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Good evening, good evening, I’m here
today to talk to you about topics
scientific academic subjects ma
especially to talk to him about the gods
emotions and of what as in fact
also said giacomo was mine
I talk to you about emotions and I look for them
to transmit the hips because they are
above a stage in front of a
public always causes emotions
very strong and I am very very much
excited and even honored today to do
part of this important event too
for now
today I want to talk about my story
which is a story that you were in particular
regards rights, rights that often
and willingly they are also denied
precisely to people are denied in
a lot of jitters when it comes to
rights somehow we start from
always from the concert of what is right
what is wrong and this, however
It always comes from a very strong sense of
subjectivity
so even though there is an ethics
shared although there may be one
moral recognized all that
regards the scope of rights unfortunately
it is always at the mercy of the diaries
subjectivity itself therefore when it is me
been asked to talk about an argument
so broadly influential I am in fact
cultured first felt a little lost
after which I tried to
the collectibles that were mine
experiences those that were mine
and emotionality and above all mine
remember the emotions that I remember me
they caused me and caused me therefore
the person who then created and who has
in front of you today we often find ourselves
before the abuses and statements
devastating to discrimination of each
kind that lead to a slow one
erosion of rights and I want to give you
immediately an example just starting
here from our western but Italy
today we see the formation of
denials of new rights as
all in all we can find
situations still anachronistic today
I feel and I have often experienced my own
even on my own beautiful at first
person with certain that nothing has to that
see with the human vision and
anthropology of society and here
once again I would like to bring you immediately
a very practical example in these in
these times for example we see e
we hear more and more talk
insistently on the question of the
migrants is a very question
important
simply because things are
unfortunately there is no change in the world
nobody today who takes care of it remains
there are so many data a lot of studies
scientific fact that they say that
by 2030 2050 there will be millions of
people who will move to one side
of the world to the other one over the whole
Italy is expected by 2050 40
millions of people 40 million people
Whereas in Italy
60 million are really many though
unfortunately still no one yes
take care of these things
this is a problem because everything
added up when talking about people who
they move we talk about people who are
they move yes for climatic changes but
also and above all for the absence for the
latency of rights then
gender discrimination of religion e
of sexual orientation and work
many others
so we are in some way in front of us
in a new era a little revival in
sense that it is as if almost after almost 10
thousand years again man from
sedentary returned from nomadic then like
it happened even before the Neolithic period
and only today
obviously the boundaries are different
identity are different cultures are
different are much stronger then
so be able to talk about rights
especially when in this case
on the scope of migrant people
they feel violated their home
their identity is their culture
very difficult and politics in this
moment seems to have little knowledge for
which I will try to do again
it’s trying to tell you what it is
success somehow because today
we are out of maximum time in
somehow it is and it is time to
begin to raise
head to stop looking at the tip
of shoes and definitely start to
see what is ahead of us
because it is before us and does not wait
it’s time there are no more words from
to waste
and as the good old walt said
disney
the only way to start and stop
to speak is definitely start to
to do we must do because what is going on
before us and forward as I said not
wait we must do because too much
often our rights are violated and
not even if we realize it
in this regard, I wanted to share
I’ve already told you my story
that is, what I did about it
of doing and how today even today ai
we
homosexuality is sailing in waters
always very agitated I am always
It was a loose dog that one often does
it is distinct let’s say from the mass but not
because he wanted to prove something
because you had particular merits
absolutely it was only by inclination
my friends and I went dancing me
I was going for a walk through the woods
my friends were halfway from London and
I was in Paris
my sister was studying and she had excellent wants
that I did the bare essential
as he said baloo in the book of
jungle
in short, I have always felt different and
all in all, this diversity I do not
I’ve never accepted it
I have always lived and lived not without
effort without discomfort with one inside
strange feeling of tumult something
not told something to be silent that does not
then the ones with the
which I had grown up and in which
naturally I recognized myself because
this was that company this was the
society in which I lived and that I
He had in some way I was lulled
pretend of nothing for which I told myself
then it will come back the same
feeling maybe
in front of that boy I liked
so much and I was happy if he smiled at me
even when maybe I moved the
smoke in the face of his cigarette for
give me trouble and all in all not
I could accept it as I could
I could have said first myself and then
to my parents to my friends ai
relatives in the whole world that I liked
the boys then in a village of 6000
I come from a small village
they would have known it near Arezzo
everyone and surely they would have laughed at me
or at least this was my thought not
I knew no one else then among other things
at the time I did not know anyone else
except me because I know others
all in all it was a way for me to
espormi and it was absolutely not the
in case of exposing myself then I felt
alone or rather there is lucio
that I define the fennel inside of
me so we were two but one
definitely dichotomous situation
let’s say then it happens that I do mine
first experiences of sneaking making a
lots of kilometers in the open country
to escape the shame if someone
he had never discovered me before
experiences and then only remained
bitter taste in my mouth because they told me it is
wrong is not good and then later
all sicily trust in the way
heterosexual ikeba please rosoli is
true boyfriends and for which still one
I thought I would spend a day
I too will have a wife of the children and
that boulder that I felt in my stomach
then maybe it would have disappeared it is not
that was it
let me tell you a little bit about it
gone the first approaches were on
internet when internet still provides
values counts shots at home so it was
a situation really
hallucinating because I was obviously doing it
all in secret but this damn
counts shots kept shooting
when I was looking for sites
foreign for example for which the questions
inappropriate of my parents that me
they asked but why this counter
keep going on and me that
all in all I invented the passion
for foreign languages so much that later on
I also graduated there and graduated from there
situation was a bit this then too
the first knowledge in some way
always through the net because guys
arezzo and arezzo is certainly not Rome
so they knew people on the net
of which I obviously distrusted because
they were in my parts, so maybe me
they knew they could talk and
therefore the most interesting people
they were certainly miles away
distance and for me they were landings
unreachable simply because they do not
I could never tell my am
two days out for who knows what
reason they never were too much
good at telling the poems friends of
he always reads in the face when he tells
the lies
then comes the day instead where in
which I decide
he was a conductor
beautiful charming and charismatic one
character who is really inviting me
even a thousand attentions made me a mi
made it feel unique that among other things for
a common person needle disproportionate like
mine was completely alive
something like that filled me yes
phone calls attention
after three months of phone calls and then a
distance to nothing and a bit to an instrument
a game in the
in his hands and these were mine
first emotional experiences of my new
homosexual world
maybe it was love but I did not have it
no one again with whom
compare alas if not the fennel
24 years old was in me
and I remember that all that between holding
in it made me sick, so I had
episodes of fever at 40 tonsillitis
psoriasis rashes stomach a
pieces and in one of these days of a
po at gray’s anatomy happens that
some of my friends I had met
they come to visit me at home
because I was sick and when it was still i
My parents were almost not feeling well
go back and fall back mine
my mother and my mother come back
brother-in-law because as has been said
before
unfortunately a short time ago was also
my father is very much the situation
family was really very very much
hard and my mother
after my friends have left
he exclaims what he does to us at home
our
and I say that they are simply gods
My friends came to see me
because I’m hurting her
It sincerely reacts badly
telling me that they were not at friendships
right for me I ask why
that is successful
she tells me well it is done that one of them
It’s a fagot and I answer it
okay but everyone makes life that
wants as long as it does not bother you
others I do not see what the problem is
and she actually tells me about others
I do not care about my son , however
I still did not have the courage though
I was taking the ball in my hand
I reply after a quarter of a century
He has something at home
you may have understood from that day is
let’s say a started a period
quite dramatic because I felt
repudiated even by my own
family
we start having towels
separated from others
we all ate on the sidelines were all there
situations in my house that put me
even my mother deeply uncomfortable
he used words in mine
comparisons I’ve never heard before
heard out of his mouth so
I was shocked between the same time
I was relieved because I finally did it
I had finally said she knew it not
he accepted it inveivably, he also wondered
how she would have gone on
his life as it is possible that the only one
man left in his house
homosexual
the country would have known she would have
We had to defend ourselves by saying
from this kind of accusations for which it is
It was a very difficult period
nevertheless, I give it my credit
mother is a wonderful person and
so it was also the first then ad
invite to dinner what would have been
then my boyfriend and I’ll tell you a bit
how we met with mine
first boy my first story
important
one day I was walking on the street
petrarca a road here of arezzo and
I had to bring in the court of the
documents for the company I worked for
while I was walking at some known point
an interesting boy so there
we trade almost on it
sidewalk and every face to him
to watch it because anyway it was a
nice guy and he had turned around then
panic anxiety
after which he turned me on my way
I again state another time and see that
he too had brought herself once again
so I tell myself but how is one possible?
such thing to arezzo in the center in
full day not even in a film of
host that something would happen
kind for which through the road and me
stop at the first bar that happens to me
shooting takes a coffee to relax
just for the motions a moment that that
I was taken and I see him pass
in front of the windows of the bar for which
they finish my coffee I pay out
from the bar look to the right look at
left I did not see it anymore so if
he’s gone, I’m going my way back and into the
while I was continuing the
My way from the other side I see it
I look at him looking at me he smiles at me
I decided to cross the
road and I say hello you want to
escort me to court he looks at me
amazed and also says no
after which he began to
explain to you a little because I was because
he was going to court and walking
during those hundreds of meters
let’s talk about who we are talking about
our passions we discover we have the
photography as a common passion and the
he also spoke of one of my books
favorite which is called letters from
Church of Silvano Agosti I recommend to
all of you among other things because it is
really a beautiful experience of
utopian life but also real everything
added to the leaves a passion that
it lasts a good nine years and has led us to
stay together nine years 9 years
of history between two men in which one
time I had the person next to me
that I loved I did not hear anymore
unrepentant and I have not had any more
rora in the country areas mine
sexual orientation despite him
bigger than me it has even 10
years still had not said almost to
nobody
so I felt more free, I have
started to introduce it inside
of my family to my family
fortunately compared to many others
situations
he has just accepted him accepted and loved
probably because I myself did
feel normal because he does not
it felt normal because we are
normal still and I was not afraid anymore
for me this had become a goal
and then to anyone who asked me in
Arezzo then the city does not have it
city except in Arezzo means
boys and girls I answered no
site is all right then there that me
I felt stronger because finally
I no longer saw in the looks of the
people
discrimination I saw them banned
stutterers for which it was really for me
have reached a goal and I have seen
humanity as well as in those who were
my friends the real ones I thought I was
then had an angle dimension because
I was different and fortunately not
it was like that
that’s how I then stopped
procrastination is how I made it
account what it means to live of
hidden because the culture spread in the
your country still anchored concerts
medieval is unfortunately instead of
expressing solidarity and humanity
you often go along the
road of discrimination
nevertheless as usual I wanted to
do my own thing and I went straight
on my way
so I said I’m gay
if labels are important to you
I am a man if instead for you I am
important words for them
meaning there are some data that then
they somehow reassured me in
this path is an istat survey
of 2012 which shows that the taboo
It seems a lot about homosexuality
resized and much less present
in the society
contrary to what happens instead between
those who sit in parliament only one
about four of the interviewed anchors
still old prejudices they consider
homosexuality is a synonym disease
of morality threat to the family
while for two thirds of Italians
there are people convinced that love
prescind from the sex of those who do not
I’m personally involved I had the
luck of never being discriminated against
in the workplace even if I do not know
what would have really happened seeing
that in previous works compared to
what I currently do not yet do
I had come out
surely I would have messed up
because I usually like I always have
done
I fight a lot for the freedom of
expression that among other things is also a
Constitutional law therefore seems to me
the bare minimum
and this is precisely for this reason
attitude that I also started between
the many that I have always done in my life
to be part of the local tihar committee
cigarini with whom I did everything
from the organization of events also
even the dancer on stage without
but be ashamed of trying to understand
because it has always been curiosity
that pushed me to live this too
new dimension
I do not like prejudices and I think one
evaluation for not being a
prejudice should arise from an examination
internal rather than replacing
as I often did in my life I have
invested my time my energy and
even my emotions inside
of the association you have in the how
often happens in Italy unfortunately it is a
ideologically politicized
nevertheless we went ahead
because despite everything we are in 2017
and have a country still in which there is not
they are laws against homophobia
lack of egalitarian marriages not
there is the possibility of recognizing the
parenting rents and classmates of the
LGBT people that the people then do
they choose for life
especially since then these are
all things that go to the expense too
of the children themselves in this case in
many parts of the world this already
It happens
and these rights are already guaranteed and
there was no social catastrophe
caused by any gender or theory
scientific concepts this
be sure
we often find ourselves found to be found
ideological oppositions between
homosexuality and also religion but
religions if we go to see
what etymologically means me
I am a linguist in some way
meaning to read about and
care for something then as a citizen
or rights and duties and I have a duty to
pay the taxes my commitment to
this recognition plan will be
constant struggles for voting for women
against the apartheid the movements I dispose
there they draw us this teach us that
in mutual recognition that one
community creates synergistic forms and advances
culturally because when you do not
he understands something we need to do one
effort and youtube turn on the synapses and
try to understand in the dual sense
to understand and accept only this way
we will be sure that every new law will be
in favor of the whole society and not a
only one part of it
these words let me say want
to express the need for it to be of the
mutual recognition in a world
the current one made of divergences e
cultural collisions
basically in essence using words
of harvey milk
if you do not mobilize to defend i
rights of someone who at that moment
he has deprived it
when they will then affect your nobody
it will move for you
and this is the point this is what
makes of a collectivity of one people
organized society and the offense
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