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How to deal with haters – Ask Evan


I’m Evan Carmichael welcome to another

I’m Evan Carmichael welcome to another edition of ask Evan today i’m answering

edition of ask Evan today i’m answering

edition of ask Evan today i’m answering a question from one of my newsletter

a question from one of my newsletter

a question from one of my newsletter subscribers i think named michael who

subscribers i think named michael who

subscribers i think named michael who are insane he runs he’s part of the

are insane he runs he’s part of the

are insane he runs he’s part of the insurance company we need him to a list

insurance company we need him to a list

insurance company we need him to a list of experts that we feature on twitter

of experts that we feature on twitter

of experts that we feature on twitter and his question was about a company who

and his question was about a company who

and his question was about a company who was in his industry a blog written by

was in his industry a blog written by

was in his industry a blog written by one of his competitors that is a hater

one of his competitors that is a hater

one of his competitors that is a hater of the company and he wanted my feedback

of the company and he wanted my feedback

of the company and he wanted my feedback and how to respond to it and he thought

and how to respond to it and he thought

and how to respond to it and he thought that the messages would be good press

that the messages would be good press

that the messages would be good press for him and displayed the lack of class

for him and displayed the lack of class

for him and displayed the lack of class of the competition but i wanted my

of the competition but i wanted my

of the competition but i wanted my thoughts and feelings so Michael went to

thoughts and feelings so Michael went to

thoughts and feelings so Michael went to go check out the blog and this is a site

go check out the blog and this is a site

go check out the blog and this is a site here I didn’t see anything negative

here I didn’t see anything negative

here I didn’t see anything negative about your company here and so maybe

about your company here and so maybe

about your company here and so maybe that’s because I’m a little late in

that’s because I’m a little late in

that’s because I’m a little late in getting this video back to you so my

getting this video back to you so my

getting this video back to you so my apologies for that I wasn’t quite sure

apologies for that I wasn’t quite sure

apologies for that I wasn’t quite sure if they were if they were specifically

if they were if they were specifically

if they were if they were specifically harping on your company or just in the

harping on your company or just in the

harping on your company or just in the industry in general two responses one in

industry in general two responses one in

industry in general two responses one in any sure you’re going to have people who

any sure you’re going to have people who

any sure you’re going to have people who are haters and who you know might even

are haters and who you know might even

are haters and who you know might even lie or feed misinformation just to try

lie or feed misinformation just to try

lie or feed misinformation just to try to get clients and my response there’s

to get clients and my response there’s

to get clients and my response there’s just try to be a force for good you know

just try to be a force for good you know

just try to be a force for good you know think about the people you’re trying to

think about the people you’re trying to

think about the people you’re trying to serve try to be a thought leader try to

serve try to be a thought leader try to

serve try to be a thought leader try to have your own voice and create your own

have your own voice and create your own

have your own voice and create your own content and articles and interviews and

content and articles and interviews and

content and articles and interviews and videos and educate your customers as

videos and educate your customers as

videos and educate your customers as much as you can about the problems that

much as you can about the problems that

much as you can about the problems that they’re facing and how you know you can

they’re facing and how you know you can

they’re facing and how you know you can put that your help solve them for them

put that your help solve them for them

put that your help solve them for them but just be a resource and try to be

but just be a resource and try to be

but just be a resource and try to be that force for good that your customers

that force for good that your customers

that force for good that your customers look forward to hearing from you and you

look forward to hearing from you and you

look forward to hearing from you and you become the trusted voice in your

become the trusted voice in your

become the trusted voice in your industry and I think it’s not too hard

industry and I think it’s not too hard

industry and I think it’s not too hard to do that if you are you know authentic

to do that if you are you know authentic

to do that if you are you know authentic and you’re sharing your knowledge and

and you’re sharing your knowledge and

and you’re sharing your knowledge and that’s what I try to deal with these

that’s what I try to deal with these

that’s what I try to deal with these YouTube videos I started doing it

YouTube videos I started doing it

YouTube videos I started doing it because people were asking me questions

because people were asking me questions

because people were asking me questions and I felt sometimes the easiest way to

and I felt sometimes the easiest way to

and I felt sometimes the easiest way to respond would be just to make a youtube

respond would be just to make a youtube

respond would be just to make a youtube video but also there be other people

video but also there be other people

video but also there be other people have the same questions and hopefully I

have the same questions and hopefully I

have the same questions and hopefully I can help the personal ask the question

can help the personal ask the question

can help the personal ask the question as well as everybody else in my tune in

as well as everybody else in my tune in

as well as everybody else in my tune in and watch and so it just came from a

and watch and so it just came from a

and watch and so it just came from a desire to help entrepreneurs and

desire to help entrepreneurs and

desire to help entrepreneurs and hopefully you know in your business you

hopefully you know in your business you

hopefully you know in your business you have a strong desire to

have a strong desire to

have a strong desire to your clients it sounds like it and you

your clients it sounds like it and you

your clients it sounds like it and you know just just try to be that force for

know just just try to be that force for

know just just try to be that force for good and share your knowledge and be a

good and share your knowledge and be a

good and share your knowledge and be a resource I don’t know for this company

resource I don’t know for this company

resource I don’t know for this company and if they’re these guys are the haters

and if they’re these guys are the haters

and if they’re these guys are the haters and that’s not spending more time on

and that’s not spending more time on

and that’s not spending more time on them and maybe go back through email

them and maybe go back through email

them and maybe go back through email there but in any in any business you’re

there but in any in any business you’re

there but in any in any business you’re going to have people who are not your

going to have people who are not your

going to have people who are not your supporters and who don’t like you for

supporters and who don’t like you for

supporters and who don’t like you for whatever reason it may not be rational

whatever reason it may not be rational

whatever reason it may not be rational at all and in general I think as

at all and in general I think as

at all and in general I think as entrepreneurs we try to try to be

entrepreneurs we try to try to be

entrepreneurs we try to try to be optimistic try to be positive and it’s

optimistic try to be positive and it’s

optimistic try to be positive and it’s and as much as possible at least for me

and as much as possible at least for me

and as much as possible at least for me I try to ignore the haters and not spend

I try to ignore the haters and not spend

I try to ignore the haters and not spend too much time with negative energy just

too much time with negative energy just

too much time with negative energy just because it doesn’t it’s not productive

because it doesn’t it’s not productive

because it doesn’t it’s not productive it just drags you down and doesn’t help

it just drags you down and doesn’t help

it just drags you down and doesn’t help you at all and here’s an example so the

you at all and here’s an example so the

you at all and here’s an example so the company is is doing something negative

company is is doing something negative

company is is doing something negative against you I again just probably say

against you I again just probably say

against you I again just probably say ignore them and try to focus on

ignore them and try to focus on

ignore them and try to focus on something more positive example for my

something more positive example for my

something more positive example for my background I do a lot of these YouTube

background I do a lot of these YouTube

background I do a lot of these YouTube videos and again it’s just trying to

videos and again it’s just trying to

videos and again it’s just trying to help entrepreneurs try to share my

help entrepreneurs try to share my

help entrepreneurs try to share my advice and be resource where I can I had

advice and be resource where I can I had

advice and be resource where I can I had a question come in from somebody I

a question come in from somebody I

a question come in from somebody I believe his name was Joe but it was

believe his name was Joe but it was

believe his name was Joe but it was about how to sell life insurance he was

about how to sell life insurance he was

about how to sell life insurance he was struggling to sell life insurance and

struggling to sell life insurance and

struggling to sell life insurance and wanted my advice and what to do and so

wanted my advice and what to do and so

wanted my advice and what to do and so created this quick video and I’m on a

created this quick video and I’m on a

created this quick video and I’m on a whiteboard I’m talking about it and

whiteboard I’m talking about it and

whiteboard I’m talking about it and we’ve had thirteen thousand views on it

we’ve had thirteen thousand views on it

we’ve had thirteen thousand views on it and 169 thumbs ups and one thumbs down

and 169 thumbs ups and one thumbs down

and 169 thumbs ups and one thumbs down so thank you for everybody to give it a

so thank you for everybody to give it a

so thank you for everybody to give it a thumbs up I always appreciate those and

thumbs up I always appreciate those and

thumbs up I always appreciate those and that we had a lot of comments on here so

that we had a lot of comments on here so

that we had a lot of comments on here so most of them are always good and in

most of them are always good and in

most of them are always good and in general the comments are great so thanks

general the comments are great so thanks

general the comments are great so thanks for sharing your idea very informative

for sharing your idea very informative

for sharing your idea very informative and helpful it was yesterday two days

and helpful it was yesterday two days

and helpful it was yesterday two days ago wash it three times that’s great i

ago wash it three times that’s great i

ago wash it three times that’s great i try to respond so guys if you do leave a

try to respond so guys if you do leave a

try to respond so guys if you do leave a comment i’ll try to give it a response

comment i’ll try to give it a response

comment i’ll try to give it a response as much as I can but a little while ago

as much as I can but a little while ago

as much as I can but a little while ago so we had 33 comments so while ago we

so we had 33 comments so while ago we

so we had 33 comments so while ago we had a guy named Sam there is Sam so Sam

had a guy named Sam there is Sam so Sam

had a guy named Sam there is Sam so Sam I probably wasn’t one to get the one

I probably wasn’t one to get the one

I probably wasn’t one to get the one thumbs down out of the 169 thumbs ups um

thumbs down out of the 169 thumbs ups um

thumbs down out of the 169 thumbs ups um he wrote Evan take the marbles out of

he wrote Evan take the marbles out of

he wrote Evan take the marbles out of your mouth your ideas suck now I don’t

your mouth your ideas suck now I don’t

your mouth your ideas suck now I don’t know Sam I don’t know if he’s watching

know Sam I don’t know if he’s watching

know Sam I don’t know if he’s watching the other videos and what his beef was

the other videos and what his beef was

the other videos and what his beef was movies maybe work woke up on the wrong

movies maybe work woke up on the wrong

movies maybe work woke up on the wrong side of bed but you know when you see a

side of bed but you know when you see a

side of bed but you know when you see a negative comment come in like that it it

negative comment come in like that it it

negative comment come in like that it it always

always

always you think about it you know you always

you think about it you know you always

you think about it you know you always kind of focus a little bit more on the

kind of focus a little bit more on the

kind of focus a little bit more on the negatives and on all the positives that

negatives and on all the positives that

negatives and on all the positives that come in but I try not to let those

come in but I try not to let those

come in but I try not to let those things get me down too much I just

things get me down too much I just

things get me down too much I just responded to Sam with a simple thanks

responded to Sam with a simple thanks

responded to Sam with a simple thanks Sam and gave him a wink and that was the

Sam and gave him a wink and that was the

Sam and gave him a wink and that was the end of it I didn’t want to get into some

end of it I didn’t want to get into some

end of it I didn’t want to get into some long discussion about why I’m ideas

long discussion about why I’m ideas

long discussion about why I’m ideas don’t suck her you know looking at his

don’t suck her you know looking at his

don’t suck her you know looking at his channel and giving him some kind of

channel and giving him some kind of

channel and giving him some kind of negative comment it’s just it’s not

negative comment it’s just it’s not

negative comment it’s just it’s not productive it drags you down it doesn’t

productive it drags you down it doesn’t

productive it drags you down it doesn’t make you feel good and I’d rather focus

make you feel good and I’d rather focus

make you feel good and I’d rather focus my energies on something more positive

my energies on something more positive

my energies on something more positive and something that I love doing so that

and something that I love doing so that

and something that I love doing so that was my quick response I didn’t hear back

was my quick response I didn’t hear back

was my quick response I didn’t hear back from him I didn’t write anything else to

from him I didn’t write anything else to

from him I didn’t write anything else to him and one of my my fans stood in and

him and one of my my fans stood in and

him and one of my my fans stood in and also said Sam your loser if you’re going

also said Sam your loser if you’re going

also said Sam your loser if you’re going to hate don’t watch the videos and so I

to hate don’t watch the videos and so I

to hate don’t watch the videos and so I thanked him as well for always for

thanked him as well for always for

thanked him as well for always for appreciating the support there and so

appreciating the support there and so

appreciating the support there and so yeah again just focus on the positive be

yeah again just focus on the positive be

yeah again just focus on the positive be a force for good try not to let that one

a force for good try not to let that one

a force for good try not to let that one issue or one negative comment from from

issue or one negative comment from from

issue or one negative comment from from a competitor especially get you down and

a competitor especially get you down and

a competitor especially get you down and one thing that I find always helps me is

one thing that I find always helps me is

one thing that I find always helps me is looking at the feedback that I get for

looking at the feedback that I get for

looking at the feedback that I get for my customers and my users and I get that

my customers and my users and I get that

my customers and my users and I get that in the form of the YouTube comments

in the form of the YouTube comments

in the form of the YouTube comments every day I get comments on the channel

every day I get comments on the channel

every day I get comments on the channel and they’re overwhelmingly positive and

and they’re overwhelmingly positive and

and they’re overwhelmingly positive and that that you know makes me feel good

that that you know makes me feel good

that that you know makes me feel good that I’m helping people and want to do

that I’m helping people and want to do

that I’m helping people and want to do more of these videos so hopefully you

more of these videos so hopefully you

more of these videos so hopefully you can look at some of the feedback from

can look at some of the feedback from

can look at some of the feedback from your customers that they’re providing

your customers that they’re providing

your customers that they’re providing you and that that lets you know that hey

you and that that lets you know that hey

you and that that lets you know that hey you know what you’re doing a good job

you know what you’re doing a good job

you know what you’re doing a good job you’re doing the right thing and not let

you’re doing the right thing and not let

you’re doing the right thing and not let those guys who want to hate get you down

those guys who want to hate get you down

those guys who want to hate get you down so hopefully that helps Michael for

so hopefully that helps Michael for

so hopefully that helps Michael for those are you watching if you liked the

those are you watching if you liked the

those are you watching if you liked the video please give it a thumbs up below I

video please give it a thumbs up below I

video please give it a thumbs up below I always appreciate those and I’d love to

always appreciate those and I’d love to

always appreciate those and I’d love to hear what you have to think hopefully

hear what you have to think hopefully

hear what you have to think hopefully it’s positive about the video or if you

it’s positive about the video or if you

it’s positive about the video or if you have a question about your own business

have a question about your own business

have a question about your own business I’d love to be able to try to answer for

I’d love to be able to try to answer for

I’d love to be able to try to answer for you so thank you and I’ll see you on the

you so thank you and I’ll see you on the

you so thank you and I’ll see you on the next episode

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