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Things Learned in Transition | Dusty Rader | TEDxManchesterHighSchool


about five seconds after I was born the

about five seconds after I was born the doctors made a mistake that for the next

doctors made a mistake that for the next

doctors made a mistake that for the next 16 and a half years would cause me

16 and a half years would cause me

16 and a half years would cause me intense emotional and psychological

intense emotional and psychological

intense emotional and psychological trauma it’s not the doctors fault my

trauma it’s not the doctors fault my

trauma it’s not the doctors fault my parents made the same mistake just a few

parents made the same mistake just a few

parents made the same mistake just a few seconds later the mistake that they made

seconds later the mistake that they made

seconds later the mistake that they made was thinking that I was a girl if you

was thinking that I was a girl if you

was thinking that I was a girl if you were to ask me about my gender now I’d

were to ask me about my gender now I’d

were to ask me about my gender now I’d say the same thing I said when I was

say the same thing I said when I was

say the same thing I said when I was just three years old I’m a boy obviously

just three years old I’m a boy obviously

just three years old I’m a boy obviously still when I was a toddler my parents

still when I was a toddler my parents

still when I was a toddler my parents would tell me no you’re a girl that I

would tell me no you’re a girl that I

would tell me no you’re a girl that I would just grow out of it

would just grow out of it

would just grow out of it and despite this I don’t think they

and despite this I don’t think they

and despite this I don’t think they understood it but they weren’t trying to

understood it but they weren’t trying to

understood it but they weren’t trying to force me into this box that I didn’t

force me into this box that I didn’t

force me into this box that I didn’t want to be and they were trying like

want to be and they were trying like

want to be and they were trying like most loving parents to help their

most loving parents to help their

most loving parents to help their three-year-old understand the world but

three-year-old understand the world but

three-year-old understand the world but telling them what is right and what is

telling them what is right and what is

telling them what is right and what is wrong and my gender was wrong I was a

wrong and my gender was wrong I was a

wrong and my gender was wrong I was a girl so I tried to be the little girl

girl so I tried to be the little girl

girl so I tried to be the little girl they always wanted but I had teachers

they always wanted but I had teachers

they always wanted but I had teachers and parents of friends and neighbors and

and parents of friends and neighbors and

and parents of friends and neighbors and random people on the street sometimes

random people on the street sometimes

random people on the street sometimes stop me and say are you a boy or a girl

stop me and say are you a boy or a girl

stop me and say are you a boy or a girl and my answer always came out just a

and my answer always came out just a

and my answer always came out just a little bit choked like I couldn’t quite

little bit choked like I couldn’t quite

little bit choked like I couldn’t quite say it because I couldn’t quite believe

say it because I couldn’t quite believe

say it because I couldn’t quite believe it and by the time I got to high school

it and by the time I got to high school

it and by the time I got to high school I knew that something had to change

I knew that something had to change

I knew that something had to change so I had this long brown curly hair that

so I had this long brown curly hair that

so I had this long brown curly hair that I absolutely hated and I went to a

I absolutely hated and I went to a

I absolutely hated and I went to a hairdresser and when she asked me what

hairdresser and when she asked me what

hairdresser and when she asked me what kind of a cut I want to kind of a short

kind of a cut I want to kind of a short

kind of a cut I want to kind of a short cut do you want I said like a boy it was

cut do you want I said like a boy it was

cut do you want I said like a boy it was foreshadowing in a way because I didn’t

foreshadowing in a way because I didn’t

foreshadowing in a way because I didn’t yet know what that meant I didn’t know

yet know what that meant I didn’t know

yet know what that meant I didn’t know what it meant just to want to look like

what it meant just to want to look like

what it meant just to want to look like a boy or what it meant to want to be a

a boy or what it meant to want to be a

a boy or what it meant to want to be a boy but I long since figured out that

boy but I long since figured out that

boy but I long since figured out that when I saw a boy and I thought wow he

when I saw a boy and I thought wow he

when I saw a boy and I thought wow he has great hair I wasn’t attracted to him

has great hair I wasn’t attracted to him

has great hair I wasn’t attracted to him I wanted to look like him later that

I wanted to look like him later that

I wanted to look like him later that year my girlfriend at the time asked me

year my girlfriend at the time asked me

year my girlfriend at the time asked me to go to the prom with her and I told my

to go to the prom with her and I told my

to go to the prom with her and I told my mom and I said mom I want to wear it tux

mom and I said mom I want to wear it tux

mom and I said mom I want to wear it tux and she said okay how about a pantsuit

and she said okay how about a pantsuit

and she said okay how about a pantsuit and I said that’s not the same thing mom

and I said that’s not the same thing mom

and I said that’s not the same thing mom and she said okay so let’s go shopping

and she said okay so let’s go shopping

and she said okay so let’s go shopping and so we went to these stores and they

and so we went to these stores and they

and so we went to these stores and they were all pant suits and I felt some

were all pant suits and I felt some

were all pant suits and I felt some it was like if you’re a guy trying to

it was like if you’re a guy trying to

it was like if you’re a guy trying to wear a dress and if you’re a girl trying

wear a dress and if you’re a girl trying

wear a dress and if you’re a girl trying to wear like I don’t know boxers or

to wear like I don’t know boxers or

to wear like I don’t know boxers or something but it felt wrong it felt

something but it felt wrong it felt

something but it felt wrong it felt incorrect I didn’t feel like me and so

incorrect I didn’t feel like me and so

incorrect I didn’t feel like me and so finally after going to three or four

finally after going to three or four

finally after going to three or four stores she takes me to this discount

stores she takes me to this discount

stores she takes me to this discount formal wear store called Sims and I’m I

formal wear store called Sims and I’m I

formal wear store called Sims and I’m I was amazed it was incredible it was the

was amazed it was incredible it was the

was amazed it was incredible it was the only store I’d ever seen where the men’s

only store I’d ever seen where the men’s

only store I’d ever seen where the men’s section was larger than the women’s and

section was larger than the women’s and

section was larger than the women’s and even though she kept glancing over at

even though she kept glancing over at

even though she kept glancing over at the women’s section she helped me find

the women’s section she helped me find

the women’s section she helped me find this white tux jacket and a black shirt

this white tux jacket and a black shirt

this white tux jacket and a black shirt and black pants and a tie and I had

and black pants and a tie and I had

and black pants and a tie and I had never felt so comfortable I never felt

never felt so comfortable I never felt

never felt so comfortable I never felt more handsome in anything and when we

more handsome in anything and when we

more handsome in anything and when we told the salesman who had been helping

told the salesman who had been helping

told the salesman who had been helping us that that’s what we’re going to get

us that that’s what we’re going to get

us that that’s what we’re going to get he said this young man is gonna look

he said this young man is gonna look

he said this young man is gonna look great in that this young man this long

great in that this young man this long

great in that this young man this long young man is gonna look great in that

young man is gonna look great in that

young man is gonna look great in that eye it was the best compliment I’ve ever

eye it was the best compliment I’ve ever

eye it was the best compliment I’ve ever received in my life because the only one

received in my life because the only one

received in my life because the only one that recognized who I was before I did

that recognized who I was before I did

that recognized who I was before I did and I saw my mom next to me about to

and I saw my mom next to me about to

and I saw my mom next to me about to correct him but before she did she

correct him but before she did she

correct him but before she did she glanced at me and she saw this huge

glanced at me and she saw this huge

glanced at me and she saw this huge smile on my face I was so happy and she

smile on my face I was so happy and she

smile on my face I was so happy and she remembered I think that before I’d even

remembered I think that before I’d even

remembered I think that before I’d even been conceived she had just wanted a

been conceived she had just wanted a

been conceived she had just wanted a baby that was happy and healthy before

baby that was happy and healthy before

baby that was happy and healthy before anything else before she knew I was a

anything else before she knew I was a

anything else before she knew I was a girl before she thought that I was going

girl before she thought that I was going

girl before she thought that I was going to be wearing a prom dress

to be wearing a prom dress

to be wearing a prom dress she just cared that her baby was happy

she just cared that her baby was happy

she just cared that her baby was happy and healthy and I think that was the

and healthy and I think that was the

and healthy and I think that was the moment where she realized that I was as

moment where she realized that I was as

moment where she realized that I was as this as what I was wearing and I saw her

this as what I was wearing and I saw her

this as what I was wearing and I saw her hold herself back and her shoulders just

hold herself back and her shoulders just

hold herself back and her shoulders just sunk a little bit into comfort and I saw

sunk a little bit into comfort and I saw

sunk a little bit into comfort and I saw the corners of her mouth turn up and she

the corners of her mouth turn up and she

the corners of her mouth turn up and she just said yeah and we laughed about it

just said yeah and we laughed about it

just said yeah and we laughed about it later and then she drove my prom date a

later and then she drove my prom date a

later and then she drove my prom date a night of the prom about a year after

night of the prom about a year after

night of the prom about a year after that I went to a conference called true

that I went to a conference called true

that I went to a conference called true colors it’s this wonderful conference

colors it’s this wonderful conference

colors it’s this wonderful conference and I went with all my friends and we

and I went with all my friends and we

and I went with all my friends and we went to this workshop called trans 101

went to this workshop called trans 101

went to this workshop called trans 101 and I had no idea what trans was it was

and I had no idea what trans was it was

and I had no idea what trans was it was this abstract concept that didn’t apply

this abstract concept that didn’t apply

this abstract concept that didn’t apply to me at the time and we go to this comp

to me at the time and we go to this comp

to me at the time and we go to this comp this is this workshop and I

this is this workshop and I

this is this workshop and I and listening and I’m I’m exploding

and listening and I’m I’m exploding

and listening and I’m I’m exploding inside because there’s other people who

inside because there’s other people who

inside because there’s other people who feel the same way that I feel there are

feel the same way that I feel there are

feel the same way that I feel there are other people who get it there are other

other people who get it there are other

other people who get it there are other people like me and more importantly than

people like me and more importantly than

people like me and more importantly than that there was a word there was a word

that there was a word there was a word

that there was a word there was a word that could explain why I felt out of

that could explain why I felt out of

that could explain why I felt out of place in a dress or pantsuit or diamond

place in a dress or pantsuit or diamond

place in a dress or pantsuit or diamond earrings or long hair or a two-piece

earrings or long hair or a two-piece

earrings or long hair or a two-piece swimsuit there was a word for it and I’m

swimsuit there was a word for it and I’m

swimsuit there was a word for it and I’m an English teacher now and I understand

an English teacher now and I understand

an English teacher now and I understand and I want to make sure that you guys

and I want to make sure that you guys

and I want to make sure that you guys all understand having a word to describe

all understand having a word to describe

all understand having a word to describe yourself is so important being able to

yourself is so important being able to

yourself is so important being able to express our identities is critical and

express our identities is critical and

express our identities is critical and sometimes what you need is to have a

sometimes what you need is to have a

sometimes what you need is to have a label so after this workshop I told all

label so after this workshop I told all

label so after this workshop I told all my friends to call me Leo for the rest

my friends to call me Leo for the rest

my friends to call me Leo for the rest of the day because I wanted to be a boy

of the day because I wanted to be a boy

of the day because I wanted to be a boy and because I really liked Titanic and

and because I really liked Titanic and

and because I really liked Titanic and they did and I came out at school

they did and I came out at school

they did and I came out at school publicly about eight months later and it

publicly about eight months later and it

publicly about eight months later and it was cultural diversity day at the high

was cultural diversity day at the high

was cultural diversity day at the high school and there’s a panel that the GSA

school and there’s a panel that the GSA

school and there’s a panel that the GSA was doing on coming out and I was on

was doing on coming out and I was on

was doing on coming out and I was on that panel and I decided that instead of

that panel and I decided that instead of

that panel and I decided that instead of just talking about coming out this big

just talking about coming out this big

just talking about coming out this big abstract concept I was going to do it I

abstract concept I was going to do it I

abstract concept I was going to do it I was going to come out and there about

was going to come out and there about

was going to come out and there about three English classes in there and there

three English classes in there and there

three English classes in there and there were the teachers of those classes the

were the teachers of those classes the

were the teachers of those classes the GSA advisors a number of other teachers

GSA advisors a number of other teachers

GSA advisors a number of other teachers who had come in administrators were

who had come in administrators were

who had come in administrators were there and I have very little

there and I have very little

there and I have very little recollection of what actually happened

recollection of what actually happened

recollection of what actually happened but I came out and to my surprise the

but I came out and to my surprise the

but I came out and to my surprise the reaction from people was not discussed

reaction from people was not discussed

reaction from people was not discussed as I expected I’d expected the worst I’d

as I expected I’d expected the worst I’d

as I expected I’d expected the worst I’d braced for the worst but the reactions

braced for the worst but the reactions

braced for the worst but the reactions were mostly a combination of admiration

were mostly a combination of admiration

were mostly a combination of admiration and secondhand pride because they

and secondhand pride because they

and secondhand pride because they understood that what I was saying wasn’t

understood that what I was saying wasn’t

understood that what I was saying wasn’t just that I was transgender they were

just that I was transgender they were

just that I was transgender they were understanding that I had found part of

understanding that I had found part of

understanding that I had found part of myself

myself

myself and that resonated with them about a

and that resonated with them about a

and that resonated with them about a month later after beating myself up over

month later after beating myself up over

month later after beating myself up over the disappointment I was sure that this

the disappointment I was sure that this

the disappointment I was sure that this revelation would impart on them I came

revelation would impart on them I came

revelation would impart on them I came out to my parents I was so scared that I

out to my parents I was so scared that I

out to my parents I was so scared that I was going to chicken out that I had to

was going to chicken out that I had to

was going to chicken out that I had to work myself up into a fury and yell it

work myself up into a fury and yell it

work myself up into a fury and yell it at them and despite the fact that I had

at them and despite the fact that I had

at them and despite the fact that I had literally just yelled at them for a good

literally just yelled at them for a good

literally just yelled at them for a good five minutes the reaction was okay if

five minutes the reaction was okay if

five minutes the reaction was okay if this is you this is you

this is you this is you

this is you this is you and we love you they accepted that

and we love you they accepted that

and we love you they accepted that they’d made a mistake with my gender and

they’d made a mistake with my gender and

they’d made a mistake with my gender and they helped me work towards fixing that

they helped me work towards fixing that

they helped me work towards fixing that mistake they let me Rianne sir the

mistake they let me Rianne sir the

mistake they let me Rianne sir the question such a basic question are you a

question such a basic question are you a

question such a basic question are you a boy or a girl and yet I thought so long

boy or a girl and yet I thought so long

boy or a girl and yet I thought so long and so hard about this question I had

and so hard about this question I had

and so hard about this question I had gone through bouts of depression and

gone through bouts of depression and

gone through bouts of depression and mania I had hurt myself physically and

mania I had hurt myself physically and

mania I had hurt myself physically and oppressed myself mentally and now

oppressed myself mentally and now

oppressed myself mentally and now finally covered in bruises and scars and

finally covered in bruises and scars and

finally covered in bruises and scars and blood and tears I could be me I could be

blood and tears I could be me I could be

blood and tears I could be me I could be me see I am a man and I’m transgender

me see I am a man and I’m transgender

me see I am a man and I’m transgender the two are not mutually exclusive I am

the two are not mutually exclusive I am

the two are not mutually exclusive I am just as much a man as any other man you

just as much a man as any other man you

just as much a man as any other man you see on the street that doesn’t change

see on the street that doesn’t change

see on the street that doesn’t change based on other people’s ire or disgust

based on other people’s ire or disgust

based on other people’s ire or disgust nobody’s identity is changed by other

nobody’s identity is changed by other

nobody’s identity is changed by other people’s iron and discus no matter how

people’s iron and discus no matter how

people’s iron and discus no matter how strongly it is expressed or how often it

strongly it is expressed or how often it

strongly it is expressed or how often it is expressed

is expressed

is expressed nobody’s identity is affected by what

nobody’s identity is affected by what

nobody’s identity is affected by what other people see or say and transgender

other people see or say and transgender

other people see or say and transgender people when they are allowed to express

people when they are allowed to express

people when they are allowed to express themselves are happy there’s actually

themselves are happy there’s actually

themselves are happy there’s actually studies that have been done about this

studies that have been done about this

studies that have been done about this it seems like basic logic if you’re not

it seems like basic logic if you’re not

it seems like basic logic if you’re not attacked and ridiculed for who you are

attacked and ridiculed for who you are

attacked and ridiculed for who you are you are happier if you’re being attacked

you are happier if you’re being attacked

you are happier if you’re being attacked and ridiculed you are not as happy this

and ridiculed you are not as happy this

and ridiculed you are not as happy this is basic logic but they have to do a

is basic logic but they have to do a

is basic logic but they have to do a study on it to prove it because

study on it to prove it because

study on it to prove it because transgender people are often associated

transgender people are often associated

transgender people are often associated with mental health issues but it turns

with mental health issues but it turns

with mental health issues but it turns out that those mental health issues

out that those mental health issues

out that those mental health issues don’t come from the transgender person

don’t come from the transgender person

don’t come from the transgender person they come from the reaction of the

they come from the reaction of the

they come from the reaction of the people around them I was really lucky my

people around them I was really lucky my

people around them I was really lucky my family my friends my school all reacted

family my friends my school all reacted

family my friends my school all reacted positively they all accepted me and and

positively they all accepted me and and

positively they all accepted me and and supported me in the best ways that they

supported me in the best ways that they

supported me in the best ways that they could but that is not the case for many

could but that is not the case for many

could but that is not the case for many people for many people the reaction is

people for many people the reaction is

people for many people the reaction is negative and because of that negative

negative and because of that negative

negative and because of that negative reaction among trans people there is a

reaction among trans people there is a

reaction among trans people there is a 41% attempted suicide rate 41% 41% of

41% attempted suicide rate 41% 41% of

41% attempted suicide rate 41% 41% of trans people have or will attempt

trans people have or will attempt

trans people have or will attempt suicide in their lifetime

suicide in their lifetime

suicide in their lifetime that’s about

that’s about

that’s about 10 times the national average I was

10 times the national average I was

10 times the national average I was lucky I was supported I had my friends

lucky I was supported I had my friends

lucky I was supported I had my friends support me I had the love of my parents

support me I had the love of my parents

support me I had the love of my parents and my brothers and yet I am still part

and my brothers and yet I am still part

and my brothers and yet I am still part of that 41% I was 22 years old I just

of that 41% I was 22 years old I just

of that 41% I was 22 years old I just graduated college and I was afraid

graduated college and I was afraid

graduated college and I was afraid because I knew the statistics and I was

because I knew the statistics and I was

because I knew the statistics and I was so convinced that no matter what job or

so convinced that no matter what job or

so convinced that no matter what job or place I found that I would still be

place I found that I would still be

place I found that I would still be attacked and ridiculed in the same

attacked and ridiculed in the same

attacked and ridiculed in the same blatant and subtle ways that I had been

blatant and subtle ways that I had been

blatant and subtle ways that I had been attacked and ridiculed ever since I had

attacked and ridiculed ever since I had

attacked and ridiculed ever since I had come out I had given up and I thought

come out I had given up and I thought

come out I had given up and I thought that I was going to lose everything I

that I was going to lose everything I

that I was going to lose everything I thought that I had lost everything and

thought that I had lost everything and

thought that I had lost everything and my mind sent me these words don’t think

my mind sent me these words don’t think

my mind sent me these words don’t think just do don’t think just do it repeated

just do don’t think just do it repeated

just do don’t think just do it repeated in my mind don’t think just do don’t

in my mind don’t think just do don’t

in my mind don’t think just do don’t think just do don’t think just do don’t

think just do don’t think just do don’t

think just do don’t think just do don’t think just do and I swallowed a bottle

think just do and I swallowed a bottle

think just do and I swallowed a bottle of a leave and collapsed in the bathroom

of a leave and collapsed in the bathroom

of a leave and collapsed in the bathroom I don’t remember much of the next couple

I don’t remember much of the next couple

I don’t remember much of the next couple of days snippets here and there a

of days snippets here and there a

of days snippets here and there a peanutbutter sandwich a narrow bed my

peanutbutter sandwich a narrow bed my

peanutbutter sandwich a narrow bed my parents came and took me home they took

parents came and took me home they took

parents came and took me home they took me out a therapist and about a week

me out a therapist and about a week

me out a therapist and about a week later I was on the floor of my bedroom

later I was on the floor of my bedroom

later I was on the floor of my bedroom crying I’d given up my mom came in and

crying I’d given up my mom came in and

crying I’d given up my mom came in and she held me while I cried and I told her

she held me while I cried and I told her

she held me while I cried and I told her I was useless and she said you’ve been

I was useless and she said you’ve been

I was useless and she said you’ve been through so much and you’ve never let it

through so much and you’ve never let it

through so much and you’ve never let it stop you if I know you this won’t either

stop you if I know you this won’t either

stop you if I know you this won’t either and I was lucky my mom was right about

and I was lucky my mom was right about

and I was lucky my mom was right about two weeks later I had a job in about

two weeks later I had a job in about

two weeks later I had a job in about four months later after that I was in a

four months later after that I was in a

four months later after that I was in a master’s program to become a teacher and

master’s program to become a teacher and

master’s program to become a teacher and I am today I was allowed to answer the

I am today I was allowed to answer the

I am today I was allowed to answer the question so many people had told me that

question so many people had told me that

question so many people had told me that I was a girl and I agreed because I

I was a girl and I agreed because I

I was a girl and I agreed because I didn’t know what else to do but then I

didn’t know what else to do but then I

didn’t know what else to do but then I found out that somebody else had

found out that somebody else had

found out that somebody else had questioned their identity and I started

questioned their identity and I started

questioned their identity and I started thinking about mine

thinking about mine

thinking about mine and what it means and this has been my

and what it means and this has been my

and what it means and this has been my big question and it’s not the same as

big question and it’s not the same as

big question and it’s not the same as everybody else’s question our identities

everybody else’s question our identities

everybody else’s question our identities are so multifaceted that we were almost

are so multifaceted that we were almost

are so multifaceted that we were almost never answering the same question but

never answering the same question but

never answering the same question but this was mine and I got sorry answered

this was mine and I got sorry answered

this was mine and I got sorry answered it because I had the love and support of

it because I had the love and support of

it because I had the love and support of those around me but so often people are

those around me but so often people are

those around me but so often people are not allowed to change their answer

not allowed to change their answer

not allowed to change their answer whether it’s one that they came up with

whether it’s one that they came up with

whether it’s one that they came up with whether it’s just a part of their answer

whether it’s just a part of their answer

whether it’s just a part of their answer or if it’s something that somebody else

or if it’s something that somebody else

or if it’s something that somebody else gave them that they didn’t choose and so

gave them that they didn’t choose and so

gave them that they didn’t choose and so often these ideas these parts of our

often these ideas these parts of our

often these ideas these parts of our identity become places for us to be

identity become places for us to be

identity become places for us to be heard and so many people are hurt to the

heard and so many people are hurt to the

heard and so many people are hurt to the point where they attempt suicide their

point where they attempt suicide their

point where they attempt suicide their deaths weigh heavily on me my suicide

deaths weigh heavily on me my suicide

deaths weigh heavily on me my suicide attempt came after I had come out after

attempt came after I had come out after

attempt came after I had come out after I’ve been living in a way that I felt

I’ve been living in a way that I felt

I’ve been living in a way that I felt was good for a long time it’s still the

was good for a long time it’s still the

was good for a long time it’s still the reality of what transgender people face

reality of what transgender people face

reality of what transgender people face day to day hit me I was aware of

day to day hit me I was aware of

day to day hit me I was aware of everything I was loved and supported I

everything I was loved and supported I

everything I was loved and supported I was so lucky to be who I was that I was

was so lucky to be who I was that I was

was so lucky to be who I was that I was allowed to be Who I am

allowed to be Who I am

allowed to be Who I am and because of that love and support

and because of that love and support

and because of that love and support from the people around me

from the people around me

from the people around me I’m here today and I constantly wonder

I’m here today and I constantly wonder

I’m here today and I constantly wonder if I still would be here today if I had

if I still would be here today if I had

if I still would be here today if I had not been allowed that chance if I’d not

not been allowed that chance if I’d not

not been allowed that chance if I’d not been allowed to question my identity

been allowed to question my identity

been allowed to question my identity what I’ve made it through high school

what I’ve made it through high school

what I’ve made it through high school through college could I be me if I had

through college could I be me if I had

through college could I be me if I had to present as something other than me

to present as something other than me

to present as something other than me every day of my life could you be you if

every day of my life could you be you if

every day of my life could you be you if you had to be somebody else

I’ve only attempted suicide once I was

I’ve only attempted suicide once I was lucky

and I’m here today and I am not just

and I’m here today and I am not just surviving I’m not just living I am

surviving I’m not just living I am

surviving I’m not just living I am thriving and I am me so my message for

thriving and I am me so my message for

thriving and I am me so my message for you is this question your identity and

you is this question your identity and

you is this question your identity and let others question theirs if we allow

let others question theirs if we allow

let others question theirs if we allow ourselves to express ourselves and our

ourselves to express ourselves and our

ourselves to express ourselves and our identities and ways that make us feel

identities and ways that make us feel

identities and ways that make us feel good and if we can allow other people to

good and if we can allow other people to

good and if we can allow other people to express their identities and ways that

express their identities and ways that

express their identities and ways that make them feel good we can create a

make them feel good we can create a

make them feel good we can create a world where nobody needs to stop

world where nobody needs to stop

world where nobody needs to stop thinking and just do thank you

thinking and just do thank you

thinking and just do thank you [Applause]

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