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Second Chances | Rob Snyder | TEDxYouth@RVA


my story may not be unique or special

my story may not be unique or special however I like to share a little bit

however I like to share a little bit

however I like to share a little bit about something that’s special to me I

about something that’s special to me I

about something that’s special to me I was incarcerated for 20 years and every

was incarcerated for 20 years and every

was incarcerated for 20 years and every time I would go up for parole I had high

time I would go up for parole I had high

time I would go up for parole I had high hopes that this would be my chance 11

hopes that this would be my chance 11

hopes that this would be my chance 11 times I was turned down and it’s easy to

times I was turned down and it’s easy to

times I was turned down and it’s easy to start to feel hopeless

start to feel hopeless

start to feel hopeless and terribly alone in a world so closed

and terribly alone in a world so closed

and terribly alone in a world so closed up filled with hatred and anger it’s

up filled with hatred and anger it’s

up filled with hatred and anger it’s hard to get a second chance in a prison

hard to get a second chance in a prison

hard to get a second chance in a prison to prove that you’re a good person that

to prove that you’re a good person that

to prove that you’re a good person that you can handle responsibility and take

you can handle responsibility and take

you can handle responsibility and take on challenges not everyone can can deal

on challenges not everyone can can deal

on challenges not everyone can can deal with I was able to have that chance and

with I was able to have that chance and

with I was able to have that chance and participated in the pixies penpals dog

participated in the pixies penpals dog

participated in the pixies penpals dog training program for over seven years

training program for over seven years

training program for over seven years earning certification to the Virginia

earning certification to the Virginia

earning certification to the Virginia apprenticeship Council I participated in

apprenticeship Council I participated in

apprenticeship Council I participated in the program at two different facilities

the program at two different facilities

the program at two different facilities working my way up to primary handler as

working my way up to primary handler as

working my way up to primary handler as well as teacher’s aide and adoption

well as teacher’s aide and adoption

well as teacher’s aide and adoption liaison all handlers are required to do

liaison all handlers are required to do

liaison all handlers are required to do all the course work to achieve primary

all the course work to achieve primary

all the course work to achieve primary status primary handler status and a few

status primary handler status and a few

status primary handler status and a few show leadership qualities that made them

show leadership qualities that made them

show leadership qualities that made them good candidates for a teacher’s aide

good candidates for a teacher’s aide

good candidates for a teacher’s aide however there’s just one that’s chosen

however there’s just one that’s chosen

however there’s just one that’s chosen to be the adoption liaison who attends

to be the adoption liaison who attends

to be the adoption liaison who attends all the adoptions explaining all the

all the adoptions explaining all the

all the adoptions explaining all the important information about the program

important information about the program

important information about the program and the dog to be adopted I was content

and the dog to be adopted I was content

and the dog to be adopted I was content to just be primary handler

to just be primary handler

to just be primary handler and help teach new handlers as they came

and help teach new handlers as they came

and help teach new handlers as they came into the program however the lead

into the program however the lead

into the program however the lead trainer Katie locks saw differently and

trainer Katie locks saw differently and

trainer Katie locks saw differently and with some encouragement and persuasion

with some encouragement and persuasion

with some encouragement and persuasion asked me to be a teacher’s aide as well

asked me to be a teacher’s aide as well

asked me to be a teacher’s aide as well as adoption liaison I did my best

as adoption liaison I did my best

as adoption liaison I did my best throughout the program and hope I did a

throughout the program and hope I did a

throughout the program and hope I did a good job I worked with and trained over

good job I worked with and trained over

good job I worked with and trained over 40 dogs and learned more and more with

40 dogs and learned more and more with

40 dogs and learned more and more with each one some taught me to trust some

each one some taught me to trust some

each one some taught me to trust some taught me compassion some taught me just

taught me compassion some taught me just

taught me compassion some taught me just how to have fun and sometimes me

how to have fun and sometimes me

how to have fun and sometimes me patience however they all taught me that

patience however they all taught me that

patience however they all taught me that there’s more to life than just taking

there’s more to life than just taking

there’s more to life than just taking care of myself and that I’m worthy of

care of myself and that I’m worthy of

care of myself and that I’m worthy of love giving and receiving there have

love giving and receiving there have

love giving and receiving there have been a lot of standouts throughout the

been a lot of standouts throughout the

been a lot of standouts throughout the years and I’ll highlight just a few

years and I’ll highlight just a few

years and I’ll highlight just a few because they stand out just a little bit

because they stand out just a little bit

because they stand out just a little bit more than others this girl here is VDOT

more than others this girl here is VDOT

more than others this girl here is VDOT she was found on the side of the road by

she was found on the side of the road by

she was found on the side of the road by a vdot worker they thought she was dead

a vdot worker they thought she was dead

a vdot worker they thought she was dead look at her now she’s dead she’s having

look at her now she’s dead she’s having

look at her now she’s dead she’s having a wonderful life being taken care of

a wonderful life being taken care of

a wonderful life being taken care of it’s quite the couch potato as well most

it’s quite the couch potato as well most

it’s quite the couch potato as well most memorable dog I’ve ever worked with is

memorable dog I’ve ever worked with is

memorable dog I’ve ever worked with is this boy right here named woody

this boy right here named woody

this boy right here named woody he was the Hound Nix it came to the

he was the Hound Nix it came to the

he was the Hound Nix it came to the program very fearful closed down and

program very fearful closed down and

program very fearful closed down and untrusting of humans completely there’s

untrusting of humans completely there’s

untrusting of humans completely there’s the first dog I ever worked with that

the first dog I ever worked with that

the first dog I ever worked with that was as fearful as he is as he was pretty

was as fearful as he is as he was pretty

was as fearful as he is as he was pretty much semi-feral it took me about two

much semi-feral it took me about two

much semi-feral it took me about two months to be able to build up enough

months to be able to build up enough

months to be able to build up enough trust for him to allow me to touch him

trust for him to allow me to touch him

trust for him to allow me to touch him or pet him it was difficult to have that

or pet him it was difficult to have that

or pet him it was difficult to have that kind of responsibility and I had a lot

kind of responsibility and I had a lot

kind of responsibility and I had a lot of questions that I couldn’t answer such

of questions that I couldn’t answer such

of questions that I couldn’t answer such as how was I gonna help him change how

as how was I gonna help him change how

as how was I gonna help him change how he viewed humans how was I gonna help

he viewed humans how was I gonna help

he viewed humans how was I gonna help him have a better life I didn’t have the

him have a better life I didn’t have the

him have a better life I didn’t have the answers to those questions so I took it

answers to those questions so I took it

answers to those questions so I took it one day at a time I recently had the

one day at a time I recently had the

one day at a time I recently had the privilege of checking in on him and he’s

privilege of checking in on him and he’s

privilege of checking in on him and he’s doing awesome loving life this girl here

doing awesome loving life this girl here

doing awesome loving life this girl here Ellie came in the program a baby

Ellie came in the program a baby

Ellie came in the program a baby pretty much furless from mange and

pretty much furless from mange and

pretty much furless from mange and fearful it’s quite the trend I worked

fearful it’s quite the trend I worked

fearful it’s quite the trend I worked with a lot of fearful dogs over the

with a lot of fearful dogs over the

with a lot of fearful dogs over the years it’s quite the combination as well

years it’s quite the combination as well

years it’s quite the combination as well being afraid and not having hair and

being afraid and not having hair and

being afraid and not having hair and broke my heart thinking of how she must

broke my heart thinking of how she must

broke my heart thinking of how she must have felt she needed patience but more

have felt she needed patience but more

have felt she needed patience but more than that she needed love

than that she needed love

than that she needed love unconditionally so I took a deep breath

unconditionally so I took a deep breath

unconditionally so I took a deep breath and count to a million as I had nothing

and count to a million as I had nothing

and count to a million as I had nothing but time on my hands and said Rob you’ve

but time on my hands and said Rob you’ve

but time on my hands and said Rob you’ve got this she needs you she turned out to

got this she needs you she turned out to

got this she needs you she turned out to be pretty beautiful dog and she learned

be pretty beautiful dog and she learned

be pretty beautiful dog and she learned how to trust and love and how to enjoy

how to trust and love and how to enjoy

how to trust and love and how to enjoy life

one dog stands out a little bit more

one dog stands out a little bit more than the rest and that’s this boy here

than the rest and that’s this boy here

than the rest and that’s this boy here woody I mean uh Domino sorry he came

woody I mean uh Domino sorry he came

woody I mean uh Domino sorry he came into the program with his brother lucky

into the program with his brother lucky

into the program with his brother lucky when the program they were in closed

when the program they were in closed

when the program they were in closed down and we had some openings at the

down and we had some openings at the

down and we had some openings at the facility I was at so they came in they

facility I was at so they came in they

facility I was at so they came in they were babies when they came in and had a

were babies when they came in and had a

were babies when they came in and had a pretty good foundation from the previous

pretty good foundation from the previous

pretty good foundation from the previous handlers thought it’d be a grand finale

handlers thought it’d be a grand finale

handlers thought it’d be a grand finale to my time in the program to be able to

to my time in the program to be able to

to my time in the program to be able to adopt a dog that I’d worked with however

adopt a dog that I’d worked with however

adopt a dog that I’d worked with however that’s not always the case we don’t get

that’s not always the case we don’t get

that’s not always the case we don’t get to choose the dogs that come in and our

to choose the dogs that come in and our

to choose the dogs that come in and our families have to go through the same

families have to go through the same

families have to go through the same process to adopt as anyone else my

process to adopt as anyone else my

process to adopt as anyone else my family was actually able to apply was

family was actually able to apply was

family was actually able to apply was approved and he went home now all I had

approved and he went home now all I had

approved and he went home now all I had to do was wait until December of 2014 to

to do was wait until December of 2014 to

to do was wait until December of 2014 to be able to be home with my family and my

be able to be home with my family and my

be able to be home with my family and my new dog so the program has taught me a

new dog so the program has taught me a

new dog so the program has taught me a lot over the years and changed my life

lot over the years and changed my life

lot over the years and changed my life in some ways that are subtle and some

in some ways that are subtle and some

in some ways that are subtle and some that are pretty obvious it’s taught me

that are pretty obvious it’s taught me

that are pretty obvious it’s taught me that my crime does not define me that I

that my crime does not define me that I

that my crime does not define me that I am smarter and more capable than I give

am smarter and more capable than I give

am smarter and more capable than I give myself credit for and that there are

myself credit for and that there are

myself credit for and that there are people that really do believe in me I am

people that really do believe in me I am

people that really do believe in me I am beyond words can’t express how thankful

beyond words can’t express how thankful

beyond words can’t express how thankful I am and it is amazing how incredible

I am and it is amazing how incredible

I am and it is amazing how incredible people like Cady have influenced my life

people like Cady have influenced my life

people like Cady have influenced my life and changed things for the better here

and changed things for the better here

and changed things for the better here are a few slides of other dogs that have

are a few slides of other dogs that have

are a few slides of other dogs that have been through the program or maybe not I

been through the program or maybe not I

been through the program or maybe not I guess not

guess not

guess not however although I was supposed to be

however although I was supposed to be

however although I was supposed to be released in December of 2014

released in December of 2014

released in December of 2014 I actually made parole in October of

I actually made parole in October of

I actually made parole in October of 2014 about two months before I was going

2014 about two months before I was going

2014 about two months before I was going home

home

home thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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