
happy number two we’re here for a short
happy number two we’re here for a short amount of time and number three our
amount of time and number three our
amount of time and number three our world is better off now than it has ever
world is better off now than it has ever
world is better off now than it has ever before it’s just we don’t take advantage
before it’s just we don’t take advantage
before it’s just we don’t take advantage of it all right let’s go back to Joe
mr. Sadoff when you die I am gonna piss
mr. Sadoff when you die I am gonna piss on Your Grave I said to Joe Joe you care
on Your Grave I said to Joe Joe you care
on Your Grave I said to Joe Joe you care enough about me that you’re gonna visit
enough about me that you’re gonna visit
enough about me that you’re gonna visit me when I’m dead I think the collective
me when I’m dead I think the collective
me when I’m dead I think the collective converse all I heard was that was both
converse all I heard was that was both
converse all I heard was that was both from mommy and Joe what I did at that
from mommy and Joe what I did at that
from mommy and Joe what I did at that moment and now as I look back I put
moment and now as I look back I put
moment and now as I look back I put meaning to it I judge Joel and his mom
meaning to it I judge Joel and his mom
meaning to it I judge Joel and his mom is good they didn’t wake up in the
is good they didn’t wake up in the
is good they didn’t wake up in the morning say you know what I know how to
morning say you know what I know how to
morning say you know what I know how to be a great person I know how to be a
be a great person I know how to be a
be a great person I know how to be a great parent but I’m gonna get my
great parent but I’m gonna get my
great parent but I’m gonna get my average on today they didn’t wake up and
average on today they didn’t wake up and
average on today they didn’t wake up and say you know what I know how to do
say you know what I know how to do
say you know what I know how to do everything right but today I’m gonna
everything right but today I’m gonna
everything right but today I’m gonna suck they came in with the mindset in my
suck they came in with the mindset in my
suck they came in with the mindset in my mind that they were going to do the
mind that they were going to do the
mind that they were going to do the right thing they did their best the
right thing they did their best the
right thing they did their best the thing is is we try to read into things
thing is is we try to read into things
thing is is we try to read into things and I’ve learned this I’m a work in
and I’ve learned this I’m a work in
and I’ve learned this I’m a work in progress but the reality of it is is it
progress but the reality of it is is it
progress but the reality of it is is it doesn’t matter if they’re doing their
doesn’t matter if they’re doing their
doesn’t matter if they’re doing their best or not it’s what you believe
best or not it’s what you believe
best or not it’s what you believe because remember happiness is being in a
because remember happiness is being in a
because remember happiness is being in a positive emotional state and if you
positive emotional state and if you
positive emotional state and if you think somebody is doing their baskets
think somebody is doing their baskets
think somebody is doing their baskets we’re judge anyway so let’s just throw
we’re judge anyway so let’s just throw
we’re judge anyway so let’s just throw it out there we do judge let’s judge
it out there we do judge let’s judge
it out there we do judge let’s judge people is good that gets us in a
people is good that gets us in a
people is good that gets us in a positive emotional state allows us to be
positive emotional state allows us to be
positive emotional state allows us to be more efficient effective in everything
more efficient effective in everything
more efficient effective in everything let’s go back to the battle situation
let’s go back to the battle situation
let’s go back to the battle situation now I’ve asked my wife about this and
now I’ve asked my wife about this and
now I’ve asked my wife about this and she says she doesn’t remember I think
she says she doesn’t remember I think
she says she doesn’t remember I think she’s blacked it out it was a dark time
she’s blacked it out it was a dark time
she’s blacked it out it was a dark time when I was a little bit more offensive
when I was a little bit more offensive
when I was a little bit more offensive at least I hope I’m less now fast
at least I hope I’m less now fast
at least I hope I’m less now fast forward a couple weeks hey Aaron did you
forward a couple weeks hey Aaron did you
forward a couple weeks hey Aaron did you do the battles what do you mean well
do the battles what do you mean well
do the battles what do you mean well you’re thinking you know what our
you’re thinking you know what our
you’re thinking you know what our daughter was up late last night things
daughter was up late last night things
daughter was up late last night things are kind of difficult it’s our first
are kind of difficult it’s our first
are kind of difficult it’s our first child
child
child my wife’s maternity leave is ending
my wife’s maternity leave is ending
my wife’s maternity leave is ending she’s nervous about that here’s what I
she’s nervous about that here’s what I
she’s nervous about that here’s what I said no I didn’t and you know what she
said no I didn’t and you know what she
said no I didn’t and you know what she said
said
said okay I’ll do him just wondering even
though I thought there was some hidden
though I thought there was some hidden thing I judged her as good and that
thing I judged her as good and that
thing I judged her as good and that changed the way that I acted I got into
changed the way that I acted I got into
changed the way that I acted I got into a positive emotional state and I’m
a positive emotional state and I’m
a positive emotional state and I’m telling you in your relationships and
telling you in your relationships and
telling you in your relationships and work whoever you deal with judge people
work whoever you deal with judge people
work whoever you deal with judge people is good it works that’s number one
is good it works that’s number one
is good it works that’s number one number two I just made you wait to read
number two I just made you wait to read
number two I just made you wait to read that one patience okay so I’m principal
that one patience okay so I’m principal
that one patience okay so I’m principal same office barb comes in Barb and
same office barb comes in Barb and
same office barb comes in Barb and Carole our teachers they’re co-teachers
Carole our teachers they’re co-teachers
Carole our teachers they’re co-teachers co-teaching is a difficult thing where
co-teaching is a difficult thing where
co-teaching is a difficult thing where you have many different levels of
you have many different levels of
you have many different levels of learning and ability so barb comes in
learning and ability so barb comes in
learning and ability so barb comes in and says you know Aaron I have a problem
and says you know Aaron I have a problem
and says you know Aaron I have a problem with Carole and goes over things and I’m
with Carole and goes over things and I’m
with Carole and goes over things and I’m listening and and I said you know what
listening and and I said you know what
listening and and I said you know what barb I don’t Carole she’s a great person
barb I don’t Carole she’s a great person
barb I don’t Carole she’s a great person why don’t you go talk to her you can
why don’t you go talk to her you can
why don’t you go talk to her you can work it on perhaps says you know what
work it on perhaps says you know what
work it on perhaps says you know what I’m gonna do that
I’m gonna do that
I’m gonna do that barb leaves I sit down do whatever I’m
barb leaves I sit down do whatever I’m
barb leaves I sit down do whatever I’m doing 15 minutes later here comes barb
doing 15 minutes later here comes barb
doing 15 minutes later here comes barb I’m like is that Joel no here’s barb
I’m like is that Joel no here’s barb
I’m like is that Joel no here’s barb now I’m gonna I’m gonna change some of
now I’m gonna I’m gonna change some of
now I’m gonna I’m gonna change some of the words here for Ted friendly things
the words here for Ted friendly things
the words here for Ted friendly things barb came in and said you know what
barb came in and said you know what
barb came in and said you know what Aaron so last time I take your advice
Aaron so last time I take your advice
Aaron so last time I take your advice Carol just told me to F off storms out
Carol just told me to F off storms out
Carol just told me to F off storms out so now I’m uh and as I sit there I think
so now I’m uh and as I sit there I think
so now I’m uh and as I sit there I think it’s paralysis I didn’t do anything and
it’s paralysis I didn’t do anything and
it’s paralysis I didn’t do anything and I’m thin I’m thinking to myself okay
I’m thin I’m thinking to myself okay
I’m thin I’m thinking to myself okay what am I gonna do how am I get things
what am I gonna do how am I get things
what am I gonna do how am I get things done
done
done I got to go discipline that can’t happen
I got to go discipline that can’t happen
I got to go discipline that can’t happen she can’t talk like that none of this is
she can’t talk like that none of this is
she can’t talk like that none of this is all gonna work out what’s gonna happen
all gonna work out what’s gonna happen
all gonna work out what’s gonna happen oh I was just and I didn’t do anything
oh I was just and I didn’t do anything
oh I was just and I didn’t do anything and I think at that time I didn’t do
and I think at that time I didn’t do
and I think at that time I didn’t do anything just cuz I didn’t know what I
anything just cuz I didn’t know what I
anything just cuz I didn’t know what I wanna do I even thought I get my resume
wanna do I even thought I get my resume
wanna do I even thought I get my resume goin I’m thinkin maybe that’s gonna be
goin I’m thinkin maybe that’s gonna be
goin I’m thinkin maybe that’s gonna be an answer I wasn’t sure well 20 minutes
an answer I wasn’t sure well 20 minutes
an answer I wasn’t sure well 20 minutes later of my non-action here comes mark
later of my non-action here comes mark
later of my non-action here comes mark dark Carol excuse me
dark Carol excuse me
dark Carol excuse me shoulders down Carol says Aaron I messed
shoulders down Carol says Aaron I messed
shoulders down Carol says Aaron I messed up I said Oh what was that
up I said Oh what was that
up I said Oh what was that I told barb def off I said oh I said you
I told barb def off I said oh I said you
I told barb def off I said oh I said you want me to do anything no I got it I can
want me to do anything no I got it I can
want me to do anything no I got it I can take care of it I’ll be okay and she
take care of it I’ll be okay and she
take care of it I’ll be okay and she went and they dealt with it did they
went and they dealt with it did they
went and they dealt with it did they deal perfectly is everything fine
deal perfectly is everything fine
deal perfectly is everything fine they’re great colleagues they’re some of
they’re great colleagues they’re some of
they’re great colleagues they’re some of the best teachers that I know the thing
the best teachers that I know the thing
the best teachers that I know the thing was is I reflect my inaction wasn’t
was is I reflect my inaction wasn’t
was is I reflect my inaction wasn’t something that was a paralysis my
something that was a paralysis my
something that was a paralysis my inaction helped me Jim McCartney one of
inaction helped me Jim McCartney one of
inaction helped me Jim McCartney one of my first-ever mentors when he was a
my first-ever mentors when he was a
my first-ever mentors when he was a principal I taught in Manitowoc he said
principal I taught in Manitowoc he said
principal I taught in Manitowoc he said Erin if you don’t need to act
Erin if you don’t need to act
Erin if you don’t need to act don’t wait if you can patience when
don’t wait if you can patience when
don’t wait if you can patience when you’re patient it gets you into a more
you’re patient it gets you into a more
you’re patient it gets you into a more positive emotional state that positive
positive emotional state that positive
positive emotional state that positive emotional state allows you to be more
emotional state allows you to be more
emotional state allows you to be more efficient and effective in everything
efficient and effective in everything
efficient and effective in everything when you’re at home tonight when your
when you’re at home tonight when your
when you’re at home tonight when your tomorrow whatever one of your kids
tomorrow whatever one of your kids
tomorrow whatever one of your kids especially if you have teenagers and
especially if you have teenagers and
especially if you have teenagers and they’re going off to college and they
they’re going off to college and they
they’re going off to college and they coming back don’t say anything about
coming back don’t say anything about
coming back don’t say anything about five minutes later they’ll cry and
five minutes later they’ll cry and
five minutes later they’ll cry and they’ll say I’m sorry I didn’t mean to
they’ll say I’m sorry I didn’t mean to
they’ll say I’m sorry I didn’t mean to do that
do that
do that but you need the patience number two
but you need the patience number two
but you need the patience number two first judge good number two patience the
first judge good number two patience the
first judge good number two patience the third key that you can use to leverage
third key that you can use to leverage
third key that you can use to leverage happiness as an amazing piece of
happiness as an amazing piece of
happiness as an amazing piece of technology is get to this is an amazing
technology is get to this is an amazing
technology is get to this is an amazing thing and I learned this from a guy by
thing and I learned this from a guy by
thing and I learned this from a guy by the name of coach Steve Jones from
the name of coach Steve Jones from
the name of coach Steve Jones from Kimberly I want to explain a little bit
Kimberly I want to explain a little bit
Kimberly I want to explain a little bit so get to is different than half two or
so get to is different than half two or
so get to is different than half two or got to I get to go to work is different
got to I get to go to work is different
got to I get to go to work is different than I have to go to work I get to go to
than I have to go to work I get to go to
than I have to go to work I get to go to practice it’s different than I have to
practice it’s different than I have to
practice it’s different than I have to go to practice I get to deal with this
go to practice I get to deal with this
go to practice I get to deal with this awesome persons that if I have to deal
awesome persons that if I have to deal
awesome persons that if I have to deal with this I get to pay taxes I’m pushing
with this I get to pay taxes I’m pushing
with this I get to pay taxes I’m pushing a little bit there but the idea is is
a little bit there but the idea is is
a little bit there but the idea is is that when you get to you’re grateful and
that when you get to you’re grateful and
that when you get to you’re grateful and when you’re grateful you’re happy and
when you’re grateful you’re happy and
when you’re grateful you’re happy and when you’re happy you make better
when you’re happy you make better
when you’re happy you make better decisions coach Steve Jones they have
decisions coach Steve Jones they have
decisions coach Steve Jones they have one as of last night 57 straight
one as of last night 57 straight
one as of last night 57 straight football games and four state titles
football games and four state titles
football games and four state titles amazing man I called him as I was
amazing man I called him as I was
amazing man I called him as I was researching do this talk talk to him
researching do this talk talk to him
researching do this talk talk to him and I was talking about what he does and
and I was talking about what he does and
and I was talking about what he does and why is Kimberly so special I can tell
why is Kimberly so special I can tell
why is Kimberly so special I can tell you Kimberly doesn’t care well they care
you Kimberly doesn’t care well they care
you Kimberly doesn’t care well they care about winning but that’s not their goal
about winning but that’s not their goal
about winning but that’s not their goal he said an our environment what we do is
he said an our environment what we do is
he said an our environment what we do is we we create an environment where you
we we create an environment where you
we we create an environment where you get to practice you get to run you get
get to practice you get to run you get
get to practice you get to run you get to do all these things think about the
to do all these things think about the
to do all these things think about the kids who couldn’t
kids who couldn’t
kids who couldn’t and they really do believe that when
and they really do believe that when
and they really do believe that when they’re down they get the opportunity to
they’re down they get the opportunity to
they’re down they get the opportunity to come back if somebody scores we get the
come back if somebody scores we get the
come back if somebody scores we get the opportunity to stop them again they get
opportunity to stop them again they get
opportunity to stop them again they get to do that let me tell you a story that
to do that let me tell you a story that
to do that let me tell you a story that he told me and I’m gonna kind of
he told me and I’m gonna kind of
he told me and I’m gonna kind of summarize it 2015 November state
summarize it 2015 November state
summarize it 2015 November state championship they’re playing Heartland
championship they’re playing Heartland
championship they’re playing Heartland arrowhead down three touchdowns three
arrowhead down three touchdowns three
arrowhead down three touchdowns three touchdowns in the third quarter one of
touchdowns in the third quarter one of
touchdowns in the third quarter one of his players comes up and says hey coach
his players comes up and says hey coach
his players comes up and says hey coach look at this
look at this
look at this it’s a state championship grad Camp
it’s a state championship grad Camp
it’s a state championship grad Camp Randall it’s snowing and this awesome
Randall it’s snowing and this awesome
Randall it’s snowing and this awesome coach Jones really didn’t see it as that
coach Jones really didn’t see it as that
coach Jones really didn’t see it as that awesome lo and behold because of that
awesome lo and behold because of that
awesome lo and behold because of that because they were in that positive
because they were in that positive
because they were in that positive emotional state of gratitude ten seconds
emotional state of gratitude ten seconds
emotional state of gratitude ten seconds left they scored touchdown they won 49
left they scored touchdown they won 49
left they scored touchdown they won 49 to 42 and subsequently won two more
to 42 and subsequently won two more
to 42 and subsequently won two more championships and just recently came
championships and just recently came
championships and just recently came back twice to win it’s because they had
back twice to win it’s because they had
back twice to win it’s because they had that idea that I get to on a more
that idea that I get to on a more
that idea that I get to on a more personal level a lot of you probably
personal level a lot of you probably
personal level a lot of you probably know somebody like my well I don’t he’s
know somebody like my well I don’t he’s
know somebody like my well I don’t he’s a pretty special guy his name is Matt
a pretty special guy his name is Matt
a pretty special guy his name is Matt Matt is a great guy 40 years old married
Matt is a great guy 40 years old married
Matt is a great guy 40 years old married to my sister-in-law two great young kids
to my sister-in-law two great young kids
to my sister-in-law two great young kids year and a half ago a diagnosed with
year and a half ago a diagnosed with
year and a half ago a diagnosed with I’ll see us with cancer he did
I’ll see us with cancer he did
I’ll see us with cancer he did everything he could
everything he could
everything he could worked really hard did everything had a
worked really hard did everything had a
worked really hard did everything had a good attitude and he beat that cancer
good attitude and he beat that cancer
good attitude and he beat that cancer around Christmas time this past year
around Christmas time this past year
around Christmas time this past year okay all right high five and what’s
okay all right high five and what’s
okay all right high five and what’s gonna go on well a month later goes in
gonna go on well a month later goes in
gonna go on well a month later goes in gets a scan and he has cancer all over
gets a scan and he has cancer all over
gets a scan and he has cancer all over his liver forty years old two young kids
his liver forty years old two young kids
his liver forty years old two young kids and then he’s got a year they say okay
and then he’s got a year they say okay
and then he’s got a year they say okay at that time Matt did something that was
at that time Matt did something that was
at that time Matt did something that was absolutely amazing he he had this he’s
absolutely amazing he he had this he’s
absolutely amazing he he had this he’s got strong faith and he says you know
got strong faith and he says you know
got strong faith and he says you know what I get to have chemotherapy so I can
what I get to have chemotherapy so I can
what I get to have chemotherapy so I can be there for my kids in my wife I get to
be there for my kids in my wife I get to
be there for my kids in my wife I get to go to family functions that most people
go to family functions that most people
go to family functions that most people see as a drag because I can be there
see as a drag because I can be there
see as a drag because I can be there his idea of get to not only is gonna
his idea of get to not only is gonna
his idea of get to not only is gonna extend his life for maybe just another
extend his life for maybe just another
extend his life for maybe just another day here another two days or a week but
day here another two days or a week but
day here another two days or a week but his get to attitude is going to extend
his get to attitude is going to extend
his get to attitude is going to extend the lives of all of us that no one
the lives of all of us that no one
the lives of all of us that no one especially as two young kids and his
especially as two young kids and his
especially as two young kids and his wife because when you get to you’re
wife because when you get to you’re
wife because when you get to you’re grateful and when you’re grateful you’re
grateful and when you’re grateful you’re
grateful and when you’re grateful you’re happy and when you’re happy you can make
happy and when you’re happy you can make
happy and when you’re happy you can make everything in your life better
I am very blessed have been here and I’m
I am very blessed have been here and I’m gonna tell you guys harnesses technology
gonna tell you guys harnesses technology
gonna tell you guys harnesses technology it’s free it’s you can do it right now
it’s free it’s you can do it right now
it’s free it’s you can do it right now it’s not easy happiness is one of the
it’s not easy happiness is one of the
it’s not easy happiness is one of the hardest things you can do but I’m
hardest things you can do but I’m
hardest things you can do but I’m telling you get out there and judge
telling you get out there and judge
telling you get out there and judge people is good have as much patience as
people is good have as much patience as
people is good have as much patience as we possibly can and remember get to you
we possibly can and remember get to you
we possibly can and remember get to you get to live you get to do great things
get to live you get to do great things
get to live you get to do great things and also when you’re walking have your
and also when you’re walking have your
and also when you’re walking have your head up and smile
head up and smile
head up and smile you’re gonna infect somebody with this
you’re gonna infect somebody with this
you’re gonna infect somebody with this thing called happiness thank you very
thing called happiness thank you very
thing called happiness thank you very much
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