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I believe the someday something good

I believe the someday something good will come to me and I believe there one

will come to me and I believe there one

will come to me and I believe there one day life will undo what it’s done to me

day life will undo what it’s done to me

day life will undo what it’s done to me cuz I believe yes I believe so strongly

cuz I believe yes I believe so strongly

cuz I believe yes I believe so strongly that it’s true someday the world will

that it’s true someday the world will

that it’s true someday the world will treat me just like you I wrote those

treat me just like you I wrote those

treat me just like you I wrote those lyrics when I was 17

lyrics when I was 17

lyrics when I was 17 try to imagine the 17 year old who

try to imagine the 17 year old who

try to imagine the 17 year old who writes a song about hope and healing do

writes a song about hope and healing do

writes a song about hope and healing do you see her leather jacket and black

you see her leather jacket and black

you see her leather jacket and black nail polish her miniskirt and knee-high

nail polish her miniskirt and knee-high

nail polish her miniskirt and knee-high boots maybe you pictured her hanging out

boots maybe you pictured her hanging out

boots maybe you pictured her hanging out with friends people like this guy

with friends people like this guy

with friends people like this guy this is Nathan one of the few people

this is Nathan one of the few people

this is Nathan one of the few people from high school I’m still in touch with

from high school I’m still in touch with

from high school I’m still in touch with I met him sophomore year health class

I met him sophomore year health class

I met him sophomore year health class school number 12 the teacher had just

school number 12 the teacher had just

school number 12 the teacher had just told us that people who attempt suicide

told us that people who attempt suicide

told us that people who attempt suicide don’t really want to die I didn’t tell

don’t really want to die I didn’t tell

don’t really want to die I didn’t tell her I needed to believe that family and

her I needed to believe that family and

her I needed to believe that family and friends who’d killed themselves were

friends who’d killed themselves were

friends who’d killed themselves were better off because I didn’t know then

better off because I didn’t know then

better off because I didn’t know then that’s why I believed it but I did tell

that’s why I believed it but I did tell

that’s why I believed it but I did tell her I know a girl he swallowed two

her I know a girl he swallowed two

her I know a girl he swallowed two bottles of pills and when she woke up

bottles of pills and when she woke up

bottles of pills and when she woke up the next morning she was just pissed it

the next morning she was just pissed it

the next morning she was just pissed it didn’t work maybe the teacher knew I was

didn’t work maybe the teacher knew I was

didn’t work maybe the teacher knew I was talking about myself maybe she thought I

talking about myself maybe she thought I

talking about myself maybe she thought I was just being dramatic

was just being dramatic

was just being dramatic but Nathan passed me a note that said I

but Nathan passed me a note that said I

but Nathan passed me a note that said I know the girl who didn’t want to wake up

we became funds because like me Nathan

we became funds because like me Nathan knew hope was a dirty word we’re still

knew hope was a dirty word we’re still

knew hope was a dirty word we’re still friends because we survived anyway when

friends because we survived anyway when

friends because we survived anyway when I think back to the 17-year who wrote

I think back to the 17-year who wrote

I think back to the 17-year who wrote that song I see her cradling her infant

that song I see her cradling her infant

that song I see her cradling her infant daughter a dollar store wedding ring

daughter a dollar store wedding ring

daughter a dollar store wedding ring peeking from under the blanket that’s

peeking from under the blanket that’s

peeking from under the blanket that’s the girl the principal called into the

the girl the principal called into the

the girl the principal called into the office two months before graduation to

office two months before graduation to

office two months before graduation to say she had two too many unexcused

say she had two too many unexcused

say she had two too many unexcused absences to finish with her class

absences to finish with her class

absences to finish with her class shouldn’t she be at home with your

shouldn’t she be at home with your

shouldn’t she be at home with your little girl anyway he asked I had a

little girl anyway he asked I had a

little girl anyway he asked I had a three point eight three GPA a perfect a

three point eight three GPA a perfect a

three point eight three GPA a perfect a CT score and three scholarship buffers

CT score and three scholarship buffers

CT score and three scholarship buffers but I also had a baby had spent time in

but I also had a baby had spent time in

but I also had a baby had spent time in a temporary home while the courts tried

a temporary home while the courts tried

a temporary home while the courts tried to figure out what to do with me and had

to figure out what to do with me and had

to figure out what to do with me and had gotten married to solve that problem I

gotten married to solve that problem I

gotten married to solve that problem I did have a little bit of self-respect

did have a little bit of self-respect

did have a little bit of self-respect and I did what any self-respecting poor

and I did what any self-respecting poor

and I did what any self-respecting poor kid would do I gave the principal the

kid would do I gave the principal the

kid would do I gave the principal the bird and dropped out I left school

bird and dropped out I left school

bird and dropped out I left school knowing three things with certainty you

knowing three things with certainty you

knowing three things with certainty you can’t buy precooked food with food

can’t buy precooked food with food

can’t buy precooked food with food stamps a welfare check will never be

stamps a welfare check will never be

stamps a welfare check will never be enough to cover the whole rent but a

enough to cover the whole rent but a

enough to cover the whole rent but a penny too much in wages will cost

penny too much in wages will cost

penny too much in wages will cost whatever food you can buy and the world

whatever food you can buy and the world

whatever food you can buy and the world measures poverty not potential

according to the National Council on

according to the National Council on state legislators 60% of teen moms drop

state legislators 60% of teen moms drop

state legislators 60% of teen moms drop out of high school and fewer than 2%

out of high school and fewer than 2%

out of high school and fewer than 2% finished college an Institute for

finished college an Institute for

finished college an Institute for educational statistics report shows

educational statistics report shows

educational statistics report shows students in poverty are 5 times more

students in poverty are 5 times more

students in poverty are 5 times more likely to drop out than their peers add

likely to drop out than their peers add

likely to drop out than their peers add in that rumberger and other educational

in that rumberger and other educational

in that rumberger and other educational researchers have shown that school

researchers have shown that school

researchers have shown that school mobility increases the risk of dropping

mobility increases the risk of dropping

mobility increases the risk of dropping out and it’s clear I was statistically

out and it’s clear I was statistically

out and it’s clear I was statistically destined to fail the women’s standing in

destined to fail the women’s standing in

destined to fail the women’s standing in front of you today was never supposed to

front of you today was never supposed to

front of you today was never supposed to exist I am a wife of 20 years mother to

exist I am a wife of 20 years mother to

exist I am a wife of 20 years mother to three college students a homeowner a

three college students a homeowner a

three college students a homeowner a published writer a high school teacher

published writer a high school teacher

published writer a high school teacher and a doctoral candidate three years ago

and a doctoral candidate three years ago

and a doctoral candidate three years ago I didn’t know what a doctoral candidate

I didn’t know what a doctoral candidate

I didn’t know what a doctoral candidate was when people hear my story they often

was when people hear my story they often

was when people hear my story they often say things that make me uncomfortable

say things that make me uncomfortable

say things that make me uncomfortable they say I must be very strong or very

they say I must be very strong or very

they say I must be very strong or very brave or the worst I am proof that

brave or the worst I am proof that

brave or the worst I am proof that anyone can do anything they put their

anyone can do anything they put their

anyone can do anything they put their mind to as if I did it all without help

mind to as if I did it all without help

mind to as if I did it all without help through sheer force of will I’ve heard

through sheer force of will I’ve heard

through sheer force of will I’ve heard my intelligence must be responsible for

my intelligence must be responsible for

my intelligence must be responsible for my success but I’m a teacher and I

my success but I’m a teacher and I

my success but I’m a teacher and I voluntarily go back to high school every

voluntarily go back to high school every

voluntarily go back to high school every day saying that success comes from

day saying that success comes from

day saying that success comes from someone’s personal characteristics

someone’s personal characteristics

someone’s personal characteristics creates two problems first if I believe

creates two problems first if I believe

creates two problems first if I believe that success comes from some innate

that success comes from some innate

that success comes from some innate quality I have no responsibility to help

quality I have no responsibility to help

quality I have no responsibility to help others because nothing I do will matter

others because nothing I do will matter

others because nothing I do will matter it gives me a way to sort out who should

it gives me a way to sort out who should

it gives me a way to sort out who should get help and who shouldn’t and it

get help and who shouldn’t and it

get help and who shouldn’t and it implies that there’s some group of

implies that there’s some group of

implies that there’s some group of people who should never be expected to

people who should never be expected to

people who should never be expected to succeed

succeed

succeed second if I believe that success comes

second if I believe that success comes

second if I believe that success comes from someone’s extreme intelligence or

from someone’s extreme intelligence or

from someone’s extreme intelligence or strength or talent or whatever I have no

strength or talent or whatever I have no

strength or talent or whatever I have no responsibility to help myself because

responsibility to help myself because

responsibility to help myself because nothing I do will matter at that point

nothing I do will matter at that point

nothing I do will matter at that point I’m saving my self-respect and sanity by

I’m saving my self-respect and sanity by

I’m saving my self-respect and sanity by becoming very very comfortable with a

becoming very very comfortable with a

becoming very very comfortable with a lack of success and this is the root of

lack of success and this is the root of

lack of success and this is the root of what some people call the poverty

what some people call the poverty

what some people call the poverty culture I’m convinced that I’ve been

culture I’m convinced that I’ve been

culture I’m convinced that I’ve been able to achieve what I have because

able to achieve what I have because

able to achieve what I have because there were people who believed enough in

there were people who believed enough in

there were people who believed enough in me to make me believe enough in myself

me to make me believe enough in myself

me to make me believe enough in myself to make the sacrifices necessary to

to make the sacrifices necessary to

to make the sacrifices necessary to create a better life small sacrifices

create a better life small sacrifices

create a better life small sacrifices like never learning to read and write

like never learning to read and write

like never learning to read and write music big sacrifices like missing my

music big sacrifices like missing my

music big sacrifices like missing my kids activities because I was doing

kids activities because I was doing

kids activities because I was doing homework after coming home from work I

homework after coming home from work I

homework after coming home from work I created a framework to help explain the

created a framework to help explain the

created a framework to help explain the kinds of actions people took that were

kinds of actions people took that were

kinds of actions people took that were most helpful to me and I call them

most helpful to me and I call them

most helpful to me and I call them future seeds

these are selfless equalising deliberate

these are selfless equalising deliberate actions that show an expectation for

actions that show an expectation for

actions that show an expectation for future success

future success

future success let me explain when we think about how

let me explain when we think about how

let me explain when we think about how to help people in poverty we often think

to help people in poverty we often think

to help people in poverty we often think about acts of charity now acts of

about acts of charity now acts of

about acts of charity now acts of charity mate a right now need they’re

charity mate a right now need they’re

charity mate a right now need they’re not equalizing they’re someone doing

not equalizing they’re someone doing

not equalizing they’re someone doing something for someone else there’s no

something for someone else there’s no

something for someone else there’s no expectation that that imbalance will

expectation that that imbalance will

expectation that that imbalance will change often we perform these kinds of

change often we perform these kinds of

change often we perform these kinds of acts impulsively we donate a little food

acts impulsively we donate a little food

acts impulsively we donate a little food or money in the same way that we might

or money in the same way that we might

or money in the same way that we might add a candy bar to our groceries while

add a candy bar to our groceries while

add a candy bar to our groceries while we stand in line in a contrast future

we stand in line in a contrast future

we stand in line in a contrast future seeds show that other person that we

seeds show that other person that we

seeds show that other person that we expect as much from them as we do from

expect as much from them as we do from

expect as much from them as we do from ourselves and vice versa

decades of research on rooms expectancy

decades of research on rooms expectancy theory show that our expectations matter

theory show that our expectations matter

theory show that our expectations matter a lot a simplified explanation is if I

a lot a simplified explanation is if I

a lot a simplified explanation is if I believe that the outcome of my efforts

believe that the outcome of my efforts

believe that the outcome of my efforts will be positive I’ll put more effort

will be positive I’ll put more effort

will be positive I’ll put more effort into the work that I do but if I believe

into the work that I do but if I believe

into the work that I do but if I believe that the outcomes of my efforts will be

that the outcomes of my efforts will be

that the outcomes of my efforts will be negative or neutral as in having food

negative or neutral as in having food

negative or neutral as in having food today doesn’t stop me from being hungry

today doesn’t stop me from being hungry

today doesn’t stop me from being hungry tomorrow I’m not motivated to do my best

tomorrow I’m not motivated to do my best

tomorrow I’m not motivated to do my best the theory was introduced in the 60s to

the theory was introduced in the 60s to

the theory was introduced in the 60s to help explain workplace behavior but it

help explain workplace behavior but it

help explain workplace behavior but it can also explain life behavior when we

can also explain life behavior when we

can also explain life behavior when we add it to the concept of stereotype

add it to the concept of stereotype

add it to the concept of stereotype threat stereotype threat is another very

threat stereotype threat is another very

threat stereotype threat is another very well researched idea that shows people

well researched idea that shows people

well researched idea that shows people perform less effectively on a task if

perform less effectively on a task if

perform less effectively on a task if their first reminded that they belong to

their first reminded that they belong to

their first reminded that they belong to some group race gender in my case

some group race gender in my case

some group race gender in my case socioeconomic status that doesn’t

socioeconomic status that doesn’t

socioeconomic status that doesn’t usually perform well on that task like

usually perform well on that task like

usually perform well on that task like say graduating high school the power of

say graduating high school the power of

say graduating high school the power of positive expectations for my success

positive expectations for my success

positive expectations for my success helped me overcome stereotype threat

helped me overcome stereotype threat

helped me overcome stereotype threat that started in the 6th grade when the

that started in the 6th grade when the

that started in the 6th grade when the teacher told us we were going to help

teacher told us we were going to help

teacher told us we were going to help students less fortunate than ourselves

students less fortunate than ourselves

students less fortunate than ourselves by packing boxes of school supplies and

by packing boxes of school supplies and

by packing boxes of school supplies and school clothes for a big giveaway that

school clothes for a big giveaway that

school clothes for a big giveaway that was coming up I already knew about the

was coming up I already knew about the

was coming up I already knew about the giveaway because I was really looking

giveaway because I was really looking

giveaway because I was really looking forward to getting a pair of pants that

forward to getting a pair of pants that

forward to getting a pair of pants that weren’t high waters and in that moment I

weren’t high waters and in that moment I

weren’t high waters and in that moment I realized that I was never expected to be

realized that I was never expected to be

realized that I was never expected to be in an honors class but I was there

in an honors class but I was there

in an honors class but I was there because in 4th grade a teacher

because in 4th grade a teacher

because in 4th grade a teacher interpreted my not enos it was a little

interpreted my not enos it was a little

interpreted my not enos it was a little bit as boredom rather than a

bit as boredom rather than a

bit as boredom rather than a disciplinary issue

disciplinary issue

disciplinary issue she had me evaluated and placed in the

she had me evaluated and placed in the

she had me evaluated and placed in the talented and gifted program like many

talented and gifted program like many

talented and gifted program like many poor kids I moved a lot and that

poor kids I moved a lot and that

poor kids I moved a lot and that talented and gifted label followed me

talented and gifted label followed me

talented and gifted label followed me from school to school to school

from school to school to school

from school to school to school making sure that educators always saw my

making sure that educators always saw my

making sure that educators always saw my potential before they saw my poverty

potential before they saw my poverty

potential before they saw my poverty usually I move too quickly for them to

usually I move too quickly for them to

usually I move too quickly for them to find anything else the principle that I

find anything else the principle that I

find anything else the principle that I mentioned earlier was from school number

mentioned earlier was from school number

mentioned earlier was from school number 15 this was a school where the first

15 this was a school where the first

15 this was a school where the first thing anyone learned about me was that I

thing anyone learned about me was that I

thing anyone learned about me was that I was 16 poor and pregnant but Mr

was 16 poor and pregnant but Mr

was 16 poor and pregnant but Mr Woodworth was also at that school he saw

Woodworth was also at that school he saw

Woodworth was also at that school he saw all the same things that everyone else

all the same things that everyone else

all the same things that everyone else did he just didn’t treat me any

did he just didn’t treat me any

did he just didn’t treat me any differently the last assignment that I

differently the last assignment that I

differently the last assignment that I completed for mr. Woodworth was to read

completed for mr. Woodworth was to read

completed for mr. Woodworth was to read analyze and present my analysis of

analyze and present my analysis of

analyze and present my analysis of Aristotle’s Poetics

Aristotle’s Poetics

Aristotle’s Poetics to the class in three to four minutes

to the class in three to four minutes

to the class in three to four minutes for the first part of the assignment I

for the first part of the assignment I

for the first part of the assignment I was in a temporary home and in and out

was in a temporary home and in and out

was in a temporary home and in and out of court for the second part of the

of court for the second part of the

of court for the second part of the assignment I was on what passes for a 17

assignment I was on what passes for a 17

assignment I was on what passes for a 17 year olds honeymoon so my presentation

year olds honeymoon so my presentation

year olds honeymoon so my presentation came out something like this

came out something like this

came out something like this [Applause]

Aristotle says the beginning is the

Aristotle says the beginning is the beginning and the end is the end I have

beginning and the end is the end I have

beginning and the end is the end I have no idea why anyone would read this or

no idea why anyone would read this or

no idea why anyone would read this or why it matters

why it matters

why it matters [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] mr. Woodworth responds a note next to

mr. Woodworth responds a note next to

mr. Woodworth responds a note next to the F on the turned end portion of the

the F on the turned end portion of the

the F on the turned end portion of the assignment that said you can do so much

assignment that said you can do so much

assignment that said you can do so much more and I expect you to mr. Woodworth

more and I expect you to mr. Woodworth

more and I expect you to mr. Woodworth took the time to let me know he didn’t

took the time to let me know he didn’t

took the time to let me know he didn’t believe that my current circumstances

believe that my current circumstances

believe that my current circumstances could interfere with me reaching my

could interfere with me reaching my

could interfere with me reaching my potential a couple days later I dropped

potential a couple days later I dropped

potential a couple days later I dropped out and that was the last thing mr.

out and that was the last thing mr.

out and that was the last thing mr. Woodworth heard from me for twenty years

Woodworth heard from me for twenty years

Woodworth heard from me for twenty years but his words you can do so much more

but his words you can do so much more

but his words you can do so much more and I expect you to that came back to me

and I expect you to that came back to me

and I expect you to that came back to me a couple years later when I left my

a couple years later when I left my

a couple years later when I left my first husband and remembered that I

first husband and remembered that I

first husband and remembered that I believed in a better world someone I

believed in a better world someone I

believed in a better world someone I admired thought I was capable and I

admired thought I was capable and I

admired thought I was capable and I wanted to prove him right so I went to

wanted to prove him right so I went to

wanted to prove him right so I went to an alternative school for the last two

an alternative school for the last two

an alternative school for the last two credits of my high school diploma

credits of my high school diploma

credits of my high school diploma instead of getting a GED only the

instead of getting a GED only the

instead of getting a GED only the English teacher at that alternative

English teacher at that alternative

English teacher at that alternative school for fewer than four months I

school for fewer than four months I

school for fewer than four months I don’t remember her name but I can

don’t remember her name but I can

don’t remember her name but I can picture her clearly because of her

picture her clearly because of her

picture her clearly because of her future scene after grading my incoming

future scene after grading my incoming

future scene after grading my incoming assessment she asked me what college I

assessment she asked me what college I

assessment she asked me what college I was going to and I said people like me

was going to and I said people like me

was going to and I said people like me don’t go to college she didn’t say

don’t go to college she didn’t say

don’t go to college she didn’t say anything right then but a couple weeks

anything right then but a couple weeks

anything right then but a couple weeks later she passed back an essay I’d

later she passed back an essay I’d

later she passed back an essay I’d written pointed at the a on top and told

written pointed at the a on top and told

written pointed at the a on top and told me she had asked a community college

me she had asked a community college

me she had asked a community college professor to grade it people like you

professor to grade it people like you

professor to grade it people like you have a responsibility to go to college

have a responsibility to go to college

have a responsibility to go to college she said how this act was selfless on

she said how this act was selfless on

she said how this act was selfless on the part of both that alternative school

the part of both that alternative school

the part of both that alternative school teacher and the anonymous Community

teacher and the anonymous Community

teacher and the anonymous Community College professor we teachers this will

College professor we teachers this will

College professor we teachers this will surprise you we do not run around going

surprise you we do not run around going

surprise you we do not run around going please please someone give me more work

please please someone give me more work

please please someone give me more work to grade

it was equalizing it showed me that I

it was equalizing it showed me that I was equal to any other student on that

was equal to any other student on that

was equal to any other student on that college campus it was deliberate and

college campus it was deliberate and

college campus it was deliberate and planned even though she had no way of

planned even though she had no way of

planned even though she had no way of knowing whether or not it would work and

knowing whether or not it would work and

knowing whether or not it would work and it showed an expectation for my future

it showed an expectation for my future

it showed an expectation for my future success

success

success she didn’t say of course you can go to

she didn’t say of course you can go to

she didn’t say of course you can go to college she didn’t even say you should

college she didn’t even say you should

college she didn’t even say you should go to college she said you have a

go to college she said you have a

go to college she said you have a responsibility to go to college people

responsibility to go to college people

responsibility to go to college people planted dozens of future seeds for me

planted dozens of future seeds for me

planted dozens of future seeds for me throughout my life and this is important

throughout my life and this is important

throughout my life and this is important because just like the effects of poverty

because just like the effects of poverty

because just like the effects of poverty are cumulative the effects of future

are cumulative the effects of future

are cumulative the effects of future seeds stack on each other over time even

seeds stack on each other over time even

seeds stack on each other over time even today I deal with poverty related issues

today I deal with poverty related issues

today I deal with poverty related issues some followed me from that old life like

some followed me from that old life like

some followed me from that old life like stereotype threat that had me bawling

stereotype threat that had me bawling

stereotype threat that had me bawling like a baby during every statistics quiz

like a baby during every statistics quiz

like a baby during every statistics quiz in a class I passed with a 98.2%

in a class I passed with a 98.2%

in a class I passed with a 98.2% some are new problems like realizing the

some are new problems like realizing the

some are new problems like realizing the parts and people from my past don’t fit

parts and people from my past don’t fit

parts and people from my past don’t fit neatly with the parts and people in my

neatly with the parts and people in my

neatly with the parts and people in my future even so future seeds have become

future even so future seeds have become

future even so future seeds have become the foundation for the kind of teacher

the foundation for the kind of teacher

the foundation for the kind of teacher and person that I strive to be a couple

and person that I strive to be a couple

and person that I strive to be a couple months ago I got a message from a former

months ago I got a message from a former

months ago I got a message from a former student at a community college where I

student at a community college where I

student at a community college where I taught say mrs. Warnock I just wanted to

taught say mrs. Warnock I just wanted to

taught say mrs. Warnock I just wanted to say thank you

say thank you

say thank you a long time ago you literally took me by

a long time ago you literally took me by

a long time ago you literally took me by the hand and walked me to see far you

the hand and walked me to see far you

the hand and walked me to see far you knew I’d be too nervous to go so you

knew I’d be too nervous to go so you

knew I’d be too nervous to go so you took it upon yourself to take me since

took it upon yourself to take me since

took it upon yourself to take me since that day I’ve been on track slowly and

that day I’ve been on track slowly and

that day I’ve been on track slowly and surely to earn a degree last week

surely to earn a degree last week

surely to earn a degree last week wrapped up the winter term with it being

wrapped up the winter term with it being

wrapped up the winter term with it being my last term I was extremely nervous

my last term I was extremely nervous

my last term I was extremely nervous about checking my grades

about checking my grades

about checking my grades today I checked them and well I passed

today I checked them and well I passed

today I checked them and well I passed I’m set to finally graduate Community

I’m set to finally graduate Community

I’m set to finally graduate Community College when I walked a Seuss to that

College when I walked a Seuss to that

College when I walked a Seuss to that support center I wasn’t thinking about

support center I wasn’t thinking about

support center I wasn’t thinking about how to get him through my class I knew I

how to get him through my class I knew I

how to get him through my class I knew I could do that I was thinking about how

could do that I was thinking about how

could do that I was thinking about how to equalize his opportunity for success

to equalize his opportunity for success

to equalize his opportunity for success in all of his classes and show him I

in all of his classes and show him I

in all of his classes and show him I expected him to finish no matter what it

expected him to finish no matter what it

expected him to finish no matter what it took and who he had to ask for help

took and who he had to ask for help

took and who he had to ask for help sometimes planting future seeds works

sometimes planting future seeds works

sometimes planting future seeds works sometimes it’s really hard because we

sometimes it’s really hard because we

sometimes it’s really hard because we don’t always know the outcome remember

don’t always know the outcome remember

don’t always know the outcome remember it was 20 years before mr. Woodworth

it was 20 years before mr. Woodworth

it was 20 years before mr. Woodworth heard about my success and that

heard about my success and that

heard about my success and that alternative school teacher never heard

recently a student I’ve been working

recently a student I’ve been working closely with lost their way I came home

closely with lost their way I came home

closely with lost their way I came home crying racking my brain for that one

crying racking my brain for that one

crying racking my brain for that one more thing that I could do to help get

more thing that I could do to help get

more thing that I could do to help get them back on track and my husband said

them back on track and my husband said

them back on track and my husband said the hard words that he’s had to say to

the hard words that he’s had to say to

the hard words that he’s had to say to me before honey you’ve done everything

me before honey you’ve done everything

me before honey you’ve done everything you could you can’t save them all

and he’s right I can’t but if we all

and he’s right I can’t but if we all look past the poverty to see the

look past the poverty to see the

look past the poverty to see the potential if we take the extra time to

potential if we take the extra time to

potential if we take the extra time to walk or drive that person to the support

walk or drive that person to the support

walk or drive that person to the support center if we look up a phone number and

center if we look up a phone number and

center if we look up a phone number and a name and sit with them while they make

a name and sit with them while they make

a name and sit with them while they make that really hard call if we help them

that really hard call if we help them

that really hard call if we help them identify their strengths and then show

identify their strengths and then show

identify their strengths and then show them where to put it on a job

them where to put it on a job

them where to put it on a job application or a scholarship application

application or a scholarship application

application or a scholarship application we can save them all

we can save them all

we can save them all I know because future seeds helped me

I know because future seeds helped me

I know because future seeds helped me write an end to that old song in a way

write an end to that old song in a way

write an end to that old song in a way that my seventeen year old self could

that my seventeen year old self could

that my seventeen year old self could only have imagined

only have imagined

only have imagined I believe someday we’ll all expect the

I believe someday we’ll all expect the

I believe someday we’ll all expect the best of us and I believe that one day we

best of us and I believe that one day we

best of us and I believe that one day we will work together to heal what’s left

will work together to heal what’s left

will work together to heal what’s left of us in this I find the strength to

of us in this I find the strength to

of us in this I find the strength to carry on and no amount of laughs can

carry on and no amount of laughs can

carry on and no amount of laughs can kill hope so who’s strong

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