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T-up not F-up | Michelle Chong | TEDxYouth@SJII


I was in the news have you watched the

I was in the news have you watched the news before yes okay thank you thank you

news before yes okay thank you thank you

news before yes okay thank you thank you but besides that I’m also now a

but besides that I’m also now a

but besides that I’m also now a filmmaker director writer editor host

filmmaker director writer editor host

filmmaker director writer editor host actress you name it

actress you name it

actress you name it okay so so because this like says more

okay so so because this like says more

okay so so because this like says more about me about me so that’s why I’m

about me about me so that’s why I’m

about me about me so that’s why I’m introducing myself but more importantly

introducing myself but more importantly

introducing myself but more importantly I have a new YouTube channel that you

I have a new YouTube channel that you

I have a new YouTube channel that you should subscribe to it’s called the

should subscribe to it’s called the

should subscribe to it’s called the Michelle Chung channel on YouTube yeah

Michelle Chung channel on YouTube yeah

Michelle Chung channel on YouTube yeah so please subscribe to that okay now

so please subscribe to that okay now

so please subscribe to that okay now let’s move on to the talk the topic for

let’s move on to the talk the topic for

let’s move on to the talk the topic for today my topic for today is okay I can

today my topic for today is okay I can

today my topic for today is okay I can see why some teachers are already being

see why some teachers are already being

see why some teachers are already being very worried they’re regretting asking

very worried they’re regretting asking

very worried they’re regretting asking me to come to it oh thank you thank you

me to come to it oh thank you thank you

me to come to it oh thank you thank you now everyone can see okay so but

now everyone can see okay so but

now everyone can see okay so but teachers don’t worry don’t worry

teachers don’t worry don’t worry

teachers don’t worry don’t worry the topic of my talk today is not F up

the topic of my talk today is not F up

the topic of my talk today is not F up okay this just for rhyming purposes but

okay this just for rhyming purposes but

okay this just for rhyming purposes but I’m really gonna concentrate on the

I’m really gonna concentrate on the

I’m really gonna concentrate on the first word this word and how it’s so

first word this word and how it’s so

first word this word and how it’s so important to me it’s really one of the

important to me it’s really one of the

important to me it’s really one of the most important words in my life and it’s

most important words in my life and it’s

most important words in my life and it’s totally shaped me and shaped my career

totally shaped me and shaped my career

totally shaped me and shaped my career into what it is today but before I go on

into what it is today but before I go on

into what it is today but before I go on I just want to ask anyone here if you

I just want to ask anyone here if you

I just want to ask anyone here if you know how to pronounce this word okay

know how to pronounce this word okay

know how to pronounce this word okay it’s not like you know some African

it’s not like you know some African

it’s not like you know some African American gangster lingo sub table it’s

American gangster lingo sub table it’s

American gangster lingo sub table it’s it’s not your right is literally

it’s not your right is literally

it’s not your right is literally pronounced as how it’s spelt so it’s T

pronounced as how it’s spelt so it’s T

pronounced as how it’s spelt so it’s T up okay what is T up actually I also

up okay what is T up actually I also

up okay what is T up actually I also don’t know because it’s a made-up word I

don’t know because it’s a made-up word I

don’t know because it’s a made-up word I have no clue what the original this word

have no clue what the original this word

have no clue what the original this word are and I don’t know I actually don’t

are and I don’t know I actually don’t

are and I don’t know I actually don’t know what he stands for but it is such

know what he stands for but it is such

know what he stands for but it is such an important word because it’s invented

an important word because it’s invented

an important word because it’s invented by a very wise Singaporean whom I’ve

by a very wise Singaporean whom I’ve

by a very wise Singaporean whom I’ve admired most of my life but at times

admired most of my life but at times

admired most of my life but at times feared my mother so so she she she made

feared my mother so so she she she made

feared my mother so so she she she made this work but you know my family and I

this work but you know my family and I

this work but you know my family and I we use this word so much T up we use it

we use this word so much T up we use it

we use this word so much T up we use it so much then my friends use it too they

so much then my friends use it too they

so much then my friends use it too they think it’s a real word well I mean I

think it’s a real word well I mean I

think it’s a real word well I mean I thought it was a real word as well but I

thought it was a real word as well but I

thought it was a real word as well but I mean knowing my mother’s Center of

mean knowing my mother’s Center of

mean knowing my mother’s Center of English I had an inkling that it wasn’t

English I had an inkling that it wasn’t

English I had an inkling that it wasn’t but you know like everything that’s

but you know like everything that’s

but you know like everything that’s important in life

important in life

important in life it can be found on internet so I googled

it can be found on internet so I googled

it can be found on internet so I googled iGoogle

iGoogle

iGoogle I googled T up and I and I realized

I googled T up and I and I realized

I googled T up and I and I realized there really isn’t such a word so what

there really isn’t such a word so what

there really isn’t such a word so what is it what is it what is T up

is it what is it what is T up

is it what is it what is T up what exactly is T up okay okay so as I

what exactly is T up okay okay so as I

what exactly is T up okay okay so as I was saying my mother is Chinese educated

was saying my mother is Chinese educated

was saying my mother is Chinese educated so for most part of her career she was

so for most part of her career she was

so for most part of her career she was doing sales she was doing specifically

doing sales she was doing specifically

doing sales she was doing specifically direct sales for American products so

direct sales for American products so

direct sales for American products so she was always traveling overseas to all

she was always traveling overseas to all

she was always traveling overseas to all these motivational and inspiring sales

these motivational and inspiring sales

these motivational and inspiring sales seminars and conferences right so I

seminars and conferences right so I

seminars and conferences right so I figured that’s where she got this work

figured that’s where she got this work

figured that’s where she got this work from from those you know top American

from from those you know top American

from from those you know top American salespeople but I’m sure it’s not the

salespeople but I’m sure it’s not the

salespeople but I’m sure it’s not the exact same word but you know that’s a

exact same word but you know that’s a

exact same word but you know that’s a general idea so what exactly is TR TR

general idea so what exactly is TR TR

general idea so what exactly is TR TR basically means to talk yourself up to

basically means to talk yourself up to

basically means to talk yourself up to sell yourself and that’s what it is my

sell yourself and that’s what it is my

sell yourself and that’s what it is my mother

mother

mother how would she use it in a sentence is

how would she use it in a sentence is

how would she use it in a sentence is like this Stephen who is my father he

like this Stephen who is my father he

like this Stephen who is my father he permits its intensity I don’t hear

permits its intensity I don’t hear

permits its intensity I don’t hear yourself down okay so yes so as you can

yourself down okay so yes so as you can

yourself down okay so yes so as you can tell my mother’s English vocab is rather

tell my mother’s English vocab is rather

tell my mother’s English vocab is rather limited and also you can also tell this

limited and also you can also tell this

limited and also you can also tell this word is so versatile you just need to

word is so versatile you just need to

word is so versatile you just need to replace the word up with down and it

replace the word up with down and it

replace the word up with down and it will mean the opposite which is to talk

will mean the opposite which is to talk

will mean the opposite which is to talk yourself down which is what a lot of

yourself down which is what a lot of

yourself down which is what a lot of Chinese people do right because you know

Chinese people do right because you know

Chinese people do right because you know humility is so much a part of our

humility is so much a part of our

humility is so much a part of our culture we’ve been trained you know to

culture we’ve been trained you know to

culture we’ve been trained you know to be humble and when people praise us we

be humble and when people praise us we

be humble and when people praise us we should say if they say oh you know I

should say if they say oh you know I

should say if they say oh you know I hear you’re so good and mad here you’re

hear you’re so good and mad here you’re

hear you’re so good and mad here you’re so good at sports you’re supposed to

so good at sports you’re supposed to

so good at sports you’re supposed to NOLA NOLA not really laughs no but that

NOLA NOLA not really laughs no but that

NOLA NOLA not really laughs no but that doesn’t happen in my family because my

doesn’t happen in my family because my

doesn’t happen in my family because my mother says if someone praises you and

mother says if someone praises you and

mother says if someone praises you and says to you well done you say why thank

says to you well done you say why thank

says to you well done you say why thank you

you

you thanks to my mother okay so so that’s

thanks to my mother okay so so that’s

thanks to my mother okay so so that’s what it is like in my family yeah you

what it is like in my family yeah you

what it is like in my family yeah you learn to tee up yourself so next slide

learn to tee up yourself so next slide

learn to tee up yourself so next slide my mama says right okay so one of my

my mama says right okay so one of my

my mama says right okay so one of my mother’s are many lessons on how to

mother’s are many lessons on how to

mother’s are many lessons on how to succeed in life well along with you know

succeed in life well along with you know

succeed in life well along with you know always remembering your boss’s birthday

always remembering your boss’s birthday

always remembering your boss’s birthday and then also I remember to give

and then also I remember to give

and then also I remember to give Christmas presents one week before

Christmas presents one week before

Christmas presents one week before Christmas because you know everyone goes

Christmas because you know everyone goes

Christmas because you know everyone goes away for for holidays Christmas holidays

away for for holidays Christmas holidays

away for for holidays Christmas holidays early and then by the time they come

early and then by the time they come

early and then by the time they come back Christmas is over so then there

back Christmas is over so then there

back Christmas is over so then there will be a late but the Christmas present

will be a late but the Christmas present

will be a late but the Christmas present or worse the holidays extend into after

or worse the holidays extend into after

or worse the holidays extend into after countdown so when they come back I see a

countdown so when they come back I see a

countdown so when they come back I see a year later ok so then you know your

year later ok so then you know your

year later ok so then you know your present Sophia yeah anyway anyway

present Sophia yeah anyway anyway

present Sophia yeah anyway anyway besides all that of course one of her

besides all that of course one of her

besides all that of course one of her very important lessons on how to succeed

very important lessons on how to succeed

very important lessons on how to succeed in life is to learn how to profile

in life is to learn how to profile

in life is to learn how to profile yourself which means don’t always talk

yourself which means don’t always talk

yourself which means don’t always talk about your negative traits you know well

about your negative traits you know well

about your negative traits you know well at least not to other people and

at least not to other people and

at least not to other people and concentrate on your good ones

concentrate on your good ones

concentrate on your good ones that’s what teeing up yourself is all

that’s what teeing up yourself is all

that’s what teeing up yourself is all about don’t say oh my Chinese sucks you

about don’t say oh my Chinese sucks you

about don’t say oh my Chinese sucks you know I’ve never been good in Chinese and

know I’ve never been good in Chinese and

know I’ve never been good in Chinese and my Chinese teacher hates hates me say I

my Chinese teacher hates hates me say I

my Chinese teacher hates hates me say I love English and I hope that can become

love English and I hope that can become

love English and I hope that can become a writer one day well cuz in the

a writer one day well cuz in the

a writer one day well cuz in the meantime you know try and prove your

meantime you know try and prove your

meantime you know try and prove your Chinese guts Chinese really is quite hot

Chinese guts Chinese really is quite hot

Chinese guts Chinese really is quite hot enough and why why TR is important okay

enough and why why TR is important okay

enough and why why TR is important okay like I said see I basically means

like I said see I basically means

like I said see I basically means selling yourself and selling yourself is

selling yourself and selling yourself is

selling yourself and selling yourself is important even if you’re not in sales

important even if you’re not in sales

important even if you’re not in sales people like to hang out with positive

people like to hang out with positive

people like to hang out with positive and successful people bosses cannot hire

and successful people bosses cannot hire

and successful people bosses cannot hire or promote you if they don’t know how

or promote you if they don’t know how

or promote you if they don’t know how good you are ok basically I think like

good you are ok basically I think like

good you are ok basically I think like Trump won the elections not because yes

Trump won the elections not because yes

Trump won the elections not because yes a good track record right well basically

a good track record right well basically

a good track record right well basically he has no track record in politics but

he has no track record in politics but

he has no track record in politics but because simply he teed himself up he

because simply he teed himself up he

because simply he teed himself up he convinced the American people they who

convinced the American people they who

convinced the American people they who bring the jobs back and make America

bring the jobs back and make America

bring the jobs back and make America great again whether he can really do it

great again whether he can really do it

great again whether he can really do it or no is another matter but say what you

or no is another matter but say what you

or no is another matter but say what you want he’s already in a position that he

want he’s already in a position that he

want he’s already in a position that he can do something he’s already won okay

can do something he’s already won okay

can do something he’s already won okay so simply because he teak himself up

so simply because he teak himself up

so simply because he teak himself up talking about like Trump okay what is

talking about like Trump okay what is

talking about like Trump okay what is a celebrity I I think the host

a celebrity I I think the host

a celebrity I I think the host introduced me as a silver celebrity I

introduced me as a silver celebrity I

introduced me as a silver celebrity I don’t really see myself as a celebrity

don’t really see myself as a celebrity

don’t really see myself as a celebrity but I guess I see it as a job as a job a

but I guess I see it as a job as a job a

but I guess I see it as a job as a job a celebrity is a person I suppose whose

celebrity is a person I suppose whose

celebrity is a person I suppose whose livelihood depends on selling a unique

livelihood depends on selling a unique

livelihood depends on selling a unique products unique product as himself or

products unique product as himself or

products unique product as himself or herself so if you don’t sell yourself

herself so if you don’t sell yourself

herself so if you don’t sell yourself who will why sure your manager is

who will why sure your manager is

who will why sure your manager is supposed to but but that but you are

supposed to but but that but you are

supposed to but but that but you are also profiling yourself all of us all of

also profiling yourself all of us all of

also profiling yourself all of us all of us on what we put out there on social

us on what we put out there on social

us on what we put out there on social media when giving interviews or even

media when giving interviews or even

media when giving interviews or even during tops like this so that’s why you

during tops like this so that’s why you

during tops like this so that’s why you know this I I had a very long

know this I I had a very long

know this I I had a very long introduction for myself okay that’s why

introduction for myself okay that’s why

introduction for myself okay that’s why they call me a multi-hyphenate

they call me a multi-hyphenate

they call me a multi-hyphenate because if I don’t tell people I’ll put

because if I don’t tell people I’ll put

because if I don’t tell people I’ll put in my movie credits that I wrote and

in my movie credits that I wrote and

in my movie credits that I wrote and directed the movies who’s gonna know but

directed the movies who’s gonna know but

directed the movies who’s gonna know but but honestly honestly honestly I don’t

but honestly honestly honestly I don’t

but honestly honestly honestly I don’t sell myself in our bed you didn’t know

sell myself in our bed you didn’t know

sell myself in our bed you didn’t know that I also wrote the theme songs um all

that I also wrote the theme songs um all

that I also wrote the theme songs um all my movies oh wait so do it

my movies oh wait so do it

my movies oh wait so do it can we play the songs anyway my speech

can we play the songs anyway my speech

can we play the songs anyway my speech isn’t that long

isn’t that long

isn’t that long justjust yeah

justjust yeah

justjust yeah [Music]

[Music]

[Music] tbh the Chinese Michael is powerful yeah

tbh the Chinese Michael is powerful yeah

tbh the Chinese Michael is powerful yeah this is the theme song movie

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] yeah yeah like I said we hit 2 million

yeah yeah like I said we hit 2 million

yeah yeah like I said we hit 2 million box office which is very very good for a

box office which is very very good for a

box office which is very very good for a local film so then that just not what I

local film so then that just not what I

local film so then that just not what I did was a classic example of teeing up

did was a classic example of teeing up

did was a classic example of teeing up okay but I bet you also didn’t know that

okay but I bet you also didn’t know that

okay but I bet you also didn’t know that my first movie already famous was

my first movie already famous was

my first movie already famous was selected as Singapore’s entry to the

selected as Singapore’s entry to the

selected as Singapore’s entry to the Oscars for Best Foreign Film in 2012

Oscars for Best Foreign Film in 2012

Oscars for Best Foreign Film in 2012 thank you yeah just like yeah right so

thank you yeah just like yeah right so

thank you yeah just like yeah right so Chi Chi yeah it’s not you called to

Chi Chi yeah it’s not you called to

Chi Chi yeah it’s not you called to hollien cuz everyone’s you know what

hollien cuz everyone’s you know what

hollien cuz everyone’s you know what hollien is no I guess not because I hear

hollien is no I guess not because I hear

hollien is no I guess not because I hear everyone here speaks because with an

everyone here speaks because with an

everyone here speaks because with an American exit yeah wonder why I was very

American exit yeah wonder why I was very

American exit yeah wonder why I was very surprised and of course very impressed

surprised and of course very impressed

surprised and of course very impressed because you know when I go to other

because you know when I go to other

because you know when I go to other schools they don’t anyway so so so

schools they don’t anyway so so so

schools they don’t anyway so so so Harley and actually means arrogance or

Harley and actually means arrogance or

Harley and actually means arrogance or showy right it’s it’s actually a

showy right it’s it’s actually a

showy right it’s it’s actually a colloquial term it’s Hokkien actually

colloquial term it’s Hokkien actually

colloquial term it’s Hokkien actually but what I want to say is he does not

but what I want to say is he does not

but what I want to say is he does not equate howl in and it doesn’t and

equate howl in and it doesn’t and

equate howl in and it doesn’t and shouldn’t stem from secured insecurity

shouldn’t stem from secured insecurity

shouldn’t stem from secured insecurity because I you know I’m sure we all have

because I you know I’m sure we all have

because I you know I’m sure we all have I have met people who can’t stop talking

I have met people who can’t stop talking

I have met people who can’t stop talking about themselves or what they’ve done or

about themselves or what they’ve done or

about themselves or what they’ve done or where they’ve been or who they know you

where they’ve been or who they know you

where they’ve been or who they know you know even when meeting them for the

know even when meeting them for the

know even when meeting them for the first time it’s almost like they’re

first time it’s almost like they’re

first time it’s almost like they’re scared that they don’t know or you don’t

scared that they don’t know or you don’t

scared that they don’t know or you don’t know that how successful smart or well

know that how successful smart or well

know that how successful smart or well travel they are but he doesn’t mean that

travel they are but he doesn’t mean that

travel they are but he doesn’t mean that you have to keep talking about yourself

you have to keep talking about yourself

you have to keep talking about yourself in fact and this is true I highly ever

in fact and this is true I highly ever

in fact and this is true I highly ever talk about myself no it’s true at events

talk about myself no it’s true at events

talk about myself no it’s true at events and social gatherings only because I

and social gatherings only because I

and social gatherings only because I have to come away some now cause you

have to come away some now cause you

have to come away some now cause you know this is all right that it’s about

know this is all right that it’s about

know this is all right that it’s about talking about myself anyway you don’t

talking about myself anyway you don’t

talking about myself anyway you don’t actually have to tea you don’t actually

actually have to tea you don’t actually

actually have to tea you don’t actually have to talk about yourself to tee up

have to talk about yourself to tee up

have to talk about yourself to tee up yourself if you have good general

yourself if you have good general

yourself if you have good general knowledge speak well and make people

knowledge speak well and make people

knowledge speak well and make people laugh then they can already tell that

laugh then they can already tell that

laugh then they can already tell that you are smart articulate and witty

you are smart articulate and witty

you are smart articulate and witty without you having to tell them that you

without you having to tell them that you

without you having to tell them that you are

are

are so when my mother says you must he up

so when my mother says you must he up

so when my mother says you must he up she doesn’t mean to show off she means

she doesn’t mean to show off she means

she doesn’t mean to show off she means to carry yourself with confidence and

to carry yourself with confidence and

to carry yourself with confidence and talk do not just sit there like you’re

talk do not just sit there like you’re

talk do not just sit there like you’re posing for the mannequin challenge you

posing for the mannequin challenge you

posing for the mannequin challenge you know well the other person does all the

know well the other person does all the

know well the other person does all the talking and that’s of course this other

talking and that’s of course this other

talking and that’s of course this other person is your boss and loves the sum of

person is your boss and loves the sum of

person is your boss and loves the sum of its own voice then you just sit there

its own voice then you just sit there

its own voice then you just sit there but then you still have to open your

but then you still have to open your

but then you still have to open your mouth during knowledge while he’s saying

mouth during knowledge while he’s saying

mouth during knowledge while he’s saying and nod your head and let him know that

and nod your head and let him know that

and nod your head and let him know that he’s obviously the very busy but Tommy

he’s obviously the very busy but Tommy

he’s obviously the very busy but Tommy seller it’s not going to be interested

seller it’s not going to be interested

seller it’s not going to be interested in how many stars you go for your PSLE

in how many stars you go for your PSLE

in how many stars you go for your PSLE and also your classmates already know

and also your classmates already know

and also your classmates already know that you’re in a captain of your netball

that you’re in a captain of your netball

that you’re in a captain of your netball team right so you don’t you don’t let’s

team right so you don’t you don’t let’s

team right so you don’t you don’t let’s hear to everybody or better still

hear to everybody or better still

hear to everybody or better still we’ve been confident and knowing your

we’ve been confident and knowing your

we’ve been confident and knowing your strengths and knowing how to profile

strengths and knowing how to profile

strengths and knowing how to profile yourself a part of your life and you

yourself a part of your life and you

yourself a part of your life and you never have to consciously tee up to

never have to consciously tee up to

never have to consciously tee up to anyone ever you can just be you but in

anyone ever you can just be you but in

anyone ever you can just be you but in the meantime work on your track record

the meantime work on your track record

the meantime work on your track record so you actually have something to tee

so you actually have something to tee

so you actually have something to tee yourself up about thank you

yourself up about thank you

yourself up about thank you [Applause]

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