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now I’ll be telling your story of her

now I’ll be telling your story of her innocent carefree

innocent carefree

innocent carefree 18 year old when she first met him he

18 year old when she first met him he

18 year old when she first met him he was full of life he was her dream man he

was full of life he was her dream man he

was full of life he was her dream man he was someone who walked out of a fairy

was someone who walked out of a fairy

was someone who walked out of a fairy tale and when she saw him she was so

tale and when she saw him she was so

tale and when she saw him she was so madly in love with him that she couldn’t

madly in love with him that she couldn’t

madly in love with him that she couldn’t see beyond him he was perfect in every

see beyond him he was perfect in every

see beyond him he was perfect in every aspect possible well-spoken well-bred

aspect possible well-spoken well-bred

aspect possible well-spoken well-bred well-dressed he had completely whisked

well-dressed he had completely whisked

well-dressed he had completely whisked her off her feet and moment when she saw

her off her feet and moment when she saw

her off her feet and moment when she saw that he was everything he decided to

that he was everything he decided to

that he was everything he decided to propose marriage she little did she know

propose marriage she little did she know

propose marriage she little did she know that the same family that were in all of

that the same family that were in all of

that the same family that were in all of her pairings of her friends and everyone

her pairings of her friends and everyone

her pairings of her friends and everyone else around her would be making

else around her would be making

else around her would be making continuous rounds of the court lawyer

continuous rounds of the court lawyer

continuous rounds of the court lawyer offices and police stations for the next

offices and police stations for the next

offices and police stations for the next eight years moment her parents got to

eight years moment her parents got to

eight years moment her parents got to know that he proposed marriage they

know that he proposed marriage they

know that he proposed marriage they didn’t share the same enthusiasm as his

didn’t share the same enthusiasm as his

didn’t share the same enthusiasm as his parents did because she was far too

parents did because she was far too

parents did because she was far too young they wanted her to do something in

young they wanted her to do something in

young they wanted her to do something in life before she took such a drastic step

life before she took such a drastic step

life before she took such a drastic step and he how it runs down the relationship

and he how it runs down the relationship

and he how it runs down the relationship he didn’t have it she didn’t have a

he didn’t have it she didn’t have a

he didn’t have it she didn’t have a choice but she gave in and so did her

choice but she gave in and so did her

choice but she gave in and so did her parents and the court matter

parents and the court matter

parents and the court matter that’s when all the disaster started she

that’s when all the disaster started she

that’s when all the disaster started she was on stage waiting for all her friends

was on stage waiting for all her friends

was on stage waiting for all her friends to come because she was the first person

to come because she was the first person

to come because she was the first person in Tyre bad she was getting married she

in Tyre bad she was getting married she

in Tyre bad she was getting married she was so excited and so happy and when

was so excited and so happy and when

was so excited and so happy and when they started coming on stage one by one

they started coming on stage one by one

they started coming on stage one by one he just sat there abusing them using

he just sat there abusing them using

he just sat there abusing them using such a crash doing that she was trying

such a crash doing that she was trying

such a crash doing that she was trying to remember when was the last time when

to remember when was the last time when

to remember when was the last time when he actually abused when was the last

he actually abused when was the last

he actually abused when was the last time buddy actually spoke such foul

time buddy actually spoke such foul

time buddy actually spoke such foul language as far as she could remember he

language as far as she could remember he

language as far as she could remember he never had a bad tongue in his mouth

never had a bad tongue in his mouth

never had a bad tongue in his mouth that’s exactly how he portrayed himself

that’s exactly how he portrayed himself

that’s exactly how he portrayed himself to be to her for the past eight months

to be to her for the past eight months

to be to her for the past eight months and to her family to my family members

and to her family to my family members

and to her family to my family members he was amazing he was actually two feet

he was amazing he was actually two feet

he was amazing he was actually two feet he would say all these nasty things to

he would say all these nasty things to

he would say all these nasty things to help behind doors but in front of

help behind doors but in front of

help behind doors but in front of everyone he was the best on in-laws the

everyone he was the best on in-laws the

everyone he was the best on in-laws the best husband anyone could ever ask for

best husband anyone could ever ask for

best husband anyone could ever ask for ended up going through the honeymoon

ended up going through the honeymoon

ended up going through the honeymoon which was an absolute disaster for her

which was an absolute disaster for her

which was an absolute disaster for her he spent every waking hour of that trip

he spent every waking hour of that trip

he spent every waking hour of that trip helping her screaming and all shouting

helping her screaming and all shouting

helping her screaming and all shouting at home and sometimes also in public so

at home and sometimes also in public so

at home and sometimes also in public so much that even if she asked the waiter

much that even if she asked the waiter

much that even if she asked the waiter for a glass of water she wasn’t allowed

for a glass of water she wasn’t allowed

for a glass of water she wasn’t allowed to do that he would ask the waiter for

to do that he would ask the waiter for

to do that he would ask the waiter for the glass of water because he could only

the glass of water because he could only

the glass of water because he could only speak to the waiter she couldn’t she

speak to the waiter she couldn’t she

speak to the waiter she couldn’t she wasn’t allowed to wear what she wanted

wasn’t allowed to wear what she wanted

wasn’t allowed to wear what she wanted she was allowed to speak to anyone but

she was allowed to speak to anyone but

she was allowed to speak to anyone but she wanted she wasn’t even allowed to go

she wanted she wasn’t even allowed to go

she wanted she wasn’t even allowed to go to the bathroom with he said no to the

to the bathroom with he said no to the

to the bathroom with he said no to the extent she wasn’t allowed to turn on the

extent she wasn’t allowed to turn on the

extent she wasn’t allowed to turn on the fan on if it was hot only if he said

fan on if it was hot only if he said

fan on if it was hot only if he said that she could turn the fan on she could

that she could turn the fan on she could

that she could turn the fan on she could turn the fan on this did not stop here

turn the fan on this did not stop here

turn the fan on this did not stop here the abuse went on and on for weeks for

the abuse went on and on for weeks for

the abuse went on and on for weeks for days months hours every hour of every

days months hours every hour of every

days months hours every hour of every day she felt like she was walking on

day she felt like she was walking on

day she felt like she was walking on eggshells because this man was

eggshells because this man was

eggshells because this man was relentless

relentless

relentless it just so happens that she came to

it just so happens that she came to

it just so happens that she came to Bombay for a few weeks to meet her

Bombay for a few weeks to meet her

Bombay for a few weeks to meet her parents and because they resided in the

parents and because they resided in the

parents and because they resided in the same building she went out with her

same building she went out with her

same building she went out with her sister in her own car and her husband

sister in her own car and her husband

sister in her own car and her husband sent the car behind her saying that you

sent the car behind her saying that you

sent the car behind her saying that you sit in my car and come back home because

sit in my car and come back home because

sit in my car and come back home because she was just five minutes away from

she was just five minutes away from

she was just five minutes away from signals she was like I’ll come back in

signals she was like I’ll come back in

signals she was like I’ll come back in my car

my car

my car ah doesn’t matter he just slammed the

ah doesn’t matter he just slammed the

ah doesn’t matter he just slammed the phone and when she reached home he was

phone and when she reached home he was

phone and when she reached home he was already raging in fury and he was like

already raging in fury and he was like

already raging in fury and he was like they’re so disobedient and he gave her a

they’re so disobedient and he gave her a

they’re so disobedient and he gave her a kite that was the first time that

kite that was the first time that

kite that was the first time that and this was barely six months down the

and this was barely six months down the

and this was barely six months down the marriage she was so shocked when she saw

marriage she was so shocked when she saw

marriage she was so shocked when she saw him do that she was like why would you

him do that she was like why would you

him do that she was like why would you slap me like what did i do so wrong I

slap me like what did i do so wrong I

slap me like what did i do so wrong I didn’t change the table because I was at

didn’t change the table because I was at

didn’t change the table because I was at the signal how did it Matt oh you were

the signal how did it Matt oh you were

the signal how did it Matt oh you were so disobedient you’re a horrible wife

so disobedient you’re a horrible wife

so disobedient you’re a horrible wife you shouldn’t be here with me you’re

you shouldn’t be here with me you’re

you shouldn’t be here with me you’re good for nothing this went on and on and

good for nothing this went on and on and

good for nothing this went on and on and on and seventh one down the marriage I

on and seventh one down the marriage I

on and seventh one down the marriage I was small argument like something so

was small argument like something so

was small argument like something so small it became so big and he pinned her

small it became so big and he pinned her

small it became so big and he pinned her down and then she found herself pregnant

that was 11 years back and that girl is

that was 11 years back and that girl is me my name is very apartment tried to

me my name is very apartment tried to

me my name is very apartment tried to with my Daria my pregnancy has been

with my Daria my pregnancy has been

with my Daria my pregnancy has been something like not short of a disaster

something like not short of a disaster

something like not short of a disaster it was horrible I was hospitalized three

it was horrible I was hospitalized three

it was horrible I was hospitalized three times because my ex-husband refused to

times because my ex-husband refused to

times because my ex-husband refused to stop his abuse he would abuse me day in

stop his abuse he would abuse me day in

stop his abuse he would abuse me day in and day out to the extent that the

and day out to the extent that the

and day out to the extent that the doctor advised me to take medicine for

doctor advised me to take medicine for

doctor advised me to take medicine for my nausea which he hid and then he

my nausea which he hid and then he

my nausea which he hid and then he blamed it on me thing that she doesn’t

blamed it on me thing that she doesn’t

blamed it on me thing that she doesn’t listen I was hospitalized three times I

listen I was hospitalized three times I

listen I was hospitalized three times I was put on 30 bottles of saline and I

was put on 30 bottles of saline and I

was put on 30 bottles of saline and I was advised to come back to Bombay

was advised to come back to Bombay

was advised to come back to Bombay because my state was so bad I actually

because my state was so bad I actually

because my state was so bad I actually came back to Bombay on a villager when I

came back to Bombay on a villager when I

came back to Bombay on a villager when I came back to Bombay again a small

came back to Bombay again a small

came back to Bombay again a small argument took place and an argument

argument took place and an argument

argument took place and an argument flared up so much that I decided that

flared up so much that I decided that

flared up so much that I decided that I’m not going back I was done I couldn’t

I’m not going back I was done I couldn’t

I’m not going back I was done I couldn’t handle the abuse anymore and with a baby

handle the abuse anymore and with a baby

handle the abuse anymore and with a baby on the way it just seems so difficult to

on the way it just seems so difficult to

on the way it just seems so difficult to meet this life forced my son’s birth the

meet this life forced my son’s birth the

meet this life forced my son’s birth the first time I received a petition of

first time I received a petition of

first time I received a petition of paper from the lawyer it stated that I

paper from the lawyer it stated that I

paper from the lawyer it stated that I won the custody of the unborn baby

won the custody of the unborn baby

won the custody of the unborn baby he sent his letter to spend days prior

he sent his letter to spend days prior

he sent his letter to spend days prior to my son’s birth when I refused I got a

to my son’s birth when I refused I got a

to my son’s birth when I refused I got a letter from his loyal stating that I

letter from his loyal stating that I

letter from his loyal stating that I want to see the baby so when he came to

want to see the baby so when he came to

want to see the baby so when he came to see the baby at the hospital he came

see the baby at the hospital he came

see the baby at the hospital he came three days later he just came saw the

three days later he just came saw the

three days later he just came saw the way we checked that the child had no

way we checked that the child had no

way we checked that the child had no deformities and went back 35 days later

deformities and went back 35 days later

deformities and went back 35 days later in my postnatal play I get the first

in my postnatal play I get the first

in my postnatal play I get the first petition stating I won the chat I won

petition stating I won the chat I won

petition stating I won the chat I won the custody of the child

the custody of the child

the custody of the child I have not only just partial custody I

I have not only just partial custody I

I have not only just partial custody I want the full custody of the child over

want the full custody of the child over

want the full custody of the child over a numerous reasons why obviously the

a numerous reasons why obviously the

a numerous reasons why obviously the stuff that he said did not make any

stuff that he said did not make any

stuff that he said did not make any sense again so I went and fought for my

sense again so I went and fought for my

sense again so I went and fought for my child’s custody for six long years day

child’s custody for six long years day

child’s custody for six long years day in and day out every single day I was in

in and day out every single day I was in

in and day out every single day I was in court from the time that he was 35 days

court from the time that he was 35 days

court from the time that he was 35 days old till he was almost six years old I

old till he was almost six years old I

old till he was almost six years old I was in court with him dragging him no

was in court with him dragging him no

was in court with him dragging him no matter what event was happening in

matter what event was happening in

matter what event was happening in school or a family function or a wedding

school or a family function or a wedding

school or a family function or a wedding I still worked in court this is what our

I still worked in court this is what our

I still worked in court this is what our Indian system is like

Indian system is like

Indian system is like our judiciary in India I’m so sorry this

our judiciary in India I’m so sorry this

our judiciary in India I’m so sorry this wave I’m so ashamed of them

wave I’m so ashamed of them

wave I’m so ashamed of them they’re so inefficient this was a matter

they’re so inefficient this was a matter

they’re so inefficient this was a matter that could have being taken place and

that could have being taken place and

that could have being taken place and finished off in a less than few months

finished off in a less than few months

finished off in a less than few months but it went on for six years reason why

but it went on for six years reason why

but it went on for six years reason why it went on for six years was because my

it went on for six years was because my

it went on for six years was because my ex managed to take care of every single

ex managed to take care of every single

ex managed to take care of every single person from the lowest to the highest to

person from the lowest to the highest to

person from the lowest to the highest to the Supreme Court everyone was taken

the Supreme Court everyone was taken

the Supreme Court everyone was taken care of I had no option but to fight and

care of I had no option but to fight and

care of I had no option but to fight and I fought and I fought and I fought and I

I fought and I fought and I fought and I

I fought and I fought and I fought and I finally won history joining this period

finally won history joining this period

finally won history joining this period I decided and I need to build my life

I decided and I need to build my life

I decided and I need to build my life out I can’t just be stuck out here I

out I can’t just be stuck out here I

out I can’t just be stuck out here I can’t be doing this court rounds every

can’t be doing this court rounds every

can’t be doing this court rounds every day I need to do something for myself so

day I need to do something for myself so

day I need to do something for myself so I resumed painting and I did photography

I resumed painting and I did photography

I resumed painting and I did photography for my sister’s brand and I managed to

for my sister’s brand and I managed to

for my sister’s brand and I managed to bag in a lot of big vans all over our

bag in a lot of big vans all over our

bag in a lot of big vans all over our country as well as abroad which was like

country as well as abroad which was like

country as well as abroad which was like a plus point for me because I felt that

a plus point for me because I felt that

a plus point for me because I felt that at some point I need to rebuild my life

at some point I need to rebuild my life

at some point I need to rebuild my life while leaving my life after I got my

while leaving my life after I got my

while leaving my life after I got my son’s custody I decided that I should

son’s custody I decided that I should

son’s custody I decided that I should apply for his passport as a single

apply for his passport as a single

apply for his passport as a single parent so when I went to the pass for

parent so when I went to the pass for

parent so when I went to the pass for office with all my documents including

office with all my documents including

office with all my documents including my divorce papers and the the

my divorce papers and the the

my divorce papers and the the application that said I had Mohammed’s

application that said I had Mohammed’s

application that said I had Mohammed’s full custody you know how much is my son

full custody you know how much is my son

full custody you know how much is my son I submitted all my papers and they’re

I submitted all my papers and they’re

I submitted all my papers and they’re looking at me and they’re saying that

looking at me and they’re saying that

looking at me and they’re saying that sorry ma’am we can’t make a pass for

sorry ma’am we can’t make a pass for

sorry ma’am we can’t make a pass for your son where is your husband so I gave

your son where is your husband so I gave

your son where is your husband so I gave him my story and I told him that see

him my story and I told him that see

him my story and I told him that see this is the issue and can you please

this is the issue and can you please

this is the issue and can you please make a passport because as I know that

make a passport because as I know that

make a passport because as I know that the Indian law does permit me to make a

the Indian law does permit me to make a

the Indian law does permit me to make a pass for as a single parent he told me

pass for as a single parent he told me

pass for as a single parent he told me to get my ex-husband so I replied back

to get my ex-husband so I replied back

to get my ex-husband so I replied back and I was like I’m sorry I don’t know

and I was like I’m sorry I don’t know

and I was like I’m sorry I don’t know why here so the lady turns around and

why here so the lady turns around and

why here so the lady turns around and she tells me why don’t you find for a

she tells me why don’t you find for a

she tells me why don’t you find for a missing record and I’m looking at mine

missing record and I’m looking at mine

missing record and I’m looking at mine I’m like what was the record how am I

I’m like what was the record how am I

I’m like what was the record how am I supposed to get my ex husband from where

supposed to get my ex husband from where

supposed to get my ex husband from where we’ve been divorced eight years it’s

we’ve been divorced eight years it’s

we’ve been divorced eight years it’s impossible she looks at me and she’s

impossible she looks at me and she’s

impossible she looks at me and she’s like no it’s not going to happen so I go

like no it’s not going to happen so I go

like no it’s not going to happen so I go back I come back I go back I come back

back I come back I go back I come back

back I come back I go back I come back I’ve made around

I’ve made around

I’ve made around like a hundred rounds to the passport

like a hundred rounds to the passport

like a hundred rounds to the passport offices because we kept asking me for

offices because we kept asking me for

offices because we kept asking me for different different papers and different

different different papers and different

different different papers and different different signatures from different

different signatures from different

different signatures from different different courts every time saying that

different courts every time saying that

different courts every time saying that it will be done when you come next kind

it will be done when you come next kind

it will be done when you come next kind it will be done when you come next time

it will be done when you come next time

it will be done when you come next time I did that eventually the last time when

I did that eventually the last time when

I did that eventually the last time when I went to the passport office with all

I went to the passport office with all

I went to the passport office with all my documents and annexed your age back

my documents and annexed your age back

my documents and annexed your age back then it merely stated that you can make

then it merely stated that you can make

then it merely stated that you can make a passport for your child as a single

a passport for your child as a single

a passport for your child as a single parent without the consent of the other

parent without the consent of the other

parent without the consent of the other parent handing over that paper with the

parent handing over that paper with the

parent handing over that paper with the stamp from the magistrate she still said

stamp from the magistrate she still said

stamp from the magistrate she still said then he chalega and I’m looking at her

then he chalega and I’m looking at her

then he chalega and I’m looking at her and I’m like but she told me that you

and I’m like but she told me that you

and I’m like but she told me that you would do it like he wanted all the

would do it like he wanted all the

would do it like he wanted all the papers hospitalized when two months

papers hospitalized when two months

papers hospitalized when two months finding these magistrate she said no

finding these magistrate she said no

finding these magistrate she said no it’s not gonna happen

it’s not gonna happen

it’s not gonna happen we can’t help it I was so mad when I

we can’t help it I was so mad when I

we can’t help it I was so mad when I came back home I was like I need to do

came back home I was like I need to do

came back home I was like I need to do something about this like I think my son

something about this like I think my son

something about this like I think my son not have a passport how’s that even

not have a passport how’s that even

not have a passport how’s that even possible that’s the most important

possible that’s the most important

possible that’s the most important document that every Indian citizen needs

document that every Indian citizen needs

document that every Indian citizen needs so I went online and I filed this online

so I went online and I filed this online

so I went online and I filed this online petition on change.org addressing to mr.

petition on change.org addressing to mr.

petition on change.org addressing to mr. sushma swaraj Lee saying that I need a

sushma swaraj Lee saying that I need a

sushma swaraj Lee saying that I need a passport for my son I’m a single parent

passport for my son I’m a single parent

passport for my son I’m a single parent my ex is not there in the picture he has

my ex is not there in the picture he has

my ex is not there in the picture he has no rights anymore because he doesn’t

no rights anymore because he doesn’t

no rights anymore because he doesn’t take care of him financially mentally

take care of him financially mentally

take care of him financially mentally emotionally physically I’m the parent

emotionally physically I’m the parent

emotionally physically I’m the parent Attucks care of the child so why is that

Attucks care of the child so why is that

Attucks care of the child so why is that his signature is so important

his signature is so important

his signature is so important one month down the line with about alag

one month down the line with about alag

one month down the line with about alag signatures my message was put applause I

signatures my message was put applause I

signatures my message was put applause I was covered by practically most of the

was covered by practically most of the

was covered by practically most of the newspapers around India television shows

newspapers around India television shows

newspapers around India television shows also on radio I finally I got my son’s

also on radio I finally I got my son’s

also on radio I finally I got my son’s passport I remember I was waiting for a

passport I remember I was waiting for a

passport I remember I was waiting for a message to come from the passport office

message to come from the passport office

message to come from the passport office that your password is being

that your password is being

that your password is being hand-delivered to you since there are

hand-delivered to you since there are

hand-delivered to you since there are waiting at home for the passport to come

waiting at home for the passport to come

waiting at home for the passport to come as she went to the pass

as she went to the pass

as she went to the pass I actually went to the post office and I

I actually went to the post office and I

I actually went to the post office and I was like these are my documents can I

was like these are my documents can I

was like these are my documents can I please have the cross when he’s like

please have the cross when he’s like

please have the cross when he’s like yeah I’m giving it to you when I saw the

yeah I’m giving it to you when I saw the

yeah I’m giving it to you when I saw the passport in my hand I was I said a

passport in my hand I was I said a

passport in my hand I was I said a relief for me my tenure battle with my

relief for me my tenure battle with my

relief for me my tenure battle with my ex was over it was done this was the

ex was over it was done this was the

ex was over it was done this was the only document that I required because if

only document that I required because if

only document that I required because if I didn’t have this document I had to go

I didn’t have this document I had to go

I didn’t have this document I had to go back in court with him fighting for that

back in court with him fighting for that

back in court with him fighting for that one particular document

one particular document

one particular document this is something which is an absolute

this is something which is an absolute

this is something which is an absolute unnecessary thing in my life for me to

unnecessary thing in my life for me to

unnecessary thing in my life for me to get my son’s doctor to for me to get my

get my son’s doctor to for me to get my

get my son’s doctor to for me to get my son’s passport was so important that I

son’s passport was so important that I

son’s passport was so important that I went crazy to get the document and also

went crazy to get the document and also

went crazy to get the document and also my son he’s 10 years old right now he

my son he’s 10 years old right now he

my son he’s 10 years old right now he has absolutely he’s up like any other

has absolutely he’s up like any other

has absolutely he’s up like any other normal child that has been brought up in

normal child that has been brought up in

normal child that has been brought up in a nuclear family he’s small people to

a nuclear family he’s small people to

a nuclear family he’s small people to ask him that where is he what is he –

ask him that where is he what is he –

ask him that where is he what is he – where’s your father

where’s your father

where’s your father why doesn’t he come but my son he’s so

why doesn’t he come but my son he’s so

why doesn’t he come but my son he’s so well composed right now that he has no

well composed right now that he has no

well composed right now that he has no issue in telling his story to people

issue in telling his story to people

issue in telling his story to people whenever he knows he knows from me in a

whenever he knows he knows from me in a

whenever he knows he knows from me in a nutshell but in such a manner that he’s

nutshell but in such a manner that he’s

nutshell but in such a manner that he’s not affected because children who come

not affected because children who come

not affected because children who come from domestic violence suffer they do

from domestic violence suffer they do

from domestic violence suffer they do suffer and we all know that

girls aged between 15 to 19 around the

girls aged between 15 to 19 around the world think it’s okay to be abused it’s

world think it’s okay to be abused it’s

world think it’s okay to be abused it’s not okay to be abused it’s not okay to

not okay to be abused it’s not okay to

not okay to be abused it’s not okay to be abused at any instance you are not

be abused at any instance you are not

be abused at any instance you are not standing out there being someone’s

standing out there being someone’s

standing out there being someone’s doormat

doormat

doormat just because the person doesn’t like how

just because the person doesn’t like how

just because the person doesn’t like how you look this person doesn’t like what

you look this person doesn’t like what

you look this person doesn’t like what you wear just because the person doesn’t

you wear just because the person doesn’t

you wear just because the person doesn’t like how you feel it’s not okay to abuse

like how you feel it’s not okay to abuse

like how you feel it’s not okay to abuse somebody else so what I am here for is

somebody else so what I am here for is

somebody else so what I am here for is that we need as people as people of this

that we need as people as people of this

that we need as people as people of this generation we need to stop the abuse

generation we need to stop the abuse

generation we need to stop the abuse abuse is something which is not

abuse is something which is not

abuse is something which is not acceptable in any society and it’s not

acceptable in any society and it’s not

acceptable in any society and it’s not only for women it’s also for men till

only for women it’s also for men till

only for women it’s also for men till last year abuse was only for the clothes

last year abuse was only for the clothes

last year abuse was only for the clothes was only for women but this day I

was only for women but this day I

was only for women but this day I believe it’s being implemented for men

believe it’s being implemented for men

believe it’s being implemented for men also because men also get abused it’s

also because men also get abused it’s

also because men also get abused it’s something that’s so wrong but what I

something that’s so wrong but what I

something that’s so wrong but what I feel that you guys need to take back

feel that you guys need to take back

feel that you guys need to take back from my talk is that no matter what

from my talk is that no matter what

from my talk is that no matter what happens no matter where you are no

happens no matter where you are no

happens no matter where you are no matter where you come from what fellow

matter where you come from what fellow

matter where you come from what fellow you are

you are

you are what skin tone what’s asked we need to

what skin tone what’s asked we need to

what skin tone what’s asked we need to stop the abuse because and the only way

stop the abuse because and the only way

stop the abuse because and the only way we can stop the abuse is by stopping the

we can stop the abuse is by stopping the

we can stop the abuse is by stopping the abuser because if we don’t stop the

abuser because if we don’t stop the

abuser because if we don’t stop the abuser

abuser

abuser at this point we’re giving rise to more

at this point we’re giving rise to more

at this point we’re giving rise to more of users and that’s just a very vicious

of users and that’s just a very vicious

of users and that’s just a very vicious circle and a very scary circle because

circle and a very scary circle because

circle and a very scary circle because small small kids feel that it’s okay

small small kids feel that it’s okay

small small kids feel that it’s okay that this kind of behavior in families

that this kind of behavior in families

that this kind of behavior in families is okay but it’s not okay and after all

is okay but it’s not okay and after all

is okay but it’s not okay and after all of this no matter what happened I

of this no matter what happened I

of this no matter what happened I decided that I was not going to beat

decided that I was not going to beat

decided that I was not going to beat down I didn’t have my bad time I didn’t

down I didn’t have my bad time I didn’t

down I didn’t have my bad time I didn’t have a time where I felt like I couldn’t

have a time where I felt like I couldn’t

have a time where I felt like I couldn’t go forward with this but I pushed myself

go forward with this but I pushed myself

go forward with this but I pushed myself that pressure or himself so hard that I

that pressure or himself so hard that I

that pressure or himself so hard that I was like no I have achieved so much and

was like no I have achieved so much and

was like no I have achieved so much and I’ve come so far and I still meet so

I’ve come so far and I still meet so

I’ve come so far and I still meet so many more things to do in my life I

many more things to do in my life I

many more things to do in my life I cannot breakdown and what I believe is

cannot breakdown and what I believe is

cannot breakdown and what I believe is that it’s all the power of the mind if

that it’s all the power of the mind if

that it’s all the power of the mind if we stop right now if we stop us from

we stop right now if we stop us from

we stop right now if we stop us from breaking down right now we will be

breaking down right now we will be

breaking down right now we will be better people and the only way that you

better people and the only way that you

better people and the only way that you can do

can do

can do you you just have to look within you to

you you just have to look within you to

you you just have to look within you to change every possible laughing that’s

change every possible laughing that’s

change every possible laughing that’s happening in your life and make it

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