so when I was a kid I remember that one of the hardest things about going to
of the hardest things about going to
of the hardest things about going to visit my grandparents in New York City
visit my grandparents in New York City
visit my grandparents in New York City was seeing homeless people because I
was seeing homeless people because I
was seeing homeless people because I couldn’t walk by them without giving I
couldn’t walk by them without giving I
couldn’t walk by them without giving I just from the time I was a little little
just from the time I was a little little
just from the time I was a little little kid I just didn’t believe that people
kid I just didn’t believe that people
kid I just didn’t believe that people who were poor or homeless had anything
who were poor or homeless had anything
who were poor or homeless had anything it was not all on them had a lot to do
it was not all on them had a lot to do
it was not all on them had a lot to do with us as a society so much so that at
with us as a society so much so that at
with us as a society so much so that at 12 years old I got a gift of going to
12 years old I got a gift of going to
12 years old I got a gift of going to New York to see a Broadway musical
New York to see a Broadway musical
New York to see a Broadway musical because I was so into dance in the arts
because I was so into dance in the arts
because I was so into dance in the arts and my family gave me money because they
and my family gave me money because they
and my family gave me money because they knew I wouldn’t be able to walk by last
knew I wouldn’t be able to walk by last
knew I wouldn’t be able to walk by last March I came home and my power had been
March I came home and my power had been
March I came home and my power had been shut off to me that was failure I
shut off to me that was failure I
shut off to me that was failure I experienced it as failure I experienced
experienced it as failure I experienced
experienced it as failure I experienced that failure as failure because I was
that failure as failure because I was
that failure as failure because I was ashamed and humiliated I experienced it
ashamed and humiliated I experienced it
ashamed and humiliated I experienced it as failure because of the family I came
as failure because of the family I came
as failure because of the family I came from it didn’t matter that I had lost
from it didn’t matter that I had lost
from it didn’t matter that I had lost all my belongings in the flood five
all my belongings in the flood five
all my belongings in the flood five years ago or that I had been sick for
years ago or that I had been sick for
years ago or that I had been sick for the last several years all that mattered
the last several years all that mattered
the last several years all that mattered is that I had failed and this
is that I had failed and this
is that I had failed and this represented all of that at that time I
represented all of that at that time I
represented all of that at that time I couldn’t have imagined standing in front
couldn’t have imagined standing in front
couldn’t have imagined standing in front of you in a way that so many people will
of you in a way that so many people will
of you in a way that so many people will see and admitting that I came home one
see and admitting that I came home one
see and admitting that I came home one day with my son and we didn’t have power
day with my son and we didn’t have power
day with my son and we didn’t have power because I could not afford to pay the
because I could not afford to pay the
because I could not afford to pay the bill so I’m the director of the southern
bill so I’m the director of the southern
bill so I’m the director of the southern Vermont Dance Festival it’s a as you
Vermont Dance Festival it’s a as you
Vermont Dance Festival it’s a as you heard it’s a festival that’s been is
heard it’s a festival that’s been is
heard it’s a festival that’s been is rent during its fifth season it’s now
rent during its fifth season it’s now
rent during its fifth season it’s now one of them for most festivals in the
one of them for most festivals in the
one of them for most festivals in the country I also have a pre professional
country I also have a pre professional
country I also have a pre professional training program for modern dancers and
training program for modern dancers and
training program for modern dancers and a dance company in my life I have
a dance company in my life I have
a dance company in my life I have choreograph for the Baltimore children’s
choreograph for the Baltimore children’s
choreograph for the Baltimore children’s theatre I have interned at Bernie
theatre I have interned at Bernie
theatre I have interned at Bernie Sanders office I have shown my work
Sanders office I have shown my work
Sanders office I have shown my work across the country and taught workshops
across the country and taught workshops
across the country and taught workshops all around whenever I rattle that off I
all around whenever I rattle that off I
all around whenever I rattle that off I think that’s a really successful resume
think that’s a really successful resume
think that’s a really successful resume right but that’s not true according to
right but that’s not true according to
right but that’s not true according to the definition of success that I’ve
the definition of success that I’ve
the definition of success that I’ve allowed to rule my body throughout my
allowed to rule my body throughout my
allowed to rule my body throughout my life so where does that definition come
life so where does that definition come
life so where does that definition come from well I believe that we have four
from well I believe that we have four
from well I believe that we have four definitions of success that are within
definitions of success that are within
definitions of success that are within us I believe we have the societal
us I believe we have the societal
us I believe we have the societal definition our family definition our
definition our family definition our
definition our family definition our perceived definition what we think we
perceived definition what we think we
perceived definition what we think we think is success and our true definition
think is success and our true definition
think is success and our true definition which we actually like hide in the toe
which we actually like hide in the toe
which we actually like hide in the toe of our boot and never actually let come
of our boot and never actually let come
of our boot and never actually let come out and what makes it even more
out and what makes it even more
out and what makes it even more complicated is I believe that these
complicated is I believe that these
complicated is I believe that these definitions are floating around in us
definitions are floating around in us
definitions are floating around in us causing conflict and never actually
causing conflict and never actually
causing conflict and never actually coming together to create one cohesive
coming together to create one cohesive
coming together to create one cohesive done if definition so that we can find
done if definition so that we can find
done if definition so that we can find our true definition so deaf success used
our true definition so deaf success used
our true definition so deaf success used to be so much more simple
to be so much more simple
to be so much more simple we got promotions at work we got married
we got promotions at work we got married
we got promotions at work we got married we had kids we have spent we had dinners
we had kids we have spent we had dinners
we had kids we have spent we had dinners with our family our kids grew up they
with our family our kids grew up they
with our family our kids grew up they got jobs and we paid bills and we were
got jobs and we paid bills and we were
got jobs and we paid bills and we were able to leave the cookie cutter
able to leave the cookie cutter
able to leave the cookie cutter lifestyle and there were huge problems
lifestyle and there were huge problems
lifestyle and there were huge problems with that however it was simpler and
with that however it was simpler and
with that however it was simpler and when you think about it now it’s gotten
when you think about it now it’s gotten
when you think about it now it’s gotten a lot more complex for everyone not just
a lot more complex for everyone not just
a lot more complex for everyone not just artists always been complex for artists
artists always been complex for artists
artists always been complex for artists and it’s just so we have to make up our
and it’s just so we have to make up our
and it’s just so we have to make up our own definition right we have to we have
own definition right we have to we have
own definition right we have to we have to really decide for ourselves what our
to really decide for ourselves what our
to really decide for ourselves what our definition of success is and I feel like
definition of success is and I feel like
definition of success is and I feel like it’s because of that that we’ve begun to
it’s because of that that we’ve begun to
it’s because of that that we’ve begun to Harbor these four definitions that never
Harbor these four definitions that never
Harbor these four definitions that never come together so I had to ask myself why
come together so I had to ask myself why
come together so I had to ask myself why is that how do we come up with a true
is that how do we come up with a true
is that how do we come up with a true definition of success that was really
definition of success that was really
definition of success that was really hard for me so first of all we’re gonna
hard for me so first of all we’re gonna
hard for me so first of all we’re gonna talk about how those different
talk about how those different
talk about how those different definitions affect me so this is seidel
definitions affect me so this is seidel
definitions affect me so this is seidel definition this is a big one it rests
definition this is a big one it rests
definition this is a big one it rests right at the surface and for me I’m a
right at the surface and for me I’m a
right at the surface and for me I’m a dancer so right at the top of the list
dancer so right at the top of the list
dancer so right at the top of the list is I have to be skinny and skinny at all
is I have to be skinny and skinny at all
is I have to be skinny and skinny at all costs and that’s a that’s a problem for
costs and that’s a that’s a problem for
costs and that’s a that’s a problem for me because that’s not who I am
me because that’s not who I am
me because that’s not who I am and then I have to be uh live a Gerber
and then I have to be uh live a Gerber
and then I have to be uh live a Gerber out of Vermont so I have to be an
out of Vermont so I have to be an
out of Vermont so I have to be an activist and I have to be cool because
activist and I have to be cool because
activist and I have to be cool because I’m Brad I really have to be cool in
I’m Brad I really have to be cool in
I’m Brad I really have to be cool in case you don’t know and um I have I am
case you don’t know and um I have I am
case you don’t know and um I have I am also the magazine’s and TVs so I have to
also the magazine’s and TVs so I have to
also the magazine’s and TVs so I have to be powerful gorgeous and and famous and
be powerful gorgeous and and famous and
be powerful gorgeous and and famous and rich and then I have to be I have to go
rich and then I have to be I have to go
rich and then I have to be I have to go and long leisure to make vacations while
and long leisure to make vacations while
and long leisure to make vacations while always answering all my emails all my
always answering all my emails all my
always answering all my emails all my texts all my phone messages well getting
texts all my phone messages well getting
texts all my phone messages well getting enough rest in enough exercise and be a
enough rest in enough exercise and be a
enough rest in enough exercise and be a perfect parent never yell perfect
perfect parent never yell perfect
perfect parent never yell perfect birthday parties all my photos and
birthday parties all my photos and
birthday parties all my photos and albums and then I have to have a studly
albums and then I have to have a studly
albums and then I have to have a studly husband who is manly except does also
husband who is manly except does also
husband who is manly except does also all the chores doesn’t mind that I’m
all the chores doesn’t mind that I’m
all the chores doesn’t mind that I’m super busy but spends all his time with
super busy but spends all his time with
super busy but spends all his time with me and then I have to be a super I I
me and then I have to be a super I I
me and then I have to be a super I I have to be at the top of my field while
have to be at the top of my field while
have to be at the top of my field while acting like I’ve never done any hard
acting like I’ve never done any hard
acting like I’ve never done any hard work and then also always while always
work and then also always while always
work and then also always while always saying it’s okay because I love what I
saying it’s okay because I love what I
saying it’s okay because I love what I do because I’m an artist and then I have
do because I’m an artist and then I have
do because I’m an artist and then I have to say I have to be grateful all the
to say I have to be grateful all the
to say I have to be grateful all the time because if I’m not grateful I’m
time because if I’m not grateful I’m
time because if I’m not grateful I’m doing something wrong so the societal
doing something wrong so the societal
doing something wrong so the societal definition rests at the surface always
definition rests at the surface always
definition rests at the surface always reminding me that I’m not meeting the
reminding me that I’m not meeting the
reminding me that I’m not meeting the benchmarks that are set for me however
benchmarks that are set for me however
benchmarks that are set for me however it’s also the most ridiculous ones so
it’s also the most ridiculous ones so
it’s also the most ridiculous ones so it’s easier for me to let go of those
it’s easier for me to let go of those
it’s easier for me to let go of those pieces I can laugh off places in there
pieces I can laugh off places in there
pieces I can laugh off places in there which I fail in my mind the familial
which I fail in my mind the familial
which I fail in my mind the familial definition is a little more difficult
definition is a little more difficult
definition is a little more difficult for me I come from a family of greatness
for me I come from a family of greatness
for me I come from a family of greatness long line of greatness my maternal
long line of greatness my maternal
long line of greatness my maternal grandfather was a screenplay writer he
grandfather was a screenplay writer he
grandfather was a screenplay writer he wrote the screenplay to roots my
wrote the screenplay to roots my
wrote the screenplay to roots my maternal grandmother broke bount
maternal grandmother broke bount
maternal grandmother broke bount barriers as a feminist and became a
barriers as a feminist and became a
barriers as a feminist and became a therapist at a time when people didn’t
therapist at a time when people didn’t
therapist at a time when people didn’t do that my paternal grandfather was a
do that my paternal grandfather was a
do that my paternal grandfather was a electron I’m sorry
electron I’m sorry
electron I’m sorry he was an engineer whose physics
he was an engineer whose physics
he was an engineer whose physics professor at Cornell University and he
professor at Cornell University and he
professor at Cornell University and he was known for his work in electron
was known for his work in electron
was known for his work in electron microscopy my paternal grandmother was a
microscopy my paternal grandmother was a
microscopy my paternal grandmother was a Jewish feminist who at a time when they
Jewish feminist who at a time when they
Jewish feminist who at a time when they we did not do Jewish feminists and she
we did not do Jewish feminists and she
we did not do Jewish feminists and she became a writer and a therapist and
became a writer and a therapist and
became a writer and a therapist and really became outspoken in that field I
really became outspoken in that field I
really became outspoken in that field I and my family I have well known
and my family I have well known
and my family I have well known opera singers I have two great uncles
opera singers I have two great uncles
opera singers I have two great uncles who were incredible entrepreneurs and I
who were incredible entrepreneurs and I
who were incredible entrepreneurs and I have a great uncle who is known for his
have a great uncle who is known for his
have a great uncle who is known for his work as a civil rights attorney and
work as a civil rights attorney and
work as a civil rights attorney and taught law at Rutgers in my family the
taught law at Rutgers in my family the
taught law at Rutgers in my family the bar is high the highest impossible which
bar is high the highest impossible which
bar is high the highest impossible which is absolutely amazing and absolutely
is absolutely amazing and absolutely
is absolutely amazing and absolutely terrifying so part of a familial
terrifying so part of a familial
terrifying so part of a familial definition is also what you’ve been told
definition is also what you’ve been told
definition is also what you’ve been told about success right
about success right
about success right so an individual doesn’t matter what
so an individual doesn’t matter what
so an individual doesn’t matter what they’re saying it’s what you hear so
they’re saying it’s what you hear so
they’re saying it’s what you hear so what I heard was be an artist don’t be
what I heard was be an artist don’t be
what I heard was be an artist don’t be an artist be an activist but not if you
an artist be an activist but not if you
an artist be an activist but not if you can’t make money being enacted not if
can’t make money being enacted not if
can’t make money being enacted not if you can’t can’t make money being an
you can’t can’t make money being an
you can’t can’t make money being an activist be a scholar don’t ask for help
activist be a scholar don’t ask for help
activist be a scholar don’t ask for help being a scholar never ask for help make
being a scholar never ask for help make
being a scholar never ask for help make sure you’re making difference in the
sure you’re making difference in the
sure you’re making difference in the difference in the world and make money
difference in the world and make money
difference in the world and make money make money make money make money make
make money make money make money make
make money make money make money make money and the most prominent voice was
money and the most prominent voice was
money and the most prominent voice was Brenda you are not meeting that
Brenda you are not meeting that
Brenda you are not meeting that definition of success
so my familial definition was probably
so my familial definition was probably the most invasive and most disruptive
the most invasive and most disruptive
the most invasive and most disruptive and the most wonderful and most
and the most wonderful and most
and the most wonderful and most motivating then there’s the perceived
motivating then there’s the perceived
motivating then there’s the perceived definition for me the perceived
definition for me the perceived
definition for me the perceived definition actually changes constantly
definition actually changes constantly
definition actually changes constantly it’s built a bunch of stuff you just
it’s built a bunch of stuff you just
it’s built a bunch of stuff you just heard Plus I’m always adding in other
heard Plus I’m always adding in other
heard Plus I’m always adding in other things so in this current moment I have
things so in this current moment I have
things so in this current moment I have to make sure that I’m doing a perfect
to make sure that I’m doing a perfect
to make sure that I’m doing a perfect fundraiser around my 40th birthday for
fundraiser around my 40th birthday for
fundraiser around my 40th birthday for the festival I have to make sure that
the festival I have to make sure that
the festival I have to make sure that I’m never yelling I’ve been yelling too
I’m never yelling I’ve been yelling too
I’m never yelling I’ve been yelling too much I’ve to not ever yell and I need to
much I’ve to not ever yell and I need to
much I’ve to not ever yell and I need to make sure that I’m always keeping my
make sure that I’m always keeping my
make sure that I’m always keeping my house perfectly clean that I get enough
house perfectly clean that I get enough
house perfectly clean that I get enough rest that I’m teaching perfect classes
rest that I’m teaching perfect classes
rest that I’m teaching perfect classes and on and on everything’s perfect in my
and on and on everything’s perfect in my
and on and on everything’s perfect in my perceived definition and it goes on and
perceived definition and it goes on and
perceived definition and it goes on and on and on so then when I put these all
on and on so then when I put these all
on and on so then when I put these all together they conflict with each other
together they conflict with each other
together they conflict with each other they don’t even make sense together and
they don’t even make sense together and
they don’t even make sense together and then how do I come up with my true
then how do I come up with my true
then how do I come up with my true definition of success
definition of success
definition of success that’s what you have to ask yourself
that’s what you have to ask yourself
that’s what you have to ask yourself right how do I come up with my true
right how do I come up with my true
right how do I come up with my true definition of success well
definition of success well
definition of success well I had to imagine times when I actually
I had to imagine times when I actually
I had to imagine times when I actually felt successful so I’m going to ask all
felt successful so I’m going to ask all
felt successful so I’m going to ask all of you to go ahead and close your eyes
and feel a time when you felt successful
and feel a time when you felt successful not a time when someone told you that it
not a time when someone told you that it
not a time when someone told you that it was a success but a time when you felt
was a success but a time when you felt
was a success but a time when you felt success in your body do you feel
success in your body do you feel
success in your body do you feel tingling in your hands is your belly
tingling in your hands is your belly
tingling in your hands is your belly full or empty do you feel light or heavy
full or empty do you feel light or heavy
full or empty do you feel light or heavy try to take those sensations with you go
try to take those sensations with you go
try to take those sensations with you go ahead and open your eyes
ahead and open your eyes
ahead and open your eyes so it’s interesting what are we actually
so it’s interesting what are we actually
so it’s interesting what are we actually come up with when we’re feeling it
come up with when we’re feeling it
come up with when we’re feeling it instead of thinking it right so that’s
instead of thinking it right so that’s
instead of thinking it right so that’s what I did I actually sat down and I
what I did I actually sat down and I
what I did I actually sat down and I thought of three times that I felt
thought of three times that I felt
thought of three times that I felt success and I came up with some pretty
success and I came up with some pretty
success and I came up with some pretty interesting things the first one was had
interesting things the first one was had
interesting things the first one was had to do with dance it was when I put my
to do with dance it was when I put my
to do with dance it was when I put my choreography on stage
choreography on stage
choreography on stage [Music]
the most awesome thing about this
the most awesome thing about this definition of success for me is that it
definition of success for me is that it
definition of success for me is that it has absolutely nothing to do with what
has absolutely nothing to do with what
has absolutely nothing to do with what anyone else thinks of the work it has to
anyone else thinks of the work it has to
anyone else thinks of the work it has to do with the fact that I did what I meant
do with the fact that I did what I meant
do with the fact that I did what I meant to do on the tape
[Music]
[Music] and it has this feelings of resolve and
and it has this feelings of resolve and
and it has this feelings of resolve and excitement and calm and relief
so the second one which is probably the
so the second one which is probably the most important one to me is when my I
most important one to me is when my I
most important one to me is when my I see my son move about in the world when
see my son move about in the world when
see my son move about in the world when I see him carrying the values that I
I see him carrying the values that I
I see him carrying the values that I hoped he would carry when he tells me
hoped he would carry when he tells me
hoped he would carry when he tells me everything and by everything I mean like
everything and by everything I mean like
everything and by everything I mean like everything more than you want to know
everything more than you want to know
everything more than you want to know and as a mom and he came home like for
and as a mom and he came home like for
and as a mom and he came home like for example he came home one day and he said
example he came home one day and he said
example he came home one day and he said mom teachers are being mean to a kid at
mom teachers are being mean to a kid at
mom teachers are being mean to a kid at school and I did not like it and so I
school and I did not like it and so I
school and I did not like it and so I spoke up I told them that I didn’t like
spoke up I told them that I didn’t like
spoke up I told them that I didn’t like it I didn’t think that they were being
it I didn’t think that they were being
it I didn’t think that they were being fair and that they should not treat him
fair and that they should not treat him
fair and that they should not treat him that way and then I found out then I
that way and then I found out then I
that way and then I found out then I found out that the kid he’s talking
found out that the kid he’s talking
found out that the kid he’s talking about is a kid he didn’t even like when
about is a kid he didn’t even like when
about is a kid he didn’t even like when he comes home and says mom I thought
he comes home and says mom I thought
he comes home and says mom I thought about it and you’re right I am doing too
about it and you’re right I am doing too
about it and you’re right I am doing too much my 14 year old said I was right so
much my 14 year old said I was right so
much my 14 year old said I was right so that’s their uh when he I post something
that’s their uh when he I post something
that’s their uh when he I post something on Facebook and it’s an article it says
on Facebook and it’s an article it says
on Facebook and it’s an article it says check out this awesome article and then
check out this awesome article and then
check out this awesome article and then I look at it and it’s an article about
I look at it and it’s an article about
I look at it and it’s an article about how dress codes are damaging to girls
how dress codes are damaging to girls
how dress codes are damaging to girls when he makes a page for boycotting
when he makes a page for boycotting
when he makes a page for boycotting chocolate uh companies that use slave
chocolate uh companies that use slave
chocolate uh companies that use slave children to make chocolate when he
children to make chocolate when he
children to make chocolate when he stands up to friends and foes against
stands up to friends and foes against
stands up to friends and foes against sexism racism and xenophobia when I see
sexism racism and xenophobia when I see
sexism racism and xenophobia when I see that he’s an activist an artist and
that he’s an activist an artist and
that he’s an activist an artist and outspoken that is when I feel success
outspoken that is when I feel success
outspoken that is when I feel success because I see him carrying the success
because I see him carrying the success
because I see him carrying the success that I see is valuable and the last one
that I see is valuable and the last one
that I see is valuable and the last one ties in a little but it’s a different
ties in a little but it’s a different
ties in a little but it’s a different feeling in my body and that’s when I’m
feeling in my body and that’s when I’m
feeling in my body and that’s when I’m out there doing something that I think
out there doing something that I think
out there doing something that I think will make a difference in the world I
will make a difference in the world I
will make a difference in the world I can go to bed and I actually calm down
can go to bed and I actually calm down
can go to bed and I actually calm down which is something if you know me I
which is something if you know me I
which is something if you know me I don’t do all that often so what do I do
don’t do all that often so what do I do
don’t do all that often so what do I do with this well what I did was I I put
with this well what I did was I I put
with this well what I did was I I put all my definitions that I told you about
all my definitions that I told you about
all my definitions that I told you about before all of them together in a list
before all of them together in a list
before all of them together in a list and then
and then
and then actually now that I could feel what
actually now that I could feel what
actually now that I could feel what success feels like I actually felt them
success feels like I actually felt them
success feels like I actually felt them sat in my body and let it sit and each
sat in my body and let it sit and each
sat in my body and let it sit and each word each thing up there and then I
word each thing up there and then I
word each thing up there and then I began to delete literally eliminate
began to delete literally eliminate
began to delete literally eliminate clear the field things that don’t
clear the field things that don’t
clear the field things that don’t actually matter to me
actually matter to me
actually matter to me and then when once I did that I was left
and then when once I did that I was left
and then when once I did that I was left with this list and when I looked at
with this list and when I looked at
with this list and when I looked at these nine things I had to ask myself
these nine things I had to ask myself
these nine things I had to ask myself does does that match my definition of
does does that match my definition of
does does that match my definition of success and what I found out is no it
success and what I found out is no it
success and what I found out is no it actually doesn’t so then I thought what
actually doesn’t so then I thought what
actually doesn’t so then I thought what if I take my career out of it that seems
if I take my career out of it that seems
if I take my career out of it that seems to be a kind of disruptive part what if
to be a kind of disruptive part what if
to be a kind of disruptive part what if I take my career out of it so I took my
I take my career out of it so I took my
I take my career out of it so I took my career out of it and I instead had
career out of it and I instead had
career out of it and I instead had career goals on my list and then I went
career goals on my list and then I went
career goals on my list and then I went and put together another list and
and put together another list and
and put together another list and thought each one through and kind of
thought each one through and kind of
thought each one through and kind of tweaked some of these and I came up with
tweaked some of these and I came up with
tweaked some of these and I came up with this list and yeah dance is still on
this list and yeah dance is still on
this list and yeah dance is still on there but it heads and flows but when I
there but it heads and flows but when I
there but it heads and flows but when I look at this and career goals is
look at this and career goals is
look at this and career goals is separate I made a separate list of
separate I made a separate list of
separate I made a separate list of career goals because I couldn’t take it
career goals because I couldn’t take it
career goals because I couldn’t take it away completely but those aren’t part I
away completely but those aren’t part I
away completely but those aren’t part I don’t need those for success when I look
don’t need those for success when I look
don’t need those for success when I look at this list and then I sit down and I
at this list and then I sit down and I
at this list and then I sit down and I closed my eyes and I feel what that
closed my eyes and I feel what that
closed my eyes and I feel what that feels like that to me would be success
feels like that to me would be success
feels like that to me would be success and it is so important to be able to
and it is so important to be able to
and it is so important to be able to feel it in your body
feel it in your body
feel it in your body so last March I came home and my power
so last March I came home and my power
so last March I came home and my power had been shut off and because I did not
had been shut off and because I did not
had been shut off and because I did not react to that the way that I actually
react to that the way that I actually
react to that the way that I actually believed about people that are in my
believed about people that are in my
believed about people that are in my situation I was forced to come to
situation I was forced to come to
situation I was forced to come to actually think about how I define
actually think about how I define
actually think about how I define success and now when I sit with this
success and now when I sit with this
success and now when I sit with this list it feels right in my body so I urge
list it feels right in my body so I urge
list it feels right in my body so I urge all of you to go home sit figure out
all of you to go home sit figure out
all of you to go home sit figure out what your three perceived definitions of
what your three perceived definitions of
what your three perceived definitions of success are
success are
success are perceive familial societal and then
perceive familial societal and then
perceive familial societal and then start to eliminate figure out three
start to eliminate figure out three
start to eliminate figure out three times you felt successful and begin to
times you felt successful and begin to
times you felt successful and begin to eliminate I challenge you to define
eliminate I challenge you to define
eliminate I challenge you to define success by how your few feel instead of
success by how your few feel instead of
success by how your few feel instead of what your mind says to sit down close
what your mind says to sit down close
what your mind says to sit down close your eyes and imagine what does success
your eyes and imagine what does success
your eyes and imagine what does success feel like
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